The Polygamous Sex by Esther Vilar (1976)

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  • @themanofmyth
    @themanofmyth 5 років тому +89

    Born: September 16, 1935 " Happy 85th Birthday Ester Vilar" I respect and appreciate the truth you have laid out in your books. Thank You.

  • @carlo6912
    @carlo6912 2 роки тому +74

    This book was written years ago but it's message is timeless. You cannot look at marriage the same after reading Esther's work. My only regret is not knowing this in my early 20s. Thank you for sharing

    • @Otto-mq8lg
      @Otto-mq8lg Місяць тому

      only if I could understand the stupid AI reading

  • @calebncontreras-117
    @calebncontreras-117 3 роки тому +135

    Real power is never seen.

    • @honestabe6841
      @honestabe6841 2 роки тому +17

      Underrated comment my friend.

    • @rabbychan
      @rabbychan 2 місяці тому +2

      It is felt?

    • @hanzoY248
      @hanzoY248 Місяць тому

      @@rabbychan proof in the pudding.

  • @deanduplessis433
    @deanduplessis433 Місяць тому +17

    My takeaway, for as long as vvomen insist on being hypergamous and using men for status, nnen have the right to by polygamous. Unless he finds a vvoman truly his equal on both intellectual but also moral standing, i.e. not using her intelligence to simply manipulate the man to her advantage, but using it to build him up as well, the man has the right to keep looking for his equal in other relationships.
    I might be hurt, but this is liberating.

  • @lion_dragon
    @lion_dragon Місяць тому +17

    I love how the one whom compiled this book chose to insert their own opinions in attempts to discredit what this woman wrote, thus proving every word she wrote.

  • @michaelknight4041
    @michaelknight4041 2 місяці тому +17

    Seems interesting but i cant hack the unnatural robot voice. We're sooo close to the singularity! 😅wtf ever 🙄

  • @jazzsocietyofecuador
    @jazzsocietyofecuador 5 років тому +44

    Incredibility informative...and disturbing.

  • @Otto-mq8lg
    @Otto-mq8lg Місяць тому +10

    God I hate this AI reading audiobooks it's like listening to Joe Biden speak about his interracial tv commercials..

  • @PentaRaus
    @PentaRaus 2 місяці тому +23

    No wonder they banned her books.

    • @JJ-vp3bd
      @JJ-vp3bd 2 місяці тому

      why is your opinion

    • @cattywampusmcdoogle
      @cattywampusmcdoogle 2 місяці тому +11

      But they aren't on the banned list.... the hardcopy of this book is listed for 4,400 dollars. They just raise the price so high that nobody buys them

    • @DiogenesNephew
      @DiogenesNephew Місяць тому +1

      ​@cattywampusmcdoogle We can't help the fact it isn't in print. It's not a conspiracy to keep the book out of peoples hands. You can get the ebook for 4 bucks lol.

    • @cattywampusmcdoogle
      @cattywampusmcdoogle Місяць тому +1

      @DiogenesNephew I don't do e-books... I want hard copies for when the grid goes down. It's too easy to hack and change things online.... the point was simple, they aren't banned, they are just expensive to get.

    • @DiogenesNephew
      @DiogenesNephew Місяць тому +1

      @@cattywampusmcdoogle You're gonna have bigger problems to contend with than not having a hard copy of this book "when the grid goes down."

  • @redpillreality2233
    @redpillreality2233 7 років тому +27

    Thank you for sharing this

  • @paulchristie8452
    @paulchristie8452 2 роки тому +8

    Thank you Brilliant Books for uploading this!

  • @BLACKMAGABATTALIONFJB
    @BLACKMAGABATTALIONFJB 2 місяці тому +8

    Thank You Esther Vilar💪🌹💯👆

  • @DeaconChriss
    @DeaconChriss 2 роки тому +35

    This is basically the book of proverbs and the book of Reuben.

