Years back I substituted in a pre school autistic classroom. My first day when I came back from lunch there was a cake in the room. I asked who's birthday was it? They said the cake is for you. I said it wasn't my birthday. They said it was for me because I was the only male sub that ever came back after lunch! 😂
I feel if something as simple as removing skin tags is an absolute must! It will make you so much more happier without that constant reminder. I lost my mom who was 94 a few months ago and I miss her. It was one of the hardest jobs caring for her but I'm glad I did now I have only happy thoughts of her! You wont regret any of the loving care you are giving her.
I took care of my mom for 11 yrs. When places or people told me "no" to something we needed I would ask "What would have to happen to turn that No into a Yes?" Most of the time they would work with me and we made it happen. So many people were understanding about the situation. Prayers for you and your mom.
Went through all of this with my dad- it is stressful and overwhelming. I so get it. Walkers, wheelchairs etc can be paid for by medicare or medicaid but they told me only if a doctor ordered the wheelchair, walker, etc.
I am so happy you have the job at the school, you will have holidays off and summer. The nice thing is that now that you are in the system, you can move around till you find your perfect fit. With your knowledge you can probably work your way into the office and do what you do best… paperwork and communication Love your channel and all your info. Thanks for being here for all of us
I would love to see the 3 Amigos together again, but you will never regret the time you spent taking care of Joy, no matter how stressful it is in the moment.
Tracey you are doing a fantastic job taking care of your Mom! I know how hard taking care of our mothers can be. Sounds like the new positions would work for you much better! You are doing the best job and they are lucky to have you! I am glad you are doing things for yourself! You look great!😊❤
HAHAHA! WELCOME to the world of getting mom to appointments! Been there done that! It is an absolute circus! I frequently recieved a morning call for an afternoon discharge to someplace I didn't know. Because mom said "okay", my son will transport. Because they all ignored her dimensia. They did not recognize her inability to walk, she said "I can walk" (she could not!). Hot mess!
I'm not sure that the Supremes were thinking of you tres amigos when singing "Someday We'll Be Together". But the song popped into my head when you said it at 12:00. I never got to see the Supremes all together, but did catch Mary Wilson in a casino lounge in CT maybe 10 years ago, and she sounded/looked amazing still. She passed in 2021 at age 76.
It's not going to be easier when she passes. I was caretaker to my mom for 5 years and it was rough, but it has been way harder since she passed! Hugs, i totally understand 🤗.
Sometimes we think its a named kind of thing ...the rash but maybe its only all the stress coming to a head sying that you need to limit it! stress is awful and just what Iv'e heard you talk about today was stressing me out! You are your mothers angel! you are blessed to have her with you! My sister has 2 our mom and... her husband and I can so appreciate the care giving side! I think the preshool job you are correct about the other jobs would work better also! Keep up the great work you are doing I pray for you that your stress levels will go down also! Have a great holiday season 2024!
Hi Tracey, you have my sympathy and understanding, I ‘doggie paddled in the deep end’ for 12 years with my parents decline in their later years. It was hard, so many organisations offering support but that was all tick box web site stuff and the true support was minuscule unless you paid a fortune for it. I would do it all again. You are a wonderful person. ❤️Geoff (UK)
Sounds like a stressful few days ,glad your mom will be back home an I bet she is too . Hope you get a day for yourself on xmas break Blessings for an enjoyable Christmas Day ! be safe
I’m 53 and I care for a one year old, and it’s just one child and I’m completely exhausted when I leave at the end of the day!! 😂 Hope you get one of the other jobs. I had one of those skin tags on the back of my neck and was about to go to a dermatologist, in the meantime I just kept playing with it and twisting it and it ended up falling off! I hope I don’t get anymore, so annoying lol. You’re so good with your mom and I can only imagine how hard it is, I’m not there yet but I’m sure someday I’ll be taking care of my mom too. Merry Christmas Tracey! 🎄
If you do things out of guilt or social pressure, you will have resentment towards those people, so it is always good to NEVER do anything with family members because you are feeling pressure in any way. If you want to be conflicted and uncomfortable, then by all means, step up and make yourself miserable, but unless you really want to do something for the right reasons....in other words, because you want to do it, then you are setting yourself up for psychological pain.
I hear you, but sometimes you just HAVE to. No money, no other relatives, etc. Best scenario is if you pray pray, pray and your heart melts with love and gratitude. But care giving is still stressful and caregivers must look out for their own mental health. When caregiver works in FT job, then all the local social services must be brought on board. It's possible as I did it. And if you don't have daytime care who will make meals, arrange for Meals on Wheels. So I could spend the night and be caretaker then. Until you've been the one responsible for all the care for your relative, you can't realize how much work it is!
