WOMAN CLAIMS OLDER WOMEN ARE IN COMPETITION WITH YOUNGER WOMEN😳AND OLDER WOMEN RESPONDED 🫣🫢

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  • @HerRobinson
    @HerRobinson 10 годин тому +53

    Where are these women, because I know a lot of older women and trust me no they’re not trying to compete for men. By the age of 40 and up, we lived that life and really don’t care for a man baby. I know I’m teaching the young girls not to fall for the bs most men are coming with.

  • @sarabee7710
    @sarabee7710 8 годин тому +39

    Wow the "older women" who responded are in competition with themselves!!! they are gorgeous!!!

  • @RedDeadReverie
    @RedDeadReverie 7 годин тому +30

    I really hate this discourse because women are pitted against each other in order to shift the blame off the patriarchy/men. Older women have always had so much wisdom to pass down and men don’t want them talking to young women. That’s why they create this “old bitter lady” trope. We are not in competition with each other, we have to stand together ❤

    • @blacknbougie8021
      @blacknbougie8021 4 години тому

      That's great in theory but when you have ppl like JustAGirl, there should be healthy arguments to counteract her toxic rhetoric. JustAGirl is dangerous & many of us have her type in our families....could be our mom, aunt etc. But we all know how dangerous they are.

    • @guinealove3744
      @guinealove3744 39 хвилин тому

      @@blacknbougie8021 All I can say to you is to stir clear of women (young and old) that are bitter and jealous. I recall the stylist that went on vacation with women (and men) her own age. Every single one of them left her alone. Choose whom you allow into your life.

  • @nimo4335
    @nimo4335 6 годин тому +19

    She's in competition...😂😂😂. We're not in competition and looking way younger than the one's half their age.... GTFOH 😂😂. 💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾🌟🌟💃🏾💃🏾

    • @feliciajenkins5041
      @feliciajenkins5041 4 години тому +1

      I feel sorry for her daughter. Imagine having the Pick me queen raising you 😱.

  • @Racatacataca
    @Racatacataca 5 годин тому +9

    Sounds like she is mad at older women for being healthy and enjoying life. Sorry, not everyone sits down and counts down death and disability. She actually sounds like she is the jealous one.

  • @thearough
    @thearough 7 годин тому +12

    that lady exudes the same insecurities as older women she's speaking of. and she will become the old ladies that she's speaking of because of that

  • @traceylennon1204
    @traceylennon1204 8 годин тому +36

    Not everybody wanted a husband!

  • @shanyamclaughlin8083
    @shanyamclaughlin8083 5 годин тому +7

    Women like this are dangerous and do not speak for the majority of women. Older women are wise. They know the game and the plays. Believe me they are NOT in competition with younger women. Most are established and living their best lives. Many have actually decentered men at this stage of life and are travelling, running their business, self development, etc. My 45+ girlfriends are not sitting around trying to steal your man. We are making plans to make memories and participate in new experiences. This lady is the definition of a pick me. We love our peace more sis. Not all men are worth keeping either 😂. Have a nice day or the one you deserve. Women that are single are happy. I know if she doesn’t have a man or in a relationship something must be wrong with her right?. Change your mindset. She is the type of woman that keeps us divided. Women can learn from the young and the old. Ageism has no place in the sisterhood.

  • @Grandma_Jizzzzzzzard
    @Grandma_Jizzzzzzzard 10 годин тому +33

    I'm GenX too lol! I have been teaching women about men since I was in my 20s. We are not competing with you. We are at home. We have no desire to go to clubs because we did that for a long time, and I promise you, we had more fun. if any young young women have questions, I'm happy to answer them! We are not your competition. We are either married or happily single. Most of us anyway. Your real competition is your friends and your family members.❤❤

    • @catwalkster
      @catwalkster 8 годин тому +6

      GenX here 2 and i completely agree.
      And we had a hell of a lot more fun!

    • @victoriaolekaibe5173
      @victoriaolekaibe5173 6 годин тому

      These so called younger women are Projecting!! Since when has 40 become old😂 We are in the Prime of our lives Sexually, We know our bodies and are not out here getting BBL's. I'm fighting off 2 men with a stick because of my 40 yr old age, Girl Whut, Please!!

