Sad Multifandom || No one puts me first
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It especially hurts when u don’t even have your “best friends” because deep down u know they never would put u first and you truly have no one
Ella Borstad and when you know your best friends always will have someone they’ll put before you
Ella Borstad it hurts even more when you text them and call them and then you see on someone else’s sc that they were texting for hours or calling for hours when they’re supposed to be your best friend not someone else’s and that you ask to hang out and they say they don’t want to but in reality they’re with their other friends the ones that treat everyone like shit
Everything Sucks ya, it sucks. Like they call you their best friend but it doesn’t feel that way.
Ella Borstad that definitely hit me harder than it should
My so called "best friend" lives 11 hours away. She lies to me all of the time. I put her first before myself, and all she does it ignore me. I know how that feels
I put everyone first, never myself and no one wanted to put me first. It hurt...........knowing no one really cared enough.
I am so sorry.You must feel awful,and alone,like no one is ever there for you.
I know how it feels coz I also do the same..... It really hurts when people treat you as an option.... Self love is important and the best. Im learnt that
I feel the exact same way... but, we are the strongest of them! Because we love others even if they don’t love us! Like it or not, the need us! I will always love you! I understand ur pain! But we can do this! Together!
i know exactly how you feel🥺
It hurts and it kills 💔
I’m pretty sure I’ve always been the “second” friend or just a back up when they need😔
I'm not even the "second".. I'm just there. No one important.
Same mate , it's quite sad , my friends keep telling me that "We're close" but they have everyone else in the priorities and i always feel like i'm last choice
Yes and it's very sad😳🙄 I just smile about it and go about my day because you know it doesn't matter they won't care🤷
I even too useless to do that
I'm not second or an option, just nothing
Why am I always the backup plan. The only time I’m someone’s first option is when they have a problem they think I can fix.
same
Literally
Relatable and when their problems are gone they tend to forget the one who helped them then just come back when they have another problem
I can feel u.. ✨️
Do u ever just feel numb and lie in bed until u can’t cry anymore so u just sit and question life and urself till u can’t do it anymore. But u have to or ur friends and family with be broken like u already r inside....
Yeah. It's like if they hurt because of you, you hurt more.
Sophie S.Araiz i don’t have friends but my family would be devastated that’s the only reason why
Sophie S.Araiz
It’s sad how much I relate to that
Same. I have all fake friends that use me so it doesn’t count as friends
Yes all the time
Everyone be like: I don’t want to feel anymore. Sis, feeling nothing is the worst feeling.
I prefer feeling empty to feeling
Lily R I felt nothing before it is hell feels like you have already died and nobody cared enough to bury you
@@ipinnuoluwaibitoye5341 You truly don't. When you're sad or angry at least part of you is still human but when you are empty it's like well it's like nothing but it's like you're already dead and nobody really cares to bury you or even acknowledge the fact that you feel this way. You probably don't know what this really feels like and if you don't then I truly hope that you never will know such a feeling.
@@amitgeismar2857 I do that's why I can say that
Feeling empty is more comfortable that feeling pain. I always prefer to be numb and empty.
reason we want to be first option is because we don’t chose ourselves over people and we just want someone to finally chose us back
We are to real for them
I’ve never realized that until like rn... ur right. And I keep putting others first because I want people to feel happy and special. I’m going to continue that, even if they never treat me that way. Sometimes, we need to sacrifice our own happiness so others will be happy....... I’m so sorry that I went on a rant... I’m sorry. Hope you all will be happy because you so freaking deserve it!!❤️💛💚💜💙
@@lizgruenloh8467 Um no. You should never sacrifice your own happiness for happiness of others. Then why are you here? If you like to be second or last option, if you like to sacrifice your own happiness just so others will be happy and you miserable and being used (abused) then be like that. But then I don't understand why would you watch this video. You should try and put effort into your own happiness. People will leave you after you made them happy so why to invest into them so much?
@@DZ-jz8bj, you’re right. I don’t know. I’m sorry if I offended you in any way, shape, or form. I never meant for any harm. I was just sharing how I felt. So I’m sorry if you got mad or triggered at my comment... I never meant for any of that to happen... and the reason I wanted to watch this video, was so that I would find out that I’m not crazy for wanting to be happy. And I’m trying to make myself happy along with others.
