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  • Опубліковано 22 лип 2021
  • Opening Up About My Marriage + 5 Year Anniversary + GRWM!
    Just keepin’ it real and raw. Marriage is so incredibly beautiful and I wouldn’t want my life to look any differently from what it looks like right now, being married to Paul! I’m working on not taking my marriage for granted and being thankful for even that hard times in marriage. Hope you guys enjoy my little chat about how we met, our struggles, and what we’ve learned! 💜
    My insta: @morganolliges
    Paul’s insta: @paulolliges
    My other channel:
    ‪@PaulandMorgan‬

КОМЕНТАРІ • 111

  • @MorganOlli
    @MorganOlli  3 роки тому +16

    Hey Momo’s! 🪴how do you feel about online dating? We’re you surprised that’s how Paul and I met? 😄

    • @sasscass22
      @sasscass22 3 роки тому +2

      My current boyfriend and I met on Eharmony ☺️ 🥰

    • @MorganOlli
      @MorganOlli  3 роки тому +1

      @@StephanieBogart that is awesome haha! 😄

    • @MorganOlli
      @MorganOlli  3 роки тому +2

      @@sasscass22 love it! 🥳

    • @jesusislord8980
      @jesusislord8980 3 роки тому +2

      @@robertking4569 i believe shes 26

    • @amywalsh4006
      @amywalsh4006 3 роки тому +2

      Online dating can definitely work but it's important to regularly check your motives and your heart when going into it and if you notice you're going on there after having insecure thoughts, it might be a sign to take a break and come back after spending time with God and remembering who you are. It can get hard if you have negative experiences or some people seem to ghost you after they initially show interest.
      But yeah I just try to remember the method isn't bad, it's just where your heart is at when you're motivated to use it

  • @PaulandMorgan
    @PaulandMorgan 3 роки тому +40

    Congrats on 3,000 subs!!🙌🙏❤️⭐️

  • @jkstalk
    @jkstalk 3 роки тому +23

    Marriage takes work. Even a Christ centered marriage isn't perfect. Both spouses have to work through life issues, wants and desires and put under self-centeredness. Great to see you and Paul work through the issues and tell about it! Can't wait to see your 50th anniversary vlog...by that time Paul won't have to roll up his pants 🤣

  • @kristinenawrot
    @kristinenawrot 3 роки тому +7

    My husband and I met also online ! :) we dated for 8 years before getting married, and just got married last September. It is now 9 years total we have been together and 10 months of marriage! We have one daughter, and expecting another in October! I too feel the same way about the first few years being difficult although we were not married, we went through our most difficult years the first few years of us dating. I also agree and know the heart break in marriage you were talking about! It's like a distance you can't explain but it always leads you back to God too and reminds you who us Lord over both your lives. I'm thankful for those dark moments, because they build us individually and as a couple. when you come together again you're right, you forget all about it and that's beautiful! Many people give up when things get hard, but the love of God tells us that love conquers all and covers all sins. Amen? Grateful to have hearts a lil more like Jesus.♡

  • @user-mv2tg8hc8c
    @user-mv2tg8hc8c Рік тому

    Living with other people is challenging! It takes a lot of kindness and patience. The more intimate the relationship (marriage) the more challenging. Thank you for sharing and for being real!

  • @aaliyahahmed463
    @aaliyahahmed463 3 роки тому +18

    Happy anniversary guys! May your marriage continue to grow abundantly! Much love❤

  • @Susannah.N
    @Susannah.N 3 роки тому +15

    This was so sweet and encouraging💗
    For someone who isn't married yet, I love hearing how y'all worked through tough times and how much it's brought you even closer together. Love it!
    Y'all both looked stunning btw!🌟

    • @MorganOlli
      @MorganOlli  3 роки тому

      You’re so sweet!! Thanks girly 💜

  • @dariatnk999
    @dariatnk999 3 роки тому +17

    Your vlogs are so comfy and relaxing idk but I’m addicted to them (in a good way 😅)
    Can’t wait till I’m married, it feels like it’s whole other life

    • @MorganOlli
      @MorganOlli  3 роки тому +1

      Aw thank you so much! 😄

  • @nicolelinam176
    @nicolelinam176 3 роки тому +12

    Loved it. Your going deep convicted me... and going to apologize to my hubby for some disagreements lately.

