Accused you of being calculating after making you defensive.
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- Опубліковано 27 вер 2024
- This person did something that put you on the defense. Then fumbled the situation in a myriad number of ways because of cowardice. He misread the whole thing and made a bunch of unchecked, wrong assumptions.
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This message reminds me of something a wise woman once shared with me: once you’re in a position where you have to defend yourself, you’ve already lost.
Wise people teach wise people self-defense.
Ohhh lesson I learned the hard way
This made no sense🙄… I never heard anyone say that.
@@Sherl-h3i if you are defending yourself, the person that is attacking has already judged you/made up their mind about you.
He accused me of "not actually being that nice" after expressing anger at my mistreatment..... 😵💫
They count on your goodness. Makes light work really hard 😂
That's how It was for me as well.he expected me to be still compassionate after he had betrayed me
@rachaelmcdougall798 I'm sorry Rach. It's wrong.
Aww the kitty saying bye to us at the end:)
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This is why getting to know somebody is important instead of making rash judgements get to know someone’s path&their struggles, then a person will understand their responses to things, the only person who was being calculated was his ego and his pride that was where the illusions laid their opinions and formed a delusional perspective. Many have lost the art of talking/communicating if we did this more we would form healthier relationships and actually build long lasting ones. What’s wrong with “hi my name is…. “ I like you, you want to meet for drinks sometime”? Simple questions lead to greater results for both individuals 🤷🏽♀️
Technology
Yep, it’s taken over for all the wrong reasons 🫤
@coreenacorbett9576 Just like the comment I submitted to this video that has been hijacked. ( perfect example)
Here it is 👇
Very very Astute Jess 🤗. Which I have addressed with MY professionals ( 😅). That FACT you LOOM, you groom......Boom! ( especially when sensed)
I think most us took psychology to help ourselves... Did you know ( statistic could of changed by now) Psychiatrist have the highest suicide rate.... Uhhhhhhhhhhhh Also psychological warfare is being played out on the collectives ( as a whole) AND in ALOT of families and households. Jess it's a tall tall order. I love your heart ❤️ Luna 😊
Very astute 😊
Please confirm receipt Jess, My comments are being monitored, manipulated and corralled.
The EXACT thing YOUR talking about in your video here....Not just you watching ( loomer) Theres always someone higher ☝️
( im taking pictures Jess and it isnt just your channel) im documenting and reporting.
Just sos you all know...IVE BEEN A WHISTLEBLOWER FOR OVER 30 YEARS....at which point have you misunderstood me????????????????????????????
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@coreenacorbett9576 just like this comment I made but was hijacked
This is it
Very very Astute Jess 🤗. Which I have addressed with MY professionals ( 😅). That FACT you LOOM, you groom......Boom! ( especially when sensed)
I think most us took psychology to help ourselves... Did you know ( statistic could of changed by now) Psychiatrist have the highest suicide rate.... Uhhhhhhhhhhhh Also psychological warfare is being played out on the collectives ( as a whole) AND in ALOT of families and households. Jess it's a tall tall order. I love your heart ❤️ Luna 😊
Very astute 😊
Please confirm receipt Jess, My comments are being monitored, manipulated and corralled.
The EXACT thing YOUR talking about in your video here....Not just you watching ( loomer) Theres always someone higher ☝️
( im taking pictures Jess and it isnt just your channel) im documenting and reporting.
Just sos you all know...IVE BEEN A WHISTLEBLOWER FOR OVER 30 YEARS....at which point have you misunderstood me????????????????????????????
😂😅🤭
What's funny is I actually said "Hi, I want to get to know you more. Why don't we grab some drinks" and he stopped replying, and pulled this on me😂
This was such a great message! And it made perfect sense. Thank you! I was put in a position where my character was being attacked based on my flaws and weaknesses, and I went silent for a few days. He freaked out and said the most horrendous, hurtful things through text, when I called him out on it, he said he was just giving me "tough love" smh. I walked away.
Well done you
@@belindaalderson7209 thank you! 🙏
Communication, definitely can advert disaster, especially when other people are involved - manipulating playing games, maneuvering and lying! It's all done now and forgiven.
I knew there was a reason I am naturally drawn to you and your channeled messages. I studied Psychology as well. I earned my Masters in Psychology. ❤ Thank you for sharing your gift. I resonate with you on many levels.
