@@jazzy9282pray that protection of God. You'll be OK. Do your meditation and stay sharp with your professional skills and communication skills to divert them.
@@sweetcapricornthat’s usually how it goes. It’s not enough to just come to work and do your job anymore, they wanna know all your business in the name of team building 😂🙄
I practice the “non-social” at work, and they hate it!! They hate the fact that they don’t know much about me. But, once they realize they can’t get in your business about your personal/private life, then the LIES come towards you. It’s pathetic!!
Hunny, them demons posing as angels are so cruel. Don't be fooled by the fake smile, gifts and helpful behavior. Don't do it!! It's a spiritual warfare in the workplace 🙏 pray for favor,Grace & Mercy on ya job ya'll.
Co-workers are weird. My boss use to be all in my financial business. He wanted to know my household income, where my husband worked, and where we lived. Honestly, it was a competition thing. He use to always say I was broke or homeless , so that I could defend myself and spill my business. Luckily, I was smart enough not to fall into his trap.
I have the opposite problem. Although I'm quiet at work, people love to talk incessantly about themselves and their problems to me, that is draining. I truly hate working in an office.
Ik it’s easier said than done, but it’s time you stand up for yourself. In a nice but stern way, let them know that the constant negativity is draining. Let’s not talk about this now. The more upfront you are, the more free you’ll be. If you don’t feel comfortable doing it right away, practice this with a close family member. Little by little, you’ll feel comfortable doing it with everyone
Facts. I used to talk about my partner and they would throw shady shots at me to “convince me to break up with him”. Like why tf do y’all care? Once I stopped telling them stuff, they stopped asking. Now, another coworker tells them about his love life and I watch how they tear him down and belittle his relationship. The proof was right there! I’m not telling them anything anymore!
Best advice EVER!! I just started a new job and I’m so glad I found this video 😊 I’ve dealt with messy coworkers at my last job and u don’t even realize that they are gossiping about u until it’s too late. Yes- you’re right - don’t even talk about your husband !
And Do not add them on social media ! That's the same as telling them about your business. Trust you will benefit in the end. I left FB and I'm only on IG under a nickname and my life is very peaceful as a result.
Meme, gurl u on point. There is this messy man at my job who goes around stirring the pot and I’m like damn..messy people everywhere. I gotta keep my business to myself.
My supervisor used to be like that he’s would tell everyone that I had a huge attitude problems, when I barely had talk to him I had put him in his place a couple of times, now I’m dealing with this one other coworker, on her second day in the job I did all of the work she had lie on me , she must of forgotten bc …I had called her out last week. bout the same thing, she the type that would lie on you just to make herself look good. Oh men let’s just say that she didn’t like when I had told the truth on her, honestly I wasn’t making a huge deal about the situation.
@@dystanysam9896she’s the devil. She just started that job and is already starting mess. I wouldn’t want her to speak to me. We’re only discussing work related stuff.
It’s one thing when teens be gossiping but when grown adults at a workplace be gossiping about other co workers, it shows the level of maturity they really have. That’s why I made a promise to myself to just go to work, stack my money and go home. Also I would add to never hang out with co workers and never tell them what days you are off
I don’t have any pictures of my family in my office. I never talk to anyone about my personal life. They also don’t have access to any social media accounts because I blocked them all.
I cant stand messy coworkers and you definitely spoke the truth. Which is why i go to work and dont really talk with nobody especially THE CLICK lol . I clock in , work, clock out, go home. Simple.
I just show up to work and nothing else hardly talk to anyone if asked about something that is non of there business I say nothing I can and have gone all day without talking to anybody and that is freedom
You are so right on this one sister, I use to work for the post office so you can imagine the drama that occurs here. I learned this the hard way . I learned to just stay out the way and mind my business, then I was labeled as being stand off ish or anti social, but after awhile I just didn’t give a fuck . I would put my head phones on and stay to myself, gotta ask did you work for the post office.