    • @MorganOlli
      @MorganOlli  3 роки тому +2

      Aww! Praise God!! 💜🙏🏼

  • @jodietodd2606
    @jodietodd2606 3 роки тому +1

    The pain of arguments and struggles in marriage is so real!!! I think it hurts because you know you have to get through it but it is so hard figuring out the solution and listening to each other.

  • @BrianaThrasher
    @BrianaThrasher 3 роки тому +6

    You are GORGEOUS Morgan 💓💓💓Happy 5 year anniversary 🥳

    • @MorganOlli
      @MorganOlli  3 роки тому +1

      So sweet! Thank youuu! 💜

  • @AlissaReads33
    @AlissaReads33 3 роки тому +3

    Been bingeing your channel now I’m all caught up! This is a great channel and so is the Paul and Morgan show!

  • @thandiebbz1
    @thandiebbz1 3 роки тому +3

    When you said “there’s a different type of pain/ heartbreak you experience in marriage” I felt that👏 soo true
    I’m in my first year of marriage and I’ve been through it the first few months and I didn’t understand how to explain it. You summed it up for me perfectly

  • @MurphyMosby
    @MurphyMosby 3 роки тому +3

    You two are the absolute sweetest and that kiss at 21:07 *melting* 🥺😍 I love these raw, honest & authentic vlogs so so much because it’s like a bts to who you are off the couch 🥳

  • @9517
    @9517 3 роки тому +2

    Yay found Morgan's channel
    I know I am not gonna be disappointed
    Happy anniversary to you and Paul
    God bless your home and your marriage

  • @ellaagasaro496
    @ellaagasaro496 3 роки тому +1

    Happy anniversary ♥️ May the Lord our God keep making you vessels for his glory! Praying for (mini) blessings for you🙏🏾

  • @jilliangossard1318
    @jilliangossard1318 3 роки тому +1

    I adore you guys so much! I love when you post these raw and real videos. Stay true, stay encouraged, because you certainly encourage me. Love you guys.

  • @sarahgutierrez7345
    @sarahgutierrez7345 3 роки тому +4

    Happy anniversary to both of you. It was really nice hearing you both talk about your experience in marriage and I feel like it really gives a lot of wisdom end insight. I’m still single and obviously waiting to get married one day but I love hearing this! Thank you guys for being vulnerable on the Internet I know sometimes there’s a lot of haters but may God bless your marriage and lives! You’re both a very beautiful couple ❤️

    • @MorganOlli
      @MorganOlli  3 роки тому

      Yay! I’m so happy it encouraged you 💜🙏🏼 thank you so much!

  • @raes-world
    @raes-world 2 роки тому

    I loooove how relatable you are girl ✨🕊

  • @rachelturenne
    @rachelturenne 3 роки тому +1

    I love the transparency of the video. Happy 5 years and may God continue to bless you guys!!!

  • @EmilyRyann
    @EmilyRyann 3 роки тому +4

    Happy anniversary! Praying for many more beautiful years for you two!❤️
    I think I remember hearing you talk about meeting via tinder on the Paul and Morgan channel!🤪

  • @luciw8348
    @luciw8348 3 роки тому +2

    This was so encouraging… Being in the first year of marriage is definitely difficult, nothing like the honeymoon year that people talk about. I’m glad to know that there is light at the end of the tunnel, if we only keep our heavenly father at the center, and take our fears and uncertainties to him. Congratulations on five years together!

    • @MorganOlli
      @MorganOlli  3 роки тому +1

      Yess girl! Keep going, it gets better!! 🙏🏼💜

  • @mary-elizabetharndt
    @mary-elizabetharndt 2 роки тому

    I watched this right when you posted it but am coming back because it’s so cute! I love, love how you shared even more details about you and Paul! And you looked so, so pretty!!!!!! ❤️❤️❤️ Awwww, and when you were scared to go on a second date because you didn’t think you were good enough, and Paul said to you, “No, stop” 🥺 so beautiful!

  • @4elizabeth
    @4elizabeth 3 роки тому +4

    “Papa likey” 😂 never see you and Paul be affectionate with each other. Cute to see.

  • @breethewish
    @breethewish 3 роки тому +3

    When you said, " He's too Jesusy" I couldn't stop myself from cracking up a laughter😆😆...y'all are a match made from heaven and I love your vids so much!!! Keep doing what you do! I'm a huge fan😊🤗🤗

  • @litgirlablaze3432
    @litgirlablaze3432 2 роки тому

    And yes that dress is AMAZING!!!

