@@lucyk2634 No, because the conversation was utterly lacking in empathy for what Harry had gone through, and she picked the worse possible time and place to have it. I have never thought badly of Cho for her breakdowns, I liked her better for them. But struggling with emotions isn't justification for not trying to understand other people's emotions. Lack of experience is a justification though, and one that teenagers absolutely have a right to. Once she's older and more experience in human relationships I do think Cho (and Harry too, tbh) would be embarrassed at how badly that conversation was mishandled. That's why I said "twenty years later" and not "the very next day". Actually she and Harry handled their relationship extremely poorly. It didn't help that what they needed at the time was very different, and neither of them understood what the other needed enough to even try to give it to them. Cho had been dealing with a crippling lack of closure, and Harry desperately wanted a break from it all. In truth, they should have had a talk about what happened long before they went on a date (I believe it was mostly Harry's fault they didn't. He avoided her for the first half of that book didn't he?). Harry had the means to give her closure. And had they had that talk, Cho might have understood how much Harry just needed a moment of levity in his life to just let go of all the things plaguing him. I think they'll both look back on it as a very awkward moment in their life as they mature and realise just how little effort they made to understand the person they were trying to date. The reason I think it would be embarrassing to look back on is because with just a bit more forethought and a little less self-centredness it could have gone much smoother. I cringe at remembering moments from my teenage years that at the time I thought were perfectly normal, let alone situations like this where everything went wrong. Hopefully it was a learning experience for any relationships, romantic and not, they would have in the future and take it as a lesson on the importance of taking the time to communicate properly and pay attention to the other person.
Cho is the kind of person who wants to talk about her feelings and what bothers her. While Harry rather keeps stuff for himself. And since Cendric is the thing that bothers her the most, of course she's going to talk about him. What she did wrong was to compare Harry with Cendric and her other Ex's on Valentine's Day. But that isn't what disturbs you because that's not what you mentioned.
@@pando0884i mean if Harry was abit more nicer to her and actually explained what happened to Cedric im sure they could've had a nice date, and Cho wouldn't talk so much about cedric anymore. Cho only needed clarification for WHAT happened with Cedric as she's probably confused cos of the ministry and being claiming Dumbledore is a liar and stuff, but instead of harry helping her he messes it up by becoming angry. He didn't even bother apologising to her
Thats why she wanted to speak about it, because harry SAW WHAT ACTUALLY HAPPENDED; and so all she wants is clarification and the truth of what happened. If harry actually told her nicely, she mightve been able to move on from cedric to harry fully.
@@abirchowdhury6377 yeah but maybe harry doesn't want to talk about the time he saw a classmate (friend) die right in front of him and then got to spend the rest of the evening being tortured, fighting for his life, and seeing the ghost echoes of his parents and said classmate all before being taken away by the guy who set him up for the tournament which allowed him to get kidnapped to the place his classmate died and he was tortured in the first place who then tried to kill him again. maybe harry doesn't want to talk about one of the most traumatic nights of his life.
Exactly!!!That's what I am always saying! People are like:Cho is wonderful,you don't have read if you say the opposite.I read the books but I didn't like her behavior towards Harry when they were dating.
“I’m curious what I ever did to make you think I would enjoy a place like this, ‘cause I just want to make sure I never do it again” is a phrase pulled from deep in my soul
I mean Harry could have also talked with Cho so they could plan a date where they did something they both enjoyed. As far as I can tell Cho isn’t a mind reader who can instantly figure out what Harry would and wouldn’t like to do. Harry not speaking up and telling Cho that might not enjoy having tea at an extremely frilly place is on him and him alone.
@@morganyoung3557Doesn’t take a mind reader to not take you current date to your dead ex’s favorite spot as a first date. But who knows… I mean Harry bad Harry stupid Harry don’t communicate goods.
@@cubone44 I hardly think Harry is bad or stupid, the guy is one of my top three favorite characters. I just think that he could have been better at communicating with Cho and planned a date around something that they would both enjoy.
You know what, as a therapist and school counselor myself, I always thought the same! I mean, who does take emotional care of 11 years old, pre-teens and teens who get isolated from the rest of the world for most of these 7 years that are crucial to their development? Who does help them through the struggles of missing home, becoming more independent, going through puberty, discovering their sexuality, building their own identity, working through the typical fears and existential questions of that age, coping with the fact that they are in a golden cage where you are screwed if you don't get along because you literally don't have anything and anyone else? The professors? Filch? Madame Pomfrey? Hello McGonagall, may I apply for next school year?
I mean Harry technically died at the end before choosing life again so maybe she couldn’t tell the difference between Harry and Cedric because she can see the fture
@@Average_Book_Enjoyer if she can see the future and he and cedric both technically die/died, maybe her mind couldn't separate the two and she used harry as a cedric wannabe/replacement. IT WAS A TWO AM THOUGHT DON'T YELL AT ME PLEASE thx
Harry wishing Death Eaters would attack to get him out of Madame Puddifoots so he could burn it down is something that never fails to make me laugh. Like this tea shop is the real enemy. Forget Voldemort.
This Convo made their break up understandable and okay to me. In the movies, they just made her "snitch", made Harry ditch her without even listening to her, finding out she was drugged with verita-serum and didn't talk to her or apologize anyway. Made me feel sorry for movie Cho and sad for the break up, while the book-break up was just legit and logical.
Cedric was killed so quickly he didn't have time to wax poetic about the chick he was smashing. He did posthumously request Harry bring his body back to his parents. Now that's a good boy.
Can you even imagine, how much the energy in that graveyard would change? Instantly everyone is extremely uncomfortable. Just instant and irreversible mood shift. Harry comes back in a state of muffled shock trying to figure out how he's even supposed to feel about this. Voldemort is planning to Obliviate the entire experience from his mind.
She was very cruel to him and he tryed so hard. The worst was in the room of requirement and he kissed her and she starts crying and talking about Cedric it was creepy. No one could save that. But it lead yo the best explanation of the female to male brain and my favorite line from Ron being no one could think all that it would drive you crazy or make you go mad. Lol
@@rachelcrawford1977 No. the entire HP series should not be taken as an explanation for female brains. JK Rowling HATED feminine women, that’s why she made Cho act so odd and Hermione the “main tomboy girl who hangs with boys”. JK Rowling is a horrible person.
Months ago a guy died. A second guy that was there when he died is now dating the dead guy's girlfriend. This girl often cries about her dead boyfriend when her new one is around. Hogwarts needs a therapist ASAP.
Given how bad some therapists can be, they'd either make Hogwarts kids worse, or we're already looking at the results of a whole staff of school's therapists. Heck, Snape might be a licensed muggle therapist.
Cho’s like “my boyfriend died harry why can’t you pity me” and harry is like “I was the one who had to watch the life drain out of his eyes as he was brutally murdered while the man that had been trying to kill me since I was a baby was fully resurrected and I was utterly helpless”
Man, that conversation is so satisfying knowing how their relationship turned out to be and if this conversation happened between them then still Ginny would've been married to Harry because books Ginny is a savage😂
@@nadiarey4196 maybe you didn't read the books patiently, Harry liked Cho way before she was with Cedric and was utterly heartbroken when he found out that they are dating. Harry was shattered watching Cedric die in front of his eyes and surrounded by a fully resurrected Voldemort and a bunch of his death eater he still kept his word to the ghost of Cedric to bring his body back. He never pounced on the opportunity that Cho's single but she came up to him to grieve together but Harry had no time to console her as he was surrounded by conspiracies, plots and Voldemort's impending attack on him. Maybe it would have been different if he was free of his burden but Cho showed that she wanted all of Harry's attention and affection for herself which Ginny never did, even knowing that Harry is starting on a path that would lead to his death she smiled at him and said her goodbye.
