Pregnant With a Gypsy Baby at 19 | My Big Fat Gypsy Wedding | FULL EPISODE | OMG
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- Опубліковано 18 лют 2023
- Although many travellers have now abandoned life on the road in favour of permanent homes, a small number continue to roam the country, pitching up in public parks and on roadsides.
But their presence is very rarely welcome and many are forced to spend their lives on the run from local councils in defiance of the law.
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That young man was far too fast at raising his hand to her. His face even showed anger. I do not trust him.
💯 agree
Domestic physical abuse is seen as normal in the travelling community unfortunately.
Yes he showed himself for sure. I also have huge issues with putting fake nails on that toddler. Nail places should have an age requirement for anything other than paint on thier nails, no matter parental permission. It should be 14 at the very least in my opinion.
When was it? I missed it
@@kaya7249 @7:30 on the video.
'It took 3 weeks to get pregnant, that's way too long' Tell me you don't know how ovulation works without telling me you don't know how ovulation works.
Well the girls aren’t educated
i think they dont go to skl thats why they dont ik
I laughed... and then I died inside. How can people still don't know how a Menstrual CYCLE works
That raised my 👀 too... I was like too long 😮
@@delledaye2035 you'd be surprised, my husband are Pakistani and I got pregnant with my first baby on the 3rd month of trying so technically 2months trying got married at the very end of September and found out I was pregnant at end of December and for them that was " too long" they were starting to get concerned something was wrong with me and I wouldn't be able to have children and would ask me since the day I got married if I had " any news" Some cultures are like this and it's shocking.
I can’t believe the nail tech agreed to do that baby’s nails 😭painting them fine but extensions??? Absolutely not, I am a beautician and this is sooooo crazy to me
I agree. That was so too much for me.
They have baby safe nail polish--Piggie Paint
The girls are sexualised so young,It's wrong
It’s hardly child abuse calm down
@@MrsMAS like i said painint is fine but extensions are too harsh
The rampant child abuse and neglect in this is horrifying.
Absolutely
Not to mention they didn't have seat belts on in the car 😳
Wtf it's not child abuse the reason why ppl don't wear there seat belts (sometimes) is because of the police evicting us even. If we're in a site that's leagel
Fake nails on a toddler 😢 makes me soo mad
Omg the baby drinking redbull.. those are so bad for your heart
I wish Helen had gone to school and wouldn’t have to marry that man boy. He was so quick to raise his hand to her and push her, and he stole from the dealer as well. She deserves so much better, her lifestyle seems so exhausting 😢
I don't know if it is true, but a response to a comment above said that they divorced shortly after getting married. Wouldn't be surprised with the immaturity of the husband and then adding twin babies into it. Can't imagine the struggles she probably had.
It scared me when he raised his arm to hit her I actually flinched with her 😢
Right?! He was rude and obnoxious he stole. He did all kinds of funky c***. I would not have let my daughter marry someone that did all that within the first few weeks that's horrible
Not divorced. Married, several children and really really happy. Helen is a strong and fiesty young woman :)
that is true however that's their lifestyle and they wont go against tradition
The baby getting acrylic nails shocked me the most I think
Thank you!
Absolutely inappropriate 😏😏
Agreed.
And the baby drinking a redbull 36:14
It literally burns if the stylist files it too much, it probably burns because her nail beds are too thin 😢
Toxins are absorbed through the nail, realistically no-one should put things on their nails that will end up causing disease...🫠
So they throw fireworks at cars, they leave a mess behind and they still don't know why people might think of them as a nuisance?!!!!
Trust me they know. Just losers.
There not!
Not all of them are like that tho it’s just a few that ruin it to everyone
@@Hoonqueen agree. Sucks for the one's that are just trying to live simply, peacefully, and neat and tidy! Love and light to you and all those that are just trying to get by and have their own human experience for a bit.
And they steal
That guy has no shame. The owner of that store gave them a discount and he still tried to steal from him. Smh
He will beat the shit out of her after marriage. He knows her for weeks and it’s pushing and raising his hand to her! Sad and appalling!
They divorced not long after they got married. This is from 2013
@@amandab8433 can you tell us more? Like why and when exactly
@@amandab8433 Where's the proof? Someone else said they're together still & have 5 kids.
