Yes, we need to be assertive and set boundaries. We can stand up for ourselves while doing it with love and understanding, rather than fighting back from a place of wounding or insecurity. I think if someone is healed and another person tried to pick a fight, the healed person will not indulge in this behavior, and they won't be triggered by it. They will set their boundaries, move on, and hope them the best - not holding onto any baggage or resentment. Of course, can be easier said than done, but I think fighting back, arguing, and letting someone have the power to control our emotions never brings the desired results, just suffering. When someone sees you're not phased by their behavior (of course it must be genuine), then they see they have no power over you.
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Heal first, then forgive. Sometimes the lesson is also to stand up for ourselves at a 3D level, in addition to taking the higher perspective.
Yes, we need to be assertive and set boundaries. We can stand up for ourselves while doing it with love and understanding, rather than fighting back from a place of wounding or insecurity.
I think if someone is healed and another person tried to pick a fight, the healed person will not indulge in this behavior, and they won't be triggered by it. They will set their boundaries, move on, and hope them the best - not holding onto any baggage or resentment.
Of course, can be easier said than done, but I think fighting back, arguing, and letting someone have the power to control our emotions never brings the desired results, just suffering. When someone sees you're not phased by their behavior (of course it must be genuine), then they see they have no power over you.