This video popped in my recommandtion and im going through it at work. I did all of that, im shy and doesn’t really talk if i dont feel like talking, also my accent is horrible in english, my life id boring af so there’s nothing to say anything… and yet they can’t stand me because of it, now im even more reluctant of even talking about me. I recently got demoted as well and it feels so humiliating and demoralizing and i acted a bit out of character so that’s on me, I pray God protect me from these people. They also been saying that I’m weird and crazy yet they don’t know anything about me. I was getting along with everyone until this extrovert obsessed racist woman came over and wanted to abuse her power over me, the same woman who pretended to be friendly and wanted information out of me just to bring me down more. Im so so tired, it was my best job and some co workers were chill. Thank you for your video.
I’ve been on my job for 6 months and three coworkers. Showed me their true colors. This is at a hospital, they are so disrespectful and unprofessional. The person that trained me told me to face that I’m throwed off. My reaction was a nervous laugh. But, she want to play in my face a couple of days later. I don’t want them folks to say a word to me. Unless it’s work related. Don’t even speak me.
Great video. Unfortunately you can do all that then they'll start lying on you. As the saying goes, if people don't know anything about you they'll start to make things up.
This is right. They will make up stories about you even if you don’t divulge your personal info. If you like to mind your business “they” will complain to the boss that you are not friendly. I really don’t care. Just don’t hinder me from doing my actual work.
@@khandibaugh23 right and if it gets to a point that you are mobbed ( managers AND coworkers are in on it) harassing bullying public humiliation and such at work sometimes the only option is to leave to preserve physical emotional and mental well being. If you don’t have your health you cannot work. Some situations are so severe. Each person has to determine if they can “stick it out”. If there’s a narcissistic leader and coworkers and there’s a situation of abuse it’s just not sustainable.
Not a single lie was spoken here! 😂 I've got some messy coworkers and I'll just say this. I knocked up my best friend three years ago, she's still pregnant apparently. I'm also somehow gay.
I only say general things. I am very conscious about what I say because I work in an office with 89 people and yes some of the men are worse than the women. In my office they all go out together get drunk together and gossip about each other. I’m not into the gossiping if they want to gossip about me that’s on them but I have better things to focus on like what I’m having for lunch
"talk about the weather, talk about the air" LMAOOO TRUEEE. I be keeping myself to myself now i dont tell anyone anything, im just there to do my work, get paid and go home
Two weeks in.....its a mess, but I m about to turn over a new leaf tomorrow. If it's not about work.... there's nothing to talk about. She's not my buddy.
I agree with what she is saying but I thank God for blessing me with amazing coworkers. I never had any messy situations with any of them and I pray it will always stay that way. The messiest people you can sometimes be around is your own family members and your so called outside friends.
Everything you say is very true but I had to tell someone that was gossiping about we all make the same amount of money. I had to tell the person. It depends on how much you have leftover after you paid your bills. That’s the difference
I don't talk about the air, social media, and hardly the weather. More than 90 percent of the time I talk about work and that is it. I sometimes drop a few things on their laps and in my own twisted way see how long it will take them to go back and tell people what I've said. I just did that this past Thursday, so things are about to get interesting.
I'm going to take your advice, from now on I won't be talking about my life to anyone at work. All they do is take it and use it against me. I really thought they were my friends, but they're just co workers, there's a big difference.
I'm being trained by this young messy lil Mexican girl, who tried to scared me into thinking I was going to get into trouble if I didnt do what she says. I did well not to crack up laughing in her face.
