To all the ladies out there: let men speak freely. The more they talk, the more they reveal their true nature, often hidden beneath the surface, leaving little room for misplaced hope. It’s wise advice that could protect you from disappointment. And remember, adopt a dog-they are far more loyal, protective, and faithful than most men
Men are deceptive, saying whatever it takes to impress or manipulate just to gain attention on a date, hiding their true intentions beneath a charming facade, but once they’re in especially after marriage , their true colors-often deceptive and self-centered-start to show,leaving partners feeling trapped and disillusioned.
Men are deceptive, saying whatever it takes to impress or manipulate just to gain attention on a date, hiding their true intentions beneath a charming facade, but once they’re in, their true colors-often deceptive and self-centered-start to show, leaving partners feeling trapped and disillusioned.
Men are* deceptive, saying whatever it takes to impress or manipulate just to gain attention on a date, hiding their true intentions beneath a charming facade, but once they’re in, their true colors-often deceptive and self-centered*-start to show, leaving partners feeling trapped and disillusioned.
this group are just the tip of the iceberg, i’m sure so many of our favorite actors have the same beliefs but they just weren’t dumb enough to get caught..
Exactly. When it comes to korean celebs, I like looking at their faces and that's it. Because there are too many instances of misogyny within the society that it's hard for me to believe that most of them do not think this way as well. When i see people say "my fav could never" or "he raised the standard" i felt like laughing because those celebs are most probably performing for the camera.
@@mabuixa If one has life experience and knowledge of human nature, it should not be a problem to recognize “The red Flag”. A healthy distrust is also important. If men over the age of 35 are neither married nor have a girlfriend, there may be reasons for this. If he has had various girlfriends up to this age and the relationship has never lasted long, absolute caution is advised. Men over 40 OR 40+ are difficult. Either in character or simply too old. When I was 27, I would never have married a man who was 40 or over 40+. That would be an age difference of over 10 years. It goes in the direction of “sugar daddy” and I don't like that. Besides, I don't have a father complex that would make me want to marry an old man. Their attitude to life, tastes and circle of friends are completely different. If there is such a big age difference, the husband or sugar daddy won't like it if the wife has a circle of friends. He sees competition or danger in EVERYTHING and EVERYONE. This is not a marriage but rather a hell. The wives are not allowed to have friends and hobbies either, they only have to look after sugar daddy. Just thinking about it makes me depressed. That's why depression and suicides are so common in SK.
@@asmrlowkey5043 All of them are just actors, portraying characters & I'm sure their offscreen persona is totally different from what they keep showing on screen lol. Luckily I'm not one of those girls who keeps mentioning their Oppas as if those Oppas will look at them in real life
" free bird theory". They enjoy taming/subdueing females who are on track to their goals, it's like a trophy for y chromosome if they can distract, divert and make you completely give up your dreams and goals for a lifetime of servitude for him errr I mean "making a family" for him... Oops.. I mean with him.
Quitting your job is way more dangerous, risky and harder for women's life. What if he cheats or abuse her, she'll have no income to escape from him, while he always have money for himself and control all the money, he can financially abuse her too.
This does not surprise me as it is expected of an average Korean man with a typical patriarchal perspective. But what baffles me is that they have the confidence to say such remarks in a public space where they know that they have considerable influence. I'd like to believe that k-dramas are just fantasy and it would be lucky to come across such men in real life that too in a country like South Korea
They have such confidence because their society and the law backs them up. They feel entitled and the patriarchal hierarchical structure allows it. The Koreans have a particular hatred for women.
But park seojun is right. You dont know how difficult mom feels to manage house kids and job. And seojun said only house first preference. Whats wrong inthat he respected house wife how many men does this. Ive seem men complainkng abusing eofe to do job and take care lf house.
@@anita2053-r1f Whether to be a housewife if possible should be a choice, not to be forced on a women. Can you similar thing to a man...to sit in house 24X7 and take care of children?
typical haters judging a country based on what some problematic channels as this one tell you, while everyone who was there even once already said something else.
@@mohinimao no one is forcing anything, there is nothing wrong with saying what kind of woman you like and want you haters just love to missinterpret things just to cry around.
I feel bad for laughing. I cackled during this whole segment. Who even thinks of sh*t like that? I can't believe these grown men think that way. These are all actors I love. Now I am truly annoyed. UGH
The whole korean society is obsessed with beauty standards. But when someone shares their ideals as a reflection of those standards, suddenly the society acts offended. Pretty hypocritical and projecting on the actors to above norms.
I'm sorry! Mostly Koreans don't have fully rights to comment when it comes to physical appearance! Most especially when you're not that good looking 😂😂😂 and as well as mostly in general, undergoes/underwent plastic and cosmetic surgery 😂😂😂 Rhinoplasty is soooooooo common because you can only count Koreans with n8ce bridge nose! Mostly they'll make it so pointy and mostly looking not so good 😅
in korea , you are subjected to violence if you are openly described yourself feminist . In comment section, many people are dellusionally supporting park seo joon statements as "preference " . In a society , where women are criticsed and degraded or humiliated for going beyond tradional roles , for a successful man easily stating his mysogynist instance as preference shows his man's priviledge and mindset. First perosnal preferences can be criticised . If personal preference supporting conservative and sexist attitude then , it will recieve criticism ..criticising also a personal preference . Second seeing woman fit for tradtional role is supporting the patrirachal mindset ..
"she should leave her job to take care of HER family" why don't you pursue a non working women instead of an working one then? and "her family" ?? is it only her responsibility tf?
The significance a woman plays in raising her children has been downplayed. Children raised in a 2 parent household, where one stays home & cares for the children, are more stable & successful in life. Kids raised by single moms are less successful & more likely to get into crime. Do some research!! Kids raised in 2 parent families will do better in life!
@@rmartinez4165 This discussion is not about single mothers, though. It's about a household with both parents working. And the point still stands... why doesn't he just find an unemployed woman? Or a woman who doesn't want to work?
Sometimes people who like their wife to leave their job are those who finds people with no job lazy and are not fit to stay with them. They just want to see powerful women to bow to them and submit to their wishes.
almost as insane as han seo hee trying to call someone out for being a fake feminist, because she is such a voice for women for women’s issues 🙄 but technically it doesn’t have to mean he call her an addict so much as taking a dig at her being caught, because she is more known for being a dealer than a user. on top of that, she’s infamous for always getting away with it by dragging random people’s names in with hers and using her family connections.
So disappointed to see people defending Park Seo Joon's statements. Having a preference for a stay-at-home wife is one thing, but saying that children should be raised entirely by the moms and ones who're raised by working moms turn out problematic isn't a harmless opinion- that's a comment made on thousands (if not millions) of families, which he is not entitled to. If he is entitled to making such comments, then the audience is also entitled to their reactions of criticizing him.
nothing wrong with it its his opinion he didnt insult anyone like you haters try to do and always get riled up over nothing just to blame famous people for your own lifes.
@@pruitv4 LMAO, I literally explained in my comment what the difference between an opinion and judgement is and you still went ahead and commented this. The plural for 'life' is 'lives', btw.
Socially, SK will never overcome this outdated way of thinking. These standards of society that SK upholds are really 70 years old. In the long run, such things are never successful and are doomed to fail. This also deters tourists who do not like this way of thinking. For modern thinking tourists, SK is not worth the trip.
@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fjyou do it not for money but because of love. Not everything must be transaction in life. You can create good relationships that based on money
I feel like it's good they opedly bad mouth or discriminate about women. It better to know them now than later. It could be too late. Many evil are good at wearing mask. That will be more scary
@@annag9931 Lee min ho and seo in guk will be misogyny for jisoo. And misogynists will make by blink. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣Now it's time to be a misogynist lee min ho and seo in guk by blink 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 like jisoo ex 😂🤣🤣🤣
If you want a housewife who doesn't do a job then he should learn to respect his wife. How many people insult the housewife or make her a toy to vent out their stress Because they cannot pay. If anyone sees a housewife in a video, people start commenting that she is a gold digger. I have always seen people making fun of housewives. Because of this, many women do not want to become housewives because people do not respect them.
*"Because of this, many women do not want to become housewives because people do not respect them ”* true words. The MaDAME above us doesn't get any respect on the street because she doesn't want to work. She is also extremely lazy. Now I'm over 10 years older than this MaDAME and I rock the place. I'm respected by the residents in our street, but not by the lazy and bad mother/MADAM above us. MaDAME above us tends to be jealous and shows me no respect. She is not only lazy but a very bad mother and not a role model. The residents know this and show me respect as a working wife. One politician said to us: *“Those unwilling to work should have respect for the working people and the better off (MONY,MONEY)!”* In our country, the lazy are not only too lazy, but have no respect for people who work hard.
the amount of people (esp women themselves) defending Park Seo's misogynyst beliefs are sickening. I loved him so much as an actor and just came to know about this. No matter how much good of an actor he is, it doesnt change the fact that he has ugly and unjust beliefs. It's not preference, it's called a stereotype. And the way he said that to the public...the audacity...
nothing wrong with it its his opinion he didnt insult anyone like you haters try to do and always get riled up over nothing just to blame famous people for your own lifes.