  • @DarkShadowMegadeth
    @DarkShadowMegadeth 3 роки тому +10

    Man, you guys are beautiful people 😍 Haha gorgeous dress Morgan. I say 10/10!
    Also seeing you eat that pizza makes me so hungry lol

    • @MorganOlli
      @MorganOlli  3 роки тому

      Aww thank you ☺️ I know, that pizza was so good! 🤤

  • @tnnchannel84-trinatv55
    @tnnchannel84-trinatv55 3 роки тому +3

    Happy Anniversary 🎊🎁🎉🥳

  • @aurorap.7578
    @aurorap.7578 2 роки тому

    I don't watch your videos much every once in a while I'll look but this video was great. So real and vulnerable it made me feel less alone.

  • @weronikas1307
    @weronikas1307 3 роки тому +1

    “Papa likey “ im dead 😂😂love you guys and you really looked amazing on your anniversary ❤️

  • @Iam_laurenthrasherrr
    @Iam_laurenthrasherrr 2 роки тому

    Honestly that’s how my last long term relationship was, a lot of trials and then now we’re healthier as friends

  • @maritzah.4039
    @maritzah.4039 3 роки тому +2

    First of all, CONGRATS ON 5 YEARS OF MARRIAGE! 😍🤩🥰 also, I have ADHD and I totally relate with Paul on wanting to fix things right there and then to not let things snowball, even when it’s not the right time to bring up certain things. But thank you for the advice of going to the Lord first! I’ve been married for two years. Year one was kind of hard, year two was very hard, and year 3 has been significantly easier. A lot of it has to do with God and me deciding to get treated for ADHD and anxiety😊

  • @tashalynn8205
    @tashalynn8205 3 роки тому +2

    My husband and I met on Facebook and it’ll be 6 years married this November!! First year is the hardest but it’s such a beautiful thing that it gets better with time. Happy Anniversary to you both ☺️💗

    • @MorganOlli
      @MorganOlli  3 роки тому +1

      Yass! Love it! Thanks girl 😄

  • @rosieaustin9911
    @rosieaustin9911 2 роки тому

    I love how much wiser you both are after 5 years.

  • @hvl777123
    @hvl777123 2 роки тому

    You guys are absolutely adorable ❤️ congratulations on 5 years!

  • @WaywardBunnyy
    @WaywardBunnyy 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you for sharing about your marriage! I’m glad you got through whatever it was that was hard in the beginning. I was kind of hoping you would be more specific though lol, I’m not sure I understand what happened

  • @ambreouellette8249
    @ambreouellette8249 3 роки тому +1

    I appreciate your vlogs. They are very authentic and uplifting!

  • @TaniaTrabue
    @TaniaTrabue 3 роки тому +1

    Love you guys!!🤍

  • @TripleSeven_7
    @TripleSeven_7 3 роки тому +1

    💕💕💕💕💕
    Happy 5th anniversary marriage..

  • @stitchesdishes2438
    @stitchesdishes2438 3 роки тому

    I loved this 😂😂❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ you guys are so fun 😂😂😂💕💕💕💕💕 much love. God bless your marriage. Happy 5 years 😊😊😊

  • @megalopolis2015
    @megalopolis2015 2 роки тому

    This is so sweet. You guys really have grown so much. The one flesh thing is so apparent.

  • @Romans08.31
    @Romans08.31 2 роки тому

    I relate to this sooo much, my husband and I were both lukewarm believers we met online and we dated for close to 3 years were doing this all wrong even though I knew I was gonna marry him from the beginning and we both knew that we were long distance for a bit and then it was so important to meet his family before we married so it took a while since it was a transcontinental relationship, anyways got married and things were amazing for 3 years and then we had our extremely rocky year and the Lord delivered us through it and got us through it, and we are better for it and closer and stronger in our relationship with the Father and with each other and after that hard year, every year since has been easier and easier and also I find we are more candid in our communication and we don’t bottle things in as much, we pray more together and we read the word together and after that hard year God blessed us with a son and it’s just been amazing the transformation we have gone through together! Been 10 years together and been married this year in August will be 8 years 🥰

  • @maritzah.4039
    @maritzah.4039 3 роки тому +1

    You guys look so good! Plus, I’m Cuban and have to say that Cuban food is a great option 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

  • @angeldream1
    @angeldream1 3 роки тому +12

    My husband and I met at Taco Bell. I’m sorry you didn’t feel good enough for Paul. I felt that way too that’s bc church and purity culture makes you feel less worth if you’ve been intimate with someone. I’m so sorry. I hope you don’t still feel that way. I still do at times but I remind myself that’s not true 💕

