Its one heck of a video, you've made some great points. But theres so much people would disagree with, I think it all boils down to the lack of patience and how fast we need results now. Thank you for sharing
Thank you. Also, let's remember that those who might disagree with this disagree with what Allah prohibited but we gotta remember at the end of the day it's not our job to force this upon anyone لا إكراه في الدين we can only advise and help guide.
I used to think the way u think... but when I'm seeing most people treat that haram matter as normal, I started to have doubt about my principles. thank u for shooting this video and thank u for saying "some of us didn't have Takwa of Allah but we most likely have Takwa of our parents" اللهم اهدنا فيمن هديت وثبت قلوبنا على الحق
I'm always right in my belief that this generation has individuals who will uphold our values and principles. Thank you, Lubna I am a new subscriber now
كلام رصين وقول متين واستعراض فاتن، غريب أني تابعت المقطع كاملا وأنا لا ألجُ مواقع التواصل إلا نادرا أو مكرها. شكرا على وقتك وبحثك، أسأل الله أن يحفظك ويبارك فيكِ وفي من ربّاك
Mash´Allah sister you speak so softly but straightforward at the same time! I really needed this reminder. Thank you so much and may Allah protect you dear
بنصح بمشاهدة الدورة التأهيلية للحياة الزوجية للدكتور محمد خير الشعال وخاصة حلقتي اختيار الزوج واختيار الزوجة فيهن عشر نقاط اساسية لتقيم نفسك والطرف الاخر وفق ما يرضى الله به 🌷
You explored this topic in a different prespective from the how scholars usually discuss it in my view. You took me by surprise by how wise you are. May Allah keep you steadfast on the straight path.
Thank you for the great message and may allah guide us all to his path. Love the research I think it would be great to site your sources so as to leave room for other people to find more in depth information.
May Allah bless you my dear respected sister. You are speaking about a critical topic that needs to be addressed and, allahumabarik, I think you covered every small and big point regarding the concept of free-mixing and dating in general. Keep up the good work my dear respected sister!
Girl you have amazing faith and mindset mashaallah it the first time for me watching your Chanel I always warn my friends about haram relationships and friendship with other gender يارب يثبتنا ويهدي الجميع💞💞
May Allah bless you sister, absolutely spot on! The dating perspective differs between boys and girls in its broad understanding, and everyone should ask this valid question, how many cases did they end up with marriage? and how many cases out of datings did they end up with adultery? Once we truly answered this question, we would realise why it’s haram in the first place.
Selfawareness is peeking in these gerneration, but I also keep seeing the complette opposite occuring. emotional intelligence an essential skill to have, yet I see ppl breaking up for minor things and don't even want to work to solve a problem. everyone just want to be in their subjective right in order to justefly their behavoirs. And this is more than frustrating.
Thank you sister Dating and islam don’t go together do not try and introduce that into this beautiful religion. Many people have attempted to make it halal, thinking they can find loop holes or interpret verses and Hadith in their own way, but it is simply not islamic
This video is much needed for today's generation. May Allah reward you for this and grant hidayah to all of us Muslims. You beautifully stated verses 112-113 of Al-Mu'minun at 9:25. Indeed, this world is just an illusion, as Allah said: "O humanity! Indeed, Allah’s promise is true. So do not let the life of this world deceive you, nor let the Chief Deceiver deceive you about Allah." [Al-Qur'an 35:5]. It is hard to have sabr, but in the end, it will be rewarded greatly, as Allah said: "Whoever does good, whether male or female, and is a believer, We will surely bless them with a good life, and We will certainly reward them according to the best of their deeds." [Al-Qur'an 16:97]. Put your trust in Allah alone, and it will be okay, Insha'Allah.❤🩹
Create a video about the hijab and how we gain self-confidence without makeup, how we coexist with society in which most girls are not completely committed to the hijab, and how we deal with societal rejection of the idea of the hijab and loneliness because of it because they consider us boring and old.