    • @Grandma_Jizzzzzzzard
      @Grandma_Jizzzzzzzard 5 годин тому +2

      @@catwalkster sometimes I feel guilty because of how much fun we had. Seriously. We were the first generation to have that much freedom, and we also got away with murder because our parents were so busy or some of us didn't even have them.
      Now, when I think about going out and drinking, it makes me tired and I just go to bed instantly lol. I love being an old grandmother. I'm glad that our generation had the most fun though. I wish I could make this comment not public lol

  • @lolalilolily
    @lolalilolily 9 годин тому +21

    Close to 60 here - another gen X.
    The only thing that bothers me about some young women is how they still cater to men and how unhappy some are with their natural looks.
    Girl, you're gorgeous and enough.
    Dont succumb to societal pressures and do not pit women against each other. For the men dont care about any of us, really.

    • @friktermind
      @friktermind 9 годин тому

      Oh, yeah, and how was it in your case when you were younger? It is your generation of women, who still perpetuated centralization of a man, and created the illusion that only value of a woman is in her age and child rearing capabilities. This is why demands for look will always rise if we don't change this approach. But don't fool yourself in your ripe age that you know better, you don't, because here you are making ridiculous claims without understanding the cause-effect equation.

    • @the8thchurch461
      @the8thchurch461 6 годин тому

      True. Men don't think we are human. They call us "resource"

  • @mimid6354
    @mimid6354 10 годин тому +23

    I don’t think it’s age. Women who have always been jealous and bad mind will still be the same in older age (alot of the time) that’s just their personality type. I don’t think suddenly aging makes you competitive unless you always had that characteristic

  • @txspacemom765
    @txspacemom765 8 годин тому +16

    I'm 50. I was married and I wasted nothing. I could care less about what you are doing, as long as you are happy and healthy. In fact, if I was sitting next to you, I would ask "Why are you so mad?" "Who did you wrong?" because that's just sad sis. I'm inside, with my fur babies and three degrees, sewing blankets and writing books. If anyone wants to come over with coffee and we can watch Gilmore Girls or Star Wars. Bring some snacks too.

    • @vanessac1965
      @vanessac1965 7 годин тому +2

      You sound like a fun friend!

    • @txspacemom765
      @txspacemom765 7 годин тому +1

      @@vanessac1965 I'm quite fun, thank you!

    • @GwendolynPorter-w6c
      @GwendolynPorter-w6c 4 години тому +2

      I'm 64 can I come too??? I'm a big Stars Wars fan. I remember when the movie was released in the summer of 77! There were lines down and around the block where the theatre was located! It was the Lowes Astor Plaza movie theater in Manhattan! You might get angry with me if I start to recite the dialogue!!!😂😂😂 Is Moet good to bring!!???😂

    • @txspacemom765
      @txspacemom765 3 години тому

      @@GwendolynPorter-w6c We can turn off the volume and recite the whole dang movie!

  • @GodsDNA75
    @GodsDNA75 6 годин тому +7

    As a 49 year old woman who finally found herself... I hated my youth. I love where I'm at now and wouldn't trade it for anything in the world with a younger woman. Even my looks have evolved. There is no competition here, young ladies. You can't compare apples and oranges. I've been where you are today and trust when I tell you, I don't want to repeat that dumb stage. If you feel like it's a competition that speaks more about your own insecurities than ours. I attract a ton of young men my sons age but I don't want them. Young ladies, you can have them. Because they are just as clueless in the world as you young ladies are. As I too, once was. Older women don't teach younger women because that is your mommas job! And if you didn't listen to your momma, you aren't going to listen to us. I, however, do teach by example. But instead of learning, you call it old fashion and boring. So do you, baby girl. I'm doing me. And according to what men say... young women are just arm candy because most of them have no substance. Substance and character are built with time. And the fact that you are bothered enough to make videos about us older women proves that we are winning the competition you created in your mind. Any man (young or old) who wants a little girl as his partner isn't even in my league, so I compete with no one. Here's something you should learn, little girls. Compete with yourself and forget about everyone else. That way, you can outgrow your childish, insecure ways by the time you reach my age.
    The problem with this new generation is that my generation looked up to and respected older women, while this generation competes with them. 🤦🏾‍♀️
    One last thing... have you seen older women lately? I can totally understand why these little girls feel threatened. We look fly! I just dated myself...😂

