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I want this dude to follow up with us in a year. Not one bone in my body wants to see this dude fail, I actually am rooting for him. Let’s go bro , snap out of it and get shit rocking
@@David-wo9un I wouldn’t say waste of time if he follows up with that course. His main problem is how to portion his time learning game with getting fit, make more money, and build/live a captivating interesting life.
That guy needed to hear that. It might've hurt, but it's for his own benefit. Some people are just completely oblivious when it comes to themselves. An outside perspective is always needed when judging yourself.
Paul, here's an action plan for you 1) go to the gym regularly and work up a sweat every time. Build muscle that shows. 2) spend your free time not consuming pickup and man related stuff but learning something that will make you money LONG TERM - IT, plumbing, welding. 3) do not spend a single second on pickup until you achieve the above two. Because right now, you are a minimum wage short chubby with no long term prospects. What type of girl do you think you're going to attract?
He should attract a 10 because women who love money are a red flag anyways.... Dont listen to Cooper about have to be a millionaire to be Alpha not true. First step is to be happy what you have then go forward and its biblical
And why do that? Oh.. to attract a woman. *eye roll* So sick of the holier-than-thou flex that is is self-improvement vs. game. Both are tools to get laid.
All I have done since 2017-2018 is save money. I am two years away from my goal of saving 100k in cash. I am going to the gym 3 times a week. I plan to jiu-jitsu in the summer. 5 years ago I was 51k in debt and by August of this year I will have saved 60k. I was worried that I won't find a girlfriend while chasing excellence. This guy's story makes me realize my problems are small and that I am being very hard on myself.
Quality men attract quality women. So keep being a high quality man and don't be afraid to approach quality women. If they don't like you, it's their loss not yours.
There is nothing wrong if your current source of income is Uber or DDash but only if you have a plan to get out of it (once you get a target savings) and move to another high paying skill in the near future. This man’s problem is he seems to solely focus on “game” for quick lay without working in getting other areas of his life handled for the better.
as you get older youll see that its not all about income. its about being happy even with what little you have. humans don't live young for a long time
@@hoots187 God, I hope not. What I sense here is mainly a maturity issue (a lot of self-denial and finger pointing). Some would call this a Beta-Male personality. How many of us here have been that Beta-Male in the past and have educated, improved and grown past that stage? Let's hold some hope in our hearts for our currently misguided brothers. True, most probably won't break past that paradigm, but some will.
I really appreciate Rich's patience with this guy. I can tell how much experience Rich has because he did not get short with this guy. He waited till the very end to tell him straight up about his problems, and he did it with truth and sincerity. The guy on the other end was a victim and wasn't hearing a word he said.
he really wants people this clueless to stumble upon the truth themselves. thats why he asked ife he made 400k 500k? because the dummy would not concede he was making minimum wage part time and that was his real problem.
11:50 is when the humility kicked in... Paul you're a good guy, use that moment to get yourself on track, read the book, do the Work and you'll find you're in a happier place further down the road...👍🏼 Good luck man.
Not gonna lie I actually laughed when he said Jared, Owen, and Julien. There was a point when I went through that. Instead of trying their courses, I just recognized the processes they were using and internalized the attractive qualities they were using.
Rsd game in 3-words: the entertaining loser. Years of rsd brainwashing have turned countless males foolish. I knew a rsd head with Paul level looks but an okay 100K income. Pitiful results despite mass spam approaching. Don’t let rsd or anyone lie to you about looks don’t matter when meeting women. A man doesn’t need to be handsome, but he has to look good enough and not repulse women
I was on simple pickup. Luckily I didn’t buy into it all the way back in early 20s n focused on myself. I’m 29 still dateless but I’m on the grind. I can see myself using online dating to my advantage when I’m his age
You are saving millions of peoples life man and I’m thankful for that ❤ You inspired me to go harder and focus on my goals which is making more music 🎧 Hopefully I can make it one day ☝
This is the sad part about the lonely guys and the RP lifestyle. Men with no purpose, goals, direction, self awareness or drive have made it their #1 priority to chase women. While I don’t necessarily agree with Rich 100%, he is absolutely correct on his advice to this man. Being 35 yo, overweight, underemployed, buying women drinks at bars and clubs and probably many other suspect lifestyle choices, the last thing he needs to concern himself with is “becoming an Alpha, a man with game and becoming a Pickup artist.” This clip should become mandatory viewing to young men confused about making themselves a priority rather than chasing women. On of the best videos from Cooper to date.
guy who called in. You took it well. You got raked over the coals and it's a good thing. I got something out of this too and he's right. And whatever motivates you on the core things to take care of, take it. If Rich's assessment is motivating, run with it. Just run with his advice no matter how sour if feels. Because those are the things to work on AND those will sustain you for a lot more years. Forget the bars, save every penny you have and start doing workouts 6 days a week even if some of them are just walking around. Kill the alchohol, fast for two days and kill the sugar too. Once you get on the right wagon it's gonna feel weird, and then great.