Same thing I'm trying to explain her. She is so emotional. I said to her that we have to stop chatting right now. But she didn't even agree with me. I'm sending this video to her. We have been in relationship last 1 years but this is haram. so i told her that I'm studying. I need one job then I'll marry but she didn't understand me. pray for us.
Facts: 1- women want to continue high education (which is fine) 2- women want to continue working 3- women want to wear any type of dresses 4- women want to go out anytime without being asked 5- women want to go to mixed gyms and ride horses 6- women want to get married while they're in another city 7- women want to control the house 8- women don't know how to cook 9- women didn't show any hospitality when i went to their home with gifts in my hands 10, 11, 12, ... etc => In short, they do everything except home related activities This is what i saw when i knocked on doors for marriage, i still believe this is better than haram way , but our generation is unfortunately disappointing i know this comment might hurt some , but it's a reality and it's bitter
It's the first time seeing you but truly I felt like my big sis is advising me and this topic was really important and for sure I will make my lil sister watch this video I just wanna really thank you for making this video because alot of time we just forget that we are in donia for test to know what we will be in the judgment day thank you so much I really appreciate this ❤️❤️❤️🙏🏻may allah bless you ❤
Great video very informative, unfortunately it might be too late to spread this message, nowadays it’s rare to find a girl who never had past relationships or still attached to someone, trauma or any kind of baggage. Especially if she’s attractive the chances are almost 0% . The girl might be wearing hijab and dress modestly but in reality she usually went through a lot and has a lot of sins. As a guy who never participated in hookup culture or the modern dating scene it really is tough out here and the norm right now is if you’re not part of these groups then you’re weird and too old fashioned.
شكرا للطفك وحرصك لكن تعلمي أكثر عن هذه المسألة و اقرأي المصادر المرفقة من هنا ua-cam.com/play/PL08EBVL2Bow2xq92ID3BmDAe3DLUauaVa.html&si=X1bGfrEhBmbismen
It can be very frustrating to feel like you have similar struggles (mostly family related), but you see those girls go ahead & choose this crappy, destructive "coping mechanism" of dating a guy who's CLEARLY not going to ask for their hand in marriage, then swiftly go on to marry a whole other person... while you're just hanging on waiting for that happy ending. Allah (ﷻ) Is Generous and Omnipotent, and He'll bless us for obeying Him. It is OUR patience that is easily worn out, and it's exhausting 💔
I reverted to islam a few weeks ago and I was struggling with this, so thank you and thanks Allah for guiding me for this, bless you.
May allah bless you on this journey of yours . welcome to islam
لاتعصي الله من اجل من تحب، فقلب من تحب بيد من عصيت
Wallahi what is this cinematography, this is better than %90 of youtube videos here, mashallah
Its one heck of a video, you've made some great points. But theres so much people would disagree with, I think it all boils down to the lack of patience and how fast we need results now.
Thank you for sharing
Thank you. Also, let's remember that those who might disagree with this disagree with what Allah prohibited but we gotta remember at the end of the day it's not our job to force this upon anyone لا إكراه في الدين we can only advise and help guide.
I used to think the way u think... but when I'm seeing most people treat that haram matter as normal, I started to have doubt about my principles. thank u for shooting this video and thank u for saying "some of us didn't have Takwa of Allah but we most likely have Takwa of our parents" اللهم اهدنا فيمن هديت وثبت قلوبنا على الحق
You're most welcome ❤️ آمين يارب
I'm always right in my belief that this generation has individuals who will uphold our values and principles.
Thank you, Lubna
I am a new subscriber now
يا روح قلبي و رفيقتي الصغيرة 🩷 فخورة بك يا ماما 🫶🏻
وفقك ربي لكل خير
شكرا ماميتو 🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻
You put everything in order and said it clearly with a lot of appropriate information, mashallah tabarekallah
Mahsha'Allah it is really inspirational to see a young muslimah like you to b eon the right track. May Allah bless you and great advice !
ماشاء الله عنك.. نفع الله بك ❤
Thanks for adding Arabic translation now I can share it with my friends who cannot understand English
You're welcome 🪻
كلام رصين وقول متين واستعراض فاتن،
غريب أني تابعت المقطع كاملا وأنا لا ألجُ مواقع التواصل إلا نادرا أو مكرها.