    • @tamaraharris4626
      @tamaraharris4626 6 годин тому +2

      Say it again 💯💯

    • @Grandma_Jizzzzzzzard
      @Grandma_Jizzzzzzzard 5 годин тому +1

      @@GodsDNA75 beautiful answer❤️❤️

    • @GwendolynPorter-w6c
      @GwendolynPorter-w6c 3 години тому

      I'm a little older and I approve this message! I'll be 65 October 13. My health is good. I've lost 105 pounds over the last two years and currently divorcing my STBX NARC HUSBAND! 😂😂😂 I don't think about competition with the younger ones because it is as you said they are projecting their insecurities! It takes time to grow into your true authentic self . I'm glad I've lived long enough to do it and be comfortable with myself. There's a saying I'm sure you've heard: Great minds think alike! ❤❤❤😊

    • @Vir2ousTeachings
      @Vir2ousTeachings 42 хвилини тому +1

      🎯💣⚰️🪦

  • @catwalkster
    @catwalkster 8 годин тому +11

    This is laughable

  • @lisarey3
    @lisarey3 11 годин тому +14

    No thanks about competition. I seriously want to join a sewing circle myself. I spent almost 20 years in mental health helping people. I feel as if it was a good choice to put my maternal energy into who I helped, especially when working with teens and people who were or are incarcerated. I feel good that I can look back and hope that I may have helped lift up people.
    I hope the younger generation of women are safe from predators. Younger women and older women are two different things. Comparing them is ridiculous. If you have some outlier people involved in competition, those are specific individuals behaving that way. I don’t believe it speaks for the majority of older women. Back when I turned 40 I felt really peaceful about it. I am not involved or looking for the same things as when I was younger. Peace and good luck to younger women. I am happy to support you all. I hope you consider supporting older women too

    • @Grandma_Jizzzzzzzard
      @Grandma_Jizzzzzzzard 5 годин тому

      @@lisarey3 sewing circles are so much fun and so therapeutic! I went to one for about five years called Stitch n' Bitch!

  • @VB-fo1oc
    @VB-fo1oc 5 годин тому +8

    No offense but homegirl looks like an older woman herself 😅

  • @aprilwashington3150
    @aprilwashington3150 6 годин тому +5

    Bitter older women = Mad women.
    Mad because nobody warned them about the Capitalist Patriarchal Pimp Game and they got PLAYED.
    And now they are getting the word out.

  • @Desirem56
    @Desirem56 3 години тому +3

    This does not apply to ALL Older woman. She is a speaking on very woman She complain about. Why would a woman who is in happily married care or be concerned.

  • @Tyana-g6x
    @Tyana-g6x 5 годин тому +7

    As an older woman whose a size 6, toned, curvy, proportionate, fit, etc. best belief me- I can pull the same younger men which I prefer over these older broke ones.

    • @GwendolynPorter-w6c
      @GwendolynPorter-w6c 3 години тому

      Go girl!!!! I'm toning up and have lost weight also! I walk , have lost a considerate amount of weight with about 30 pounds to go ! I'm divorcing a demon 👿 narc and have other plans. These old dilapidated dusties are not worth the sneeze to blow them away!!! I'm actually in new old clothes now that I bought my 40s when I was overweight! I have brand new 20 year old jeans that I bought at the local VIM in my neighborhood. No place to go but up!!! I also have a Total Gym which will be getting plenty of use on cold days!

    • @shanicrystal8671
      @shanicrystal8671 11 хвилин тому

      Girl, same to all of this 😅

  • @someusername4129
    @someusername4129 7 годин тому +9

    This is some serious pick me stuff...

  • @angelamohammed9464
    @angelamohammed9464 2 години тому +1

    She was focusing on old vs young. When the problem is insecure women, age has nothing to do with it.

