See How 2 Families Make Life Work Under 1 Roof

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  • Опубліковано 20 сер 2018
  • Sisters Cathy Surianello and Debbie Scofield spend a lot of time together, which means their husbands and kids spend a lot of time together. So after years of joint vacations, holidays and weekends, the two families thought living in separate houses was a bit inefficient. “All of a sudden you say, ‘We’re always together,’” says Debbie’s husband Douglas. “‘Why are we going to separate houses with cars at night? We could just go to separate bedrooms.’”
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  • @marilynjones5749
    @marilynjones5749 5 років тому +735

    Fun! One mortgage. More money for vacations.

  • @muhamadzafriakadi5946
    @muhamadzafriakadi5946 5 років тому +736

    In Asia, most of the families i know are living this way. Congratulations! U will be awesome kids.

  • @ezra86
    @ezra86 5 років тому +759

    Finally some NORMAL people that TAKE OFF THEIR SHOES INSIDE THE HOUSE

  • @andreaaier5801
    @andreaaier5801 5 років тому +1137

    That's such a normal thing in India. We have families over 15 people living together in one roof.

  • @nytkyt
    @nytkyt 5 років тому +358

    this is very typical set up here in th Philippines... mostly more extended...lol like with grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins 😂😂😂

  • @hari325
    @hari325 5 років тому +232

    Our family has a mini apartment complex where each of my aunts and uncles are neighbors to my parents. Though that is not technically living together, it still makes me feel a lot better about living away from my parents as they won't be lonely at least and will have someone with them in case of emergency. Love it

  • @empirestate8791
    @empirestate8791 4 роки тому +38

    Go to Accra, Ghana. 20-30 people live in giant compound houses. The elderly get a roof over their head, the sick get care, and everyone watches out for everyone else.

  • @juliavogt2265
    @juliavogt2265 6 років тому +375

    First i thought they are crazy, but the more i watched i got their idea, such a unique livestyle, it makes total sence👍🏻

  • @andrykoumis8290
    @andrykoumis8290 5 років тому +230

    All I know is that this home is absolutely beautiful and omg who wouldn't want to live in it!

  • @ccld4341
    @ccld4341 4 роки тому +32

    “as soon as they saw the billiards room, they were all in” honestly, relatable.

  • @professionalcommenter
    @professionalcommenter 5 років тому +55

    If I had a relationship like this with my sister that would be perfect! But I have lived with my sister and I would rather live on the street then live with her again.

  • @karenculpepper973
    @karenculpepper973 6 років тому +83

    That’s an example of family!

  • @melsy203
    @melsy203 6 років тому +173

    We’ve just started construction on our brand new multi-generational home! This story just warms my heart to know it really can work! ❤️

  • @Julia-rq7uj
    @Julia-rq7uj 6 років тому +215

    aw man, i wish i could see the floor plan of this house

  • @emmajang2370
    @emmajang2370 6 років тому +102

    I’m so impressed that they’re making this dynamic work

  • @angie38
    @angie38 4 роки тому +30

    Families in America really need to do this. I didn't grow up around family so now I don't have a connection to my cousins.

  • @sheblesst.v2166
    @sheblesst.v2166 5 років тому +16

    Wish I knew a family I could do this with... What a JOY to have support & love under the same roof.

  • @JoJo927198
    @JoJo927198 4 роки тому +38

    Not crazy at all. This is how I grew up in Jamaica. Moving here (The US) with just Me, my mom and my younger sister has been the hardest thing to get used to. Big families are amazing.

  • @aziraaziz4307
    @aziraaziz4307 4 роки тому +59

    In Malaysia it is normal to have 3 generations living together.

  • @clair3kee432
    @clair3kee432 5 років тому +75

    Dang this is so cool. I wish I lived like this while growing up. Now I’m a bitter 22 year old living on my own not close with any of my family 😂lol

  • @hollywood7702
    @hollywood7702 5 років тому +10

    I love this, it is common to live like this in many parts of the world, in Greece our family live in flats on top of each other so almost the same, grandmas on bottom for easy access. I wish this was more common so many lonely people especially the elders would have a cozy home filled with love rather than a lonely elder home.