  • @divreenable
    @divreenable 3 роки тому +4

    Happy anniversaries 🥰🙏🎉

  • @yvettemcduffie1435
    @yvettemcduffie1435 2 роки тому

    I had to pause the video when you start talking about the pain and heartbreak you feel in marriage and honestly I paused it to type this out when you said God put you through the worst stuff at the beginning of your marriage , my hubby and I will be two years in January 25 of this month and I absolutely agree with you!! I feel like it has been so hard and I honestly feel like God said yeah let's put you through the hard stuff right now!! 😂 Man I really do resonate a lot with this. I love watching your videos Morgan. Very real and inspiring and humbling for sure.

  • @madelineskychambers6454
    @madelineskychambers6454 2 роки тому

    Love you guys !

  • @eileel3181
    @eileel3181 2 роки тому

    I sit here and smile throughout the video. I love your relationship !

  • @adirafearsjesus7778
    @adirafearsjesus7778 2 роки тому

    Yes sister the heartbreak ugh dont feel like it will work out just wanted to leave so many times. :((( yes and paul talking to you about something everyday i deal with this with my hubby too ugh. Just pray to God so He can change there hearts that what i am learning❤❤❤❤forgive always sister

  • @bridgetweaver6863
    @bridgetweaver6863 2 роки тому

    Love this! Morgan where is your butterfly shirt from?

  • @karabomoji3572
    @karabomoji3572 3 роки тому +1

    love it🥰

  • @huntervoket7166
    @huntervoket7166 3 роки тому +1

    Congrats Paul and Morgan 😀👍

  • @EvangelistLana
    @EvangelistLana 3 роки тому +2

    Happy 5th anniversary 💕✝️❤️‍🔥

  • @analizajensen5486
    @analizajensen5486 3 роки тому +2

    Great vlog can relate a ton!

    • @MorganOlli
      @MorganOlli  3 роки тому +1

      Love it! Thank you! 💜

  • @claubit32
    @claubit32 3 роки тому +3

    Morgan, in my eyes you have an incredibly strong faith walk! It’s hard to believe that you felt that Paul was too Godly for you.😊

  • @ellianna.keller
    @ellianna.keller Рік тому

    I feel like I'm like Morgan, why'd you miss that turn!!!!!!! Ahhh

  • @RootedInChrist9
    @RootedInChrist9 3 роки тому

    wisdom shown from learning from 1st year of your marriage very good insight✌🏾

  • @AlwaysLime
    @AlwaysLime 2 роки тому

    I totally relate about not brushing hair. People freak when I say I don’t brush. But it gets way out of control when I brush.

  • @melissacalderon1515
    @melissacalderon1515 3 роки тому +2

    That’s crazy how you met Paul in tinder 😂 mostly I think of tinder as a place where people go to hookup lol, God has very unique way putting people together ❤️

  • @victoriachannell8251
    @victoriachannell8251 3 роки тому +1

    Very cute dress Morgan! ☺️

  • @jensfriborg4227
    @jensfriborg4227 3 роки тому +2

    Beautiful couple for sure ☺️✨✨ yes I’ve had to ‘swallowˋ a few camels in my relationship too. Ten years and counting. Compromise man. This video was seeeew cute! Happy anniversary! ✨✨❤️‍🔥

  • @benjamintobias9055
    @benjamintobias9055 3 роки тому +1

    Happy Anniversary to both of you. Jesus loves Squishy (Mommy's talking! LOL).

  • @jonathanpickett3068
    @jonathanpickett3068 3 роки тому +2

    Lovely video, I've been on some chatlines, yet has a hard lifetime of trying them, I am still single and it is okay, just would be nice if I get someone new and good and Christian based, but I live in the middle of nowhere with other excuses, happy for others who made it so far.

  • @LiliiCampos
    @LiliiCampos 3 роки тому +1

    Morgan you are so sweet 🤗

  • @gabl3400
    @gabl3400 2 роки тому

    What breed of dog is squishy?

  • @karaa7595
    @karaa7595 3 роки тому +7

    ALL spouses annoy each other sometimes. "Babe...you are annoying me atm..." Is how we resolve that lol.
    "I believe in Jesus so there's that...." 😄 I met my husband online playing online games and we became besties. Eventually he moved from AU to marry me. 9.5 years later + a 6 year old son...