    • @JJ-vp3bd
      @JJ-vp3bd 2 місяці тому +2

      can you elaborate

    • @RyanSheppard-tq4pg
      @RyanSheppard-tq4pg 2 місяці тому +3

      ​@@JJ-vp3bdread proverbs lol

    • @Raphael0654
      @Raphael0654 Місяць тому +2

      Aside from Proverbs chapter 31, it's a lot more like Ecclesiastes in tone. Like here: 22:50

    • @filia1812
      @filia1812 17 днів тому

      All give it a read, thanks

  • @fieldpiece851
    @fieldpiece851 20 днів тому +2

    Interesting book for sure, the end statement was very powerful!

  • @peterpanther8627
    @peterpanther8627 3 дні тому

    Man's ability to reason is his greatest enemy.

  • @deanduplessis433
    @deanduplessis433 Місяць тому +7

    1:08:50 If you listen to nothing else, listen to this.

  • @2WheelsForever
    @2WheelsForever 2 роки тому +7

    Thank you Esther

  • @savoirfaire6181
    @savoirfaire6181 2 місяці тому +10

    Holy Shit! There is too much truth here. It's painful to even take in. Wow.

    • @JJ-vp3bd
      @JJ-vp3bd Місяць тому

      what was your favorite parts

    • @savoirfaire6181
      @savoirfaire6181 Місяць тому +4

      @@JJ-vp3bd I like the psychodynamics of nurture instinct she talks about being cross wired into sex instinct. It ties in a lot with what I've observed in abusive relationships and with people who have psychosomatic illness. Jay Haley talks about metacomplimentary control dynamics in relationships in his book Strategies in Psychotherapy. This ties in very directly to what Vilar is saying. People want to control the type of relationship they are in, even if that means they are the "inferiors" in the relationship. Whoever controls what the dynamic of the relationship is has ultimate control. The incapacity to walk away from a relationship means you are the slave of it.

  • @billyholiday4947
    @billyholiday4947 2 місяці тому +12

    Are woman naturally polygamous?

    • @theflamingone8729
      @theflamingone8729 2 місяці тому +11

      Biology and anatomy would suggest so.

    • @smokingcrab2290
      @smokingcrab2290 2 місяці тому

      80% of divorces are initiated by women so I would say yes

    • @smokingcrab2290
      @smokingcrab2290 2 місяці тому +12

      I'd say they're more hypergamous

    • @theflamingone8729
      @theflamingone8729 2 місяці тому +10

      @@smokingcrab2290 hypergamy is about gaining resources, polygamy also serves that.

    • @futavadumnezo
      @futavadumnezo 2 місяці тому

      Humans naturally are.

  • @Metaphyical0samak
    @Metaphyical0samak 21 день тому +2

    I now see two different types of woman and im not unable to unsee now

  • @coolconfuzer
    @coolconfuzer 6 років тому +9

    Ayam Sirus brought me here...

  • @rabbychan
    @rabbychan 2 місяці тому +5

    I can't find it on amazon

    • @kanagawa85
      @kanagawa85 2 місяці тому +8

      This and manipulated man used to be on Amazon but not anymore and you know why

    • @JJ-vp3bd
      @JJ-vp3bd 2 місяці тому

      @@kanagawa85 why

    • @rabbychan
      @rabbychan 2 місяці тому +1

      @@kanagawa85 It's alright, I'll just make due with this video. ☺

    • @interestingtimes6242
      @interestingtimes6242 Місяць тому

      It’s on the internet archive. You can read it online for free…. For now.

  • @salpertia
    @salpertia 2 місяці тому +2

    Be sure to save the books you feel should stand the test of time.

  • @HicksYvette-l8e
    @HicksYvette-l8e День тому

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  • @Ekam-Sat
    @Ekam-Sat Місяць тому +2

    Too honest to be acceptable which is why it was scrubbed.

  • @Metaphyical0samak
    @Metaphyical0samak 20 днів тому

    This was an amazing book

  • @peacebewithdayo9266
    @peacebewithdayo9266 2 місяці тому +2

    👏👏👏beautiful!