This is why I love Harry Potter so much. Everyone is just a messy regular teenager with the same heartbreak stuff. In Marvel, the characters are ALWAYS put together, always know how to say the right thing. But in Harry Potter, he's a hero but he's also a clueless kid trying to figure out life with his friends. This part I feel is the real magic in Harry Potter.
Cho was just with Harry because she thought they both could cry about Cedric and because she didn't wanted to be alone. Harry genuinely liked her and wanted to date her and really tried hard to help her while doing so and all she did was wining, crying and blaming Harry for not behaving perfectly. She was unnecessarily jealous as well. God I hate how she treated him.
I kind of hate how he treated her. At one point he makes fun of her for crying. Another time after they break up, he's excited to hear that Cho lost at quidditch and asks if she cried about it. Cho wants to talk about Cedric Harry says that he does talk to Ron and Hermoine about it. Not only is he basically saying that he values his mates more than his girlfriend this is a lie. He doesn't talk about it. It would be good for him to discuss this with Cho. Also, Harry is just stupid. Cho is mildly jealous of Hermoine, and instead of clearing this up, he says Cho is crazy for being jealous and lets things escalate. Also, who cuts their first date short to hang out with a friend they already see daily? I never got the feeling that Harry valued Cho. He didn't care much when they broke up. As a guy reading this, I can't help but think that Harry is just a bad boyfriend. What Cho did was wrong, but Harry made her feel even worse than she already felt.
@@nanoff815 you’re kinda forgetting the trauma that Harry went through the year before, and the fact she put herself before him all the time. He went through a lot that year, and he was angry at a lot of people. I’m not excusing and saying he SHOULD have done it but it just makes sense because of how Cho treated him that he got angry at her afterward and got a little spiteful. We are all humans to be fair.
@@mcduckthechicken7030 Fair enough but before this date Hermione literally told him how conflicted and sad Cho was and gave a girls to boys translation. Harry is aware of the conflict in her heart and I think he should have been more sympathetic/empathetic. I don't think this is a narrative flaw by the way.
@@nanoff815 How conflicted and sad Cho was? Was she the one who had to watch Cedric die? Was she the one getting slandered all over wizarding Britian? No. No she wasn't. She thought bringing up her dead ex to the boy who watched him die was a good idea whilst they were on a date and has the audacity to get mad at him for bringing up Hermione? I understand the girl had a lot of questions and was still grieving, but the way she treated Harry was completely stupid. Harry tried to comfort her, he tried to change the subject because thr subject seemed to make her sad. If anything she was being completely cruel to Harry and was being pretty much the opposite of empathetic.
Exactly! I hate how people hate her because she was struggling. Even Hermione explained why Cho was struggling so much. She was a teenage girl who had just lost her boyfriend. People need to chill. But sadly, people love to be play judge.
@@jollyquinn430 The things is, regardless of her struggling, it still doesn't make it right. Yeah we can understand, but we can also understand when something just isn't excusable or justifiable.
Like “did Cedric say anything about me” is the kind of thing you /really shouldn’t say out loud/ but of course she’s going to think about it, and 16 year olds generally have poor brain-mouth filters. And yeah, kind of feel bad for her because while /of course/ he didn’t say anything when he died, we know that he actually did have an opportunity to communicate his last wishes to Harry and didn’t think of her so….I mean he was 17 and they hadn’t been together very long but still. Sucks to find out that you cared more than your partner did. If she’d been dying she probably would have thought of him and finding out that he didn’t….would hurt. I always kind of thought Harry was actually trying to spare her from that like, yeah, the audacity, but also he knows for a fact that she didn’t come up in Cedric’s dying wishes and she doesn’t need to know that it will just hurt her more. At least he did that right.
@@EmberAlexander-x5h Well Cedric was thinking about his parents because he knew they would feel the worst of it. From my understanding, he was an only child so his parents finding out that their only child is dead would rock their whole world. So, of course he would only talk to Harry about bringing his body back to his parents before thinking of his girlfriend. It doesn't mean he wasn't thinking or didn't care about Cho, it just means he prioritized his parents first. And I can't blame him for that.
Harry didnt deserve the nightmare that was that valentines date. Yeah he made some mistakes, but Cho should have maybe realized that watching Cedric be murdered maybe isn't a memory Harry would like to relive. Cho probably should have gone for a guy who didn't witness the murder of her last bf
What if Cedric secretly didn't like it but went there with Cho because Cho liked it and he liked her? I think that would be something he would do, or he just genuinely enjoyed it, idk.
That’s exactly what he did. I don’t care what anyone else says. Tbh I’m surprised so many people didn’t pick up this subtlety. The fact she is only thinking of herself while she’s with Harry hints at this too. Because people don’t suddenly change their behavior and personality. It’s likely that Cedric was a people pleaser (that is how he’s shown to be) and that he was the same way with Cho.
I believe that's what happened. Cedirc seemed to be a kind person who would put others before him, especially if he cared abt them (just as he did trying to protect Harry, even if they weren't exactly friends). Cho was always so selfish and that hints at the fact Cedirc would do anything she wanted just to see her happy because he liked her. That is why I'm so thankful we got Luna as a representative afterwards, because it shows how much variety in the personality trait there is from a Ravenclaw to another without taking out the unhinged part that makes us a claw
@@inestabilidad Cedric didn't especially care about Harry...he didn't know him at all. He was chivalrous, and protecting Harry because it was the right thing to do. The entire series is about Harry protecting strangers, but Harry is the farther thing from a people pleaser. Maybe Cho and Cedric dating for so long because they liked the same things. Harry and Cho's biggest problem is not that Cho is selfish...it's that they process grief in completely different ways. Cho's way of dealing is to talk about it AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE. Knowing the facts of how Cedric died helps her. The uncertainty kills her. Harry bottles that shit up TIGHTLY and that helps him keep going. Cho wears her emotions on her sleeve. It's through this relationship Harry finds out what trait he DOES NOT want in a girlfriend. This is contrasted with Ginny later on, where she isn't emotional and doesn't cry easily when things get difficult, which Harry very much appreciates.
I think the fact that Cho had such a hard time getting over him, and his father breaking down like that, even Krum was in mourning; Feels like Cedric was probably the best guy ever
Look, I understand a 16/17 year old girl whose boyfriend died wondering if, like, his last words were her name or something but Harry's traumatised too, Cho. Jeez this scene is uncomfortable in the book. 😬
I think she DID think about it, I think that´s why she hoped to get a conection... 1. Because she wanted closure and 2. I think she asumed Harry felt the same way about Cedrics death... She probably just failed to realize that Harry didn´t deal with death the same way she did She probably intentionally or unintantionally searched for somebody to share her feelings with and talk about Cedrics death... The problem was: Harry didn´t want to talk about it and she didn´t understand that...
This convo really just shows that perhaps two grieving people, especially two grieving teenagers who are already confused and traumatized enough as it is, definitely should not be dating each other. Neither of them could handle this relationship, hell, most adults wouldn’t be able to handle it. There were way too many minefields and it required someone emotionally mature to navigate it, which neither Cho nor Harry should be expected to do given their age. There definitely should have been an adult around to help them.
