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КОМЕНТАРІ • 181

  • @Neha_Swami.
    @Neha_Swami. 4 дні тому +25

    There's an image i had seen where a woman tells God why have you kept me single for such a long time, then there was another image where in some other part of the world a man praying to God to please keep his future wife safe until he finds her at the right time❤ this really gave me peace, I pray that God will give you a man beyond your expectations, thanks for being so honest & sharing this story, God bless you sis!

    • @deborahbx_
      @deborahbx_  4 дні тому +6

      This is such a beautiful imagine!! Thank you for sharing! All my single sisters, if you’re reading this I pray this comment will comfort you as much as it has me. The Lord has an incredible man of God set aside for us. And he’s absolutely worth waiting for!! 🥹🤍

  • @gracep1370
    @gracep1370 4 дні тому +12

    This is such a timely message! I just got home from an evening church service that ended with extended worship. I've been asking God to take away thoughts I have for a guy I met recently at a party (he has the same worldview as the guy Deborah messaged in this video). I asked for Him to remove lust and any desires that are not of Him. Tonight, He highlighted that those thoughts come because I was feeling lonely. It's not the case for everyone, but for me, I find that these temptations or "thoughts" may be a symptom of something else going on. For me, it was that I felt lonely. So as soon as I brought this up to the Lord, He reminds me of His presence; that He is Emmanuel. And since that moment, those thoughts went away.

    • @deborahbx_
      @deborahbx_  3 дні тому +2

      Praise the Lord!! How beautiful is it that the Holy Spirit points out what the root is when we ask him to show us? Absolutely! It’s often a root of feeling alone or for me I know it can be my hormones. During specific days in my cycle I’m more vulnerable to these things and then I’m fine again 😂🙏🏽 The Lord knows it’s like that sometimes as a woman. Anyways, I pray the Lord will continue to remind you of who he is and what he has for you! You’re a daughter of the most high so you deserve the best of the best! If a man isn’t that, he just isn’t the one 🤭

    • @gracep1370
      @gracep1370 3 дні тому

      @@deborahbx_ that is so beautifully said, and those vulnerable moments in our cycle is so real 😂thank you so much for the reply, encouragement, and prayer! I receive them and pray the same for you - He has the best of the BEST for us ♥

  • @LainaSi
    @LainaSi 4 дні тому +7

    The importance of having Christian friends.❤
    I love this

  • @Ariia206
    @Ariia206 4 дні тому +12

    6:40 don't be embarassed sis! Helped me so much that I am not alone, I was in a similar situation so thank you for your openess to share 💖❤️🙏

    • @deborahbx_
      @deborahbx_  4 дні тому +5

      Absolutely not alone sis!! 🤭🤍

    • @kndy6146
      @kndy6146 4 дні тому +1

      @@deborahbx_ love the transparency sis!!

  • @margomargo3178
    @margomargo3178 4 дні тому +9

    Yeahh the conviction definitely hit hard with this one 😅…funny how we are all dealing with different things but have the same problem of trying to justify the things WE KNOW aren’t in our best interest..
    What is great though is that we can always bring these problems to God, knowing that He is always willing to listen and help the children He loves!!❤️
    Awesome vid as always, Debbs! 💕🙏

    • @deborahbx_
      @deborahbx_  3 дні тому +1

      Amenn!! The Lord is such a good shepherd and dad 🥹🤍 He will never turn us away even with these temptations. Thank you Jesus for walking with us every step of the journey!!

  • @gloria770
    @gloria770 4 дні тому +8

    This was me recently. I was talking to a man who doesn't know God, and I found myself compromising a lot, but I finally came to my senses and let him go.

    • @deborahbx_
      @deborahbx_  3 дні тому +4

      We deserve so much better as daughters of the most high! You deserve a man who will lead you in your relationship with Jesus. Who will pray with you, study the word with you. All of those incredible things! If a man isn’t doing that he’s not the one for us sis 🤍

    • @gloria770
      @gloria770 3 дні тому

      @@deborahbx_ thank you so much for saying this.

  • @LifebyJazzieey
    @LifebyJazzieey 4 дні тому +6

    This has happened to me more times than none lol but this is such a good reminder to know to never compromise for anybody.

    • @deborahbx_
      @deborahbx_  3 дні тому +1

      That’s it sis, we’re learning as we go along 🤭🤍

  • @jesusfollower0717
    @jesusfollower0717 4 дні тому +18

    I need prayer family. My girlfriend is meeting my parents for the first time tomorrow. I pray that God’s will shall be done and it’s a step towards a fulfilling marriage centered around Christ in Jesus name.

    • @deborahbx_
      @deborahbx_  4 дні тому +3

      That’s so exciting!! May the Lord bless your day tomorrow. He’s already gone ahead 😊 I pray for favor and joy in Jesus name! It’s such a blessing to hear how you’re both pursuing a relationship that is centered around Jesus. Continue to do that and you will surely be blessed 🙏🏽 Enjoy tomorrow!