  • @carleyinfinityandbeyond4360
    @carleyinfinityandbeyond4360 4 години тому +2

    My daughter told me I was jealous when I told her about her clown makeup. Got humbled by an XY. Now she sees how ridiculous some of it looks.

  • @nmc1859
    @nmc1859 9 годин тому +6

    Um I'm in my 40s and so many 20 somethings have acted bothered by me and in competition w me !! It seems so weird bc i will honestly just be minding my own business

  • @tabithaAsher2171
    @tabithaAsher2171 6 годин тому +7

    Wtf is she talking about?

  • @tamekadavis6641
    @tamekadavis6641 9 годин тому +5

    I have seen it and been through it some older women have a problem with us younger women. I hope that older women can teach the younger women the facts of life.

  • @catwalkster
    @catwalkster 8 годин тому +7

    Damn we genx women look good :)

  • @aprilwashington3150
    @aprilwashington3150 6 годин тому +3

    I haven't seen NOT ONE video where she looks happy 🤔

  • @brunoqnzbk7891
    @brunoqnzbk7891 5 годин тому +2

    No offense, hon, but no one sees you as a threat. Beauty stays. You never had it. 😂

  • @Grandma_Jizzzzzzzard
    @Grandma_Jizzzzzzzard 10 годин тому +3

    It has always been this way. We just didn't have the Internet back in Olden times lol❤❤

    • @nmc1859
      @nmc1859 9 годин тому +1

      Absolutely 💯

    • @Dee.h734
      @Dee.h734 7 годин тому

      When i was younger i was never in competition with a older woman..

    • @Grandma_Jizzzzzzzard
      @Grandma_Jizzzzzzzard 5 годин тому

      @@Dee.h734 I didn't think I was either until I grew up and thought about certain behaviors over the years.❤️❤️

  • @ddrebrne3336
    @ddrebrne3336 Годину тому

    She need to be taking notes from the gorgeous older women she think she's competing with 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @jennifern.5305
    @jennifern.5305 8 годин тому +3

    The competition I see is manifested in trying to put younger women in their place. I don't know about competing for male attention, but you do have a cohort of older women who either aren't happy with their marriages or families and so the fulfilment and control they lack at home they try to exert in other families or in this case younger women. You also have older women who maybe feel fulfilled but had great difficulty in reaching their heights. So if they see a young woman doing well without going through the traumas she went through she's threatened and jealous and obsessed with humbling her. Either way everyone stay safe. Enemies come in all shapes sizes and ages✌️

  • @GwendolynPorter-w6c
    @GwendolynPorter-w6c 3 години тому +1

    You should say that the older women you encountered are/were jealous . The ones on your job are bitter for whatever and it doesn't nothing to do with you! They maybe jealous for whatever stupid but the jealousy in an intimidation tactic! In my youth I met a few and you know what I did ? STAND MY GROUND! All older black women are not like this so I see that you're doing yourself disservice by even believing it's a majority! I've seen younger women than look older than the older women! Choose your words and your battles WISELY! That Pickmeisha was doing nothing but spouting lies! True there are many that compete with younger ones! The ones who are secure in themselves says : Why bother? 😊😊😊 I damb sure don't!

  • @Greatsouthernbelle
    @Greatsouthernbelle 4 години тому

    In some cases older women are jealous of the younger women

  • @sandracardona-py1sj
    @sandracardona-py1sj 4 години тому

    I have traveled..in US and other places abroad. Met interesting people
    ..lived..laughed..loved. I am still living my best life in my 60s!

  • @ahutton49
    @ahutton49 2 години тому +1

    Baby if you only knew. There may be some older women who are in competition with younger women. The majority of us are well past all the bullshit. We’ve been where you’re going and wish you well and are rooting for you. WE DO NOT WANT ANYTHING YOU HAVE. We have our own money and are living full lives. Get the hell out of here with that jealousy sh*t. You’ve nothing we want. Go live your life and stop trippin. Love you boo!

  • @traceylennon1204
    @traceylennon1204 8 годин тому +1

    I must be the exception to this topic! My perspective has changed regarding what I hold as top priorities!

