It pisses me off so much that work has become some childish 1st grade classroom. These are things that should be repressed in the work space. I just wanna mind my own business and get a fair days pay for a fair days work without so much commotion from a bunch of weird people I don’t like who don’t act their age.
When it comes to the workplace my 3 golden rules are: Don't cause any problems. Don't get involved in any problems. Don't try to solve any problems. Arrive. Say good morning. Do my job. Clock out and go home.
I agree. People get in their FEELINGS AT WORK. I'm like w...t...f?! THIS IS WORK!!! I am not nobody's friend at work. People are fake AF, ESPECIALLY at work. You'll think just because you are "cool" with someone, that they will ride for you. Hell no, they WILL NOT. DO NOT GET ATTACHED.
yeah it’s unfortunate but true. I’ve heard my coworkers say fucked up shit about people when they’re not there but they show up and they’re all nice. I never got involved. I just knew they talked about me behind my back.
The workplace is too much like high school nowadays. People think just because they spend all their time at work that they should be "cool" with everyone.
Honey I showed up to my new job and was waiting for the supervisor in the break room and my new coworkers were trash talking every employee that wasn’t there! They don’t have to worry about me saying a mf word EVER! The one doing the most talking asked me how old I was and I said that’s a good question and didn’t even answer her😂😂😂😂😂😂
Your coworkers, bosses and supervisors will only show you a side of them that they allow you to see, not the real them. Watch who you get close to on the job, peeps. 🙃🙃
Confidence is quiet, insecurities are loud. Remember this when you see people who are to themselves and silent, verses those who are always clowning and laughing so damn loud you can hear them through the walls.
Love this comment! This is so very true! It is the insecure people with self esteem issues that always feel like they have something to prove! Absolutely! 💯🎯🎯🎯🎯
Job tips: Dont tell your buisness Listen, more than you talk Stay out of drama and wrk politics Dont recieve or give gifts (rides etc. From NOBODY!!!) Dont go to wrk making besties, be cordial (theres a diference) Dont tell HR who you got problems with...it never ends well. But keep a papertrail Do your job Get that bag & go df home!!!
Yup and also take long as bathroom breaks as long as reasonably possible because best believe the managers somewhere in the building sitting down doing nothing on they phones
Minding you business gets you targeted. Talking too much gets you in drama. Being the class clown gets you not taken serious. Being too nice gets you ran over. Being a good Samaritan "cpt save a h()" gets you in the middle of stuff. Doing your job right gets you in competitions. You can't win for lose with these jobs.😂😂 Thats why i just remain neutral, firm, fair, and consistent. You going to get the same ME everyday. Neutral, indifferent.
This is the truth, but even when you don't speak, it's a problem. I had issues for being quiet. Even a 1 on 1 conversation, someone is listening and will run to management and tell what they THINK they heard.
99.9% of the times, I am not interested in small talk or a conversation. I just wanna do my work and get my money. I have no interest in laffing at lame jokes that don't come close to being funny. From where do they get all that energy. The excessive talking and clowning around at 5 in the morning.
😐 Geeeeezzzzzzzzz!!!!! Beyonf true, happened again today!!! I literally ran escaped out of one side of the office when I got the chance and left home, crazy shit!
🫡 The lame ass jokes are the ones that make me wanna 🖐🏾💥 the hell out of'em! Like get'cho corny ass on some where PLEASE DAMN!! On the real mofo's are just more weird and lame now than ever😮💨
Note this, I’m 21 years old. I’ve got this dude in his 60’s coming up to me asking me to help solve his conflict with some middle aged woman in her 40’s, because they had some petty little argument, and now they got beef with each other. Why tf are you asking me to help YOU. You’re a grown ass adult, grow tf up, and figure out your own damn life. I’m all about being helpful, but not getting in the middle of drama, I fade into the shadows as soon as situations get to that point.
Starting a new job next week after a toxic experience. It's a fresh start so I'm watching these videos to help keep myself in check. Coworkers are NOT your friend!!