It might been hard but it is what he needed to hear. And respect for him that he has made the first step towards getting better by contacting Richard and hearing the truth. I hope the best for him.
Actually Rich was just being honest with him and telling him what he needed to do for his wellbeing, especially on the health front. Tough love? Yes. Being mean to the guy? NO!
Rich I think there is a time and place for PUA advice but agreed if the best you can bring to the table is "I am an Uber and Door Dash driver" you are going to have a HUGE issue keeping them around past the first date if you even get that far. Just to share a personal experience of mine which I am rather embarrassed to share but kind of not because it changed my entire life. I was in my late 20s and just floating through life with no direction. On a Saturday night out I met this lady at a club and we hit it off. About a week later we met up for dinner. We got into a discussion of things on what we were doing with our lives. She went first and turned it over to me. I basically told her I was working at a Deli (which was true) but might be returning to college but wasn't sure. She flat out told me to my face that I would never amount to anything. This hit me rather hard because like this guy in your video I was not chasing excellence at the time but only chasing women. I wish I could find this woman to thank her. The experience was so humiliating that I went home crushed by what happened. I stopped settling for mediocrity and went back and finished school. I then went to tech school and completed that with the best grades I had ever achieved before. I entered the IT field and landed a job at a large Corporation and have received multiple promotions and have been there for over 20 years and now make good money. All because someone was willing to be honest with me about my future if I didn't change. You did the guy a favor even if he doesn't realize it.
Find her and thank fcuk her. Below average in looks and status shouldn’t worry about game unless they’re cool with ugly girls. Don’t need to be handsome but look good enough to excite and not be repulsive
It's good you listened to her. I'm willing to be bet most guys who chase women just like you did don't want to hear it. They wouldn't want to listen to reality and change.
He needs to get a job with benefits asap, read Rich’s book, lose 40-50 lbs, look in to TRT, shave facial hair, get rid of drug dealer friends. He’s not ugly so there is hope there. He’s got to make changes asap.
Not necessarily. You can lose 50 lbs in less than a year. The money thing may take a while but it depends on how motivated he is and how hungry to find that thing to be awesome at.
What pickup does is it helps with the marketing aspect of it. If you have a shit product, your marketing might be top notch but your product is still the limiting factor. Also love how you just break his reality, keep it up rich!
Perfect analogy for this use case... marketing vs product. I disagree on attacking this kid. He is a good, kind person, with decent conversational skills, actually. Not everybody is made to be rich.
OMG! I read your book. I am weak in several areas, but I am working on it. I look better than many guys my age. I have always been working on self improvement. Rich said, “don’t bore them”. I did, and I learned the hard way. Truth bomb! OMG!
To your guest's credit, I think he was listening and was open to suggestions about himself. I just don't understand why he's even bothering to chase women if he's a Door-Dash driver.
I like how Rich gave him positive enforcement in the end while also giving him the truth. He has game, but he needs to re-orient the other parts of fitness and fortune.
I had great looks at college and women naturally liked me from the start, I ignored them and then they went wild. But not sure how much it had to do with looks or ignoring them. My only regret was I was 'chasing excellence' at the time but rather wasting my time playing video games.
That's dumb.... So you didn't capitalise on prime college women when you had the chance... You are now in the world of 35 year old plus single mums. Enjoy
The crazy thing is that as soon as we become unwilling to embrace pain in our life that inner Paul of ours starts to show up. It’s so awesome to see that most of the comments are genuinely well intended. Because we all know that there is still a lot of „Paul“ within us that we need to get rid of.
Paul, do not loose hope. Truths are hard to listen to but are only said out of love. Coaches are only effective for those who are willing to play. Life become so much more enjoyable when your in the game leveling up.
This guy needs to get his health and finances in order for himself. Forget about women. He needs to be more concerned about his blood pressure, prediabetes, and possibly retiring one day.
