There's an image i had seen where a woman tells God why have you kept me single for such a long time, then there was another image where in some other part of the world a man praying to God to please keep his future wife safe until he finds her at the right time❤ this really gave me peace, I pray that God will give you a man beyond your expectations, thanks for being so honest & sharing this story, God bless you sis!
This is such a beautiful imagine!! Thank you for sharing! All my single sisters, if you’re reading this I pray this comment will comfort you as much as it has me. The Lord has an incredible man of God set aside for us. And he’s absolutely worth waiting for!! 🥹🤍
Sis, the lukewarmness is real! One thing on my mind about this is Christians celebrating Halloween and the likes. Indeed when we know more we need to do more Ephesians 5:11 says, "Have nothing to do with the fruitless deeds of darkness, but rather expose them." Let’s hold onto the faith we profess. Pray for me as I continue to pray for you 🙏🏼
“But it’s nice to have an interaction-I haven’t spoken to a guy in a long time… la la la la la” - girlll thank you for saying that out loud, now I know I’m not alone! heavy on the la la I know I’m acting silly sometimes 🤦🏻♀️🤍 much love Deborah, may the Lord continue to use you to speak to His children and touch lives 💟
haha it do be like that sometimes sis!! But the Lord our God knows 🤭🙏🏽 He’s a good dad who knows how his daughters get sometimes haha. You’re not alone! Keep your eyes fixed on Jesus, we deserve the best of the best as daughters of the king. 👑
This is such a timely message! I just got home from an evening church service that ended with extended worship. I've been asking God to take away thoughts I have for a guy I met recently at a party (he has the same worldview as the guy Deborah messaged in this video). I asked for Him to remove lust and any desires that are not of Him. Tonight, He highlighted that those thoughts come because I was feeling lonely. It's not the case for everyone, but for me, I find that these temptations or "thoughts" may be a symptom of something else going on. For me, it was that I felt lonely. So as soon as I brought this up to the Lord, He reminds me of His presence; that He is Emmanuel. And since that moment, those thoughts went away.
Praise the Lord!! How beautiful is it that the Holy Spirit points out what the root is when we ask him to show us? Absolutely! It’s often a root of feeling alone or for me I know it can be my hormones. During specific days in my cycle I’m more vulnerable to these things and then I’m fine again 😂🙏🏽 The Lord knows it’s like that sometimes as a woman. Anyways, I pray the Lord will continue to remind you of who he is and what he has for you! You’re a daughter of the most high so you deserve the best of the best! If a man isn’t that, he just isn’t the one 🤭
@@deborahbx_ that is so beautifully said, and those vulnerable moments in our cycle is so real 😂thank you so much for the reply, encouragement, and prayer! I receive them and pray the same for you - He has the best of the BEST for us ♥
This was me recently. I was talking to a man who doesn't know God, and I found myself compromising a lot, but I finally came to my senses and let him go.
We deserve so much better as daughters of the most high! You deserve a man who will lead you in your relationship with Jesus. Who will pray with you, study the word with you. All of those incredible things! If a man isn’t doing that he’s not the one for us sis 🤍
Yeahh the conviction definitely hit hard with this one 😅…funny how we are all dealing with different things but have the same problem of trying to justify the things WE KNOW aren’t in our best interest.. What is great though is that we can always bring these problems to God, knowing that He is always willing to listen and help the children He loves!!❤️ Awesome vid as always, Debbs! 💕🙏
Amenn!! The Lord is such a good shepherd and dad 🥹🤍 He will never turn us away even with these temptations. Thank you Jesus for walking with us every step of the journey!!
Temptation is definitely real! And the devil knows what you like and what you use to like and he’ll send people in. It does get lonely because I experience this for some time being by myself the multiple breaks up healing from past things that has happened wanting to find my person my M. O. G. But one thing I know for sure God is an on time God I needed to shift my focus and my eyes on him instead of when am I gonna meet the person, get married I’m getting older and I’m alone. So glad and thankful for your honesty Fran!!❤
Amenn sis!! It’s definitely an up and down journey of getting in your feelings sometimes. But the Lord knows and he’s with us! He sees our desires and like you said: he’s an on time God 🥹🙏🏽 The man he has for you is going to be so amazing he will have been worth the wait! And same for me haha. Lord we trust youuu! Love you sis 🥰 xx
I am so proud of the way you came out of the situation.It can be so tempting especially at a young age to just go with the flow but if God has chosen us as HIS own, let’s do it differently than the rest of the world in the exact situation which you found yourself in.Praying for healing and peace this week for you 💕
Amen!!! That’s it, we’ve been called to be set apart. Moving as the world does won’t do anymore 🥹🙏🏽 Thank you for your prayers sis! I’m lifting you up before the Lord also. May our Heavenly Father bless and strengthen you this week. He’s already gone before 🤍
‘Our enemy knows what to whisper to us so we start to compromise’. The enemy has been doing this for ages and he knows what works, BUT God has already equipped us to overcome the lies of the enemy. It’s important to know the word of God as we navigate life on earth. Praise be to God. ❤
I need prayer family. My girlfriend is meeting my parents for the first time tomorrow. I pray that God’s will shall be done and it’s a step towards a fulfilling marriage centered around Christ in Jesus name.
That’s so exciting!! May the Lord bless your day tomorrow. He’s already gone ahead 😊 I pray for favor and joy in Jesus name! It’s such a blessing to hear how you’re both pursuing a relationship that is centered around Jesus. Continue to do that and you will surely be blessed 🙏🏽 Enjoy tomorrow!