I learned that u have to be neutral.Agree to disagree,avoid small talk,and fade away soon as toxicity comes around ur way.Too many sinister people around.
at my current 9-5 i stay to myself i’m not rude i’m very humble (raised with manners and morals) but i’ve always been an introvert. sometimes in passing a co worker may say ‘hi, how are you’ of course i’ll respond back an keep it moving. but when i go to work i simply go there to do my job description that’s it’s, it’s no one’s business to know why i’m quiet at a professional setting like a 9-5 i’m not at nobody’s 9-5 to share my personal life with coworkers i keep my personal life outside of a 9-5 plus we’re too busy at work to be having full conversations, lol
All of these things you discuss here reminds me of a woman at my job that puts gossip and knowing things about people at the forefront of here very existence. She's hit her 40s, never took care of herself, and basically has lived the identity of "I'm a strong successful independent woman" for over a decade and just isn't ready to give it up. Gossips all day long. This woman wouldn't pass you a glass of water if you were on fire. She is constantly walking around talking about how busy she is, but she's never doing anything. So she just walks around all day. I say "if you're not doing anything, can you give me a hand with this?" And she gets angry and defensive and says things like "Uh uh! I got way too much work". And so I'll say something like "Oh. My bad. Since I saw you just hanging around and talking about (ANY GIVEN CO WORKERS NAME), you might've had some free time".
I often tend to do the exact opposite of what society does. Majority of people often tell everyone about their Wins and a lot of the time they exaggerate their wins and hide their losses. I do the exact opposite. I'll tell you about my Losses and even exaggerate them, heck ill even make up a loss lol and keep my Wins to myself. Because i learnt a long time ago that people like to see or hear about other people's struggles so i figured ill give them something to entertain thesmelves with. Also telling people about your wins oftens comes with envy, jealousy. We live in a society where people don't mind that you are doing well, so long as you are not doing better than them. So you let them think that way and keep you off the radar. And more often than not these same people that may be envious or jealous of you if they feel you are doing better than them will be a lot more caring and even helpful if they do not think you are doing better than them, but you actually are. Hide your wins and exaggerate or outright make up your losses ;)
It never fails.. it’s the older women that act like children and get jealous over anything. To them, everything is a competition and it shouldn’t even be like that in the workplace 🤦🏾♀️
I just started my new job in December. By nature and because of life experiences, I am 90 percent introverted. I have had people at my job tell my superiors that I am rude because I do not engage in small talk or cliquish. In my defense, they told my co-workers that I am the nicest guy in the world who keeps to himself.
Years ago, I told my coworker I was living with my parents. He made such a fuss about it, telling me how my salary is just pocket money, play money….while some friends of his have no job and can’t put food on the table for their kids… long story short…he got me fired. That was so f** up!!!!
Fr i told someone i live at home and it spread and every now and then coworkers would talk shit about me for living at home. Telling me i have no expenses unlike them. So i can’t relate to their struggles or whatever They didn’t know the reason i still live at home is because i’m the one paying the rent taking care of my sick mother and brother
Never share financial stability with people at work. Jealousy and envy is REAL!!! They get so upset. I don't even discuss holiday plans I simply say it's a break and act like I'm struggling too. Don't tell anyone your plans, too many snakes in the pit. I even drive a hoopty
I made the mistake years ago telling my boss and coworkers I was building a house after that that pos gave me the crap work the hard work and acted different towards me cause he knew I had a decent size bill on my hands and people started to watch when I called off or left early or worried who I had lunch with or talked to it’s sick
I also gotta mention. I will never forget the day I took up an offer from a female coworker (50) who was what you call “too good to be true” character. She tried to get all friendly, talked about her history at work and her wrestling career and that she had a business. I sat there asking myself what she doing here working at a janitorial job when she had all this in the past? Even promising that she’ll teach me how to do my job more efficiently etc and talk shit about my supervisor. I took her up on her offer to give me a ride home and she did. This was before she turned on me for no apparent reason. The same lady who tried to falsify shit to the police to get me locked up on false charges. Thank God I had a lawyer so the judge drop the charges thankfully but she was a bastard snake lady. I don’t take rides from no one anymore. Especially after the snake bit be in my soul with that level of manipulation she did. She even was like “now I know where you live” type of creepy shit. Never again did I fall for that trap. Now I just take the bus to work. Saves me money and my mental health. If anyone offer me a ride. I just turn them down and order a Uber on a rainy day and take the bus the rest of the week.