  • @BlueJean-00
    @BlueJean-00 3 дні тому +6

    “But it’s nice to have an interaction-I haven’t spoken to a guy in a long time… la la la la la” - girlll thank you for saying that out loud, now I know I’m not alone! heavy on the la la I know I’m acting silly sometimes 🤦🏻‍♀️🤍 much love Deborah, may the Lord continue to use you to speak to His children and touch lives 💟

    • @deborahbx_
      @deborahbx_  2 дні тому +2

      haha it do be like that sometimes sis!! But the Lord our God knows 🤭🙏🏽 He’s a good dad who knows how his daughters get sometimes haha. You’re not alone! Keep your eyes fixed on Jesus, we deserve the best of the best as daughters of the king. 👑

  • @suesan_k
    @suesan_k 2 дні тому +4

    I can’t overemphasize how timely this is😔

  • @ananyalikhi3258
    @ananyalikhi3258 4 дні тому +7

    I am so proud of the way you came out of the situation.It can be so tempting especially at a young age to just go with the flow but if God has chosen us as HIS own, let’s do it differently than the rest of the world in the exact situation which you found yourself in.Praying for healing and peace this week for you 💕

    • @deborahbx_
      @deborahbx_  4 дні тому

      Amen!!! That’s it, we’ve been called to be set apart. Moving as the world does won’t do anymore 🥹🙏🏽 Thank you for your prayers sis! I’m lifting you up before the Lord also. May our Heavenly Father bless and strengthen you this week. He’s already gone before 🤍

  • @tsakanimathye3376
    @tsakanimathye3376 4 дні тому +5

    ‘Our enemy knows what to whisper to us so we start to compromise’. The enemy has been doing this for ages and he knows what works, BUT God has already equipped us to overcome the lies of the enemy. It’s important to know the word of God as we navigate life on earth. Praise be to God. ❤

  • @ThePrayerAdvocate
    @ThePrayerAdvocate 3 дні тому +7

    That’s a great friend! She is on point.

  • @LayaaaLorre
    @LayaaaLorre 4 дні тому +9

    Temptation is definitely real! And the devil knows what you like and what you use to like and he’ll send people in. It does get lonely because I experience this for some time being by myself the multiple breaks up healing from past things that has happened wanting to find my person my M. O. G. But one thing I know for sure God is an on time God I needed to shift my focus and my eyes on him instead of when am I gonna meet the person, get married I’m getting older and I’m alone. So glad and thankful for your honesty Fran!!❤

    • @deborahbx_
      @deborahbx_  4 дні тому +1

      Amenn sis!! It’s definitely an up and down journey of getting in your feelings sometimes. But the Lord knows and he’s with us! He sees our desires and like you said: he’s an on time God 🥹🙏🏽 The man he has for you is going to be so amazing he will have been worth the wait! And same for me haha. Lord we trust youuu!
      Love you sis 🥰 xx

  • @mich1120
    @mich1120 3 дні тому +4

    "And whatever other rubbish" is SO REAL. And the back and forth with the Holy Spirit is also SO REAL. YOU ARE, ONCE AGAIN, SO REAL FOR THIS. Thank you for showing us the Christian "girlhood struggle" because the enemy is so crafty and so often isolates us in shame from these experiences. It's rough and tiring, but the Lord is faithful and in Him we put our hope. We can't afford to stumble when our faith not just saves us, but also encourages the body of Christ as a whole. Thank you for keeping the faith, staying strong, and being honest. We edify each other 💗.

  • @amosngalimani1974
    @amosngalimani1974 4 дні тому +7

    Holy Spirit, and Wunmi we see you ❤🫡😎!!! May inner strength of God be real within us, and our hearts anchored in the truth, Christ as our only passion, and pursuit.

  • @dianaflora6156
    @dianaflora6156 4 дні тому +20

    Please pray for me. I have been asked to move out of my house by end month and I haven't found a new house yet. I am worried because of the housing crisis in ireland. Please pray for me.

    • @leylawalkingbyfaith
      @leylawalkingbyfaith 4 дні тому +1

      Praying 🙏🏽

    • @deborahbx_
      @deborahbx_  4 дні тому +13

      I’m lifting you up in prayer sis!
      Dear Heavenly Father you see how your daughter Diana has to move out by the end of the month. The deadline is coming up which you are aware of. Will you give Diana peace in the midst of the chaos. Help her to fix her eyes on you Jesus! Help her to surrender and trust you in the midst of this. Will you come through supernaturally with an incredible house! Will you open up a space that will be perfect for her. Help her not to stress or freak out. Allow her to know that you’ve got this, and you WILL come through. Provide for her as only you can do as Jehovah Jireh 🤍 I pray all of this in Jesus mighty name, amen!
      Just open your Bible right now, start reading and praying. I know that feels weird when you have a place to look for, but I promise you that the Lord will make a way. He did it for me so he will absolutely do it for you also!! Matthew 6:33 🤍
      I can’t wait to hear your testimony sis 🥰🏠

    • @kanieben1040
      @kanieben1040 2 дні тому

      Same 😢

    • @dianaflora6156
      @dianaflora6156 2 дні тому

      @deborahbx_ Thank you soo much sis. Indeed I believe and trust God for He knows everything. Thank you sis. I will surely testify.