"I'm a mess and I don't have anything or anyone" that hit me deep...😢
@@celinegursel it's from private practice, a spinoff off greys anatomy
Jelly Tots me too 😫
Same :(
That's exactly how I feel right now.
wanna talk?
Ever go back to these videos just to know you can still feel but..
You just watch and feel empty.
I mean i want to cry hut i cant i wanna feel what you guys are feeling and it's so fustrating that i cabt anymore.
Numb, it's to be numb
[ Honey ] watch the green mile, that helped me when I was numb sometimes
“No one puts me first, least of all you”
That hit me
I’m always the last option for my friends. There’s always someone else they would rather be with. And you know what sucks? I had a friend tell me she would always be there for me and make sure I didn’t feel so alone and it lasted 2 days till she forgot about me again. I had to sit at a table next to hers coz it was too crowded. It fucking sucks coz she’s the closest thing I have to a best friend at school. No one cares about me in school and school is supposed to be the place I go to escape from my family. I just wanna die
Violet Butterfly, if I were friends with you you’d be one of the friends I’d choose, I’m so sorry they treat u like that, it’ll get better.
Hazel Martin thank you I really appreciate it😊
If you wanna talk and be friends, i'm here, i understand what you're going through and you don't have to do it alone.
Felicity Sandalwood thx that would be cool😊
Ill be your friend, i understand like seriously.
The sad part is apologizing for your pain. For your tears.
When you stop texting them, you realize it was you who was initiating a conversation in the first place. They never cared.
And i stopped doing that too
it's hard when you talk for hours and hours on facetime with a friend talking about their problems but when you tell them it's been a hard month or two they respond with 'lol mood'
“I hate myself with such a passion”
I said that to my friend and he didn’t even care
Same
That is not you’re friend honey. Even if you are feeling so sad and depressed, know your worth, don’t hang around with people who treat you like that anymore
I love you and Jesus loves you
I care. I will always care. You are so freaking loved! And you should be everyone’s first option in my book! Never doubt your self worth. Because you are so freaking amazing and cared about!
@@lauren__2460 FUCK OFF JESUS AIN'T REAL!
"No one puts me first" Maze I feel you girl
the scene where mazikeen cries always gets me. she seems so broken and sad
milagros abril i cried bro
She deserves so much more
You know it's happening again when you start watching these kinds of videos
when i saw the title,no one puts me first, i immediately thought of that scene from lucifer
Poor Maze 😭😭 Lucifer too. No one understands his pain.
I thought of Emma Swan from Once Upon a Time. I can name one season and one episode in the season after where people *finally* put her first. Season 5 they went to camelot to get rid of the darkness inside her and the second half of season 5 where they went to bring her true love back to life. And finally when they saved her true love again in season 6. Most of the time they put other people above her. She never even got to put herself first in her childhood.
All I want is to be cared about I feel useless at times. I’ve never been appreciated for anything I’ve done for people.
I appriciate you !!
don’t give up!💕
wanna talk?:/
Is it just me that can sit for hours and just feel numb and cry till you can’t cry more and just sit there and feel nothing ? And when a sibling ,family member or a friend came in to your room and you said you are fine but you are not and you don’t want to tell them how you feel Because you don’t want to break them or want them to feel bad :(
That last thing hurts the most
Yeah but it hits different when nobody ask you if you're fine.
Ugh yeah I can relate, I cried so hard once I ended up with a migraine which lead to me throwing up 😩 I wish I didn’t have to put up with such anguish. Why does it feel easier to be dead than alive, I don’t feel like doing this anymore, and that’s such a shame.
i used to do that all the time . now i just feel emotionally numb and tired of trying so i emotionally and mentally gave up and continue with my day so i don't have to try so hard to just fall back down again and again ...
Why should i cried? Nobody will hear me. Nobody gonna knows that i cried. I wasted my tears.
I used to watch these videos to get that pain out but now its planted itself in to where my heart used to be
My best friend, someone I would do ANYTHING for, chose someone else over me all the time and ignored me at my most darkest times
”You only care about me when you don’t have ”Chloe” anyone else ,none puts me first. Least of all you” that one hit me hard this whole video hits me hard but that one is the worst:(
Lol, i didn't Chloe but i heard clothes
Sometimes I just sit and think. What’s the point of life. I’m a nobody I hate myself and just wish I wasn’t so dam lonely all the time
I’m always that friend, that is there for everyone and everything, for help them and listening to them. But I’m never the one that they listen to my problems. I may be the mom of the group but I’m the most lonely of my group, I don’t know what to do, I just want to disappear or die but I don’t want to hurt them, but I would perfectly die and maybe I’ll be happy
i always put others first and want them to be okay but no one ever asks me how i am they don’t care for me unless i help them
Everyone just took me for granted.