@ bassasababarebelbeans5657 Uh….Harry SAW her boyfriend get killed moments before seeing the man who killed his parents brought back to life. She’s not the only one dealing with grief/trauma FFS. Lets it pretend SHE understood HIS situation , either. 🤦
“Did Cedric say something about me before he died?” Cedric: “Did you know the cup was a port key?” “Wands out, do’you reckon?” “Someone’s coming.” “Cho was the best gf in the whole world. Her smile rose the skies. Her eyes like diamonds. She flew better than anyone I ever knew, she was truly the best. She always wants there if I needed to talk to someone. She is the most perfect being to ever exist. Oh yeah- take my body back to my parents, will you Harry?”
Cho reminded me of this popular girl I was friends with. I admired her so much. She was pretty, modest, smart and talked to me like a real friend, unlike everyone else who talked down to me because I was "special needs". I only knew her in art class though. Fourth year comes and we're put in the same form. She's still very friendly but I notice the cracks. She refuses to befriend a bullied girl because she's worried her bullies will dislike her. She says she has no patience to talk to an autistic girl because she just can't bear it. The icing on the cake is when she invites everyone to her 16th birthday party, even people she's just met, but not me who she's known for 3 years because I wouldn't enjoy it. Kind people can be just as cruel and awful in the face of pain. For Cho it's grief and for Ella it was low self esteem.
Bro was kinda dying and was mainly concentrating on his poor father who would of course be horrified to not only hear that his son as dead but that his body was lost in that graveyard. I'm sure he loved Cho but in this case, family most certainly came first.
I'm so glad Ravenclaws got Luna later because having CHO represent us in the beginning was EMBARRASSING. I understand she's traumatized, but maybe Don't Date Till You're OK Again. She didn't need a boyfriend at the time, she needed a damn therapist
@Holly J she was 15. I cut teens a lot of slack because they are constantly learning from their experiences. This is the beauty of a colorful life. Luna will always be cooler though :)
Cho started crying, Harry reached across the table to grab her hand, she pulled away, and Harry reached for his drink to recover from that denial. Harry: “Can we not talk about Cedric?” Cho: “I thought you’d WANT to talk about Cedric!”
Harry always tried to avoid talking about his feelings and what worried him, isolating himself. Cho wanted to express how she felt and to talk about it. They didn't understand each other
@@pal17181I mean... putting it like that makes her seem more reasonable. But no. The girl was an emotional wreck that kept weirdly projecting her feelings towards her dead ex-boyfriend onto her current boyfriend who was also still not really over the other guys death. Being open about your feelings means nothing when you still can't work through them.
@@pal17181nah, don't try to redeem cho with some weird mushy gaslight She wasn't trynna talk about her feelings She was trynna talk about CEDRIC, ya doof
@@bryancross8068well…yeah…seeing as Cedric’s DEATH was the reason Cho was experiencing all those feelings I’d think he’d come up a few times in conversation…
As a stressed-out fifteen year old boy… I think Harry kinda did okay at holding it together. He more or less remembered words, at least. Now, I’m gonna go make cookies with my Hufflepuff wife.
That's why I love Goblet of fire and the next book so much. There is a lot of emotional dilemmas and nuances going on with Harry. It's so goooood. The anger and frustration building up during goblet of fire. It's very well written, Harry processes those emotions and behaves as a real human being
when I was reading this scene in the book, let me tell you that midway through the convo I had to close the book shut and let myself cope with the embarrassment for 5 minutes before I was able to continue reading 💀
I never understood why Cho even dated Harry it was like every time all she wanted was to ask about Cedric and how he died the thing Harry never wanted to talk about again.
@@carolinpurayidom4570 you know considering how some people like to give cho the trait of being someone emotionally intelligent, she sure was dumb for that choice.
Honestly i think it would have been less of an issue if she didn't "date" him and just invited him to have coffee somewhere not so pink and lacey. Honestly the fact that she specifically made it a valentines date made it worse.
Love that she got offended when he didn't want to recount Cedric's dying moments, went all possessive jealous girlfriend because he mentioned the girl he'd been friends with for years, and repeatedly brought up her now-dead ex all in one date, yet she was mad at HARRY for dipping.
@@Goo_S_ee I've even seen people defending her saying "Well, she's just looking for closure from Harry because she can't deal with losing Cedric!" But like, what about HARRY? Poor guy had to WATCH Cedric be murdered, then deal with Cho begging him to remember and talk about it.
@@Goo_S_ee Right. And then you add in Cho being needlessly jealous about Harry hanging out with Hermione, who had been one of his best friends for almost five years at that point, then her bringing up "Well Cedric did this, Cedric liked that", and you can really get why he'd blow up at her.
I feel bad for both of them Cho needs therapy that she’s not getting she needs closure she’s not getting. But Harry has talked about Cedric with his friends people he knows better, he doesn’t want to talk about him anymore he wants to learn about Cho and have a nice time on his first date.
It was litterally the worst possible thing to say at that date 😅 Her question showed Harry not only that she wasn't over Cedric at all and still dating him, it also triggered Harrys own trauma from Cedrics death. Cho used Harry to get over Cedric. And nothing more.
I remember Cedric’s last words very well they were so impactful when I read the books. “Harry take my body back, take my body back to my father. Oh and also smash Cho you got this bro…” then the fist bump from beyond the grave as harry dove for the portkey
Your version of the scenes between Harry and his “girlfriends” not even with Cho they were in the talking stage, Ginny well, complicated they were on and off, are so much better
It’s great seeing people in the comments acknowledging Harry’s trauma too. This was an interaction between two kids who both experienced trauma. It’s understandable they are both struggling.
Cho was grieving and couldn’t see/understand how traumatized Harry was. It’s sad, but it was best they didn’t stay together. I don’t think they wrote her well in the movies.
It was a surprisingly realistic Problematic Teen Couple™ I was actually kind of impressed with their writing in the book specifically _because_ it came out exactly as it was intended, compared to Rowling's track history with romance. I'm kinda on that side that loves HP but dislikes Rowling and has a lot of critiques about the series in general lol
I kinda understand cho being like that and the way harry tried to shoulder it all without showing his own trauma from the outside would make him look like this strong in control hero figure to a heartbroken teen girl. If you didn't know harry well you might buy it. It sucked for both of them cause I think if they'd had some counseling after Cedric died they might have made it work
As a young widow dipping my toes into the dating scene again, I kinda get Cho. She's asking him those questions because she needs closure. She's a teenager and these are really difficult feelings to process even for an adult so you could see why She's so self absorbed in her own grief not realizing Harry is also having a hard time. If Cho were a real person, it would take her years of therapy to get over that. Cedric was her perfect man. She'll probably go through a couple more boyfriends and compare them to Cedric all the time.
I was thinking along these lines as well... these are traumatized teens without any emotionally stable role models... they both did better than I would expect of kids under those horrific circumstances
Copypasting for simplicity: In her defense, she knew and was grieving the guy. Harry probably shouldn't have pounced at the opportunity like it was a case of "she's now single!"