    • @MorganOlli
      @MorganOlli  3 роки тому

      Haha yes, exactly!
      Love it! 😄👏🏼

  • @BriannaNorum
    @BriannaNorum 2 роки тому

    Thoroughly enjoyed this video and how chill it was watching. I felt like I was just chillen with y'all haha. Gave me some good laughs too. Appreciate you guys and your transparency😊🤍. Jesus is the answer, amen! God bless you guys!

  • @dancindonuts4735
    @dancindonuts4735 3 роки тому

    WHOOO I FOUND IT!!!

  • @cindy000
    @cindy000 3 роки тому +1

    Sweet Couple.

  • @litgirlablaze3432
    @litgirlablaze3432 2 роки тому

    That’s how I thought about my bf when I met him. He was TOO GOOD for me like I had done bad stuff in my past and I felt that he was a goody two shoes too. But it’s the best relationship I’ve ever been in.

  • @jennifercrews3175
    @jennifercrews3175 3 роки тому +1

    7 years in and boy do I agree with the both of you!! It’s the dumb stuff like driving like you talked about. Death by paper cuts. 😬😬😬😬

  • @AlwaysLime
    @AlwaysLime 2 роки тому

    My husband and I are pretty much opposites. I’d definitely say years 9-11 were the roughest patch so far.

  • @litgirlablaze3432
    @litgirlablaze3432 2 роки тому

    Wait so is the zoo pics with the little kids the kids you used to nanny for!?

  • @crispinswainstonharrison9042
    @crispinswainstonharrison9042 3 роки тому +1

    Was it the virgin / not virgin issue that caused all the angst in your first year ? If not then what was it ?

    • @MorganOlli
      @MorganOlli  3 роки тому

      No, that was never an issue in our marriage. Praise God. It was just two very different personalities learning how to live together and being a team rather than being against each other.

  • @deloromcoburn9128
    @deloromcoburn9128 3 роки тому +1

    Congrats.... Mark your calendars

  • @litgirlablaze3432
    @litgirlablaze3432 2 роки тому

    Is squishy a Maltese poodle?

  • @peacewataba3325
    @peacewataba3325 3 роки тому +2

    right...i noticed he likes to roll his jeans

  • @HeyBerrie
    @HeyBerrie 2 роки тому

    Interesting, we have like the same hair...lol, texture and color seems soo familiar to me :D

  • @shey5323
    @shey5323 2 роки тому

    My dog also takes his food out of his bowl and puts it on the floor and eats it. So weird lol

  • @thatonegirl8975
    @thatonegirl8975 3 роки тому

    Do you think you'll ever get any more tattoos?

  • @litgirlablaze3432
    @litgirlablaze3432 2 роки тому

    2:05 guess you never have to worry about Paul going bald! Omg he’s got so much hair 😆

  • @kmleonard4
    @kmleonard4 3 роки тому +1

    I hope you find peace Morgan ❤️ the hurt in your eyes as you try to pull off this “image” is truly heartbreaking.

  • @deloromcoburn9128
    @deloromcoburn9128 3 роки тому +1

    Paul: "I hope you guys aren't like ... Being married to Paul..."
    Me: @haters don't marry Paul.
    @paul, be encouraged

  • @jnoneya7257
    @jnoneya7257 3 роки тому +1

    hard relationships have a lot to do with sins that you haven’t removed.. celebrating things that aren’t biblical that’s one … and having expectations and things not going as planned is an example of God’s wrath for wanting to be praised for a day.. drinking and eating pork seems like another sin from what I see.. yelling/raising your tone is another one that leads to bigger sin which is cursing and extreme and anger/disrespect.. also lack of faith that God has our backs no matter what is another sin … if you lack that faith, you will be controlling and easily agitated /nervous energy which is what I see in him but also her. I can also say I’ve realized many times humor comes from malice In our hearts which we all have .. usually it’s belittling someone or mocking them or out of anger .. those things are not of God.. but we do it anyway for instant pleasure. Don’t know your whole life but just from this clip is what I see. We need to focus on our own flaws vs our partner’s though .. if we can help ourselves first, things fall into place.Yea we all have our sins and have to work extra hard to remove them daily and repent daily but it just depends how much we want to try.

  • @honeycoco341
    @honeycoco341 2 роки тому

    Please Morgan do us a favor. Don’t ever wear makeup. You are soooooooooooo pretty without it. I’m not even joking. You are honestly so beautiful.

  • @faithmekonnen7673
    @faithmekonnen7673 2 роки тому

    But what if they are just a bad driver? Lol