Why not and why are we assuming what a different gender wants as well as redistricting what other genders can say about the same thing? If "women" can do it then anyone can, saying otherwise just makes you someone that stochasticglee brings about bigotry.
@@g.i.r.l. seriously I bearly wear makeup out of laziness but when I do I feel so confident and love it on other people! Someday maybe I'll get better at it and it won't be such a pain to do..
I think the intention og guys is alright, but the sentence could be framed properly. Like- "There are many girls out there, but you are the special one".
@@sourabhs14 I wouldn't say the intention is always good. They might want to say the girl is special, but they also might want to raise their value and importance by saying how popular they are. Might be a bit of both. But phrased this way it sounds more like bragging than a compliment.
Yeah but saying that someone is special... or saying that they're better than all the others make you a very selfish and weak-minded person because you decided to get with someone that's already at their best value... instead of helping a person who's working on themselves..(and (I'm not tryna make huge deal out of this ik it's just about a silly compliment but) If you've got that mindset, you'll break up too soon because people aren't always at their best values.
@@connorstones4181 People usually get blind to the faults of the other person when they first fall in love (rose-colored glasses), so the person might actually seem near perfect. Should they ditch every person they develop a crush on because they should pick someone they see as a project instead? That relationship will probably fall apart much faster. Also nothing wrong with saying someone is special, it usually means they are special to you, not that they are objectively better than everyone. And the way you speak about people at their best value and people who are working on themselves is weird. It's not that black and white. Everyone who's a decent person is more or less working on themselves. And this use of the word "value" seems kind of superficial. Dunno, it feels like there is a personal backstory to your comment, like a girl chose somebody else or something of that sort.
@Evija3000 Like you said.. they get blind when they FIRST fall in love. That alone proves my point that those types of hippy dippy fairy-tale relationships where they miraculously "ignore" their partner's faults will end in seconds. Real life isn't about all that. Dunno but seems to me like you've never had a real relationship with someone that understands, sees all your flaws and still chooses to stay. If someone says they don't see your faults and values that everyone else sees...... that's cap, the kind of white lies that lead to forming a whole other pile of real lies. And when you said it's like a project when you help somebody and the relationship will end faster, it doesn't make much sense because with today's relationships, they lack a lot of that willpower to work on the relationship itself or help their partner go through something. Besides it's even better when someone already knows what you've been through (because they were there) and sees how you handle things.... making it easier for them to respect you or see you as "special" I guess. But I really do respect your opinion... I like the way you look at the concept of love and specialty.... it's really important to have those rose-colored glasses that take place at the beginning of the relationship (which... I believe why a lot of people skedaddle from one partner to another to always get that feeling) We don't really know what's actually right or wrong and we might never! but we still try and that's probably good enough. Best of luck and I hope you live a happy, meaningful life with the one person you love!
My bf’s “compliments” on me. “Aww, your long skirt looks so cute, it looks like a curtain ☺️” “Aww your nails looks so good! It looks like a bamboo🎋” He’s bad at complimenting but I adore him. 😂
@@JakeFish5058 That can be interpreted in a very shallow way. You think your girlfriend is cute because she is just considered to be socially/objectively cute?
Yes, of course everyone does it subconsciously- it’s just knowing how attractive you find someone. But it really is an asshole move to say it out loud to them directly
I eat so much but I'm so freaking skinny and I hate not having some weight on. I don't like being asked if I eat, I shouldn't even have to answer that. It's another reason why I'm so insecure.
Girls get self esteem idk how but any hoo just wanted to let you know that first compliment is 100% true when we say it we mean it like tf are girls insecure about their faces I did not know that,so if a guy tells you that you look better without make up he's spitting facts just so you know.
@Paul Brandel bro you’re being sexist..how does it feel when you’re angry or when you’re in a negative mood but there’s someone telling you to smile...ppl should be aware with what they’re saying
this reminds me of the time my male boss told me he "was surprised I knew that word," when I used a slightly more advanced word in an interview with him. People's biases and insecurities often reveal themselves in the way they choose to backhand compliment others
People don’t approach people cause they “look smart” in fact liking someone according to their intelligence level isn’t much better anyway. The reason this is bad is because it’s condescending
@@LG-vd6wt I'm pretty sure the commented wasn't saying that you should approach someone because of their intelligence, but it almost hints that the person thought you were "dumb and easy."
“Your attractive for a disabled girl” Something I still cannot cannot believe was said to my face as a compliment. My disabilities are mostly “invisible” so I look mostly normal but still the most backhanded “compliment” I’ve ever received
I’ve kind have gotten that too. I have Crohn’s which is an autoimmune disease of your GI and because of that I have had many surgeries on my abdomen including my colon being removed and a permanent ostomy. You cannot tell looking at me. Even doctors and nurses have commented because I guess most people dress pretty awkwardly (at least older people) with an ostomy but I just do what I do. I’ve actually been told: “You look great considering everything!” What? I just have a lot of scars on my stomach, how is that considering?
my bf just told me the other day, “you look gorgeous without makeup, why do you need to wear it” and i know he meant it as a compliment but it just felt like… but i am supposed to look pretty, i feel good like this 😭
He means to him you look awful in make up and he prefers you without it,it's just a polite way of saying it in most cases and I'm pretty sure make up doesn't make a difference in your case in terms of beauty I mean,I'm curious to know why girls make up when in most cases they look better without it?? Is it a contest with other girls or something lol.
@@razortk77g95 well i don’t really cake it on, i’ll dab some concealer on, maybe some highlighter and mascara and call it a day, but i’ve noticed every time he says “wow you look extra gorgeous today” or “wow babe, today you’re really glowing” are all the days i decide to wear a little makeup and he doesn’t even know it. i think the girls that go crazy with makeup morning routines are a little much but honestly it’s whatever works for them. i know i personally can go out with or without makeup, i just like wearing it sometimes because it’s fun for myself, does that make any sense?
and it’s not really a contest with other girls, it definitely can be sometimes lol, but most of the time i don’t think so. its just a feeling of being “presentable”, like brushing your teeth or putting on deodorant. something for you to know you put effort into presenting yourself to society today :) obviously that’s just my opinion tho lol
Worked as a bartender. I’ve seen terrible compliments / pickup lines. The most common and the worst is “you look so much like my ex girlfriend”. Happens way more than you’d think.
@@yomilala8929 Eh, I'd disagree. It just feels like the only reason they want to be with you is because you remind them of their ex, really shows how they havent moved on yet and you are their distraction. Just a lot of unresolved complicated emotional shit that they're using you to free themselves mentally in the short term. But a relationship like this wont last for more than 2 months, and they'd most likely ditch you and crawl back to their ex or break up with you because they've moved on from their ex and you remind them too much of them.
@@raisya495 In my experience many long lasting relationships can begin with someone who hasnt moved on and considering that people are naturally pretty shallow...
The first one is for sure a compliment when we say it we mean it, like tf do girls have no self esteem,nobody cares if you spent hours on makeup when you literally look better without it,the rest of the compliments are weird af I don't think a man would ever say that ngl.