Hi Deb! I’ve been watching your videos for over 2-3 months now, and your advice has really helped me strengthen my relationship with God. I can tell the Holy Spirit is speaking through you! ❤ In one of your recent videos, you mentioned you had some issues with your skin. I just wanted to let you know that we’re all praying for you (including myself) and we love you! As for me, I’ve been struggling with maladaptive daydreaming for a while now, and I’m going into therapy, but it would be amazing if you (or the community) could pray for me. Other than that, I just love how you use your platform to speak to other young Christians while still glorifying God. Thank you Deb!! ❤❤
"And whatever other rubbish" is SO REAL. And the back and forth with the Holy Spirit is also SO REAL. YOU ARE, ONCE AGAIN, SO REAL FOR THIS. Thank you for showing us the Christian "girlhood struggle" because the enemy is so crafty and so often isolates us in shame from these experiences. It's rough and tiring, but the Lord is faithful and in Him we put our hope. We can't afford to stumble when our faith not just saves us, but also encourages the body of Christ as a whole. Thank you for keeping the faith, staying strong, and being honest. We edify each other 💗.
God bless you Deborah! I was about to compromise on tithing which is something I always do because I was scared about the future. Just when I was thinking about it, your video popped up and said don’t compromise. And I knew it was God talking to me. I trust God and His ability to take care of me.
True, sin has its consequences and we don't belong to the world. I pray in momemts of temptations I remember it's not worth trading what God has given me, it's not worth trading my birth right for a bowl of beans
Hey sis, I am so happy you stood your ground, the devil is tricky and very cunning. Kudos to you❤!! You may have lost at Jenga but you won at not giving into temptation.
Ahhh I can say this was me with a friendship and a situationship this week 🫠 I had to block them immediately 😂, that's a road I don't wanna go down again but I did cry because I realized there were still things left untouched by God in that area of brokenness.
Praise the Lord sis for the work he’s doing in you!! It’s a good thing to grieve for the parts of us that still feel like they haven’t been fully sanctified. It shows your desire to be in alignment with what Jesus has for you! That’s the holy spirit’s work right there 🥹🤍 Lord help us honor you with our time and with the people we interact with. Take away our desire for anything that’s not from you. Help us to recognize when these situations present themselves so we can flee from them instantly! May you be our sole desire Lord Jesus. I pray this in your mighty and precious name Jesus, Amen 🙏🏽 You’re not alone sis!
He that findeth a wife findeth a good thing. That verse indicates the man is looking for his wife. He must be looking in order to find. We can pray according to this scripture Father God let my husband find me and let us both know it’s your Blessing your will your plan when it happens.
Holy Spirit, and Wunmi we see you ❤🫡😎!!! May inner strength of God be real within us, and our hearts anchored in the truth, Christ as our only passion, and pursuit.
Thank you so much Deborah! Your Faith Talks are so spot on! I was struggling with being with a guy because I was so drawn to him and just wanted to enjoy temporary pleasure with him and have fun. And I’m 62 years old! Yet God keeps giving me verses to bring me back. The one He showed me this morning is Galatians 5:13-17. Spot on! Don’t gratify the flesh desires. Then I came across your video and it added to what God was pointing me to. To come back to Him and live for Him. Blessings to you. Keep showing us what the Holy Spirit speaks to you to talk about. The Holy Spirit knows who needs to hear it. ❤
I have experienced that when God is about to do something awesome in your life and your Blessing is around the corner satan will come presenting a counterfeit to see if we will take the bait and fall for the fake. He want us to miss out on what God has for us. God’s Blessings always have Joy and Peace that comes with them.
Totally understand you feeling good about the guy's flrty attentions, praise the Lord your friend wasn't playing about setting you straight with that guy👏🏾👏🏾. She knew he would only bring you heartache and troubles. I have been tempted by the enemy so many times, but I am so grateful that God continues to protect me from his traps. Awesome word Deborah. Thank you so very much for sharing. Take care and God bless 🙏🏾🤗🧡🍂.
girl, what a timing. I myself went to a talk last weekend and afterwards my friend asked me if I wanted to join a guy's birthday (a well known guy in the industry + friends with an ex of mine LOL) I instantly heard these light whispers saying ''you're so boring lately, you’re missing out, all you do is work, study and spend time with God, Jesus also attended parties! Have some fun'' - Well, I'll spare the details but it was very uncomfortable and my friend who was supposed to drop me home got too hyped and wanted to go to ANOTHER party and I ended up alone taking the bus home calling my brother in christ and he was like ''You knew this...'' - The Devil is truly a liar.
Seeing all this comment that are like “oh this is so my situation right now”makes me go emotional. I’m so grateful that you decided to share this experience because I can also say that this is what I was going through the past few weeks. It’s reminded me of the verse “they have defeated him by the blood of the lamb and their testimony” our testimony is so important because sometimes we feel like we’re the only ones going through some challenges, but whenever one of us decide to speak, we all can realize that the devil comes to us with the same lies and strategies and it’s good to find someone that you can relate to❤
I you are in such a situation and feeling so remember it is written:
○ Job 31: 2-4 “ If I did, what reward would I receive from God above? What inheritance from the Almighty on high? 3 Is not ruin the reward for the wicked, and misfortune the reward for evildoers?4 Does he not see my ways and count my every step?
○ Job 31:-14 "14 what will I do when God confronts me? What will I answer when called to account ?"
○ Philippians 3:8-10 "What is more, I consider everything a loss because of the surpassing worth of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord, for whose sake I have lost all things. I consider them garbage, that I may gain Christ and be found in him, not having a righteousness of my own that comes from the law, but that which is through faith in Christ-the righteousness that comes from God on the basis of faith. I want to know Christ-yes, to know the power of his resurrection and participation in his sufferings, becoming like him in his death."
§ Genesis 39:9 "How then could I do such a wicked thing and sin against God?”" § John 14:15 "If you love me keep my commandments" § Galatians 5:16 " So I say, walk by the Spirit, and you will not gratify the desires of the flesh." Esther 4:16 "and if I perish, I perish."