@@MelModica It was indeed very scary. The worst part was she preyed on me because 1) I was very young and 2) I was naive and stupid to believe her shit and 3) narcissists are predators and seek to find the weakest link to pull a stunt on them like that. This has only further motivated me to get my butt back to college and not work these low level jobs. I've seen too much injustice done at this point especially with regards to employers not listening to their employees grievances. I now know to just listen and if I spot any red flags with what a coworker is saying. Is to not believe them and deny their offers even if it's too good to be true. The devil disguises himself as an angel of light. That's the scariest part. And I took the bait and almost ended up in prison over some lady who came off angelic only to be a demon in disguise.
Going through this now I’m introverted and it’s a problem a older lady mad at me for whatever reason all she do is gossip about everyone and once I heard what she said bout me I completely ignored her existence! I don’t even speak ! I’m there to make money and go I’m currently looking for something else environment too nasty and weird my sanity comes first
ive had those co workers that hit me up after leaving a job .. they some real ones out there but i could relate trying to be friendly nd entertaining for 10 hrs a day .. that shit draining frfr .. it aint natural for mw but yeah i feel u 😂
I just started a job with no ride home. No bus. Uber$$$$ not worth it. I asked a coworker for a ride home and paid him well. Get's $100.00 a week. Costs him $20.00 in gas + time. We are both broke and this helps keep costs in check. A real blessing. That person may need you so think twice before dismissing them. We are human. But I agree if they expect it for free.
True I stay to myself but you can’t even keep quiet without them starting stuff or over friendly at work and of work they researching you driving by your house and other weird stuff, but I stay solo for a reason and keep my business private too along with my beliefs and opinions ❤
When I tell you , these was 💎 don’t forget when you transfer to another state with the same company and you try to be friendly and you the only one and nothing you do is good enough they team up against you like your a parasite and you flip the script and keep it strictly professional and they can’t stand it😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
My 2nd to last job I got snaked out by my assistant manager and GM to replace me and my last job I had 3 ppl go to HR to get me fired. Dude was leaving notes in the break room signing my name threatening somebody and all kinds of crazy stuff. Only reason I kept that job is because my supervisor had to go to HR and her supervisor personally all 3 times 😂. The guy got fired. Ended up leaving a few months after we came back from covid. That 2 month break before we came back opened my eyes up. Ppl wicked out here man. I quit in January and been working for myself since 2021 and haven't missed that life at all.
Sometimes some of us actually want to grow and prosper at work. Some professions making it through the whole employment process is exhausting so we get stuck thinking well grow, move up the ladder. Some people are actually pleasant if treated right.
17 years experienced at costco, yep, i've learned the hard way, they ARE not your friends, its all about nepotism/friends period, if you are working alone and dont know anyone, your fucked 100%
You definitely need to make more videos like this i rock with your job stories and i can relate. Especially working with a lot of gals it gets crazy at times.. My advice to anyone keep it respectful but dont become friends with these ppl especially if they gossip about ppl. Even ppl they cool with. Just work and go home .
The game changed. Especially for those that are on the older side of things. They remember better times when work was more Band of Brothers instead of todays Game of Thrones.
ngl i got upset of my closest coworker too for talking & spending much time to this chick i don’t like and tried to intimidate me several time. Yeah i guess it’s easy for some like u to set aside feelings but i barely trust people and if i trust u and i feel betrayed i kinda take it personally. It may just be only work but there’s personal relationship there
I feel ya. Maybe that woman in my story really felt she trusted me and in her eyes I betrayed her. Looking back, I should've just gave her a hug or something lol.
@@NtrissOfficial yeah it’s a form of betrayal tbh. She trusted u but the relationship u guys built was nothing to u at all based on what u said in this video. sad
@@adrian3747_ what if they barely spoke. It could have been a misunderstanding not a betrayal. One guy thought we were dating after he held the door open for me.