It's like I want to give him a hug and shake some sense into him at the same time. It's hard making those deep level changes but if you want results, there's no shortcut. I've got the exact same problem with my weight so I do have some empathy but damn.😂
@ Jenna Jewert...YOU ARE PART OF THE PROBLEM!!!!!!!!!! SAVE YOUR FUKCING HYPOCRITICAL "HUG". AND YOU DO NOT HOLD THE RIGHT TO SHAKE ANY SENSE INTO THAT MAN. THAT IS A MAN'S PART TO DO. YOU ARE NOT HIS "MOMMY" NOR HIS "FRIEND". I WISH I COULD INSULT YOU PROPERLY. I WON'T. YOU DON'T REALLY BELONG HERE TO GIVE ADVICE. And if you got problems with your weight...according to Richard YOU ARE A LOW VALUE WOMAN. JUDGE NOT LEST YE BE JUDGED 😂😂😂 It Is Not Funny...😡😡😡😕😕😕You put a laughing emoji...so did I just to illustrate how inappropriate it is to laugh at that man's pain.
The guy's point was that with strong enough game you should be able to overcome any kind of resistance or shortcomings. Which I tend to agree with. However, most formerly beta dudes are not going to be able to pull that off. So, it's better to improve yourself all around and not just focus on your game. Rich certainly knows this.
Game is irrelevant if you aren't hot for flings and successful and stable for LTRs. Game is only good for attraction IF you got both of those others covered and if you got enough of either you can usually skip everything and get everything you want regardless
real game is being able to walk the walk. Being taken advantage of by women at clubs, what an insult. It's pathetic that girls at clubs act exactly like prostitutes in vegas that sit next to you. Clubs girls can't even be honest with themselves about who they are either. But if you think about it, having real game means you wouldn't give those girls the time of day. And then you can embarass them and shame them when they start their little charade.
Except he isn't in shape so won't be sexually attractive to most women. Also any woman looking for anything serious won't be overly keen about a 35 year old delivery driver. If he was in better shape and had an actual career he would find his efforts better spent, as he mentioned he gets flaked on quite a bit.
@@chrisburns5691 I agree but it also side steps the obsolescence of game in the dating app world. game used to be much more important when most people met in person and there was no social media. now most people are looking at you like they look at a menu. better to spend the time and energy on professional photos and developing interesting hobbies once the guy's actually got his life together.
Rich had a lot of patience. Go to the gym, work harder, make real friends, enjoy your life and all this girls you’re thirsty chasing will come. The message is simple.
You cannot fix a problem while at the same level as your problem. Best thing I ever did was increase my health, increase my overall knowledge, and my skill level in my career choice. Now every one of those aspects have increased exponentially, and with that my confidence, my masculinity, my attractiveness from women. I say all this as there is no shortcut, forget about girls, focus and work solely on self betterment and everything you want and even didn’t know you wanted will unfold before you on your path. This is what I have learned following Rich’s teachings.
He lives in St. Louis Missouri... typical rustbelt city. Its not he lives in a hot city like Austin, Miami, or Vegas where every other guy or third guy in the city is clearing after taxes at least 70-80K and there are an abundance of great jobs. Women in those kinds of cities don't tend to be as picky on the guy's income or job title. That said, this guy doesn't seem have the ability to properly assess himself or set proper goals for himself. This guy doesn't have a plan if he is content with just clearing the essentials financially with ridesharing. I wish this guy well that he can get his mind off women and start focusing on what really matters (his own life).
Poor Paul. Time is chasing him more than women are. I hope he can reflect off of this conversation and get the ball rolling. He's living like a 16 year old. He just oozes little to no discipline. Living in the now. I know I have my problems too, but I'm working on them. Just found your channel. You earned a sub sir!
I don’t wanna pile on this guy…. But he is the norm; this is where we are. I applaud him for at least trying, calling in and attempting to make a change.
That was a great ending, Rich sent him off on a positive tone. Like the dude is already getting phone numbers and some interactions. Rich gave him the correct areas to bring his focus. It was pretty rough in the middle, I know Paul needed to hear it. Glad Rich could end it in a way that acknowledged what Paul already had and has. Good public health messaging too on the obesity issue. I hope Paul takes it to heart and truly pursues excellence. He seems to have a Solid Soul
I like Rich's' approach which is a moderate and balanced way of seeing things: Not leaning mainly on PUA and "doing the work" to looksmax and chase excellene.
6:32 No. The part he mentioned at 6:32 is a low barrier to entry motivator for younger men (age 15 - 21ish) to get started, but for him at his age, it's a completely different world, a much harder world if you are way behind. No amount of magical thinking, be strong in your own reality BS minset will compensate decades of deficiency cuz you chose to be lazy in the past. The you today is what you have been doing for the past 10+, 20+ or 30+ years ago.
I'm 35, 5'5", weigh 194 lbs, don't make much money and even I admit that I have a problem. This guy who claims to be the "Master" can't recognize he has a problem that needs working on. Also 9:52, that was awesome Rich. Got him good. Also, also, I have your book on Audible and listen to it a lot.