It sucks when your best friends say they will put you first but then a boy walks in to their life that they have known for 5 seconds and you don’t exist anymore
I have to admit, although I rlly don’t want anyone hurting. It’s nice to hear people who relate to me so much finally. Let’s stay strong~
That Omelia part killed me!💔 Amazing vid!
leen shepherd-hunt thank you so much !!
I always feel like the second choice to my friends when it comes to hanging out. It feels like they would rather be hanging with anyone else but me and it hurts knowing I probably won't be anyones first choice.
don't be sad my friend you are not alone we with you
Empty is something I have always been very proud to have. I have walked down many paths in my life. I feel very blessed.
Empathy
It sucks when you are forgotten.. when all your life you’ve put everyone first.. and when you need it everyone’s gone.. your world crumbles, never put first never remembered
it's hurt deeply when u know that no one will put u first ! everyone will do that's for themselves, but u will do it for who's u love , and in the end ? u will just realize that NO ONE care about u ..
“You only care about me when you don’t have ___” awful how my best friend came to my mind
1:43 This broke my heart 😢
Lucifer's maze, she was hurted real
I cried by reading the line "no one puts me first"
When the person you will always choose first wouldn’t even choose you second
Amelia is one of my favorite characters, shes so strong and she's been through so much
Sad to admit but its the truth that No one ever put me first from family to friend.. theres no one
grey’s anatomy hits different
I feel bad for Amelia Shepherd
To anybody watching this, you must be feeling a certain type of way. I need you to know, you’re loved, you’re cared about and you will always be more than enough.❤️
You have helped so many people with this empowering message ❤❤
Mazikeen’s scene hit me hard 😭
I don't care if you put me second, just need someone to support me...I just need a friend 💔😥
Everytime i consider someone my best friend, i find out they already have a best friend and im never gonna be their first choice :(
I love this. I always cry when i watch this.This is beautiful job. 💓
The feels are real. I'm just there to people and for people, I'm not the one they go to and just say hi and chat. When people are down, I try my best even when I'm sad, and I'm down in the dumps, but when I'm down, I always end up alone. It sucks sometimes, when you have that awful feeling that you want to go to someone and pour out the feelings but there ain't no one to call or talk to.
This amazed me! It is like s mini movie. I love!
Tarina Sparks thank you
The grey's anatomy and lucifer parts :'(
This is so amazing x
Montgomery Grey Multi thank you !
3:20 the way she is crying broke my heart. She was literally saying with her tears that she cannot handle it anymore.
do you know the name of the drama
I’m always last...for everybody. There’s always someone better than me...it’ll always be that way. But I am sick and tired of feeling this way.
People feed of from others. They love and cherish certain ones because those help them feel validated. We all have our jnsecurities but we should never become needy. I'd prefer to be appreciated and respected. It's a stronger position I think. I don't think I've ever been anyone's favorite person. I felt sad about it for awhile. But when I was told it was because of my strength and because of me being my own person, I wasn't bothered by it anymore. True friendships are based on much more than making others feel or think that they are our favorite person. That I am sure of.
I feel like I want to cry but there's no tears coming up, my heart is so heavy.
Sameee😶
You put everyone before you and be with them through thick and thin but they are the first people to betray you and leave you alone when you need them until you learn to just stay alone coz its better than being hurt
The fact that I'm realising that when someone asks me who my best friends I would say there names but I don't think they would say my name
...
Who else is always the one asking them how are you, how was your day or even hi first but they never ask us first...
the main problem is that im not even putting myself first cause i just dont want even to exist like i wish i was able to disappear
I had always been the second priority to my family and my friends. And never really been in a relationship because I'm always the second option, and people choose their first. I've wondered why for so long but then I just realized they just don't love me that much as I love them. And it's not something I can help. But as soon as I stop caring this, I felt so free. I knew that no one would call me first but hey I don't need to call them first either. And being with the men who would choose other people over me is worse than being single.