@@geraltofrivia7456 ok ok... i'm not angry, silly. I love you too, Witcher... Next time when you notice something that i do not, inform me... or else you will swim with frogs Love you 😘
Nope. That just means they find you unique or there's some sort of differentiator that makes them want to date you. That's literally the definition of attraction, it's why people date - the person is somehow special or more engaging / appealing to you than most other people, right? Otherwise you wouldn't be dating them... When you find someone you get feelings for, you generally have a connection / chemistry that you don't have with most other people, so by definition, they quite literally "aren't like most other girls / guys" to that person.
Just because someone isn't skinny doesn't make them fat. They can have an average figure (avergae as in correlating to weight) too, or thicc if u think abt it
“I could be with so many girls rn but I chose you” That sounds like a playboy tryna be loyal to a girl for once Someone need to pray real hard for that boy
I visited korea a lot of times because I'm half korean and I did art class there and they said to me in korean you're pretty good at art for a foreigner
I agree with all of these, except the non-make up part. I get that you want to look different with make-up, but most men are most attracted to women when they are without make-up. Make-up is for other women, and rarely for the man.
just a quick reminder for guys: saying "it's good that you're not a skinny girl" is basically the equivalent of when your girl says "it's okay the big ones hurt"
A couple weeks ago my bench-mate looked at me in utter shock and said "I hadn't noticed this before" "..what?" "You have a better mustache than I do" Was never insecure but about until that moment lmfao
The amount of times I've been told I'm hot for a cripple or hot for a wheelchair user is ridiculous! It was especially bad back when I was online dating. Thankfully my husband has never said something that stupid 🤣
what is that even suppose to mean😭 what does being disabled has to do with how you look. I am glad that you found someone that is actually smart and aware of how things should be. happy for you xx
@@NikkiScott1 one time when I went clubbing I met this sweet pleasant girl in a wheelchair like she lost her legs but I would have so asked her out…she was pretty gorgeous tbh. She went clubbing too and had a friend there to accompany her to make sure she was ok.
Thank you for enlightening all men about this because we men have absolutely no clue about these things really we don't and we would have never known these things without you thank you from all men 😵💫...
I’m a guy, and I’m not gonna lie; just about every single one of her points were fair. I do kind of disagree about the make up thing, but at the same time when you say something like that timing is everything. I’m pretty sure a girl would have a different reaction from a guy saying that depending on whether he said it after she put her makeup on or during a time when she doesn’t have her make up on. You know? EDIT: I guess understand now why girls hate the “You look better without makeup” compliment. It’s like if you had a favourite shirt or hat or shoes that you liked to wear to parties and someone came up to you and said something like “You would look better in a different shirt/shoes/hat.” It’s sort of a mean compliment that doesn’t accomplish anything. I was wrong
I sort of agree. But what I think she means is when guys(or anyone really) say “I like you better without/with makeup” or commenting unnecessarily on someone’s appearance in general can be harmful. That being said, if someone takes off their makeup and you just say “you look beautiful” without comparing to how they looked before, that can be very positive.
I disagree on the make up thing too. Sometimes I’ll say it because some girls feel like they have to wear make up to be pretty. And I don’t think anyone should feel like they have to change their face to be pretty. -side note: girl as well
i think it might be better to say "you look pretty even without makeup" rather than "you look better without makeup." or "you look the same" you know... the first one implies that the girl is pretty both with and without makeup while not comparing both looks, while the second and third one is kinda discrediting the efforts they spent on their makeup
Actually if a girl loves doing makeup and even if you said it when she doesn't have any she is going to think she did something wrong. Instead just say "you are a natural beauty". Avoid comparison. Edit: if*
Tbh I actually felt better when my partner said I looked better without makeup. My friends forced me into it and I was trying to hold back tears. He ran over to me, wiped it off and said he preferred my natural look, and even if I did wear makeup it was my personality that he cared for. I'm lucky to have him, sometimes I'm sad that I'm too flat and have acne but I think to that moment to help me find my happy place
It’s okay to have acne, you’re not alone there. And just because you do have some doesn’t mean that you’re flat, I’m sure you’re beautiful the way that you are! Your partner sounds pretty amazing. Remember to always do you and follow whatever makes you feel happy and comfortable, that’s all that matters!! I’m not gonna tell you to outright dump your friends but try talking to them and setting boundaries regarding what makes you comfortable/uncomfortable, maybe that’ll help to make your friendships stronger. And if they don’t accept that and try pushing past those boundaries, then remember: people who can’t deal with you having boundaries is because they were taking advantage of you not having any. Never do anything other than what you’re happy with.
this boy said to me once "you look pretty good for a tall girl" being tall is one of my biggest insecurities as a minor and i know it is for many other girls so when he said that, i dropped everything and said i couldnt like someone that ugly on the inside i know it sound like im overreacting but he said bad stuff bwfore that but him saying that just pushed me over the edge
"You look better without makeup" depends on the women. For eg if a women loves makeup she is going to feel either you are trying to mock her makeup skills or she isn't good at makeup and make her doubt But if a women doesn't like makeup and is doing it just for the society then it might be a compliment Problem is you ( the guy) might not know which category she belongs so better is to just avoid any comparison and just say "You are a natural beauty" it works.
The thing is even if I choose 9 out of 10 no make up look, I love doing my make up. I would love to do it when I feel to, not bc someone thinks of it. I can do bold make up just for fun. Don't want feel that pressure. Especially you know, when some guys try to lead girls' thoughts to a certain things.
@@flyfantasy6565 exactly. It's like saying to a guy, ugh thank god you are not into gaming and you actually read books, so smart. Its like a guy can like both....
There is also the girls that never learned to do make up and therefore never wears any makeup except for a little mascara but feels so ugly and really want to be able to do makeup but knows that if they do it’ll look worse then without it because they don’t have the money to buy the right products and tools. yeah, we exist too.
GIRL I LOVE YOU ❤my man says" you look pretty without makeup i hate when you wear makeup " and "i could have any b$tch i want but im with you" LIKE WTF I CANT RN
Perfect answer would be: "Your make up is so beautiful today. How long did it take?... What one hour? This looks gorgeous and sexy. You're sexy anyways as always."
The “I could be with any girl but I chose you” gives me 2016 Y/N wattpad stories when the bad alpha boy who “owns the school” is pinning Y/N against a locker vibes Edit: Thanks for the 1.1k likes!
What they mean is "you don't ACT like a virgin". And yeah, they can tell. You can clear up the confusion by admitting that yes, you had a lot of sex but not in that hole.
@@x.rohan.001 No, it's literally not. Average height for a woman in most countries is around 5'4/5'5. Only really places like Netherlands and Denmark where it's a bit taller like 5'7. Nothing wrong in being 5'8 as a girl but it's certainly above average. I say this as a man who is 5'8 and been told by girls that I'm "confident for a short guy" and other such things...even though 5'8 is actually on the lower end of average height for a man where I live lol
That's because you're a normal person and know that you don't have to take everything the wrong way. Not that someone can't be attractive with makeup, but I'm more attracted to natural beauty. Actually, I think natural beauty looks better even for people I'm not attracted to... Makeup takes away from that and I just don't think it looks as good. That's my preference.