    • @dianaflora6156
      @dianaflora6156 2 дні тому +1

      @kanieben1040 it is well sis. GOD Knows our anxiety and He conforts us and gives us peace even as we wait for Him to provide.

  • @LovethroughAbby
    @LovethroughAbby 4 дні тому +13

    Ahhh I can say this was me with a friendship and a situationship this week 🫠 I had to block them immediately 😂, that's a road I don't wanna go down again but I did cry because I realized there were still things left untouched by God in that area of brokenness.

    • @deborahbx_
      @deborahbx_  4 дні тому +9

      Praise the Lord sis for the work he’s doing in you!! It’s a good thing to grieve for the parts of us that still feel like they haven’t been fully sanctified. It shows your desire to be in alignment with what Jesus has for you! That’s the holy spirit’s work right there 🥹🤍
      Lord help us honor you with our time and with the people we interact with. Take away our desire for anything that’s not from you. Help us to recognize when these situations present themselves so we can flee from them instantly! May you be our sole desire Lord Jesus. I pray this in your mighty and precious name Jesus, Amen 🙏🏽
      You’re not alone sis!

    • @LovethroughAbby
      @LovethroughAbby 4 дні тому +3

      @@deborahbx_Thank you so much for that prayer ❤The grief is so reallll but it's worth it in the long run. I hope you have a wonderful week ahead 💕

    • @GirlwithWealth
      @GirlwithWealth 4 дні тому

      He that findeth a wife findeth a good thing. That verse indicates the man is looking for his wife. He must be looking in order to find. We can pray according to this scripture Father God let my husband find me and let us both know it’s your Blessing your will your plan when it happens.

  • @all.loveitsja
    @all.loveitsja День тому +4

    youtube really said: FOR YOU

  • @adrianasymone
    @adrianasymone 4 дні тому +6

    thank you for your vulnerability, Deborah. God bless you!

  • @Kenesha_
    @Kenesha_ 21 годину тому +2

    Yes count the cost 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
    We are called to be set apart!
    Thanks so much for the word you spoke in this video!

  • @lyriczandwordz7184
    @lyriczandwordz7184 3 дні тому +3

    Hi Deb! I’ve been watching your videos for over 2-3 months now, and your advice has really helped me strengthen my relationship with God. I can tell the Holy Spirit is speaking through you! ❤ In one of your recent videos, you mentioned you had some issues with your skin. I just wanted to let you know that we’re all praying for you (including myself) and we love you! As for me, I’ve been struggling with maladaptive daydreaming for a while now, and I’m going into therapy, but it would be amazing if you (or the community) could pray for me. Other than that, I just love how you use your platform to speak to other young Christians while still glorifying God. Thank you Deb!! ❤❤

    • @leapnl
      @leapnl 15 годин тому

      I will pray for you sis! May your healing be your testimony of His glory 🤍

  • @brittneyharris-holloway5792
    @brittneyharris-holloway5792 4 дні тому +4

    I literally CANNOT! I had the EXACT same situation happen with a guy last year; and on top of that I just finished reading Isaiah 59 yesterday!

    • @deborahbx_
      @deborahbx_  3 дні тому

      Look at God!! 😭🤍 we’re truly in this together hahah

  • @kimlacook3851
    @kimlacook3851 4 дні тому +5

    Hey sis, I am so happy you stood your ground, the devil is tricky and very cunning. Kudos to you❤!! You may have lost at Jenga but you won at not giving into temptation.

    • @deborahbx_
      @deborahbx_  3 дні тому

      Haha amen to that!! 🥹🤍🙏🏽

  • @lianagarcia2516
    @lianagarcia2516 2 дні тому +2

    I Love the fact that this is like have a Older sister in faith that you can talk about God and life 🫂❤️

  • @keekays12
    @keekays12 3 дні тому +2

    Seeing all this comment that are like “oh this is so my situation right now”makes me go emotional. I’m so grateful that you decided to share this experience because I can also say that this is what I was going through the past few weeks. It’s reminded me of the verse “they have defeated him by the blood of the lamb and their testimony” our testimony is so important because sometimes we feel like we’re the only ones going through some challenges, but whenever one of us decide to speak, we all can realize that the devil comes to us with the same lies and strategies and it’s good to find someone that you can relate to❤

  • @PrincessMarie-MicheleVictoria
    @PrincessMarie-MicheleVictoria 4 дні тому +4

    Don’t worry Deborah, God will bring you the right guy at the right time 😊 who is just right for you ❤

    • @deborahbx_
      @deborahbx_  4 дні тому

      Amen to that 😊🤍 in God’s perfect timing!