The office told her that shit because they like hmmm u didn’t wanna rat her out we’ll get somebody fired buy making her pissed at u to make it a hostile work environment Jobs especially warehouses do that shit on purpose ….its kinda sick its like they want a prison fight or something for their entertainment
I agree on all this definitely co workers are not ur friends and they used every book of the trick to even if it gets to the point throw u under the bus
The car ride reminded me of a story from a friend. This girl asked for a ride. He did. Then she accused him of sexual misconduct. The thing is he is gay. So obviously it didnt play out as she thought. After a week of investigation, she went up to him for ride. She fr? After all that she still asking for ride. 😂😂😂. He said no n she reported hr for discrimination. (Didnt work out obviously). No one wanted to work with her n slowly she quit. Then few months, a job called my mgr to ask about her as she applied to that job. Apparently she told them that she quit cause people were harassing her constantly. Truth were told to that job n thats that.😂😂😂 Edit: my friend isnt that gay dude. He just used to work there
This facts , me and my friend used to work at a job and I don’t have a car at the time so when he gave me a ride it was cool if not I would uber no problem and my friend he got one and this coworker tried to leach off him for a ride and we knew he was snake because when he said no that he couldn’t do it he basically turned 2 faced like you said if you do it once they expect it every day and yeah if a coworker gave me a ride I’m gonna give them money regardless that’s rude to not give a coworker anything if they offering you a ride
RR 🖕a co-worker,boss,whathave-you🖕🖕esp if there is no real benefit..if im not crackin,or we not makin nuffin happen to be stackin💸💸(moremoney) idgaf!! idgaf about ya $funds,idc about your kids,if you not hittin this🥒&nd ik thats a cardinal sin but🤷fvck it..its all about ME &nd MINE💸💸💸💳,point,blank,peri-odd..🙌
only way i could make it thru a workday is with my earbuds on .. shit is boring asf .. oh yeah nd look up a crypto called xrp bro ..jus saying im tryn to get to the point where i aint even gotta work anymore nd be fake for 10 hrs a day 😂
i just subscribed because u spoke nothing but the real from beg to end co workers are not your friends and people are users never tell people at your job your bussiness i been through all this but inset boundaries and i will roar and they know to back off i swear you sound like me the way i be snapping about these toxic ahh coworkers lol
1:00 1:30 2:00 2:28 4:00 extrov 4:20 know ur energy4:50 5:15
5:40 dont share social media6:13 6:35 9:00 10:39 11:39 slick plotting 12:25 13:30 ride 14:30 obligated 15:30 dudes childish 17:30 unloyal 18:00 ppl dont grow up 19:00 dont be friendly anymore 19:45 only connected with job 20:30 nobody gaf 21:00 dont get too close to Managers Authoritative figures 21:30 dont joke around 22:30 dont be buddy buddy 24:00 ppl will gossip on u 25:00 dont be too sociable 26:20 dont be delusional
I noticed when you go to work and mind your buisness and are mysterious get ready for the lies, rumors and gossip to come your way.
This happened to me unfortunately
It pisses me off so much that work has become some childish 1st grade classroom. These are things that should be repressed in the work space. I just wanna mind my own business and get a fair days pay for a fair days work without so much commotion from a bunch of weird people I don’t like who don’t act their age.
When it comes to the workplace my 3 golden rules are: Don't cause any problems. Don't get involved in any problems. Don't try to solve any problems. Arrive. Say good morning. Do my job. Clock out and go home.
I agree. People get in their FEELINGS AT WORK. I'm like w...t...f?! THIS IS WORK!!! I am not nobody's friend at work. People are fake AF, ESPECIALLY at work. You'll think just because you are "cool" with someone, that they will ride for you. Hell no, they WILL NOT. DO NOT GET ATTACHED.
So true 🙌
yeah it’s unfortunate but true. I’ve heard my coworkers say fucked up shit about people when they’re not there but they show up and they’re all nice. I never got involved. I just knew they talked about me behind my back.
@@jonnyjay3222 I believe it, just fake as hell.
The workplace is too much like high school nowadays. People think just because they spend all their time at work that they should be "cool" with everyone.
Honey I showed up to my new job and was waiting for the supervisor in the break room and my new coworkers were trash talking every employee that wasn’t there! They don’t have to worry about me saying a mf word EVER! The one doing the most talking asked me how old I was and I said that’s a good question and didn’t even answer her😂😂😂😂😂😂
Your coworkers, bosses and supervisors will only show you a side of them that they allow you to see, not the real them. Watch who you get close to on the job, peeps. 🙃🙃
Confidence is quiet, insecurities are loud. Remember this when you see people who are to themselves and silent, verses those who are always clowning and laughing so damn loud you can hear them through the walls.