You’re so on point referencing Maverick and the negative comments. I find that when people whether lukewarm Christians or just people in the world criticize your standards to stand up for righteousness and not compromise it’s bc they want to justify their own actions to do wrong and not feel convicted. God will always not stand in the way of our free will but as you said there are consequences and the price is too great for choosing the wrong path. The pleasure of sin is temporary but it has a heavy price tag. Thank you for today’s Faith Talk
Please pray for me. I have been asked to move out of my house by end month and I haven't found a new house yet. I am worried because of the housing crisis in ireland. Please pray for me.
I’m lifting you up in prayer sis! Dear Heavenly Father you see how your daughter Diana has to move out by the end of the month. The deadline is coming up which you are aware of. Will you give Diana peace in the midst of the chaos. Help her to fix her eyes on you Jesus! Help her to surrender and trust you in the midst of this. Will you come through supernaturally with an incredible house! Will you open up a space that will be perfect for her. Help her not to stress or freak out. Allow her to know that you’ve got this, and you WILL come through. Provide for her as only you can do as Jehovah Jireh 🤍 I pray all of this in Jesus mighty name, amen! Just open your Bible right now, start reading and praying. I know that feels weird when you have a place to look for, but I promise you that the Lord will make a way. He did it for me so he will absolutely do it for you also!! Matthew 6:33 🤍 I can’t wait to hear your testimony sis 🥰🏠
Your little storytime was so funny but a similar situation just happened to me. It feels fun to flirt but what's the outcome? Only to end up feeling unattracted to them because they don't love Jesus. Thank God for the Holy Spirit because our standards have changed for the best❤
Yesss this! We need a man of God sis! A man who loves Jesus more than he will ever love us. A man who can lead us! When the time is right the Lord will surely allow us to meet one 🥹🤍
This is was exactly what i needed to hear I'm praying for you thanks for sharing your message and thoughts with the holy spirit ❤ glory be to the most high !
Your video really spoke to me and I appreciate your honestly and transparency❤. I’ve been dating this guy for a bit and recently I started to take my walk serious with God. I told him this is something I need and trying to prioritize. He was like alright then. He’s a good guy (loyal, considerate, financially stable, etc.) so before & honestly I still get the thought even now😔 I thought that perhaps I could lead by example (praying & reading my Bible) and that could initiate him to now come to God. I told him I don’t wanna have sex anymore and his thing was we’ve been having sex all this time but okay. Now, I would sleep by him from time to time (I know setting myself right up) and long story short we still would have sex so he said you know maybe you shouldn’t stay cause he’s tempted right, okay. BUT now there was another time since not sleeping by him anymore and I made this my last time cause atp I felt like I was being disobedient to God and I also felt like he lowkey was trying to get me to have sex (he offered me something to drink) and so I just stopped talking to him. I remember telling him I’m not having sex until marriage and his response was I want you to be my wife and I only have eyes for you (Ik how it sounds but this man really “love” me) so he was trying to make it a point that we wouldn’t be fornicating cause he already knows that he wants me to be his wife he just doesn’t think I’m ready for marriage (we’ve been on and off but Thts another story). I got this revelation that a man goes to God for his wife (correct me if I’m wrong) and so the husband should know God and have a r/s with him, right. So I told myself if this is the husband God has for me I wouldn’t feel so confused and he would respect my decision to not fornicate and understand the seriousness of the walk that I’m on. I also got another revelation about being equally yoked but Thts another story. I guess my temptation comes from him being such a “good” man and me being able to depend and rely on him. I’m talking about my car was down and I needed transportation to work told him and that was no issue. Whatever issue especially anything financial I had he would resolve that quick. BUT NOW, with me prioritizing having an intimate r/s with God the enemy just been eating me up. So now my spiritual issues he doesn’t understand or can’t intercede so it’s like what am I really doing in this r/s just disobeying God and let’s not talk about the backslide that can cause because it has happened😔. I feel like I’ve been praying for confirmation on my decision to end things and God has been answered me I’m just not listening/obeying and I can’t afford to lose my r/s with God just cause this man could take care of me when he did not get those things on his own - everything we have comes from God.
Yessss Deb!! Been there and God will open doors in his perfect timing. Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing your walk with our father. You have been a great example and big sis I look up to. ❤ GOD bless you sis. ❤
Thank you for your vulnerability Deborah!! I relate girl! We are a chosen people, a royal priesthood, those belonging to Yahweh. Also praise God for Godly friends. Praying for more of them!
@Deborah I will pray for you, it is so hard when all you want is God but you just cant turn to him ...but I promise for anyone that struggles with turning to God instead of isolation..you will come out of that! I was in that cycle for 4 years and now everything I do....I come to God for every situation.
I’m very late lol like 9 hrs late but I’m here and you didn’t disappoint, I just want to let you know that I can relate to the situation with the guy. I’ve been single for a couple years now and I do get lonely but I always come back to your words of wisdom! I want marriage out of my courting I don’t want to just get into a relationship that will lead me to sin. But satan is a tricky man and he always uses our weaknesses. So thanks for this episode sis , Have a blessed week 🙏🏽❤️❤️
That’s it sis! As women we do have our vulnerable moments sometimes, but stay reminded of the truth. We’ve been set apart and called as daughters of the most high. If a man won’t guide us closer to Christ, he’s not worth our time. Better to be alone then to be with someone who leads us astray 🙏🏽 We’re in this together sis 🫂🤍 Love you!!
I think it’s admirable that you’re trying to find that counterpart, and it’s very okay to feel that way since we’re designed to be relational beings. I also want to thank you for being very courageous and brave in this situation and sharing it with us❤. Keep up the wonderful work, and may God continue to bless you. (Btw, can we do a prayer before and after getting into any faith talks or even vlogs? I think it’d be a wonderful addition to these sessions.)