@@amandab8433 wow divorced was she disowned by the community afterwards ??
i also hate how they treat the girls like they are possessions rather thank people and they are made to belive that they are worthless if they are not married at a very young age its disgusting and disturbing behaviour. Also they always say they show their love etc by getting married some of these girls have no idea who they are getting married to as they only met them 6 weeks before the wedding thats not love plus at 15 / 16 what do these teens know about love and adult relationships many are still acting like children yes they are children in many ways plus the girls have no education so if they did want out how can they make it alone,?? she would be rejected by her people and would have to support herself and probably a brood of kids since thats their purpose in life get married young have as many kids as possible and be a slave to her husband, they are not allowed a education as in their culture she doesnt need one as shes isnt allowed to work so she is basically raised to be stuck in a world where she has no rights and has no chance of bettering herself and she has to be totally supported by her husband if she wants out she is rejected by everyone and then left to fend for herself.😳 Personally i think its crazy and just like any abusive relationship they are isolated from every day life and cant do anything for herself. I knew a girl on school from a traveling family when she was 14 her parents wanted her to leave school she didnt want that she told me when she was 16 if my parents had their way id be like my sister with no education married at 15 and stuck at home with a guy who grabbed me at a party therefore because her wanted her she had to marry him, she didnt even know his full name when they got married a week later, she had no choice now she has 3 kids to a man she hates but she cant escape as divorce is bad and she will be rejected by everyone so im staying in school if they like it or not as far as they know im out somewhere with froends they dont know im here, i will finish school and i will get a job so i can support myself and help get my sister out. By then we will be both rejected me because i stayed in school my sister because she wants a divorce. I refuse to go to family get yogethers as im scared to death that some guy will grab me then id be forced to marry him if i have to go i hide the whole time. One guy did try to grab me once i told him i was taken so dont think about it touching me thankfully he belueved me ive learnt how to make myself vomit so when there is a event i start a few days before been sick that way I can stay home my parents have no idea im faking. She got all her gcses and she got high marks the day we got our exam results was the day her parents found out shed been in school as her tteacher called her parents to tell them how proud she was, oh all hell broke out her teacher felt so bad after, thankfully she had already got herself a job, folled in all the forms to get benifits and found a hoyse to stay in so when her parents told her she had to choose between her getting married or been rejected she said and i quote great thanks for giving me a choice in what I want to do in my life , that new I've never had a choice before, well i choose option 2 ive already packed and i already have a new home set up and by the way im taking my sister with me, since you are more worried about your reputation than you are about your daughter who is beaten by the bastard you made her marry, seriously he grabbed her at a wedding sexually assaulted her and you said aww thats so nice look hes showing affection toward you, do you know how fucked up that is , and now he beats her every day have you seen the bruises all up her back ,legs ,arms etc oh of course not because she has to hide them so your reputation stay intact, he been cheating on her since day one, he rapes her and all you said was you can't be raped by your husband he has a right to do that to you, well screw your reputation and screw you, i refuse to stand by and watch my sister who i love more than anything be beaten and raped anymore you made her marry that bastard when she was 15 and he was 19 all because he said i want her, you made it out that sexual assault was as romantic as if hed arranged a candle lit dinner in a fancy restaurant, you are disgusting, you are failures at been parents and most of all you are from now on no longer my parents or her parents, with that she pucked up her bags and walked out she went two doors down knowing her sisters husband was away on some horse show thing she helped her pack up her and the kids belongings shed hired a van and had a trusted friend help her and drive it her parents didnt try stop themas they belived her sister would never leave her husband knowing they would be rejected and disowned lol. Her sister knowing the plan had started packing the day before as soon as he left and he wasn't due back for two days within 3 hours she had packed up all her things and all the kids stuff including toys etc are just left his stuff behind since she didn't own anything all the house stuff was also left behind then they left she left a note saying she wouldn't be back and don't look for them, she left all the credit cards etc saying she hadnt taken any money, she also said she was keeping the rings as her solicitor said that was fine so she was keeping them as compensation for everything he put her through, she locked the door and posted the keys. The first thing she did was pawn them they were expensive rings both platinum and diamond and she got several thousand for them the furst money she had ever had that was her own. Then they drove to their new home they didn't give the address to anyone although their phones soon started blowing up as her parents went to the sisters house to give her something and since there was no answer they let themselves in with their key and say the note and that everything belonging to her and the kids gone they were furious they told the husband and he was sending threatening calls and messages she blocked the numbers then turned her phone off when they got the house sorted they went shopping and the sister got them both new phones so they couldn't be tracked and posted their phones back to him with a joke saying here is your phone back since you paid for it you can have my sisters too now I don't have to listen to or read anything from you again now stop trying to find me or I will get you arrested as for something you don't know everytime you hit me I took photos of the result and gave them to the police telling them keep them on file for after I escape so they have over a years worth of evidence so has my solicitor so you will never see me or the kids again and by 5pm tonight ( she posted next day signed for delivery ) you will receive both a restraing order, divorce papers and papers stating you hand over all parent responsibility to me just signed them and get ut over with the courts have all the evidence so I get the kids you don't get to see them ever and I've told them I don't want a penny from you as I don't want anything to do with you so sign it and get on with your life, and dont bother harassing my parents they disowned us and have no idea where I am so its not worth you trying to find me as i am way way out of your reach and you will never find me. They had moved 4 hours away and we stayed in touch for a while bith had jobs the kids were in school all of them changed their names so they couldn't be found, and all of them were very happy the husband did sign everything so that was good that he didn't cause issue but he probably did it to avoid going to prison again as she did say she would press charges he had a choice sign the papers or face 15-20 years in prison if he didn't nice bit of blackmail 🤣🤣
😢it’s sad.