@@pruitv4 wdym "haters"?? why would you think I'll hate someone for no reason lmao?? as I mentioned in my comment, I really loved his acting and enjoyed watching his kdramas but after I came to know about this (which was through this video, literally yesterday), I got totally turned down. also wdym by riled up over nothing? he's clearly being misogynstic and even added that his view won't change.
@@emmasharna7708 girl clean the shit from your head because I am not a toxic fan and one more thing why you defending him when you know he is a toxic and misogynistic and one more thing jisoo is not a Red flag and not a lesbian and one more thing do you have a proof that she is a Red flag or a lesbian idiot
If he is not a Red flag then why is subscribe those UA-cam channels that disrespect women in every way possible don't reply that maybe he subscribe those channels mistakely because this is the worst excuse we can ever give in order to save your favs reputation
Many of y’all’s “oPpar” think exactly the same way as these dudes. It’s a common mentally among patriarchal men, especially in a patriarchal society like S.Korea.
Cuz these women are too blinded by the soft kidols and actors which media represents. It's such a trap for women honestly to portray Korean men on media like this which majority of them are not behind the camera. I feel so scared for the female staff actresses and female idols.
That comment about mothers rubbed me up the wrong way because having an absent father does damage as well so both parents are needed, a mothers love and a fathers discipline balances the child.
Imagine literally hating on someone for their born with looks and bashing them for it and then say IT WAS A JOKE when you're held accountable Who does he think he's clowning
As a tall women i heard this comment a few times before. It does sting a little. I remember i was about to walk down the stairs to a subway station and this shorter guy showed up next to me asking me how tall i am. I told him and he went: ''Wow you are super tall, i wish i had your height. But with a tall women i could never, i prefer short you know... they are better to control'' I wanted to kick him down so bad. People these days just piss me off.
@bitchesassproductions5308 is that what you think ?how crazy is that,I mean, a lot of stay at home mother do claim they feel like maids when they do all the labour work in the family by themselves with no help provided from the man of the house even when they are financially binded.looked down on if uneducated but the mothers are willing to co-operate to keep the family together, and they are the ones most of times cheated on by their educated husbands. If educated they want a career and want to have kids and a man that they can rely on with actions not words or claims of lies because they are on the same level of education there so they can discuss and come to a conclusion with finance related fights happening on a daily basis .educated men do not discuss their finances with uneducated women .The mother's viewing themselve as well as in laws and husband see them as necessary labourers of the family do justify how you phrase a. Situation like that I am curious.
@@bitchesassproductions5308 cheating husband don't discuss their finances because they need to save up money for their mistresses no other reason why husband's hide finances logic behind this.
I see so many comments on Park Seo Joon, but almost no one commented on Yoo Yoon Seok, I feel like what he is said was one of the worst things he could say to a woman. And to his co-star at the top of that. That level of disrespect!! Btw, turtlenecks are very elegant if styled properly, actually many women I know who wear turtlenecks have a great sense of style. I don't think you have to wear revealing clothing to look beautiful and if he wants so see skin so much he should date a striptizer. Or better, not date at all as striptizers also deserve respect as human beings.
no he said he wanted to get married but after jisoo and his breakup he does not want to marry anymore jisoo did not want to get married pretty sure thats why they broke up now
Right, i dont see how bo hyun's one fitted in this vid tbh. His stylist said it was a misunderstanding, following channels on yt, who goes and unfollow? Like i still follow people from 2015.. lowkey kinda weird
I'm amazed that so many Korean men comment so much about women's appearance when they had to undergo several plastic surgeries to even look half decent.
If you meet someone who shares your beliefs, then it's not a problem. The problem comes when you share your beliefs and the other person thinks they can change your beliefs over time. There is a woman out there who wants the same thing he does. I don't think there's anything archaic about it. That's just what you want. There are women out there who want to be a stay at home mom and don't want a career. Do we criticize them for that? Or do we respect what they want? And there are women out there who don't want to be a stay at home mom and want a career. We can't help who we are attracted to. I don't think there's anything wrong with being honest about that. All he's done was be honest with his answers. It's up to us to either judge the hell out of him or respect his preferences and opinion.
What if he cheats or abuses his housewife, she'll have no income to escape from him, while he always have money for himself and control all the money, he can financially abuse her too
Yoo Yeon Suk has crossed some boundaries here. It's not respectful to judge someone based on what they wear or to think a woman's clothing shows her feelings. This is actually a red flag because it reduces a person to their appearance instead of seeing them as a whole. If he keeps expressing these views, oh dear... you might want to think about whether you want to continue engaging with him... wow... also it feels like, his partner would be obligated to wear sexy clothes, even if she doesn't feel to and be sexy all the time. And what if a woman on a date with him doesn't actually likes him but she's wearing see-through because it's her personality, then he would think she likes him... ?
I had to go back to work when I had both my sons. Everyone has a right to their opinions but these celebrities should realise that social media will always resurface. Unfortunately Netizens think they own them.
Many women make difficult and hard decisions like you did. Hope you raise your sons to appreciate what you did for them and not turn out to be entitled and judgemental of women 20+ years younger than you living in different times and circumstances
@walan31 It's men who make everything difficult. Men cheat and abuse their housewife alot. Statically, housewifes suffer domestic violence the most. An abused victim is not a better mother than a working mother
@walan31 What if he cheats or abuses the housewife, she'll have no income to escape from him, even if she escapes, she'll have no right to custody the child because she doesn't have income, while he always have money for himself to do whatever he want and rob the child from her.
8:49 I also think this can be the reason. As long as I slightly know Jisoo even we all BLINKs she is a family person. The way she loves and supports her members even how she cherishes us BLINKs she might want a family. Just assumption
I think it's a beautiful thing for a woman to stay at home and dedicate herself to raising kids. But why do so many of the men who demand for this also go around sleeping with young single women? That's the obnoxius part. If they stayed true to their wives then I don't see anything wrong with this set up.
About Yoo Ah In imo the zucchini scandal comes from a big misunderstanding because initially he responded to a very mean comment and his answer was either light humor or passive-agressive which in any case was appropriate considering the unprovocked attack and the fact that it's the OP who brought the zucchini in the first place. Him being accused to be a misoginist for that seems like a stretch.
I'm sorry but saying "ever been beaten up by a d*ck" is a very violent statement. Men use it as a euphemism when threatening a woman with r@pe. Who even thinks to say something like that? Plus he mocked tf out of women who called him out for it. He brought it on himself.
@@ami-el7dg So you're just ignoring the comment he responded to? That's one of the most vicious comments I've ever seen, and it came out of nowhere. It's literally the other person who was threatening... But because of his gender he should just take it? I believe in fairness regardless of people's gender. When I read the initial comment I understand that his answer is not a provocation but the reaction of someone who is stunned and disturbed by the attack and asks something along the line of "who traumatized you to attack me like that?". I see it as a light self defense and would have reacted in a similar way myself.
Good to know that you would threaten someone with r@pe if they were to provoke you👍🏾 But do tell me what the comment he responded to said so I can see if I'm as f**ked up in the head as you and your buddy.
Good to know that you'd threaten someone with r@pe if provoked! But do tell me what the comment he responded to was so I can see if I'm as f-ked up in the head like the both of yall.
@@ami-el7dg So you reacted without even reading both sides? Go search it up yourself. And don't insult me, like I said I don't see his response as a threat like you see it.
The first one is literally just a preference, there are also women out there that would love to be a stay at home mom (even if it is an old ideology). As long as he argue his point respectfully, I don't see why people should be judging him.
Lots of Asia has had this mindset for a long time. I didn’t grow up in that culture. It’s easy to judge as an outsider, but we should recognize that there are cultural differences that play a role.
Not happens in Thailand. In Asia we rank second after Singapore for the numbers of female in high ranking positions. And we are open to genders of choices. LGBTQ can become Professor or teachers. Any career. I've heard from a LGBT Taiwanese professor who teaches Chinese in a University in Thailand that he can't open his gender preferences in Taiwan, otherwise he might lose his job. That's why he chooses to live in Thailand.
did you miss the part where he said children raised by single mothers lead problematic adult life? also if he wants housewife he should persue someone who is interested in being one, not someone who has to leave their job. He isn’t only talking about his preferences he's shaming single mothers whereas single mothers are one of strongest people.
Quitting your job is way more dangerous, risky and harder for women's life. What if he cheats or abuse her, she'll have no income to escape from him, while he always have money for himself and control all the money, he can financially abuse her too.
I don’t know why people are surprised by this? Just because these men are actors/celebrities it does not mean they are well educated. It is clear that they have had their ego’s stroked for far too long which is why they think they can get away with this kind of ignorance.
