As I middle child who got a lot of negative attention from family and relatives: - People Pleaser - Gets good grades and tries to - Does alot of chores and sacrifices her time - Rarely asks for material things - Struggles with forming relationships or friendships - Self isolates and disappears at times - Cries in silence - The most cheerful one
We are not the best We are not the worst We are not the oldest We are not the youngest We are not the smartest We are not the dumbest We are just the middle
As a middle child i remember since when i was 5 the moment when i got to know smtg i needed my parents attention but i didn't got so this made me mature only when i was 10 and then i got my lil sis so it didn't affected me much as i was always treated like I don't exist People pleaser Get good grades but parents never satisfied Does a lot of chore and gets a position only when i work if i don't i won't have any importance Cries in 😞 silence Struggles for friendships but people dont accept our efforts And the big motivator of friends but has no one when we need to be motivated,consoled and the we get a tag "offended for small things"
That is true.And the friend motivator,also true.I rarely have people motivating me.I guess this is why i love befriending nice strangers that i can actually trust
Contrary to other middle children, my parents went out of their way to make sure I didn’t grow up with middle child syndrome, they made time for me and my two brothers equally and they usually praised me more than them. ❤
Middle Children: They are most commonly the forgotten child, the one who doesn’t feel like they have any love from their mother, father or siblings. (Unless they’re the luckiest middle child ever). I have been granted a miracle to be one of those extremely lucky middle children. I have no idea what the middle children have done, but no matter what, we deserve to be loved. Oldest Children: The one with the most responsibilities. They are treated better than the middle child, but treated worse than the youngest. Youngest Child: Spoiled brat
I’m a middle child and my family doesn’t tell me when dinner is ready so I have to guess when it is and I get in trouble because of it. But when my oldest sibling and 3rd youngest sibling are in the movie room (that was a garage) don’t come out for another 5 more minutes after I get there. Also they don’t get into trouble, I’m also the only one doing the dishes most nights even though every child does it 1 time per week.
Ya lots of friends..... I suffer from depression yes I was actually took to a doctor with my parents they acted all sad... In the car they said they didn't care if I was always sad and I have to act normal I want to end it I'm only 9-12 as a middle child
I don't know why the too much hype honestly I was the most spoiled emotionally as the only girl and got attention the most positively..... The only thing I was bit treated unfair was I was seen the responsible one ALWAYS.
GOD LOVES YOU AND HE WILL NEVER LEAVE NOR FORSAKE YOU GO TALK OBEY WORSHIP READ HIS WORDS HONOUR HIM AND LOVE HIM GIVE THANKS IN EVERY CIRCUMSTANCES FORGIVE HER AND PRAY FOR HER GOD CAN DO EVERYTHING JUST HAVE FAITH EVERYTHING WILL BE FIX BY GOD DONT WORRY DEAR JESUS CHRIST DIED FOR US SO THAT WE CAN BE SAVED JESUS CHRIST LOVES US ALL GOD IS AMAZING AND GREAT HE LOVES US ALL DEAR SO DONT BE AFRAID JUST TRUST GOD OHK GOD LOVES YOU AND YOUR FAMILY GOD BLESS YOU GLORY TO GOD HALLELUIAH AMEN 🙏❤❤❤
As a middle child who is antisocial by nature I love being the middle child due to being left to my own devices which allowed to pursue my hobbies and passions and become independent at a much earlier stage of my life compared to my siblings 😂😂😂. Also I'm the only one that my parents value my opinion in any matter due to my varied experience of living independent for years in different countries 😊
Hope that you're not the psychology. It's worst. The moment that you had struggle and rage and mad and tired. And all each of used your emotions, you became a psychology.
I'm just sick of being the middle child..i hate the way i think that i am priotised less i mean i nkow my parents love me but i hate this feeling of being a middle child..i hate they way i process my thoughts i hate the way i feel i just hate being me.i despise myself
Dont be like that.Im also a middle child and i think of myself that way too.But dont let this take you down!Maybe you just havent found your people or place.Be patient and if you are not atheist,always trust God's plan
I trust in God's plan i know he has the best thing planned for me but right now is so hard trying to pretend everything is okay just not to hurt anyone. I am bipolar as well so its so hard to try to balance my life without meds as my parents don't believe in meds i stopped taking it. So it's been quite hard but I'm trying my best to stay strong and okay not to hurt anyone.