I'm grateful that you shared your story. It shows that you are human. Alot of us look up to you and naturally on a platform like this, people are gonna treat you as "you're holier than thou" but with you being vulnerable with us, it shows that all of us need God to help and guide us along our faith journey. Thanks for sharing❤
Something similar Happened to me Went on a Date. He turned out to be an atheist if he isn’t a man of God I dont want it . We can’t afford to go back to what God delivered us from .
I loved this, so relatable and definitely blessed me. Not sure if you did a video on this, but what are your thoughts on outgrowing friends, specifically best friends who are lukewarm. I feel bad that I feel so disconnected from the friendship. & I struggle with not wanting her to think I’m better but I just feel out of touch in the friendship. My ears feel sensitive to cursing and certain conversations. I’m always hoping that the feelings would be mutual and we naturally go our separate ways but I think she finds value in the friendship, meanwhile I do not.
I needed this , thank you your whole situation sounds like mine and I needed this realization and encouragement ❤️🙏🏽 God is using in many ways , keep doing what your doing
Woo Jesus come on in here I also entertained a conversation with a dude I shouldn’t have so this was so helpful and encouraging def going to make different and better choices, stronger boundaries!
You’re not alone sis!! We’re just girls 😂 Definitely learning as we walk with things like this. Thank you Jesus for protecting us and changing our interests for the better!
Thank you for sharing this, Deb! I know the desire in us to at least try cuz it’s been so long hits hard sometimes. Been in the same journey. But the ‘ick factor’ if you may, that God builds in us is also so strong that you never want to venture into something that is not of God especially when it comes to men. God will make it happen at the right time. I am sure we won’t have to double think anything. It will be a joy ride!
Ty so much for sharing that story sister it really will bless many people watching. We do have to be so careful because it's so easy for any one of us to fall into something like that especially when we are lonely feel alone etc
That’s it! We all have our moments where the enemy will take advantage! In those moments it’s so important to be reminded of who we are in Christ. Daughters of the most highhh! So we can’t afford to engage with things like this anymore 😭🤍
thank you for everything you’ve done by the grace of God, deborah !! you have help me so many times with your video and i pray that God continue to guide your path and make you stronger and wiser. i love you so much sis 🥹God bless you 🤍 bisous from France 🫶🏾
This was so good, your story is something that I'm currently in just a little more complicated but I've been asking God what to do for some weeks now and I'm grateful that I finally watched this. I also appreciate your openness
We All understand Deborah ❤ I felt/feel alone,lonely and want companionship. While services were going on today I was so confused Deb/fam don't quite know where i belong😂😢😂 You're ON POINT AS ALWAYS ❤❤
Ohh you’re not alone my beautiful sis 🫂🤍 The Lord sees your heart and desire for a partner! He’s preparing an amazing Man of God for you!! Lord help us to trust you in the waiting. I pray that you’ll experience Jesus as your husband even more intensely in this season. He’s your portion 🥰 Love you Deb!!!
There's an image i had seen where a woman tells God why have you kept me single for such a long time, then there was another image where in some other part of the world a man praying to God to please keep his future wife safe until he finds her at the right time❤ this really gave me peace, I pray that God will give you a man beyond your expectations, thanks for being so honest & sharing this story, God bless you sis!
This is such a beautiful imagine!! Thank you for sharing! All my single sisters, if you’re reading this I pray this comment will comfort you as much as it has me. The Lord has an incredible man of God set aside for us. And he’s absolutely worth waiting for!! 🥹🤍
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Sis, the lukewarmness is real! One thing on my mind about this is Christians celebrating Halloween and the likes. Indeed when we know more we need to do more Ephesians 5:11 says, "Have nothing to do with the fruitless deeds of darkness, but rather expose them." Let’s hold onto the faith we profess. Pray for me as I continue to pray for you 🙏🏼
“But it’s nice to have an interaction-I haven’t spoken to a guy in a long time… la la la la la” - girlll thank you for saying that out loud, now I know I’m not alone! heavy on the la la I know I’m acting silly sometimes 🤦🏻♀️🤍 much love Deborah, may the Lord continue to use you to speak to His children and touch lives 💟
haha it do be like that sometimes sis!! But the Lord our God knows 🤭🙏🏽 He’s a good dad who knows how his daughters get sometimes haha. You’re not alone! Keep your eyes fixed on Jesus, we deserve the best of the best as daughters of the king. 👑
This is such a timely message! I just got home from an evening church service that ended with extended worship. I've been asking God to take away thoughts I have for a guy I met recently at a party (he has the same worldview as the guy Deborah messaged in this video). I asked for Him to remove lust and any desires that are not of Him. Tonight, He highlighted that those thoughts come because I was feeling lonely. It's not the case for everyone, but for me, I find that these temptations or "thoughts" may be a symptom of something else going on. For me, it was that I felt lonely. So as soon as I brought this up to the Lord, He reminds me of His presence; that He is Emmanuel. And since that moment, those thoughts went away.
Praise the Lord!! How beautiful is it that the Holy Spirit points out what the root is when we ask him to show us? Absolutely! It’s often a root of feeling alone or for me I know it can be my hormones. During specific days in my cycle I’m more vulnerable to these things and then I’m fine again 😂🙏🏽 The Lord knows it’s like that sometimes as a woman. Anyways, I pray the Lord will continue to remind you of who he is and what he has for you! You’re a daughter of the most high so you deserve the best of the best! If a man isn’t that, he just isn’t the one 🤭
@@deborahbx_ that is so beautifully said, and those vulnerable moments in our cycle is so real 😂thank you so much for the reply, encouragement, and prayer! I receive them and pray the same for you - He has the best of the BEST for us ♥
This was me recently. I was talking to a man who doesn't know God, and I found myself compromising a lot, but I finally came to my senses and let him go.
We deserve so much better as daughters of the most high! You deserve a man who will lead you in your relationship with Jesus. Who will pray with you, study the word with you. All of those incredible things! If a man isn’t doing that he’s not the one for us sis 🤍
@@deborahbx_ thank you so much for saying this.