Love this comment! This is so very true! It is the insecure people with self esteem issues that always feel like they have something to prove! Absolutely! 💯🎯🎯🎯🎯
Facts 😊
Big Facts
Job tips:
Dont tell your buisness
Listen, more than you talk
Stay out of drama and wrk politics
Dont recieve or give gifts (rides etc. From NOBODY!!!)
Dont go to wrk making besties, be cordial (theres a diference)
Dont tell HR who you got problems with...it never ends well. But keep a papertrail
Do your job
Get that bag & go df home!!!
Yup and also take long as bathroom breaks as long as reasonably possible because best believe the managers somewhere in the building sitting down doing nothing on they phones
Minding you business gets you targeted.
Talking too much gets you in drama.
Being the class clown gets you not taken serious.
Being too nice gets you ran over.
Being a good Samaritan "cpt save a h()" gets you in the middle of stuff.
Doing your job right gets you in competitions.
You can't win for lose with these jobs.😂😂
Thats why i just remain neutral, firm, fair, and consistent. You going to get the same ME everyday. Neutral, indifferent.
The matrix of jobs
Big Facts… I played stupid and crazy at work… ppl still harassed and tried to bully me, but didn’t get very far 😆
Such a shame we can’t be nice in the work life anymore 😔
Even when I stay to myself they come with the bullshit… I literally had someone dig up my past
Sound like they are obsessed with you.
@@antwanwilson7228 I would hope not😂
Lmao!! Same happens to me almost everyday 😂😂 wtf man ...i try to dodge and avoid the space to protect my energy
Kinda interesting when they tell an old version of u.
And also that’s why I don’t post shit personal on my social media anyway, I don’t want anyone knowing my personal business
Do your job, make your money, and go home. Nothing else.
This is the truth, but even when you don't speak, it's a problem. I had issues for being quiet. Even a 1 on 1 conversation, someone is listening and will run to management and tell what they THINK they heard.
99.9% of the times, I am not interested in small talk or a conversation. I just wanna do my work and get my money. I have no interest in laffing at lame jokes that don't come close to being funny. From where do they get all that energy. The excessive talking and clowning around at 5 in the morning.
All 100% undebatable facts
😐 Geeeeezzzzzzzzz!!!!! Beyonf true, happened again today!!! I literally ran escaped out of one side of the office when I got the chance and left home, crazy shit!
🫡 The lame ass jokes are the ones that make me wanna 🖐🏾💥 the hell out of'em! Like get'cho corny ass on some where PLEASE DAMN!! On the real mofo's are just more weird and lame now than ever😮💨
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At the end of day just remember its just business.No friendship when money is involved
Note this, I’m 21 years old. I’ve got this dude in his 60’s coming up to me asking me to help solve his conflict with some middle aged woman in her 40’s, because they had some petty little argument, and now they got beef with each other. Why tf are you asking me to help YOU. You’re a grown ass adult, grow tf up, and figure out your own damn life. I’m all about being helpful, but not getting in the middle of drama, I fade into the shadows as soon as situations get to that point.
Starting a new job next week after a toxic experience. It's a fresh start so I'm watching these videos to help keep myself in check. Coworkers are NOT your friend!!
Started a new job and met the supervisor and was being buddy buddy with him and 5 mins after he walked away UA-cam recommended your channel 😂😂
I learned that u have to be neutral.Agree to disagree,avoid small talk,and fade away soon as toxicity comes around ur way.Too many sinister people around.
at my current 9-5 i stay to myself i’m not rude i’m very humble (raised with manners and morals) but i’ve always been an introvert. sometimes in passing a co worker may say ‘hi, how are you’ of course i’ll respond back an keep it moving. but when i go to work i simply go there to do my job description that’s it’s, it’s no one’s business to know why i’m quiet at a professional setting like a 9-5 i’m not at nobody’s 9-5 to share my personal life with coworkers i keep my personal life outside of a 9-5 plus we’re too busy at work to be having full conversations, lol
All of these things you discuss here reminds me of a woman at my job that puts gossip and knowing things about people at the forefront of here very existence. She's hit her 40s, never took care of herself, and basically has lived the identity of "I'm a strong successful independent woman" for over a decade and just isn't ready to give it up. Gossips all day long. This woman wouldn't pass you a glass of water if you were on fire. She is constantly walking around talking about how busy she is, but she's never doing anything. So she just walks around all day. I say "if you're not doing anything, can you give me a hand with this?" And she gets angry and defensive and says things like "Uh uh! I got way too much work". And so I'll say something like "Oh. My bad. Since I saw you just hanging around and talking about (ANY GIVEN CO WORKERS NAME), you might've had some free time".
