How’s Intimacy During Pregnancy? Honest Q&A| My Pregnancy Journey Ep. 4
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- Опубліковано 21 лют 2022
- How’s Intimacy During Pregnancy? Honest Q&A| My Pregnancy Journey Ep. 4
You all asked some gooood questions over on my instagram and I was having way too much fun answering these! Questions like: How’s s*x during pregnancy when you feel so sick? Will you homeschool or send your kid to public school? What are some revelations you’ve had since getting pregnant? And so much more! Get ready for some honesty! You might be surprised by an answer or two 😄.
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Hey Momo’s! Good to see you again! 😄💜 comment below, did any question/answer surprise you? 😄
It didn't exactly surprise me, but I'm glad you're going to homeshool! I've been homeschooled since the middle of 3rd grade and when school starts back it will be my 4th year in a co-op. I didn't do the co-op for a few years. It's once a week and I really enjoy it, the work is done at home and gone over the day of the co-op. So excited to maybe see how you homeschool Luca!
I can’t get over Paul’s hair and morning voice while trying to be serious and give deep advice. You guys are sooooooo cute!!!
I love the part where you mentioned about having faith over fear... I'm challenged by the possibility of having a stillbirth... I'm at 36 weeks gestation, so far so good. Thank God 🙏
I had my first pregnancy two years ago and speaking from my personal experience, be extra kind to yourself when it comes to intimacy during pregnancy and even postpartum. When I got into the second half of the second trimester, I started having pain during intercourse and that lasted until I was six months postpartum. I also had a c-section, so that more than likely contributed to that, as well.
Something I didn’t even realize was a thing until after I gave birth was pelvic floor dysfunction. This doesn’t happen to everyone during pregnancy, FYI, so don’t be alarmed; just know it is a possibility. I had always assumed that after the six week wait post-delivery was up, the pain would be completely gone since that’s what doctors advise. For me, that didn’t end up being the case. My husband and I both felt really bad for each other for a while, but what we got out of that experience was a deeper love and appreciation for each other outside of sex.
Sex shouldn’t be the end-all be-all for a relationship, but more the icing on the cake of a deeper type of intimacy that can’t be explained unless you’ve been without the physical aspect for an extended amount of time, which is what happened for us.
Hope this helps! P.S.: If you do end up having this issue, look into pelvic floor therapy. Hope the rest of your pregnancy goes great! 🙂
So excited for you & it's cool you will be homeschooling ! My husband & I were homeschooled and I agree the socialization is nothing to worry about ! Also this is funny hearing you talk about the name haha
Hey, for anyone who hasn't been to one yet, premieres are so fun! It was so nice to hang out with Morgan and all the other ladies. Love this community
Glad you are having a midwife! They seem to be so supportive, from my understanding they seem to be very good at making sure you get what you want when it comes to giving birth.
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Im a new mom with a 5 month old baby boy.
Like your friends sister said, your mom instincts will kick in! It’s so cool.
Every baby is different and things work different for every baby. I think it’s good to have knowledge about options of things that you can do but as a mom you just have to go with the flow.
Also I highly recommend the book Peaceful Parenting, Happy Kids!!
And last thing lol. Giving birth is so magical and amazing! Honestly postpartum is harder but I feel like that’s not talked about as much.
Enjoy your time. Rest. Be gracious with yourself. ♥️
Omg that’s super exciting you are doing a homebirth! I am currently pregnant at 12 weeks now and I am also having a home birth. Can’t wait to see more of your journey Morgan!!
Definitely up for becoming part of the Momo fam! So excited to follow along your pregnancy journey, and extremely happy for you and Paul!! 🤗🌸
Morgan I am so happy to hear that you are planning on having a natural birth! I did it too and I am just so proud of myself and have felt so close to my baby since I feel like we’ve fought trough that experience together! I know you can do it! You already have the right mindset of not being fearful and trusting on your body and the lord! I’m due august 3rd with my second baby and will be giving birth naturally again as well 😍🥰 I’m so excited for both of us !
This blog was adorable 🥰 You guys are so sweet and down to earth. I hope the morning sickness goes away soon!
Ive had 2 home births. Both in water. It’s the absolute most beautiful experience 💕 proud of you!