6:40 don't be embarassed sis! Helped me so much that I am not alone, I was in a similar situation so thank you for your openess to share 💖❤️🙏
Absolutely not alone sis!! 🤭🤍
@@deborahbx_ love the transparency sis!!
Yeahh the conviction definitely hit hard with this one 😅…funny how we are all dealing with different things but have the same problem of trying to justify the things WE KNOW aren’t in our best interest..
What is great though is that we can always bring these problems to God, knowing that He is always willing to listen and help the children He loves!!❤️
Awesome vid as always, Debbs! 💕🙏
Amenn!! The Lord is such a good shepherd and dad 🥹🤍 He will never turn us away even with these temptations. Thank you Jesus for walking with us every step of the journey!!
That’s a great friend! She is on point.
She truly is!!
The importance of having Christian friends.❤
I love this
Temptation is definitely real! And the devil knows what you like and what you use to like and he’ll send people in. It does get lonely because I experience this for some time being by myself the multiple breaks up healing from past things that has happened wanting to find my person my M. O. G. But one thing I know for sure God is an on time God I needed to shift my focus and my eyes on him instead of when am I gonna meet the person, get married I’m getting older and I’m alone. So glad and thankful for your honesty Fran!!❤
Amenn sis!! It’s definitely an up and down journey of getting in your feelings sometimes. But the Lord knows and he’s with us! He sees our desires and like you said: he’s an on time God 🥹🙏🏽 The man he has for you is going to be so amazing he will have been worth the wait! And same for me haha. Lord we trust youuu!
Love you sis 🥰 xx
This has happened to me more times than none lol but this is such a good reminder to know to never compromise for anybody.
That’s it sis, we’re learning as we go along 🤭🤍
I needed this video cause boy im going though it!.
I am so proud of the way you came out of the situation.It can be so tempting especially at a young age to just go with the flow but if God has chosen us as HIS own, let’s do it differently than the rest of the world in the exact situation which you found yourself in.Praying for healing and peace this week for you 💕
Amen!!! That’s it, we’ve been called to be set apart. Moving as the world does won’t do anymore 🥹🙏🏽 Thank you for your prayers sis! I’m lifting you up before the Lord also. May our Heavenly Father bless and strengthen you this week. He’s already gone before 🤍
‘Our enemy knows what to whisper to us so we start to compromise’. The enemy has been doing this for ages and he knows what works, BUT God has already equipped us to overcome the lies of the enemy. It’s important to know the word of God as we navigate life on earth. Praise be to God. ❤
I need prayer family. My girlfriend is meeting my parents for the first time tomorrow. I pray that God’s will shall be done and it’s a step towards a fulfilling marriage centered around Christ in Jesus name.
That’s so exciting!! May the Lord bless your day tomorrow. He’s already gone ahead 😊 I pray for favor and joy in Jesus name! It’s such a blessing to hear how you’re both pursuing a relationship that is centered around Jesus. Continue to do that and you will surely be blessed 🙏🏽 Enjoy tomorrow!
I can’t overemphasize how timely this is😔
I literally CANNOT! I had the EXACT same situation happen with a guy last year; and on top of that I just finished reading Isaiah 59 yesterday!
Look at God!! 😭🤍 we’re truly in this together hahah
Hi Deb! I’ve been watching your videos for over 2-3 months now, and your advice has really helped me strengthen my relationship with God. I can tell the Holy Spirit is speaking through you! ❤ In one of your recent videos, you mentioned you had some issues with your skin. I just wanted to let you know that we’re all praying for you (including myself) and we love you! As for me, I’ve been struggling with maladaptive daydreaming for a while now, and I’m going into therapy, but it would be amazing if you (or the community) could pray for me. Other than that, I just love how you use your platform to speak to other young Christians while still glorifying God. Thank you Deb!! ❤❤
I will pray for you sis! May your healing be your testimony of His glory 🤍
thank you for your vulnerability, Deborah. God bless you!
"And whatever other rubbish" is SO REAL. And the back and forth with the Holy Spirit is also SO REAL. YOU ARE, ONCE AGAIN, SO REAL FOR THIS. Thank you for showing us the Christian "girlhood struggle" because the enemy is so crafty and so often isolates us in shame from these experiences. It's rough and tiring, but the Lord is faithful and in Him we put our hope. We can't afford to stumble when our faith not just saves us, but also encourages the body of Christ as a whole. Thank you for keeping the faith, staying strong, and being honest. We edify each other 💗.
God bless you Deborah! I was about to compromise on tithing which is something I always do because I was scared about the future. Just when I was thinking about it, your video popped up and said don’t compromise. And I knew it was God talking to me. I trust God and His ability to take care of me.
Michelle, what a blessing!!! I’m so proud of you that you decided to make the right decision and your continuance to trust God!!!🙌🏽🙏🏽
I think the hardest part is when the spaces you find yourself don’t have the same mindset. But it’s important to remain firm and Trust in God
Wow this is a right on time message! Thank you for this❤❤
Hope you’re doing well sis!! 🫂🤍 Sending much love and hugs!
I Love the fact that this is like have a Older sister in faith that you can talk about God and life 🫂❤️
True, sin has its consequences and we don't belong to the world. I pray in momemts of temptations I remember it's not worth trading what God has given me, it's not worth trading my birth right for a bowl of beans
Hey sis, I am so happy you stood your ground, the devil is tricky and very cunning. Kudos to you❤!! You may have lost at Jenga but you won at not giving into temptation.
Haha amen to that!! 🥹🤍🙏🏽
Ahhh I can say this was me with a friendship and a situationship this week 🫠 I had to block them immediately 😂, that's a road I don't wanna go down again but I did cry because I realized there were still things left untouched by God in that area of brokenness.