Im middle-eastern and my family's views are very much aligned. All of it was designed to keep us unempowered and reliant on men. From the age of 5 i was talked to about learning to cook and clean so i would be a good wife and bring my family honor. If I misbehaved, my father, younger brother, and eventually my husband would be fully entitled to use physical force. (Not all middle-eastern families are like mine of course). I ran away at 16, with my American boyfriend (now husband of 25 years), finished high school, went to college, and am an IT Executive. I wish these girls knew what they are capable of. Leaving home was the best thing I could have ever done for myself, my daughter, and the future girls in our family.
So glad you were able to leave safely! I hope your life is wonderful now!!!
Thank you for opening up and sharing your story
This is so sad to read. Glad you were able to break the toxic cycle.
I am very proud of you, even though I only know you through this text. You did so well and sacrificed so much. Someone in Germany wants you to feel hugged ❤
So glad you were able to get out.
I wish the best for Helen. David seems really aggressive and honestly presents himself as a violent and horrid boy-man. I hope Helen realises her worth and moves on with her life, she has soo much potential.
They are still married. They have 5 babies and are very happy.
@@mrsl8596 where did you see this?
Yes the lad seems very immature. As the lass gets older he will be more of a problem to her as he will remain a child, mentally.
they had one child and divorced
I wish they would show us what happened to them.
The way he threw his hand in her face and how fast she reacted makes me feel that’s happened before just off camera, I hope alls well of her and them
Their views on why women don’t get pregnant right away, is the most disgusting thing about this. That screams volumes. See kids, THIS is why we stay in school.
Staying in school has nothing to do with getting pregnant in the 60s girls were getting pregnant then and to this day they are still getting pregnant while being in school they are even younger
@@Tina-wi5ng my comment flew completely over your head.
Oh yes..because if you stay in schooling you can get a whole different sortt of brainwashed..but at least you will become a good life long minion for the corporations..a wage slave.obedient and unquestioning the status quo.
Its not as easy as it seems. The woman need empowering
Yup
I agree. There are some huge red flags. The whole “ she doesn’t really have a choice when she talks about nit wanting a ton of kids”. Then he tells her to shut up over and over and raises his hand to her. She even backs away showing that she does not 100% trust him. ! This girl is going to marry this dill hole. And he’s going to emotionally,verbally, and quite possibly physically abuse her. And then under the guise of “gypsy’s don’t divorce, they work it out” and having no Skills and no money, she’s trapped to remain in servitude to an abusive husband. Great culture,...not! There is no part of this culture that should be envied.
They shouldnt have had sex
The way they are still treated is so bad, been kicked out of everywhere. They should be places for them to stay, with rules of course and cleanliness of the places been enforced. Traveller's and gypsies are nice people and like every other human being have qualities and faults. I wish people would give them a chance, I think more exchange have to happen between each sides.
“Dill hole”
That’s a new one.
👀 🥒
That wee boy that was talking about wanting to stick in at school and be a lawyer broke my heart 💙 I was shocked seeing the small girl drinking a can of Red bull 😱
You don't actually believe this bullshit by the time he's 16 he's probably conned robbed more pensioners than you have brain cells🤦
The red bull got me you see all the teenage girls always drinking red bull and I saw the little girl and was like you’ve got to be kidding me for real!?
It was probs empty or filled with water
That’s what I was saying also!! Those are terrible for your heart they cause arrhythmias I do not drink them at all and I would never allow my children to drink them.
That wee boy you speak of stopped mid speech to beat a little girl.
That little boy was so passionate about wanting to go to school every day and becoming a solicitor when he grows up ❤
I just felt sad for him. He sounded so smart and passionate for his age.. and sadly he will probably end up miserable moving from place to place doing odd jobs. I hope not.
Having the desire to better oneself is already so important. It's been 10 years. I hope he's happy.
Yeah, yeah, but he also paused midway through his speech to go beat up a little girl
He raised his hand to Helen a little to quick for me… 🤦🏽♀️
I know that was such a red flag for that to be his first impulse even as a joke
This is from 2013. They divorced not long after they got married.
@@amandab8433 how do you know
That's a cultural thing unfortunately
i know man. this wasnt playful at all. it was an immediate threat, even as a joke i found it veryy serious
I love watching these docs on travellers but my god how can they not realize why people can’t stand them. Stealing after that guy gave them a deal? Disgusting. And it’s a mom and pop dealership as well? Disgusting
I'm irish and we hate them too, they're the lowest of the low
What's 1 group not all of us
No, but he made it look bad for all of u.