@@michelle7352 I can only imagine how rough it is. Mental health is the most important thing in any person's life. If you have conflict with those you are forced to interact with, you will resent them, and resent life. I have it pretty good, but have been getting rattled in a huge way about some things that would seem minor to what some of you deal with. I will be putting my foot down, but just thinking about how to maneuver correctly is exhausting, because you do not want to offend. I can pretty much guarantee that almost all of the care-giving people do causes severe emotional distress to the caregiver....if it is a family member, and if the care-giver has any conflict at all. In other words, if you are not jumping with jot to do it, you are going to potentially ruin your life and destroy your mental health.
CONGRATULATIONS TO THE WINNER❤🎉🎉🎉🎉. FOR THE WIG.YOUR SKIN IS HEALING NICELY..I GET RED HIVES THERE I USE MAKEUP.. LOL❤ YOU NEED A * SPA* DAY🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉. I LOVE YOUR CHANNEL 😂❤ YOU ARE REAL..
Tracey! I had the same thing on my neck! It’s from stress little lady! 😉Dr prescribed Triamcinolone Acetonide ointment USP,0.1%. It was amazing. Gone in a day or two!
A merry heart doeth good like a medicine, but a broken spirit dryeth the bones. Proverbs 17:22. My scripture reading today. So true, and true of you and Joy. Thanks for dhowing us broken spirits how it's done, lol! For real, youre both awesome. Also, Im glad you said I dont have to sell everything and move into a van, because I really didn't want to do that, lol! (Altho the Bible says something along those lines, doesn't it?) Merry Christmas 🎄.
Bless you Tracy! It’s so hard being a caregiver they make things so hard and complicated,confusing how are old people supposed to figure all this stuff out I can hardly myself what do these old people do without a caregiver and if they don’t have money! I do the best I can I want no regrets when my parents are gone! Keep up the good work! 😊❤
Hey Tracy T!! Talk to the person in charge of operations of the school you're working at & ask them what specific days they have 'off' for breaks & vacations coming up ... THEN if you have to set any follow up appointments after stitches are removed you'll know when you can schedule Joy to go back there!!! And you don't have to stress yourself out with scheduling her!! Saves you a little bit of trouble!!! BIGGEST fan & Minnesota Man - Greg L. 💜💗💜💗💜😊
You shouldn't have paid for walker and wheelchair. Medicare pays. You just rent for as long as you need. If you then later want to buy I think Medicare pays for that too. I've only rented. Many times. I call the durable medical supplies store and they handle with Medicare. Anyway, I am too late since you already bought. Hope you get refunded.
IAM SORRY but I just have to say .. Another 1 of those STUPID RULES..that NEEDS to Change..No Nurse to Check her Out . Meanwhile there's Front Desk workers Etc ..Who can CHECK her OUT document..Good to Go .Unreal.. Believe I FULLY understand.❤❤❤❤
I'm sure there are non-profits or programs in your area should your mother need help for supplies. May take a bit of digging. They are generally in high elderly population areas. Plus, her insurance may cover certain medical equipment Hang in there! I would do it all again as challenging as it was! Only have one momma 💜🫂
Years back I substituted in a pre school autistic classroom. My first day when I came back from lunch there was a cake in the room. I asked who's birthday was it? They said the cake is for you. I said it wasn't my birthday. They said it was for me because I was the only male sub that ever came back after lunch! 😂
I respect you for caring for your mom. Not everyone shows up. Ya can’t regret that. It’s magic!
I feel if something as simple as removing skin tags is an absolute must! It will make you so much more happier without that constant reminder. I lost my mom who was 94 a few months ago and I miss her. It was one of the hardest jobs caring for her but I'm glad I did now I have only happy thoughts of her! You wont regret any of the loving care you are giving her.
Congratulations to the winner! So sorry you are going through all that Tracey. Joy should qualify for medical equipment. 🙏❤
I hope you get some much needed rest. You are a blessing to your mom.
Medicare should provide assistive devices for no charge!!!!!!
I took care of my mom for 11 yrs. When places or people told me "no" to something we needed I would ask "What would have to happen to turn that No into a Yes?"
Most of the time they would work with me and we made it happen. So many people were understanding about the situation. Prayers for you and your mom.
GOD Bless You and Your Mom Tracey! Have a Great Day! 🫂
❤️🙏 for Joy. Take care of yourself too.
Merry Christmas to you and your family 🎄❤️
Thanks for the update on John and Keith ❣️❣️❣️
Went through all of this with my dad- it is stressful and overwhelming. I so get it. Walkers, wheelchairs etc can be paid for by medicare or medicaid but they told me only if a doctor ordered the wheelchair, walker, etc.