Praise the Lord sis for the work he’s doing in you!! It’s a good thing to grieve for the parts of us that still feel like they haven’t been fully sanctified. It shows your desire to be in alignment with what Jesus has for you! That’s the holy spirit’s work right there 🥹🤍
Lord help us honor you with our time and with the people we interact with. Take away our desire for anything that’s not from you. Help us to recognize when these situations present themselves so we can flee from them instantly! May you be our sole desire Lord Jesus. I pray this in your mighty and precious name Jesus, Amen 🙏🏽
You’re not alone sis!
@@deborahbx_Thank you so much for that prayer ❤The grief is so reallll but it's worth it in the long run. I hope you have a wonderful week ahead 💕
He that findeth a wife findeth a good thing. That verse indicates the man is looking for his wife. He must be looking in order to find. We can pray according to this scripture Father God let my husband find me and let us both know it’s your Blessing your will your plan when it happens.
Always the perfect timing! Thank you Sis!
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Holy Spirit, and Wunmi we see you ❤🫡😎!!! May inner strength of God be real within us, and our hearts anchored in the truth, Christ as our only passion, and pursuit.
Amen!!!
We love you Deborah! Thank you for sharing your experience - we appreciate you!
Don’t worry Deborah, God will bring you the right guy at the right time 😊 who is just right for you ❤
Amen to that 😊🤍 in God’s perfect timing!
Yes count the cost 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
We are called to be set apart!
Thanks so much for the word you spoke in this video!
Thank you so much Deborah! Your Faith Talks are so spot on! I was struggling with being with a guy because I was so drawn to him and just wanted to enjoy temporary pleasure with him and have fun. And I’m 62 years old! Yet God keeps giving me verses to bring me back. The one He showed me this morning is Galatians 5:13-17. Spot on! Don’t gratify the flesh desires. Then I came across your video and it added to what God was pointing me to. To come back to Him and live for Him. Blessings to you. Keep showing us what the Holy Spirit speaks to you to talk about. The Holy Spirit knows who needs to hear it. ❤
Again, the right message at the right time. Thank you!
I have experienced that when God is about to do something awesome in your life and your Blessing is around the corner satan will come presenting a counterfeit to see if we will take the bait and fall for the fake. He want us to miss out on what God has for us. God’s Blessings always have Joy and Peace that comes with them.
That’s so true!!
The Lord always speaks to me through your videos. Thank you for being obedient 🤍
Ouuuuuu girl 😭😭why do I relate so much to the scenario you explained , literally felt like you are speaking to me ❤️🔥🤌🏽
😂🤍 we’re truly in this together. It gives comfort to know that haha. We deserve the best of the best as daughters of the king sis!!
Thank you D❤
Thank God❤
I want to watch it now😊
💕A timely reminder to keep our mind on the things of God.
Totally understand you feeling good about the guy's flrty attentions, praise the Lord your friend wasn't playing about setting you straight with that guy👏🏾👏🏾. She knew he would only bring you heartache and troubles.
I have been tempted by the enemy so many times, but I am so grateful that God continues to protect me from his traps.
Awesome word Deborah. Thank you so very much for sharing. Take care and God bless 🙏🏾🤗🧡🍂.
Amennn!! Our heavenly dad is protecting us as his precious daughters. He’s like a hedge of protection around us! Psalm 125:2 🥹🤍
girl, what a timing. I myself went to a talk last weekend and afterwards my friend asked me if I wanted to join a guy's birthday (a well known guy in the industry + friends with an ex of mine LOL) I instantly heard these light whispers saying ''you're so boring lately, you’re missing out, all you do is work, study and spend time with God, Jesus also attended parties! Have some fun'' - Well, I'll spare the details but it was very uncomfortable and my friend who was supposed to drop me home got too hyped and wanted to go to ANOTHER party and I ended up alone taking the bus home calling my brother in christ and he was like ''You knew this...'' - The Devil is truly a liar.
Seeing all this comment that are like “oh this is so my situation right now”makes me go emotional. I’m so grateful that you decided to share this experience because I can also say that this is what I was going through the past few weeks. It’s reminded me of the verse “they have defeated him by the blood of the lamb and their testimony” our testimony is so important because sometimes we feel like we’re the only ones going through some challenges, but whenever one of us decide to speak, we all can realize that the devil comes to us with the same lies and strategies and it’s good to find someone that you can relate to❤
I you are in such a situation and feeling so remember it is written:
○ Job 31: 2-4 “ If I did, what reward would I receive from God above? What inheritance from the Almighty on high? 3 Is not ruin the reward for the wicked, and misfortune the reward for evildoers?4 Does he not see my ways and count my every step?
○ Job 31:-14 "14 what will I do when God confronts me? What will I answer when called to account ?"
○ Philippians 3:8-10 "What is more, I consider everything a loss because of the surpassing worth of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord, for whose sake I have lost all things. I consider them garbage, that I may gain Christ and be found in him, not having a righteousness of my own that comes from the law, but that which is through faith in Christ-the righteousness that comes from God on the basis of faith. I want to know Christ-yes, to know the power of his resurrection and participation in his sufferings, becoming like him in his death."
§ Genesis 39:9 "How then could I do such a wicked thing and sin against God?”"
§ John 14:15 "If you love me keep my commandments"
§ Galatians 5:16 " So I say, walk by the Spirit, and you will not gratify the desires of the flesh."
Esther 4:16 "and if I perish, I perish."
You’re so on point referencing Maverick and the negative comments. I find that when people whether lukewarm Christians or just people in the world criticize your standards to stand up for righteousness and not compromise it’s bc they want to justify their own actions to do wrong and not feel convicted. God will always not stand in the way of our free will but as you said there are consequences and the price is too great for choosing the wrong path. The pleasure of sin is temporary but it has a heavy price tag. Thank you for today’s Faith Talk
Please pray for me. I have been asked to move out of my house by end month and I haven't found a new house yet. I am worried because of the housing crisis in ireland. Please pray for me.