@@alsokaitlin I understand. Different guys have different preferences. Some guys really like a lot of makeup... I'm just not one of those guys. My thing is; Ppl generally wear makeup to make themselves look better in some way. If you remove whatever makeup you have on and then you look completely different, it's generally less attractive. So if I found you attractive and got to know you without makeup, I won't have to worry about trying to be attracted to you when you look completely different than when I first decided I was attracted to the way you look... I dunno if I'm explaining this well enough, I hope so... I'm also wondering if there's a time in a girls life after years of wearing makeup, when she gets tired of buying it, wearing it, tired of her makeup routine, but continues to do it all simply because she's afraid those she's been around her whole life won't like the way she looks without it and she feels trapped now...? I dunno. There are quite a few different reasons for why I personally find it more attractive when a girl doesn't wear makeup. Or at least, isn't so completely attached to it. This is all my opinion and perspective. There are a ton out there. Just know that there are guys out there who are far more attracted to natural beauty than the artificial alternatives.
If someone tells you that you lost weight that's a compliment. Now if we are pestimistic and negative we will say "they are saying we was fat. Now if we are positive and grateful for what others tell us, we will take is a compliment because they are saying "we look good" Make sure to be positive and take nice things being said instead of turning around nice words into offensive stories, it only causes me problems down the road
That's overthinking to me. Telling someone they got better always implies they were less before, but taking it like this is wrong. I don't think there is something that men look up to as much as progressing. I'll quote a man i respect : "Being weak is not a shame, but staying weak is."
Facts this guy asked me “have you been hitting the gym your chest and arms look bigger” like come on bro are you implying that my chest was small and arms were skinny before bro that’s so fucked up to acknowledge my hard work dude
Well I’m a bit overweight and trying to actively lose weight so if someone told me I look like I lost weight I’d be happy xD to each their own I guess :)
Just because you lost or gained weight doesn’t mean I thought you were on the extreme skinny or extreme fat side. You can lose 10 pounds and it still be noticeable
I love getting this one Here's another if you want, something my bf says to me If I'm ever complaining about something with the way I look he tells me "but natural is beautiful" So even though that thing isn't "perfect" it's still just the way I am
Why? If a girls/woman Say "you are not like others man" , i would be flatter . Maybe it's because i'm quite différent of other man or at least i feel like it . Maybe you aren't or feel spécial ? Sorry if i offense you , i'm just curious about why you feel this way .
@@solveignicolaysen8122 "you are just putting down other girls saying they are worse" You need to try to date some girls. You'll figure it out real fast LOL
Exactly why is it so normalized if you wanna be creative go ahead and that goes for both genders doesn’t make you gay if your a guy but if you feel like it’s the only way your pretty then it’s a issue
I’m fixing the “compliments” for the guys: “you look the same/better without makeup” -> “you look beautiful no matter what” “you don’t look like a virgin” -> i don’t need to replace this with anything just don’t say it “i could be with so many girls right now but i chose you” -> again just don’t say it but you *could* say “i love you/i want to be with you more than anyone else” “i’m happy you’re not a skinny girl” -> “i love you just the way you are” “your mustache is so cute” -> just don’t “you’re hot for a __ girl” -> “you’re beautiful” btw beautiful>>>>>hot
Some really dont need a makeup at all, and that is my genuine and honest opinion, so I cant really see why is she bringing this point. Its like win-win-win situation........no money waste, no time waste and you look decent, unless you didnt sleep and didnt "refresh" in the morning. She said she want to look differently? So worse or what?No one wants that.... maybe to be less noticeable but most if not all ppl prefer to be okay looking. Also, its easy to put way more makeup than needed. cca. 80% of them are using it too much anyway so its turning to be slowly worse that it actually was... . change my mind
just bc those are on her list of worst compliments doesn't mean that all of them have been said. she could've meant what she's also heard dudes said to other people
@May you have peace I'm just saying - she still can say that she doesn't like those type of "compliments" it's almost like saying "oh yeah I don't like rats" when someone has never had a rat before. they don't HAVE to had a rat before to not like them. that's just their opinion. not trying to be rude or anything just explaining what I meant in my first comment.
I mean to be fair those types of compliments often don't come from a date but just a random weirdo giving unsolicited comments at work/school/on the streets/in the laundromat/the grocery store like you don't understand how many men think it's literally THEIR JOB to loudly proclaim whether you fit their preference or not even if they look like a dust ball, smell like ass and are older than your dad
“I like a girl who can eat.”
What do the other ones do??
*Photosynthesis?*
Well, the other girls are interested in their looks, and how they appear in photos. So, they actually do "photo-synthesis". 🙂
That's a yes. Lol
This is my favorite comment. Hilarious. Photosynthesis lol 😂
Really funny😂😂😂
@@sourabhs14 so those girls "who are interested in their looks and how they appear in photos" don't eat?
Never compliment a woman's mustache, no matter how epic it is.
Or maybe dont talk about it at all ☀️
Hahahaaa!😂
Omg epic plsssss😂
Then shave?
Why not and why are we assuming what a different gender wants as well as redistricting what other genders can say about the same thing? If "women" can do it then anyone can, saying otherwise just makes you someone that stochasticglee brings about bigotry.
"I could be with so many girls right now but I chose you"
A MAJOR RED FLAG 🚩🚩
Nah he jus big pimpin
As a girl I can confirm this is incredibly rude 😐
My ex said that to me once and i replied with the exact same line " am I supposed to feel good about it"
@@arenaplay8714 that's why HE DESERVE TO BE YOUR EX ۔
@@areebahjan2838 exactly bc after some months I found out that he was cheatin on me.
“All the other girls are SO dramatic and wear so much makeup, and you’re just so chill” like bish- don’t make me sound so pick me💀
You got me for a second ngl. I actually thought you were a pick me in the first half 😭😭😭
Who said this to you 💀💀
Bruh Istg if people look at me as a pickme since I'm genuinely chill💀 it can just be my lazy @ss
finally a reasonble woman
@@g.i.r.l. seriously I bearly wear makeup out of laziness but when I do I feel so confident and love it on other people! Someday maybe I'll get better at it and it won't be such a pain to do..
i wouldnt mind that
"You're hot, for a girl."
that became sus rather quickly
@ambassador Bro's before hoes, amiright?😂
😂😂😂
That would actually work. That's really funny.
Lmao 😂 it’s like
Are you hanging out with me so you can meet my brother or something?
"I could be with so many girls right now but I chose you"
Are you doing me a favor?
I think the intention og guys is alright, but the sentence could be framed properly. Like- "There are many girls out there, but you are the special one".
@@sourabhs14 I wouldn't say the intention is always good. They might want to say the girl is special, but they also might want to raise their value and importance by saying how popular they are. Might be a bit of both. But phrased this way it sounds more like bragging than a compliment.
Yeah but saying that someone is special... or saying that they're better than all the others make you a very selfish and weak-minded person because you decided to get with someone that's already at their best value... instead of helping a person who's working on themselves..(and (I'm not tryna make huge deal out of this ik it's just about a silly compliment but) If you've got that mindset, you'll break up too soon because people aren't always at their best values.