@April98-ju4ibyou do realize that many women are actually okay with it right? Like there are women who want to be stay at home wives and are obsessed with being skinny too? It’s only wrong if they marry someone whose wants and needs don’t align with theirs and force them to do theirs. Everyone has their personal preference. Some women want a tall and muscular looking man with a fat bank account and some don’t care for such. It’s personal preference
I think it's ok to say what you like and don't like. Everyone has preferences. People are making way too much of this. The guy commenting that people need plastic surgery etc. That's a bit much. From what I understand Korean fans act crazy anyway.
As a die hard feminist - I find the comments section intolerant and reeking of lack of awareness. I believe it is ok if a man wants a stay at home wife - who shares the same dream and values. It is a problem only if there is a difference in their understanding of an ideal marriage. I have highly qualified friends who have chosen to stay at home. They are happy, their family life is great and their children are now successful, happy and incredibly well-behaved.
"Physical appearance shouldn't be the ultimate measure of a person's worth or attraction. Beauty, by societal standards, is fleeting and ephemeral. It's a transient quality that inevitably fades with time, succumbing to the ravages of aging and the inevitability of mortality. Regardless of how well we take care of ourselves, our physical allure will eventually wane. 👏👏👏👏👏
Its hilarious that some "fans" are so sensitive that they even feel offended when their idols/celebs are sharing their own preferences on opposite sex. Smh. I think all celebs start saying "no comments" during interviews when asked about their ideal types or preferences just to avoid stupid controversies from overwhelming "fans". 😂 Being a woman I don't support the so called instagram feminism culture either. They are just ridiculous and loud. ✌🏻
My opinions about situations is the mothers of male actors mostly women needs see how they work Sacrificing own careers to raise their children right paths in life and learning cultures having deals, including opinions why people don’t want dating someone in their relationships within and over nature of situations. For All Koreans women in their cultures, it’s actually hurting, upset for allowing people in field own cultures as well too.
K drama makes the younger generation delulu. Everyone have to understand that they have their own ideal type like us and we don't have to be disappointed because less or more, men want to see her woman like a housewife.
I think comment section doesn't understand the difference between having personal preferences and keeping them personal and making remarks that are problematic. Well nobody should care about their remarks but don't we all know the amount of impact celebs have on normal public !? If celebs who're like idols to many teens and adults think it's okay to bodyshame, it's perfectly fine to have a chat room filled with n@ked deepfakes of women celebs-idols , being anti-feminist because it annoys them and using every possible chance to put down a woman by any means etc. because their fav celebs are doing so... People are not being 'sensitive' , they're calling out sh!ts that stink . Just because some guys are so so pretty and appears to be smart doesn't mean they can do no wrong. Nothing wrong with Park Seo Joon wanting a traditional wife , he could say that he wants a traditional wife that's it , many women also want to be traditional wives but nope stretching it further with remarks like "women should do this and that ..." Well who's he to dictate on how a woman should live? And yes if parenting is right , children of working parents grow up really nice , if parenting is wrong wheather it's a traditional household or working parents household, the children are going to be brats anyway. Read about women's conditions in SK and you'll probably understand why these remarks are just not 'jokes' or mere 'preferences' , well you might understand, idk.
Well put and well explained as to what's wrong, what's ok and what's not ok, and about if it is ok or not why, what's the reason behind it to be ok or not. Really well said .
@@victoryv116 Just because it can, doesn't mean it should be. It's HIS preference and while i personally think it's outdated that he has these expectation for a potential partner with a Job rather than someone more aligned with his ideals, we cannot shame him for wanting what he wants. Even when we dont agree with it, cause there will be women who want that kind of lifestyle and it's not necessarily bad as long as that's what she wants as well.
EXACTLY PREACH! This comment section is horrible, did misogynists take over? Or are these uncultured women just doing anything to ass lick their so called "innocent actors"?
These videos are the reason there's so much hatred in the industry. Where's the source? where's the citation for these statements? All lies and rumours for content, nothing more.
no except for starting three actors i think all are rumors since there is no source but the guy who explicitly hated a women celebs his articles were there still
Women have the right to choose their career over family, the same as men have the right to choose who they want for a wife. Why is that are problem? Park Seo Joon didn't force anyone to be a housewife. He is looking for a partner who will be a housewife. If his partner doesn't want to be a housewife he will go ahead with someone who wants to. Why is everyone taking what he said in a negative light?A man wanting a housewife is misogynistic but a woman choosing to a be a housewife to a person who wants a housewife is not? He has a right to his choices, the same as women have the right to theirs
dont justify conservative attitude and sexist attitude in name of choice - he is reinforcing the same tradtional roles for women which treated women as second class citizen or worse than humans ..if your choice is to be mysogynist then you better be recieve criticism for it ..after all criticisng inetllectually is also somebody's choice
@@victoryv116 It's only sexist when it's a man who wants a conservative wife, but not sexist when a woman wants to be a conservative wife?. So women who are traditional wives are second hand citizens according to what you're saying?.Just because someone wants a traditional wife doesn't make them sexist. And which part of his words devalued women or showed discrimination or dislike towards women ? 'Sexist' and 'misogyny' are just thrown around.
@@victoryv116dont overglorify womens careers and jobs. Women feel harder to look after family and job thats a fact and many men are against on their women quitting their jobs and forcing them to do multi jobs along with housechores. You people just glorifying. Park is correct .hes called gentleman in my country india
Some comments from celebrities are ok... Bearable... But comments are too much... Atleast they should think twice before saying them... But they said with such confidence is what made me sad...
@@deepthinker1710 Of course he is allowed to have a preference for his ideal relationship and there are surely plenty of women that would be happy to be housewives as long as their man can provide for them... that said what people were mostly mad at is the idea that "kids should be raised by their mother" and that they will "become problematic" otherwise, which is blatantly false. Korean women already face a lot of discrimination in their work life, and there is simply no oppurtunity for work life balance when having kids, even less so if your man is not sharing the responsibility for raising them.
@@ike7484 not all men thinks like him some men voluntarily wants to raise kids sit at home or do some small business. ,not all men are same some are like him some men love cooking cleaning house
Korean society is like that but they show other things in kdramas. Is a a society very evolved technologically but not socially. Is like they are living on the 50s. And then european girls dreaming of marrying a korean man😂.
I notice this type of mindset in many male models. The actors listed in this video are mostly runaway models, right? I wonder why they think they can talk abt women publicly like that, and then said they were just joking.
wow! I don't have much idea about who these actors are or how famous they really are, but they seem to be pretty thick headed to make such absurd remarks on public platforms. Except the last guy, The criticisms against that actor is purely based on one of his youtube subscriptions and a picture in which he is reading out of a script somebody is holding up. Those are some weak allegations.
OMG…people really have to watch what they say don’t they? Reason being there are people out there who wake up each day actively looking for something or someone to be offended at. Really think someone’s opinion shouldn’t jeopardise their career or livelihood.
Of course you're an Islamist. Please stop, if you're a public figure you're gonna get criticized. 🙄🙄 Unbelieve how women support these wrong doings simply because their "beloved" actors are in the spotlight. Disgusting.
That’s absolutely Seo Joon’s right to want that kind of thing especially from someone he plans on spending the rest of his life with. If a woman hears that a man wants a loving wife and stay at home mom to raise the family that shouldn’t be some kind of controversial take, if you want to go be a girl boss and not have that kind of family life that’s your choice but don’t judge others for their choices.
It Isnt Want He Wants In A Partner Thats The Problem. It's The Other Statements Thats The Issue. Like Assuming That A Working Mom Cant Raise Kids Correctly.
In my country park seojun opinion is normal and he would be treated as most ideal men gentleman. Its not misogynistic completely also he said he takes care of wife eveb being unemployed. Which men does this today ! So j dont think hes misogynistic he is manly men
Wow wow truly shows how women don't support women! Truly sickening this is your Korean oppa huh? Disgusting of you defending his misogynistic statement . That's why I always say there will be no equality when women have this kind of sh*t mentality and they defend men on Disgusting things
The worst thing is, that the Korean/Asian culture itself creates bodyshaming beauty standards. It's not changing, everything they compliment each other for is loosing weight, getting something done on their body, making money and other things like that. As much as i love asian countries, especially Korea, most of them don't respect each other for being themselves the way they are. They prefer people to look unnatural perfect. Thats one of the dark sides. But on the other hand, we all have different pteferences but when someone is saying it out loud, it gets controversal. So, what is right or wrong is not that easy, i think growing up in this culture makes it hard to really be yourself 😢
The fact that he brought up bullshit like how kids not raised by there moms might be delinquent that makes no sense. He’s obviously being picky and not having a preference
@@kpoptrashmultifandom5794 in most cases its true lol Children brought up under the care of mom tend to be more civilised Whatever be it its his choice yall ain't nothing lol
@@thatnerdyguy3620 Wheres the proof and why are u discrediting the dads that raise their kids? Whats the point of defending him hes not gonna marry you 😭
@@kpoptrashmultifandom5794 u can't act ignorant to prove ur point lol💀 Don't tell me a guy who grows without both parents eyesight on him will turn out to a good guy most of the times lol ...nd ofc both parents are required
There’s some translation errors and miscommunication. There’s nothing wrong with wanting a traditional household where the man is the breadwinner and the woman is a house maker and stay at home mom. Also Park Seojun didn’t say that only the wife should raise kids; it’s common for celebrities to have their kids raised by nannies and there’s nothing wrong with wanting his kids to be raised by their own mother, it’s also very beneficial for the infant and baby to spend as much time with their mother . and he didn’t say that ALL kids who grow up without a mother become problematic adults. He said it’s more beneficial for kids to be raised with a mom and that kids need their mom. And it is true that kids who don’t have a stable home life where they aren’t loved or taught how to be good people are more likely to make bad decisions and get in trouble.