Praying 🙏🏽
I’m lifting you up in prayer sis!
Dear Heavenly Father you see how your daughter Diana has to move out by the end of the month. The deadline is coming up which you are aware of. Will you give Diana peace in the midst of the chaos. Help her to fix her eyes on you Jesus! Help her to surrender and trust you in the midst of this. Will you come through supernaturally with an incredible house! Will you open up a space that will be perfect for her. Help her not to stress or freak out. Allow her to know that you’ve got this, and you WILL come through. Provide for her as only you can do as Jehovah Jireh 🤍 I pray all of this in Jesus mighty name, amen!
Just open your Bible right now, start reading and praying. I know that feels weird when you have a place to look for, but I promise you that the Lord will make a way. He did it for me so he will absolutely do it for you also!! Matthew 6:33 🤍
I can’t wait to hear your testimony sis 🥰🏠
Same 😢
@deborahbx_ Thank you soo much sis. Indeed I believe and trust God for He knows everything. Thank you sis. I will surely testify.
@kanieben1040 it is well sis. GOD Knows our anxiety and He conforts us and gives us peace even as we wait for Him to provide.
I woke up this morning talking with God about keeping me focused and what more can I do. And not wanting to be a procrastinator or too comfortable
Your little storytime was so funny but a similar situation just happened to me. It feels fun to flirt but what's the outcome? Only to end up feeling unattracted to them because they don't love Jesus. Thank God for the Holy Spirit because our standards have changed for the best❤
Yesss this! We need a man of God sis! A man who loves Jesus more than he will ever love us. A man who can lead us! When the time is right the Lord will surely allow us to meet one 🥹🤍
I’ve never related to someone so much when it comes to all the denial and playing myself when I know better lol .. I had a good laugh
This is was exactly what i needed to hear I'm praying for you thanks for sharing your message and thoughts with the holy spirit ❤ glory be to the most high !
This is literally my situation now, wow God really is really speaking to me. Thank you for this video and your transparency Deborah!! ❤️🙏🏿
You’re not alone sis!! 🤍🫂
I do relate to what you are saying I do feel like this message was meant for me .
right on time! 😭🙌🏽 youtube is obviously listening to my prayers. 😹
Your video really spoke to me and I appreciate your honestly and transparency❤. I’ve been dating this guy for a bit and recently I started to take my walk serious with God. I told him this is something I need and trying to prioritize. He was like alright then. He’s a good guy (loyal, considerate, financially stable, etc.) so before & honestly I still get the thought even now😔 I thought that perhaps I could lead by example (praying & reading my Bible) and that could initiate him to now come to God. I told him I don’t wanna have sex anymore and his thing was we’ve been having sex all this time but okay. Now, I would sleep by him from time to time (I know setting myself right up) and long story short we still would have sex so he said you know maybe you shouldn’t stay cause he’s tempted right, okay. BUT now there was another time since not sleeping by him anymore and I made this my last time cause atp I felt like I was being disobedient to God and I also felt like he lowkey was trying to get me to have sex (he offered me something to drink) and so I just stopped talking to him. I remember telling him I’m not having sex until marriage and his response was I want you to be my wife and I only have eyes for you (Ik how it sounds but this man really “love” me) so he was trying to make it a point that we wouldn’t be fornicating cause he already knows that he wants me to be his wife he just doesn’t think I’m ready for marriage (we’ve been on and off but Thts another story). I got this revelation that a man goes to God for his wife (correct me if I’m wrong) and so the husband should know God and have a r/s with him, right. So I told myself if this is the husband God has for me I wouldn’t feel so
confused and he would respect my decision to not fornicate and understand the seriousness of the walk that I’m on. I also got another revelation about being equally yoked but Thts another story. I guess my temptation comes from him being such a “good” man and me being able to depend and rely on him. I’m talking about my car was down and I needed transportation to work told him and that was no issue. Whatever issue especially anything financial I had he would resolve that quick. BUT NOW, with me prioritizing having an intimate r/s with God the enemy just been eating me up. So now my spiritual issues he doesn’t understand or can’t intercede so it’s like what am I really doing in this r/s just disobeying God and let’s not talk about the backslide that can cause because it has happened😔. I feel like I’ve been praying for confirmation on my decision to end things and God has been answered me I’m just not listening/obeying and I can’t afford to lose my r/s with God just cause this man could take care of me when he did not get those things on his own - everything we have comes from God.
Yessss Deb!! Been there and God will open doors in his perfect timing. Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing your walk with our father. You have been a great example and big sis I look up to. ❤ GOD bless you sis. ❤
Amen 🥹🤍 God’s timing is always perfect. The Lord knows our desires so we can trust him fully! It’s such a blessing to have you here sis 🥰
Thank you for your vulnerability Deborah!! I relate girl! We are a chosen people, a royal priesthood, those belonging to Yahweh. Also praise God for Godly friends. Praying for more of them!
Amennn!!!
Th God who sees, see you and bless you. You encourage your audiences with everyday life experience in the faith walk journey.
All glory goes to Jesus!! May he continue to encourage us as his sons and daughtersss 🥹🤍👑
@Deborah I will pray for you, it is so hard when all you want is God but you just cant turn to him ...but I promise for anyone that struggles with turning to God instead of isolation..you will come out of that! I was in that cycle for 4 years and now everything I do....I come to God for every situation.
Thank you for this Deborah❤ always so profound and timely😢
This message resonates so much I had to comment.
Praise the Lord for that 🥹🤍 You’re not alone sis! We’re in this together!
Not me rolling my eyes at don’t do it because I know better lol
🤭 we’re all walking through it sis!! May the Lord strengthen you!