“Too much information is dangerous”???
I feel like a statement like that deserves a little more unpacking.
If you know all the things that can go wrong, that's sometimes more stressful than not knowing what to expect.
I am 38 weeks pregnant with our 3rd baby. Half of my husbands hospital bag is full of mac and cheese cups. 😂
I totally agree with you..when I was pregnant I was overwhelmed with the abundance of information out there. I read Mama Natural's week by week guide to pregnancy and my husband and I did their birth course and infant care course. This was the primary source of information and it was detailed and comprehensive enough and their birth course focuses a lot on home births.
I definitely agree with your friend also - the mama instincts kick in for sure!!! ❤️
Best, best parenting advice I've gotten so far is to ask the Holy Spirit for wisdom even in the super small things. That still small voice knows exactly what you and baby need in that exact moment.
I am homeschooled and go to a once a week co-op as well as a science lab once a week with other homeschoolers! I still get plenty of socializing with other kids through sports, youth group/bible study, and the great Christian friend group I have through co-op. Totally think it’s smart to homeschool/do a Christian online school with everything crazy going on in the world right now! I hope you start feeling better soon! Continued prayers for baby olli!
Same! I love homeschool!
The answer that surprised me is how intimacy makes the nausea go away… like howwww coz nausea sucks so much!!!
Anyways, may God keep protecting and growing baby Olli in all ways🥰
It’s pretty crazy! 😄 but the Lord is good hehe 😛
So excited you are doing a natural birth! Check out the Bradley method for your home birth. It’s awesome!
I’m commenting here in hopes that Morgan will see this. I think your relationship is toxic! I think you deserve better than this, and I hope you find a way to value yourself more than throwing your life away on a guy like this. He’s toxic, and emotionally manipulative, and that often culminates in abuse. I love you, God loves you, all your fans love you, you have support if you need it.
Yeah it’s like only an additional 300 calories to sustain you and baby, from my research and I did exactly what you did and with was eating scrambled eggs with spinach and onions and toast my whole 2nd trimester we went through so many eggs lol but only gained like 24 ish pounds balance is extremely important and if I could go back I’d work out more even just going for longer walks and light weight lifting because I heard thats supposed to make labor easier
Love following along on your pregnancy journey💙 Great video!
Thanks girly! 💜🙏🏼
Hey lovely girl! Congratulations on ur pregnancy 🥰 I’m so excited for you especially after you’ve waited so long for this blessing to come along.
If you’re interested in essential newborn baby items that you’ll actually use check out my most recent UA-cam video.
I feel like so many first time mamas get so excited and purchase everything and then don’t use most of it 🙈 hence why I thought I’d share what I used most as a mama of 5.
So happy for you and Paul! Can’t wait to watch this new chapter in your life unfold 🥰
Morgan! Please please please please PLEASE make a video of what you do to make your hair so gorgeous!! I love it!
Get ready for hormones to hit, you will be laughing and crying in the same 5 minute span🤣
Hormones are worst in first trimester, hormone levels even out in second trimester
Oooh my birthday is September 15th! Maybe baby and I will share a birthday 😊🥰❤️
Praying for a healthy baby
I’m convinced the name is Grace
Does anybody else find it funny that Morgan has her hair all done nice and Paul just had total bed head? Somebody please get that poor guy some coffee 😂😂😂😂😂
I was homeschooled, and the biggest downside I felt in my own *personal* experience was the lack of socialisation with kids my age. If I have kids I know that’s got to be a priority, if they’re homeschooled or otherwise.
Seeing you eat makes me hungry, lol😅
Yeah, I’m sorry to hear you had lack of socialisation. I was homeschooled too and personally loved it. I got a great education and had a great social life. The school kids I know have lots of friends but not many good strong friends.