  • @GirlwithWealth
    @GirlwithWealth 4 дні тому +3

    You’re so on point referencing Maverick and the negative comments. I find that when people whether lukewarm Christians or just people in the world criticize your standards to stand up for righteousness and not compromise it’s bc they want to justify their own actions to do wrong and not feel convicted. God will always not stand in the way of our free will but as you said there are consequences and the price is too great for choosing the wrong path. The pleasure of sin is temporary but it has a heavy price tag. Thank you for today’s Faith Talk

  • @18lumumba
    @18lumumba 4 дні тому +5

    Always the perfect timing! Thank you Sis!

  • @jercoryiac1537
    @jercoryiac1537 4 дні тому +6

    Wow this is a right on time message! Thank you for this❤❤

    • @deborahbx_
      @deborahbx_  4 дні тому +1

      Hope you’re doing well sis!! 🫂🤍 Sending much love and hugs!

  • @esammasuku8476
    @esammasuku8476 4 дні тому +5

    Ouuuuuu girl 😭😭why do I relate so much to the scenario you explained , literally felt like you are speaking to me ❤️‍🔥🤌🏽

    • @deborahbx_
      @deborahbx_  3 дні тому

      😂🤍 we’re truly in this together. It gives comfort to know that haha. We deserve the best of the best as daughters of the king sis!!

  • @sonerithageises4441
    @sonerithageises4441 4 дні тому +4

    💕A timely reminder to keep our mind on the things of God.

  • @petitecamusette3913
    @petitecamusette3913 4 дні тому +4

    Again, the right message at the right time. Thank you!

  • @akysa8650
    @akysa8650 3 дні тому +2

    I woke up this morning talking with God about keeping me focused and what more can I do. And not wanting to be a procrastinator or too comfortable

  • @GirlwithWealth
    @GirlwithWealth 4 дні тому +4

    I have experienced that when God is about to do something awesome in your life and your Blessing is around the corner satan will come presenting a counterfeit to see if we will take the bait and fall for the fake. He want us to miss out on what God has for us. God’s Blessings always have Joy and Peace that comes with them.

  • @sethabilehlongwa
    @sethabilehlongwa День тому +2

    right on time! 😭🙌🏽 youtube is obviously listening to my prayers. 😹

  • @anne.8830
    @anne.8830 4 дні тому +6

    Thank you D❤
    Thank God❤
    I want to watch it now😊

  • @johnneladderley03
    @johnneladderley03 4 дні тому +4

    Totally understand you feeling good about the guy's flrty attentions, praise the Lord your friend wasn't playing about setting you straight with that guy👏🏾👏🏾. She knew he would only bring you heartache and troubles.
    I have been tempted by the enemy so many times, but I am so grateful that God continues to protect me from his traps.
    Awesome word Deborah. Thank you so very much for sharing. Take care and God bless 🙏🏾🤗🧡🍂.

    • @deborahbx_
      @deborahbx_  4 дні тому

      Amennn!! Our heavenly dad is protecting us as his precious daughters. He’s like a hedge of protection around us! Psalm 125:2 🥹🤍

  • @FaithWalkWorksTheBenefits
    @FaithWalkWorksTheBenefits 3 дні тому +4

    Th God who sees, see you and bless you. You encourage your audiences with everyday life experience in the faith walk journey.

    • @deborahbx_
      @deborahbx_  2 дні тому +1

      All glory goes to Jesus!! May he continue to encourage us as his sons and daughtersss 🥹🤍👑

  • @BrittbyBit
    @BrittbyBit 4 дні тому +9

    Your little storytime was so funny but a similar situation just happened to me. It feels fun to flirt but what's the outcome? Only to end up feeling unattracted to them because they don't love Jesus. Thank God for the Holy Spirit because our standards have changed for the best❤

    • @deborahbx_
      @deborahbx_  4 дні тому +3

      Yesss this! We need a man of God sis! A man who loves Jesus more than he will ever love us. A man who can lead us! When the time is right the Lord will surely allow us to meet one 🥹🤍

  • @InThisSeasonOfFaith
    @InThisSeasonOfFaith 4 дні тому +7

    @Deborah I will pray for you, it is so hard when all you want is God but you just cant turn to him ...but I promise for anyone that struggles with turning to God instead of isolation..you will come out of that! I was in that cycle for 4 years and now everything I do....I come to God for every situation.