I often tend to do the exact opposite of what society does. Majority of people often tell everyone about their Wins and a lot of the time they exaggerate their wins and hide their losses. I do the exact opposite. I'll tell you about my Losses and even exaggerate them, heck ill even make up a loss lol and keep my Wins to myself. Because i learnt a long time ago that people like to see or hear about other people's struggles so i figured ill give them something to entertain thesmelves with. Also telling people about your wins oftens comes with envy, jealousy. We live in a society where people don't mind that you are doing well, so long as you are not doing better than them. So you let them think that way and keep you off the radar. And more often than not these same people that may be envious or jealous of you if they feel you are doing better than them will be a lot more caring and even helpful if they do not think you are doing better than them, but you actually are.
Hide your wins and exaggerate or outright make up your losses ;)
Facts
It never fails.. it’s the older women that act like children and get jealous over anything. To them, everything is a competition and it shouldn’t even be like that in the workplace 🤦🏾♀️
Once I brought up something good I had going on for myself, the person got a little irritated, and was like, “oH tHaT’s GrEaT.” Sarcastic af.
I just started my new job in December. By nature and because of life experiences, I am 90 percent introverted. I have had people at my job tell my superiors that I am rude because I do not engage in small talk or cliquish. In my defense, they told my co-workers that I am the nicest guy in the world who keeps to himself.
Your coworkers are definitely not your friends. Great video 💯📸💯📸💯📸📸💯📸📸💯.
Years ago, I told my coworker I was living with my parents. He made such a fuss about it, telling me how my salary is just pocket money, play money….while some friends of his have no job and can’t put food on the table for their kids… long story short…he got me fired.
That was so f** up!!!!
Wow
Fr i told someone i live at home and it spread and every now and then coworkers would talk shit about me for living at home. Telling me i have no expenses unlike them. So i can’t relate to their struggles or whatever
They didn’t know the reason i still live at home is because i’m the one paying the rent taking care of my sick mother and brother
@@Andreas16375 I swear ! People are running their mouths on subjects they know nothing about!!!
Never share financial stability with people at work. Jealousy and envy is REAL!!! They get so upset. I don't even discuss holiday plans I simply say it's a break and act like I'm struggling too. Don't tell anyone your plans, too many snakes in the pit. I even drive a hoopty
I made the mistake years ago telling my boss and coworkers I was building a house after that that pos gave me the crap work the hard work and acted different towards me cause he knew I had a decent size bill on my hands and people started to watch when I called off or left early or worried who I had lunch with or talked to it’s sick
I also gotta mention. I will never forget the day I took up an offer from a female coworker (50) who was what you call “too good to be true” character. She tried to get all friendly, talked about her history at work and her wrestling career and that she had a business. I sat there asking myself what she doing here working at a janitorial job when she had all this in the past?
Even promising that she’ll teach me how to do my job more efficiently etc and talk shit about my supervisor. I took her up on her offer to give me a ride home and she did. This was before she turned on me for no apparent reason. The same lady who tried to falsify shit to the police to get me locked up on false charges. Thank God I had a lawyer so the judge drop the charges thankfully but she was a bastard snake lady. I don’t take rides from no one anymore. Especially after the snake bit be in my soul with that level of manipulation she did. She even was like “now I know where you live” type of creepy shit. Never again did I fall for that trap.
Now I just take the bus to work. Saves me money and my mental health. If anyone offer me a ride. I just turn them down and order a Uber on a rainy day and take the bus the rest of the week.
That’s seriously scary. You literally cannot trust anyone.
@@MelModica It was indeed very scary. The worst part was she preyed on me because 1) I was very young and 2) I was naive and stupid to believe her shit and 3) narcissists are predators and seek to find the weakest link to pull a stunt on them like that.
This has only further motivated me to get my butt back to college and not work these low level jobs. I've seen too much injustice done at this point especially with regards to employers not listening to their employees grievances. I now know to just listen and if I spot any red flags with what a coworker is saying. Is to not believe them and deny their offers even if it's too good to be true. The devil disguises himself as an angel of light. That's the scariest part. And I took the bait and almost ended up in prison over some lady who came off angelic only to be a demon in disguise.