You are so right I have a Messi coworker she is so jealous of methat she would human resources it said that I was talking about retiringwith somebody asked me how long I would have been on my jobshe just started four years ago and she is so jealous that I have 30 yearsand it's soon be leaving she said I should not become a personal business with I didn't ask me how many years I had employed with the IRS she has with human resources more than nine times on me with complaintsI got tired of her and I wrote her up the human resources and said that she was bullying by making me fabricated complaints
@@memesmith1467 I have no conversation..for her. I wrote her up really good she was human resources to bully people..I don't speak..I walk be say nothing unless I have to. I can sit next to her in a cubical and I don't speak.i meant what I said..she was bullying people by going to he..she was investigated by henshe went 15 times on supervisor .and 10 on me as well as others. I called it. She was suspended
myeyesinside out I don’t blame you for not speaking, she is off the chain, I’m very good at making a person think their invisible, she’s not even worth speaking to, I hate bullies
Hey my experience of a coworker, they speak to every morning when she see me but one day she call me and said Gma as I walking and responded back , look back a second and seen she had her eyez rolls
What you mean to people is out of your business unless they ask you to participate the expression what people think about you is none of your business is not intellectual property and they have no right making object in there drama. Don't talk about people unless you're in a situation with or if it's actually about the person . But I love the point that people do not gossip about choosers but instead teardown people who threaten them in directly
First of all… I love the video ❤️but that’s the problem.. she and I don’t make the same money ✌🏽that’s why she mad. I don’t give a damn either and I’m fixing my hair and always FLY😎
Glad I'm older now. Wish I knew then what I know now. Folks love mess and keep it going. I aged out of that foolishness and could care less about what these heffas pop their gums about. If they didn't hire me, write my paychecks, or pay my bills then they don't have no power. The key is know who has real authority and to move accordingly.
I got young ones trying to compete with me about buttocks!! Mines is natural and they went out to go get bbl and when they see me they tuck there shirts in those skinny pants!!! 😂 it’s crazy
Hi, any advice in how to reverse this? I've talked to way too many coworkers about personal stuff, and although nothing has come back to me. I'm not oblivious with acting like people aren't talking about me behind my back. The damage is already done, and I can't erase what I already opened up my mouth about. I wish I can get a while new job and start over. In the meantime, how do I carry on knowing these ppl already know what they know now? Thank you. All comments and advice is welcome. Please be nice ❤️❤️
I've done in the past and recently. I forget people are people. The best way I know how to get out out of it is to pretend like nothing ever happened and start to move in silence. Every time they ask about your status keep it short and sweet. They will eventually move on.
Thank U for the confirmation it not U it's them especially when U minding your business not caring about their business just at work taking care of business for the business that matters the ones who sign that paycheck get paid and go home somewhere. I don't sleep with U, I don't have to eat with U kiss up to U my only concern is my work ethic.
Sometimes they even expect you to work while they get paid. An agency told me it is supposed to be team work. I told her I will never be the only one on the team
worked w this nasty old lady 3 years now. haven't talked in a year. she always tries to make small talk. cussed her twice professionally. ... now bc i don't care to mingle its communication team player bs but when i was running my mouth and sharing problems or seeking advice was cool. now I'm distant it's a issue. can't win
Neighborhood market Walmart in so CA have alot....we don't talk about personal life ..they paid to find it all out.. Connected to illegally tracking phones and gangstalking...
I had a friend whi woukd always mick me when I talked about stuff I knew something about, After a whike it became ibvious this person was nit really a friends.
Here's the thing. When you avoid mess people start targeting you even more. It is annoying.
I’m dealing with this right now
@@caramelchanel86 I'm sorry. Eventually they will get tired and move on.
@@talktothehand2012it’s been 3 years they are not tired , they have recruited more people.
@@jazzy9282pray that protection of God. You'll be OK. Do your meditation and stay sharp with your professional skills and communication skills to divert them.
@@ShinySilverBunny💯% Facts!
Coworkers are the fakest people you would ever encounter. They’ll smile at you at first then bam! Show their true colors
This part
Learned this the hard way but going forward I know what to do
I never talk about myself with people I work with. I don’t even like small talk. If it’s not about work, we have nothing to talk about.
That's my stance now.
I'm finding this out....more and more.
Same and this new job don’t understand this they labeling me as negative not a team player
@@sweetcapricornthat’s usually how it goes. It’s not enough to just come to work and do your job anymore, they wanna know all your business in the name of team building 😂🙄
@@sweetcapricornoh wow
The person that trained me told me to stay out of drama to keep my head down and mouth shut. Best advice ive ever gotten from a coworker
I practice the “non-social” at work, and they hate it!! They hate the fact that they don’t know much about me. But, once they realize they can’t get in your business about your personal/private life, then the LIES come towards you. It’s pathetic!!
