@@hydrofrolicwildflower3393 being alone and being lonely are completely different things. Feeling lonely is an emotion that making friends won't necessarily fix or make go away. It's necessary to be alone sometimes to figure yourself out and allow your deep thoughts to surface.
I actually really liked this video, I'm currently two years into my gap year, and I've learned so much I never even knew how to express the things I've learnt about myself and life until now. This video does a great job at putting all of that into words, I really appreciate this especial seeing as I'm about to get back into college.
Honestly, if you are thinking about taking a gap year, have a convo with a career coach or your parents so that you can take the most of it, that way you can focus in on your career goals 😊
i took my gap year and traveled the world. it was the best decision of my life and i cant understand anyone that goes straight to uni, you're never gonna get this opportunity again so use it!!
hi, How were you able to travel the world? did you join a program or find scholarships? or did you buy a plane ticket and take it month by month day by day?
Loved this video man, coming up to my last weeks of secondary school (high school) and thinking about taking a gap year. This has helped me a lot, thanks man.
Man im just tired I had a gap year and I feel like crap im 6 months in and I completly wasted them in just eating sleeping and going to the Coffee Shop every evening with my friends who had lifes and I was just the one who did not have a life . I wasted my time just regretting and thinkin how my desicion impacted me wrongly ,a whole year doing absolutly nothing I even developped anxiety and fear during this period. In the begining of the year I felt lost and I thought maybe a year off would be great and I will figure myself up but the opposite thing happened and I ended up having an existential crisis and I've never felt unworthiness and loneliness like that throughout my entire life.......
I really relate to what you shared. I'm so grateful for my gap year but it challenged me in really surprising ways. If we don't have a clear goal and way to spend our time, we ultimately waste it. I struggled because I never had a clear vision. Just write down a vision for where you want to be at the end of the year and take small steps to get closer! Don't give up!
Thanks man, this video helped a lot. I am currently graduating, and am deciding whether or not to take a gap year. On the one hand, I am scared that I wont make the best use of the gap year and I'll end up in a worse university to start with. On the other hand, I want to do something different, something for myself for once. Its a really hard decision.
If there's a project, job or goal you really want to pursue then I say go for it! You should be able to accept enrollment at a university and then defer until the next year (that's what I did). Either way, get some advice and make the wisest decision you can, and good luck!
Thank you for making this video, your words really moved me. I finally decided to take a gap year after struggling for too long at uni, I believe it’s going to be a life changing experience.
reaaaaalll sneaky motivation right here, love this. that last but really revealed the video. BADASS. Ive felt the way youve described for a while. this was two years ago, i hope your still doing well now man, if not better
Awesome video bro, I’m currently deciding whether or not to take my unconditional offer or take a gap year before and this really helped me see why I have been contemplating a gap year so much.
A gap year is like slow death, if u manage to cheat it, you win, if not, it'll drive you insane, unless if you already have enough juice to experience new stuff and travel places,
@@samsarachakraviyui think ya simply just live life, try new things every chance you get & try to minimise the amount of regret you’ll feel also. 👍🏿 * travel also if possible you’ll learn more about yourself & wat you’re cable of. *
I had take a 2 year pf gap after graduation and i lernt some basic skill that are not basic for me and the actual propose pf my gap year is self growth and to heal myself and now i know what i want amd what i do and why amd that enough for me..some people might think that i waisted two year pf my life but it precious for me...
@@Franzotmwhy bro I am 2 nd gap year I don't know if I should again try for medical exam in India where you get jobs only if you did medicine or good college engineering or mba
Nah a gap year is great even if u know what to do because you could get a job, save money, and get work experience. Also you could just tell your friends to take a gap year as well and u would probably still be able to contact them anyway.
Im thinking about taking a gap year , Im currently in junior year but I just dont feel like Im ready to graduate college, I feel like I missed so many things all due to my mental health and some personal issues I haven't been able to solve, I dont want to keep living the same way way im currently am right now. If I do take the gap year I plan to get therapy a job as well as volunteer, I always wanted to study abroad but dont have much saved. I currently majoring buisness but dont feel like buisness ready (i dont if I made sense their) but my point is I feel so unprepared in comparison to my peers, Im struggling trying to see what I like, what I'm good at and if the major I have is a good one, do you think a gap year could help me with that?
Hey, thanks for sharing! I think if you can sustain yourself financially and you have a plan / goals to achieve, then it sounds like a gap year could be a great idea!
i didnt finish high school i started my gap year last july im planning to end this july i currently work full time at a slaugter house and i used to work at dominos, i kind of feel alone i wish i didnt do this but i will hopefully go back to study in july
sorry but being alone is something you have to go through in life you cannot depend on people to not feel alone.
Okay but for me? No. It makes me feel so depressed. So no. Make friends
@@hydrofrolicwildflower3393
being alone and being lonely are completely different things. Feeling lonely is an emotion that making friends won't necessarily fix or make go away. It's necessary to be alone sometimes to figure yourself out and allow your deep thoughts to surface.
These cons actually are pure motivation for me. You're gonna face all that stuff that is uncomfortable - huge opportunity to grow!
It all depends on how you use the gap year. If you will use the gap year to progress, make money, and learn a valuable skill, then it’s worth it.
I actually really liked this video, I'm currently two years into my gap year, and I've learned so much I never even knew how to express the things I've learnt about myself and life until now. This video does a great job at putting all of that into words, I really appreciate this especial seeing as I'm about to get back into college.
It's awesome you've been able to have that experience as well, I'm sure it changed you for the better. Good luck with school! 😄
Why the first reason so depressing, dawg alone is golden time no kap.
But the explanation reminds me of grade 10 after u left.