There’s nothing wrong about what he said. He’s ideal type is from old school. I am sure there are a lot of old school types and I know I am one of them. It sounds like there’s no freedom of speech in Kdrama when it comes to actors and actresses.
@@sjohnso123 Bro exactly, wtf is this comment section? Why are people saying it's alright when we arent trashing him over his preference we're trashing him for his views lmfao.
That's agreeable, but then he should be willing to stay home raising children if the wife wants to advance with her career. Isn't the argument that one side of the parents should stay with children to raise the children well? If he is willing to give up his career for children, then I'm all for it.
Park seo jun is not wrong.... If one is having a good way of making money so wife dont have to work... Its good that husband is working for his family and wife is taking care of the family... If both parents work then children are indeed spoiled coz no one's there there to correct their mistakes and taking care of them
For many women their career matters to them, if he wants his partner to be family oriented then he should get a girl who doesn't work why to ruin some woman's career? It's pathetic really.
But why it has to be women always ? Its good to have an idea about the upbringing of your children but prefixing specific gender roles for that , uhmm NO !
psj really have attitude. sometimes he wont talk to his fans. his behavior towards park bo young. he is not gentleman. thats why lee min-ho still the king of kdrama. until now he is approachable and thankful to his fans.
3:12 I am a female and I absolutely agree with what was said by him. Sitting in a mini skirt with your legs spread.. C'mon. That is not body shaming, that is common sense.
Maybe don't ask the question if you don't want an honest answer just because you don't like the answer or maybe the celebs need to just decline to answer personal questions like what kind of woman they are attracted to etc it is their own business anyway surely
if he wants his childre raised by their mother, and if the wife is okay with it, what is the problem? even i myself wants to be a housewife. what is wrong being a housewife?
There's nothing wrong if a woman chooses to be a homemaker, although it's a risky plan, but at the end of the day, it's her call. But everything is wrong when a man wants their wives to be housewives, and it's not like he would choose a woman of similar mentality, but instead marry a woman he likes, and make them quit their career by blackmailing them.
Women have to stop shaming housewives and men who prefer them. Today being raised by your own mother is a privilege... coz it's hard to survive in one income household in today's economy. My mom is a great mom also housewife and my dad was a great dad & doctor (RIP). I'm a career woman with kids ... life can get hectic sometimes juggling many hats.
@@pruitv4 What about you pestering everyone on the internet like a troll? Ain't got any better words to say? Maggots shouldn't be allowed to comment in the internet.
People are products of their society and personal upbringing. They say what is ingrained in their psyche. If they have other societal cues to see women in a favorable light then they will change those opinions as they develop into adults. If that society is lacking those cues, well what you see is this type of behavior. It is not unique to Korea. It is worldwide misogyny and myopic views that they are expressing. Women are guilty of expressing hateful, body shaming comments also. Each one teach one.
Average Korean male's behaviour 😂
Fr
True
As if only male koreans, all Human guys wants a reliable and resilient wife
How many Korean males do you know? That's as dismissive as comments you consider sexist or mysogynist
@@yelmanangan949 many guys don't want to get married and some guys want to marry other men
To all the ladies out there: let men speak freely. The more they talk, the more they reveal their true nature, often hidden beneath the surface, leaving little room for misplaced hope. It’s wise advice that could protect you from disappointment. And remember, adopt a dog-they are far more loyal, protective, and faithful than most men
Actually that’s a really great advice. I definitely ganna use it. Thank you girl 💗💗💗
Agreed but I feel like this goes both ways.
Men are deceptive, saying whatever it takes to impress or manipulate just to gain attention on a date, hiding their true intentions beneath a charming facade, but once they’re in especially after marriage , their true colors-often deceptive and self-centered-start to show,leaving partners feeling trapped and disillusioned.
Men are deceptive, saying whatever it takes to impress or manipulate just to gain attention on a date, hiding their true intentions beneath a charming facade, but once they’re in, their true colors-often deceptive and self-centered-start to show, leaving partners feeling trapped and disillusioned.
Men are* deceptive, saying whatever it takes to impress or manipulate just to gain attention on a date, hiding their true intentions beneath a charming facade, but once they’re in, their true colors-often deceptive and self-centered*-start to show, leaving partners feeling trapped and disillusioned.
And some people wonder why most korean women dont want to get married.
Most?? you believe what every UA-cam video tell into real life??
@@yusrilyusril2381 you still have a doubt ?? Korean birth rate is already near 0%......
That's because of economy fool!
@@yusrilyusril2381A simple google search would tell you there’s data supporting this claim.
Its just drama or movie
It s fantady😂
this group are just the tip of the iceberg, i’m sure so many of our favorite actors have the same beliefs but they just weren’t dumb enough to get caught..
Exactly. When it comes to korean celebs, I like looking at their faces and that's it. Because there are too many instances of misogyny within the society that it's hard for me to believe that most of them do not think this way as well. When i see people say "my fav could never" or "he raised the standard" i felt like laughing because those celebs are most probably performing for the camera.
@@asmrlowkey5043I mean, they are performers after all. Can't be hard for them to fool us.
@@mabuixa
If one has life experience and knowledge of human nature, it should not be a problem to recognize “The red Flag”.
A healthy distrust is also important. If men over the age of 35 are neither married nor have a girlfriend, there may be reasons for this.
If he has had various girlfriends up to this age and the relationship has never lasted long, absolute caution is advised. Men over 40 OR 40+ are difficult.
Either in character or simply too old. When I was 27, I would never have married a man who was 40 or over 40+. That would be an age difference of over 10 years.
It goes in the direction of “sugar daddy” and I don't like that. Besides, I don't have a father complex that would make me want to marry an old man.
Their attitude to life, tastes and circle of friends are completely different.
If there is such a big age difference, the husband or sugar daddy won't like it if the wife has a circle of friends.
He sees competition or danger in EVERYTHING and EVERYONE. This is not a marriage but rather a hell.
The wives are not allowed to have friends and hobbies either, they only have to look after sugar daddy. Just thinking about it makes me depressed.
That's why depression and suicides are so common in SK.
@@asmrlowkey5043 All of them are just actors, portraying characters & I'm sure their offscreen persona is totally different from what they keep showing on screen lol. Luckily I'm not one of those girls who keeps mentioning their Oppas as if those Oppas will look at them in real life
no such thing would happen nowadays, they recieve thorough PR training now 😂 nobody's allowed to run their mouths free like that anymore
That's your "Oppa" everyone.
Yes, that's exactly why I am like oppa very much 😊
Americans and British are the worst
Hope you meant them so you can get shamed in person 🤸☺️@@emmasharna7708
@@emmasharna7708I see....so desperate to get picked up by your oppars👀
Not everyone are same bt many are like this
he should find a woman who doesn't work not find a woman who works then tells her to leave the job
Exactly
Ikr like there is a lot of women who likes being a housewife why the shame the rest who wants to work and ask them to stop and became the housewife
" free bird theory". They enjoy taming/subdueing females who are on track to their goals, it's like a trophy for y chromosome if they can distract, divert and make you completely give up your dreams and goals for a lifetime of servitude for him errr I mean "making a family" for him... Oops.. I mean with him.
@@themambo6100 Exactly.
Quitting your job is way more dangerous, risky and harder for women's life. What if he cheats or abuse her, she'll have no income to escape from him, while he always have money for himself and control all the money, he can financially abuse her too.
Some men shouldn't be opening their mouths tbh
May be are geys
Lmao 😅
It’s better for them to open their mouths, so the women can stay away from men that have these opinions.
@@jacquelineg9112 Right. Reveal yourself, so we don't waste our time.
You should close both you upper lips nd lower lips bcoz too much po**n ruined your life
This does not surprise me as it is expected of an average Korean man with a typical patriarchal perspective. But what baffles me is that they have the confidence to say such remarks in a public space where they know that they have considerable influence. I'd like to believe that k-dramas are just fantasy and it would be lucky to come across such men in real life that too in a country like South Korea
They have such confidence because their society and the law backs them up. They feel entitled and the patriarchal hierarchical structure allows it. The Koreans have a particular hatred for women.
But park seojun is right. You dont know how difficult mom feels to manage house kids and job. And seojun said only house first preference. Whats wrong inthat he respected house wife how many men does this. Ive seem men complainkng abusing eofe to do job and take care lf house.
