i dont usually comment on anything, but i have to say that your daughter is a really lucky girl to have such amazing parents.. thank you for sharing your stories with us Sheila, youre amazing x
Thank you for sharing your personal stories with us, I'm sure it's not easy to talk about the sad parts in your relationship with your mom. But I'm glad that you decided to learn from that experience and avoid practising all those negative actions with your lovely child. God bless you all, you are a beautiful family 🙏🏻❤️
I heard about her story and i had to ask her privately and she really adviced me on how to be a best mom even though i don't live with my child an glad my relationship with my child improve since that time❤
When I was a kid, my parents always asked me what I did at school that day, so by the time I was a teenager, I would automatically tell them what I did in the day and we would laugh together a lot about the funny stories. So I think it is possible to have a strong bond even as parent and teenager
Listening to you talk about your childhood and what you want to do differently with your daughter made me tear up you sound like an amazing mother and you sound like you will continue to be an amazing mother
Im actually crying instead of sleeping today, not all perents are so caring ,kind,understanding and loving like you😢even my own .keep up the good work of being a good mother and never change .(god bless you,and i hope you heal from your childhood life❤)
Way to go, great parenting from you both! You guys are raising her right, especially when it comes to tablets & phones. My nieces and nephews are glued to those devices and when their parents try to take it away they throw a tantrum. Even though you went through a traumatic childhood, it wasn’t in vain. That experience prepared you to be the best mother for your baby she is safe and she will never forget it. Through that you heal your inner child ❤. Thank you for sharing Shiela!
Hi Sheila, thank you for the video. I am 21 years old, and a student living in Africa and I relate so much to the stories you tell because even though times changed not all parents have moved away from the old style of parenting. Your videos help me fall asleep after long sessions of studying. Weirdly today, I couldn't fall asleep because I was too invested in the story. So with gentle parenting, how do you discipline your baby?
Also, in a situation where there's a baby younger than your baby in the same building that has trouble falling asleep but when she does your baby has a meltdown and starts screaming. You're aware of the other baby and have the parents have expressed themselves about the effects of the meltdown would you just let your baby cry and have the meltdown without shushing her? Please do not take offence, the concept of gentle parenting has raised a lot of questions for me.
To your point, I too was wondering if they take into consideration how their baby's meltdowns affect those around them? Like you said, no offense to them, but the concept of "gentle parenting" should not mean disregarding others in public or shared spaces. To me, it's rather inconsiderate when/if the parent(s) does nothing to control the meltdown, esp. around others. This is not a poor reflection on Sheila and IB at all. It's just that children need discipline of some sort. To me, "gentle parenting" yields bratty, undisciplined behavior.
It would be nice with a close up session with scratch, nitpicking and blowing. Like some of the older videos without talking. Love your videos. Marry Christmas 🎄
If you like zombie stuff, train to busan is a very good kdrama movie. If you like romance shows. Queen of tears is on Netflix it’s very good. If you like reality tv type shows, singles inferno. Very good and underrated
Hi my beautiful couple I'm one of your 900's followers I've been watching your videos for years and I really really miss your scratching without tools only nails 💓
Toddlers have meltdowns for completely random reasons ..😂😂😂. I don't miss it at all! Teenagers are challenginge, too, but nothing compares to a toddler having a tantrum.
Girl, I was just wondering if you use UV light (in nail dryiers) when you do your nails. It could be dangerous (in case your nail artist use them). Just want you to be safe. Love your content from france
I'm sorry toddlers don't have melt downs they throw temper tantrums. Please please don't gentle parent it turns into future discipline issues and respect issues..love your videos.
Gentle parenting is authoritative parenting as apposed to authoritarian. What you're thinking of is permissive parenting. The authoritarian deals in control, shame, anger and force, the permissive parent makes no attempt to correct or change harmful behaviors. Gentle parenting is authoritative parenting, recognizing that the parent is a guiding authority in the child's life, but also knowing that yelling/physical/emotional punishment isn't always the most effective way to change behavior
Do you think that’s dandruff in his hair like that? Or she puts a type of powder in his hair to make the flakes? All the vids he has a lot of white flakes lol.
You guys are great parents, but I disagree that it’s the parents fault if a child acts out. Kids will be kids sometimes….even if you’re loving and supportive…
you need topic that's going to last long? talk about food! people love food, especially those who would love to try other culture's cuisine but can't travel. that describe the nicer places that you've been at. people are out there living as icicles and could probably use a relaxing description of some place warm. 😂
its funny how differently people react to asmr. Some people love the whispering, but to me, its like nails on a chalkboard, too loud, sends horrible shivers of disgust down my spine. same with any kind of mouth noises and breathing noises. but the sound of crunching or clacking or scratching, or videos like dogs grooming etc are all delicious to me haha
@@JessicaIgwe-lt7yv its the youtube comment section. I have the right to an opinion, and what I said wasn't even rude. I love some of her other videos. I just dont particularly like the whispering. In fact i quite hate the whispering. I opened this new video, heard the whispering, got annoyed, found it funny that I got annoyed for something so silly, then thought about it for a second and left my comment. For some reason YOU'RE the one that's butt hurt about it
i dont usually comment on anything, but i have to say that your daughter is a really lucky girl to have such amazing parents.. thank you for sharing your stories with us Sheila, youre amazing x
Hi 👋🏾 Bean, thanks so much for tuning
In and for the love, we appreciate it ❤️ being a mom is the best gift I ever got really.
