Women Are Not Feminine in America: Tanzania Changed our Life

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  • Опубліковано 1 лис 2024

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  • @kevinlipps2817
    @kevinlipps2817 3 місяці тому +16

    Generally, many women in the Western United States do not exhibit traditional femininity, regardless of their race.
    There are some exceptions, which can be attributed to cultural influences and upbringing. For instance, women raised by single mothers are statistically more likely to display more masculine traits.
    In the United States, there are locations where women embody traditional femininity, such as within religious communities and among groups like the Amish. Women in these areas often exhibit a more traditional feminine demeanor.
    In developed nations like the United States, many women are not encouraged to adhere to traditional roles due to the challenge men face in earning sufficient income to support a family single-handedly. As a result, women tend to prioritize their careers and strive for independence.

    • @greenknitter
      @greenknitter 3 місяці тому

      More interdependence, less independence.

  • @AfroMedic
    @AfroMedic 3 місяці тому +7

    Habari, I was born in Tanzania but I live in the USA now for school and work. In my experience Tanzania is 100% best place to live compared to the US. I Can’t wait to go home this holiday.

    • @AshleyinAfrika
      @AshleyinAfrika  3 місяці тому +1

      Kabissaaa!! Thank you for your comment

  • @kevinlipps2817
    @kevinlipps2817 3 місяці тому +11

    The misconception that a feminine woman is weak and submissive couldn't be further from reality. She has the strength to achieve her goals in a romantic relationship, especially when family is involved. She also has the ability to earn the trust of successful men, creating a solid foundation for herself.
    In a romantic relationship, both partners need to be submissive to each other in order to meet each other's needs. Unfortunately, submissiveness is sometimes misunderstood as being a woman who tolerates abuse.
    You'll soon discover that many women who embrace their femininity are often the ones running their households. They find it easier to manage their children and maintain harmony with their partners by balancing feminine and masculine dynamics.
    This creates a solid family foundation, allowing the children to learn valuable skills from both perspectives and ultimately thrive in life.

    • @susieq1694
      @susieq1694 3 місяці тому

      I hear you. I believe submission is something that has to be built on trust. Trusting the person you are submitting to is intelligent mature and worthy of submitting to. Ultimately they have to prove themselves worthy of such a position.

  • @riccaruso7791
    @riccaruso7791 3 місяці тому +4

    Lovely hairdos ~ especially the 🌀 adorable❣️

  • @fanamalindi6183
    @fanamalindi6183 3 місяці тому +5

    Hi African ladies please come with more powerful men and women like you from America, our children especially in South Africa need role models. We want to see more blacks in positions of power for our kids to emulate

  • @susieq1694
    @susieq1694 3 місяці тому +3

    This video brings to light the monolithic dynamic within our community. I'm both feminine and strong and appreciate my strong independent nature. I just hope that when I arrive to the continent that these traits are respected and embraced without prejudice.

    • @AshleyinAfrika
      @AshleyinAfrika  3 місяці тому +3

      We hope that you will get an opportunity to realize the power you hold in your softness and interdependence that is more aligned with the culture of women here.

    • @susieq1694
      @susieq1694 3 місяці тому

      But i like my strong side ashly! Its almost cringy for me to even look at myself that way hoping i can adjust and embrace something that seems so distant and foreign to me
      .... i just like being in control..i guess I'm truly Americanized....lol​@AshleyinAfrika

    • @NoDnaJustRsa
      @NoDnaJustRsa Місяць тому

      ​@@susieq1694there are many strong , independant African women, but we just do somethings together and for each other..it doesn't make you weak..it's just one of the benefits of being a woman amongst other women.

  • @lswai6777
    @lswai6777 3 місяці тому

    Nice interview.

  • @greenknitter
    @greenknitter 3 місяці тому

    Communal society versus individualistic. It ties in with Ubuntu- being authentically human as part of a larger and more significant relational, communal, societal, environmental and spiritual world.
    When you have family and community wrapped around you protecting and uplifting you, life is so much richer than what all the money in the world can offer.
    Love these chats with Naila, more please! ❤❤

  • @cr2802
    @cr2802 3 місяці тому +8

    Unfortunately, this course cannot be corrected anytime soon. Many masculine men have realized this and sought femininity outside of the West.

  • @sandriyah10
    @sandriyah10 3 місяці тому

    Very true

  • @kara2162
    @kara2162 2 місяці тому

    Just got back from Tanzania and I absolutely loved it. Masculine men leave space for feminine women. It’s really refreshing.

  • @BluEx22329
    @BluEx22329 16 годин тому

    Uh oh

  • @chrislebese8513
    @chrislebese8513 3 місяці тому

    I think I just like you a lot. I see you on utube time again and again but I never switch to hear you but I just think your face is just pretty and I just like you.