Im 37, 5'6, 205, broke. I know what your saying, i am aware of my value and its really hard to just get fit and make much more money. The guy doesnt know his issues and still try to get women thinking that his nice personality or being funny will get him a decent value woman without kids, and win her over some asshole rich guy. At this age, if your short, fat, poor, you will not get any good results if your still trying to chase women. Its either accepting the fact and be happy, or chase excellence.
Just want to touch on the topic of his drug dealer friend who is successful with women. Drug dealers typically have alpha traits. Dangerous job, lot’s of cash, and lots of attention from “customers”. To female addicts who crave what the dealer is providing, within that context a Drug dealer is high value. I’ve never met a drug dealer who couldn’t get laid. lol
Dude just makes excuses. You GOTTA be accountable with your life and where you’re at and be realistic with yourself. That’s the only way this dude is gonna go anywhere. The excuse making is a major problem, he probably won’t get anywhere.
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I want this dude to follow up with us in a year. Not one bone in my body wants to see this dude fail, I actually am rooting for him. Let’s go bro , snap out of it and get shit rocking
Same here, man. My heart goes out to him.
100%
This guy makes me feel good about my life
Hahaha
damn, go easy on him bro
How much did he spend on the course? Even if the course was free, what a complete waste of time.
@@David-wo9un I wouldn’t say waste of time if he follows up with that course. His main problem is how to portion his time learning game with getting fit, make more money, and build/live a captivating interesting life.
Classic guy hitting the bullseye of the wrong target. Instead of chasing other people (not just women), chase self-improvement.
Jeez man this is a rough one
It's one of the worst reality slaps I've seen. I do hope he watches this back as motivation to change his life for the better
That's a lot of man population though, and they don't even know what's going on with them
Yea he though he makes a lot of money doing door dash 😂
ROUGH is a understatement
Props to this guy, we've all been there. I hope he's on track.
That guy needed to hear that. It might've hurt, but it's for his own benefit. Some people are just completely oblivious when it comes to themselves. An outside perspective is always needed when judging yourself.
And no better than Rich to deliver that tragically funny dose.
But did he really listen, though?
Exactly! Had he been aware of the reality, he wouldn't have made the call in the first place.
Paul, here's an action plan for you
1) go to the gym regularly and work up a sweat every time. Build muscle that shows.
2) spend your free time not consuming pickup and man related stuff but learning something that will make you money LONG TERM - IT, plumbing, welding.
3) do not spend a single second on pickup until you achieve the above two. Because right now, you are a minimum wage short chubby with no long term prospects. What type of girl do you think you're going to attract?
For 2) does architecture work for school?
He should attract a 10 because women who love money are a red flag anyways.... Dont listen to Cooper about have to be a millionaire to be Alpha not true. First step is to be happy what you have then go forward and its biblical
And why do that? Oh.. to attract a woman. *eye roll*
So sick of the holier-than-thou flex that is is self-improvement vs. game. Both are tools to get laid.
4) see a barber.
@@Skullfuck34 always keep a fresh fade?
This was the most epic call in ever. Everyone needs to watch this to know what most guys don’t understand.
“Chase Excellence, Purpose, And Wealth Not Women”
-Rich Cooper💯💊
"Build it , and they will come" In that order.
@@johnmac333 LMFAOROTFLSM 🤣
@@johnmac333 They will come to destroy it
Sure, but it's good to have a hobby
Found his channel after separation 2020. Rich C. Is awesome.
I feel bad for this guy. He seems a decent guy. What Rich says is true. Getting fit and making more cash is what this guy has to do.
I'm a beta in recovery. I really enjoy listening to Rich he has helped me in many ways
Its a process...
Get rid of this nonsensical label. It's childish.
Buying a goddamn pickup course when you're doing gig jobs. FFS
All I have done since 2017-2018 is save money. I am two years away from my goal of saving 100k in cash. I am going to the gym 3 times a week. I plan to jiu-jitsu in the summer. 5 years ago I was 51k in debt and by August of this year I will have saved 60k.
I was worried that I won't find a girlfriend while chasing excellence. This guy's story makes me realize my problems are small and that I am being very hard on myself.
Killing it mate....
Quality men attract quality women. So keep being a high quality man and don't be afraid to approach quality women. If they don't like you, it's their loss not yours.
Good for you I just hit my goal of 300k
Watching Rich’s facial expressions is priceless 😂😂😂
3:53 is perfect
@pkrent3461 The way he rolled his eyes at 6:25 after the guy said "yeah but I watched something on real social dynamics" had me laughing so hard!
Rich be like: dont buy his course, buy MY course 😂😂😂
Well, his "course" is a book that's under $10. In comparison to the other course, this is nothing
Rich "Buy my book" Cooper. 😂 Although this time he really has a point.