Well Said!
WELL SAID its happening to me now and nobody likes me or talks to me anymore because of all the lies😭
Coworkers can get OBSESSED easily and you won't see the red flags!
Hunny, them demons posing as angels are so cruel. Don't be fooled by the fake smile, gifts and helpful behavior. Don't do it!! It's a spiritual warfare in the workplace 🙏 pray for favor,Grace & Mercy on ya job ya'll.
Co-workers are weird. My boss use to be all in my financial business. He wanted to know my household income, where my husband worked, and where we lived. Honestly, it was a competition thing. He use to always say I was broke or homeless , so that I could defend myself and spill my business. Luckily, I was smart enough not to fall into his trap.
Yeah that is weird
Yeah, secretly laugh at coo-coos like him, all the way to the bank.🍀
Why? So weird and he's the boss. He should be making more money. Why is he so concerned about your pocket book? Smh
That’s why sometimes I just be lying and making stuff about my personal life. So I can laugh and they can spread fake gossip. 😂
Omg I do too! Also to see how the story traveled. People only know what you tell them and you can decide if it's true or not. 😉
I’m getting ready to start a new job so I’m glad I came across this comment along with the video 😅
Lmao😂 love it!
Yess I do this too
Genius 😂😂👏
Co workers are gossipy i try stay out of that stuff its immature
Amen to this! This is why I keep to myself at work. I don’t even sit in the lunch rooms anymore.
SMART
I stopped doing that too.
Me either.
I don’t blame you I wouldn’t either I would eat outside if I had to
I sit in the dim lit locker room, in my little corner. The best spot.
I have been this way all my life and folks call me stuck up.
Relatable.
I can relate
Same. I just see it as stuck up in my own business. 🤷🏻♀️
Yes Stuck up in my own business 😂 lol
Me too and I can’t help myself.
I have the opposite problem. Although I'm quiet at work, people love to talk incessantly about themselves and their problems to me, that is draining. I truly hate working in an office.
Ik it’s easier said than done, but it’s time you stand up for yourself. In a nice but stern way, let them know that the constant negativity is draining. Let’s not talk about this now. The more upfront you are, the more free you’ll be. If you don’t feel comfortable doing it right away, practice this with a close family member. Little by little, you’ll feel comfortable doing it with everyone
@@gleeannsmith5232 Great advice, thanks!
"Messy co workers" and "jealously" videos keep showing up in my feeds
Remember youngins. People want to destroy what they covet.
Facts. I used to talk about my partner and they would throw shady shots at me to “convince me to break up with him”. Like why tf do y’all care? Once I stopped telling them stuff, they stopped asking. Now, another coworker tells them about his love life and I watch how they tear him down and belittle his relationship. The proof was right there! I’m not telling them anything anymore!
Even when you personal they make up shit omg…
Facts some coworkers the worse
The coworkers that make up shit are the devil.
I also like to let the self-important attention seekers do all the talking about themselves lol
I needed this! Especially in CALL CENTERS.
I couldn’t careless about my co workers yet they trying to be in my business and mad I won’t allow them 😮😂
Best advice EVER!! I just started a new job and I’m so glad I found this video 😊 I’ve dealt with messy coworkers at my last job and u don’t even realize that they are gossiping about u until it’s too late. Yes- you’re right - don’t even talk about your husband !
At this point, working from home is my only sensible option for a paycheck and peace of mind. ❤️
…because working amongst others ain’t it. 🚫
Same omg....
praying to find a wfh job bc I’ve always hated working amongst others
Me too honestly as an Empath I don’t like being around people evil people can smear a good person in attempt to ruin their reputation
And Do not add them on social media ! That's the same as telling them about your business. Trust you will benefit in the end. I left FB and I'm only on IG under a nickname and my life is very peaceful as a result.