  • @ThompsonFranklin-p3u
    @ThompsonFranklin-p3u 4 дні тому

    Walker Timothy Thompson Elizabeth Walker Cynthia

  • @JackTownsend-FrumHell
    @JackTownsend-FrumHell 2 місяці тому +11

    I can’t listen to a British robot talk for three hours.

    • @andrewpaterson860
      @andrewpaterson860 2 місяці тому +3

      Definitely an acquired taste

    • @DiogenesNephew
      @DiogenesNephew Місяць тому +3

      I'm gonna look for a free copy of the e-book. I'll send it to you if you want (if I find it)

    • @skyblazeeterno
      @skyblazeeterno 10 днів тому +1

      It's not the voice as such but the pacing and pauses are weird af...going to try and find a digital version of this book

  • @DuncanPenny-v7q
    @DuncanPenny-v7q 4 дні тому

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  • @manumaster1990
    @manumaster1990 2 місяці тому +2

    top book!

  • @fuhjk502
    @fuhjk502 3 дні тому +1

    My wife and I tried being open. It was great for her. It was a living Hell for me. Men need to go back to owning women as chattel.

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  • @ChestertonSam-p5x
    @ChestertonSam-p5x 3 дні тому

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  • @ChestertonSam-p5x
    @ChestertonSam-p5x 3 дні тому

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  • @HicksYvette-l8e
    @HicksYvette-l8e День тому

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  • @GregoryBoyd-s1n
    @GregoryBoyd-s1n 3 дні тому

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  • @DorotheaJacob-c5s
    @DorotheaJacob-c5s 2 дні тому

    White Ruth Taylor Christopher Miller Eric

  • @ChawHarison
    @ChawHarison 5 років тому +8

    Pelo amor de Deus traduzam isso

    • @Luisa-bt2wr
      @Luisa-bt2wr 4 роки тому +3

      o platinho tem video sobre ela, é super bom. mas nossa amigo, você vai ter acesso a um material TÃO mais extenso quando aprender inglês :( tem nem comparação com a quantidade do que existe em pt

    • @Frankcohle
      @Frankcohle 2 роки тому +2

      @N Y Curiosity knows no bounds

    • @jahy-samalover4ever439
      @jahy-samalover4ever439 2 роки тому

      Tb queria o livro traduzido

    • @ChawHarison
      @ChawHarison 2 роки тому +1

      @@jahy-samalover4ever439 então vamos trabalhar nisso

    • @ChawHarison
      @ChawHarison 2 роки тому

      @@Luisa-bt2wr eu estou estudando

  • @jamesdelk8926
    @jamesdelk8926 2 роки тому +5

    The ape won't listen to me still

  • @Anjuvachi
    @Anjuvachi 2 роки тому +7

    1:30:14

  • @jamesdelk8926
    @jamesdelk8926 2 роки тому +3

    Hope my sister writing this this is a non feminist on a man's job saying this or a semi feminist

  • @neilm1454
    @neilm1454 17 днів тому

    the robot voice, i cant listen to it :/

    • @jomarilo.
      @jomarilo. 10 днів тому

      Listen to The Manipulated Man. Same message

  • @jamesdelk8926
    @jamesdelk8926 2 роки тому +5

    But they were non feminist in hitler's army and non feminist women cheering Hitler on

    • @smokingcrab2290
      @smokingcrab2290 2 місяці тому +8

      Then they were based

    • @skepticalbystander
      @skepticalbystander 2 місяці тому +3

      Just because a truth can be held by a biased person, that doesn't make the truth itself less valid, it's just probably so valid that even biased people can adopt it. Everyone believes true AND false things at the same time.

  • @threatassessment216
    @threatassessment216 9 днів тому

    THIS IS BULL 🤣

  • @sampucket2270
    @sampucket2270 2 місяці тому +2

    2:05:00 2:33:00

  • @Tezzzaaa
    @Tezzzaaa 2 місяці тому +8

    Can't stznd the machina voice.