Yeah it's not a pretty picture, but she's 15 and grieving and in high school. It's not like she's got the wisdom of the old nursing home lady whose husband dies peacefully in his sleep
I remember while reading the books I was totally on Harry’s side- like come on Cho, the man is dead, it’s probably not a great idea to get into another relationship and then only talk about him
I remember in the books,while at this place Harry actually tries to like the place and he even tried to reach his hand and hold Cho's. But she didn't care at that moment
I have a feeling 20 years later Cho would remember that moment and feel incredibly embarrassed.
Embarrassed why, because she have emotions?
@@lucyk2634 No, because the conversation was utterly lacking in empathy for what Harry had gone through, and she picked the worse possible time and place to have it. I have never thought badly of Cho for her breakdowns, I liked her better for them. But struggling with emotions isn't justification for not trying to understand other people's emotions. Lack of experience is a justification though, and one that teenagers absolutely have a right to. Once she's older and more experience in human relationships I do think Cho (and Harry too, tbh) would be embarrassed at how badly that conversation was mishandled. That's why I said "twenty years later" and not "the very next day".
Actually she and Harry handled their relationship extremely poorly. It didn't help that what they needed at the time was very different, and neither of them understood what the other needed enough to even try to give it to them. Cho had been dealing with a crippling lack of closure, and Harry desperately wanted a break from it all.
In truth, they should have had a talk about what happened long before they went on a date (I believe it was mostly Harry's fault they didn't. He avoided her for the first half of that book didn't he?). Harry had the means to give her closure. And had they had that talk, Cho might have understood how much Harry just needed a moment of levity in his life to just let go of all the things plaguing him.
I think they'll both look back on it as a very awkward moment in their life as they mature and realise just how little effort they made to understand the person they were trying to date. The reason I think it would be embarrassing to look back on is because with just a bit more forethought and a little less self-centredness it could have gone much smoother. I cringe at remembering moments from my teenage years that at the time I thought were perfectly normal, let alone situations like this where everything went wrong. Hopefully it was a learning experience for any relationships, romantic and not, they would have in the future and take it as a lesson on the importance of taking the time to communicate properly and pay attention to the other person.
@@anivijudiJust wanna say, excellent explanation. 💯
Oh for sure yes, she’s going to cringe hard at this whole memory for ever lmao
@@anivijudivery well said and explained. Exactly how I feel, and I agree.
“Harry take my body back. Take my body back to my father, and tell Cho…I think we should see other people.”
Girllll im dying
@@yardenlev6487So was Cedric
@@kbye2321YOU DIDN'T ANSWERED THAT SO CALMLY 😭😂😂😂😂❤
He wanted him to take it back because Cho is a secret cannibal
Cedric - “Also Harry, don’t think about dating Cho. That bitch is crazy”
Imagine going on a Valentine's date with a girl who just wants to talk about her dead ex; her dead ex who you saw die with your own eyes.
Cho is the kind of person who wants to talk about her feelings and what bothers her.
While Harry rather keeps stuff for himself.
And since Cendric is the thing that bothers her the most, of course she's going to talk about him.
What she did wrong was to compare Harry with Cendric and her other Ex's on Valentine's Day. But that isn't what disturbs you because that's not what you mentioned.
@@pando0884i mean if Harry was abit more nicer to her and actually explained what happened to Cedric im sure they could've had a nice date, and Cho wouldn't talk so much about cedric anymore. Cho only needed clarification for WHAT happened with Cedric as she's probably confused cos of the ministry and being claiming Dumbledore is a liar and stuff, but instead of harry helping her he messes it up by becoming angry. He didn't even bother apologising to her
Thats why she wanted to speak about it, because harry SAW WHAT ACTUALLY HAPPENDED; and so all she wants is clarification and the truth of what happened. If harry actually told her nicely, she mightve been able to move on from cedric to harry fully.
@@abirchowdhury6377 Lmao people coming at me, jumping to Cho's defence. It's a joke, it's not that deep. Calm down 🙄
@@abirchowdhury6377 yeah but maybe harry doesn't want to talk about the time he saw a classmate (friend) die right in front of him and then got to spend the rest of the evening being tortured, fighting for his life, and seeing the ghost echoes of his parents and said classmate all before being taken away by the guy who set him up for the tournament which allowed him to get kidnapped to the place his classmate died and he was tortured in the first place who then tried to kill him again.
maybe harry doesn't want to talk about one of the most traumatic nights of his life.
“Cedric liked this place”
“Do I look dead to you?”
Lmaooo
"No but with the way things are going you're half way there"
Talk about comebacks
😂😂😂😂
@@Krymeariver1003"after being in a relationship with you I want to be more than halfway there."
I fr think Cedric liked Harry more than Cho💀
fr tho , he is so much better than what cho deserves
He certainly thought about him more lol.
This made me laugh out loud 😂
The potter parodies follow this theory
Ngl I dig it
Harry even tried to comfort her and slide it away and Cho kept sobbing and saying Harry didn't care. Goodness Chang, he's traumatized too.
Yeah
Fr
She was the worst
Exactly!!!That's what I am always saying!
People are like:Cho is wonderful,you don't have read if you say the opposite.I read the books but I didn't like her behavior towards Harry when they were dating.
Yess
“I’m curious what I ever did to make you think I would enjoy a place like this, ‘cause I just want to make sure I never do it again” is a phrase pulled from deep in my soul
I mean Harry could have also talked with Cho so they could plan a date where they did something they both enjoyed. As far as I can tell Cho isn’t a mind reader who can instantly figure out what Harry would and wouldn’t like to do. Harry not speaking up and telling Cho that might not enjoy having tea at an extremely frilly place is on him and him alone.
@@morganyoung3557I think his problem was -how she thought that he (the new boyfriend) would like to visit the place her ex (also dead) liked.
@@morganyoung3557Doesn’t take a mind reader to not take you current date to your dead ex’s favorite spot as a first date. But who knows… I mean Harry bad Harry stupid Harry don’t communicate goods.
@@cubone44 I hardly think Harry is bad or stupid, the guy is one of my top three favorite characters. I just think that he could have been better at communicating with Cho and planned a date around something that they would both enjoy.
@@cubone44 I do actually think Harry is bad and stupid no complaints here
"...well Cedric liked it"
That's the hardest Cho has ever Choed in the history of Choing holy fck
I never thought of it like that, but you are ABSOLUTELY RIGHT
aaaand, what does Cedric have to do
with, *ME* ??? Do I look like Cedric????
Wait. Is this why lame people are called chodes? Makes so much more sense now!
Cedric didn’t even like it probably he was just nice to her.
Chos gonna Cho
The killing curse is instant Cho. Being a Ravenclaw you should know this.
Yeah, but Cedric asked him to bring his body back during the priori incantatem so theoretically he could've slipped a Cho message in there.
@@propogandalfI don't think Cho knew about that
Grief will steal all rational thoughts from you. Even the most intelligent people become panicked, irrational, fools.
@@eve3p0 Fax
Hogwarts REALLY needed a therapist.
You know what, as a therapist and school counselor myself, I always thought the same! I mean, who does take emotional care of 11 years old, pre-teens and teens who get isolated from the rest of the world for most of these 7 years that are crucial to their development? Who does help them through the struggles of missing home, becoming more independent, going through puberty, discovering their sexuality, building their own identity, working through the typical fears and existential questions of that age, coping with the fact that they are in a golden cage where you are screwed if you don't get along because you literally don't have anything and anyone else? The professors? Filch? Madame Pomfrey? Hello McGonagall, may I apply for next school year?
the therapist would run away then 😂
Fr
If Hogwarts had a therapist it would be more cursed than the self against the dark arts teacher purely from all the problems of the students😂😂
The therapist would probably end up being the new annual hire courtesy of DUMBledore that tries to kill someone.
