How to Get Laid Part III

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  • Опубліковано 23 сер 2024
  • This is older material from my old A Voice for Men Channel, uploaded here by request. Some of it is dated, though most is still useful. I hope you enjoy.
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  • @antonionotbanderas9775
    @antonionotbanderas9775 11 місяців тому +4

    After watching this series I didn't get laid
    but at least I learned why:
    "Just attain mastery and self-actualization, bro"

  • @jeice13
    @jeice13 Рік тому +26

    I know youtube bias is bad for creators but i really appreciate the lack of adds on the content they try to hinder

    • @wanderingdoc5075
      @wanderingdoc5075 Рік тому +1

      Is this channel demonetized? The last time I listened to Paul he had around 8K subs.

    • @jeice13
      @jeice13 Рік тому +5

      @@wanderingdoc5075 anything anti woke. It was better before they switched to showing ads and keeping all the money (instead of splitting it with the video creator)

    • @devicemangler
      @devicemangler Рік тому +4

      @@wanderingdoc5075 The channels like this that are demonetized, but still keep going on without sponsors or adds remind me of the old internet without all the modern bullshit.

  • @pulsaran
    @pulsaran Рік тому +12

    I watch several "red pill" channels. You can pick out "ex"PUAs like fish out of a barrel, one can still hear there PUA mentality.
    Love that all the video's get on one channel, and seeing these old gems again ;-)

  • @SMuld
    @SMuld Рік тому +4

    I don't care if this gets me laid. This is amazing information.😊

  • @thedragonchaser
    @thedragonchaser Рік тому +7

    I tried talking my teenage nephew out of pretending he's a girl and he didn't care because the stranglehold his mother and public schooling had already sunk their teeth in

    • @andrewevans7992
      @andrewevans7992 2 місяці тому

      Yeah he will probably identify as LGBT or some bs.. I swear most people just wanna fit into something so they don’t feel left out or he got brainwashed

  • @zanejeffries8647
    @zanejeffries8647 2 місяці тому

    im 43 and this is exactly wat i needed to hear! My dad died 15yr ago, he was hard man with real values. I remember wen one bloke came around who used to be his mate and he told him to foff cause he new he had cheated on his wife and the bloke was dumbfounded... Its crazy who dishonest the world is, i always tell my daughter that 90% of people are full of shit👍

  • @chrisduhaime5689
    @chrisduhaime5689 Рік тому +6

    There's just a lot of garbage out there ! Staying NOT MARRIED is maintaining a tactical advantage!!!

  • @Savvynomad225
    @Savvynomad225 Рік тому +11

    Paul is 6'7" tall. That's a good height to have for attracting multiple women. I think a lot of men get thirsty because they don't attract any women, mostly because they are too short, or have some other flaw that women avoid.

    • @samtux762
      @samtux762 Рік тому +7

      Most men:
      (1) participate in male activities (programming/fishing/chess). There are no women in these fields.
      (2) are incapable of detecting women signes of interest/disinterest towards them
      (3) have the "fear of being rejected". Btw, this is a bs term to describe learned helplessness: they've approached some 100-500 women on the street (following the advice of scammers, aka "PUA gurus"). They didn't get laid a single time and they've realized, that this method doesn't work. Hence, they've made a correct subconscious decision that approaches don't work.

    • @Savvynomad225
      @Savvynomad225 Рік тому +2

      @@samtux762 there’s always a cost. Recognize that and plan life accordingly

    • @boethius9173
      @boethius9173 2 місяці тому

      @Savvynomad225, I am 5'6" and I have no problem with the ladies. This wasn't always the case. I bettered myself like Elam recommended, and it works.

  • @alejandroruelas9574
    @alejandroruelas9574 Рік тому +7

    This is awesome work !!! Great information

    • @samtux762
      @samtux762 Рік тому +1

      Useless advice. Well, I respect myself and my values. I am a successful professional (programming) and hobbist (chess). I, like many men, are not exposed to women, unless I stalk women on a street, asking for a phone number (which never works). I hate (and bad at) female hobbies like dancing and psychology.
      So, what am I supposed to do?

    • @mikecrook8434
      @mikecrook8434 Рік тому

      If you want to meet women, which will lead to your getting laid regularly, learn partner dances.@@samtux762

    • @boethius9173
      @boethius9173 2 місяці тому

      @@samtux762, You certainly have developed no confidence. Develop confidence.

  • @nickchannel5364
    @nickchannel5364 Рік тому +2

    Great string of synonyms Paul.

  • @bronkonovak6555
    @bronkonovak6555 Рік тому +2

    Paul is the Man!!!

  • @dicemm5544
    @dicemm5544 9 місяців тому +1

    This is not only advice for how to deal with women. It's about how to deal with everyone, men including, who act like self-absorbed children who excuse their shitty behaviour to things other than themselves.