شكرا على وقتك وبحثك، أسأل الله أن يحفظك ويبارك فيكِ وفي من ربّاك
thank you for pointing this issue out throughly. this needs to be talked about more
Mash´Allah sister you speak so softly but straightforward at the same time! I really needed this reminder. Thank you so much and may Allah protect you dear
Jazakillah khayr for this important reminder.
Thank you for this beautiful video ❤ absolutely needed it
بنصح بمشاهدة الدورة التأهيلية للحياة الزوجية للدكتور محمد خير الشعال
وخاصة حلقتي اختيار الزوج واختيار الزوجة
فيهن عشر نقاط اساسية لتقيم نفسك والطرف الاخر وفق ما يرضى الله به 🌷
Jazaki Allah khair sister thank you
﴿فَأَمّا مَن طَغىوَآثَرَ الحَياةَ الدُّنيافَإِنَّ الجَحيمَ هِيَ المَأوىوَأَمّا مَن خافَ مَقامَ رَبِّهِ وَنَهَى النَّفسَ عَنِ الهَوىفَإِنَّ الجَنَّةَ هِيَ المَأوى﴾ [النازعات: ٣٧-٤١]
بواسطة تطبيق آية
جزاك الله خيرا اعجبتني جدددا طريقة تناولك للموضوع وشملتيه بكل التفاصيل عظم الله اجرك 😔🤍🤍🤍
نفع بك ،برك الله فيك
بارك الله بيج اختي ووفقج الله لكل ما يحب ويرضى
Barakallahu feeki for that reminder
بارك الله فيك ❤
Good job on the fresh perspective you brought. I always tell young people like me to have strong boundaries.
It is not worth it.
You explored this topic in a different prespective from the how scholars usually discuss it in my view. You took me by surprise by how wise you are. May Allah keep you steadfast on the straight path.
Thank you , I appreciate your comment
Well said sister may Allah reward you for speaking about this important topic and may Allah guide us all
Ameen yarab
لاتحب حدا ولا تخلي مقام حدا عندك بقلبك اكبر من مقام وحبك لربك صاحب قلبك ❤
Mashallah. This video is pure gold. Every single person should watch it! I’m sending it to my friends. Thank you ❤
Thanks for the support 🙏 ❤️
جزاك الله الخير يا استاذتي 🙏
very important video! also i love the decor in the room!
السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته
Can you please make videos discussing MUSIC and also struggles of walking up for FAJR please
Thanks
so happy to see such a content ❤
ماشاءالله تبارك الله، الله يجزاك خير ويحفظك، كلام مرتب ورائع 👍
دي شنو الصدفة الرائعة دي؟ افضل قناة شفتها من فترة طويلة🤩 سعيدة جداً لاكتشافها🤩❤️!
يا اهلا وسهلا 🪻
please post more, i love your videos!!
Girlll I love itttt, my First Time here... Keep up the good work 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
Welccommmee 🪻🪻
شكرا موضوع مهم فعلا الإستخارة مهمة
Thank you for the great message and may allah guide us all to his path. Love the research I think it would be great to site your sources so as to leave room for other people to find more in depth information.
You're welcome . And yes, great point inshallah I'll do that in the future . thank you
ما شاء الله !!
الله يثبتك و يثبتنا
I loved you, sister ❤
Iam your sister from Lebanon 🇱🇧
يا اهلا 🪻
آمين يارب
يعطيكي العافية والله يوفقك.. بالفعل كل كلمة قلتيها صح.. استمري💪💪💙💙
موضوع جد مهم وحساس، أحسنت الاختيار و وفقت في الطرح، بوركت جهودك يارب❤
كتير مبسوطة فيك وفخورة فيكي ما شاء اللّه
بارك الله فيك اختنا الكريمة طرح موفق
Thank you for this truly important video
Anytime 🪻
بحب فيكي من أول الفيديو ودي أول مرة أشوفك ..ربنا يحفظك وينفع بيكي
May Allah bless you my dear respected sister. You are speaking about a critical topic that needs to be addressed and, allahumabarik, I think you covered every small and big point regarding the concept of free-mixing and dating in general. Keep up the good work my dear respected sister!