I understand you're dealing with a difficult situation at school. Being rejected by peers can be very hurtful, especially when you're trying to make friends. In all this do remember you are lovable and amazing exactly the way are. Try to find activities or clubs at school where you might meet like-minded people who share your interests.
i agree about being people pleaser but dont remember having any " true" friends cause i was being used as doomat 😅😅 now iam depressed and dont have any " friends" 😂😂😂 but iam playing my role of being clown and bell( sab baja jate hai) of the house seriously.😂😂
Thank you for opening up and sharing your experience. It sounds like you've been through a lot. Your journey from being a people pleaser to feeling used is something many can relate to. Thank you for trusting us with your story. Your honesty might help others feeling the same way. Remember, it's okay to set boundaries and prioritize your well-being. You deserve genuine connections and respect.
I don’t know why being a middle child is so bad I’m a middle child myself and I’m my dads favorite and my moms because of my responsibility for my younger sibling and my focus on school. I know this might not be the situation for everybody but this is my experience.❤
As I middle child who got a lot of negative attention from family and relatives:
- People Pleaser
- Gets good grades and tries to
- Does alot of chores and sacrifices her time
- Rarely asks for material things
- Struggles with forming relationships or friendships
- Self isolates and disappears at times
- Cries in silence
- The most cheerful one
This is true. I thought that I was the only one who feels that
I am most powerful and wisest in the family!
Tho
😮this is truly me! The middle one
That's sounds just like me❤😊
Same for me no matter what I do…
We are not the best
We are not the worst
We are not the oldest
We are not the youngest
We are not the smartest
We are not the dumbest
We are just the middle
We’re the walking second place
haa to yha btane ki kya zroort h
Actually I am the smartest but yeah
@@vidhandubey1860 aapko padhke ye negative comment karne ki kya zarurat Hai?
As a middle child i remember since when i was 5 the moment when i got to know smtg i needed my parents attention but i didn't got so this made me mature only when i was 10 and then i got my lil sis so it didn't affected me much as i was always treated like I don't exist
People pleaser
Get good grades but parents never satisfied
Does a lot of chore and gets a position only when i work if i don't i won't have any importance
Cries in 😞 silence
Struggles for friendships but people dont accept our efforts
And the big motivator of friends but has no one when we need to be motivated,consoled and the we get a tag "offended for small things"
That is true.And the friend motivator,also true.I rarely have people motivating me.I guess this is why i love befriending nice strangers that i can actually trust
That literaky described me word for word. My people pleasing has become one of the root causes of my depression, axiety and lack of self esstem
Contrary to other middle children, my parents went out of their way to make sure I didn’t grow up with middle child syndrome, they made time for me and my two brothers equally and they usually praised me more than them. ❤
Thank you for sharing. We believe this is such a gift!
Lovely
I think your mother and father were used to be middle ones... I'm soo glad that you're getting the appreciation you deserve❤️🙂
They treated you well because you are a single girl with 2 brothers. If you have elder sister and then you, case would have been completely different
I'm a middle child I am fiercely independent and a problem solver from an early age. I am happy to be a middle child and I am very proud of myself 💓
I have immense respect for middle child. Glad to know you are doing well. 😊
Same dear
Middle Children:
They are most commonly the forgotten child, the one who doesn’t feel like they have any love from their mother, father or siblings. (Unless they’re the luckiest middle child ever). I have been granted a miracle to be one of those extremely lucky middle children. I have no idea what the middle children have done, but no matter what, we deserve to be loved.
Oldest Children:
The one with the most responsibilities. They are treated better than the middle child, but treated worse than the youngest.
Youngest Child:
Spoiled brat
I am middle child.
And my pain is bigger then my heart 😢
I’m a middle child and my family doesn’t tell me when dinner is ready so I have to guess when it is and I get in trouble because of it. But when my oldest sibling and 3rd youngest sibling are in the movie room (that was a garage) don’t come out for another 5 more minutes after I get there. Also they don’t get into trouble, I’m also the only one doing the dishes most nights even though every child does it 1 time per week.
That's sad, you don't deserve this 😭😞😢!!! God bless you!!!
@@FrMLesS thanks ❤
Same for me but I don't really care u know I'm not gonna cry about it but be strong
That's same my story 🥲
Respectfully, they are not left somewhere in the the middle. They are just left out of the region of concern
I was a loner, but I currently have 5 friends, which I'm sure will leave me soon enough
Most things she said are true.
I can be a little bit competitive
I used to be a people-pleaser
I struggled to find my place
I am Friendly and tempered
Ya lots of friends.....
I suffer from depression yes I was actually took to a doctor with my parents they acted all sad... In the car they said they didn't care if I was always sad and I have to act normal I want to end it I'm only 9-12 as a middle child
Yes I could see the same feeling that my brother who was in between me and my eldest brother!