  • @unfortunato
    @unfortunato Рік тому

    You're such a kind, honest man!

  • @sylviaguenther-zc9lg
    @sylviaguenther-zc9lg Місяць тому

    I totally agree! Woman who are raising their sons to not know how to value themselves as men, R cheating them out of everything Principled around good brave men! taking a risk!. This is living. Because to LOVE is taking a risk of not being reciprocated& this sucks 2 LOOSE at LOVE but U were BRAVE enough to have tried! MaMa u did good! this is a man.😉&our world needs more of!🙌😍😍

  • @normancomeau371
    @normancomeau371 Рік тому

    Series like this, brings such joy to my tickle bone, it does smack of standup comedy.
    As good as Rodney Dangefield any day.
    What am I too fast for you? He would quip! Lol

  • @askyourselfwhatdoyoureally3542

    Thank You good Sir. Spot on

  • @volgarien
    @volgarien Рік тому +3

    Hi Paul, I recently stumbled on your channel, and I am enjoying your perspective on these matters very much.
    I would like to read the article you mentioned, "How We Kill Johnny", but I couldn't find it anywhere; would appreciate very much any info on how to find it. Thanks!

  • @stevenbohler
    @stevenbohler Рік тому +2

    Goat

  • @trashmesoftsoft
    @trashmesoftsoft Рік тому +1

    Excellent

  • @bannedforlife9742
    @bannedforlife9742 Рік тому +1

    Do not pass go, do not collect $200.00, go directly to jail.

  • @richardhubbard2151
    @richardhubbard2151 Рік тому

    Damn. Beautiful as always

  • @rushipatel7786
    @rushipatel7786 Рік тому

    Preach !!!

  • @butterpecanblondie7234
    @butterpecanblondie7234 Рік тому +8

    Firstly, I want to say that everything you have said in this series is great. I agree with all of it. My values are that of a family man's. I don't want to go hook-up with a chick at a college party. Rather, I'd want to save myself for a woman that I share similar values with because similar values are what keep a relationship strong.
    Next, I have a question. I don't intend to save myself until marriage but I do want to save myself for one woman. My problem is that I don't want to be the 2nd choice. I don't want a woman who has been through multiple guys and now decides that she wants to settle down with me. I'm 20 years old so I have a lot of time. But, I guess what I'm trying to ask is where can I meet a virgin (like myself) woman who thinks like I do?
    The thing is, sex is very private in my family and culture. It's not something that the women have done before marriage and all of their relationships are going strong. I suppose it's the reason why I want to be with a woman who is also a virgin.
    Having to deal with the thought that she blew some guy she met 20 minutes ago at the bar without hesitation, but then decided to settle down with me and makes me wait months before having sex isn't someone I'd want to be in a relationship with.
    If you or anyone else could give me an answer to that, I'd appreciate it.

    • @qua7771
      @qua7771 Рік тому +3

      I have the feeling this question is like asking if anyone knows where a pot of gold may be buried. It western culture, voluntary adult virgin women are rare like hens teeth. You may get lucky or consider eastern culture.

    • @wanderingdoc5075
      @wanderingdoc5075 Рік тому +2

      Don't let people tell you that virgins are rare. I've met plenty and in fact I've met two in 2022. I've slept with both of them, one a 26 year old Peruvian girl who spent the first 22 years of her life in Peru and I met her in the DC area one year ago. The second is a Mexican girl whom I met in Mexico city. The thing is you need to probably meet 100 women and among them you will find one or two virgins. And by meet I mean date and be romantically involved with. I mean you could probably find one in the church somehow but I'm not an expert on that. I'm just telling you what I did.

    • @wanderingdoc5075
      @wanderingdoc5075 Рік тому +4

      I will also add that among all of the virgins I have been with, they were all raised in Latin america, Eastern europe, or east asia. Not a single one was raised in a western country. No surprise there.

  • @nzb3290
    @nzb3290 9 місяців тому

    Ill push back on this. You offered no solution and have put more restriction and that is the reason why men that actually need this wont care. This video series should be called values to put before women.

  • @michaelgarrow3239
    @michaelgarrow3239 11 місяців тому +1

    Paul- great work.
    I’m thinking that, aside from hormonal, the dysphoria young men have (dick thinking) around women might be unresolved childhood trauma from unmet needs by mothers.
    It’s time we quit giving mom a pass just because they incubate children. And then just treat boys like dirt.
    I wish I could write my thoughts more clearly, but it’s a work in progress. 😎🎶🎵

  • @yourcommander3412
    @yourcommander3412 Рік тому +3

    Women make me wish I was truly gay.

  • @nathankopfmann8659
    @nathankopfmann8659 Рік тому +1

    Sex doesn't happen in a vacuum? Use the hose.

  • @comesahorseman
    @comesahorseman Рік тому +1

    👍👍

  • @PsychoLogisch
    @PsychoLogisch Рік тому