Lol it's so easy to dunk on Harry for how he's behaving toward Cho until you remember the absolute trauma he went through 😅
they both needed therapy, 100% Dumbledore’s fault for not proving Hogwarts grief counselors 😭
@@magicbymikaila Okay but imagine Hogwarts with guidance counselors.
@@magicbymikaila the students of Hogwarts seriously need mental help though 😭😭😭
@@yn-thequeen...6958
Counselor: Okay Harry, what would you like to pursue after sch-
Harry: I miss my godfather.
@@ABagelLeftOnTheRoadside Yes
Cho: Cedric liked it
Harry: Bitch do I look like-
...a cuck?
I mean Harry technically died at the end before choosing life again so maybe she couldn’t tell the difference between Harry and Cedric because she can see the fture
@@this_is_my_handle_peoplewhat💀
@@this_is_my_handle_people Pardon 😃
@@Average_Book_Enjoyer if she can see the future and he and cedric both technically die/died, maybe her mind couldn't separate the two and she used harry as a cedric wannabe/replacement. IT WAS A TWO AM THOUGHT DON'T YELL AT ME PLEASE thx
and then she would say "Cedric wouldn't have treated me like this"
And she ends up with a Muggle lmaooo. She really blew her chance with Harry
What's wrong with muggles?
@@Gabster1990 everything, i hate those filthy nomajes
@@Phoenix-pm2qrwhen did they say that?
@@Gabster1990 muggles are not as cool as witches or wizards.
Also pureblood ftw.
Harry wishing Death Eaters would attack to get him out of Madame Puddifoots so he could burn it down is something that never fails to make me laugh. Like this tea shop is the real enemy. Forget Voldemort.
This Convo made their break up understandable and okay to me. In the movies, they just made her "snitch", made Harry ditch her without even listening to her, finding out she was drugged with verita-serum and didn't talk to her or apologize anyway. Made me feel sorry for movie Cho and sad for the break up, while the book-break up was just legit and logical.
Cedric was killed so quickly he didn't have time to wax poetic about the chick he was smashing. He did posthumously request Harry bring his body back to his parents. Now that's a good boy.
Yeah
I hough doubt they were smaching they only dated for a while
@@carolinpurayidom4570well my dad got my mom pregnant like 4 months into their relationship
@@manlyburlymenwhat a flex 10/10 REALLY
Snogging****
“Bring my body back, Harry. And tell my sexy girlfriend I miss her sexy lips”
And that "sexy girlfriend" is Harry wbk💅
No. "And tell Cho I love her" - that what he would said.
@@lucyk2634 "And tell Cho she had the biggest ti-"
Can you even imagine, how much the energy in that graveyard would change? Instantly everyone is extremely uncomfortable. Just instant and irreversible mood shift. Harry comes back in a state of muffled shock trying to figure out how he's even supposed to feel about this. Voldemort is planning to Obliviate the entire experience from his mind.
This one had me dying 😂
Dude, imagine professor McGonagall as a guidance counselor. “Have a biscuit.”
Lmao
I’d be there every day🤣
"But I'm not- I don't want a biscuit."
"And I said have a biscuit"
@AlexBlackburn-fg5ulhere, have some chocolate
lmao
I guess it takes someone like Cho to help you realize you're not as messed up as you thought you were.
Cho was having a hard time dealing with her boyfriend's tragic death. She didn't know she was a side character in Harry's story
tbh cho was so bad for harry
rlly making him her second choice and using him to get over cedric’s death
She was very cruel to him and he tryed so hard. The worst was in the room of requirement and he kissed her and she starts crying and talking about Cedric it was creepy. No one could save that. But it lead yo the best explanation of the female to male brain and my favorite line from Ron being no one could think all that it would drive you crazy or make you go mad. Lol
@@rachelcrawford1977 No. the entire HP series should not be taken as an explanation for female brains. JK Rowling HATED feminine women, that’s why she made Cho act so odd and Hermione the “main tomboy girl who hangs with boys”. JK Rowling is a horrible person.
@@honeyeggs9145 lmao what? 🤣 freezing cold take
@@honeyeggs9145 Umm calm down no she is not and she doesn't hate feminine women this sort of internalised mysogny is ingrained in that time
@@rachelcrawford1977 SHe wasn't cruel just broken hearted and grieving it was a human mistake
Months ago a guy died. A second guy that was there when he died is now dating the dead guy's girlfriend. This girl often cries about her dead boyfriend when her new one is around. Hogwarts needs a therapist ASAP.
I second all those kids need therapy
Given how bad some therapists can be, they'd either make Hogwarts kids worse, or we're already looking at the results of a whole staff of school's therapists. Heck, Snape might be a licensed muggle therapist.
There some good therapists though @@MegaKnight2012
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Grief will have you doing and thinking the wildest of things. Truly.
Cho’s like “my boyfriend died harry why can’t you pity me” and harry is like “I was the one who had to watch the life drain out of his eyes as he was brutally murdered while the man that had been trying to kill me since I was a baby was fully resurrected and I was utterly helpless”
Man, that conversation is so satisfying knowing how their relationship turned out to be and if this conversation happened between them then still Ginny would've been married to Harry because books Ginny is a savage😂
In her defense, she knew and was grieving the guy. Harry probably shouldn't have pounced at the opportunity like it was a case of " She's now single!"
@@nadiarey4196 maybe you didn't read the books patiently, Harry liked Cho way before she was with Cedric and was utterly heartbroken when he found out that they are dating. Harry was shattered watching Cedric die in front of his eyes and surrounded by a fully resurrected Voldemort and a bunch of his death eater he still kept his word to the ghost of Cedric to bring his body back. He never pounced on the opportunity that Cho's single but she came up to him to grieve together but Harry had no time to console her as he was surrounded by conspiracies, plots and Voldemort's impending attack on him. Maybe it would have been different if he was free of his burden but Cho showed that she wanted all of Harry's attention and affection for herself which Ginny never did, even knowing that Harry is starting on a path that would lead to his death she smiled at him and said her goodbye.
Not them having a pity party
Exactly tho. Cho just wanted Harry’s pity and Harry was like “bitch I need pity too get in line.”
This is why I love Harry Potter so much. Everyone is just a messy regular teenager with the same heartbreak stuff. In Marvel, the characters are ALWAYS put together, always know how to say the right thing. But in Harry Potter, he's a hero but he's also a clueless kid trying to figure out life with his friends. This part I feel is the real magic in Harry Potter.
I just love how unhinged Book Harry Potter was at times 😂😂
When you get the Avada you don't have time to think about your girlfriend
Thank goodness
Well...Harry thought about Ginny 😅 but I understand what you are saying and you're right. Cedric didn't know it was coming. 😢
Except the same echo that told Harry to take Cedric's body back did have time to say something about Cho 😉
@@brandonreed09 Did he? Did they have the Priori Incantatem for so long that he could talk about Cho? NO
When you get Avada’d all that’s left is the kadaver-a.
Cho was just with Harry because she thought they both could cry about Cedric and because she didn't wanted to be alone. Harry genuinely liked her and wanted to date her and really tried hard to help her while doing so and all she did was wining, crying and blaming Harry for not behaving perfectly. She was unnecessarily jealous as well. God I hate how she treated him.