His book is really good though.
@@AlexandruPop2299 Facts!
100
I really hope things go well for this guy. He seems like a good dude.
There is nothing wrong if your current source of income is Uber or DDash but only if you have a plan to get out of it (once you get a target savings) and move to another high paying skill in the near future. This man’s problem is he seems to solely focus on “game” for quick lay without working in getting other areas of his life handled for the better.
as you get older youll see that its not all about income. its about being happy even with what little you have. humans don't live young for a long time
@@notavailable.000 its more about income.
@@MrOnlineHelper doesnt matter how much money you have when you dont have time to spend it...or good friends/family to share it with
@@demodiums7216 I agree with you. But they care more about the roof over they heads, most women have like 200$ in the bank account.
@@MrOnlineHelper lol true. Money management isn't often their strength
Paul seem's like a sweet guy. We all start somewhere. I hope he learns from this and makes some progress.
People like this are though man, you always want to help them but they are just lost causes.
@@anonymous-zj9fz too late for him
@@hoots187 God, I hope not. What I sense here is mainly a maturity issue (a lot of self-denial and finger pointing). Some would call this a Beta-Male personality. How many of us here have been that Beta-Male in the past and have educated, improved and grown past that stage? Let's hold some hope in our hearts for our currently misguided brothers. True, most probably won't break past that paradigm, but some will.
I really appreciate Rich's patience with this guy. I can tell how much experience Rich has because he did not get short with this guy. He waited till the very end to tell him straight up about his problems, and he did it with truth and sincerity. The guy on the other end was a victim and wasn't hearing a word he said.
he really wants people this clueless to stumble upon the truth themselves. thats why he asked ife he made 400k 500k? because the dummy would not concede he was making minimum wage part time and that was his real problem.
11:50 is when the humility kicked in... Paul you're a good guy, use that moment to get yourself on track, read the book, do the Work and you'll find you're in a happier place further down the road...👍🏼 Good luck man.
Facts
"400 thousand? 500 thousand?"....shit had me dying lol guy needed this talk
I couldn’t tell if he was just trolling rich the entire time with this narrative
Not gonna lie I actually laughed when he said Jared, Owen, and Julien. There was a point when I went through that. Instead of trying their courses, I just recognized the processes they were using and internalized the attractive qualities they were using.
Rsd game in 3-words: the entertaining loser. Years of rsd brainwashing have turned countless males foolish. I knew a rsd head with Paul level looks but an okay 100K income. Pitiful results despite mass spam approaching. Don’t let rsd or anyone lie to you about looks don’t matter when meeting women. A man doesn’t need to be handsome, but he has to look good enough and not repulse women
Exactly. Just unreasonable confidence
I was on simple pickup. Luckily I didn’t buy into it all the way back in early 20s n focused on myself. I’m 29 still dateless but I’m on the grind. I can see myself using online dating to my advantage when I’m his age
You are saving millions of peoples life man and I’m thankful for that ❤
You inspired me to go harder and focus on my goals which is making more music 🎧
Hopefully I can make it one day ☝
I like how one of the timestamps is "sushi" 😂😂
I put on about 10-15lbs of muscle and girls started approaching me in the gym
It happens AUTOMATICALLY - same happened to me, got bigger, girls came everywhere. LOOKS MATTER, looks and game.
This is the sad part about the lonely guys and the RP lifestyle. Men with no purpose, goals, direction, self awareness or drive have made it their #1 priority to chase women. While I don’t necessarily agree with Rich 100%, he is absolutely correct on his advice to this man. Being 35 yo, overweight, underemployed, buying women drinks at bars and clubs and probably many other suspect lifestyle choices, the last thing he needs to concern himself with is “becoming an Alpha, a man with game and becoming a Pickup artist.” This clip should become mandatory viewing to young men confused about making themselves a priority rather than chasing women. On of the best videos from Cooper to date.
Truth!
This guy is a legend in his own goofy loveable way. Hope he gets his priorities straight though.
guy who called in. You took it well. You got raked over the coals and it's a good thing. I got something out of this too and he's right. And whatever motivates you on the core things to take care of, take it. If Rich's assessment is motivating, run with it. Just run with his advice no matter how sour if feels.
Because those are the things to work on AND those will sustain you for a lot more years. Forget the bars, save every penny you have and start doing workouts 6 days a week even if some of them are just walking around. Kill the alchohol, fast for two days and kill the sugar too. Once you get on the right wagon it's gonna feel weird, and then great.