@@connorstones4181 People usually get blind to the faults of the other person when they first fall in love (rose-colored glasses), so the person might actually seem near perfect. Should they ditch every person they develop a crush on because they should pick someone they see as a project instead? That relationship will probably fall apart much faster. Also nothing wrong with saying someone is special, it usually means they are special to you, not that they are objectively better than everyone. And the way you speak about people at their best value and people who are working on themselves is weird. It's not that black and white. Everyone who's a decent person is more or less working on themselves. And this use of the word "value" seems kind of superficial.
Dunno, it feels like there is a personal backstory to your comment, like a girl chose somebody else or something of that sort.
@Evija3000 Like you said.. they get blind when they FIRST fall in love. That alone proves my point that those types of hippy dippy fairy-tale relationships where they miraculously "ignore" their partner's faults will end in seconds. Real life isn't about all that.
Dunno but seems to me like you've never had a real relationship with someone that understands, sees all your flaws and still chooses to stay.
If someone says they don't see your faults and values that everyone else sees...... that's cap, the kind of white lies that lead to forming a whole other pile of real lies. And when you said it's like a project when you help somebody and the relationship will end faster, it doesn't make much sense because with today's relationships, they lack a lot of that willpower to work on the relationship itself or help their partner go through something. Besides it's even better when someone already knows what you've been through (because they were there) and sees how you handle things.... making it easier for them to respect you or see you as "special" I guess.
But I really do respect your opinion... I like the way you look at the concept of love and specialty.... it's really important to have those rose-colored glasses that take place at the beginning of the relationship (which... I believe why a lot of people skedaddle from one partner to another to always get that feeling)
We don't really know what's actually right or wrong and we might never! but we still try and that's probably good enough. Best of luck and I hope you live a happy, meaningful life with the one person you love!
Your moustache looks cute. I’m dead 💀
If she had a moustache, that's a problem.
@@davidz3879 why is that a problem to u
@@ddddeniz You think moustaches look good on female faces? You'd like your date/GF to have one?
@@davidz3879 woman have moustaches surprise
@@No-js2yk Very few of them do.
My bf’s “compliments” on me.
“Aww, your long skirt looks so cute, it looks like a curtain ☺️”
“Aww your nails looks so good! It looks like a bamboo🎋”
He’s bad at complimenting but I adore him. 😂
I am like your bf but I am a girl. I only realize how bad it sounds after I say it but they are genuine compliments and I am not making fun.
Omg that’s so cute I wish my bf did that lol
No one cares go fys
@@Naurrrrr271 herrrduurrrddhe4rrrrrr Neanderthal
🤣🤣🤣some curtains are cute tho
"I'm happy your not a skinny girl" Why do they say that?? It's offensive to both skinny and not skinny girls.
That's the beauty of it
@@JakeFish5058 lmao 😂
Attraction is about exclusivity and discrimination.
@@pawneraser9022 And here I was, thinking I just thought my gf was cute because she's cute. Silly old me
@@JakeFish5058 That can be interpreted in a very shallow way. You think your girlfriend is cute because she is just considered to be socially/objectively cute?
A dude started the convo with “you’re pretty for a black girl.” Let’s just say he stayed “a dude” not “my dude”. 🙂
WtF
WTF
Ooof I hate that, even as a brown girl you often hear people say you're pretty for a dark girl like 💀
Wtf
same, that happened a while back, they said "you're pretty for a black girl" 😃
I was like :....
I feel like the key to compliments is uplifting one quality, instead of putting something else down to make one quality look better by comparison.
Nicely said there mate. 304s have child like mentalities.
Underrated comment
My jaw dropped after you said “ your mustache is cute” like girl by 🫢😶😮😧
Also, rating a person’s attractiveness on a scale of 1-10 is a quick way to out yourself as an asshole.
You do that subconsciously too
Ramzi Chouk yeah in one way or another. What I meant is saying it aloud, especially to the person you’re rating.
Yes, of course everyone does it subconsciously- it’s just knowing how attractive you find someone. But it really is an asshole move to say it out loud to them directly
A girl could answer: I went out with guys better looking than you, soooo
You turn the tables on him
@@haleys4899 yeah most guys talk overtly and most women talk sugar coated. So loud or no loud , facts doesn't care about their feelings.
" you don't look like a virgin"
" you're mustache is cute" ... these are not compliments... They're straight up roasting you.
Ikr I was like "WHO SAYS THIS???"
@@PoorMustang unless they’re a friend who’s roasting you back (which I doubt) then *don’t*
@@emeraldlily673
This is common sense. People tend to forget about it. I won't my guy.
Yeah I was gonna say, that was not meant to be a compliment. Ditch him or at least tell him that it's not cool to do that.
I say that mustache one all the time
Saying "I choose you" is different then saying "I choose you, but I have other options" though.
It's like saying
Pikachuuuu I choose you 🤾
Coz charmander ain't worth shit 😂
@@raghavpareek2385nah bro charmander is good😂
I eat so much but I'm so freaking skinny and I hate not having some weight on. I don't like being asked if I eat, I shouldn't even have to answer that. It's another reason why I'm so insecure.
Same! I eat so much but I never gain weight and so ppl always assume I’m trying to diet or something!
Same, I can't really gain any weight and friends&family always say I'm so good-looking ect. But it's making me feel bad abt myself :/
Girls get self esteem idk how but any hoo just wanted to let you know that first compliment is 100% true when we say it we mean it like tf are girls insecure about their faces I did not know that,so if a guy tells you that you look better without make up he's spitting facts just so you know.
If do some weightlifting and track your calories. You can change it.
False.
One thing I know women hate:
"You're beautiful but you should smile more.
A lot of women should smile more, especially girl females
I don't even like my own smile how tf am I supposed to smile more?? 💀💀
So moronic. Everyone should smile more.
I hate it when ppl tell me this like...wtf. I’m always in a bad mood and I do what I want bruh
@Paul Brandel bro you’re being sexist..how does it feel when you’re angry or when you’re in a negative mood but there’s someone telling you to smile...ppl should be aware with what they’re saying
"Does this dress make me look fat?"
"No, Honey! That dress does not make you look fat. Your fat makes you look fat."
Hahaha, I'd keep that one. Honesty is really important in a relationship.
XD
He is been honest, if you are really concerned about your weight you should be more concern about your diet and your exercises routine than your dress
You look far even when you're not wearing that dress.....
😄😄
"Your mustache is cute"
-- Yeah, he was definitely making fun of you in a back-handed way.
this reminds me of the time my male boss told me he "was surprised I knew that word," when I used a slightly more advanced word in an interview with him.
People's biases and insecurities often reveal themselves in the way they choose to backhand compliment others
"you're smarter than I thought"
Pointing out that he only approached you for your looks or because he thought you looked naive
People don’t approach people cause they “look smart” in fact liking someone according to their intelligence level isn’t much better anyway. The reason this is bad is because it’s condescending
dumb girls are more cute
@@LG-vd6wt I'm pretty sure the commented wasn't saying that you should approach someone because of their intelligence, but it almost hints that the person thought you were "dumb and easy."