That’s the truth if anything look for their profile then block them so they won’t know
When they know nothing they assume things and spread assumptions. Also won't like you bc you're not telling your business. People are petty.
Now I'm dealing with being to personal and gossipy at first, now I don't want to deal with any of it. It's draining
Let things die down then change the narrative
She’s giving me life fixing her hair and dropping these jewels 💎. Yasssssss! Be Fly, do you and stay out of the mix.
FACT'S
Meme, gurl u on point. There is this messy man at my job who goes around stirring the pot and I’m like damn..messy people everywhere. I gotta keep my business to myself.
My supervisor used to be like that he’s would tell everyone that I had a huge attitude problems, when I barely had talk to him I had put him in his place a couple of times,
now I’m dealing with this one other coworker, on her second day in the job I did all of the work she had lie on me , she must of forgotten bc …I had called her out last week. bout the same thing, she the type that would lie on you just to make herself look good. Oh men let’s just say that she didn’t like when I had told the truth on her, honestly I wasn’t making a huge deal about the situation.
Now on if my ,manager asked me questions. I’m just going to stay quiet but speak up when I really needed to talk.
@@dystanysam9896she’s the devil. She just started that job and is already starting mess. I wouldn’t want her to speak to me. We’re only discussing work related stuff.
It’s one thing when teens be gossiping but when grown adults at a workplace be gossiping about other co workers, it shows the level of maturity they really have. That’s why I made a promise to myself to just go to work, stack my money and go home. Also I would add to never hang out with co workers and never tell them what days you are off
The damn telephone game is what it is. That's why I'm the master of minding my business.
I don’t have any pictures of my family in my office. I never talk to anyone about my personal life. They also don’t have access to any social media accounts because I blocked them all.
That’s the way to do it😊
Good riddance to bad rubbish narcissistic losers only add them if they are Empath like you. ❤️💡😃🙏🙏🙏🙏
I cant stand messy coworkers and you definitely spoke the truth. Which is why i go to work and dont really talk with nobody especially THE CLICK lol . I clock in , work, clock out, go home. Simple.
I just show up to work and nothing else hardly talk to anyone if asked about something that is non of there business I say nothing I can and have gone all day without talking to anybody and that is freedom
You are so right on this one sister, I use to work for the post office so you can imagine the drama that occurs here. I learned this the hard way . I learned to just stay out the way and mind my business, then I was labeled as being stand off ish or anti social, but after awhile I just didn’t give a fuck . I would put my head phones on and stay to myself, gotta ask did you work for the post office.
Post office is sooooooooooooo TOXIC.
It’s toxic on every job.
Clock in clock out.
That baby laughed when you said your dog 😂😂😂
This video popped in my recommandtion and im going through it at work. I did all of that, im shy and doesn’t really talk if i dont feel like talking, also my accent is horrible in english, my life id boring af so there’s nothing to say anything… and yet they can’t stand me because of it, now im even more reluctant of even talking about me. I recently got demoted as well and it feels so humiliating and demoralizing and i acted a bit out of character so that’s on me, I pray God protect me from these people. They also been saying that I’m weird and crazy yet they don’t know anything about me. I was getting along with everyone until this extrovert obsessed racist woman came over and wanted to abuse her power over me, the same woman who pretended to be friendly and wanted information out of me just to bring me down more. Im so so tired, it was my best job and some co workers were chill. Thank you for your video.
I’ve been on my job for 6 months and three coworkers. Showed me their true colors. This is at a hospital, they are so disrespectful and unprofessional. The person that trained me told me to face that I’m throwed off. My reaction was a nervous laugh. But, she want to play in my face a couple of days later. I don’t want them folks to say a word to me. Unless it’s work related. Don’t even speak me.
I pray you get victory over this situation. Believe I have been there so many times. God's got you just call on Him. ❤
Thanks for this, I was starting to get involved with the drama. It is time for me to separate myself from it and mind my business.