It might been hard but it is what he needed to hear. And respect for him that he has made the first step towards getting better by contacting Richard and hearing the truth. I hope the best for him.
god I feel sorry for him, he got totally destroyed
Destroyed with truth
Actually Rich was just being honest with him and telling him what he needed to do for his wellbeing, especially on the health front. Tough love? Yes. Being mean to the guy? NO!
That’s tough love. Men need it.
I had to stop the video after a while. Too much cringe
Yeah he destroyed himself by believing rsd and spending years going in the wrong direction
That was a good one rich. Dropping the truth bombs one video at a time
Rich I think there is a time and place for PUA advice but agreed if the best you can bring to the table is "I am an Uber and Door Dash driver" you are going to have a HUGE issue keeping them around past the first date if you even get that far. Just to share a personal experience of mine which I am rather embarrassed to share but kind of not because it changed my entire life. I was in my late 20s and just floating through life with no direction. On a Saturday night out I met this lady at a club and we hit it off. About a week later we met up for dinner. We got into a discussion of things on what we were doing with our lives. She went first and turned it over to me. I basically told her I was working at a Deli (which was true) but might be returning to college but wasn't sure. She flat out told me to my face that I would never amount to anything. This hit me rather hard because like this guy in your video I was not chasing excellence at the time but only chasing women. I wish I could find this woman to thank her. The experience was so humiliating that I went home crushed by what happened. I stopped settling for mediocrity and went back and finished school. I then went to tech school and completed that with the best grades I had ever achieved before. I entered the IT field and landed a job at a large Corporation and have received multiple promotions and have been there for over 20 years and now make good money. All because someone was willing to be honest with me about my future if I didn't change. You did the guy a favor even if he doesn't realize it.
Find her and thank fcuk her. Below average in looks and status shouldn’t worry about game unless they’re cool with ugly girls. Don’t need to be handsome but look good enough to excite and not be repulsive
It's good you listened to her. I'm willing to be bet most guys who chase women just like you did don't want to hear it. They wouldn't want to listen to reality and change.
Great story
I’ve reached a point where girls don’t even cross my brain. Just fitness and educating myself everyday
You're doing it right
For real. Out of sight out of mind
Good. But do girls approach you now?
@@JolPil yup
He needs to get a job with benefits asap, read Rich’s book, lose 40-50 lbs, look in to TRT, shave facial hair, get rid of drug dealer friends. He’s not ugly so there is hope there. He’s got to make changes asap.
He have long way to go, Hope he progress in the right direction
Not necessarily. You can lose 50 lbs in less than a year. The money thing may take a while but it depends on how motivated he is and how hungry to find that thing to be awesome at.
Gym and money. Gym and money. Applies to us all.
What pickup does is it helps with the marketing aspect of it. If you have a shit product, your marketing might be top notch but your product is still the limiting factor.
Also love how you just break his reality, keep it up rich!
Perfect analogy for this use case... marketing vs product. I disagree on attacking this kid. He is a good, kind person, with decent conversational skills, actually. Not everybody is made to be rich.
On a positive note, he seems to have great confidence and conversation skills
For sure , I couldn’t have flowed so freely , it takes balls to get on screen in front of potentially millions of people .
It's a thin line between confidence and delusion
This chat was hilarious 😂
OMG! I read your book. I am weak in several areas, but I am working on it.
I look better than many guys my age. I have always been working on self improvement. Rich said, “don’t bore them”. I did, and I learned the hard way.
Truth bomb! OMG!
To your guest's credit, I think he was listening and was open to suggestions about himself. I just don't understand why he's even bothering to chase women if he's a Door-Dash driver.
Damm this was hard to watch. I hope he makes a change. At least he took it well fairplay to him.
Chase Excelence!!!, Always!!!
Goes without saying.
Thank God Paul contacted Rich. He is getting the best damn advice he could ever get....from a man who has proven himself in every way.
I like how Rich gave him positive enforcement in the end while also giving him the truth. He has game, but he needs to re-orient the other parts of fitness and fortune.
He's the type of guy to put all the S.P.E.C.I.A.L points on eloquence during the Fallout character creation
I had great looks at college and women naturally liked me from the start, I ignored them and then they went wild. But not sure how much it had to do with looks or ignoring them. My only regret was I was 'chasing excellence' at the time but rather wasting my time playing video games.
That's dumb.... So you didn't capitalise on prime college women when you had the chance... You are now in the world of 35 year old plus single mums. Enjoy
Yep, it's all about looks buddy
nice to see Rich a bit of life coming into you, in this interview, you really light up, smiling , joy of life, nice to see ❤️
Rich giving a dose of reality! Painful but necessary!
The pain in his eyes, God help us.