  • @madday9589
    @madday9589 4 роки тому +15

    When I was younger me and my cousins lived in the same house with our grandparents, it's common in a lot of cultures

  • @matthewmosier8439
    @matthewmosier8439 4 роки тому +9

    I'm pretty much convinced that sharing mealtimes is one of the most important parts of raising a connected family.

  • @keitafoxy7428
    @keitafoxy7428 5 років тому +130

    This is not unusual. Many cultures live this way. I guess what’s unique is that they designed a house around this way of living. But many homes have joint families.

  • @yvonneasafoadjei6352
    @yvonneasafoadjei6352 6 років тому +343

    This is beautiful! I also think this kind of family setting is working for them because both women are sisters ( family)! Though the guys ain’t from the same parents, men get along pretty great! I strongly believe things might have Bn different if the guys were brothers with the women from different parents!

  • @sigco1019
    @sigco1019 4 роки тому +5

    This is a really good idea for the couples because even after all the kids are grown up and move out they will have each other. Not so much of empty nest syndrome. They can grow old together and the holidays will be fun.

  • @saloniarya4336
    @saloniarya4336 5 років тому +46

    Most of the families in India are joint family. 3 to 4 generation live together and it's very common.

  • @teelov1966
    @teelov1966 6 років тому +41

    Wow. Loved this! So many people could live so much better if they were simply willing to share. ❤️

  • @nancysnider5348
    @nancysnider5348 6 років тому +15

    Love this families commitment to making it work and in such beautiful surroundings.

  • @rialand6016
    @rialand6016 6 років тому +122

    I love y'all, this is what family should be like. Love it!♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡

  • @Angelgurl2
    @Angelgurl2 4 роки тому +5

    I like it, I have always envisioned my mom and aunt living under the same roof enjoying big family dinners because they were always together anyway,and that bed room balcony is my dream.

  • @BadBoyHank
    @BadBoyHank 6 років тому +34

    I'm glad it's working for them. Novel idea for the 21st century!

  • @joyg3189
    @joyg3189 4 роки тому +1

    I and my husband also bought a home with one of my sisters and her husband. We planned to flip it and take the money to buy our own homes, but the arrangement worked so well for us we've been together for 21 years. We each have 5 children, and with so much adult supervision we have also been able to foster as well. This family listed many of the benefits of dual family living. You have to be willing to give up a little autonomy, but having the support right at home is wonderful. If you're interested in this living arrangement I would strongly suggest you do this like they did and buy a home with family that you're always spending time with. It's a like a marriage, you've got to enjoy each others company and have very similar lifestyles. Also, we found a realtor who caught our vision and helped us find a home that gave us plenty of private space. That's really important.

  • @millamikolenko5956
    @millamikolenko5956 4 роки тому +2

    That kitchen and the organization level....wow. GOALS

  • @andii256
    @andii256 4 роки тому +16

    multigenerational families living together in houses smaller than that is so common in asia.

  • @Liven78
    @Liven78 6 років тому +8

    This family story makes me smile and proud. This is a very good family story. Very inspiring!

  • @HeismyShepard
    @HeismyShepard 5 років тому +20

    Such a wonderful set up! I love it! I think pretty much most of the world outside America and parts of Europe live like this. I believe this is a trend that’s going to be more and more common in the U.S. just based on economic factors and the need for emotional support. I salute y’all

  • @ArtyBicardi
    @ArtyBicardi 5 років тому +10

    I'm single and live alone in a 5 bedroom home lol I need this in my life!

  • @noworriesimfijian
    @noworriesimfijian 5 років тому +8

    You really need to have that family dynamic for it to work. Great design, be interesting to hear from the kids how they feel about growing up in this type of house.They seem to make it work, God bless them.

  • @NotSoNaturalLife
    @NotSoNaturalLife 5 років тому +9

    Very cool. I wish more families did this!

  • @revised-reality
    @revised-reality 6 років тому +74

    Jeez, Cathy has some great taste.

  • @clementine.6.2.2
    @clementine.6.2.2 5 років тому +29

    Tbh if you can work it out , living together is pretty cool

  • @bookwormwonder
    @bookwormwonder 4 роки тому +3

    Wonderful idea! Love the family wanting to be together and helping each other. We need more of those ideals.