Facts the be like are you okk? Yea Im just here to do my job that’s it.
Fr, they tryna act like they care about you, but they don’t. I hate that question in the workplace, “Are you ok?”
You better than me, I only speak to coworkers, if spoken too
I don't speak then 🙅🏾♂️
Going through this now I’m introverted and it’s a problem a older lady mad at me for whatever reason all she do is gossip about everyone and once I heard what she said bout me I completely ignored her existence! I don’t even speak ! I’m there to make money and go I’m currently looking for something else environment too nasty and weird my sanity comes first
Damn
How it be
I'm kinda introvert to a little but I'm tryna break out of it because people be having me mess up they got to mess around n find out
They certainly are not my friends.
ive had those co workers that hit me up after leaving a job .. they some real ones out there but i could relate trying to be friendly nd entertaining for 10 hrs a day .. that shit draining frfr .. it aint natural for mw but yeah i feel u 😂
Thanks for that reminder. Anything you tell them is entertainment for them. Yup.
I just started a job with no ride home. No bus. Uber$$$$ not worth it. I asked a coworker for a ride home and paid him well. Get's $100.00 a week. Costs him $20.00 in gas + time. We are both broke and this helps keep costs in check. A real blessing. That person may need you so think twice before dismissing them. We are human. But I agree if they expect it for free.
True I stay to myself but you can’t even keep quiet without them starting stuff or over friendly at work and of work they researching you driving by your house and other weird stuff, but I stay solo for a reason and keep my business private too along with my beliefs and opinions ❤
When I tell you , these was 💎 don’t forget when you transfer to another state with the same company and you try to be friendly and you the only one and nothing you do is good enough they team up against you like your a parasite and you flip the script and keep it strictly professional and they can’t stand it😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
My 2nd to last job I got snaked out by my assistant manager and GM to replace me and my last job I had 3 ppl go to HR to get me fired. Dude was leaving notes in the break room signing my name threatening somebody and all kinds of crazy stuff. Only reason I kept that job is because my supervisor had to go to HR and her supervisor personally all 3 times 😂. The guy got fired. Ended up leaving a few months after we came back from covid. That 2 month break before we came back opened my eyes up. Ppl wicked out here man. I quit in January and been working for myself since 2021 and haven't missed that life at all.
You're right brother do your job and go home
I hate this B at my old job that cost
Me my job, trust nobody.
I felt this fr fr, especially with the ride situation
A1 job etiquette content
This video is TOO relatable lmao
Sometimes some of us actually want to grow and prosper at work. Some professions making it through the whole employment process is exhausting so we get stuck thinking well grow, move up the ladder. Some people are actually pleasant if treated right.
You definitely have to know your boundaries when dealing with people. I learned the hard way when I first entered the workforce as a teenager.
17 years experienced at costco, yep, i've learned the hard way, they ARE not your friends, its all about nepotism/friends period, if you are working alone and dont know anyone, your fucked 100%
You definitely need to make more videos like this i rock with your job stories and i can relate. Especially working with a lot of gals it gets crazy at times..
My advice to anyone keep it respectful but dont become friends with these ppl especially if they gossip about ppl. Even ppl they cool with. Just work and go home .
I'm happy go lucky everyday and still don't mess with coworkers regarding anything outside of work. But you are correct about coworkers
Facts 💯 u going places young man 84!
The game changed. Especially for those that are on the older side of things. They remember better times when work was more Band of Brothers instead of todays Game of Thrones.
Do your job, get your money.
I'm trying. Real talk, they are not your friends at all.
I have experienced everything you saying here.
So true!. I completely relate.
No shit. It’s all a competition. They act as your friend until they throw you under the bus to get a promotion.
Facts 🎯💯
Love this vid!! Thanks for being real 😃🙌
Facts on facts
Found rhis out yesterday been at my job a year and im srill here. Imm be nice and polite to them but i wont say any more than work related shit
Good spit O.G gaslighting at it’s finest, the work place
I've been out of work 6 months heard fuck all from so called friends.
Facts my man
All my co-workers do is try to keep me behind on my work. I can't stand them anymore...bunch of fake haters.