And I figured out that ever since I stopped calling them first, the ones who cares for me would call me back, and the ones who don't don't deserve my time.
Deep down I still wonder why though. People say it's because I don't love myself enough, but I've seen people obviously lack of self-love being so favored by other people. I wonder why I just can't get that.
Poor Jo, Amelia, and Owen. It makes me cry.
I always put the people before me because i can make them feel happy. But the people never do the same thing back they put everyone before me. But if i don't give them gifts anymore they think i am the bad one and i am the one who forget them.
i go through these periods every once in a while when i feel like everybody either hates me,finds me annoying or straight up doesn’t care about me.i just feel so disconnected from everyone
I feel I’ve never had friends in my whole life. They just talk me when they need me and after that they just leave me. When I think in a real friend I can’t find anyone and I just feel so alone because I try with all my heart finding someone but I just can’t. I don’t know if i have something wrong with myself or I’m bored... idk
Feeling the exact same way rn
The worst part is that when I put myself first, I get told that I'm "selfish" by the same people that I know don't care about me and that aren't my friends.
Got nothing left to lose I’m all alone yet I have a full home
, " NO ONE puts me first" yea i felt that .
If anyone sees this can relate, tell me:
I feel like there's no one actually in my life. I'm no one's best friend, oldest friend, fuck having a relationship people don't even want to be friends with me, and it's definitely not for lack of trying I've tried. So. Hard. In the past. But I'm done trying. I guess they call this acceptance. Alone, forever, meeting people in passing, never letting anyone truely in... Thinking back not much will have changed, just removing the stressful "trying to change it" part. I suppose we all have our roles, mines gonna be "loner in a shitty studio drinking smoking sleeping or working all day, but always alone"
I hade someone who made sure I was happy and put me first but now my hero the one who always believed in me and made sure I had a good life he’s dead he’s gone now i just sit here and I don’t tell anyone but when I do they always turn it around on me saying well sorry I don’t make you happy or I put you first OR I care and I believe in you and I want you to have a good life but then they do nothing to help me I can’t even talk to them because I feel like no one has my back it sucks it really does
I used to come here to cry but now I can't feel anymore. Am i becoming really empty now?....
dont be sad my friend you are strong
Im just a back up to all my friends and it hurts that they only appreciate me when they are hurt :(
Do you ever just sit down and think why when you find pepole you love and they just walk up and leave or your never considerd first
I'm that friend who's always there for them and listen to their problems. But no ones ever that person back to me and it hurtz. No one checks up on me. I'm the 2nd option and it hurts so much because you feel like they don't care about you. They care about their problems and never ask me😔😔
It hurts when your friends would always put each other before you. I'm the last for my friends to pick in group projects. The last one to be sat with on the bus. My friends always run off randomly to greet each other in the hall mid-conversation. I know if it came down to it I would be last in everything.
i loved the video 😊 it was amazing
navanique castello thank you !!
Attachment is very dengirous, very painful. Can't describe in words 🙂
I’m never liked or anyone’s first choice 😔 always feel neglected
What’s worse?
Having no friends whatsoever, not feeling the pain of not being put first by them, but still feeling the pain of having NOBODY. No human contact, only actually talking to ur mom since the rest of ur family hates you.
Or having friends. Not having your social life crumbling away, and still talking to people, instead of being told what a bad person you are for keeping to yourself.
It might not be ideal. Find better friends, explore your options before you truly. Have nobody. I’d kill to remember what it was like to have friends, to talk and laugh with people. Even if I’m never the first choice - I never was. But I still had fun. It’s been years and I forget what “fun” is, or the feeling of laughing your head off till you can’t breathe. Some of us have to accept we won’t always be first, not in your group where you choose to do nothing about it.
The day will come, someone will put you first, but you wouldn’t know, because maybe you’re like me. You keep people at a distance in an attempt to avoid getting hurt again.
Accept you won’t be the first choice. Accept that you have friends. You have people to talk to, you just have to put yourself out there. If they don’t want to listen to you, let them go. If you wont do that, at least accept the fact of how lucky you are to have any friends at all.
If you have friends, on some occasion, you must laugh, right? Have fun? Smile? You know what its like, even if you feel like the odd person out.
I don’t remember those feelings.
I miss it.
I have family and friends but no one i can talk too. I already told them that i have depression but it seems they all forgot about it or didn’t care at all...