@@anita2053-r1f Whether to be a housewife if possible should be a choice, not to be forced on a women.
Can you similar thing to a man...to sit in house 24X7 and take care of children?
typical haters judging a country based on what some problematic channels as this one tell you, while everyone who was there even once already said something else.
@@mohinimao no one is forcing anything, there is nothing wrong with saying what kind of woman you like and want you haters just love to missinterpret things just to cry around.
I feel bad for laughing. I cackled during this whole segment. Who even thinks of sh*t like that? I can't believe these grown men think that way. These are all actors I love. Now I am truly annoyed. UGH
This is exactly why i stopped liking male celebs.
Yeah, at the end of the day they are just men
The Reason why I stop watching K-drama .... Also I stop listening kpop too ....
The whole korean society is obsessed with beauty standards. But when someone shares their ideals as a reflection of those standards, suddenly the society acts offended. Pretty hypocritical and projecting on the actors to above norms.
I'm sorry! Mostly Koreans don't have fully rights to comment when it comes to physical appearance! Most especially when you're not that good looking 😂😂😂 and as well as mostly in general, undergoes/underwent plastic and cosmetic surgery 😂😂😂 Rhinoplasty is soooooooo common because you can only count Koreans with n8ce bridge nose! Mostly they'll make it so pointy and mostly looking not so good 😅
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NO KIDDING!!!
true they like drama
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in korea , you are subjected to violence if you are openly described yourself feminist . In comment section, many people are dellusionally supporting park seo joon statements as "preference " . In a society , where women are criticsed and degraded or humiliated for going beyond tradional roles , for a successful man easily stating his mysogynist instance as preference shows his man's priviledge and mindset. First perosnal preferences can be criticised . If personal preference supporting conservative and sexist attitude then , it will recieve criticism ..criticising also a personal preference . Second seeing woman fit for tradtional role is supporting the patrirachal mindset ..
Couldn't agree more 💯💯💯
Sadly it's common in south asian countries.
"she should leave her job to take care of HER family" why don't you pursue a non working women instead of an working one then? and "her family" ?? is it only her responsibility tf?
Majority of men in the world expect their wife to take over the role of mom = do all the hard work for free
Statically, housewifes suffer domestic violence the most. An abused victim is not a better mother than a working mother
The significance a woman plays in raising her children has been downplayed. Children raised in a 2 parent household, where one stays home & cares for the children, are more stable & successful in life. Kids raised by single moms are less successful & more likely to get into crime. Do some research!! Kids raised in 2 parent families will do better in life!
@@rmartinez4165 This discussion is not about single mothers, though. It's about a household with both parents working. And the point still stands... why doesn't he just find an unemployed woman? Or a woman who doesn't want to work?
Sometimes people who like their wife to leave their job are those who finds people with no job lazy and are not fit to stay with them.
They just want to see powerful women to bow to them and submit to their wishes.
Yoo Ah In accusing someone of being an addict while he himself is one is insane 😅
almost as insane as han seo hee trying to call someone out for being a fake feminist, because she is such a voice for women for women’s issues 🙄
but technically it doesn’t have to mean he call her an addict so much as taking a dig at her being caught, because she is more known for being a dealer than a user. on top of that, she’s infamous for always getting away with it by dragging random people’s names in with hers and using her family connections.
LIKE???? Crackheads are so funny I swear😂
He wasn’t wrong tho. She’s been in jail multiple times for drugs, both possessing them and selling them.
Now i know why park seo jun never passed the vibe check for me...gut feeling was right
Right…I thought it was just me..
Same!!!!!!!! He never gave me the vibe i like from k male lead. Didn't know why. But now seems right
@@oishy6609 right? Such a misogynist
Park Seo Joon also made weird comments about kissing actresses in a show.. I forget it, but since then I have always thought he's a perv
I used to feel bad to had that feeling but now i don't
So disappointed to see people defending Park Seo Joon's statements. Having a preference for a stay-at-home wife is one thing, but saying that children should be raised entirely by the moms and ones who're raised by working moms turn out problematic isn't a harmless opinion- that's a comment made on thousands (if not millions) of families, which he is not entitled to.
If he is entitled to making such comments, then the audience is also entitled to their reactions of criticizing him.
EXACTLY. These women really be willing to leave their dignity out the door for a f*cking man
Someone remind Park Seo about Barrack Obama
nothing wrong with it its his opinion he didnt insult anyone like you haters try to do and always get riled up over nothing just to blame famous people for your own lifes.
@@pruitv4 He did not insult anyone? He said people who didn’t grow up with a mother end up becoming delinquents. WTF
@@pruitv4 LMAO, I literally explained in my comment what the difference between an opinion and judgement is and you still went ahead and commented this.
The plural for 'life' is 'lives', btw.
These men sound like US men of the 1950's.
No, US men are still that bad and even worse, trying to strip women of all rights. 😠
Exactly, Korea is living like on the 50s
Thanks for timeline
So true
Socially, SK will never overcome this outdated way of thinking. These standards of society that SK upholds are really 70 years old.
In the long run, such things are never successful and are doomed to fail.
This also deters tourists who do not like this way of thinking. For modern thinking tourists, SK is not worth the trip.
Statically, housewifes suffer domestic violence the most. An abused victim is not a better mother than a working mother
That is so true! Housewives and househusbands do a lot of work for free and still get abused.
@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fjhousehusbands doesn't exist 😂😂😂
@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fjyou do it not for money but because of love. Not everything must be transaction in life. You can create good relationships that based on money
I didn’t know women were the only victim of domestic violences
@atiblink Most victims are women.that's the sad truth.
I feel like it's good they opedly bad mouth or discriminate about women. It better to know them now than later. It could be too late. Many evil are good at wearing mask. That will be more scary
True let them show their true colors so you know immediately if you like it or not.
So many misogynist in the comments.
Fr... And i think they are women 🥴
can you be a misogynist woman?
As long it's their oppa, these betches would even justify killing babies🤷🤷
@@bitchesassproductions5308 Ofc, women can be misogynist falling for a$$es, like u, maybe? Lol. Shut it, wh0re.
*misogynists
Good for Jisoo she break up 😂
I remmember very clear how korean getting mad when they know she dating him and how she deserve someone better they even choose leejehoon for her 😭😭😭
@@annag9931 Lee min ho and seo in guk will be misogyny for jisoo. And misogynists will make by blink. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣Now it's time to be a misogynist lee min ho and seo in guk by blink 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 like jisoo ex 😂🤣🤣🤣
He doesn't deserves her
It was media play
@@agustdrip1960yes he deserves 100 time better than jisoo
If you want a housewife who doesn't do a job then he should learn to respect his wife. How many people insult the housewife or make her a toy to vent out their stress Because they cannot pay. If anyone sees a housewife in a video, people start commenting that she is a gold digger. I have always seen people making fun of housewives. Because of this, many women do not want to become housewives because people do not respect them.
*"Because of this, many women do not want to become housewives because people do not respect them ”* true words.
The MaDAME above us doesn't get any respect on the street because she doesn't want to work. She is also extremely lazy.
Now I'm over 10 years older than this MaDAME and I rock the place. I'm respected by the residents in our street, but not by the lazy and bad mother/MADAM above us.
MaDAME above us tends to be jealous and shows me no respect. She is not only lazy but a very bad mother and not a role model.
The residents know this and show me respect as a working wife. One politician said to us:
*“Those unwilling to work should have respect for the working people and the better off (MONY,MONEY)!”*
In our country, the lazy are not only too lazy, but have no respect for people who work hard.
Their own husband don't even respect them.
the amount of people (esp women themselves) defending Park Seo's misogynyst beliefs are sickening. I loved him so much as an actor and just came to know about this. No matter how much good of an actor he is, it doesnt change the fact that he has ugly and unjust beliefs. It's not preference, it's called a stereotype. And the way he said that to the public...the audacity...
nothing wrong with it its his opinion he didnt insult anyone like you haters try to do and always get riled up over nothing just to blame famous people for your own lifes.
@@pruitv4 he won't marry you lol
@@aornivamasood9606 typical haters who dont know what else to say when confronted with the truth.
@@pruitv4 bruh, why do you keep copy- pasting the same thing? acting like a bot...
@@pruitv4 wdym "haters"?? why would you think I'll hate someone for no reason lmao?? as I mentioned in my comment, I really loved his acting and enjoyed watching his kdramas but after I came to know about this (which was through this video, literally yesterday), I got totally turned down. also wdym by riled up over nothing? he's clearly being misogynstic and even added that his view won't change.
I wonder why Jisoo from blackpink broke up with ahn bo hyun he is a such a Red flag 🚩
@@AfrinJahan-i6d l think jisoo is a red flag not ahn bo hyun
@@AfrinJahan-i6d ahn bo hyun is very amazing gentleman. He is not red flag.
