Is Showing Emotions, WEAKNESS!?
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The people that said that are out of touch with reality. Those that get it, get it. Being numb to the world only goes so far until it slaps you in the face all at once.
Comment of the Day 🏆 I have been slapped in the face with reality after self medicating. I have found serenity in this new way of life as painful as it is sometimes.
💯, and they will never understand
@@thatprisonguardself growth is everything in 43 years only time my first time shedding tears 2 years ago lost my pops I’ve been a heartless cold s.o.b. All my life and have never lived till now ppl who don’t show emotion really don’t understand the game of life it’s full of heartaches and heartbreaks to understand those lessons and grow from them keep progressing and prospering homeboy
IM OVERLY SENSITIVE. IVE BEEN THAT SELF MEDICATOR. IVE BEEN A HOT MESS BASED ON MY ACTIONS WHEN HURT, DEFENSIVE, I BECOME AGGRESSIVE I'm told. Diagnosis: Passive-Agressive. I've been widowed 14 72 now so all that my late husband handled for me, died within. Therefore I feel I have to "fight" harder to get by. My drug issues took me nearly 45 yrs to beat. All I can say is Thank God for you having your beautiful daughter. Suffering? I've not suffered the major traumas you have, but I feel. Hard. I think showing "weakness" is a must with emotions. Let them out It's true Psy hopaths don't. I think of you as REAL. I'm impressed with you testifying this. God is the only true way for me altho I don't preach, push, thump. I DO HAVE FAITH - YOU, Please, #1 keep your fathering as you do, being there. My dad was emotionally , sometimes physically absent. I love your truths
You're not a bitch😅. Robin San Diego619
Showing emotions isn't weak
Not controlling them is weak
Damn, this comment tho. 💯 spot on
To some people it is showing weakness but it makes you human
Hey what's up Hector just FYI showing your emotions just means you care deeply about the subject at hand
so , just remember that you and your daughter's mom or the most important thing in her life and all that matters is your daughter during this hard time , so in both you and your daughter's mom stay focused and keeping her happy and show her love always doing this journey,
that being said much love support and respect from Monterey California.
Emotions want to be felt. I wish you and your family a lot of strength and understanding for each other!
Showing emotions out in the open takes a lot of strength.
It takes a man with a heart to show his emotions and to share his struggles with addiction and life. You are strong and doing the right things.
When the pain of remaining the same, becomes more than the fear of change, we will surely let go.
Glad you didn’t run to the bottle, thanks for the message stay strong brother 🙏🙏🙏
I'm sorry to hear about what's going on in your life. As couples, we tend to grow individually and head down different paths. Sometimes, we catch up and head down that path together, and sometimes we don't. It's great you show emotions around your daughter, it's okay! My young adult daughters know that "dad doesn't show his emotions" and they wish he'd show a little. Just be there for your daughter (as i know you will) through the good and bad in life, and she'll be your little sidekick forever. Everything is going to be okay! ❤
When we show our humanness some people get scared because they hide behind masks.. but as a person that celebrated 30 years in recovery i can tell you we have a saying “ we can’t die from feeling, we can die from not feeling” much respect!
Thank you so much for those words!
I went through the same thing when my daughter was young. It's very painful and I feel for you Hector.
Crying isn’t a weakness it’s just shows that you’ve been holding the fort and staying strong for a long time .
I lost my sense of humor from stress and ptsd and I couldn’t believe someone could turn it around , or that anyone else had until I saw Brother Hector’s channel. Thank you for being an example. Some of us out there need one, to see what is possible .
Thank you brother Matt! We are just beginning
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Damn G! I seen yesterday's thumb nail, and was perplexed until I seen you with daughter. Brought tears to my eyes brother. You will be in my prayers for strength Carnal. Keep pushing forward it's just a new chapter of greater things to come.
Aussie combat vet
l cry like a baby whenever I hear the last post sounding,l’m not ashamed of it & l’ll never apologise for it.Also l’ll freely admit that l was scared every time I kicked a door downrange.🇦🇺🇺🇸
You're spot on brother. If the Creator didn't want us to feel, hurt, cry, lament, etc. then He wouldn't have given us the ability. You're body is processing these heavy emotions just the way it was designed to. AIRBORNE!!! 🙏👍🙏
Never LT you have to let it out it means you are just being real keep pushing forward
Divorce sucks but you’re a warrior. Remember the end goal of divorce is to have a healthy coparenting relationship so your daughter can continue to be happy & thrive❤.
Nothing about showing your emotions as a man is weakness, the opposite is true. Whatever you hold in, becomes a burden to your soul, thus weakening your mind, and eventually attacking your body. Releasing your emotions makes you strong, in a world full of cowards crying in the car or shower. I cried in front of my children and taught my daughters and sons, there are times in life where we shed tears. There's a time for tears and a time to be tough, just make sure as a man, you show up for both.