@@susanengel-ix8bl ik
@@Daphne12367 I agree, I've met some lovely, kind travellers. But, the problem is, the ones who do these kinds of things give a bad name to all travellers and it's a real shame. Some people feel so entitled to do whatever they want without considering other peoples feelings :(
I would love for TLC to updates on all the women in these episodes and provide them support to leave if they want to. I hope she is able to get away from David. The comment about her not having a choice about how many kids they have was disgusting.
they work@catherinebranson3257
@catherinebranson3257 Not paying taxes and stealing, not paying rent or mortgage, etc. Watch the video - they even state that they have *more* money than the average person because of all these things. And they *still* steal. Absolutely horrendous.
Why does everyone take it the wrong way?!
@@surfingnorris7027because it's a bad thing??? i thought we all knew this.
The child neglect of that little toddler who was being forced to get false acrylic nails done whilst she screamed! She was picking up rubbish on the roadside and pushing a can around in a dolls pram for fun, drinking red bull, being ignored, walking amongst the fireworks on the streets in no coat when the mum had said it’s freezing and the way the mum kept saying the kids still aren’t in bed they’re going to conk out in a minute she was so tired and it was so late 😩💔 so cruel
Dolls and prams are toys like kids play mams and dads
@@Daphne12367 of course, obviously which is great, Except she wasn’t pushing a “doll” in a pram was she, she was pushing around an empty red bull can in it 😩 that was my point!
@@BananaCherryKiss ok I understand that redbull gives ppl heart attacks it's a sin if anything happens
Oml it’s not neglect
I feel so sad for Helen :( she seemed like such a sweet gentle soul and didn't look very happy when she fell pregnant and her husband seems horrible. Poor girl, I hope she's living a happier life now.
U do not fall pregnant u get
They’re all way to forgiving towards that David kid. Him raising his hand and pushing her, stealing while his soon to be brother in law buys something. I would have lost it. Shameful
I still can't get over the sense of entitlement they have, expecting rent free parking, a house etc. Plus Helen's husband is so immature
Very entitled people
White version of the boat people 😂😂😂
It’s there way of life leave them alone!
@@surfingnorris7027😂 "leave them alone!" They put it out there, as trashy as it is! You bet they'll get judged. These people are scummy.
As someone who got married at 18 myself . Her husband is an absolute immature child . I feel bad for her , he has no manners and she will be picking up after him for the rest of her life , if it lasts . This is all she knows.
Poor Girl , if she tries to leave they will all turn on her , including her own people,
Helen is one of the sweetest, prettiest traveller brides I've seen and I hope that her new family brings her a lifetime of happiness. It would be lovely to get an update on her story. ❤
I agree. She radiates beauty and speaks so softly and calmly. I too wish her the best for her future with her husband ❤️
With the boyfriend so quick to raise his hand to her RED FLAG 🚩 run away 😢
This is from 2013, they divorced not long after they got married. They'd only known each other for less than a month before getting engaged.
How long is not long after? They have twins together so they were at least together for that and she didn’t seem to have any intention on leaving him.
@@amandab8433 Where did you find this information?
It’s hard for me to be on their side when they are stealing from the ones they are doing business with and shooting fireworks at peoples’ cars (this is so dangerous). The kid is right, they do deserve a place to stay so they can receive rightful education. I mean they don’t even understand how their own bodies work when it comes to reproduction. And, don’t get me started on that toddler drinking red bull. I want better for them but you can only help the ones who want to help themselves at the end of the day :(
The redbull was empty
There's no fire worked get thrown lol learn the Coulter
I didn't even catch the toddler drinking Red Bull. I drank soda as a toddler, but didn't drink an energy drink until I was 7. Even then it was because at the time it was me, my 12 year old brother, and my dad trying to raised the two of us alone while grieving. They were around and I thought it was just soda in a different kinda can. Now when I look back I cringe a bit about how I would drink around 2 energy drinks as a kid because no one was there to stop me and I'd fight my brother about it if he said no, but I know that at least in my family's case my dad was trying his best. He got remarried within a couple years and got his shit together. Now my little sister (half sister, but I don't concern myself with halfs, she's just my sister) isn't allowed to drink any soda. She's 13 and still hasn't had a drop of soda past 7up or ginger ale when trying to settle her stomach. Meanwhile I'm sitting here typing this with a sugar free Mount Dew and a cup of cold brew next to me.
If they pay ground rent then they can stay and help their kids get to school on time. Why should the tax payers have to clean up after them and give them public spaces they pay for…for them to clutter up with their antics. You can tell the kids have had enough. This lifestyle is outdated.
@@jlarkman3477 who the fuck are you to tell somebody to give up their heritage of their lifestyle.
I just find it so ironic that their caravans are spotless and the women clean every day, yet it’s a mess outside, even when they’re settled.