@@emmasharna7708wake up😊
@@emmasharna7708 girl clean the shit from your head because I am not a toxic fan and one more thing why you defending him when you know he is a toxic and misogynistic and one more thing jisoo is not a Red flag and not a lesbian and one more thing do you have a proof that she is a Red flag or a lesbian idiot
If he is not a Red flag then why is subscribe those UA-cam channels that disrespect women in every way possible don't reply that maybe he subscribe those channels mistakely because this is the worst excuse we can ever give in order to save your favs reputation
Many of y’all’s “oPpar” think exactly the same way as these dudes. It’s a common mentally among patriarchal men, especially in a patriarchal society like S.Korea.
So many women defending misogynist!!! 🤦🏻🤦🏻 That's why we live in a sickining society
Probably because it's normalized and they don't know any better. Not a excuse but I can see sadly where they coming from.
dont see any misogynist here only haters missinterpreting things on purpose to cry around as you always do.
Yeah... just because they are handsome and girls are obsessed with them
@@pruitv4 😒😒
Cuz these women are too blinded by the soft kidols and actors which media represents. It's such a trap for women honestly to portray Korean men on media like this which majority of them are not behind the camera. I feel so scared for the female staff actresses and female idols.
That comment about mothers rubbed me up the wrong way because having an absent father does damage as well so both parents are needed, a mothers love and a fathers discipline balances the child.
It's crazy how these people have perfectly fine careers after making such statements
I just noticed that some of them are not good looking at all..
Especially those who comment negatively to a woman.
I bet the Korean celebs we love be it actor or idols have the same old mindset 😂 They are just concealing with their handsome face behind.
Handsome plastic face*
Imagine literally hating on someone for their born with looks and bashing them for it and then say IT WAS A JOKE when you're held accountable
Who does he think he's clowning
As a tall women i heard this comment a few times before. It does sting a little. I remember i was about to walk down the stairs to a subway station and this shorter guy showed up next to me asking me how tall i am. I told him and he went: ''Wow you are super tall, i wish i had your height. But with a tall women i could never, i prefer short you know... they are better to control'' I wanted to kick him down so bad. People these days just piss me off.
Trust me some men aren't even worth looking at talk more of waiting for them to open their mouths
Tell him you like short men for the same reason 😂
@@spring7643😂😂
Short woman are better to control? What does that even mean? 😮
I'm tall and I don't let their little selves get to me.
They're too insignificant to be bothered about.
Seojoon should marry a maid ,they will leave their job to be mother of his child.
Right 💯
so all stay at home mothers are just maids?
@bitchesassproductions5308 is that what you think ?how crazy is that,I mean, a lot of stay at home mother do claim they feel like maids when they do all the labour work in the family by themselves with no help provided from the man of the house even when they are financially binded.looked down on if uneducated but the mothers are willing to co-operate to keep the family together, and they are the ones most of times cheated on by their educated husbands. If educated they want a career and want to have kids and a man that they can rely on with actions not words or claims of lies because they are on the same level of education there so they can discuss and come to a conclusion with finance related fights happening on a daily basis .educated men do not discuss their finances with uneducated women .The mother's viewing themselve as well as in laws and husband see them as necessary labourers of the family do justify how you phrase a. Situation like that I am curious.
@@bitchesassproductions5308 cheating husband don't discuss their finances because they need to save up money for their mistresses no other reason why husband's hide finances logic behind this.
@@bitchesassproductions5308 cheating husbands hide their finances to spend on their mistresses.
I see so many comments on Park Seo Joon, but almost no one commented on Yoo Yoon Seok, I feel like what he is said was one of the worst things he could say to a woman. And to his co-star at the top of that. That level of disrespect!!
Btw, turtlenecks are very elegant if styled properly, actually many women I know who wear turtlenecks have a great sense of style. I don't think you have to wear revealing clothing to look beautiful and if he wants so see skin so much he should date a striptizer. Or better, not date at all as striptizers also deserve respect as human beings.
you wanna family but you dont want to get married 😑
no he said he wanted to get married but after jisoo and his breakup he does not want to marry anymore jisoo did not want to get married pretty sure thats why they broke up now
I'm so glad that Jisoo broke up with him. Wouldn't want her to be with a misogynistic person.
What if she the bad one?
@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fjso you think a misogynistic guy is a good person lmao?
But I don't understand the last one about Bo Hyun. If he doesn't wanna get married that his choice. How did it become a red flag?
Right, i dont see how bo hyun's one fitted in this vid tbh. His stylist said it was a misunderstanding, following channels on yt, who goes and unfollow? Like i still follow people from 2015.. lowkey kinda weird
I'm amazed that so many Korean men comment so much about women's appearance when they had to undergo several plastic surgeries to even look half decent.
If you meet someone who shares your beliefs, then it's not a problem. The problem comes when you share your beliefs and the other person thinks they can change your beliefs over time. There is a woman out there who wants the same thing he does. I don't think there's anything archaic about it. That's just what you want. There are women out there who want to be a stay at home mom and don't want a career. Do we criticize them for that? Or do we respect what they want? And there are women out there who don't want to be a stay at home mom and want a career. We can't help who we are attracted to. I don't think there's anything wrong with being honest about that. All he's done was be honest with his answers. It's up to us to either judge the hell out of him or respect his preferences and opinion.
What if he cheats or abuses his housewife, she'll have no income to escape from him, while he always have money for himself and control all the money, he can financially abuse her too
my father, so a man, always told me and my sisters that money is the only thing that won't betray a woman.
Exactly
Yoo Yeon Suk has crossed some boundaries here. It's not respectful to judge someone based on what they wear or to think a woman's clothing shows her feelings. This is actually a red flag because it reduces a person to their appearance instead of seeing them as a whole. If he keeps expressing these views, oh dear... you might want to think about whether you want to continue engaging with him... wow... also it feels like, his partner would be obligated to wear sexy clothes, even if she doesn't feel to and be sexy all the time. And what if a woman on a date with him doesn't actually likes him but she's wearing see-through because it's her personality, then he would think she likes him... ?
I had to go back to work when I had both my sons. Everyone has a right to their opinions but these celebrities should realise that social media will always resurface. Unfortunately Netizens think they own them.
Many women make difficult and hard decisions like you did. Hope you raise your sons to appreciate what you did for them and not turn out to be entitled and judgemental of women 20+ years younger than you living in different times and circumstances
@@walan31 I think I was fortunate to have had my 20’s back in the 1980s.
@walan31 It's men who make everything difficult. Men cheat and abuse their housewife alot. Statically, housewifes suffer domestic violence the most. An abused victim is not a better mother than a working mother
@walan31 What if he cheats or abuses the housewife, she'll have no income to escape from him, even if she escapes, she'll have no right to custody the child because she doesn't have income, while he always have money for himself to do whatever he want and rob the child from her.
8:49 I also think this can be the reason. As long as I slightly know Jisoo even we all BLINKs she is a family person. The way she loves and supports her members even how she cherishes us BLINKs she might want a family. Just assumption
I think it's a beautiful thing for a woman to stay at home and dedicate herself to raising kids. But why do so many of the men who demand for this also go around sleeping with young single women? That's the obnoxius part. If they stayed true to their wives then I don't see anything wrong with this set up.
Park seo joon should find a women who dont work and marry her why marry a working women😂
Good luck for ahn bo hyun. He saved his life. He is very amazing interlegent men.
About Yoo Ah In imo the zucchini scandal comes from a big misunderstanding because initially he responded to a very mean comment and his answer was either light humor or passive-agressive which in any case was appropriate considering the unprovocked attack and the fact that it's the OP who brought the zucchini in the first place. Him being accused to be a misoginist for that seems like a stretch.
I'm sorry but saying "ever been beaten up by a d*ck" is a very violent statement. Men use it as a euphemism when threatening a woman with r@pe. Who even thinks to say something like that? Plus he mocked tf out of women who called him out for it. He brought it on himself.
@@ami-el7dg So you're just ignoring the comment he responded to? That's one of the most vicious comments I've ever seen, and it came out of nowhere. It's literally the other person who was threatening... But because of his gender he should just take it? I believe in fairness regardless of people's gender. When I read the initial comment I understand that his answer is not a provocation but the reaction of someone who is stunned and disturbed by the attack and asks something along the line of "who traumatized you to attack me like that?". I see it as a light self defense and would have reacted in a similar way myself.
Good to know that you would threaten someone with r@pe if they were to provoke you👍🏾 But do tell me what the comment he responded to said so I can see if I'm as f**ked up in the head as you and your buddy.
Good to know that you'd threaten someone with r@pe if provoked! But do tell me what the comment he responded to was so I can see if I'm as f-ked up in the head like the both of yall.
@@ami-el7dg So you reacted without even reading both sides? Go search it up yourself. And don't insult me, like I said I don't see his response as a threat like you see it.
The first one is literally just a preference, there are also women out there that would love to be a stay at home mom (even if it is an old ideology). As long as he argue his point respectfully, I don't see why people should be judging him.
Oh, god... And there are still so called fans trying to pretect them at this point...
Lots of Asia has had this mindset for a long time. I didn’t grow up in that culture. It’s easy to judge as an outsider, but we should recognize that there are cultural differences that play a role.