Which is not a bad thing.
“Your attractive for a disabled girl”
Something I still cannot cannot believe was said to my face as a compliment. My disabilities are mostly “invisible” so I look mostly normal but still the most backhanded “compliment” I’ve ever received
Should have replied: Well, I'm not the only one here... the other one has a huge communication disability. - look at his face - Oh, wait.. I'm sorry.
@@DataStorm1 You are either joking, or 8 years old
@@kazat0105 both :P
@@DataStorm1 🤣
I’ve kind have gotten that too. I have Crohn’s which is an autoimmune disease of your GI and because of that I have had many surgeries on my abdomen including my colon being removed and a permanent ostomy. You cannot tell looking at me. Even doctors and nurses have commented because I guess most people dress pretty awkwardly (at least older people) with an ostomy but I just do what I do. I’ve actually been told:
“You look great considering everything!”
What? I just have a lot of scars on my stomach, how is that considering?
I personally love in Avatar: The Last Airbender, when Zuko goes on a date. They’re out eating and he says, “You have quite an appetite for a girl.”
Even though i'm not a girl I would take that as an insult
@@yomilala8929 oh yeah, it’s not a smart thing for Zuko to say.
Yass, i remembered this scene too, kinda happy that someone commented about it
my bf just told me the other day, “you look gorgeous without makeup, why do you need to wear it” and i know he meant it as a compliment but it just felt like… but i am supposed to look pretty, i feel good like this 😭
He means to him you look awful in make up and he prefers you without it,it's just a polite way of saying it in most cases and I'm pretty sure make up doesn't make a difference in your case in terms of beauty I mean,I'm curious to know why girls make up when in most cases they look better without it?? Is it a contest with other girls or something lol.
@@razortk77g95 well i don’t really cake it on, i’ll dab some concealer on, maybe some highlighter and mascara and call it a day, but i’ve noticed every time he says “wow you look extra gorgeous today” or “wow babe, today you’re really glowing” are all the days i decide to wear a little makeup and he doesn’t even know it. i think the girls that go crazy with makeup morning routines are a little much but honestly it’s whatever works for them. i know i personally can go out with or without makeup, i just like wearing it sometimes because it’s fun for myself, does that make any sense?
and it’s not really a contest with other girls, it definitely can be sometimes lol, but most of the time i don’t think so. its just a feeling of being “presentable”, like brushing your teeth or putting on deodorant. something for you to know you put effort into presenting yourself to society today :) obviously that’s just my opinion tho lol
@@kennahowe2005 Ngl when girls put on little make up it's harder to notice but it gets the job done I agree
@@kennahowe2005 Ngl when girls put on little make up it's harder to notice but it gets the job done I agree
Worked as a bartender. I’ve seen terrible compliments / pickup lines. The most common and the worst is “you look so much like my ex girlfriend”. Happens way more than you’d think.
What did they respond? Cuz i have no idea💀
As a gay guy I actually would feel flattered with that one. It means that that guy is really into you (At least on the outside)
@@yomilala8929 Eh, I'd disagree. It just feels like the only reason they want to be with you is because you remind them of their ex, really shows how they havent moved on yet and you are their distraction. Just a lot of unresolved complicated emotional shit that they're using you to free themselves mentally in the short term. But a relationship like this wont last for more than 2 months, and they'd most likely ditch you and crawl back to their ex or break up with you because they've moved on from their ex and you remind them too much of them.
@@raisya495 In my experience many long lasting relationships can begin with someone who hasnt moved on and considering that people are naturally pretty shallow...
"Good for her" proceeds to run away
If men think those things are compliments, they need to reevaluate themselves
The first one is definitely a compliment. The rest... Well those situationa are different
The first one is for sure a compliment when we say it we mean it, like tf do girls have no self esteem,nobody cares if you spent hours on makeup when you literally look better without it,the rest of the compliments are weird af I don't think a man would ever say that ngl.
Frfr they're so 🤔🙄😒😮💨😤🗿
@@yomilala8929 kinda is but at the same time it does not cause low-key you're saying she's ugly with makeup:/
@@Sofi-bq6pr Low key sometimes make up makes them look ugly ngl
“I could be with so many other girls rn but I chose you”
If I was ever seen as an option to you then I don’t want you at all.
If you have to bring up other girls when you compliment me, it's not a compliment.
"Youre not like other girls"
Duh.
I AM and i am PROUD OF IT.
Oh that always makes me so insecure when someone says that. Like why? What's wrong with me? Am I not girlish enough?
Exactly
they think this is a compliment💀
The “I could be with so many girls right now but I chose you” makes me laugh every time it literally gives me teen high school movie dialogue vibes 😭
Shes giving advice about men when all her experience has come from boys
"Could be with so many girld right now but i chose men"
@@mani6334 lol
@@mani6334
Naaaah...
@@danielmorgan5276
Destruction.
"Your hot for a dark girl" even though I'm not dark skinned I've heard men say this to women of color it's disgusting 💀
yup
Dark girls are usually robotic
@@jkey3835 jit what
@@jkey3835 what you mean you dolt?
How is that disgusting if a man says your hot for a dark girl, I'm confused?
keep in mind our brains often short circuit when trying to talk to a girl we like
stop simpin
@@OneManCanStopTheMotorOfWorld and i'm simping how?
her voice sounds SO different, i didn’t even know that that was her for a minute- 💀 💕
“You’re smarter than I thought” 😑
Well, girls act really dumb sometimes, so this makes sense.
Bruh💀
Lmfao
I’m 420 Like
I like that one
“I could be with so many girls right now, but I chose you” oh then by all means, go with those girls. I’ll live, trust me.
Damn💀💀💀💀
Do guys really say this??
@@jenn8179 😅 welp I’ve heard girls say it too but yeah this is most definitely a thing
Good , bye
@@Leah-ro3yh you have?? Lol The thought would never cross my mind!
"I'm glad you have a big appetite"
me: uhhh starving myself here I come 😢
Yen would kill me if i complimented her mustache... she would kill me if i mentioned anything she hasn't noticed. Ugh, sorceresses...
WHAT TF DO YOU MEAN "SORCERESSES..."??? And wait... i have a... mustache...? WHY DIDN'T U TELL ME YOU HOT SON OF A BI-
@@yenneferofvengeberg6272 NO NO! Yen, you are perfect, u don't have mustaches, i love you, Yen... u know this
@@geraltofrivia7456 ok ok... i'm not angry, silly. I love you too, Witcher...
Next time when you notice something that i do not, inform me... or else you will swim with frogs
Love you 😘
it’s always sus when they say “you’re hot for a girl”
LOL
Bruh that means they are gay.
Haha
Never heard someone say that but sus is the first thing that comes to mind lol
Fruity
Him: “I could have been with any other girl but I chose you.”
Me: “I could have declined any other man, but I chose to decline you. Okay byeeeeee.”
Smoothe
😂😂💯
Lmao
Why should you not say that though?
@@akikeermangar1200 because it makes it sound like you should be lucky he chose you and it comes off as cocky. Idk, just me?