I’m very late lol like 9 hrs late but I’m here and you didn’t disappoint, I just want to let you know that I can relate to the situation with the guy. I’ve been single for a couple years now and I do get lonely but I always come back to your words of wisdom! I want marriage out of my courting I don’t want to just get into a relationship that will lead me to sin. But satan is a tricky man and he always uses our weaknesses. So thanks for this episode sis , Have a blessed week 🙏🏽❤️❤️
That’s it sis! As women we do have our vulnerable moments sometimes, but stay reminded of the truth. We’ve been set apart and called as daughters of the most high. If a man won’t guide us closer to Christ, he’s not worth our time. Better to be alone then to be with someone who leads us astray 🙏🏽 We’re in this together sis 🫂🤍 Love you!!
@@deborahbx_ love you too
I think it’s admirable that you’re trying to find that counterpart, and it’s very okay to feel that way since we’re designed to be relational beings. I also want to thank you for being very courageous and brave in this situation and sharing it with us❤. Keep up the wonderful work, and may God continue to bless you. (Btw, can we do a prayer before and after getting into any faith talks or even vlogs? I think it’d be a wonderful addition to these sessions.)
I'm grateful that you shared your story. It shows that you are human. Alot of us look up to you and naturally on a platform like this, people are gonna treat you as "you're holier than thou" but with you being vulnerable with us, it shows that all of us need God to help and guide us along our faith journey. Thanks for sharing❤
Something similar Happened to me Went on a Date. He turned out to be an atheist if he isn’t a man of God I dont want it . We can’t afford to go back to what God delivered us from .
Amen!
Yes 👏🏾
I loved this, so relatable and definitely blessed me. Not sure if you did a video on this, but what are your thoughts on outgrowing friends, specifically best friends who are lukewarm. I feel bad that I feel so disconnected from the friendship. & I struggle with not wanting her to think I’m better but I just feel out of touch in the friendship. My ears feel sensitive to cursing and certain conversations. I’m always hoping that the feelings would be mutual and we naturally go our separate ways but I think she finds value in the friendship, meanwhile I do not.
We must live a life worthy of our calling ❤
I needed this , thank you your whole situation sounds like mine and I needed this realization and encouragement ❤️🙏🏽 God is using in many ways , keep doing what your doing
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Woo Jesus come on in here I also entertained a conversation with a dude I shouldn’t have so this was so helpful and encouraging def going to make different and better choices, stronger boundaries!
You’re not alone sis!! We’re just girls 😂 Definitely learning as we walk with things like this. Thank you Jesus for protecting us and changing our interests for the better!
I was just struggling about this yesterday and then this popped up! Wow God is so good 😩💕🙏🏽
2 minutes in and I know the Lord is speaking to me! Thank you for being a vessel for the Lord Deborah ❤.
Praise the Lord!! May our Heavenly Father bless you sis 🤍 You’re not alone on this walk
Thank you for sharing this, Deb! I know the desire in us to at least try cuz it’s been so long hits hard sometimes. Been in the same journey. But the ‘ick factor’ if you may, that God builds in us is also so strong that you never want to venture into something that is not of God especially when it comes to men. God will make it happen at the right time. I am sure we won’t have to double think anything. It will be a joy ride!
Ty so much for sharing that story sister it really will bless many people watching. We do have to be so careful because it's so easy for any one of us to fall into something like that especially when we are lonely feel alone etc
That’s it! We all have our moments where the enemy will take advantage! In those moments it’s so important to be reminded of who we are in Christ. Daughters of the most highhh! So we can’t afford to engage with things like this anymore 😭🤍
This was so good 🩷
Perfect timing - its true - never the same after we 'hear' - not easy
thank you for everything you’ve done by the grace of God, deborah !! you have help me so many times with your video and i pray that God continue to guide your path and make you stronger and wiser. i love you so much sis 🥹God bless you 🤍 bisous from France 🫶🏾
Proud of you Deborah!!!!
This is so needed 👏🏾. Everything you said resonates with me. Thank God & thank you for sharing God’s word with us 😊❤️.
Thank you so much for this video!!! Thank you God 🙏🏼 God bless you 💗
Love you sis! 🫂🤍
This was so good, your story is something that I'm currently in just a little more complicated but I've been asking God what to do for some weeks now and I'm grateful that I finally watched this. I also appreciate your openness
This is TOO TIMELY 😅😅😅😂❤
We All understand Deborah ❤
I felt/feel alone,lonely and want companionship.
While services were going on today I was so confused Deb/fam don't quite know where i belong😂😢😂
You're ON POINT AS ALWAYS ❤❤
Ohh you’re not alone my beautiful sis 🫂🤍 The Lord sees your heart and desire for a partner! He’s preparing an amazing Man of God for you!! Lord help us to trust you in the waiting. I pray that you’ll experience Jesus as your husband even more intensely in this season. He’s your portion 🥰 Love you Deb!!!
@@deborahbx_ love you tooo girl. You and the family make my day. Good night
Thank for sharing Deborah very encouraging ❤❤😊
This was needed! Thank you!❤
Great message !!
Thank you for this ❤️
Such an awesome discussion Deborah, God bless you sis!
wow what a world … i needed this for real❤️!
We want to reap the fruits of a full life with Jesus but in order to do that we also have to walk with him fully ❤️🔥
Amen.
your channel is so blessed! What a great moment that i found you. i'm from brazil and youtube recommend me your channel!
Thank you for reminding me about the true price of sin, God bless you 🙏🏾❤️
thank you so much for telling your story🤍🤍
Thus was a true blessing for me. Thank you Deborah
Praise the Lord 🥹🙏🏽 May the Lord our God continue to bless you abundantly!
Do you know what it feels like when God is working for you, the only way He can do this is for both to have faith in eachother in love. 1 Cor. 13
I just want to say thank you Lord! 💕
not Deborah giving us the tea🤭
glad you stood on business even though it wasn’t initially
Love you sis ❤😊
Love you too Laura 🥰🫂🤍
Thank you for sharing
Thank for this Deborah❤️
Ooohhh girl! Right on time message!!❤