Not happens in Thailand. In Asia we rank second after Singapore for the numbers of female in high ranking positions. And we are open to genders of choices. LGBTQ can become Professor or teachers. Any career. I've heard from a LGBT Taiwanese professor who teaches Chinese in a University in Thailand that he can't open his gender preferences in Taiwan, otherwise he might lose his job. That's why he chooses to live in Thailand.
That culture is called ‘patriarchy' 🤷♀️
0:48 i dont see a problem with this. Hes literally talking about his own preferences. He isnt talking about all women.
did you miss the part where he said children raised by single mothers lead problematic adult life? also if he wants housewife he should persue someone who is interested in being one, not someone who has to leave their job. He isn’t only talking about his preferences he's shaming single mothers whereas single mothers are one of strongest people.
Quitting your job is way more dangerous, risky and harder for women's life. What if he cheats or abuse her, she'll have no income to escape from him, while he always have money for himself and control all the money, he can financially abuse her too.
Average male behavior be like:-☕☕☕🤡
I don’t know why people are surprised by this? Just because these men are actors/celebrities it does not mean they are well educated. It is clear that they have had their ego’s stroked for far too long which is why they think they can get away with this kind of ignorance.
As an At home mom, Park Seo Joon isn't wrong. Families tend to function better with 1 parent actively home full.time. no hate for that preference
@@elizabethbroncati6590 Exactly 💯
Exactly, feminists talk about freedom of choice for women , but why do they find controversial when a woman wants to have a traditional family
Ikr..😂😂 ..well a mother's care and love can't compare to anything..I mean u don't necessarily need to marry him if u don't like wt he's saying 😅😅
@April98-ju4ib fr
@April98-ju4ibyou do realize that many women are actually okay with it right? Like there are women who want to be stay at home wives and are obsessed with being skinny too? It’s only wrong if they marry someone whose wants and needs don’t align with theirs and force them to do theirs. Everyone has their personal preference. Some women want a tall and muscular looking man with a fat bank account and some don’t care for such. It’s personal preference
I think it's ok to say what you like and don't like.
Everyone has preferences. People are making way too much of this.
The guy commenting that people need plastic surgery etc. That's a bit much.
From what I understand Korean fans act crazy anyway.
True example of "Don't judge a book by its cover."
Why are you bringing up such old news
As a die hard feminist - I find the comments section intolerant and reeking of lack of awareness. I believe it is ok if a man wants a stay at home wife - who shares the same dream and values. It is a problem only if there is a difference in their understanding of an ideal marriage. I have highly qualified friends who have chosen to stay at home. They are happy, their family life is great and their children are now successful, happy and incredibly well-behaved.
Scary.
"Physical appearance shouldn't be the ultimate measure of a person's worth or attraction. Beauty, by societal standards, is fleeting and ephemeral. It's a transient quality that inevitably fades with time, succumbing to the ravages of aging and the inevitability of mortality. Regardless of how well we take care of ourselves, our physical allure will eventually wane. 👏👏👏👏👏
That 2nd actor is not even that handsome😂
Its hilarious that some "fans" are so sensitive that they even feel offended when their idols/celebs are sharing their own preferences on opposite sex. Smh. I think all celebs start saying "no comments" during interviews when asked about their ideal types or preferences just to avoid stupid controversies from overwhelming "fans". 😂
Being a woman I don't support the so called instagram feminism culture either. They are just ridiculous and loud. ✌🏻
Good jisoo broke up with him
@@Sona_317 same as bo hyun.
there is another one.. I forgot his name but he was in that Seo yeji scandal..
My opinions about situations is the mothers of male actors mostly women needs see how they work Sacrificing own careers to raise their children right paths in life and learning cultures having deals, including opinions why people don’t want dating someone in their relationships within and over nature of situations. For All Koreans women in their cultures, it’s actually hurting, upset for allowing people in field own cultures as well too.
K drama makes the younger generation delulu.
Everyone have to understand that they have their own ideal type like us and we don't have to be disappointed because less or more, men want to see her woman like a housewife.
I think comment section doesn't understand the difference between having personal preferences and keeping them personal and making remarks that are problematic. Well nobody should care about their remarks but don't we all know the amount of impact celebs have on normal public !? If celebs who're like idols to many teens and adults think it's okay to bodyshame, it's perfectly fine to have a chat room filled with n@ked deepfakes of women celebs-idols , being anti-feminist because it annoys them and using every possible chance to put down a woman by any means etc. because their fav celebs are doing so... People are not being 'sensitive' , they're calling out sh!ts that stink . Just because some guys are so so pretty and appears to be smart doesn't mean they can do no wrong. Nothing wrong with Park Seo Joon wanting a traditional wife , he could say that he wants a traditional wife that's it , many women also want to be traditional wives but nope stretching it further with remarks like "women should do this and that ..." Well who's he to dictate on how a woman should live? And yes if parenting is right , children of working parents grow up really nice , if parenting is wrong wheather it's a traditional household or working parents household, the children are going to be brats anyway. Read about women's conditions in SK and you'll probably understand why these remarks are just not 'jokes' or mere 'preferences' , well you might understand, idk.
Well put and well explained as to what's wrong, what's ok and what's not ok, and about if it is ok or not why, what's the reason behind it to be ok or not. Really well said .
i think you dont understand that preferences can be criticised also
@@victoryv116 Just because it can, doesn't mean it should be. It's HIS preference and while i personally think it's outdated that he has these expectation for a potential partner with a Job rather than someone more aligned with his ideals, we cannot shame him for wanting what he wants. Even when we dont agree with it, cause there will be women who want that kind of lifestyle and it's not necessarily bad as long as that's what she wants as well.
EXACTLY PREACH! This comment section is horrible, did misogynists take over? Or are these uncultured women just doing anything to ass lick their so called "innocent actors"?
Then people should stop asking them questions, if they can't handle an honest answer.
These videos are the reason there's so much hatred in the industry. Where's the source? where's the citation for these statements? All lies and rumours for content, nothing more.
Right!!
no except for starting three actors i think all are rumors since there is no source but the guy who explicitly hated a women celebs his articles were there still
Find their interviews baby
Even if they're green flags, know that it doesn't mean you could marry them😂.
Women have the right to choose their career over family, the same as men have the right to choose who they want for a wife. Why is that are problem? Park Seo Joon didn't force anyone to be a housewife. He is looking for a partner who will be a housewife. If his partner doesn't want to be a housewife he will go ahead with someone who wants to. Why is everyone taking what he said in a negative light?A man wanting a housewife is misogynistic but a woman choosing to a be a housewife to a person who wants a housewife is not? He has a right to his choices, the same as women have the right to theirs
dont justify conservative attitude and sexist attitude in name of choice - he is reinforcing the same tradtional roles for women which treated women as second class citizen or worse than humans ..if your choice is to be mysogynist then you better be recieve criticism for it ..after all criticisng inetllectually is also somebody's choice
@@victoryv116 It's only sexist when it's a man who wants a conservative wife, but not sexist when a woman wants to be a conservative wife?. So women who are traditional wives are second hand citizens according to what you're saying?.Just because someone wants a traditional wife doesn't make them sexist. And which part of his words devalued women or showed discrimination or dislike towards women ? 'Sexist' and 'misogyny' are just thrown around.
@@victoryv116 He wants a housewife... It's his preference..Period point blank... There is nothing sexist about that...
@@victoryv116 Well said.
@@victoryv116dont overglorify womens careers and jobs. Women feel harder to look after family and job thats a fact and many men are against on their women quitting their jobs and forcing them to do multi jobs along with housechores. You people just glorifying. Park is correct .hes called gentleman in my country india
Not wanting to get married is misogynistic?
question are you stupid? because seriously ARE YOU STUPID??
I'm an "old fashioned woman" but I believe men and women are equal
Should be a way to BLOCK garbage channels like this. So sick of your lies showing up in my YT feed.
Some comments from celebrities are ok... Bearable... But comments are too much... Atleast they should think twice before saying them... But they said with such confidence is what made me sad...
That what goes on in Korea that what men really fill
park seo is entitled to his belief you guys leave your actors alone they are good actors..
Seojun is right.nowdays where do we find husbands supporting their wife financially he said he is gentleman
@@deepthinker1710 Of course he is allowed to have a preference for his ideal relationship and there are surely plenty of women that would be happy to be housewives as long as their man can provide for them... that said what people were mostly mad at is the idea that "kids should be raised by their mother" and that they will "become problematic" otherwise, which is blatantly false. Korean women already face a lot of discrimination in their work life, and there is simply no oppurtunity for work life balance when having kids, even less so if your man is not sharing the responsibility for raising them.
@@ike7484 not all men thinks like him some men voluntarily wants to raise kids sit at home or do some small business. ,not all men are same some are like him some men love cooking cleaning house
@@deepthinker1710 When did I say all men think like him? I just tried to clarify why people find his ideas problematic.