  • @NiaLavone
    @NiaLavone День тому +2

    We love you Deborah! Thank you for sharing your experience - we appreciate you!

  • @Newlifeog40
    @Newlifeog40 4 дні тому +50

    Do you know what it feels like when God is working for you, the only way He can do this is for both to have faith in eachother in love. 1 Cor. 13

  • @bbychi
    @bbychi 3 дні тому +2

    girl, what a timing. I myself went to a talk last weekend and afterwards my friend asked me if I wanted to join a guy's birthday (a well known guy in the industry + friends with an ex of mine LOL) I instantly heard these light whispers saying ''you're so boring lately, you’re missing out, all you do is work, study and spend time with God, Jesus also attended parties! Have some fun'' - Well, I'll spare the details but it was very uncomfortable and my friend who was supposed to drop me home got too hyped and wanted to go to ANOTHER party and I ended up alone taking the bus home calling my brother in christ and he was like ''You knew this...'' - The Devil is truly a liar.

  • @themichelle4551
    @themichelle4551 2 дні тому +2

    God bless you Deborah! I was about to compromise on tithing which is something I always do because I was scared about the future. Just when I was thinking about it, your video popped up and said don’t compromise. And I knew it was God talking to me. I trust God and His ability to take care of me.

    • @coffeeandfaithsessionswithLS
      @coffeeandfaithsessionswithLS День тому +1

      Michelle, what a blessing!!! I’m so proud of you that you decided to make the right decision and your continuance to trust God!!!🙌🏽🙏🏽

  • @carinerutaha6532
    @carinerutaha6532 4 дні тому +4

    Thank you for your vulnerability Deborah!! I relate girl! We are a chosen people, a royal priesthood, those belonging to Yahweh. Also praise God for Godly friends. Praying for more of them!

  • @mutowemusonda9288
    @mutowemusonda9288 4 дні тому +3

    Thank you for this Deborah❤ always so profound and timely😢

  • @MegaNikanik
    @MegaNikanik 3 дні тому +3

    This is literally my situation now, wow God really is really speaking to me. Thank you for this video and your transparency Deborah!! ❤️🙏🏿

    • @deborahbx_
      @deborahbx_  2 дні тому

      You’re not alone sis!! 🤍🫂

  • @called.with.purpose
    @called.with.purpose 4 дні тому +2

    We must live a life worthy of our calling ❤

  • @Kizzyfran
    @Kizzyfran 4 дні тому +4

    I’m very late lol like 9 hrs late but I’m here and you didn’t disappoint, I just want to let you know that I can relate to the situation with the guy. I’ve been single for a couple years now and I do get lonely but I always come back to your words of wisdom! I want marriage out of my courting I don’t want to just get into a relationship that will lead me to sin. But satan is a tricky man and he always uses our weaknesses. So thanks for this episode sis , Have a blessed week 🙏🏽❤️❤️

    • @deborahbx_
      @deborahbx_  3 дні тому +1

      That’s it sis! As women we do have our vulnerable moments sometimes, but stay reminded of the truth. We’ve been set apart and called as daughters of the most high. If a man won’t guide us closer to Christ, he’s not worth our time. Better to be alone then to be with someone who leads us astray 🙏🏽 We’re in this together sis 🫂🤍 Love you!!

    • @Kizzyfran
      @Kizzyfran 3 дні тому

      @@deborahbx_ love you too

  • @LynnetNjoki
    @LynnetNjoki День тому +2

    I do relate to what you are saying I do feel like this message was meant for me .

  • @heiressinthecity
    @heiressinthecity 3 дні тому +4

    This was so good 🩷

  • @JosephineAgyei-ed3vv
    @JosephineAgyei-ed3vv 4 дні тому +3

    This message resonates so much I had to comment.

    • @deborahbx_
      @deborahbx_  4 дні тому +1

      Praise the Lord for that 🥹🤍 You’re not alone sis! We’re in this together!

  • @Ashantijanae
    @Ashantijanae 4 дні тому +3

    Woo Jesus come on in here I also entertained a conversation with a dude I shouldn’t have so this was so helpful and encouraging def going to make different and better choices, stronger boundaries!

    • @deborahbx_
      @deborahbx_  4 дні тому +1

      You’re not alone sis!! We’re just girls 😂 Definitely learning as we walk with things like this. Thank you Jesus for protecting us and changing our interests for the better!

  • @kailaniward4101
    @kailaniward4101 3 дні тому +2

    I think it’s admirable that you’re trying to find that counterpart, and it’s very okay to feel that way since we’re designed to be relational beings. I also want to thank you for being very courageous and brave in this situation and sharing it with us❤. Keep up the wonderful work, and may God continue to bless you. (Btw, can we do a prayer before and after getting into any faith talks or even vlogs? I think it’d be a wonderful addition to these sessions.)

