Only time I see a need to draw attention to myself is if there is a lack of leadership, or a stand based on principle. Not looking for attention, just get things done. Takes people by surprise as I am normally quiet and to myself.
I agree 100%. We don't lead because we want attention, we lead because it's the right thing to do and most people are too weak to take real responsibility. We always sacrifice ourselves for the sake of others which is a huge flaw I've learned to deal with. Since we are always usually taken for granted, it's much better being selfish and follow our own self-interest to the fullest.
@@rumblehat4357 I've gotten in trouble for that. Insecure micromanagers who would think that they were brilliant and their ideas perfect. Even had one who straight told me to "shut up"- those were his exact words.
Nothing better than waking up in the mornings. Hot cup of coffee. Then walk out my front door and into a Green forest. No worries. Almost completely off grid.
I hated social events at work and never saw the point of them. I never got on well at work as many bosses and colleagues tried to bully me due to my quietness, other colleagues thought I was unsociable. However I was extremely popular among clients as they felt I was more efficient than my colleagues, but this only made me more unpopular among colleagues. I got fed up with the toxic atmosphere created by some colleagues so I retired at 39.
When you seek attention your surrender your autonomy by aiming to please. That attention is fickle and not worth the chase, as you become dependent on validating yourself through that light. And when it’s gone, you lose meaning. Can’t get brought down if you just lead by example and people are free to come/go as they please.
This is eye opening... I never knew I was a Sigma male until I discovered this channel.. I always knew I moved differently... I now know why and have a name and description for it ...
Spot on video. It literally makes zero.zero sense to me talking about others; we're all given a finite time in this dimension so why waste precious minutes worrying about me/others. Whatever.
I was born in Seattle in 1973, where I grew up. Japanese-American and male. A TOTAL and proud Sigma Male! People tell me, "People don't know what you're thinking." Well, that's GOOD! I have an Uncle Harvey, who's super cool, but he's always calm, cool, and collected. His wife tells him, "Harvey, people don't know what you're thinking." Keep it that way, Uncle Harvey! That's a sign of how wise he is! While everybody else is in an emotional frenzy, there's Uncle Harvey, staying calm.
I get that from people, I think what they mean is people cannot predict what your intentions are. Because the statement 'people don't know what you are thinking' is wrong as no one what knows what anyone is thinking.
@@unappealingundesirable2826 I get told people don't know what you are thinking. Internally I smile and think , what an obtrusive and unintelligent thing to say to someone. If you are seeking to read my mind it is illogical because no one knows what others are thinking. The statement also clarifies they are seeking for faults in you to use against you and they are not your friends.
At high school, one of my teachers told my parents. I've had him in my lessons for 3 years straight, and I still don't know him. (me baking silently in pride) Mission accomplished !
@@rumblehat4357 yeah when I had Facebook it was really only to say hey to people I hadn't seen in years but I just got tired of it and cut it off years ago.
I had a coworker sneak a snap picture of me with him in it without my consent, then send it to someone I do not like. It really pissed me off. Lesson learned stay further away from bad company.
"...Too much direct sun light, or in this case attention might seem beneficial at first glance, but it can actually hinder growth and authenticity, sigma males prefer to grow in environments that fit them best." Thought that might help someone.
Yes, and attention makes me feel as if my energy is being drained... because it is. What's funny is I walk around doing exactly what I need to do, knowing exactly where I want to go. I do this with precision, fully aware of my surroundings but want no interaction. I keep my distance from anything that moves. Somehow... this draws attention, and it is very clear I do not want to be bothered. Laws of Attraction?
I don't want to be praised. During the classroom election of officers, I intentionally go out and later come back after the election. A classmate asked me, where you've been?
I hate attention bc i hate fake-ness and fake love. And i see through people seeking attention and doing inauthentic things for views and clicks. Somehow just being yourself not having an external need for validation will indeed garner some attention regardless.
I hate social events i hate crowds i love alone time with just 3 things me myself and I dont have a problem people thinking im weird i just sit back and listen to everyone else complain about their problems to someone else
I definitely was solid. And knocked on my own car window two times. Luckily I looked better. Apparently I have to buy a red hoodie now. Cause in a short time I'm going to have to jump and knock on my window again.