I hope that little boy gets to be a lawyer … he certainly is smart and articulate enough and has the desire!
I love him so much!
I suppose the gypsies need a few of their own trained in law so as to stand for them when they're in bother.
I hope the temper he displayed when he paused mid speech to batter a little girl gets under control
Helens dad saying 3 weeks to fall pregnant was too long!!!!! 🙄 worrying lack of education.
that was Helens brother in law, her father was never shown.
Seemed to me to be him teasing her.
It was a joke; tasteless yes but a peculiar sense of humor, certainly.
He wasn't joking. This community is uneducated, they don't know you can't always get pregnant on the first night, so for him 21 tries or at least 21 possible tries is a long time and of course they blame the woman only. I wonder what happens if the man is infertile@@emakelley6807
Her brother in law is quite dim
I really cant understand why Jimmy thought that those kids shooting fireworks at cars wasn't dangerous! Like what? 🤦♂️ That could easily cause an accident, a fire, or damage to the car! Not to mention how scary that would be to the people driving!
They just don't care. They barely have empathy for their own wives, let alone ethnic strangers.
“We want people to like us. They hate travelers for no reason.”
Leaves trash and lights off fireworks at night in a residential neighborhood 🤦🏼♀️
I can see a sadness in Helen’s eyes. She’s been robbed.
him almost hitting her shows she will probably be abused
I felt so uncomfortable watching them interact....
Yep
He pushed her pretty hard after that. Huge red flag.
“When you marry him, he could turn into the anti-christ” 😂🤣
Whenever I feel down I watch these gypsy vidoes and feel better about my life choices😊
😂😂😂
David is physically pushing Helen around and ordering her about before the wedding, I can't imagine he won't get violent after he is married. I hope better for her, but guessing in time he will become outright abusive. He is already a thief, and he's only 18. Disgusting. Helen is foolish to marry this loser. She is so nice and deserves a lot better.
Wow he raised his hand to her a bit to fast !!! I hope he never hits her!!! She’s so lovely!
This is from 2013. They divorced not long after they got married.
Total red flag 🚩
She is lovely. ❤
@@amandab8433is it on a video?
@@surfingnorris7027 No it was in one of the online gossip type pages from the UK.
I’m not a prejudiced person by nature but in my whole life EVERY TIME travellers rock up nearby there are break-ins, thefts, flytipping and generally obnoxious behaviour - even from little kids. Every single time. Sometimes prejudices exist for a reason…
I've lived next door to a camp my whole life and haven't had a issue yeah I've seen fights a lot of fights lol but that's from within their own community, I actually get my hair done in one of the girls caravans she's the best at big bouncy blowouts 🤷 I'm not a traveller they have a camp right at the opening of a estate I'm the first house most of them have a house here now tho the council built bungalows for them
Totally understanding you.
In Costa Rica 🇨🇷 we don't need gypsies since we have more than enough with nicaraguans.
They litter, rob, steal, break-in, Rword, and don't even care to raise their kids, some even sell them.
well they don't work...so they're either actually stealing or living off of the government which is still, in my eyes, stealing. I don't see a single disability or justifiable reason that they can't work, other than they wanna travel around and live freely. yeah, well so do I. that's not the way it works, unfortunately. I just can't stand people who know the rules and still try to skirt around them. literally in the beginning, they said they just got evicted from their last place and council already clocked them at the new one, and they know they're gonna get evicted again, but they're still going at it. clearly they don't want you doing this and there's just zero regard.
Gives you food for thought about other prejudices... the most bigoted thing a person can do when someone says 'I don't like X people' is dismiss them and not ask WHY! Pattern recognition is the basis of all intelligence!
Snap i was just about to comment saying the same. The rubbish and waste they leave behind is disgusting as well
The father in law getting the gastric band because he feels his wife doesn’t love him breaks my heart
He was the brother-in-law but I agree. He wasn’t helping himself with drinking so much and binge-eating but there’s usually roots reasons to this. I did feel for him when he explained what his motivation is for losing it.
He actually seems mentally deficient
The groom raises his hand when she talks back, trys to steal for the enjoyment of tormenting someone. What a sick individual.
It’s nice the Jimmy shared his weight loss concerns. It’s not often you see a traveler man share like that.
She is so gorgeous. Her bright eyes, so expressive. I hope she gets all of the world.
Helen is a sweetheart she genuinely seems caring kind and seems like a girl with a kind heart hope all worked out for her.
The toddler drinking RedBull and carrying the can in the stroller, I can't... 😂 36:14
"We just want somewhere safe for our children"......continues to allow the very young children to not wear seatbelts!!
Right? That pissed me off. If they got in even a minor accident that baby would be out the windshield.
and her husband thinks it's ok for kids to throw fireworks at passing cars.