Bingo. I spent the last year of my marriage in low key protection mode after dealing with betrayal, lies and hollow apologies. I gave an ultimatum that if there was another lie I was out. More lies and he was surprised when I broke it off, asking me when I had decided to finish things because he couldn’t understand how I was so ok with my decision so quickly and that I was the one that has given up on the relationship 🙄
I am so glad you have a degree in psychology as well as intuition. This is right on spot! And I hadn’t thought of the defensive stance I took, but yes, that’s exactly what happened. He knocked me off kilter and then judged me falsely.
Yes preconceived notions, can interfere with observations.
Say it with me: PROJECTIONNNNNNN
Yes. I am afraid of him.
I wish you knew the impact these messages are having on me and my journey, thank you Jess ❤
🤯 WOW- you nailed this so exactly for my crazy-ass situation... THANK YOU! 😭
Wow you hit the bull's eye..i only just found your channel..I appreciate your psychology ❤🤗
Jess, I have a bachelors in psychology too
Facts!! Where the lies at.. ❤
Thank you, Jess! ❤
You’re so welcome 🩷🩷
That last statement was the one! I’m pretty sure that’s the one
Nah you got that wrong
Thank You ❤❤❤
You're so welcome 😊
Yes, resonates. These are amazing
And I know about all of it you dill. Did you think I didn’t notice the massive overreach?
This totally resonates!!
He would just stop calling me and observe if I call him or not and also send fake Instagram requests to check if I accept them and entertain other guys.
I’ prefer direct communication and whenever I sensed something was wrong I would talk about it and I would ask him. But he chose to pick a totally immature route to get to know me. I mean how hard is it to just ask direct questions. If I were to start entertaining someone else it’s because he was not showing up in the relationship entirely and not because I’m somebody who entertains multiple people at once (like he would do)
How could you put somebody in the faulty situation, bait them to react and then judge them basis that.
Wow
Very very Astute Jess 🤗. Which I have addressed with MY professionals ( 😅). That FACT you LOOM, you groom......Boom! ( especially when sensed)
I think most us took psychology to help ourselves... Did you know ( statistic could of changed by now) Psychiatrist have the highest suicide rate.... Uhhhhhhhhhhhh Also psychological warfare is being played out on the collectives ( as a whole) AND in ALOT of families and households. Jess it's a tall tall order. I love your heart ❤️ Luna 😊
Very astute 😊
Please confirm receipt Jess, My comments are being monitored, manipulated and corralled.
The EXACT thing YOUR talking about in your video here....Not just you watching ( loomer) Theres always someone higher ☝️
( im taking pictures Jess and it isnt just your channel) im documenting and reporting.
Just sos you all know...IVE BEEN A WHISTLEBLOWER FOR OVER 30 YEARS....at which point have you misunderstood me????????????????????????????
😂😅🤭
Robust observation! Definitely through the lenses of the observer🩷 on defense! In this situation 2 can play this game.. please observe or communicate clearly! Simple 🩵 blessings
Yes Jess, he is much sneakier than I know. He has done much more harm to me than I recognise. Thank you again Jess. Love.
This person is uploading tarot readings on tiktok still talking about me instead of looking at themselves … insanity truly
Yikes 😱
Yes
Ty🩵
This reasonates i was married to him.he was very calculated and strategic
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It is interesting you brought this topic today cause this past week I had to deal with folks being aggressive over small issues. Folks, should listen when someone says: “we had different experiences in life and that’s why I see it differently. What you see with malicious intent in other countries is seen as a normal expect of family life like breastfeeding 🤱 in public or at the restaurant.” Some folks take it as a direct offense not agreeing with them on everything. I was not raised to be a robot and keep saying: “ wow you’re so right” even when Siri says that I’m stating a fact. Fight Siri not me! I was not raised on the ChatGPT era, I had to read books, and go places to experience life. Nothing against technology, but if technology agrees with me who am I to fight it!😂
I just want to tell you thank you so much Jess. All your latest small videos really resonated. And it means a lot for me because I didn't believe my intuition. I could sense that these people were bizarre but I constantly shut down my intuition. ❤❤
I never took psychology. I signed up went to first class and i was shy and very sheltered. On the 1st day she said she was going to pick on the 1st row and i got scared to go to class because i get nervous when teachers put me on the spot especially if I don't know anything and i wouldn't want to be embarrassed infront of a whole classroom at age19 or 20 years old . Now i wish i would have taken psychology so i could have learned about other personalities so i would have saved or helped my younger self. Even my boyfriend says im still naive @43 but hes helping me a lot.
Yep❤
I love these messages. They resonate so deeply.
Oh, i know what he did...ALL of it!
You speak so fast! 😮
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