I kind of hate how he treated her. At one point he makes fun of her for crying. Another time after they break up, he's excited to hear that Cho lost at quidditch and asks if she cried about it. Cho wants to talk about Cedric Harry says that he does talk to Ron and Hermoine about it.
Not only is he basically saying that he values his mates more than his girlfriend this is a lie. He doesn't talk about it. It would be good for him to discuss this with Cho. Also, Harry is just stupid. Cho is mildly jealous of Hermoine, and instead of clearing this up, he says Cho is crazy for being jealous and lets things escalate.
Also, who cuts their first date short to hang out with a friend they already see daily? I never got the feeling that Harry valued Cho. He didn't care much when they broke up. As a guy reading this, I can't help but think that Harry is just a bad boyfriend. What Cho did was wrong, but Harry made her feel even worse than she already felt.
@@nanoff815 you’re kinda forgetting the trauma that Harry went through the year before, and the fact she put herself before him all the time. He went through a lot that year, and he was angry at a lot of people. I’m not excusing and saying he SHOULD have done it but it just makes sense because of how Cho treated him that he got angry at her afterward and got a little spiteful. We are all humans to be fair.
@@mcduckthechicken7030 Fair enough but before this date Hermione literally told him how conflicted and sad Cho was and gave a girls to boys translation. Harry is aware of the conflict in her heart and I think he should have been more sympathetic/empathetic. I don't think this is a narrative flaw by the way.
@@nanoff815 How conflicted and sad Cho was? Was she the one who had to watch Cedric die? Was she the one getting slandered all over wizarding Britian? No. No she wasn't. She thought bringing up her dead ex to the boy who watched him die was a good idea whilst they were on a date and has the audacity to get mad at him for bringing up Hermione? I understand the girl had a lot of questions and was still grieving, but the way she treated Harry was completely stupid. Harry tried to comfort her, he tried to change the subject because thr subject seemed to make her sad. If anything she was being completely cruel to Harry and was being pretty much the opposite of empathetic.
Well she was 15 yo kid whose first bf just died.. I agree that her behavior was selfish and annoying but I can’t blame her for that
Their whole relationship felt like Cedric0's exes competing over who was mourning him the 'right' way.
Bro. Yes!
I always felt bad for Cho. She was clearly struggling.
Exactly! I hate how people hate her because she was struggling.
Even Hermione explained why Cho was struggling so much.
She was a teenage girl who had just lost her boyfriend.
People need to chill.
But sadly, people love to be play judge.
@@jollyquinn430 The things is, regardless of her struggling, it still doesn't make it right. Yeah we can understand, but we can also understand when something just isn't excusable or justifiable.
Like “did Cedric say anything about me” is the kind of thing you /really shouldn’t say out loud/ but of course she’s going to think about it, and 16 year olds generally have poor brain-mouth filters.
And yeah, kind of feel bad for her because while /of course/ he didn’t say anything when he died, we know that he actually did have an opportunity to communicate his last wishes to Harry and didn’t think of her so….I mean he was 17 and they hadn’t been together very long but still. Sucks to find out that you cared more than your partner did. If she’d been dying she probably would have thought of him and finding out that he didn’t….would hurt.
I always kind of thought Harry was actually trying to spare her from that like, yeah, the audacity, but also he knows for a fact that she didn’t come up in Cedric’s dying wishes and she doesn’t need to know that it will just hurt her more. At least he did that right.
@@EmberAlexander-x5h Well Cedric was thinking about his parents because he knew they would feel the worst of it. From my understanding, he was an only child so his parents finding out that their only child is dead would rock their whole world. So, of course he would only talk to Harry about bringing his body back to his parents before thinking of his girlfriend. It doesn't mean he wasn't thinking or didn't care about Cho, it just means he prioritized his parents first. And I can't blame him for that.
@chaoticviewer7893 agreed
"Because he was too busy getting FUCKING MURDERED" yeah he did seem a little preoccupied
Harry didnt deserve the nightmare that was that valentines date. Yeah he made some mistakes, but Cho should have maybe realized that watching Cedric be murdered maybe isn't a memory Harry would like to relive. Cho probably should have gone for a guy who didn't witness the murder of her last bf
@@elation.e So did Cedric
Imagine dating the guy who watched your boyfriend get murdered and never talking about anything other than said boyfriend
@@KJ-kn9gd TOO SOON ☠️☠️☠️
@@KJ-kn9gd LMFAO TOO SOON MY GUY
@W still don't understand how she is a Ravenclaw
I like how Cho in the books is completely grief struck while Cho in the movies is like: I’m sad
She also came off kind of a snob
She's like: I'm sad. Hey harry wanna meet up after curfew 😘😏
Literally came off as "Oh no!! ...anyways-"
@@RandomTheAthenaDemigod this didn’t land
What if Cedric secretly didn't like it but went there with Cho because Cho liked it and he liked her? I think that would be something he would do, or he just genuinely enjoyed it, idk.
Knowing cedric he definitely would have done that. Loving partners and spouses, and an emotionally adpet one at that, do that well.
That’s exactly what he did. I don’t care what anyone else says.
Tbh I’m surprised so many people didn’t pick up this subtlety.
The fact she is only thinking of herself while she’s with Harry hints at this too. Because people don’t suddenly change their behavior and personality.
It’s likely that Cedric was a people pleaser (that is how he’s shown to be) and that he was the same way with Cho.
I believe that's what happened. Cedirc seemed to be a kind person who would put others before him, especially if he cared abt them (just as he did trying to protect Harry, even if they weren't exactly friends). Cho was always so selfish and that hints at the fact Cedirc would do anything she wanted just to see her happy because he liked her. That is why I'm so thankful we got Luna as a representative afterwards, because it shows how much variety in the personality trait there is from a Ravenclaw to another without taking out the unhinged part that makes us a claw
@@narnia1233 Cedric was never shown to be a people pleaser, in any way.
Cedric was a golden boy. He was more of a jock than anything.
@@inestabilidad Cedric didn't especially care about Harry...he didn't know him at all. He was chivalrous, and protecting Harry because it was the right thing to do.
The entire series is about Harry protecting strangers, but Harry is the farther thing from a people pleaser.
Maybe Cho and Cedric dating for so long because they liked the same things.
Harry and Cho's biggest problem is not that Cho is selfish...it's that they process grief in completely different ways.
Cho's way of dealing is to talk about it AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE. Knowing the facts of how Cedric died helps her. The uncertainty kills her.
Harry bottles that shit up TIGHTLY and that helps him keep going.
Cho wears her emotions on her sleeve. It's through this relationship Harry finds out what trait he DOES NOT want in a girlfriend.
This is contrasted with Ginny later on, where she isn't emotional and doesn't cry easily when things get difficult, which Harry very much appreciates.
“You can breathe? Cedric used to breathe…”
I think the fact that Cho had such a hard time getting over him, and his father breaking down like that, even Krum was in mourning;
Feels like Cedric was probably the best guy ever
Look, I understand a 16/17 year old girl whose boyfriend died wondering if, like, his last words were her name or something but Harry's traumatised too, Cho. Jeez this scene is uncomfortable in the book. 😬
Asking that isn't the problem.. asking ON A DATE is
She wasnt even that old yet.
@@DaleHammersIII Actually she was. She's a year older than Harry, she was in her 6th year, he was in his fifth
@@onceafetus426 Fair point, I forgot she was older than Harry by a year.