  • @sincerelyZaYahairaa
    @sincerelyZaYahairaa 19 годин тому +1

    wow what a world … i needed this for real❤️!

  • @kwazzik5453
    @kwazzik5453 3 дні тому +1

    I'm grateful that you shared your story. It shows that you are human. Alot of us look up to you and naturally on a platform like this, people are gonna treat you as "you're holier than thou" but with you being vulnerable with us, it shows that all of us need God to help and guide us along our faith journey. Thanks for sharing❤

  • @MeklitSw
    @MeklitSw 4 дні тому +2

    Yessss Deb!! Been there and God will open doors in his perfect timing. Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing your walk with our father. You have been a great example and big sis I look up to. ❤ GOD bless you sis. ❤

    • @deborahbx_
      @deborahbx_  4 дні тому +1

      Amen 🥹🤍 God’s timing is always perfect. The Lord knows our desires so we can trust him fully! It’s such a blessing to have you here sis 🥰

  • @brittanym.2727
    @brittanym.2727 День тому +2

    This was needed! Thank you!❤

  • @dominqueedwards8932
    @dominqueedwards8932 4 дні тому +2

    2 minutes in and I know the Lord is speaking to me! Thank you for being a vessel for the Lord Deborah ❤.

    • @deborahbx_
      @deborahbx_  4 дні тому

      Praise the Lord!! May our Heavenly Father bless you sis 🤍 You’re not alone on this walk

  • @debrasmith7540
    @debrasmith7540 4 дні тому +4

    We All understand Deborah ❤
    I felt/feel alone,lonely and want companionship.
    While services were going on today I was so confused Deb/fam don't quite know where i belong😂😢😂
    You're ON POINT AS ALWAYS ❤❤

    • @deborahbx_
      @deborahbx_  4 дні тому +2

      Ohh you’re not alone my beautiful sis 🫂🤍 The Lord sees your heart and desire for a partner! He’s preparing an amazing Man of God for you!! Lord help us to trust you in the waiting. I pray that you’ll experience Jesus as your husband even more intensely in this season. He’s your portion 🥰 Love you Deb!!!

    • @debrasmith7540
      @debrasmith7540 4 дні тому +1

      @@deborahbx_ love you tooo girl. You and the family make my day. Good night

  • @egoagwuagwumaduafokwa9858
    @egoagwuagwumaduafokwa9858 3 дні тому +1

    not Deborah giving us the tea🤭
    glad you stood on business even though it wasn’t initially

  • @torizelite4976
    @torizelite4976 2 дні тому +2

    Thank for sharing Deborah very encouraging ❤❤😊

  • @drjman2356
    @drjman2356 4 дні тому +1

    Perfect timing - its true - never the same after we 'hear' - not easy

  • @christinapaul4677
    @christinapaul4677 4 дні тому +1

    Thank you for sharing this, Deb! I know the desire in us to at least try cuz it’s been so long hits hard sometimes. Been in the same journey. But the ‘ick factor’ if you may, that God builds in us is also so strong that you never want to venture into something that is not of God especially when it comes to men. God will make it happen at the right time. I am sure we won’t have to double think anything. It will be a joy ride!

  • @tonilittlejohn1232
    @tonilittlejohn1232 23 години тому

    The Lord always speaks to me through your videos. Thank you for being obedient 🤍

  • @yukiiimv
    @yukiiimv 4 дні тому +2

    Thank you so much for this video!!! Thank you God 🙏🏼 God bless you 💗

  • @mireilleandraos1496
    @mireilleandraos1496 4 дні тому +2

    Great message !!

  • @elsgs_
    @elsgs_ 4 дні тому +1

    thank you for everything you’ve done by the grace of God, deborah !! you have help me so many times with your video and i pray that God continue to guide your path and make you stronger and wiser. i love you so much sis 🥹God bless you 🤍 bisous from France 🫶🏾

  • @naomifernandez5287
    @naomifernandez5287 4 дні тому +1

    I just want to say thank you Lord! 💕

  • @DeanaMarie71
    @DeanaMarie71 4 дні тому +2

    Ty so much for sharing that story sister it really will bless many people watching. We do have to be so careful because it's so easy for any one of us to fall into something like that especially when we are lonely feel alone etc

    • @deborahbx_
      @deborahbx_  4 дні тому +1

      That’s it! We all have our moments where the enemy will take advantage! In those moments it’s so important to be reminded of who we are in Christ. Daughters of the most highhh! So we can’t afford to engage with things like this anymore 😭🤍

  • @Midwesternshayy
    @Midwesternshayy 3 дні тому +4

    This is TOO TIMELY 😅😅😅😂❤

  • @ChukwuTestimony
    @ChukwuTestimony 4 дні тому +4

    We want to reap the fruits of a full life with Jesus but in order to do that we also have to walk with him fully ❤️🔥
    Amen.