Great video. Unfortunately you can do all that then they'll start lying on you. As the saying goes, if people don't know anything about you they'll start to make things up.
This is right. They will make up stories about you even if you don’t divulge your personal info. If you like to mind your business “they” will complain to the boss that you are not friendly. I really don’t care. Just don’t hinder me from doing my actual work.
@bip-someandnone8698 True. It becomes a concern when it affects your livelihood and advancement which could ultimately effect your performance.
@@khandibaugh23 right and if it gets to a point that you are mobbed ( managers AND coworkers are in on it) harassing bullying public humiliation and such at work sometimes the only option is to leave to preserve physical emotional and mental well being. If you don’t have your health you cannot work. Some situations are so severe. Each person has to determine if they can “stick it out”. If there’s a narcissistic leader and coworkers and there’s a situation of abuse it’s just not sustainable.
@bip-someandnone8698 True. Unfortunately you have no choice but to leave at that point 😔
These are devils I work with
Not a single lie was spoken here! 😂 I've got some messy coworkers and I'll just say this. I knocked up my best friend three years ago, she's still pregnant apparently. I'm also somehow gay.
Messy people never get things right (which means they are bearing false witness) not to mention, they never stop causing problems.
I only say general things. I am very conscious about what I say because I work in an office with 89 people and yes some of the men are worse than the women. In my office they all go out together get drunk together and gossip about each other. I’m not into the gossiping if they want to gossip about me that’s on them but I have better things to focus on like what I’m having for lunch
"talk about the weather, talk about the air" LMAOOO TRUEEE. I be keeping myself to myself now i dont tell anyone anything, im just there to do my work, get paid and go home
Two weeks in.....its a mess, but I m about to turn over a new leaf tomorrow. If it's not about work.... there's nothing to talk about. She's not my buddy.
I agree with what she is saying but I thank God for blessing me with amazing coworkers. I never had any messy situations with any of them and I pray it will always stay that way. The messiest people you can sometimes be around is your own family members and your so called outside friends.
Everything you say is very true but I had to tell someone that was gossiping about we all make the same amount of money. I had to tell the person. It depends on how much you have leftover after you paid your bills. That’s the difference
I had to learn this the hard way a few times 😢
I don't talk about the air, social media, and hardly the weather. More than 90 percent of the time I talk about work and that is it. I sometimes drop a few things on their laps and in my own twisted way see how long it will take them to go back and tell people what I've said. I just did that this past Thursday, so things are about to get interesting.
I don’t have the energy to drop nothing. Just leave me the fuck alone.
I agree I was wondering why so many people was coming at me and they did it all at one time why I know why now
Preach!
Wise words!!! You are salt 🧂 and light 💡! ❤
I'm going to take your advice, from now on I won't be talking about my life to anyone at work. All they do is take it and use it against me. I really thought they were my friends, but they're just co workers, there's a big difference.
I love this!!
Thanks
I'm being trained by this young messy lil Mexican girl, who tried to scared me into thinking I was going to get into trouble if I didnt do what she says. I did well not to crack up laughing in her face.
Trinada Griffin just learn all you can from her then move around!
@@memesmith1467 Will Do! Thank you!
This just happened to me Thursday with one training me on what I’ve been doing for 10 years. Very messy and lies and doesn’t do her damn job.
So very TRUE!!!! This has always been my motto!!!!! 💯👍
You are so right I have a Messi coworker she is so jealous of methat she would human resources it said that I was talking about retiringwith somebody asked me how long I would have been on my jobshe just started four years ago and she is so jealous that I have 30 yearsand it's soon be leaving she said I should not become a personal business with I didn't ask me how many years I had employed with the IRS she has with human resources more than nine times on me with complaintsI got tired of her and I wrote her up the human resources and said that she was bullying by making me fabricated complaints
myeyesinside out ok so now you know, just speak and keep it moving, and don’t talk about nothing but the air with her! Lol
@@memesmith1467 I have no conversation..for her. I wrote her up really good she was human resources to bully people..I don't speak..I walk be say nothing unless I have to. I can sit next to her in a cubical and I don't speak.i meant what I said..she was bullying people by going to he..she was investigated by henshe went 15 times on supervisor
.and 10 on me as well as others. I called it. She was suspended
myeyesinside out I don’t blame you for not speaking, she is off the chain, I’m very good at making a person think their invisible, she’s not even worth speaking to, I hate bullies
Messy coworkers can kiss my ass
Ahhh I'm so glad I work in forestry 😆
Hey my experience of a coworker, they speak to every morning when she see me but one day she call me and said Gma as I walking and responded back , look back a second and seen she had her eyez rolls
That was for you to see. God is good!!!!! Now you know to watch your back with her.