@@onceafetus426 wasn't this on his 4th year? Cho was in her 5th, so she's 15.
I remember this she never even thought aboit how harry witnessed his death
I think she DID think about it, I think that´s why she hoped to get a conection...
1. Because she wanted closure
and
2. I think she asumed Harry felt the same way about Cedrics death...
She probably just failed to realize that Harry didn´t deal with death the same way she did
She probably intentionally or unintantionally searched for somebody to share her feelings with and talk about Cedrics death...
The problem was:
Harry didn´t want to talk about it and she didn´t understand that...
@@helenakausch1102 Harry was propense to be a bit...callous over the years. Gryffindor, to be sure. -Sorting Hat
This convo really just shows that perhaps two grieving people, especially two grieving teenagers who are already confused and traumatized enough as it is, definitely should not be dating each other. Neither of them could handle this relationship, hell, most adults wouldn’t be able to handle it. There were way too many minefields and it required someone emotionally mature to navigate it, which neither Cho nor Harry should be expected to do given their age. There definitely should have been an adult around to help them.
I felt so bad for Cho. Harry just did not understand her, and she just really needed a shoulder to cry on, not a boyfriend.
@ bassasababarebelbeans5657
Uh….Harry SAW her boyfriend get killed moments before seeing the man who killed his parents brought back to life.
She’s not the only one dealing with grief/trauma FFS. Lets it pretend SHE understood HIS situation , either. 🤦
I’m glad someone finally brought up how horrible Cho was
“Did Cedric say something about me before he died?”
Cedric: “Did you know the cup was a port key?”
“Wands out, do’you reckon?”
“Someone’s coming.”
“Cho was the best gf in the whole world. Her smile rose the skies. Her eyes like diamonds. She flew better than anyone I ever knew, she was truly the best. She always wants there if I needed to talk to someone. She is the most perfect being to ever exist. Oh yeah- take my body back to my parents, will you Harry?”
bruh
I *FIND* this very funny
Just as I remember it.
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And also it's okay to date my girlfriend in a couple of months cuz I'm dead anyway
Won’t lie Cho done peeved me off in the books. 😂😂 I was all like, “If you didn’t want Harry-don’t date Harry??”
Cho: "did Cedric say anything about me before he died"
Harry: "... What is it about INSTANTANEOUS that you don't understand Cho?"
Cho reminded me of this popular girl I was friends with. I admired her so much. She was pretty, modest, smart and talked to me like a real friend, unlike everyone else who talked down to me because I was "special needs". I only knew her in art class though. Fourth year comes and we're put in the same form. She's still very friendly but I notice the cracks. She refuses to befriend a bullied girl because she's worried her bullies will dislike her. She says she has no patience to talk to an autistic girl because she just can't bear it. The icing on the cake is when she invites everyone to her 16th birthday party, even people she's just met, but not me who she's known for 3 years because I wouldn't enjoy it. Kind people can be just as cruel and awful in the face of pain. For Cho it's grief and for Ella it was low self esteem.
And poor guy was so damn excited about that date😭
I didn't realize how much we needed the book characters to be properly brought to life until I stumbled on your shorts, thank you UA-cam algorithm.
Muggle borns: hey can we get grief counseling?
Dumbledore: just magic the grief away with love ❤️ 😍 💖 ❣️ 💕 💘
I mean, obliviate those memories away lol.
@@higglybiggly1174I wonder if the unresolved pain would still be there, though?
Just "Flick and Swish" 😅
@@higglybiggly1174Wizard 101: If magical brainwashing isn't solving your problems, then you're not using it enough
Bro was kinda dying and was mainly concentrating on his poor father who would of course be horrified to not only hear that his son as dead but that his body was lost in that graveyard. I'm sure he loved Cho but in this case, family most certainly came first.
Kinda? 😭 Gurl he was instant dying.
I don't know about "love". They were dating for like a few months.
@@rahmahchowdhury4856 That’s how teens are
When Cho asked that question…my reaction was exactly the same as Harry’s .🫠
"Cedric liked it," no he didn't, Cedric was just too damn nice to tell you.
I'm so glad Ravenclaws got Luna later because having CHO represent us in the beginning was EMBARRASSING. I understand she's traumatized, but maybe Don't Date Till You're OK Again. She didn't need a boyfriend at the time, she needed a damn therapist
yes as a fellow claw i agree
If she stayed as the representations of us claws I would prefer to be thrown off a cliff by a Slytherin
@Holly J she was 15. I cut teens a lot of slack because they are constantly learning from their experiences. This is the beauty of a colorful life. Luna will always be cooler though :)
Exactly! Aren't us claws supposed to be smart, and resourceful. Cho did not seem to have those traits.
As a fellow ravenclaw I agree
Cho started crying, Harry reached across the table to grab her hand, she pulled away, and Harry reached for his drink to recover from that denial.
Harry: “Can we not talk about Cedric?”
Cho: “I thought you’d WANT to talk about Cedric!”
Harry always tried to avoid talking about his feelings and what worried him, isolating himself. Cho wanted to express how she felt and to talk about it. They didn't understand each other
@@pal17181I mean... putting it like that makes her seem more reasonable. But no. The girl was an emotional wreck that kept weirdly projecting her feelings towards her dead ex-boyfriend onto her current boyfriend who was also still not really over the other guys death. Being open about your feelings means nothing when you still can't work through them.
@@pal17181nah, don't try to redeem cho with some weird mushy gaslight
She wasn't trynna talk about her feelings
She was trynna talk about CEDRIC, ya doof
@@bryancross8068well…yeah…seeing as Cedric’s DEATH was the reason Cho was experiencing all those feelings I’d think he’d come up a few times in conversation…
@@bryancross8068She was fifteen fucking years old mourning the loss of a close person…. She’s redeemable.
This really puts into sight how toxic the relationship was 😂
As a stressed-out fifteen year old boy… I think Harry kinda did okay at holding it together. He more or less remembered words, at least.
Now, I’m gonna go make cookies with my Hufflepuff wife.
That's why I love Goblet of fire and the next book so much. There is a lot of emotional dilemmas and nuances going on with Harry. It's so goooood. The anger and frustration building up during goblet of fire. It's very well written, Harry processes those emotions and behaves as a real human being
when I was reading this scene in the book, let me tell you that midway through the convo I had to close the book shut and let myself cope with the embarrassment for 5 minutes before I was able to continue reading 💀
same
same.. but also, i speed read every scene cho was in, the moment i realized what was happening
I coped in the absolute opposite way, read through it so quickly and them let the embarassment over with as fast as I could 😢😂😂😂
I never understood why Cho even dated Harry it was like every time all she wanted was to ask about Cedric and how he died the thing Harry never wanted to talk about again.
She was greiveing and maye thought he was a way to get over his death
@@carolinpurayidom4570 you know considering how some people like to give cho the trait of being someone emotionally intelligent, she sure was dumb for that choice.
Honestly i think it would have been less of an issue if she didn't "date" him and just invited him to have coffee somewhere not so pink and lacey. Honestly the fact that she specifically made it a valentines date made it worse.
Harry liked Cho forever .
I think J K just wanted to add that character in for no reason
Love that she got offended when he didn't want to recount Cedric's dying moments, went all possessive jealous girlfriend because he mentioned the girl he'd been friends with for years, and repeatedly brought up her now-dead ex all in one date, yet she was mad at HARRY for dipping.