Wow him pushing her like that is not cool
That's what a thought and the few seconds prior he raised to backhand her. ☜ (↼_↼)
She acts like it's a joke but she flinched.... it may be a joke but I have a bad feeling there's more to it 😬
The pushing doesn’t bother me.. me n my bf of 10 years push each other when we are playing but the raising his hand to her and her flinching like that bothered me
@@goldenhourx same! Playful pushing happens between friends and partners so that part wasn't really bad to me... just the flinching is bothersome
They divorced soon after
If I behaved like them, I would be in jail. Trespass is not a lifestyle
I worked in a retail store in northern Virginia and we always went on high alert when they came through. They had a reputation for stealing anything they could..
Helen's dress is the prettiest dress I have seen on any of these shows. It's not extremely big like a lot of them and she should have no problems walking down the isle. I wish her and her family luck.
Her veil and dress are absolutely gorgeous 😍 one for the best dresses and veil I've seen x
Yer it's a lovely thought that it was paid for by some poor pensioner's money conned out of them for some shoddy expensive house repair or drive.🤦
The problem with travellers is, when they leave a site, I'm told that the council have to clean up the mess left behind, plus do the travellers pay ANY council tax or road tax because they should.
That seems to be a common complaint, about the mess they leave behind. Yet they SAY that they "clean up" after themselves. So, which is it?
Well, he showed what things will be later. I am profoundly sorry for her.
For those who ask why aren't they given a spot to stay, here's a few bits of information that they've said in other videos that probably sum it up.
*They are called travelers because their culture tells them to be nomads, even if they hay a spot where they could park, they would move again in a few months.
*It's been noted that they do not want to pay taxes, so even if they had land they could stay in, they wouldn't want to pay housing or city taxes.
*Most children don't finish their education, since it is required by law that children attend to school, it is easier to get the kids pulled out of school if they don't have an address to report and schools usually assume they moved again.
*Because of their way of life and their reputation for trashing places, people don't want them as neighbors since their presence alone decreases the value of their property.
*They usually own businesses and moving allows them to get clients before people find out they are gypsies/travelers.
Of course these are observations made by the people on the videos and while there are unproblematic members of the community out there, this show is about those who for the stereotypes.
Yeah I heard Jimmy say the council won't give them a house. So I think they don't want to pay rent and stuff
Because they travel, I'm quite sure that other "travelers" would move into it, move on, and it would just become repetitive.
Travellers have been here since the Great Fire of London , they were instrumental in rebuilding. When King William of Orange sent from Holland to be the British King - he sent protestants to invade Eire, many fled Eire (Catholics) to the UK , Meanwhile Roma came to the UK in the 1500s , welcomed and then like travellers persecuted. They "travelled to stop themselves being killed by the establishment. Even catching a rabbit could see them hung or deported to Australia. There is always a back story.
The men are all disgusting lazy and entitled. The women are abused physically, and emotionally. The children are wild, abusive toward each other, and have very unhealthy views on life. Not to mention very unhealthy diets. My heart breaks for the women, and children. The whole traveler lifestyle is horrific. Srsly, who wants to live in that chaos. I don’t get it. 😢
Yea I think if they were willing to pay taxes/rent it would be ok because even here in the states there are R/V parks, you pay a small fee and can stay there as long as you want. But they want to live there for free and that’s just not how things work now.
We all saw that toddler drinking a red bull right? 😓
Yup 🤦♀️
Yes you did
I wasn't sure it was red bull. Think it was champagne. Which is worse.
Not a child seat or a seat belt in sight 🤦🏼♀️ The tormenting, the robbing, the rubbish and their attitude is why ppl detest them.
have been looking for anyone else that noticed the lack of car seats...
Bless that little boy that goes to school ! I hope he does well x
shes' 19 but that spray tan makes her look 40 years old
It's sun beds that's why
It doesn’t seem like they’re doing any harm but imagine if they moved into an empty spot opposite your house how would you feel? It happened to me once about 10 years ago and trust me it was nothing but bad. When they finally left the place looked like trash, they didn’t clean up after them selves one little bit. The local counsel had to come in and clean it up and of course they don’t pay any local taxes
It is not only the gypsies that leave a mess look at Venice Beach in California look at skid row im California
@@Tina-wi5ng Homelessness isn’t a culture nobody raises their child to become homeless It’s a completely different problem. Also Gypsies aren’t poor a lot of them have lots of money probably cause they don’t pay any rent or tax
I was wondering about that - how they treat the places they stay. Part of me would like to see their culture preserved, perhaps some compromises could be made - like they can only stay a certain amount of time and must adhere to the law but I’m not sure it’s possible.
@@blondesense1708 I don't know if this is the case in the UK, but here in the US, they could go to a trailer park or campsite and rent a lot. Not only that, they could park at a truck stop, a mall parking lot, etc. It wouldn't be so bad if it was a single trailer, but parking 5 or 6 trailers and cars on the grass in a public park is just ridiculous.