  • @renaecooks
    @renaecooks 3 дні тому +1

    thank you so much for telling your story🤍🤍

  • @faithm7492
    @faithm7492 4 дні тому +1

    Such an awesome discussion Deborah, God bless you sis!

  • @BCleanBeautyLLC
    @BCleanBeautyLLC 2 дні тому

    This is so needed 👏🏾. Everything you said resonates with me. Thank God & thank you for sharing God’s word with us 😊❤️.

  • @kendragreene5953
    @kendragreene5953 4 дні тому +1

    Ooohhh girl! Right on time message!!❤

  • @Souloutstanding
    @Souloutstanding 4 дні тому +1

    Thank you for sharing

  • @kendraacevedo5971
    @kendraacevedo5971 4 дні тому +1

    Love this! Thank you!

  • @baldgalruru00
    @baldgalruru00 4 дні тому +1

    Thank for this Deborah❤️

  • @LauraOpoku
    @LauraOpoku 4 дні тому +3

    Love you sis ❤😊

    • @deborahbx_
      @deborahbx_  4 дні тому +1

      Love you too Laura 🥰🫂🤍

  • @misslulu8110
    @misslulu8110 3 дні тому +5

    Something similar Happened to me Went on a Date. He turned out to be an atheist if he isn’t a man of God I dont want it . We can’t afford to go back to what God delivered us from .

  • @PriM37
    @PriM37 2 дні тому

    Thank you sis❤. The timing is perfect to what I'm going through right now, I thank God for you to make this kind of video, I just got convicted.

  • @AzubiLife7282
    @AzubiLife7282 4 дні тому +1

    Definitiv joining the better help soon

  • @asiahunter5352
    @asiahunter5352 4 дні тому +2

    Timelyyy🙌🏾

  • @nneomachukwuagu
    @nneomachukwuagu 4 дні тому +1

    Thank you❤

  • @PuseletsoKomane-j8f
    @PuseletsoKomane-j8f 4 дні тому +2

    ❤❤ as always, Amen

  • @MwansaChikate
    @MwansaChikate 4 дні тому +1

    This message is for me

  • @DerrickJReacts
    @DerrickJReacts 4 дні тому +4

    Thus was a true blessing for me. Thank you Deborah

    • @deborahbx_
      @deborahbx_  4 дні тому +2

      Praise the Lord 🥹🙏🏽 May the Lord our God continue to bless you abundantly!

  • @Naliyah.christine
    @Naliyah.christine 4 дні тому

    Definitely happened in all of my relationships

  • @shawnhenderson7528
    @shawnhenderson7528 4 дні тому +2

    Smh Lol!!! 😂 Thank God for the Holy Spirit! 😊

  • @AhavaM-g2h
    @AhavaM-g2h 2 дні тому

    Great content. Thank you Jesus!

  • @DghtrofYah
    @DghtrofYah 4 дні тому +8

    ah convicted just by reading the title😅

    • @deborahbx_
      @deborahbx_  4 дні тому +2

      🤭🤍 Thank you Holy Spirit haha! You’re not alone in this sis. You’re the daughter of the most high, never ever forget that!

    • @DghtrofYah
      @DghtrofYah 4 дні тому +1

      @@deborahbx_ Amen, thank you sis for being an obedient, willing vessel of the Most High! 💌 The Lord bless you abundantly in your harvest

  • @jomones6802
    @jomones6802 4 дні тому +2

    Haha stuff happen 😅 thanks for sharing as always. I pray God for Christian friends 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @madj7152
    @madj7152 3 дні тому

    Sooo timely. I started seeing a guy again after being single for a while. It gets lonely. 😢 It feels soo good and feel soooo guilty at the same time because God is not happy... The problem is there are rare cute Christian guys..

