I just turned 40 and just found out I've not been in a long term relationship before. I don't try looking for any kind of relationship any more either, I just work and enjoy my free time dog walking and play video games and go to the odd concert every now and then. Life if chill.
@@johndoe-qr6yd Hey john doe. That’s cool that you’re just going with the flow now. Sometimes things happen when we least expect it. Thank you for watching my video and I appreciate your comment. Thanks for your support.
Brother, you ain't missing a damn thing! I was friends with a woman for two years before we started dating. We dated for 5 years before getting married. We were married for about a year when my daughter was born. She wanted to be a "Stay at home Mom." Sure, no problem, I made enough at the time. Just one week before my daughter's second birthday, I came home from work and she had run off with my daughter to some guy she met online. Not only did she clean out the bank accounts, she had faked paying the bills for 4 months. So, within 2 weeks all my utilities were shut off. Not only did she run off with my daughter, she took over $30,000. But, karma being the b*tch that it is, less than a week after I go sole custody of my daughter her new boyfriend kicked her out. Sadly for my daughter, her mother died broke and alone in 2014.
@@silentrage5425 Hey Silentrage. Wow man, I’m sorry to hear all of that. But I’m glad you got your daughter back. Thank you so much for sharing. And thank you for watching my video, I appreciate your support.
I never had kids in the US for this kind of thing. And I bet mom wasn't charged with parental kidnapping and you had to go to court and fight for sole custody. Glad it worked out but I never wanted to risk all that. I'm 67, healthy and moving to SE Asia next year. There I will likely find a great young wife and have kids there. Aging out surrounded by my kids sounds good to me. Much different laws there. My kids will be American citizens on day and I'll have the US government on my side should mom want to try kidnapping. She also won't know about my assets or have access. I will be providing for a wife for her entire life and our kids through college whether I survive or not. And I have the budget for nannies, housekeeper and long term caregivers if and when I need those. So not being a dick, just protecting myself.
@@MrWaterbugdesign The police couldn't charge her with parental kidnapping, because at the time she moved out there was no custody order. It was a real mess. The only thing the Sheriff could do is help find my daughter, and convince her mother to let me know my daughter was with her. But, to your point, my ex was ordered to pay $35.02 per week child support. That is 2 cent over the bare minimum they could order. She never paid a dime, and the courts refused to enforce the order. Also, your plan to use the US government to help protect your parental rights won't work. There was a case where the mother was a US citizen, and the father was a US and Israeli citizen. They were married and divorced in the US. The first weekend the father got the child, he absconded with the child. Neither governments lifted a finger to help get the child back to the mother. Lastly, you're 67 and going over-seas to find a "great young wife" has some real chomo vibes.
Man I'm 36 and only had one Girlfriend my entire life and it only lasted 3 months. I'm a lone wolf type personality, sometimes I do think about trying to meet someone but to be perfectly honest I don't care for marriage or kids and just cant be bothered trying to invest emotionally in another human just for it to end as most relationships fail these days, so I guess I am just going to be a life long Batchelor.
I was in a beautiful marriage and in it for the long haul. The perfect wife for me. She passed away in March of this year. NOW, I am so screwed. There will never be another like her.
@@sfranklin9073 Hey S Franklin. I'm so sorry for your loss. Just remember and cherish all the great memories. And let time sort everything out. Thanks for watching my video and I appreciate your support.
67 and never in a long term relationship I guess. Married 2x. First one for 1 year, she cheated, bye. I don't blame her. I knew that about her before marriage. She was hot and I was 26. Second marriage was 18 years...but "relationship"? Didn't feel like one. 15 years sexless. I retired in year 2, didn't tell her and she never figured out until she asked for a divorce. She wanted alimony and my premarital house. That's when I told her I hadn't worked in 15 years and would be the one seeking alimony and half her retirement savings. After researching she realized she was on the hook and agreed she keep her crap and I keep mine. It didn't seem like a relationship to me. Roommates. If "roommates" are a relationship then I had many having served in the Army. Not having a relationship in the US is a good thing. I've had a blast in my career and life. Very exciting. The only less exciting parts were when I was living with a woman. Endless compromise. Next year moving to SE Asia. There I'm not expecting a "relationship" either. But I do expect to find a really good wife to have kids with.
I haven't been in a long term relationship either. I've found women insufferable too difficult to deal with and not worth my time money or effort. I'm almost 60
49. Never married. No kids. No LTR’s here too. Military life, international long-haul pilot life, and a high demand for your services on your days off from flying will do that to you!