I am so happy you have the job at the school, you will have holidays off and summer. The nice thing is that now that you are in the system, you can move around till you find your perfect fit. With your knowledge you can probably work your way into the office and do what you do best… paperwork and communication Love your channel and all your info. Thanks for being here for all of us
I would love to see the 3 Amigos together again, but you will never regret the time you spent taking care of Joy, no matter how stressful it is in the moment.
Tracey you do so well. Hope you’re successful in getting your new job
🎉 🎈🎁 Congratulations 🎉 🎈🎁to the "wig winner" (RV fishing), what a nice Christmas 🎄🎅🤶 gift from big hearted❤ Tracy (TracEy)!
Your neck is looking great, stay happy and Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!! 📣🎶
You are doing great. Being a caregiver is hard work xx
You’re a good kid and your mom loves you. You are both just cute as heck.
Tracey you are doing a fantastic job taking care of your Mom! I know how hard taking care of our mothers can be. Sounds like the new positions would work for you much better! You are doing the best job and they are lucky to have you! I am glad you are doing things for yourself! You look great!😊❤
HAHAHA!
WELCOME to the world of getting mom to appointments!
Been there done that! It is an absolute circus!
I frequently recieved a morning call for an afternoon discharge to someplace I didn't know.
Because mom said "okay", my son will transport.
Because they all ignored her dimensia.
They did not recognize her inability to walk, she said "I can walk" (she could not!).
Hot mess!
Enjoy your Christmas break from school. Wishing you and your mom the best for the new year. Love from Texas ❤️ ❤
I worked as an aide/ para for 14 yr and they could have cared less about my back!!
I totally ruined my back as an aide!
I'm not sure that the Supremes were thinking of you tres amigos when singing "Someday We'll Be Together". But the song popped into my head when you said it at 12:00. I never got to see the Supremes all together, but did catch Mary Wilson in a casino lounge in CT maybe 10 years ago, and she sounded/looked amazing still. She passed in 2021 at age 76.
It's not going to be easier when she passes. I was caretaker to my mom for 5 years and it was rough, but it has been way harder since she passed! Hugs, i totally understand 🤗.
Hi and good morning ❤
Take some time for yourself over your break. Things will fall into place.
Hun I understand what you are going through.You stay strong and don't give up sweet lady.Love and respect
Good morning
Tracy I wanted that wig for the 55 and over drag show in Muskogeeland!
Sometimes we think its a named kind of thing ...the rash but maybe its only all the stress coming to a head sying that you need to limit it! stress is awful and just what Iv'e heard you talk about today was stressing me out! You are your mothers angel! you are blessed to have her with you! My sister has 2 our mom and... her husband and I can so appreciate the care giving side! I think the preshool job you are correct about the other jobs would work better also! Keep up the great work you are doing I pray for you that your stress levels will go down also! Have a great holiday season 2024!
Hi Tracey, you have my sympathy and understanding, I ‘doggie paddled in the deep end’ for 12 years with my parents decline in their later years. It was hard, so many organisations offering support but that was all tick box web site stuff and the true support was minuscule unless you paid a fortune for it. I would do it all again. You are a wonderful person. ❤️Geoff (UK)
Sounds like a stressful few days ,glad your mom will be back home an I bet she is too . Hope you get a day for yourself on xmas break Blessings for an enjoyable Christmas Day ! be safe
I’m 53 and I care for a one year old, and it’s just one child and I’m completely exhausted when I leave at the end of the day!! 😂 Hope you get one of the other jobs. I had one of those skin tags on the back of my neck and was about to go to a dermatologist, in the meantime I just kept playing with it and twisting it and it ended up falling off! I hope I don’t get anymore, so annoying lol. You’re so good with your mom and I can only imagine how hard it is, I’m not there yet but I’m sure someday I’ll be taking care of my mom too. Merry Christmas Tracey! 🎄
Tracey use Medicare for the assistive needs like walkers and wheelchairs!
I don’t think I could change poopy diapers at my age either! lol Hope you get the other job! Good luck!
If you do things out of guilt or social pressure, you will have resentment towards those people, so it is always good to NEVER do anything with family members because you are feeling pressure in any way. If you want to be conflicted and uncomfortable, then by all means, step up and make yourself miserable, but unless you really want to do something for the right reasons....in other words, because you want to do it, then you are setting yourself up for psychological pain.