I HAVE NEVER EVER EVER SAID "YOU DON'T LOOK LIKE A VIRGIN" TO ANYONE 😂😂
Thats why ur da man
That's why you're da man
Im sorry but if someone said that, they might assume I am way younger than I am (ew) or for the way I dress idk but no thank you bye.
Omg spencer you look so pretty ❤ honestly your helping loads of people and sacrificing yourself 🎉🎉 we love you❤
"you are not like other girls, you're different"
i hate it
It's an insult to me
Exactly like wtf is that supposed to mean?
@@blueweirdo719 exactly...
I actually like the your not like other girls cuz it shows he recognizes u for who u r and not because of some stupid trend or smthn (just my opinion)
He is just trying to get in your pants and praising to boost your ego.
"you're not like other girls"
🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
what is so wrong about that
Nope. That just means they find you unique or there's some sort of differentiator that makes them want to date you. That's literally the definition of attraction, it's why people date - the person is somehow special or more engaging / appealing to you than most other people, right? Otherwise you wouldn't be dating them...
When you find someone you get feelings for, you generally have a connection / chemistry that you don't have with most other people, so by definition, they quite literally "aren't like most other girls / guys" to that person.
Def a red flag
@@mridupabankalita1234 it's like what's so special about me that you are saying I am not like other girls lol 😂
@@harrypike5140 have you even seen any girl saying you are not like other boys 💀 it's werid every girl is same no difference
People watching this 2024 and seeing how much she has grown ❤
I actually like when boys tell me that i look better without make up..confidence upgraded
"I'm happy you're not skinny"
Are you saying I'm fat?!
Most guys tell me they like big girls. Is that a compliment on my body or what? Am I supposed to say thank you?
They mean thicc not fat
Just because someone isn't skinny doesn't make them fat. They can have an average figure (avergae as in correlating to weight) too, or thicc if u think abt it
No, just that you're not skinny which is a good thing
@@guilhermesalesferreiradaco2934 I'm skinny I have a fast metabolism, is that a bad thing?
Also, guys, theres a huge difference between
"You look prettier without makeup" and "you look beautiful either way". 2nd one preferred
@A cat on his hind legs. Exactly. A blank canvas is just as beautiful as a painted canvas because it means *opportunity*
What if I genuinely feel she's prettier without make up?
@@Rose-ng2zp then you should keep it to yourself
@@Rose-ng2zp those of us who don't wear make up appreciate guys that prefer women without it.
@@morganvillas6436 lmao ye
I love the “you look the same without makeup!” Funnily enough!
I 100% agree with all of these
“I could be with so many girls rn but I chose you”
That sounds like a playboy tryna be loyal to a girl for once
Someone need to pray real hard for that boy
Yeah. If someone says that, they're HELLA narcissistic.
He's a narcs 100% sure
@@katimillard5924 yes, but its still a compliment
@@katimillard5924 what an overused term, what if the dude is just being completely honest?
Nah it just sounds Petty as hell
"you're cute for a foreigner"
- almost every korean guy i met
Racial fetishizer alert
don't translate... 😭
თქვენ ახლა დაწყევლილი ხართ, ამის გაუქმებას ვერ შეძლებთ, თუ არ გამოიწერთ
@@totallynotreese okay I won’t!😊
@@totallynotreese ok
I visited korea a lot of times because I'm half korean and I did art class there and they said to me in korean you're pretty good at art for a foreigner
I like your reaction after every line
I agree with all of these, except the non-make up part. I get that you want to look different with make-up, but most men are most attracted to women when they are without make-up. Make-up is for other women, and rarely for the man.
I would actually feel flattered if someone would say that I look better without makeup...
just a quick reminder for guys: saying "it's good that you're not a skinny girl" is basically the equivalent of when your girl says "it's okay the big ones hurt"
Lmao!
HAHAHAHAHA
Well said
Honestly, it depends.Some girls can't lose weight and are very insecure about their bodies, so I think it's a compliment
Put in that way, now i understand!
A couple weeks ago my bench-mate looked at me in utter shock and said "I hadn't noticed this before"
"..what?"
"You have a better mustache than I do"
Was never insecure but about until that moment lmfao
Can I laugh lmao
@@whatsthebigidea-os5rp yeah yeah go ahead
@@Iva_singh25 you should have said " Thank you at least i can grow a mustache "
I would've laughed so much and would say "ay, thanks bro. 😉🤣"
@@whatsthebigidea-os5rp 😭 you literally just asked her permission 😂😂 lmfao 😭😂
Anything with “for a girl” in it IS THE WORST THING YOU CAN SAY TO A GIRL!! WE ARE JUST AS STRONG IF NOT STRONGER THAN MEN!! 💪 💪
”Your voice is so deep and soft”
Okay thank you but now you just made me insecure.
so it works 😄
The amount of times I've been told I'm hot for a cripple or hot for a wheelchair user is ridiculous! It was especially bad back when I was online dating. Thankfully my husband has never said something that stupid 🤣
what is that even suppose to mean😭 what does being disabled has to do with how you look. I am glad that you found someone that is actually smart and aware of how things should be. happy for you xx
If a man can't see past you being in a wheelchair he's not the right one and if your friends can't see past that then they aren't real friends.
@cake you're welcome to your opinion, and I don't judge anyone based on appearance or dick size. I judge people on the content of their character
@cake @nikki there is a fetish out there called sph (small pen15 humiliation) I think we CD give that as an exception 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@NikkiScott1 one time when I went clubbing I met this sweet pleasant girl in a wheelchair like she lost her legs but I would have so asked her out…she was pretty gorgeous tbh. She went clubbing too and had a friend there to accompany her to make sure she was ok.
Me being a guy who has never said any of those to a girl ;----;
That’s good for u buddy 😊 now keep the streak goin
no literally lol everyone that ive heard said this were all girls
Keep that virginity strong mate!
Don't take advice from her. She says to hug a girl you're attracted to from behind, as well as kiss her on the neck & rub her thighs!
Respect ur the sort of Guys world needs
“Guys please don’t be offended.” I could have chosen another girl, but
I chose you!
Thank you for enlightening all men about this because we men have absolutely no clue about these things really we don't and we would have never known these things without you thank you from all men 😵💫...
I’m a guy, and I’m not gonna lie; just about every single one of her points were fair. I do kind of disagree about the make up thing, but at the same time when you say something like that timing is everything. I’m pretty sure a girl would have a different reaction from a guy saying that depending on whether he said it after she put her makeup on or during a time when she doesn’t have her make up on. You know?
EDIT: I guess understand now why girls hate the “You look better without makeup” compliment. It’s like if you had a favourite shirt or hat or shoes that you liked to wear to parties and someone came up to you and said something like “You would look better in a different shirt/shoes/hat.” It’s sort of a mean compliment that doesn’t accomplish anything. I was wrong
I sort of agree. But what I think she means is when guys(or anyone really) say “I like you better without/with makeup” or commenting unnecessarily on someone’s appearance in general can be harmful.
That being said, if someone takes off their makeup and you just say “you look beautiful” without comparing to how they looked before, that can be very positive.