Last comment for the night. I'm glad i found this channel. Bad times lately. My best friend and extremely close brother. John just passed away a few weeks ago, no more woman and got in a motorcycle mishap and broke 2 ribs and my foot looks like Sasquatch. Enjoyable to watch a common sense guy talking reality. You are entertaining, keep 'em comin'.
@@FrankBonessa Hey Frank. I'm very sorry for your loss. And wishing you a speedy recovery from your motorcycle mishap. Keep your head up. Thank you for your encouragement and support.
@@mathewelledge6649 Hey Mathew. Yep, 2 years is a long time, in my opinion. Lol. Thank you for watching my video and I appreciate your comment. And thanks for your support.
Living with them is like doing time for a crime you didn’t commit. Living with them definitely takes the fear out of dying. Silence is the best. Stay safe fellas. Enter at own Risk ☠
I had my fair share of longer-term relationships & such over the years & glad to still be single & never married today at 59. It's not worth it IMO, no matter what your animal hormones are telling you. Consider it bullets dodged.
Back again Jim. As I already said in a different comment. I'm 54. And have only been single for my first 19 years. I've spent most of my life with my Morena ( dark skin ) fhilipna. And I love her just as much as when I met her when she was only 18 ( she is 53 now ). Right now she is still in the Philippines. I can only get a month off work at a time. So I had to come back to Canada. She is stayed in the Philippines to set up investments and spend time with her family. She only sees them every other year. But I can't wait till she gets home. Well Canada. Home for now. My second home is the Philippines. And one day it will be my home. All I will need is my 13(a) spouse visa to live there. I can't own property there. So everything is in her name. Actually we just sold a property we were part owner near Alfonso. In Cavtie. But yeah. I guess I am in a long term relationship 🙂. PS: I have seen fort Santiago in Manila. Built in 1571. Stood in St Augustine church. Built in 1609 by the Spanish. And I have stood on Batangas Beach. Were MacArthur landed to retake the Philippines from the Japanese in world war II. And have videos of a 160 year old Spanish church in Alfonso with my drone. And videos of a church in Bicol. Built in 1724. And then buried by the mayon volcano in 1814. Only the bell tower remains above the ground. And videos of the Taal volcano. It goes off often. Last one was in 2022. A few months before one of my visits to the Philippines.
Im 44 years old Single guy Never married live alone Peace and freedom Ive had a few girlfriends Seems like when i ran out of money they became unhappy😂
@@whatever_it_takes6691 Hey what's up! Thanks for watching my video and I appreciate your comment. Well, the Oofy Doofy Theory seems legit. I mean, Kim Kardashian dated Pete Davidson. 😂 Thanks for your support.
2 years? Hell man, I haven't been in a long-term relationship over 2 months. I'm 64 years old and my best friend is my left or my right hand. Have a great relationship with them. They don't speak to me. My hands never asked me for money. And when I want sex they don't say no.
Confirmed bachelor is code for gay. I had an uncle that you remind me of. He didn't come to terms with his sexual preference until almost sixty years old. Be glad you got there without putting scars on anyone's heart.
Count your blessings my Bro. You have missed NOTHING! You have your sanity, peace of mind & your $$$. Cheers!
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57 yrs old, retired military and Law Enforcement, never Married and love my peace and freedom!
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And thank you for your service!
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Jim, a lot of divorced men like me wish they were in your shoes. Congrats!
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He didn't miss anything. Except, misery.
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I just turned 40 and just found out I've not been in a long term relationship before. I don't try looking for any kind of relationship any more either, I just work and enjoy my free time dog walking and play video games and go to the odd concert every now and then. Life if chill.
@@johndoe-qr6yd Hey john doe. That’s cool that you’re just going with the flow now. Sometimes things happen when we least expect it. Thank you for watching my video and I appreciate your comment. Thanks for your support.
I was married twice and you are NOT MISSING ANYTHING
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Brother, you ain't missing a damn thing! I was friends with a woman for two years before we started dating. We dated for 5 years before getting married. We were married for about a year when my daughter was born. She wanted to be a "Stay at home Mom." Sure, no problem, I made enough at the time. Just one week before my daughter's second birthday, I came home from work and she had run off with my daughter to some guy she met online. Not only did she clean out the bank accounts, she had faked paying the bills for 4 months. So, within 2 weeks all my utilities were shut off. Not only did she run off with my daughter, she took over $30,000. But, karma being the b*tch that it is, less than a week after I go sole custody of my daughter her new boyfriend kicked her out. Sadly for my daughter, her mother died broke and alone in 2014.