Honestly, if you are thinking about taking a gap year, have a convo with a career coach or your parents so that you can take the most of it, that way you can focus in on your career goals 😊
i took my gap year and traveled the world. it was the best decision of my life and i cant understand anyone that goes straight to uni, you're never gonna get this opportunity again so use it!!
I’m glad it worked out for you, though I think that it depends on the person 😊
where did you get the money for travelling?
@@yumoctojob
@@yumoctoit’s called a job
hi,
How were you able to travel the world? did you join a program or find scholarships? or did you buy a plane ticket and take it month by month day by day?
Loved this video man, coming up to my last weeks of secondary school (high school) and thinking about taking a gap year. This has helped me a lot, thanks man.
Appreciate the love, I'm glad I could help!
Man im just tired I had a gap year and I feel like crap im 6 months in and I completly wasted them in just eating sleeping and going to the Coffee Shop every evening with my friends who had lifes and I was just the one who did not have a life . I wasted my time just regretting and thinkin how my desicion impacted me wrongly ,a whole year doing absolutly nothing I even developped anxiety and fear during this period. In the begining of the year I felt lost and I thought maybe a year off would be great and I will figure myself up but the opposite thing happened and I ended up having an existential crisis and I've never felt unworthiness and loneliness like that throughout my entire life.......
I really relate to what you shared. I'm so grateful for my gap year but it challenged me in really surprising ways. If we don't have a clear goal and way to spend our time, we ultimately waste it. I struggled because I never had a clear vision. Just write down a vision for where you want to be at the end of the year and take small steps to get closer! Don't give up!
U described my current situation rn😫
Aye man idk if you are still on this account, and I know this is a year late. But keep going. That is all; it is worth it in the end
Zoomers..
Thanks man, this video helped a lot. I am currently graduating, and am deciding whether or not to take a gap year. On the one hand, I am scared that I wont make the best use of the gap year and I'll end up in a worse university to start with. On the other hand, I want to do something different, something for myself for once. Its a really hard decision.
If there's a project, job or goal you really want to pursue then I say go for it! You should be able to accept enrollment at a university and then defer until the next year (that's what I did). Either way, get some advice and make the wisest decision you can, and good luck!
did u take the gap year at last or not
@@zinebnaitlhaj6490 I took the gap year
Thank you for making this video, your words really moved me. I finally decided to take a gap year after struggling for too long at uni, I believe it’s going to be a life changing experience.
I'm super excited for you! Enjoy the journey!! 😄
reaaaaalll sneaky motivation right here, love this. that last but really revealed the video. BADASS. Ive felt the way youve described for a while. this was two years ago, i hope your still doing well now man, if not better
Awesome video bro, I’m currently deciding whether or not to take my unconditional offer or take a gap year before and this really helped me see why I have been contemplating a gap year so much.
this is truly such a well put together and insightful video. amazing job man
im a freshman rn and ima try to keep this in mind after im done with high school
that quote at the end just hit different
A gap year is like slow death, if u manage to cheat it, you win, if not, it'll drive you insane, unless if you already have enough juice to experience new stuff and travel places,
But how do people manage to cheat it?
@@samsarachakraviyui think ya simply just live life, try new things every chance you get & try to minimise the amount of regret you’ll feel also. 👍🏿 * travel also if possible you’ll learn more about yourself & wat you’re cable of. *
Wdym cheat it?
I had take a 2 year pf gap after graduation and i lernt some basic skill that are not basic for me and the actual propose pf my gap year is self growth and to heal myself and now i know what i want amd what i do and why amd that enough for me..some people might think that i waisted two year pf my life but it precious for me...
Watching this in my 3rd gap year😭😭
Nah that's crazy
@@Franzotmwhy bro I am 2 nd gap year I don't know if I should again try for medical exam in India where you get jobs only if you did medicine or good college engineering or mba
@@Brodragon2225 1 gap year is normal and 3 is crazy
This moved me
Some great insights!
The 3rd point could be subjective. It might take a gap year for a person to realize this for themself. :)
This was a life changing video
🥺 I'm truly honored
I think these are challenges that I reeeeally need to have. This video is amazing. Thank you!
Yo everyone !! Come to the France
such a great video but these are the very reasons i wanna take a gap year
powerful words. underrated channel
Much appreciated 🙏
This man comes not to praise Caesar, but to bury him. And he does a fine job of it. 😉
Do I regret not taking one. Not fully. I would have just worked though.
Nah a gap year is great even if u know what to do because you could get a job, save money, and get work experience. Also you could just tell your friends to take a gap year as well and u would probably still be able to contact them anyway.
I know youve a carribbean accent but it still aounds so irish
Becasue i graduate mid year i was thinking about doing 6 months in france but not sure if it will destroy my job prospects lol.
Im thinking about taking a gap year , Im currently in junior year but I just dont feel like Im ready to graduate college, I feel like I missed so many things all due to my mental health and some personal issues I haven't been able to solve, I dont want to keep living the same way way im currently am right now. If I do take the gap year I plan to get therapy a job as well as volunteer, I always wanted to study abroad but dont have much saved. I currently majoring buisness but dont feel like buisness ready (i dont if I made sense their) but my point is I feel so unprepared in comparison to my peers, Im struggling trying to see what I like, what I'm good at and if the major I have is a good one, do you think a gap year could help me with that?
Hey, thanks for sharing! I think if you can sustain yourself financially and you have a plan / goals to achieve, then it sounds like a gap year could be a great idea!
Another great video, Roman.
i didnt finish high school i started my gap year last july im planning to end this july i currently work full time at a slaugter house and i used to work at dominos, i kind of feel alone i wish i didnt do this but i will hopefully go back to study in july
Go vegan
yes
This was super cool man!
Play punch a bunch, there's a new demo
Ooo, I'll definitely consider doing this! Thanks
Excellent video.
Awesome video