You good my boy we giving u a pass!!
That's not sign of weakness brother that's a sign that u a human been. Keep pushing
I just shed tears in front of my 12-year-old son discussing his division homework that I want him to be better than me cuz I dropped out of school at 14 years old and had to get my GED in prison. Nothing weak about me but it does make me emotional cuz I know what the world is to grow up without a father.
Top of the morning, 🏜 Lt Hector Bravo podcast 👏 Roll Call Warriors from SoCal LOVES YOU'ALL. ❤️ 💪🏻💣💥💨
Dad's are special to their daughter's, you're a wall for her. Hugs, l love yous, daddy daughter dates.
My grown daughter's still reflect on these things. Get random texts "A hug from dad makes it all better". I commend you for serving our country. I have 25 years working in missouri state prison retired, yep have nightmares, I'm human.
I’m late watching this, but I love all of the positivity and support in this common section. I’m glad we can all come together to try to lift up someone in need. Great video Hector thanks for always keeping it real and raw.🙏🏼
It’s just progress not perfection… we’re not perfect…. We just got to do the best we can…..
I watched your video with your daughter it made me tear up. I suffer from Major ptsd so I can relate. I'm also a friend of Bill w. But have been struggling.
Props to 13 yrs of sobriety! Try not to focus on the incompetent comments! You are human. It's ok to be human! You could have relapsed and gone crazy on your ex or did something else stupid. You know what I mean. It's going to be ok. I'm rooting for you! Keep your head up... Much love, and I'm sorry you are going through it!
Thank you!
Your emotions are waves
I am grateful to be able to ride them in sobriety. A divorce is a loss and you will grieve. I send you my strength.
Showing your daughter you’re a human with real emotions is never a weakness.💗
The not showing emotions or weakness is circumstance. There are times when that is not the thing to do you have to maintain control. Other times it is the right thing to do I think.
Saludos Lt.. My Divorce finalized last month after a 20+ year marriage. My 22 & 15yo daughters stopped talking to me for about 1½-2years. ( That was the hardest for me )..Daughter's & I are good now🙏🏽😊.. You'll be good Hector, Your wife & you will be good. 🙏🏽
Only people working the steps or have a relationship with Christ can understand what your saying. It's hard to look at oneself, but what I'm finding out it sets me free. I hate seeing the Jeckl and Hyde in me. Stay up people!
Also Comment of the Day 🏆 there was a guy in the program who has since passed away that used to say “Don’t drink no matter what” and there will be a lot of no matter what’s. One Day at a Time 🙏
When she gets older she will understand & remember That moment w her father ❤
Thank you brotha… 🙌🏼👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Should of commented yesterday, but ' Those That Matter Don't Mind, And Those That Mind, Don't Matter. I was married 14 years W/3 girls under 15 so i feel u, That was the exact opposite of weakness homie Im over 6'2 305 lbs far from weak but i was in tears hearing you , As men our worst scars from battle/life are the ones you can't see. And after you make peace with all this you're going to be a very dangerous man.. even more than you already are, there's some things can't be trained. rq Crazy as this sounds i don't look back at what happened to me anymore, even all the pain all the legal shit child support, i have a pension too i was a civil servant. i wouldn't change what happened if i could. you'll one day see the blessing in your situation Aswell. take care of yourself bro. R. SALAZAR ps its not going to be easy and it is not going to be okay, nights especially. im being real with you but as long as you make yourself sit in it bro like you said , you gonna beat this sooner than i did. bcuz my ass hit the bar and got dui and was womanizing like most of us do.
Thank you for sharing that! It will definitely help me 🙏
Showing emotions is not a weakness - in fact, I watched that video and you were under control. It's just fine that your daughter sees you cry a little bit. Don't let her see you be despondent or let her know you are depressed, but she needs to know that men have feelings and emotions, and to see her dad express his feelings and emotions in a healthy way will help her later in life. Whoever said that you should not show your emotions to your daughter is 100% wrong - all the way. Oh, and keep moving forward, keep your chin up and keep your kids' best interest in mind with all the decisions/choices you make.
Do you, stay strong and stay positive. I’ve been through an ugly divorce and a lot of people will say things but never lived it. Time will heal all.
Good job resisting the temptation.
I seperated from my two kids mother almost a year ago. Still feeling the pain but not as much as a couple of months ago. It's a process that only time will heal. I'm lying about time heals things it only teaches us how to cope with pain. things.