Thank you for sharing your personal stories with us, I'm sure it's not easy to talk about the sad parts in your relationship with your mom. But I'm glad that you decided to learn from that experience and avoid practising all those negative actions with your lovely child. God bless you all, you are a beautiful family 🙏🏻❤️
I heard about her story and i had to ask her privately and she really adviced me on how to be a best mom even though i don't live with my child an glad my relationship with my child improve since that time❤
OMG. Keeping the screens out of your babies' hands is the BEST thing you can be doing for her right now. Well done!
When I was a kid, my parents always asked me what I did at school that day, so by the time I was a teenager, I would automatically tell them what I did in the day and we would laugh together a lot about the funny stories. So I think it is possible to have a strong bond even as parent and teenager
I was about to watch 1 of your previous sessions and then the notification popped up😊😁
Hi 👋🏾 Richelle, thanks for tuning in ❤️❤️❤️❤️ enjoy
This is going to be my lullaby in 2 hours when I go to sleep 🛌 🇿🇦
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I am so happy I saw this right when I got to bed ❤❤❤
Listening to you talk about your childhood and what you want to do differently with your daughter made me tear up you sound like an amazing mother and you sound like you will continue to be an amazing mother
Im actually crying instead of sleeping today, not all perents are so caring ,kind,understanding and loving like you😢even my own .keep up the good work of being a good mother and never change .(god bless you,and i hope you heal from your childhood life❤)
Way to go, great parenting from you both! You guys are raising her right, especially when it comes to tablets & phones. My nieces and nephews are glued to those devices and when their parents try to take it away they throw a tantrum. Even though you went through a traumatic childhood, it wasn’t in vain. That experience prepared you to be the best mother for your baby she is safe and she will never forget it. Through that you heal your inner child ❤. Thank you for sharing Shiela!
Hi Sheila, thank you for the video. I am 21 years old, and a student living in Africa and I relate so much to the stories you tell because even though times changed not all parents have moved away from the old style of parenting. Your videos help me fall asleep after long sessions of studying. Weirdly today, I couldn't fall asleep because I was too invested in the story. So with gentle parenting, how do you discipline your baby?
It’s 00:00 in South Africa❤️❤️❤️ I love watching your videos 🥹 please never stop
Your baby is so lucky to have a great parents like you❤❤❤
Much appreciated and Merry Christmas family
Hi 👋🏾 Charlotte, thanks for tuning in and for the love this year, we truly appreciate you 🥹. Merry Christmas Fam ❤️❤️❤️
My favorites!!!! 🩷🩷 thank you for sharing those stories with us. Your daughter is living such an amazing life, i loved every story you told.
Thanks as always She and Ib❤...btw loved your Christmas photos 😊
Heyyy guys I was wondering if you can bring back the zoomed videos
I'm pretty sure they still post zoomed videos on patreon/ UA-cam membership
Gracias por estos vidros relajantes, me ayudan mucho con mi ansiedad 🙏🏻❤️
Right on time ❤ 🇿🇦
Perfect timing ❤ lots of love ♥️
Also, in a situation where there's a baby younger than your baby in the same building that has trouble falling asleep but when she does your baby has a meltdown and starts screaming. You're aware of the other baby and have the parents have expressed themselves about the effects of the meltdown would you just let your baby cry and have the meltdown without shushing her? Please do not take offence, the concept of gentle parenting has raised a lot of questions for me.
To your point, I too was wondering if they take into consideration how their baby's meltdowns affect those around them? Like you said, no offense to them, but the concept of "gentle parenting" should not mean disregarding others in public or shared spaces. To me, it's rather inconsiderate when/if the parent(s) does nothing to control the meltdown, esp. around others. This is not a poor reflection on Sheila and IB at all. It's just that children need discipline of some sort. To me, "gentle parenting" yields bratty, undisciplined behavior.