Well not all sigmas are the same what of the sigma men that has talents etc Some are social media influencers but they don't care whether people like what they are doing or not they do it for their happiness and don't forget they follow their passion to create new opportunities as well
Alphas get their strength from the light while sigmas get their strength from the dark, so even if the occupation is different, the spirit of a sigma is still the same
@@blacksource2101 true meaning they can still be influencers but still operate in the shadows without seeking motivation/vilidation from anyone except themselves to thrive
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True. Although true, the right circumstances often end rather quick. For example with: 'Is everything alright?' or, 'What's boggling you?' It can actually be impossible to answer them - within an appropriate time frame. 'Got time for 2-17 coffee?' Thats a solid reply..
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Only time I see a need to draw attention to myself is if there is a lack of leadership, or a stand based on principle. Not looking for attention, just get things done. Takes people by surprise as I am normally quiet and to myself.
I agree 100%. We don't lead because we want attention, we lead because it's the right thing to do and most people are too weak to take real responsibility. We always sacrifice ourselves for the sake of others which is a huge flaw I've learned to deal with. Since we are always usually taken for granted, it's much better being selfish and follow our own self-interest to the fullest.
@@True38yeah, its almost self-destructive behavior. I stopped falling on my sword for people who don't appreciate anything.
Also when we see a flaw in someone’s plan we speak up. It’s up to them to listen or not. But we said our peace and see what happens...
Right
@@rumblehat4357 I've gotten in trouble for that. Insecure micromanagers who would think that they were brilliant and their ideas perfect. Even had one who straight told me to "shut up"- those were his exact words.
Nothing better than waking up in the mornings. Hot cup of coffee. Then walk out my front door and into a Green forest.
No worries. Almost completely off grid.
I hated social events at work and never saw the point of them. I never got on well at work as many bosses and colleagues tried to bully me due to my quietness, other colleagues thought I was unsociable. However I was extremely popular among clients as they felt I was more efficient than my colleagues, but this only made me more unpopular among colleagues. I got fed up with the toxic atmosphere created by some colleagues so I retired at 39.
Same here. When I was a teacher and coach. Dealt with that same situation.
You just sound anti-social
Working from home has been a revelation...
We got our own path not caring what others think not looking for approval just wanting our privacy😮😮😮😮
Yep if only we could have privacy but of course that's not going to happen
When you seek attention your surrender your autonomy by aiming to please. That attention is fickle and not worth the chase, as you become dependent on validating yourself through that light. And when it’s gone, you lose meaning. Can’t get brought down if you just lead by example and people are free to come/go as they please.
This is eye opening... I never knew I was a Sigma male until I discovered this channel.. I always knew I moved differently... I now know why and have a name and description for it ...
It is the wise man who walks with his head bowed, his ears open, and his mouth closed. No one ever sees a Sigma coming…….
Chess not checkers
Sigmas do what they must. They are kind of concealed but not. It takes a lot of experience. And age is no concern to hone skills.
Spot on video. It literally makes zero.zero sense to me talking about others; we're all given a finite time in this dimension so why waste precious minutes worrying about me/others. Whatever.
Facts
I'm amazed and surprised at how spot on this video is.
I was born in Seattle in 1973, where I grew up. Japanese-American and male. A TOTAL and proud Sigma Male! People tell me, "People don't know what you're thinking." Well, that's GOOD! I have an Uncle Harvey, who's super cool, but he's always calm, cool, and collected. His wife tells him, "Harvey, people don't know what you're thinking." Keep it that way, Uncle Harvey! That's a sign of how wise he is! While everybody else is in an emotional frenzy, there's Uncle Harvey, staying calm.
I'M 1974. I See everything you just said..❤
I get that from people, I think what they mean is people cannot predict what your intentions are. Because the statement 'people don't know what you are thinking' is wrong as no one what knows what anyone is thinking.
Awesome
Arigato brother! 💪🏻
@@unappealingundesirable2826 I get told people don't know what you are thinking. Internally I smile and think , what an obtrusive and unintelligent thing to say to someone. If you are seeking to read my mind it is illogical because no one knows what others are thinking. The statement also clarifies they are seeking for faults in you to use against you and they are not your friends.
At high school, one of my teachers told my parents. I've had him in my lessons for 3 years straight, and I still don't know him. (me baking silently in pride) Mission accomplished !
I dont do social media unless its you tube.
Facts
Same
Same as well
@@rumblehat4357 yeah when I had Facebook it was really only to say hey to people I hadn't seen in years but I just got tired of it and cut it off years ago.
I had a coworker sneak a snap picture of me with him in it without my consent, then send it to someone I do not like. It really pissed me off. Lesson learned stay further away from bad company.
This is how you protect yourself, as a Sigma.