That video of yourself and your daughter reminded me of my Dad and I. He used to scoop me up into his lap, let me talk and the same effect would happen, just as I watched you, streams of years running down his face, guy the same reason, my Mom and his relationship falling apart. My dad and I were so close and I would never trade those moments, I wish I could have them back,.. My daddy is gone now and I miss him so very much. Don't worry about these people... Stay strong..... Side note, I'm a Patron but I still haven't heard my name lol same my name say my name lol. Gray_bullet23
KEEP PUSHIN FORWARD 🛹
Stay strong, Brother…
Straight up I'm new to the channel and the I already respect it. S/o Hector much respect to you and your family. Sorry to hear about the bad news stay up. Prayers go out take care God bless
Sounds like we need a trip to Kong Kong 🇲🇽! You gotta step away and clear your mind brother!
Just like David who slew his 10000 man in battle ! A killer of philistines and a giants ! Was not afraid to show his emotions! All one has to do is show read the book of psalms ! Don’t listen to fools LT ..
Sometimes you just got to let it out big dog ✊🏽
My husband held his emotions from our relationship for more than 8 years and I he never got help for his PTSD and then he let his secrets out and he seemed to implode
Make friends with challenges: create opportunities. Love never fails.
You shouldn’t feel bad for keeping yourself real and raw! It is not a weakness and you know that hardest part is sharing your child
I feel you brother I’ve been a loster mother effer myself!
Thanks for staying authentic.
Always 🙏
Yo Hector. We are living the same world just hundreds of miles apart. As we speak, I’m on the way from my apartment to a hotel. Almost divorced. Just bought a house but not open yet. So I’m camping like USMC days. 🫡🇺🇸
Keep pushing forward
What’s up JT! Sorry to hear that brother! Hit me up whenever!
😂 the intro tho!!!!! Love you bro! Nor Cal! JESUS SAVES!
You're just human Lt.❤🙏🙏🙏
It’s okay to feel emotions 😢sometimes you do have to release in the form of tears..😢 it is better for you in the healing process. Thank you for being vulnerable ❤
Stay strong LT, it takes time. The love your daughter has for you will help you move forward.
RESPECT !!!!
To the person who said don't show weakness to your daughter- hold my ☕️ Hector- my daughter's father has refused to acknowledge her existence since birth. He feels that being garnished by the state after the DNA test is enough so much so that he's had multiple relationships while raising other men's children, so I'll take Hector's actions ALL DAY LONG! Additionally I can name multiple people I've known over the years who bottled everything up and met un untimely end. 😪 It's all about balance and finally children KNOW. They see what you don't know/think they do. ✌️❤️🙏
I agree there are times I feel that it is OK to be vulnerable in front of your children. They need to understand that you are human just like they are and everybody goes through the same emotions. But it is your job as a parent to show them how to cope and deal with those emotions in a responsible, healthy way.
Top of the morning LT. Just know we're here for you, my boy. Keep Grinding, sir, and you already know, as always, my utmost respects to you.
Lt. Can you do an episode on COs getting in shape or an encouragement to get in shape the importance. These guys are out of hand some are huge some look like they just left their video game cave at mommas house.
That lady was dead wrong, it’s emotionally unhealthy to teach your kid to hold everything in. 😂 seriously these people can say what they want but how can you not show emotions to your own kids? A cycle worth breaking people
💪🔥🇺🇲 keep pushing forward warriors
Divorce homie you should be happy! Now you can upgrade or be free no commitments. It’s a perspective it’s not the end of the world keep pushing forward stay on the path, it will pass life will go on. “Life is all one big test”
In answer to your question, showing emotion is NOT weakness. What showing emotions is is being Human, being relatable. Any man who doesn't show emotions is hurting themselves or covering for something. Anyone watching you. especially ex inmates, should see that you are human and that you CAN relate to what they are going through. Being a C/O is also being a therapist to an extent :) Without disclosing my background I will tell you that I never hid my emotions from the people I dealt with and I think it made me more relatable and therefore gave me more respect and, much more effective at what I do. Ahh, f-ck it, here I go. I am a C/O for 28 years now and ya know what? If you were to ask the inmates who know me, they would tell you that I am on one hand human but also a human who is a C/O if that makes any sense. In other words, there is only some humanity I can show you due to both our positions. An old Sgt once told me that inmates will see right through your tough guy BS so just be yourself, you will have a lot more respect right from the jump. Anyway dude, I am sorry about your marriage and if there is something, some advice I can give you is that your child (children) should not be dragged into your issue with your soon to be ex. The children are neutral and don't need updates on the latest fight or argument between you and the ex. Again, I am sorry things didn't work out between you guys.
I feel you going thur it as well, your AMAZING 🙏☝️💙
Showing emotions is part of maturing as a person.
NO NO NO…. Whoever said “don’t show your daughter emotions” is really as unintelligent as is comes. EVERYBODY needs to express themselves & let their emotions be seen, if our children don’t see that we can cry, they won’t cry & their cry will lead to anger!!! Express yourself, your daughter needs to understand that we have feelings, sad, mad, frustrated, happy .. so our children learn how to HANDLE THEIR EMOTIONS!!! That is one class they teach. Some of y’all should enroll fr fr . I feel bad for your kids that actually think like that. They wont have any personality, any emotion, they will not have a heart, they will be cold & feel so empathy.. because remember “DONT SHOW YOUR KIDS HOW TO HAVE ANY FEELINGS” GTFOH!!!!