What you mean to people is out of your business unless they ask you to participate the expression what people think about you is none of your business is not intellectual property and they have no right making object in there drama. Don't talk about people unless you're in a situation with or if it's actually about the person . But I love the point that people do not gossip about choosers but instead teardown people who threaten them in directly
First of all… I love the video ❤️but that’s the problem.. she and I don’t make the same money ✌🏽that’s why she mad. I don’t give a damn either and I’m fixing my hair and always FLY😎
Real talk.. ❤❤❤❤ Thank you
You’re very pretty and wise 😍!!
Record.
Document.
Go to corporate.
H.r is not for you.they are for the company
Glad I'm older now. Wish I knew then what I know now. Folks love mess and keep it going. I aged out of that foolishness and could care less about what these heffas pop their gums about. If they didn't hire me, write my paychecks, or pay my bills then they don't have no power. The key is know who has real authority and to move accordingly.
You remind me so much of my mother with your advice and persona. Thank you for this video!
Love this message Sis... great 👍 job!!
I got young ones trying to compete with me about buttocks!! Mines is natural and they went out to go get bbl and when they see me they tuck there shirts in those skinny pants!!! 😂 it’s crazy
I appreciate this video and your confirmation, wisdom. You sre beautiful 🙏♥️
I Thank you so much for the encouragement ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Hi, any advice in how to reverse this? I've talked to way too many coworkers about personal stuff, and although nothing has come back to me. I'm not oblivious with acting like people aren't talking about me behind my back. The damage is already done, and I can't erase what I already opened up my mouth about. I wish I can get a while new job and start over. In the meantime, how do I carry on knowing these ppl already know what they know now? Thank you. All comments and advice is welcome. Please be nice ❤️❤️
Same thats why i hate myself
Start to journal and just have surface level chat.
I've done in the past and recently. I forget people are people. The best way I know how to get out out of it is to pretend like nothing ever happened and start to move in silence. Every time they ask about your status keep it short and sweet. They will eventually move on.
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Thank U for the confirmation it not U it's them especially when U minding your business not caring about their business just at work taking care of business for the business that matters the ones who sign that paycheck get paid and go home somewhere. I don't sleep with U, I don't have to eat with U kiss up to U my only concern is my work ethic.
Sometimes they even expect you to work while they get paid. An agency told me it is supposed to be team work. I told her I will never be the only one on the team
worked w this nasty old lady 3 years now. haven't talked in a year. she always tries to make small talk. cussed her twice professionally. ... now bc i don't care to mingle its communication team player bs but when i was running my mouth and sharing problems or seeking advice was cool. now I'm distant it's a issue. can't win
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Hahaha I can yell you were just over it completely
Neighborhood market Walmart in so CA have alot....we don't talk about personal life ..they paid to find it all out..
Connected to illegally tracking phones and gangstalking...
Thank you.
This goes for if your in the armed forces too such as the army
Lesson learned🤣🤣🤣🤣ugh!!!!
Don’t work with them! Get another job if possible!
Key, you don't know who is obsessed with you.
I had a friend whi woukd always mick me when I talked about stuff I knew something about, After a whike it became ibvious this person was nit really a friends.
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What type of job does you do
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Baby. Get in and out. Your not there too .make friends your there on a mission. That what people need . To get in there heads. Off jump..
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