@@memyselfandeye76 yeah, but in trailer and rv parks you have to pay a damage deposit, rent and utilities fees.
The wee boy in the red jacket is a credit to his parents ❤
I don’t think he is he was beating that little girl up
I can't imagine living like this! Helen!! You are sooooo beautiful and smart----WHY are you marrying this guy you barely know?!? You deserve so much better!! Also---those nails on that baby!!!! Are you SERIOUS mom????
They divorced pretty quickly. This episode is from 2013.
@@amandab8433 I hoped she’d get away from him, he had a bad vibe.
@@amandab8433 Another comment above says that they are still married and have more kids, including another set of twins.
@@rule_brittania2142 I sure hope that’s wrong
I am fascinated by their lifestyle. However, I wouldn’t tolerate it either. Pay ur own way, it’s not public for this kind of use. It’s simple.
"After I'm married I won't depend on me daddy. I'll depend on him (the husband.)" That's really sad that she wasn't raised to be her own woman so she wouldn't need to depend on a man. Nothing wrong with being married, but this girl is basically going from being her father's property to her husband's.
In most places in the world, that is still how it is done, unfortunately.
If you are blessed enough to marry a kind and warm-hearted man, this is not a bad way to live. I have been a housewife for nearly 25 years and went straight from my parent's home to my husband's. My life has been largely wonderful. Yes, I stayed home and cooked and cleaned and raised 3 children... But not a single day did I ever have to worry about bills, food, things that were broken, trash, having to work, and on and on and on... Once my day is over with my small amount of "chores", I've got hours to myself every single day to do whatever I want. My kids are all grown now basically. I've done and learned so many amazing things. I'm into all sorts of hobbies. He has never held me back and done nothing but encourage every interest I've ever had and if I wanted to have a career, he would have supported it, but he was just as happy taking care of me... For some women, this lifestyle is the dream. Giving yourself completely over to another by your own choice is the key to the whole thing. I genuinely 10000% do NOT want to be "my own woman". I want to be "HIS woman". That said, these girls are groomed into this lifestyle from toddlerhood, they are not giving of themselves because it is truly 100% what they want and they came to that conclusion themselves... no, they are brainwashed into thinking this is what they want... that's the difference here...
I once did speak to a Dutch traveller who had studied economics in the university. He was kicked out of the camp for betraying his social status. He was not supposed to study, and his parents were also expelled. I do not know how that would work out nowadays, but back in the 70s it was next to impossible for a Dutch traveller doing something else but being a roofer or executing such a profession, mostly while receiving money from the state, working illegally and not paying taxes, but expecting being respected.
It's absolutely disgusting what they do for vanity over rather care for their own children's needs.. little girl does not want her nails done
Shooting fireworks at cars? Hm can't imagine why people don't want them around. Who just expects people to let the live rent free while they trash the place?
7 weeks knowing him,good grief.Wake up parents.I find all of this sad.
.... how does she fall for a man who literally puts his hands on her? I See that she can handle her own around others on camera, but that controlling and abusive air when it's just the two of them out on the road... I really wish her well. I hope she's okay.
She is raised that way ! Men are everything, women are not. So sick.
Is anyone gonna talk about the kids not wearing seatbelts 😅
Or car seats
@lil_cookie_in nah they’re definitely required in the U.K.
Yes! This was probably what bothered me the most.
Yep
Just like other ethnicity do
I've seen plenty other ethnicities flaunt seatbelt rules
He raised his hand to her then caught stealing after 7 weeks good luck Helen
One of the Best GYPSY Weddings love wedding dress and bride maids dress matching . Looks more elegant and beautiful then other shows all different colors
It’s sad for Helen, she’s capable of so much more. When they were in the nail salon I think her sister even felt that way. I know it’s their culture but still a bit sad
I didn't like them forcing that little girl to have false nails. I mean if she wanted them and was enjoying the process fair enough it's their choice I suppose, wouldn't do it myself but ok. Seeing her holding her hand in place while she screamed was just really distressing 💜
Can you get my big fat gypsy christening episode
Or how about painting newborns nails ?
@@Dollgrl1 ooh wouldn't that be lovely 🙄
I also hated that the kids were not belted in the car either
@@annied1827Same!
Helen’s dress is one of the most gorgeous ones I have ever seen!! God bless you both in your marriage and much love and happiness always! ❤
This is from 2013. They divorced not long after they got married. They'd only known each other for less than a month before getting engaged.
@@amandab8433how do you know this? I thought they were having twins together?
Thank you Amanda, LOVE and blessings 🙏💖
Did she say 15 cans of red I’ll a day? My heart would blow up if I drank that many.
It’s an absolute travesty this young ladies dreams were dashed by being dragged round the country & never settled long enough to be enrolled in education 😔
THESE poor children have absolutely no stability or education!! THAT'S WHY HAVING STABILITY AND structure is important!!! BUT HER DRESS IS ABSOLUTELY STUNNING
Helen seems a very nice individual. I hope she and her family are well and wish them all the best. God bless her.