The crazy thing is that as soon as we become unwilling to embrace pain in our life that inner Paul of ours starts to show up. It’s so awesome to see that most of the comments are genuinely well intended. Because we all know that there is still a lot of „Paul“ within us that we need to get rid of.
Paul, do not loose hope. Truths are hard to listen to but are only said out of love. Coaches are only effective for those who are willing to play. Life become so much more enjoyable when your in the game leveling up.
lose** hope, not loose hope.
I wish him the best.
Might seem harsh but dude needed to be told the truth... No one wants to date the overweight delivery boy...teenagers do that job, be better
This guy needs to get his health and finances in order for himself. Forget about women. He needs to be more concerned about his blood pressure, prediabetes, and possibly retiring one day.
It's like I want to give him a hug and shake some sense into him at the same time. It's hard making those deep level changes but if you want results, there's no shortcut. I've got the exact same problem with my weight so I do have some empathy but damn.😂
@ Jenna Jewert...YOU ARE PART OF THE PROBLEM!!!!!!!!!! SAVE YOUR FUKCING HYPOCRITICAL "HUG". AND YOU DO NOT HOLD THE RIGHT TO SHAKE ANY SENSE INTO THAT MAN. THAT IS A MAN'S PART TO DO. YOU ARE NOT HIS "MOMMY" NOR HIS "FRIEND". I WISH I COULD INSULT YOU PROPERLY. I WON'T. YOU DON'T REALLY BELONG HERE TO GIVE ADVICE. And if you got problems with your weight...according to Richard YOU ARE A LOW VALUE WOMAN. JUDGE NOT LEST YE BE JUDGED 😂😂😂 It Is Not Funny...😡😡😡😕😕😕You put a laughing emoji...so did I just to illustrate how inappropriate it is to laugh at that man's pain.
The guy's point was that with strong enough game you should be able to overcome any kind of resistance or shortcomings. Which I tend to agree with. However, most formerly beta dudes are not going to be able to pull that off. So, it's better to improve yourself all around and not just focus on your game. Rich certainly knows this.
Game is irrelevant if you aren't hot for flings and successful and stable for LTRs. Game is only good for attraction IF you got both of those others covered and if you got enough of either you can usually skip everything and get everything you want regardless
real game is being able to walk the walk. Being taken advantage of by women at clubs, what an insult. It's pathetic that girls at clubs act exactly like prostitutes in vegas that sit next to you. Clubs girls can't even be honest with themselves about who they are either. But if you think about it, having real game means you wouldn't give those girls the time of day. And then you can embarass them and shame them when they start their little charade.
Except he isn't in shape so won't be sexually attractive to most women. Also any woman looking for anything serious won't be overly keen about a 35 year old delivery driver. If he was in better shape and had an actual career he would find his efforts better spent, as he mentioned he gets flaked on quite a bit.
@@chrisburns5691 I agree but it also side steps the obsolescence of game in the dating app world. game used to be much more important when most people met in person and there was no social media. now most people are looking at you like they look at a menu. better to spend the time and energy on professional photos and developing interesting hobbies once the guy's actually got his life together.
I love your brutal honesty rich, unfortunately I have only one friend like you. He's worth his weight in gold because of that. Keep up the good work.
The truth is painful to hear sometimes, but necessary. Every man needs to hear truth.
Rich had a lot of patience. Go to the gym, work harder, make real friends, enjoy your life and all this girls you’re thirsty chasing will come. The message is simple.
😂 Hopefully this was a beginning for “Paul the Mastur” Hope he gets to live the freedom that chasing excellence gives you
You cannot fix a problem while at the same level as your problem. Best thing I ever did was increase my health, increase my overall knowledge, and my skill level in my career choice. Now every one of those aspects have increased exponentially, and with that my confidence, my masculinity, my attractiveness from women. I say all this as there is no shortcut, forget about girls, focus and work solely on self betterment and everything you want and even didn’t know you wanted will unfold before you on your path. This is what I have learned following Rich’s teachings.
Andrew Tate said it best, "you broke and out of shape because you either lazy, stupid or arrogant." and this dude represents all of that !!!
Lol Paul "the master" has spoken. This was a funny interaction
This was painful to watch. I hope he reads your book. I wish him the best.
He lives in St. Louis Missouri... typical rustbelt city. Its not he lives in a hot city like Austin, Miami, or Vegas where every other guy or third guy in the city is clearing after taxes at least 70-80K and there are an abundance of great jobs. Women in those kinds of cities don't tend to be as picky on the guy's income or job title. That said, this guy doesn't seem have the ability to properly assess himself or set proper goals for himself. This guy doesn't have a plan if he is content with just clearing the essentials financially with ridesharing. I wish this guy well that he can get his mind off women and start focusing on what really matters (his own life).