  • @mathwizree
    @mathwizree 4 роки тому +7

    This is way more than a house it's a home with a beautiful family 😍

  • @janedoe805
    @janedoe805 3 роки тому +1

    If you’re lucky enough to have a wonderful, kind and loving family... This is a fabulous idea!

  • @jerrypie
    @jerrypie 6 років тому +38

    I think this is cool. As a child my family and my cousins family shared a small two bedroom townhouse, 10 people under one roof.

  • @treasure2behold282
    @treasure2behold282 5 років тому +5

    I think it's great. I wish I had this growing up. Now we all fragmented and fractured as a family unit.

  • @KamalSingh-ej9lf
    @KamalSingh-ej9lf 3 роки тому +1

    So nice to see joint family together

  • @leslieonabudget
    @leslieonabudget 6 років тому +11

    What a big happy families. 💖💖💖

  • @stedmans4christ
    @stedmans4christ 6 років тому +3

    Wow, what an incredible family...love this

  • @sheilaarp6453
    @sheilaarp6453 4 роки тому

    This was so awesome and the home was so beautiful may you all have a long and blessed life

  • @mahalakshmisivashankar1742
    @mahalakshmisivashankar1742 4 роки тому +1

    Very heartwarming!! Blessed sisters..

  • @webaholicsweet
    @webaholicsweet 6 років тому +14

    oMG this is beautiful and what a great Family !!

  • @sandyg.3454
    @sandyg.3454 6 років тому +8

    Beautiful family, beautiful home!🌷

  • @prodrummer55
    @prodrummer55 5 років тому +90

    It's like Thanksgiving everyday

  • @Karina-er7mx
    @Karina-er7mx 6 років тому +10

    That’s so rare to see & so beautiful 😍

  • @kb9847
    @kb9847 6 років тому +9

    Amazing!!!!! I giggled cuz there are even 2 dogs!! Thank you for sharing your beautiful space.

  • @khadijaelboushi7742
    @khadijaelboushi7742 5 років тому +60

    I don’t understand why Americans find normal things a taboo?? Families live with each other in Europe Africa and Asia it’s totally normal

  • @sylviajones2911
    @sylviajones2911 6 років тому +16

    Love it, would have liked to see the rest of the house

  • @mintayayy27
    @mintayayy27 4 роки тому

    Its nice to see this, grew up with a small family and nothing I know resembles how these people live so its interesting to see it work

  • @liberty0622
    @liberty0622 5 років тому +1

    Yes,yes,yes so special and lovely -make my day to watch this 👍👌👍

  • @betteryourlife865
    @betteryourlife865 5 років тому +2

    That house is so gorgeous I wouldn’t mind sharing it with lots of people. The cousins will be so close too!

  • @monicalucius6993
    @monicalucius6993 4 роки тому +1

    Awesome..... Beautiful home.... Beautiful families.... Blessings

  • @alexandrafox7660
    @alexandrafox7660 4 роки тому +5

    This is so beautiful, wish this was more of a American Cultural norm.

  • @Zaiba25
    @Zaiba25 5 років тому +1

    God bless you all , you’re inspirational wish you guys many happy years together in your new home 💖

  • @bellaolum1230
    @bellaolum1230 4 роки тому

    What a beautiful home! This wouldn't work for most people but I would like to try it maybe for a month, great support system and you can never be lonely💕

  • @makesitauti1552
    @makesitauti1552 4 роки тому

    Beautiful family beautiful home and beautiful life with good food hugs frm Sacramento 😊

  • @TMB62
    @TMB62 4 роки тому +1

    This was just absolutely beautiful to watch

  • @aliciastephen6543
    @aliciastephen6543 5 років тому +2

    Beautiful family and beautiful home! ❤️

  • @flashylights
    @flashylights 4 роки тому

    Thats a beautiful thing that they all love and enjoy eachothers company that much

  • @GREENLALI
    @GREENLALI 6 років тому +59

    I can live in the same acre with separate homes. But I can't live in the same home together. I like to have my home my own way and raising my kids my way.