You got this bro !!!! thank you
everyone cry’s brutha even the toughest guys trust me I hope your in better spirits today with that said this time to shall pass my boy stay strong 💪🏽 🫡✊🏽
Praying for you and your family through this difficult time 🙏🏻 proud of you for not drinking as well!
Stay Strong Bro
It sucks just went through the same thing but just try not to get caught up in the hype of divorce and everything that comes with it just focus on ur kids and trying to be a better person after a year things started coming together and you'll start looking forward to meeting someone new to share who u really are one day,, good luck man
Good morning Bestie live your best life!!! Enjoy your day Stay Blessed 🙏🏽 Much Luv❤️ Positive Vibes and Spread the Luv
You Got This Hector .. stay focused!
Thank you!
Gooooood morning Hector ! Good to know you’re embracing your feelings. It’s a whole different experience going through devastating life trials w/o self medicating. You’re walking through a trial by fire and I have no doubt you’ll be forged into an even better man because of it. Yet you’re still out here giving it away to keep what you have. Praying for you brother. God’s gottcha. Seek His face. He’ll walk ya through. 💪🙏😎
Goooood morning Billy! You are a huge part of my journey, thank you.
Get you a change of scenery, brother, move down here to texas.
I’m walking that fine line sir ! We have a lot of similarities minus combat .
Sorry for your PAIN! Keep pushing forward
You are an amazing Man.GOD IS CHANGING YOU and ITS a PROCESS..WHO CARES WHAT THE WORLD THINKS!!!KEEP PUSHING FORWARD❤❤❤❤ GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY ❤
Good morning LT, my prayers are with you always. Emotions are God given in order to help you balance your life. It humanizes you. I’m sorry for all of you and pray that forgiveness from you, your wife, and your daughter ( because she will be emotionally affected); I’m proud that you have the mindset for healing and deliverance.
And I didn’t say don’t show emotions. I said that crying shit in front of your daughter when you’re getting divorced isn’t good. I’m just coming from a HORRIBLE childhood divorce.. it fucked up my family. And to watch my dad constantly sobbing and crying all the time. I needed strength, my world as I knew it was coming to an end, mommy and daddy my two hero’s are getting divorced.. and dad is always crying. It fucked me up. I needed to be the one crying and needed my dad my hero to tell me it was going to be ok. I DIDNT SAY DONT SHOW EMOTIONS..
Buenos Dias LT
DESDE BTown
Keep ur Head Up
Showing emotions doesn’t mean ur weak means ur a REAL MAN and means u have Love in ur Heart and not hate
Great video, all I'm saying is keep pushing forward Lt
Good morning L.T.
I posted this comment on your last video, so sorry for the redundancy. “Hard times create strong men". You, sir, have been through a lot. Like everything else, you'll get through this. You are not alone. It takes a lot of courage to put your personal business out there for everyone to see. You have helped a lot of folks out there that think they are the only ones going through this sort of pain. Big G has bigger plans for you. That's why you weren't a casualty in the "sand box", IMO. A life spent defending others is tough.
You are a major part of my journey brother. Best believe that 💯
If I could go back to before my divorce, I would try a solo vacation just me and her. Disconnect completely and just feel us. Maybe that would’ve reignited our connection. Just saying!
Good Morning Lt. Glad to see you 🙏 keep your head up, God is good. My Anxiety is bad because of this job. You’ve opened our eyes and helped us. You’re a great dad. Find your happy place and do what makes you happy 🙏 #keep pushing Forward 😊
First, I'm on my way to order that T!! Secondly, don't ever stop being you!!
Good morning LT, Warriors 💪🏼
Keep your head up bro wish you luck to get through this!
I honor you. You have saved so many. Thank you
Thank you for that 🙏
Fuck cdcr. I've been there 2 months and I'm ready to go!
Stay strong bro I’m going through the same
We support Hector, hope everything goes well in your personal life.
I’m praying 🙏 for my brother
I hope the best for all this will affect HB. I ensure your daughter knows this is not her fault and love her more now than ever before. Stay strong in your sobriety LT.
Remember haters are still interaction on your social media bro.
It depends “ In my mind : if it involves one that is less likely to receive bad news it’s up too the stronger one too be the stand up person.
I Have To Cry & Let It Out Sometime's!!!
💯💪😢💪 💯
Top of the Muthaphuking Morning L.T 😎✊
Yes brother, one day at a time. 🙌🏽💯
Good morning LT keep pushing forward stay safe and blessed brother 🙏.
Good morning Roy!