So many gems in this video, as I listen to it over and over again. Great. Keep it up
Brother you nailed this one 🎯🎯🎯
Thats why im preparing my self for truck driving jobs
As a fellow sigma & a 30 year trucking veteran OTR trucking fits right with a sigmas mentality and personality. Best of luck!
Wear the arm guard. Your skin on your left arm will get burnt from too much sunlight.
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@@MistaIncognitothat's good to know. Because I have been having the same thoughts above my personality type and truck driving
I'm the son of a truck driver and mechanic. I love driving ALONE more than anything else. I wish you all the best on your journey!
1972 here! Much love from New Orleans Everyone 💜💚💛
This is great. It describes me completely.
"...Too much direct sun light, or in this case attention might seem beneficial at first glance, but it can actually hinder growth and authenticity, sigma males prefer to grow in environments that fit them best." Thought that might help someone.
Exactly how it is brother
Yes, and attention makes me feel as if my energy is being drained... because it is. What's funny is I walk around doing exactly what I need to do, knowing exactly where I want to go. I do this with precision, fully aware of my surroundings but want no interaction. I keep my distance from anything that moves. Somehow... this draws attention, and it is very clear I do not want to be bothered. Laws of Attraction?
You said it all bud.
I never thought that minding one's business would turn out as "offensive" to the socially hyperactive sheeple. 🙄
I don't want to be praised. During the classroom election of officers, I intentionally go out and later come back after the election. A classmate asked me, where you've been?
This video is so amazing and overwhelming as it gives more information about people as they gossip alot
This just sounds like a cope for not being able to make friends.
I hate attention bc i hate fake-ness and fake love. And i see through people seeking attention and doing inauthentic things for views and clicks. Somehow just being yourself not having an external need for validation will indeed garner some attention regardless.
I hateeeee the attention
I hate social events i hate crowds i love alone time with just 3 things me myself and I dont have a problem people thinking im weird i just sit back and listen to everyone else complain about their problems to someone else
Thank you for sharing I really don't even know that who I am I found myself with you at all of liked this channels thank you I really appreciate it❤
Suscribed. Perfect description of me for 51 years
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Present 😊
I dont hate exposure.
My critics hate what i have to say.
But i do distain attention for attentions sake.
well said. 👍🏼
This is me..
You are definitely like me.
I agree
I only interact with social media when I’m anonymous
Sigma Marla live on the internet
I definitely was solid. And knocked on my own car window two times. Luckily I looked better. Apparently I have to buy a red hoodie now. Cause in a short time I'm going to have to jump and knock on my window again.
JOMO
Sadly few understand
Joy of Missing Out
So much fluff many (insecure) care about.
That is my friend me😂😂
Well not all sigmas are the same what of the sigma men that has talents etc
Some are social media influencers but they don't care whether people like what they are doing or not they do it for their happiness and don't forget they follow their passion to create new opportunities as well
Alphas get their strength from the light while sigmas get their strength from the dark, so even if the occupation is different, the spirit of a sigma is still the same
@@blacksource2101 true meaning they can still be influencers but still operate in the shadows without seeking motivation/vilidation from anyone except themselves to thrive
Hi! I have a question. Should a sigma male engage with other sigma male in a room whenever its obvious that both of them are?
Im the type people like to yap about nothing to, and I hate unnecessary attention.
How do you know those things about me?
Funny vid as my nick name is, the ghost. 😆
I love to be in the background i want 0 attention.
Ego-driven conflicts _ yuck
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*unsocial not antisocial lol
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It might be welcome, under the proper circumstances. Just saying.
True. Although true, the right circumstances often end rather quick. For example with: 'Is everything alright?' or, 'What's boggling you?' It can actually be impossible to answer them - within an appropriate time frame.
'Got time for 2-17 coffee?' Thats a solid reply..
👌🫶
Conditioning....yawn
I’m an average, healthy 70 year old guy. I feel this Alpha, Beta, Sigma, etc. stuff is a bunch of nonsense.
It’s not nonsense it’s just a way of categorizing the main types of personalities
YOU ARE MISTAKEN!!!
I am not shy but a bit humble
BUT IF SOMEONE WILL PRETEND AND STOLE MY WORKS … I WANT EVERYTHING TO BE PUBLIC!!!
I want the whole story , including the picture to be posted, shared, televise. I WANT A 100 percent exposure 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣.
I need to skibibidi my W RIZZ looksmaxing to goon in Ohio or it will fanum tax my sprite cranberry
This is very good
There is-no one who slander me
More than u do 🫵🫵🫵🫵