Guy drinks more than anyone, he should be in the Guinness World Record books
I waited for my friend till 5am to call me because she said she needed someone . Turns out she was calling someone else and forgot to inform me... am i that easy to forget? I know it is stupid to overthink about... but why does it hurt?
I know how it feel when you are just option for them and they are priority for you 💔
This hits deep 💔
I don’t know what I’m doing anymore
Honestly, I think the one thing no one in this comment section understand is, that you have to care about yourself first in order to someone else caring about you. If you don't even think you're worth it, than why should others?
Stop waiting for someone to come and pick you up from your dark place, because nobody will. Nobody except you.
You have to value yourself! Please ♡
In the end we all are some kind of lonely. But the good thing is, that you will always have someone by your side and that someone is you. So be kind to yourself..
One thing your comment doesn’t mention is that some people know their worth. They know they have amazing qualities, they’re kind to others, try to build others up and look inward at the same time, improving their own minds and bodies as they choose. Yet the people around them do not appreciate that. No matter how much self-respect and humility you have, you could end up super lonely. Nobody seems to understand because you’re hiding behind a facade of perfect grades and a glowing smile… that’s as fake as the friends you thought you had- the friends that will leave you or ignore you as soon as a new person or new opportunity comes into their life :(
Do you ever feel like ur not important to anyone. Or no one actually likes you they just tolerate you. I don’t make any different in anyone’s life and I feel like this every fucking day. I don’t have a purpose and I’m jus unlovable. No one will ever love me and I’ve realised that finally.
Do you ever just feel so exhausted of having to work so hard to just be okay… the separation between myself and others just feels so impossible to cross sometimes
I’m always second even with my own family. My sister has a medical issue and I understand but everybody forgot abt my pain they just call me crazy and ignore it. She always gets everything and while I’m there just broken
I have no one. My boyfriend broke up with me, my family hates and ignores me. I have no job, I have nothing. No friends. Nobody cares about me. I sit everyday all alone in my room and don’t know for what I should live for. It hurts so much. Suicide is in my mind all the time and I have no one to speak about it. My therapist is not really a help idk.
Here at 6 am really sad check!🤙
My own self gives me violence.
My lovers give me silence.
My mother gives me lies and I feel worse cause the lies I'm buyin.
My so called friends give me invisibility.
Some people give me vulnerability.
I hate being left alone but now it's just become my ability. 😞🥺
Don't be sad my friend, you are strong, nothing can defeat you
No one understands the amount of fucking pain I am in. I can’t talk to anyone about it because there’s no one that would understand the feeling I’m even talking about because I don’t get it myself. I wish I understood why I couldn’t just be happy
i feel what u saying . I AM SORRY you're feeling this way . it sucks i get it, but hey if u wanna talk to someone i am here to help i know how it feels to have no one to talk to and no one that gets u ... your choice, I'll give my IG or SNAP if u want to :)
Razane elele hey so idk if you’ll see this but it would be great if we could talk on insta or smth❤️
Razane elele is it razane_ig or razane_LG?
it’s hurts knowing the people I consider friends only hang out with me because they know I have the answers to their homework. It’s all they ever use me for.
Even i can't put my self first
I try not to be broken and in pain everyday but I can't help it...
just realized that i was just a temporary replacement for her childhood friend 😌
YOU BEEN LAST IN LINE ...I DOT BELIEVE IN YOU RACHEL RIOS HERNANDEZ
I always would put people first before me..my ex I always made sure she was okay and I would hide how I felt about things..she got distant like in the past and..when we split she went for someone whom she fell for awhile with me..and a bit after that she made me believe she still wanted me..because her lover would hide stuff from her..and ignore her or something bad..but yet she never ever gave me an actual sign she wanted me back she chose that person over me and told me.."it's not my fault every human except you can treat me right"
Im fucking done, i always help as many people and friends as i possible can. I get nothing in return, everyone only thinks about them selfs and i was there for all of them when they needed it. I cant call them friends anymore… i guess i never had friends. It sucks that i do my best and my mental health keeps getting worse and i have no one to talk to. Ive been a bad person in the past and maybe thats why i dont deserve a good life, it doesnt matter how much good i do now. Im not getting better.
I always put everyone before me cuz I can't be selfish. I think of the pain I go through only to remember people go through worse. I always fuck things up.
The problem of putting others first is that you have showed them you are second