ITS SO MAD I CANT BELIEVE SOME PPL DEFEND HER JUST BCS SHES A GIRL
@@Goo_S_ee I've even seen people defending her saying "Well, she's just looking for closure from Harry because she can't deal with losing Cedric!" But like, what about HARRY? Poor guy had to WATCH Cedric be murdered, then deal with Cho begging him to remember and talk about it.
@@singingwolf8997 fr he was way more traumatised
@@Goo_S_ee Right. And then you add in Cho being needlessly jealous about Harry hanging out with Hermione, who had been one of his best friends for almost five years at that point, then her bringing up "Well Cedric did this, Cedric liked that", and you can really get why he'd blow up at her.
@@singingwolf8997Ginny was the best choice
Honestly...Cho embarrassed not just herself but the entire Ravenclaw 🥴
But honestly Cedric was so cool I wouldn't be able to ever get over him either
I feel bad for both of them Cho needs therapy that she’s not getting she needs closure she’s not getting.
But Harry has talked about Cedric with his friends people he knows better, he doesn’t want to talk about him anymore he wants to learn about Cho and have a nice time on his first date.
Cho: “yeah” 🤧
Harry: “No Cho, he didn’t yk why?”
Cho: “🤧?”
Harry: “ *BC HE WAS TOO BUSY GETTING F@!KING MURDERD* “
Harry: B/C he was too busy failing at something I succeeded at when I was a babe! Boy-Who-Lived OUT!
Harry: you know avada kadavra causes instant death right, keyword there being instant
@@zachsmith7836you missed, because of my mommy part.
@@sukhbaatarbyambasan5920he also live throw the second one because he was the master of death the forest one
It was litterally the worst possible thing to say at that date 😅
Her question showed Harry not only that she wasn't over Cedric at all and still dating him, it also triggered Harrys own trauma from Cedrics death.
Cho used Harry to get over Cedric. And nothing more.
And....then she says he keeps thinking about Hermione....well done cho👏👏👍
I remember Cedric’s last words very well they were so impactful when I read the books. “Harry take my body back, take my body back to my father. Oh and also smash Cho you got this bro…” then the fist bump from beyond the grave as harry dove for the portkey
Bro these skits make me want to re read Harry Potter🤣
Same, just to make fun of these stupid characters
@@inestabilidad real
That entire scene was unhinged and I love it.
Also he could've said, "Cerdric said that I should protect you and kiss you on his behalf."
I literally cried when Cedric died it was so emotional he was a really nice man to Harry 😭
THE FACE AT THE END I JUST CAN’T STOP LAUGHING 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I wish the scene had gone this way. So entertaining
Your version of the scenes between Harry and his “girlfriends” not even with Cho they were in the talking stage, Ginny well, complicated they were on and off, are so much better
What?
Completely unreadable..
Honestly I think out of all them Luna Lovegood was the best choice for Harry. ☺️💖
i remember this ans while reading im thinking how tf would ced have enough time for that? HES DYING CHO!!!
He didn't have enough time for the dying part, he just went from alive to dead
@@sebastian-dirtsubtraction It was like a little switch
“Dead or alive”
Not gonna lie this is my favourite part in the whole series 😂
you are so good at doing the book scenes, your bits are actually better than the movies
Cho: you’re so insensitive!😡
Harry: HOW-
cho grieving and harry traumatized
“Well Cedric…”
*about(?) to say dead*
“….was a hufflepuff.”
As a hufflepuff, I have to say,
burn that place to the ground.
Agreed.
Same
😂😂
As a hufflepuff I am - not providing the fire but I will claim to be a wittness, maybe.
I'm SlytherClaw but how do you save a comment? XD
These shorts are BRILLIANT!
It’s great seeing people in the comments acknowledging Harry’s trauma too. This was an interaction between two kids who both experienced trauma. It’s understandable they are both struggling.
Harry was THE SASS in the books I miss him
Okay I need to read that scene😂
It is SO BAD. An absolute train wreck. Completely entertaining
"Sorry Cho, he was to busy getting #@€/! murdered"
Will forever be my life quote now. Its a weird one but idfk.
Spot on. I like you.
@@mitsuri_the_mochi_lala :)
Harry is an absolute savage in the books 😂❤
Oh my word i remember this, Harry was so pissed. Every time i watch one of your videos i get the urge to rewatch Harry Potter
Cho was grieving and couldn’t see/understand how traumatized Harry was. It’s sad, but it was best they didn’t stay together. I don’t think they wrote her well in the movies.
She’s just as bad in the books. Except Harry grows a pair a single time and then regrets it all year.
It was a surprisingly realistic Problematic Teen Couple™
I was actually kind of impressed with their writing in the book specifically _because_ it came out exactly as it was intended, compared to Rowling's track history with romance. I'm kinda on that side that loves HP but dislikes Rowling and has a lot of critiques about the series in general lol
I kinda understand cho being like that and the way harry tried to shoulder it all without showing his own trauma from the outside would make him look like this strong in control hero figure to a heartbroken teen girl. If you didn't know harry well you might buy it. It sucked for both of them cause I think if they'd had some counseling after Cedric died they might have made it work
As a young widow dipping my toes into the dating scene again, I kinda get Cho. She's asking him those questions because she needs closure. She's a teenager and these are really difficult feelings to process even for an adult so you could see why She's so self absorbed in her own grief not realizing Harry is also having a hard time.
If Cho were a real person, it would take her years of therapy to get over that. Cedric was her perfect man. She'll probably go through a couple more boyfriends and compare them to Cedric all the time.
Yeah, I get that is bad comparing your SO to a corpse, what's worse is that the said new boy is the one who witnessed the death
I was thinking along these lines as well... these are traumatized teens without any emotionally stable role models... they both did better than I would expect of kids under those horrific circumstances
Copypasting for simplicity: In her defense, she knew and was grieving the guy. Harry probably shouldn't have pounced at the opportunity like it was a case of "she's now single!"
Yeah it's not a pretty picture, but she's 15 and grieving and in high school. It's not like she's got the wisdom of the old nursing home lady whose husband dies peacefully in his sleep
@@nadiarey4196 he didn't as Cho approached him first with hints.
I remember while reading the books I was totally on Harry’s side- like come on Cho, the man is dead, it’s probably not a great idea to get into another relationship and then only talk about him
The ending was accurately perfect!❤
“We’ll Cedric iss…(dead)…a hufflepuff…so 😀”
I shouldn't be laughing this hard. I. Should not. Be laughing. This hard!
🤣🤣🤣 IM IN TEARS AND DYING SOMEONE HELP!
Just like cedric
@@leobeboop4944 You didn´t XD
Avada Kedavra - there, out of your misery 😊
@@-Reagan lmao
pov: you get killed by Voldemort and can’t say anything about your girlfriend
That last shot of Cho crying is exactly how her cry face was described in the book. Fucking flawless
Instead harry finished the task for him, example of a good friend
Cho crying that her Twilight handsome vampire face man is instant dead dead and never thought of her.
Even Cedric’s ghost didn’t care.
Cedric just saying "bring my body back" and cheering harry on
That filter at the end sent me 💀💀💀
I remember in the books,while at this place Harry actually tries to like the place and he even tried to reach his hand and hold Cho's. But she didn't care at that moment
And after doing that, imagine if Cho gets detention from Miss Umbridge and writes on her hand 'I will not ask stupid questions '