@@silentrage5425 Hey Silentrage. Wow man, I’m sorry to hear all of that. But I’m glad you got your daughter back. Thank you so much for sharing. And thank you for watching my video, I appreciate your support.
I never had kids in the US for this kind of thing. And I bet mom wasn't charged with parental kidnapping and you had to go to court and fight for sole custody. Glad it worked out but I never wanted to risk all that.
I'm 67, healthy and moving to SE Asia next year. There I will likely find a great young wife and have kids there. Aging out surrounded by my kids sounds good to me. Much different laws there. My kids will be American citizens on day and I'll have the US government on my side should mom want to try kidnapping. She also won't know about my assets or have access. I will be providing for a wife for her entire life and our kids through college whether I survive or not. And I have the budget for nannies, housekeeper and long term caregivers if and when I need those. So not being a dick, just protecting myself.
Dang
You may want to get a DNA test....might not be your kid!
@@MrWaterbugdesign The police couldn't charge her with parental kidnapping, because at the time she moved out there was no custody order. It was a real mess. The only thing the Sheriff could do is help find my daughter, and convince her mother to let me know my daughter was with her. But, to your point, my ex was ordered to pay $35.02 per week child support. That is 2 cent over the bare minimum they could order. She never paid a dime, and the courts refused to enforce the order.
Also, your plan to use the US government to help protect your parental rights won't work. There was a case where the mother was a US citizen, and the father was a US and Israeli citizen. They were married and divorced in the US. The first weekend the father got the child, he absconded with the child. Neither governments lifted a finger to help get the child back to the mother.
Lastly, you're 67 and going over-seas to find a "great young wife" has some real chomo vibes.
Man I'm 36 and only had one Girlfriend my entire life and it only lasted 3 months. I'm a lone wolf type personality, sometimes I do think about trying to meet someone but to be perfectly honest I don't care for marriage or kids and just cant be bothered trying to invest emotionally in another human just for it to end as most relationships fail these days, so I guess I am just going to be a life long Batchelor.
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44 years here. never married. never even made it half way. 11 months and that was enough for me.
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No kids, no ex's......can buy what I want when I want, go where I want, eat what I want..............it's amazing.....Alone but not lonely
@@commonsenseisntcommon1776 Thanks for your support!
I was in a beautiful marriage and in it for the long haul. The perfect wife for me. She passed away in March of this year. NOW, I am so screwed. There will never be another like her.
@@sfranklin9073 Hey S Franklin. I'm so sorry for your loss. Just remember and cherish all the great memories. And let time sort everything out. Thanks for watching my video and I appreciate your support.
@@JimAgate Thank you!
Sorry for your loss, you had a unicorn
67 and never in a long term relationship I guess. Married 2x. First one for 1 year, she cheated, bye. I don't blame her. I knew that about her before marriage. She was hot and I was 26.
Second marriage was 18 years...but "relationship"? Didn't feel like one. 15 years sexless. I retired in year 2, didn't tell her and she never figured out until she asked for a divorce. She wanted alimony and my premarital house. That's when I told her I hadn't worked in 15 years and would be the one seeking alimony and half her retirement savings. After researching she realized she was on the hook and agreed she keep her crap and I keep mine. It didn't seem like a relationship to me. Roommates. If "roommates" are a relationship then I had many having served in the Army.
Not having a relationship in the US is a good thing. I've had a blast in my career and life. Very exciting. The only less exciting parts were when I was living with a woman. Endless compromise.
Next year moving to SE Asia. There I'm not expecting a "relationship" either. But I do expect to find a really good wife to have kids with.
@@MrWaterbugdesign Hey Mr Waterbug! Wow, that’s a crazy story! Thanks for sharing! And thank you for watching my video. I appreciate your support.
I haven't been in a long term relationship either. I've found women insufferable too difficult to deal with and not worth my time money or effort. I'm almost 60
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Been with 2 women about 3 years each. I wouldnt recommend it. Been single for about 4 or 5 years now. Not looking. Its been peaceful
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49. Never married. No kids. No LTR’s here too. Military life, international long-haul pilot life, and a high demand for your services on your days off from flying will do that to you!
@@jumboJetPilot Hey Jumbo Jet Pilot! Thank you for watching my video and I really appreciate your comment.
And thank you for your service!