  • @tamikaeberhardt7267
    @tamikaeberhardt7267 4 дні тому +1

    love your video

  • @jazzyjasmine444
    @jazzyjasmine444 4 дні тому +2

    what should you do if you're having struggles with low self-esteem and self-respect? i've been feeling disgusted with myself, mostly for my lack of self-control (especially with laziness and gluttony, i can't stop sleeping and emotional eating which has led me to gain lots of weight and to waste time) and most of all, my physical appearance. i just hate my appearance. ever since middle school, i've received negative comments on it to extreme levels, including hurtful comments from my own beloved mom. it just makes me feel so disgusting, unwanted, and undeserving of respect. on top of that, i deal with homosexuality, which i have never told anyone about, and it makes me feel out of control and uncomfortable with myself. the first time that i have started to deal with this was in my last year of high school and i am so confused why all of a sudden i am drawn to other women. and i've also been having intrusive negative thoughts about others around me over the silliest things, feeling really angry and annoyed out of nowhere. i just feel out of control with the amount of disgust i feel towards myself but at the same time, i feel tender and sorry for myself and want to get better, but i don't see where this will go. i also realize that i fall into sin whenever i'm either: 1. feeling horrible about myself for my appearance or feeling uncomfortable in my body due to my gender (i hate seeing or being in touch with body parts that remind me i'm a woman even though i have no interest in the gender realm), 2. feeling extreme anxiety and distress, 3. laziness and boredom, 4. right after i pray to god especially giving thanks. :(
    also realize that i've been "normalizing my daily manna" as i'm in a place where i used to only dream of, yet i still fall down to sin and feeling sad/anxiety instead of joy/thanksgiving, and i've just been struggling so much with my mental health. even though i know how i should be feeling, that i should be grateful all the time, my phobia and obsessions around it overtake my mind. when i try to feel grateful and calm, it makes me feel like there's something horrible lingering around the corner waiting to traumatize me. so i fall back down to feeling sad and anxious all the time, always preparing myself for bad things that could happen.

    • @danastubblefield5429
      @danastubblefield5429 4 дні тому +3

      I struggled a lot with low-self esteem and receiving hurtful comments about me. I had been depressed not too long ago dealing with loneliness, anxiety, and self-pity. I decided to listen to some worship/praise music and In The Room by Maverick city ft. Tasha Cobbs came on and I listened. Tasha gave a testimony about being in a dark place where she would minister to people...but go home depressed crying herself to sleep. The Lord told her to get up and wash her face, and that she was dealing with the spirit of rejection which was the root of her depression. She was spiritually lead to each day in the mirror say "I rebuke the spirit of depression and receive the spirit of adoption." This honestly changed me as I started to pray this as well over myself. Rebuke also the spirit of fear and anxiety. These things come to oppress us. Also each day proclaim the things that God has said about you in his word that your are fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalms 139:14). Rebuild your self-esteem on Jesus and not yourself, the things you can have and posses in this world because its all vanity and temporal. Ask God to give you confidence and self-esteem that only he can give you.

    • @leslierosiles3144
      @leslierosiles3144 4 дні тому +2

      Emotional eating is real, I struggle still
      I’m still trying to get to the root cause; I ask god to change my heart; everything comes from the heart; I asked to learn from what is feeling with gods words
      I know is a known phrase but reading gods word is everything
      I feel anxiety: tell it to god: read scripture thats talks about anxiety and fear
      Humble : having humility and knowing that we are in earth , realizing that we are sometimes making small problems our identity and I pray to change my mindset to give those small problems to God
      I’m a child of God, he is my shepherd,
      Don’t let your thoughts win , we will never be perfect but we have Jesus to lean on

  • @anishastephen476
    @anishastephen476 4 дні тому +1

    I have been saved by lord saviour Jesus Christ, it’s crazy how I found this video , I have had continuous temptations to a sin I prayed not to go back to but I gave in. The guilt . I don’t know what to do with the Shame of caving in to the sin . Please do pray for me as I want to and do better.

  • @ankitabhatt5140
    @ankitabhatt5140 2 дні тому +2

    pray for mavrick city music we have to be selective what kind of music we are hearing

  • @ingridAcosta93
    @ingridAcosta93 4 дні тому +1

    I have a testimony! Hope I can explain it because my English is so basic. The thing is that I was talking with a friend and I told her joking 🙃 hey give a job 😂 she said ohhh but we live so far away from each other, then she said oh there’s an app you can work from home and its paid in dollars 💵 I was like yeeeessss that’s what I need. So she told me all I need to do is reply message from guys 😢😢😢 and they will call me 🤙 to youuuu knowww 😢😢but I just had to do is listen 👂. I agree just for money. The first day I replied a lot of messages with hi 👋 and that it. But at night I feel soooo weird because I knew it that isn’t right. I deleted the app and explain to her that God isn’t agree with those things. She said ok God’s first always ❤. But yesterday at school she was so weird with me 😢don’t want to see me in my eyes 👀 but I feel free 🎉🎉🎉

    • @meucontodefalhas9085
      @meucontodefalhas9085 4 дні тому +2

      Amen sister, the same happend with me, there is a guy who is married and he was offering me things, very expencive things, i initially was being condescending because iam really in need. However, the holy spirit was not allowing me, i was overthinking about it, and i knew it is totally wrong, so he was to send me some stoffs and even pay for trips and things like that, i remember was a sunday i was in the church and i started thinking about everything and suddenly the holy spirit basically told me to end with that all in that moment, there in the church where everyone was worshiping, i just grab my cellphone and a texted him, i said i could not do that, because of my principle, and canceled the cellphone he was sending me, even that i do not have a cellphone i did it. Was really hard because my flesh wanted, but i needed to be resistent and obedient to God. He rewarded me and i learn how obedience is crucial in our jouney with God.