I disagree on the make up thing too. Sometimes I’ll say it because some girls feel like they have to wear make up to be pretty. And I don’t think anyone should feel like they have to change their face to be pretty.
-side note: girl as well
i think it might be better to say "you look pretty even without makeup" rather than "you look better without makeup." or "you look the same" you know... the first one implies that the girl is pretty both with and without makeup while not comparing both looks, while the second and third one is kinda discrediting the efforts they spent on their makeup
Actually if a girl loves doing makeup and even if you said it when she doesn't have any she is going to think she did something wrong. Instead just say "you are a natural beauty". Avoid comparison.
Edit: if*
@@rosiemintz exactly my point!
Tbh I actually felt better when my partner said I looked better without makeup. My friends forced me into it and I was trying to hold back tears. He ran over to me, wiped it off and said he preferred my natural look, and even if I did wear makeup it was my personality that he cared for. I'm lucky to have him, sometimes I'm sad that I'm too flat and have acne but I think to that moment to help me find my happy place
Awwwwwww you just touched this emotionless heart in my soul 💖
That's different. Those are not friends. If they force you to do something you don't want to do that's not a friend.
Ya. Drop those friends
It’s okay to have acne, you’re not alone there. And just because you do have some doesn’t mean that you’re flat, I’m sure you’re beautiful the way that you are! Your partner sounds pretty amazing. Remember to always do you and follow whatever makes you feel happy and comfortable, that’s all that matters!! I’m not gonna tell you to outright dump your friends but try talking to them and setting boundaries regarding what makes you comfortable/uncomfortable, maybe that’ll help to make your friendships stronger. And if they don’t accept that and try pushing past those boundaries, then remember: people who can’t deal with you having boundaries is because they were taking advantage of you not having any. Never do anything other than what you’re happy with.
this is so sweet :'DD and yups here's a reminder, you're beautiful ❤️
this boy said to me once
"you look pretty good for a tall girl"
being tall is one of my biggest insecurities as a minor and i know it is for many other girls so when he said that, i dropped everything and said i couldnt like someone that ugly on the inside
i know it sound like im overreacting but he said bad stuff bwfore that but him saying that just pushed me over the edge
“You have a pretty smile, you should do it more”
"You look better without makeup" depends on the women. For eg if a women loves makeup she is going to feel either you are trying to mock her makeup skills or she isn't good at makeup and make her doubt
But if a women doesn't like makeup and is doing it just for the society then it might be a compliment
Problem is you ( the guy) might not know which category she belongs so better is to just avoid any comparison and just say
"You are a natural beauty" it works.
The thing is even if I choose 9 out of 10 no make up look, I love doing my make up. I would love to do it when I feel to, not bc someone thinks of it. I can do bold make up just for fun. Don't want feel that pressure. Especially you know, when some guys try to lead girls' thoughts to a certain things.
@@flyfantasy6565 exactly. It's like saying to a guy, ugh thank god you are not into gaming and you actually read books, so smart. Its like a guy can like both....
There is also the girls that never learned to do make up and therefore never wears any makeup except for a little mascara but feels so ugly and really want to be able to do makeup but knows that if they do it’ll look worse then without it because they don’t have the money to buy the right products and tools.
yeah, we exist too.
i’ve honestly never understood why that’s such an insult. i would love for somebody to call me pretty at all tbh
@@kwilesvolleyball2028 true!!!
Here's an all-time favorite: "You think like a man."
GIRL I LOVE YOU ❤my man says" you look pretty without makeup i hate when you wear makeup " and "i could have any b$tch i want but im with you"
LIKE WTF I CANT RN
When i say "youre mustache is cute, im letting you know youre cute and im also roasting tf outta you"
I personally say: “you look good with and without makeup”
I say , you're cute but it's not an accomplishment i would love you more if you were funny and skilled
Yeah my fiancé says the same, I'm really casual with wearing it so it helps me feel self confident and pretty either way
@@ramzichouk4080 💀💀
Perfect answer would be: "Your make up is so beautiful today. How long did it take?... What one hour? This looks gorgeous and sexy. You're sexy anyways as always."
That or compliment the makeup itself. Stuff like “I like your eyeshadow.” “Your lipstick looks really pretty.”
The “I could be with any girl but I chose you” gives me 2016 Y/N wattpad stories when the bad alpha boy who “owns the school” is pinning Y/N against a locker vibes
Edit: Thanks for the 1.1k likes!
😭😭😭sjsjsj
i think thats just you😀
Low key doo
@@Liza-vu8ln yeah probably,
Bruh I feel threatened....
this are like the kind of things that u shouldn't speak out but send as a thoughtfull compliment.
Your hair. Just your hair. IT LOOKS AMAZING 😍🤩😍😍😍😍😍🤩🤩😍🤩😍🤩
"your hot for a thick girl"
Its so backhanded I can't
It is not just backhanded, It is also disrespectful and a major red flag you need to avoid them.
I was just thinking that I'm like ...racist much
@The BlackMace oh I misreading and replied to wrong comment 😅it was your hot for a black girl
Fr, I cant tell u the amount of times I get “u don’t look like a virgin ur lying” don’t needa explain how I feel about that either
Wait so I know I sound dumb rn my fellow army but men actually say shit like that ?? 👀
@@samiyahwilliams206 yes a lot
@@samiyahwilliams206 fellow what????
@@ArmyofDrag343 I said fellow army that’s name of a kpop fandom bro
What they mean is "you don't ACT like a virgin". And yeah, they can tell.
You can clear up the confusion by admitting that yes, you had a lot of sex but not in that hole.
If someone tells me I look better without makeup I actually do take that as a compliment and it makes me feel good...
"Youre hot for a TALL girl"
IM 5'8😭😭
That’s the girl equivalent of being like 6’ as a guy. It’s tall
Sameee 😭 and that’s not even “tall” for a woman, that’s average lmao
@@x.rohan.001 that's exactly what I tell myself😂
✨"I'm not tall you're just short"✨
😂😂
@@x.rohan.001 definitely not average lol in most counties around the world the average height for an adult female is around 5’4”, men 5’9”.
@@x.rohan.001 No, it's literally not. Average height for a woman in most countries is around 5'4/5'5. Only really places like Netherlands and Denmark where it's a bit taller like 5'7. Nothing wrong in being 5'8 as a girl but it's certainly above average. I say this as a man who is 5'8 and been told by girls that I'm "confident for a short guy" and other such things...even though 5'8 is actually on the lower end of average height for a man where I live lol
I actually feel complimented when guys say I look better without make up sure I won’t stop wearing it but it is a compliment and I feel happy
That's because you're a normal person and know that you don't have to take everything the wrong way.
Not that someone can't be attractive with makeup, but I'm more attracted to natural beauty.
Actually, I think natural beauty looks better even for people I'm not attracted to... Makeup takes away from that and I just don't think it looks as good.
That's my preference.
@@EarlGrey-YT I'm gonna be honest here. Sometimes when guys say natural beauty, they mean makeup that doesn't look like makeup
@@alsokaitlin I understand. Different guys have different preferences. Some guys really like a lot of makeup...
I'm just not one of those guys.