I hear you, but sometimes you just HAVE to. No money, no other relatives, etc. Best scenario is if you pray pray, pray and your heart melts with love and gratitude. But care giving is still stressful and caregivers must look out for their own mental health. When caregiver works in FT job, then all the local social services must be brought on board. It's possible as I did it. And if you don't have daytime care who will make meals, arrange for Meals on Wheels. So I could spend the night and be caretaker then. Until you've been the one responsible for all the care for your relative, you can't realize how much work it is!
@@michelle7352 I can only imagine how rough it is. Mental health is the most important thing in any person's life. If you have conflict with those you are forced to interact with, you will resent them, and resent life. I have it pretty good, but have been getting rattled in a huge way about some things that would seem minor to what some of you deal with. I will be putting my foot down, but just thinking about how to maneuver correctly is exhausting, because you do not want to offend.
I can pretty much guarantee that almost all of the care-giving people do causes severe emotional distress to the caregiver....if it is a family member, and if the care-giver has any conflict at all. In other words, if you are not jumping with jot to do it, you are going to potentially ruin your life and destroy your mental health.
CONGRATULATIONS TO THE WINNER❤🎉🎉🎉🎉. FOR THE WIG.YOUR SKIN IS HEALING NICELY..I GET RED HIVES THERE I USE MAKEUP.. LOL❤ YOU NEED A * SPA* DAY🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉. I LOVE YOUR CHANNEL 😂❤ YOU ARE REAL..
Tracey! I had the same thing on my neck! It’s from stress little lady! 😉Dr prescribed Triamcinolone Acetonide ointment USP,0.1%. It was amazing. Gone in a day or two!
A merry heart doeth good like a medicine, but a broken spirit dryeth the bones. Proverbs 17:22. My scripture reading today. So true, and true of you and Joy. Thanks for dhowing us broken spirits how it's done, lol! For real, youre both awesome. Also, Im glad you said I dont have to sell everything and move into a van, because I really didn't want to do that, lol! (Altho the Bible says something along those lines, doesn't it?) Merry Christmas 🎄.
I don't see how you do this with a " smile". You're one classy lady. Impressive Tracy
Bless you Tracy! It’s so hard being a caregiver they make things so hard and complicated,confusing how are old people supposed to figure all this stuff out I can hardly myself what do these old people do without a caregiver and if they don’t have money! I do the best I can I want no regrets when my parents are gone! Keep up the good work! 😊❤
You can use the chair from the store and lock.
allergic to laundry detergents
GOOD MORNING FROM COLD CALIFORNIA ❤ WOW.. HEALTHCARE IS SO CRAZY.❤
Hey Tracy T!! Talk to the person in charge of operations of the school you're working at & ask them what specific days they have 'off' for breaks & vacations coming up ... THEN if you have to set any follow up appointments after stitches are removed you'll know when you can schedule Joy to go back there!!! And you don't have to stress yourself out with scheduling her!! Saves you a little bit of trouble!!! BIGGEST fan & Minnesota Man - Greg L. 💜💗💜💗💜😊
make Minnesota great again
I have heard that the counsel of aging will supply walkers, canes etc.
As far as the skin tags I have them there in my family to ! I’ve had them removed several times! THEY WILL COME BACK!
Great 🫤
@ it does take a few years! lol ! 😆
All the way USA! 👍🇺🇸
You remind me of myself, you think alot like me, you sorta look like me, and you worked for Walgreens in cosmetics like me, de ja vu. 👯😺❤️
🌸 💙💙💙
Have the tags zapped as a Christmas gift to yourself - you deserve it - Merry Christmas to you and Joy❤🎅🏻🎄
I guarantee it could be more stressful.
You shouldn't have paid for walker and wheelchair. Medicare pays. You just rent for as long as you need. If you then later want to buy I think Medicare pays for that too. I've only rented. Many times. I call the durable medical supplies store and they handle with Medicare. Anyway, I am too late since you already bought. Hope you get refunded.
Where would Joy be without you as a " watchdog" the system is just as bad in Oklahoma. Maybe worse
IAM SORRY but I just have to say .. Another 1 of those STUPID RULES..that NEEDS to Change..No Nurse to Check her Out . Meanwhile there's Front Desk workers Etc ..Who can CHECK her OUT document..Good to Go .Unreal.. Believe I FULLY understand.❤❤❤❤
I’ve missed some of your videos but where are you living??!!
she looks like she can see
if u were illegajl everything free
M~I~L~F~
did you ever think God has a different plan for you and your mom ?
I'm sure there are non-profits or programs in your area should your mother need help for supplies. May take a bit of digging. They are generally in high elderly population areas. Plus, her insurance may cover certain medical equipment
Hang in there! I would do it all again as challenging as it was! Only have one momma 💜🫂