This is probably my favourite of all the dresses I've seen in these shows - it's gorgeous, especially the veil.
Totally! The veil was stunning! ❤
The baby getting those nails actually is upsetting and being forced too! Legit annoys me bad when babies get fake nails or a fake tan etc
Was just going to write this, it was so upsetting seeing her so upset and not wanting them done either. So irresponsible and disgusting. Putting them on is one thing but you have to soak the nails off in chemicals etc it surely can't be good for their little nails and skin like who does that to their babies.
Little kids aren't in car seats. People don't dislike them for no reasons. Parks are for everyone to enjoy. That can't happen if you're living there. You can see a trail left behind them when they leave a site.
Exactly
I loved how she kissed her that's how you treat pregnant people when if you don't like it ! Make them feel loved
The baby could have simply got her nails painted instead of putting her through that😢
I love the bride and bridesmaid dresses. Helen is beautiful. I hope everything works out for her.
One of the prettiest dresses I have ever seen, it's beautiful, I wish them all well xx
This is from years ago, it was on the TV. Would be great if they did an update on how they got on. Feel so sorry for her being suck with him
The only update Melissa, is that the majority of settled scum are still DISCRIMINATING and HATING US😡😡😡😡😡😡😡
Jesus Christ! What is wrong with her parents?! They have obviously seen how he acts around her and probably already hit her with the way she flinched. Wtf man😓
Where do they keep their dresses after they're married? They're so big and so beautiful!
Excellent question. Never thought of that!
The acrylics on the baby are just silly and a waste of time and resources lol. Just paint the babies natural nails. No one’s gonna pay attention to the babies. Damn nails. 😂
I would have never married that boy. First time his fist was raised at me I would have been gone back to my family!
David's a real winner 😢 I feel sorry for his wife
I hate to say but I agree with the other people. You can't just take over a park and live there. Not just that but everyone has to pay rent and bills, what makes you so special that you think you can just stay wherever you want without having to pay anything?
It’s there way of living they have no where else
@surfingnorris7027 I understand if you're literally homeless, not by choice, and have nowhere else to go but many of these people have other options. People that are willing to help. Although with the current situation I'm not so sure anymore.
@@gachaluna2708 I guess but this has been going on for years they were raised to do this there needs to be more places for them to stay
I had the lap band and hated it. I starved on it and was always vomiting my food up. Gastric sleeve has been much better for me. That plus I started eating healthy and working out. 160 lb down.
Good job 👍
Congrats
Omg fake nails on a toddler?! 😮 I am shocked the salon even allowed it. They seem to have a great deal of money. Gastic bands are extremely expensive.
Just never understood why they couldn’t all pool resources to buy a plot of land where they weren’t harassed?? Wouldn’t that be on the list first thing for these men that only want to take care of their family???
Because they need to move around to avoid taxes, child/educational neglect investigations, trouble caused by theft and fraud etc. When they come through our area in the US, neighbors have to give a heads up to less savvy neighbors to not hire them for home repairs; they do things like take a deposit on paving driveways and then take the money and run or do half of the job, shoddily and run. They can’t stay here long because word gets around. The kids are often not in school at all or placed and removed repeatedly so truancy is a constant issue; my sister-in-law a teacher in an area with a revolving door of this population and by middle school they are woefully behind in academics and just disappear without notice. Not having to pay for land is not the primary reason to not settle down somewhere.
I can't believe their putting fake nails on a baby that's literally horrible
He’s already raised his hand and pushed her! 🫣
I love that you upload all of these older episodes
No place is a 'free place', there is always someone's tax dollars going towards the upkeep of the park/roads/trash disposal etc. Maybe people wouldn't have as much issue with travelers if they paid a fee to rent the land they park on.
I think Helens dress is my absolute favorite dress ive seen on this show. Its absolutely gorgeous 🥰
If they cleared up their mess and respected animals people wouldn't complain so bitterly.
Totally agree,
I hardly doubt it's that simple. People dislike them because they're different. That's it that's all.
it was literly shown in the episode that they steal and put others in harm
They are the only ones to blame for their predicament
@@fofosyrie3798 First of all, that one guy stole not the entire community. Get off your high horse and open your eyes. You're biased asf.
@@asunahusama the community is known for having ex cons that were involved with dangerous gangs in the UK
You can literally look it up
I'm not throwing around baseless claims
I once heard Someone call them do as you likey's.... because they literally do what they like regardless of laws ect if they had more respect for the places they stayed and other people around them And treated their animals better they would be treated the same.... their more bothered about the kids getting married and not drinking having sex b4 marriage than they are about teaching them not to b rude disrespectful steal and rip people off
Pikey do whay you likey