I read your book within 24 hours of buying it, really good advice overall and very good read.
Poor Paul. Time is chasing him more than women are. I hope he can reflect off of this conversation and get the ball rolling. He's living like a 16 year old. He just oozes little to no discipline. Living in the now. I know I have my problems too, but I'm working on them. Just found your channel. You earned a sub sir!
Spot on
Tough - but I respect him doing the work and being here. Not easy...I wish the best for his ascend!
BY FAR the funniest Richard Cooper clip i've ever seen LOL "Paul The Masterbator" hahahahaha
He said he would steal her from him in a second. Shit you gotta catch these hands first old man 🥊
I don’t wanna pile on this guy…. But he is the norm; this is where we are. I applaud him for at least trying, calling in and attempting to make a change.
Very good advice Rich. Difficult to talk to a guy like this.
Probably the best phone call "Paul The Master" has ever made.
Hard truth but needed to be said.
Rich is laying the tough love… good on him!
Definitely one of the best clips from Rich that I’ve seen since following him for the past year. 🤔🤣😂
That was a great ending, Rich sent him off on a positive tone. Like the dude is already getting phone numbers and some interactions. Rich gave him the correct areas to bring his focus. It was pretty rough in the middle, I know Paul needed to hear it. Glad Rich could end it in a way that acknowledged what Paul already had and has. Good public health messaging too on the obesity issue. I hope Paul takes it to heart and truly pursues excellence. He seems to have a Solid Soul
I like Rich's' approach which is a moderate and balanced way of seeing things: Not leaning mainly on PUA and "doing the work" to looksmax and chase excellene.
Poor dude was about to cry at the end. I feel for him. If he wants it bad enough, he will change if not, he will remain the same
I got into the pickup stuff when I was 24, it was great. But that was 14 years ago. I wish Unplugged was out back then.
Man this guy was like a woman on a Kevin Samuels video, "yeah but" people can be soo frustrating when it comes to their own lives.
6:32 No. The part he mentioned at 6:32 is a low barrier to entry motivator for younger men (age 15 - 21ish) to get started, but for him at his age, it's a completely different world, a much harder world if you are way behind. No amount of magical thinking, be strong in your own reality BS minset will compensate decades of deficiency cuz you chose to be lazy in the past. The you today is what you have been doing for the past 10+, 20+ or 30+ years ago.
wish i had this guy's confidence.
I hope you're referring to RICH and not the caller.
@@Danimal77LoL
Good job Rich... Blunt hard truth was needed.
I'm 35, 5'5", weigh 194 lbs, don't make much money and even I admit that I have a problem. This guy who claims to be the "Master" can't recognize he has a problem that needs working on.
Also 9:52, that was awesome Rich. Got him good.
Also, also, I have your book on Audible and listen to it a lot.
Im 37, 5'6, 205, broke. I know what your saying, i am aware of my value and its really hard to just get fit and make much more money. The guy doesnt know his issues and still try to get women thinking that his nice personality or being funny will get him a decent value woman without kids, and win her over some asshole rich guy. At this age, if your short, fat, poor, you will not get any good results if your still trying to chase women. Its either accepting the fact and be happy, or chase excellence.
lol you handled that well - saw your mind blow as soon as uber came up -
He seem like a good person hope he will get his life back on track
Is he lying that he's 35? Looks 40+ easy
he was trolling the whole time. wake up.
He is 32 years old making $70,000
Not all of the delivery DoorDash food is making it to its destination, unless the destination is Paul's stomach.
This is my competition? Let's goooo 🤣
😂😂 facts
Thanks for being honest with him Rich. This is the best thing for him. Work on excellence bro, you got this. Stop denying reality
Cooper's going savage on this g
I ordered the book on Amazon yesterday! Can't wait!
I read the unplugged alpha and it changed my perception on women and life in general. Whenever I have a set back, I re read the pages I highlighted.
Just want to touch on the topic of his drug dealer friend who is successful with women. Drug dealers typically have alpha traits. Dangerous job, lot’s of cash, and lots of attention from “customers”. To female addicts who crave what the dealer is providing, within that context a Drug dealer is high value. I’ve never met a drug dealer who couldn’t get laid. lol
I hope he gets over this...i have been there and i got above it....its tough but hut he can overcome
Dude just makes excuses. You GOTTA be accountable with your life and where you’re at and be realistic with yourself. That’s the only way this dude is gonna go anywhere. The excuse making is a major problem, he probably won’t get anywhere.
Everybody needs to just get effin ripped! Not even muscles, just fight club ripped. Then, start from there.
physical attraction is everything