@@JimAgate thank you! I’m simply too busy for relationships myself. It’s just the way it goes; no regrets here!
Last comment for the night. I'm glad i found this channel. Bad times lately. My best friend and extremely close brother. John just passed away a few weeks ago, no more woman and got in a motorcycle mishap and broke 2 ribs and my foot looks like Sasquatch. Enjoyable to watch a common sense guy talking reality. You are entertaining, keep 'em comin'.
@@FrankBonessa Hey Frank. I'm very sorry for your loss.
And wishing you a speedy recovery from your motorcycle mishap. Keep your head up.
Thank you for your encouragement and support.
Damn I had three long term relationships then. I mean I cheated on them but I was with them for that long too.
@@mathewelledge6649 Hey Mathew. Yep, 2 years is a long time, in my opinion. Lol. Thank you for watching my video and I appreciate your comment. And thanks for your support.
Living with them is like doing time for a crime you didn’t commit. Living with them definitely takes the fear out of dying. Silence is the best. Stay safe fellas. Enter at own Risk ☠
Hey STEELE!
Thanks for your support man!
I had my fair share of longer-term relationships & such over the years & glad to still be single & never married today at 59. It's not worth it IMO, no matter what your animal hormones are telling you. Consider it bullets dodged.
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I’m the same, except female. I love my space & freedom! 👍
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Back again Jim.
As I already said in a different comment.
I'm 54.
And have only been single for my first 19 years.
I've spent most of my life with my Morena ( dark skin ) fhilipna.
And I love her just as much as when I met her when she was only 18 ( she is 53 now ).
Right now she is still in the Philippines.
I can only get a month off work at a time.
So I had to come back to Canada.
She is stayed in the Philippines to set up investments and spend time with her family.
She only sees them every other year.
But I can't wait till she gets home. Well Canada. Home for now.
My second home is the Philippines.
And one day it will be my home.
All I will need is my 13(a) spouse visa to live there.
I can't own property there.
So everything is in her name.
Actually we just sold a property we were part owner near Alfonso. In Cavtie.
But yeah. I guess I am in a long term relationship 🙂.
PS: I have seen fort Santiago in Manila. Built in 1571. Stood in St Augustine church. Built in 1609 by the Spanish.
And I have stood on Batangas Beach.
Were MacArthur landed to retake the Philippines from the Japanese in world war II.
And have videos of a 160 year old Spanish church in Alfonso with my drone.
And videos of a church in Bicol. Built in 1724. And then buried by the mayon volcano in 1814. Only the bell tower remains above the ground.
And videos of the Taal volcano. It goes off often. Last one was in 2022. A few months before one of my visits to the Philippines.
@@wadelaurence6566 Hey Wade. Thank you for sharing and thanks for your support!
I'm turning 40 & never have either.
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I’m 31, I’ve never either lol spiritual ties are another story lol 😂🎉❤
@@ChaiTogether Hey Chai! Thanks for watching my video. I appreciate the support.
Im 44 years old
Single guy
Never married live alone
Peace and freedom
Ive had a few girlfriends
Seems like when i ran out of money they became unhappy😂
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I'm 52. Same boat. 👍
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GOOD FOR YOU!!!!
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Don’t feel so bad, most married people have never been in a “long term relationship” either.
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Keep living the dream!
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What are your thoughts on the Oofy Doofy Theory? Does the empowered modern female increasingly prefer the more submissive male?
@@whatever_it_takes6691 Hey what's up! Thanks for watching my video and I appreciate your comment.
Well, the Oofy Doofy Theory seems legit. I mean, Kim Kardashian dated Pete Davidson. 😂
Thanks for your support.
2 years? Hell man, I haven't been in a long-term relationship over 2 months. I'm 64 years old and my best friend is my left or my right hand. Have a great relationship with them. They don't speak to me. My hands never asked me for money. And when I want sex they don't say no.
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Ouch.
Hey Digital Swagg! 😂
It's all good bro!
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Confirmed bachelor is code for gay. I had an uncle that you remind me of. He didn't come to terms with his sexual preference until almost sixty years old. Be glad you got there without putting scars on anyone's heart.
@@briantishsutherland828 Hey Brian. 😂 Thanks for watching my video.
I hope my son doesn’t end of like you.. lol
@@Playstationmmm 😂🤣
🏳🌈?
Hey ZZ.
I'm heterosexual.
Thank you for watching my video.
😂
@@ZZSmithReal he's not gay