My thing is; Ppl generally wear makeup to make themselves look better in some way. If you remove whatever makeup you have on and then you look completely different, it's generally less attractive. So if I found you attractive and got to know you without makeup, I won't have to worry about trying to be attracted to you when you look completely different than when I first decided I was attracted to the way you look...
I dunno if I'm explaining this well enough, I hope so...
I'm also wondering if there's a time in a girls life after years of wearing makeup, when she gets tired of buying it, wearing it, tired of her makeup routine, but continues to do it all simply because she's afraid those she's been around her whole life won't like the way she looks without it and she feels trapped now...? I dunno.
There are quite a few different reasons for why I personally find it more attractive when a girl doesn't wear makeup. Or at least, isn't so completely attached to it.
This is all my opinion and perspective. There are a ton out there. Just know that there are guys out there who are far more attracted to natural beauty than the artificial alternatives.
@@EarlGrey-YT so I actually agree
Yeah that one's controversial-
The worst one of all is "You're not like other girls"
had that
“You look like you’ve lost weight/gained weight”
Kinda pointing out they thought you were fat/super skinny
If someone tells you that you lost weight that's a compliment.
Now if we are pestimistic and negative we will say "they are saying we was fat.
Now if we are positive and grateful for what others tell us, we will take is a compliment because they are saying "we look good"
Make sure to be positive and take nice things being said instead of turning around nice words into offensive stories, it only causes me problems down the road
That's overthinking to me. Telling someone they got better always implies they were less before, but taking it like this is wrong. I don't think there is something that men look up to as much as progressing.
I'll quote a man i respect : "Being weak is not a shame, but staying weak is."
Facts this guy asked me “have you been hitting the gym your chest and arms look bigger” like come on bro are you implying that my chest was small and arms were skinny before bro that’s so fucked up to acknowledge my hard work dude
Well I’m a bit overweight and trying to actively lose weight so if someone told me I look like I lost weight I’d be happy xD to each their own I guess :)
Just because you lost or gained weight doesn’t mean I thought you were on the extreme skinny or extreme fat side. You can lose 10 pounds and it still be noticeable
her smiling constantly makes me smile
"You're smarter than I thought you'd be when I first saw you."
He told me my tummy is cute 😭😭💀
Idk how to feel 😅
100% the only complement I ever choose to use is “you look gorgeous just the way you are” as I know inner beauty is the only beauty that matters
As a girl, that's kinda bad too
I love getting this one
Here's another if you want, something my bf says to me
If I'm ever complaining about something with the way I look he tells me "but natural is beautiful"
So even though that thing isn't "perfect" it's still just the way I am
THIS, finally someone said something about these "compliments"
personally i love the "i like a girl who can eat" the boys that say that get you more snacks. 😂
the difference between the appreciation is the look of the guy telling you this
"you look prettier without makeup"
Jokes on you I don't even wear makeup
Same
what are you trying to prove
@@spongebobssponge1224 what?
samee 😂
@@spongebobssponge1224 I think a pound of makeup is obvious, but if someone is complimenting this and doesn't notice any makeup, then they are blind.
"you are not like the other girls" this one just make me so furious
Why? If a girls/woman Say "you are not like others man" , i would be flatter .
Maybe it's because i'm quite différent of other man or at least i feel like it . Maybe you aren't or feel spécial ?
Sorry if i offense you , i'm just curious about why you feel this way .
@@Eldiran1 because ur not saying I'm good, you are just putting down other girls saying they are worse
@@solveignicolaysen8122 I would feel flattered too. It is saying you are good. It's like saying, I see something special in you.
@@solveignicolaysen8122 "you are just putting down other girls saying they are worse"
You need to try to date some girls. You'll figure it out real fast LOL
Wy don't you feel notised and special than?
FRANNY!!! Love it, so many memories watching that show when i was a kid
the cute mustache is not too insulting but I would still shave right after
Omg a boy in my class said within my ears distance "girls are like rocks the flat ones get skipped
Bro that’s kinda funny tho 💀
lmao thats actually kinda funny
💀😂😂, that's actually funny, i wanna meet that guy 🤧
Says all the girls who wants a guy with abs who’s 6’7 lmao
@@follower8815 actually I want a guy who's only 6'0
"You look better without makeup"
I wouldn't be offended by that one
We need more people{girls} like you!
Exactly why is it so normalized if you wanna be creative go ahead and that goes for both genders doesn’t make you gay if your a guy but if you feel like it’s the only way your pretty then it’s a issue
I’m fixing the “compliments” for the guys:
“you look the same/better without makeup” -> “you look beautiful no matter what”
“you don’t look like a virgin” -> i don’t need to replace this with anything just don’t say it
“i could be with so many girls right now but i chose you” -> again just don’t say it but you *could* say “i love you/i want to be with you more than anyone else”
“i’m happy you’re not a skinny girl” -> “i love you just the way you are”
“your mustache is so cute” -> just don’t
“you’re hot for a __ girl” -> “you’re beautiful”
btw beautiful>>>>>hot
Bro just saved the guys
RESPECT🏆🏆🏆🏆
I'm a simple one , I prefer those who are carelessly caring , like these
Honestly I think it’s sweet when they say that I look good without makeup
Some really dont need a makeup at all, and that is my genuine and honest opinion, so I cant really see why is she bringing this point. Its like win-win-win situation........no money waste, no time waste and you look decent, unless you didnt sleep and didnt "refresh" in the morning. She said she want to look differently? So worse or what?No one wants that.... maybe to be less noticeable but most if not all ppl prefer to be okay looking. Also, its easy to put way more makeup than needed. cca. 80% of them are using it too much anyway so its turning to be slowly worse that it actually was... . change my mind
“You’re super hot for a Persian girl”
Okay?! Talking shit about my heritage won’t get you anywhere lol.
The format is good, but you just need to replace the adjective "hot" with something else like "adventurous" or "spontaneous"
You’re pretty darn cute I hope somebody’s treating you well! Thank you for your time
Omgosh 3 is like the most hurtful insult ever(sometimes depending on tone tho)
1. "U look better without makeup" is such a compliment for the natural beauty
I agree, but it always depends on how they say it
How about "You look great without makeup"? Why tag on the implied criticism?
@@ladyveracity yeah this is actually really good
“Your mustache is cute”
“I like a girl who can eat”
What kind of guys do you go out with lady?
just bc those are on her list of worst compliments doesn't mean that all of them have been said. she could've meant what she's also heard dudes said to other people
Actually a lot of men like 'staches and arm hair on the ladies. DISCLAIMER: I am not one of them, it's just what I've heard and observed
@May you have peace I'm just saying - she still can say that she doesn't like those type of "compliments" it's almost like saying "oh yeah I don't like rats" when someone has never had a rat before. they don't HAVE to had a rat before to not like them. that's just their opinion. not trying to be rude or anything just explaining what I meant in my first comment.
I mean to be fair those types of compliments often don't come from a date but just a random weirdo giving unsolicited comments at work/school/on the streets/in the laundromat/the grocery store like you don't understand how many men think it's literally THEIR JOB to loudly proclaim whether you fit their preference or not even if they look like a dust ball, smell like ass and are older than your dad