اللهم سهّل الصالحين للصالحات و سهّل لنا الزواج🤲🏻
Well that's a beutiful vid hope this get the support he deserve.❤
جزاك الله خيراً
Girl you have amazing faith and mindset mashaallah it the first time for me watching your Chanel I always warn my friends about haram relationships and friendship with other gender يارب يثبتنا ويهدي الجميع💞💞
Thank u girl 🫶🏻 your friends are lucky to have you
May Allah bless you sister, absolutely spot on! The dating perspective differs between boys and girls in its broad understanding, and everyone should ask this valid question, how many cases did they end up with marriage? and how many cases out of datings did they end up with adultery? Once we truly answered this question, we would realise why it’s haram in the first place.
Thank you, well said 👏
Selfawareness is peeking in these gerneration, but I also keep seeing the complette opposite occuring. emotional intelligence an essential skill to have, yet I see ppl breaking up for minor things and don't even want to work to solve a problem. everyone just want to be in their subjective right in order to justefly their behavoirs. And this is more than frustrating.
Very nice arguments! I loved the video 🫶
Masha'allah ✨🕊️
Great explanations and well said
Thank u baba 🫶🏻🫶🏻
thank you for this video, really we want a person like you and your mom, how spread islamic teaching.
Watching this video at work :)
It's really amazing
Ooh you are amazing my sister 😢😢😢😢 may Allah bless you ❤❤❤❤
بارك الله فيك💗
I loved your content, it is useful, keep it up my sweetهie😊❤
Mashallah, now if only our sisters would follow your path and logic. you're on the right path.
ياريت محتوى كثير من هذا النوع
بجد جميل
"You have killed your own Capacity for love" insightful statement
حبيت ديكور غرفة 😍و موضوع اللي بتكلمي فيه مهم جدا و حلو انك بتقوليه بانجليزي لفتايات اجبيات بس مش هقدر اشوفه دلوقتي عندي امتحانات🥲
الله يوفقك بامتحاناتك يارب
Thank you so much. It was needed.
Anytime❤️❤️
She is going places 👏🏻👏🏻
The things u talked about is very important thank you ❤️
Anytime ❤️
لبنى ماشاء الله عليك ♥️♥️♥️♥️
مواضيعك جداً عميقة و مفيدة
وياريت كل الصبايا متلك .. لا توقفي عن تنزيل فيديوهاتك الفريدة 🗯️
شكرا جزيلا على كلامك الطيب الله يسلمك يارب 🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻
كلام جميل وواقعي
نفع الله بك المُسلمين
I will show this vid to my sister thanks :)
Nice video please make dua for the people of kashmir we are suffering here
wa alaikum assalaam
i hope we find 4 millon copies of you in our Muslim communities
Good luck ❤️❤️ deeply in love with the content you create
Well said !
Thank you sister Dating and islam don’t go together do not try and introduce that into this beautiful religion. Many people have attempted to make it halal, thinking they can find loop holes or interpret verses and Hadith in their own way, but it is simply not islamic
This video is much needed for today's generation. May Allah reward you for this and grant hidayah to all of us Muslims. You beautifully stated verses 112-113 of Al-Mu'minun at 9:25. Indeed, this world is just an illusion, as Allah said: "O humanity! Indeed, Allah’s promise is true. So do not let the life of this world deceive you, nor let the Chief Deceiver deceive you about Allah." [Al-Qur'an 35:5].
It is hard to have sabr, but in the end, it will be rewarded greatly, as Allah said: "Whoever does good, whether male or female, and is a believer, We will surely bless them with a good life, and We will certainly reward them according to the best of their deeds." [Al-Qur'an 16:97]. Put your trust in Allah alone, and it will be okay, Insha'Allah.❤🩹
It indeed is a tough generation when trying to get married. May Allah grant me what is best for my Akhirah.