  • @theresakern1687
    @theresakern1687 5 годин тому +2

    I truly, TRULY wish these kids would learn what hating means. I agree therr is a speck size of the older population who is in competition with the younger girls,but most of us have been there, done that, learned the lesson, and wrote Cliff's Notes on the whole foolishness of it all. The ones, in my observation, who are in said competition are those who lost their youth having children super young. Most of those i know, myself included, thouroughly enjoyed my youth and retired my party shoes when the time came because we are happy with what we did, where we are, and enjoying the show of the new know-it-alls entertaining us.

  • @evelynm2530
    @evelynm2530 Годину тому

    No....older women are WALKING away from men..we learned....where are you getting this????

  • @Rubylox
    @Rubylox 3 години тому

    What I notice about older women, and as an older woman myself is that we can be hypercritical of younger women's actions; especially when a younger woman's decision seems, "dumb." As older women, we throw rocks, hide our hand and thus have the advantage of hiding our mistakes. We don't offer grace to ourselves nor to younger women while younger women are arrogant without the experience to back it up. Personally, when I see a young women about to make a major mistake, I become angry because it is a waste of their youth and I wish that life offered a do-over for some of my own mistakes.

  • @marijaco4146
    @marijaco4146 5 годин тому +5

    is the first woman ok?

    • @blacknbougie8021
      @blacknbougie8021 4 години тому

      Nope. She's just a miserable rage baiter using shock value to bring traffic to her channel.

  • @jessicatsao92
    @jessicatsao92 Годину тому

    From what I know, vast majority of older women who I encountered are actually pretty happy. Especially the generation where they started prioritized careers and dreams before marriage, Gen X. In fact, they are the first happier generation, because they are handling their lives, their health, their finances, etc. As a woman in her 30s and including in my 20s as well, this has been my experience. Older ladies are content, relaxing, enjoying their lives, etc. Especially the older ladies who are single and childfree or single and stable financially or truly happily married (and there are a few of these ladies). They also handle the brunt of all the responsibilities, have survived all kinds of situations, and are wiser and more at peace with themselves. In fact, the vast majority of women who are miserable are the women who married in their early teens or early 20s to a 40, 50 year old man who now makes her change his diapers and stay at home for the rest of her life, with no education, no career experience, no help with raising children born from the old men's inferior DNA...

  • @dp1202
    @dp1202 3 години тому

    Girl goodbye. Women shouldn’t be competing at all.
    I think the real issue is if you feel you cannot compete with your peers you try to create imaginary competitions with other people.
    Older women have tried to put youngins on game younger women don’t listen because they are too busy listening to men love bomb them and pit them against one another. It isn’t just older women wasting years you are wasting years being worried about what the next woman is doing and chasing things that bring down your value. Glad the older women spoke up this foolishness needs to stop.
    We live in an eco system and we should all be working together to make it better for all women.

  • @chrishandacausey
    @chrishandacausey 25 хвилин тому

    We were raised on hip hop and real rnb. We are not our mothers and grannnies. No ricking chairs are knitted blankets over here. So sorry lol😅 Angela Bassett showed I can be fine forever and I will! Now we can show you. You’re welcome.

  • @Grandma_Jizzzzzzzard
    @Grandma_Jizzzzzzzard 10 годин тому

    Ms. Kabue, I LOVE this topic!!!! ❤❤

  • @sandracardona-py1sj
    @sandracardona-py1sj 4 години тому

    I'm 62..I am still seen.

  • @ingridhunt7841
    @ingridhunt7841 2 години тому

    Gurl bye. I need to go plan my next trip.

  • @KamilaWaters
    @KamilaWaters 6 годин тому +2

    .Who hurt you?

  • @Eva_noir.
    @Eva_noir. 6 годин тому

    There's certainly some bitter old woman out there.

  • @Vir2ousTeachings
    @Vir2ousTeachings 38 хвилин тому

    I'll add this as well. Mean. Competitive. Negative women are just that. They happen to have gotten older. They were mean, competitive, and negative when they were young.
    There's a saying, "Young Fools Become Old Fools" so same thing.🩷