  • @emmy9985
    @emmy9985 5 років тому +36

    In our community here in the Middle East that's very common even with strange sister in low or sisters ..not a real true sister.. and many times with parents in law.. it's very much normal for us

  • @nikkistahr7105
    @nikkistahr7105 5 років тому +19

    Very interesting..my mothers generation was like this when they were young but as the children grew..each family moved into their own homes..and so i was raised in a traditional single family home..my cousins the same...and now we are starting to get married and create our own families it would be interesting to present something like this.. (we are all graduate or doctorate level healthcare professionals and a couple lawyers..so we all have crazy stufent loans) this could be a wonderful investment into our futures if even for a short while to help us gain financial footing and pay down on our debt. I love this!

  • @leeteplitz7673
    @leeteplitz7673 4 роки тому

    What a stunning home! Beautiful family

  • @bozome682
    @bozome682 4 роки тому

    Unbelievable ,just wonderful for them to get on so so well.......great design ....

  • @krkkr2248
    @krkkr2248 4 роки тому +2

    In South Asia this is what u see in most families 😍. Love that it’s coming to west! U guys will enjoy this living. The coolest thing is u have people around for always ,and depression have a ‘no entry’ to this home 😍

  • @briarrose3155
    @briarrose3155 6 років тому +3

    Interesting concept, thanks for sharing.

  • @angelaexhorts
    @angelaexhorts 6 років тому +3

    Love it, family is important!

  • @Just.J.00
    @Just.J.00 6 років тому +3

    Fantastic home! Fantastic family!

  • @stevedolesch9241
    @stevedolesch9241 4 роки тому

    I reallly enjoy looking at this. Good for them. And yes, I wish others could live like them. They support each other especially the children.

  • @ishakumar2336
    @ishakumar2336 5 років тому +2

    Beautiful Family god Bless them

  • @melissamacedward-juhl6813
    @melissamacedward-juhl6813 5 років тому

    I absolutely love this idea!!!

  • @muurisoras5878
    @muurisoras5878 4 роки тому +1

    Great idea !!beautiful home& family

  • @mjuhubbko2133
    @mjuhubbko2133 5 років тому +3

    I love the idea of this I’ve always dreamed of living like this

  • @allthingshome6953
    @allthingshome6953 5 років тому +2

    This is wonderful!

  • @sunshinelucy105
    @sunshinelucy105 5 років тому

    Wow, this is beautiful.

  • @margaretmungroo8518
    @margaretmungroo8518 5 років тому +1

    So beautiful great family values

  • @pcmohd
    @pcmohd 6 років тому +2

    I love this video , thanks

  • @waynepayne9875
    @waynepayne9875 4 роки тому

    This is really wholesome.

  • @claudeand9836
    @claudeand9836 5 років тому +1

    We live this way in Oregon although fewer kids and a lot more typical home. Husband and his sister rather than two sisters however. It works very well for us.

  • @Ammu-gb3wg
    @Ammu-gb3wg 5 років тому +1

    Hi I like the houzz design because it's simple, functional, bright colors, utilization of space etc

  • @joebigtown7876
    @joebigtown7876 4 роки тому +1

    That’s how we live in Nigeria 🇳🇬. Well done guys it hard to see a two families living together in Europe. I’ve live in UK for decades never seen anything like this here 🇬🇧. 2019.

  • @jamelswan8193
    @jamelswan8193 6 років тому +7

    Simply lovely!! I want to come over for Sunday sauce (that looked amazing👅).

  • @tkc8696
    @tkc8696 4 роки тому +3

    Joint families are the best. Very common in india. Grew up in one. Feel so lucky.

  • @elainewilliams1918
    @elainewilliams1918 4 роки тому +4

    Nice,I always thought that me and my twin sister would have a house together since both of our fiancé are best friends.

  • @svietka202
    @svietka202 2 роки тому

    Omg, love love love everything about their way of life. Oh ye, the house is awesome as well

  • @tooblessedtobestressed1538
    @tooblessedtobestressed1538 4 роки тому +2

    And this is truly the way to live.

  • @destinystonebraker4321
    @destinystonebraker4321 8 місяців тому

    I would love to be a part of a family like this. How amazing.

  • @feyialabi7080
    @feyialabi7080 4 роки тому

    This is beautiful!

  • @flyystarr
    @flyystarr 5 років тому +1

    I thought it would look like living in a hotel and it does. I would want that top porch for sure! I wish we cudda seen the layout for the house.