Serious,silent, innocent,angry and middle child assemble here
👇
Bruh im so relate of your comment
@@ame5484 😅
Agreed!
That is so true now I understand now from all these years
Cause parents see her childs :she is first girl right but the second girl 😢 and this is a boy
Sending this to my parents rn😢
Im literally cryin😭
Thank you for sharing! Remember, your emotions are valid, and it's okay to feel deeply. Sending you so much love and strength🙏💫
I only have like 2 friends 😭
Circle small like the middle of a CD 💿
I am the middle child but 8ihave no friends
Yep
Well I don’t have a ton of friends lol…
But I can make friends easily
“We are not forgotten”
“ we are not hated”
“ we just have trauma”
- a middle child
I don't know why the too much hype honestly I was the most spoiled emotionally as the only girl and got attention the most positively..... The only thing I was bit treated unfair was I was seen the responsible one ALWAYS.
Tbh the stornger one is worng) am not being Rude but is worng for me!
Thank you so much for sharing your perspective. We read it and acknowledge your thoughts!
We’re buff babies botion👇🏻
My mom abuses me😔
I'm the middle child
GOD LOVES YOU AND HE WILL NEVER LEAVE NOR FORSAKE YOU GO TALK OBEY WORSHIP READ HIS WORDS HONOUR HIM AND LOVE HIM GIVE THANKS IN EVERY CIRCUMSTANCES FORGIVE HER AND PRAY FOR HER GOD CAN DO EVERYTHING JUST HAVE FAITH EVERYTHING WILL BE FIX BY GOD DONT WORRY DEAR JESUS CHRIST DIED FOR US SO THAT WE CAN BE SAVED JESUS CHRIST LOVES US ALL GOD IS AMAZING AND GREAT HE LOVES US ALL DEAR SO DONT BE AFRAID JUST TRUST GOD OHK GOD LOVES YOU AND YOUR FAMILY GOD BLESS YOU GLORY TO GOD HALLELUIAH AMEN 🙏❤❤❤
Finally some one understands me
acchaa aisa h kya 😀
As a middle child who is antisocial by nature I love being the middle child due to being left to my own devices which allowed to pursue my hobbies and passions and become independent at a much earlier stage of my life compared to my siblings 😂😂😂.
Also I'm the only one that my parents value my opinion in any matter due to my varied experience of living independent for years in different countries 😊
Hope that you're not the psychology. It's worst. The moment that you had struggle and rage and mad and tired. And all each of used your emotions, you became a psychology.
I'm stronger than my big brother and I'm not also sociable
I'm just sick of being the middle child..i hate the way i think that i am priotised less i mean i nkow my parents love me but i hate this feeling of being a middle child..i hate they way i process my thoughts i hate the way i feel i just hate being me.i despise myself
Dont be like that.Im also a middle child and i think of myself that way too.But dont let this take you down!Maybe you just havent found your people or place.Be patient and if you are not atheist,always trust God's plan
I trust in God's plan i know he has the best thing planned for me but right now is so hard trying to pretend everything is okay just not to hurt anyone. I am bipolar as well so its so hard to try to balance my life without meds as my parents don't believe in meds i stopped taking it. So it's been quite hard but I'm trying my best to stay strong and okay not to hurt anyone.
@@beess.123 i understand that.Im going through the same thing.Stay strong brother
@@ArmandDaniel fighting 💪
She just described me
i just don't know why being a middle child everyone at school just hates me i try to make friends with them they are like oh f- you
I understand you're dealing with a difficult situation at school. Being rejected by peers can be very hurtful, especially when you're trying to make friends. In all this do remember you are lovable and amazing exactly the way are. Try to find activities or clubs at school where you might meet like-minded people who share your interests.
i agree about being people pleaser but dont remember having any " true" friends cause i was being used as doomat 😅😅 now iam depressed and dont have any " friends" 😂😂😂 but iam playing my role of being clown and bell( sab baja jate hai) of the house seriously.😂😂
Thank you for opening up and sharing your experience. It sounds like you've been through a lot. Your journey from being a people pleaser to feeling used is something many can relate to. Thank you for trusting us with your story. Your honesty might help others feeling the same way. Remember, it's okay to set boundaries and prioritize your well-being. You deserve genuine connections and respect.
Im the middle but the oldest 😅😂
Yes you are right 😭😞
I have no friends
I don’t know why being a middle child is so bad I’m a middle child myself and I’m my dads favorite and my moms because of my responsibility for my younger sibling and my focus on school. I know this might not be the situation for everybody but this is my experience.❤