بارك الله فيكي
اتفق بشكل عام ❤
Create a video about the hijab and how we gain self-confidence without makeup, how we coexist with society in which most girls are not completely committed to the hijab, and how we deal with societal rejection of the idea of the hijab and loneliness because of it because they consider us boring and old.
Hijab is definitely on my list
Same thing I'm trying to explain her. She is so emotional. I said to her that we have to stop chatting right now. But she didn't even agree with me. I'm sending this video to her. We have been in relationship last 1 years but this is haram. so i told her that I'm studying. I need one job then I'll marry but she didn't understand me. pray for us.
good video, keep it up!
My great student, I'm really proud of you 👏
الله يحفظك و يبارك فيكي❤
أكرمك الله و رفع قدرك ❤️
رائعة❤❤❤❤❤
like mother like daughter 💗💗
Girl us amazing mashallah god bless you❤
Facts:
1- women want to continue high education (which is fine)
2- women want to continue working
3- women want to wear any type of dresses
4- women want to go out anytime without being asked
5- women want to go to mixed gyms and ride horses
6- women want to get married while they're in another city
7- women want to control the house
8- women don't know how to cook
9- women didn't show any hospitality when i went to their home with gifts in my hands
10, 11, 12, ... etc => In short, they do everything except home related activities
This is what i saw when i knocked on doors for marriage, i still believe this is better than haram way , but our generation is unfortunately disappointing
i know this comment might hurt some , but it's a reality and it's bitter
It's the first time seeing you but truly I felt like my big sis is advising me and this topic was really important and for sure I will make my lil sister watch this video I just wanna really thank you for making this video because alot of time we just forget that we are in donia for test to know what we will be in the judgment day thank you so much I really appreciate this ❤️❤️❤️🙏🏻may allah bless you ❤
Thank you i truly appreciate your words ❤️❤️
May every soul inshallah finds its true love in halal way ❤Ameen
Ameen
Great video very informative, unfortunately it might be too late to spread this message, nowadays it’s rare to find a girl who never had past relationships or still attached to someone, trauma or any kind of baggage. Especially if she’s attractive the chances are almost 0% . The girl might be wearing hijab and dress modestly but in reality she usually went through a lot and has a lot of sins. As a guy who never participated in hookup culture or the modern dating scene it really is tough out here and the norm right now is if you’re not part of these groups then you’re weird and too old fashioned.
ما شاء اللّه عليكي جدا بحاحة لالك ولناس متلك استمري انا عمري 19 ونص وبتابعك وجدا بتعلم منك الكتير وبتابع امك نور الاشقر بارك اللّه فيكم❤
الله يسلمك يارب 🪻🪻
I put the tea on the kettle, i started the video and forgot the tea🤣, Mashallah😍😍😍can’t wait for your next videos,جزاك الله خيرا 🌷🌷🌷
😭🤣 i don't want you burning stuff الله يسلمك
First comment keep going girl I love topic chats in our islamic way أحبك في الله ♥️✊🏻
Thankkk u girlieee
جزاك الله خير.
حاولي تبتعدي عن استخدام الموسيقى في مقاطعك 0:04
شكرا للطفك وحرصك لكن تعلمي أكثر عن هذه المسألة و اقرأي المصادر المرفقة من هنا ua-cam.com/play/PL08EBVL2Bow2xq92ID3BmDAe3DLUauaVa.html&si=X1bGfrEhBmbismen
Little sis is spreading facts MashaAllah ❤
🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻
It can be very frustrating to feel like you have similar struggles (mostly family related), but you see those girls go ahead & choose this crappy, destructive "coping mechanism" of dating a guy who's CLEARLY not going to ask for their hand in marriage, then swiftly go on to marry a whole other person... while you're just hanging on waiting for that happy ending. Allah (ﷻ) Is Generous and Omnipotent, and He'll bless us for obeying Him. It is OUR patience that is easily worn out, and it's exhausting 💔
great content!