And??? Good actors ≠ Good people. He is influential and needs to be mindful of the impact of his words
Everyone has there preferences, they just have to keep it private. You'de be surpirsed that even non celebrity people have high standards.
Korean society is like that but they show other things in kdramas. Is a a society very evolved technologically but not socially. Is like they are living on the 50s. And then european girls dreaming of marrying a korean man😂.
idiots lol
do you watch friends and think everyone in new York is white and live in million dollar lofts lol?
Park seo joon can take me.. that’s literally my dream, a stay at home mom.. I’d quit my job in an instant 😀
I notice this type of mindset in many male models. The actors listed in this video are mostly runaway models, right? I wonder why they think they can talk abt women publicly like that, and then said they were just joking.
wow! I don't have much idea about who these actors are or how famous they really are, but they seem to be pretty thick headed to make such absurd remarks on public platforms.
Except the last guy, The criticisms against that actor is purely based on one of his youtube subscriptions and a picture in which he is reading out of a script somebody is holding up. Those are some weak allegations.
OMG…people really have to watch what they say don’t they? Reason being there are people out there who wake up each day actively looking for something or someone to be offended at. Really think someone’s opinion shouldn’t jeopardise their career or livelihood.
Don’t ask their opinion then . Korean netizens are over the top they are never happy .
You'll probably only get offended if they said some Islamophobic things. 😅
@OblivionZXZ sadly your statement is so childish . There is no need to be rude or personal .I didn't say anything to you .
@@OblivionZXZcringe 😂😂
Of course you're an Islamist. Please stop, if you're a public figure you're gonna get criticized. 🙄🙄 Unbelieve how women support these wrong doings simply because their "beloved" actors are in the spotlight. Disgusting.
That’s absolutely Seo Joon’s right to want that kind of thing especially from someone he plans on spending the rest of his life with. If a woman hears that a man wants a loving wife and stay at home mom to raise the family that shouldn’t be some kind of controversial take, if you want to go be a girl boss and not have that kind of family life that’s your choice but don’t judge others for their choices.
It Isnt Want He Wants In A Partner Thats The Problem. It's The Other Statements Thats The Issue. Like Assuming That A Working Mom Cant Raise Kids Correctly.
In my country park seojun opinion is normal and he would be treated as most ideal men gentleman. Its not misogynistic completely also he said he takes care of wife eveb being unemployed. Which men does this today ! So j dont think hes misogynistic he is manly men
Wow wow truly shows how women don't support women! Truly sickening this is your Korean oppa huh? Disgusting of you defending his misogynistic statement . That's why I always say there will be no equality when women have this kind of sh*t mentality and they defend men on Disgusting things
The worst thing is, that the Korean/Asian culture itself creates bodyshaming beauty standards. It's not changing, everything they compliment each other for is loosing weight, getting something done on their body, making money and other things like that. As much as i love asian countries, especially Korea, most of them don't respect each other for being themselves the way they are. They prefer people to look unnatural perfect. Thats one of the dark sides. But on the other hand, we all have different pteferences but when someone is saying it out loud, it gets controversal. So, what is right or wrong is not that easy, i think growing up in this culture makes it hard to really be yourself 😢
0:51 its his preference who tf are they to decide it for him lol
True! like women would marry any man walking down the street or whoever proposed them😂😂
The fact that he brought up bullshit like how kids not raised by there moms might be delinquent that makes no sense. He’s obviously being picky and not having a preference
@@kpoptrashmultifandom5794 in most cases its true lol
Children brought up under the care of mom tend to be more civilised
Whatever be it its his choice yall ain't nothing lol
@@thatnerdyguy3620 Wheres the proof and why are u discrediting the dads that raise their kids? Whats the point of defending him hes not gonna marry you 😭
@@kpoptrashmultifandom5794 u can't act ignorant to prove ur point lol💀
Don't tell me a guy who grows without both parents eyesight on him will turn out to a good guy most of the times lol ...nd ofc both parents are required
There’s some translation errors and miscommunication. There’s nothing wrong with wanting a traditional household where the man is the breadwinner and the woman is a house maker and stay at home mom. Also Park Seojun didn’t say that only the wife should raise kids; it’s common for celebrities to have their kids raised by nannies and there’s nothing wrong with wanting his kids to be raised by their own mother, it’s also very beneficial for the infant and baby to spend as much time with their mother . and he didn’t say that ALL kids who grow up without a mother become problematic adults. He said it’s more beneficial for kids to be raised with a mom and that kids need their mom. And it is true that kids who don’t have a stable home life where they aren’t loved or taught how to be good people are more likely to make bad decisions and get in trouble.
There’s nothing wrong about what he said. He’s ideal type is from old school. I am sure there are a lot of old school types and I know I am one of them. It sounds like there’s no freedom of speech in Kdrama when it comes to actors and actresses.
I agree. Nothing wrong with a woman prioritizing raising children over a career.
It's Not His Preference For A Wife That Is The Issue. It The Statements Assuming That A Working Mother Cant Raise Kids. Plus Other Things He Said
@@sjohnso123 Bro exactly, wtf is this comment section? Why are people saying it's alright when we arent trashing him over his preference we're trashing him for his views lmfao.
@@sjohnso123 which is true, a working woman can never be a better mother than a SAH woman.
That's agreeable, but then he should be willing to stay home raising children if the wife wants to advance with her career. Isn't the argument that one side of the parents should stay with children to raise the children well? If he is willing to give up his career for children, then I'm all for it.
brooo literally all the actor i liked wtff
Park seo jun is not wrong.... If one is having a good way of making money so wife dont have to work... Its good that husband is working for his family and wife is taking care of the family... If both parents work then children are indeed spoiled coz no one's there there to correct their mistakes and taking care of them
For many women their career matters to them, if he wants his partner to be family oriented then he should get a girl who doesn't work why to ruin some woman's career? It's pathetic really.
But why it has to be women always ? Its good to have an idea about the upbringing of your children but prefixing specific gender roles for that , uhmm NO !
Not wanting to get married is not a problem at all. A lot of people don’t want to get married these days!!
They all aren't free ,sooo sad , for me freedom is the best !Being free to meet , kiss and love the one you chose !😊
psj really have attitude. sometimes he wont talk to his fans. his behavior towards park bo young. he is not gentleman. thats why lee min-ho still the king of kdrama. until now he is approachable and thankful to his fans.
3:12 I am a female and I absolutely agree with what was said by him. Sitting in a mini skirt with your legs spread.. C'mon. That is not body shaming, that is common sense.
Very true it's called public decency
That might not be right but at the same time, you can just look away. You can't expect people to behave how you want them
@@sayatdegefu6322 "You can't expect people to behave how you want them" That is the ENTIRE idea behind laws!!!!
We don't want to accidentally look at what inside
I feel very bad when fellow women themselves pull down other women
Shame on ya
Always blaming the girl
But being a girl and blaming another girl
Maybe don't ask the question if you don't want an honest answer just because you don't like the answer or maybe the celebs need to just decline to answer personal questions like what kind of woman they are attracted to etc it is their own business anyway surely
if he wants his childre raised by their mother, and if the wife is okay with it, what is the problem? even i myself wants to be a housewife. what is wrong being a housewife?
I want to be a housewife too but i also want a caring father for my children, who is also raising them, because kids need both of their parents.
@@yaneluizchelsea right 👍
Is not wrong but wife should not the only one raising kids. the husband should also raising kids so the kids doesn't have daddy issues ...
wth how are those redflag? :-o those are his preference...and how is it wrong if a woman chooses to be a housewife?
There's nothing wrong if a woman chooses to be a homemaker, although it's a risky plan, but at the end of the day, it's her call. But everything is wrong when a man wants their wives to be housewives, and it's not like he would choose a woman of similar mentality, but instead marry a woman he likes, and make them quit their career by blackmailing them.
Women have to stop shaming housewives and men who prefer them. Today being raised by your own mother is a privilege... coz it's hard to survive in one income household in today's economy.
My mom is a great mom also housewife and my dad was a great dad & doctor (RIP). I'm a career woman with kids ... life can get hectic sometimes juggling many hats.
You completely missed the point lmao all for that damn Park Seojoon
@@antitroll6146 just haters who cant handle the truth and always try to blame famous people for their lifes.
@@pruitv4 Yea you won’t get laid by your oppa no matter how many times you make excuses for him. You should be ashamed of yourself
@@pruitv4 What about you pestering everyone on the internet like a troll? Ain't got any better words to say? Maggots shouldn't be allowed to comment in the internet.
@@pruitv4 Stop accusing everyone of being haters. If someone criticizes something, it does not mean that he is a hater.
I think Park Seo Joon's type is me...I want to be a housewife and take care of the family🤭
People are products of their society and personal upbringing. They say what is ingrained in their psyche. If they have other societal cues to see women in a favorable light then they will change those opinions as they develop into adults. If that society is lacking those cues, well what you see is this type of behavior. It is not unique to Korea. It is worldwide misogyny and myopic views that they are expressing. Women are guilty of expressing hateful, body shaming comments also. Each one teach one.
Great comment 😊👏