Nothing but facts were stated in this video
ngl i got upset of my closest coworker too for talking & spending much time to this chick i don’t like and tried to intimidate me several time. Yeah i guess it’s easy for some like u to set aside feelings but i barely trust people and if i trust u and i feel betrayed i kinda take it personally. It may just be only work but there’s personal relationship there
I feel ya. Maybe that woman in my story really felt she trusted me and in her eyes I betrayed her. Looking back, I should've just gave her a hug or something lol.
@@NtrissOfficial yeah it’s a form of betrayal tbh. She trusted u but the relationship u guys built was nothing to u at all based on what u said in this video. sad
@@adrian3747_ what if they barely spoke. It could have been a misunderstanding not a betrayal. One guy thought we were dating after he held the door open for me.
@@NtrissOfficialshe childish because yall both could have had unadult convo u don't owe her nothing
The office told her that shit because they like hmmm u didn’t wanna rat her out we’ll get somebody fired buy making her pissed at u to make it a hostile work environment Jobs especially warehouses do that shit on purpose ….its kinda sick its like they want a prison fight or something for their entertainment
I agree on all this definitely co workers are not ur friends and they used every book of the trick to even if it gets to the point throw u under the bus
So true😊
The car ride reminded me of a story from a friend. This girl asked for a ride. He did. Then she accused him of sexual misconduct. The thing is he is gay. So obviously it didnt play out as she thought. After a week of investigation, she went up to him for ride. She fr? After all that she still asking for ride. 😂😂😂. He said no n she reported hr for discrimination. (Didnt work out obviously). No one wanted to work with her n slowly she quit. Then few months, a job called my mgr to ask about her as she applied to that job. Apparently she told them that she quit cause people were harassing her constantly. Truth were told to that job n thats that.😂😂😂
Edit: my friend isnt that gay dude. He just used to work there
Very edifying
Yea stay away from Kenyatta Jordan Louisville Ky, she tells everybody’s business. 😂
DAMN😂😂😂
Is she a bus driver in Louisville?
@@Noble_Jedi83 DOUBLE DAMN YOU KNO WHO SHE TALKIN ABOUT?!!!😂🤣😂
@@tanasiap8308 Google is our friend in today’s world 🤣
@@Noble_Jedi83 O 🤣😂🤣 I WAS BOUT TO SAY THATS JUST SAD!!!
This facts , me and my friend used to work at a job and I don’t have a car at the time so when he gave me a ride it was cool if not I would uber no problem and my friend he got one and this coworker tried to leach off him for a ride and we knew he was snake because when he said no that he couldn’t do it he basically turned 2 faced like you said if you do it once they expect it every day and yeah if a coworker gave me a ride I’m gonna give them money regardless that’s rude to not give a coworker anything if they offering you a ride
subscribed. love your vids
RR 🖕a co-worker,boss,whathave-you🖕🖕esp if there is no real benefit..if im not crackin,or we not makin nuffin happen to be stackin💸💸(moremoney) idgaf!! idgaf about ya $funds,idc about your kids,if you not hittin this🥒&nd ik thats a cardinal sin but🤷fvck it..its all about ME &nd MINE💸💸💸💳,point,blank,peri-odd..🙌
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only way i could make it thru a workday is with my earbuds on .. shit is boring asf .. oh yeah nd look up a crypto called xrp bro ..jus saying im tryn to get to the point where i aint even gotta work anymore nd be fake for 10 hrs a day 😂
All jobs are boring af waste of time.
I relate 💯.
I’m just like you man lol . Great video
not true if you find the right person to work with you can be friends. Only few lucky people get these opportunities
True, I’ve made 1 long term friend at work, but now idgaf anymore
yep thats why I have no problem telling my coworkers off or have bumped heads wit em cuz I know they're full of shit and run their girly mouth
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I dont have nothing to say at all to nobody do my job go home thats it 🙅🏾♂️
Exactly and that of your viewers feel the same way they can only fake it so long
They wanted to fight at work omg
This the fuckin streets 😅
Hope you don’t work at the same place and that job don’t have your UA-cam info lol😂😂
How old are you?
i just subscribed because u spoke nothing but the real from beg to end co workers are not your friends and people are users never tell people at your job your bussiness i been through all this but inset boundaries and i will roar and they know to back off i swear you sound like me the way i be snapping about these toxic ahh coworkers lol