It’s definitely your choice
Congrats on choosing the best path for you for labor and delivery! I’m due with my first in July and also decided home natural birth would be the best option for me-I also very much feel uncomfortable in hospitals despite having multiple family members who work in them. Everyone around me is excited and supportive of me being the pioneer for home birth in my circle. I feel so at peace about it and my midwife is amazing! :)
You said not to comment on you chosing a homebirth but one thing i wanted to say: I LOVE IT! Hope that is an okay reaction for you. If not - delete it or something. I studied to be a midwife - and in the Netherlands (where I live) natural home births are much more common and they are BEAUTIFUL. While I was doing an internship I witnessed my first ever home birth - the woman labored in her bathtub and even though it is over 10y ago, I still remember every single detail, because it was the most amazing thing I've ever witnessed. You can do it, Morgan.
Aww yes! I love this! 😄👏🏼
Hey lovey. What kind of ultrasound equipment did she have? Was it just a regular at home Doppler or something more extensive? I am praying for you 3. Always. ♥️ You make pregnancy look good!!
I can't wait till that moment when you pop 😀😄 . I'm loving watching the pregnancy journey 💜💜
Aww hehe me too! 😄
Catching up on the rest of this! Our baby bunnies were just born, so we were a little busy! 😁
Haha that’s awesome! 😄
Your glowing 🥰🤰
Such a good video and advice! Give the video a thumbs up y’all! ❤️
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Listen to Elton John song you’ll be blessed. ❤️❤️❤️ not a particular fan of his but that song GETS TO ME every single time I listen to it when I’m pregnant (or ovulating) 😂😂
Fun.
I love Which Wich!! I don't have many near me, but I go there whenever I see them while traveling
We are due date twins! But I’m a little confused, because a due date of 9/13, we turn weeks on Tuesdays. So today is 11+1 ☺️
Lol yes… I had my dates off! My midwife corrected me a few days ago 😄🥳 so that was fun to find out I’m actually further along haha.
You LOOK like a pregnant mom with the beautiful hair and pink glow ❤
Aw haha thank you! 😊
Hahahahhaa I just loved how you said "delicioso" at 22:51 🤣 you sounded like my sister
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I loved that too 😂
Don’t be afraid to say it, the extra blood flow in the lady region definitely ~ helps ~ 😂❤️
The nurses at the hospital told us we weren't supposed to swaddle... but our baby was swaddled the whole time at the hospital 🤦♀️ You and your hubby decide what is best! My husband said... well Jesus was swaddled 🤷♀️😊
Also super happy to hear you are home birthing, will be so wonderful and possible with Gods strength ❤
Baby girls typically look like dad 😊 As they grow up they begin to favor the mom. Not always though.
You are friends with Jacklyn now she just went through this. She might be a good person to talk to.
You are eating for two, it’s just that person number two is only about the size of your thumb. So probably won’t be needing an entire cheeseburger 😉
You have so much extra blood flow now, so yeeess sex feels amazing. Wait till 2nd trimester sex, it rocks!! 😂😮💨
Girl, I feel you about getting your blood drawn. I hate it. I always feel like they are taking everything when you are pregnant!🤪 like seriously, did you leave any!?🤣
It gets really real when you can feel the kicks and movements. I'm considering a home birth too, due in September! What you believe is what will likely happen. Fear will steal all of your joy.
Hey Morgan, good to see a new video, the Lord keeps on keeping you strong, a random suggestion for you; the book Supernatural Childbirth is a good read. I read it last year and am still single, but it shifted my mindset and gave me deep revelations.
Those nachos look absolutely amazing
For all past 3 pregnancies and current one, brushing. My teeth made me throw up. And I chew gum when I don’t have time to eat, if I’m on the go because I will throw up 🥲
I had a natural homebirth last year on September 12! Homebirth is the best.
REPENT FOR THE KINGDOM OF HEAVEN IS AT HAND TURN FROM SIN AND TURN TOWARDS RIGHTEOUSNESS THROUGH CHRIST JESUS
JESUS CHRIST IS COMING BACK SOON AND WE MUST BE READY FOR WHEN HE COMES BACK
I do a co op called classical conversations! It’s very good!
Wait til the baby comes girl. You gonna look like you don’t have it all together-with spit up in your hair (AKA and smell like it too). It’s a special magical season that you WILL miss!! Seriously.
I don't think you should talk about your intimacy with UA-cam. The marriage bed is for the Husband and the wife. Other people shouldn't know. That is between you and Paul.
Hair ignoring
You are pregnant , I don’t believe you when you say it tastes like orange juice.