It would be nice with a close up session with scratch, nitpicking and blowing. Like some of the older videos without talking. Love your videos. Marry Christmas 🎄
Thank you so much for your consistency ❤
Wonderful and relaxing video merry Christmas to you and family ❤
Encore une belle video
Mery chrismas🎅🎅🎅🎅
Could you tell us how you guys met? Or if there is a video about it to link it somehow? Merry Christmas 🎄
If you like zombie stuff, train to busan is a very good kdrama movie. If you like romance shows. Queen of tears is on Netflix it’s very good. If you like reality tv type shows, singles inferno. Very good and underrated
Yasssss love that movie it's so good
Also yes , singles inferno is so good
You don’t do extreme close ups anymore? 😢
I like your simple make up❤
Thank you Moralia ❤️❤️❤️
Спасибо за прекрасное видео. Всегда рада вас видеть❤
Easiest video to help you sleep ❤️❤️❤️
Very MERRY CHRISTMAS TO YOU AND YOURS from Oregon
An early Xmas present to watch ❤
I prefer your videos zoomed in
Hello from 🇿🇦 I just love u guys
Hi 👋🏾 Askale, thanks for tuning in ❤️❤️
Hi my beautiful couple I'm one of your 900's followers I've been watching your videos for years and I really really miss your scratching without tools only nails 💓
Hey there, beautiful family!! ❤❤
I need a Sheila in my life, the way I enjoy my hair being played with😂😂😂
Sheila sempre com sua voz doce
Usually our parents do not know our deepest desires, that we are born with. But we do not know how to explain at that age.
Thee best !!
Sheila looking stunning 😍😍😍😍
😊😊😊 thank you 🛌🛌🛌
You’re welcome 😊
Yippy my sleeping medicine n it's raining in east london south Africa
Toddlers have meltdowns for completely random reasons ..😂😂😂. I don't miss it at all! Teenagers are challenginge, too, but nothing compares to a toddler having a tantrum.
Girl, I was just wondering if you use UV light (in nail dryiers) when you do your nails. It could be dangerous (in case your nail artist use them). Just want you to be safe. Love your content from france
Perfect
Hi frome Morocco 🇲🇦,
Buenas tarde me qusta mucho esos videos felis navidad
Hello❤
you are very wise
I'm sorry toddlers don't have melt downs they throw temper tantrums. Please please don't gentle parent it turns into future discipline issues and respect issues..love your videos.
Gentle parenting is authoritative parenting as apposed to authoritarian. What you're thinking of is permissive parenting. The authoritarian deals in control, shame, anger and force, the permissive parent makes no attempt to correct or change harmful behaviors. Gentle parenting is authoritative parenting, recognizing that the parent is a guiding authority in the child's life, but also knowing that yelling/physical/emotional punishment isn't always the most effective way to change behavior
Just make sure she knows that if she does something wrong she needs to apologize.
I I'm in love with all your videos but these new ones I'm not a fan of I like the up close to scratch the dandruff and white heads
Do you think that’s dandruff in his hair like that? Or she puts a type of powder in his hair to make the flakes? All the vids he has a lot of white flakes lol.
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Hi 👋🏾 Shaheen, thanks for tuning in ❤️
When's a dentist one
I love your videos👍🫶
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Can you please do a video of you doing a hair mask treatment with the conditioner. I really enjoy them I enjoy all the videos
You guys are great parents, but I disagree that it’s the parents fault if a child acts out. Kids will be kids sometimes….even if you’re loving and supportive…
you need topic that's going to last long? talk about food! people love food, especially those who would love to try other culture's cuisine but can't travel. that describe the nicer places that you've been at. people are out there living as icicles and could probably use a relaxing description of some place warm. 😂
Is it really Sheila if a cut from part of the video isn’t pasted at the end?😂
🤣 this is my edit 😄
@ crazy 😂🤣
Dommage qu il n y a pas les sous titre
Next time she has a fit get to her level or get her to your level and tell her look at you and breathe in breathe out until she calms down
Zoom the videos
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I from myanmar😘
i would like to know if you and your husband accepts another husband. just for the asmr part.
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‘Reason to cry’, I suppose it’s an African thing
Babies can see and hear the spirits, and some of the spirits are not very nice. You are being very good and loving to your baby. God bless.
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Cute
Hi 👋🏾 Alanna, thanks for tuning in ❤️❤️
its funny how differently people react to asmr. Some people love the whispering, but to me, its like nails on a chalkboard, too loud, sends horrible shivers of disgust down my spine. same with any kind of mouth noises and breathing noises. but the sound of crunching or clacking or scratching, or videos like dogs grooming etc are all delicious to me haha
Then stop watching or keep it to yourself..
I agree with you 💯
@@JessicaIgwe-lt7yv its the youtube comment section. I have the right to an opinion, and what I said wasn't even rude. I love some of her other videos. I just dont particularly like the whispering. In fact i quite hate the whispering. I opened this new video, heard the whispering, got annoyed, found it funny that I got annoyed for something so silly, then thought about it for a second and left my comment.
For some reason YOU'RE the one that's butt hurt about it
I hate the whispering