This Hits Hard | James Blunt | The Girl That Never Was | 3 Generation Reaction

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  • @danielquiroz3487
    @danielquiroz3487 4 місяці тому +31

    Lord this song is heartbreaking. We lost our daughter 7 years ago. She would have been our 3rd child. James perfecrly captures the helplessness and heartbreak a husband feels watching how it breaks your wife and you can't do anything to fix it. Meanwhile you still have to be the strong one and keep the family going.

  • @JG-fv9bv
    @JG-fv9bv 8 місяців тому +51

    Yes true song , James singing about the daughter he and his wife lost

  • @陳柏諭-m4t
    @陳柏諭-m4t 6 місяців тому +15

    Oh Lulu, you're going to get your heart broken some day. But that emotion is what keeps the colours in your life.

  • @donepearce
    @donepearce 8 місяців тому +70

    James was an army Captain who drove the first tank into Pristina during the Balkans war. He told an American general to f*ck off when he tried to get him to fire on an airfield where it was clear the occupiers were preparing to surrender. Naturally his commanding officer backed him up when the general tried to have him court martialled.

    • @MrHws5mp
      @MrHws5mp 7 місяців тому +16

      No you got that a bit mixed up. The US General Wesley Clarke who was in charge of the UN peacekeeping force ordered the British contingent under General Sir Mike Jackson to go and push the Russians off Pristina airport, using force if neccessary. General Jackson told him "no" (allegedly using the full extent of a colourful vocabulary acquired from years in the Parachute Regiment), and got straight on the sat-phone to London, who backed him up 100%. London got on the phone to Washington, and 48 hours later General Clarke was on a plane home.
      Years later, the now retired General Jackson and James Blunt were on a chat show together, and before talking about his latest single, Blunt insisted on thanking General Jackson for saving his life. Jackson looked puzzled, and then Blunt explained that he was the commander of the Scimitar light tank that would have been the first vehicle up the road to Pristina Airport had Jackson not refused Clarke's order.

    • @honeybadger713
      @honeybadger713 7 місяців тому +7

      I’m 58 never had any kids , was married once for a year and a half many many years ago , never remarried since then and never will again .However if I did have any kids he or she would be 36 this august. I will never know since all that was gone on Dec 17th 1988 . It is what it is though , the past is that past and for the most part I leave it there , but from time to time life reminds me sometimes , even in my dreams .

    • @DarrellFanning-bx7xz
      @DarrellFanning-bx7xz 6 місяців тому +1

      Makes for a good story but not true

    • @rob-sm9ur
      @rob-sm9ur 3 місяці тому +1

      @@MrHws5mp I mean, this is quite a compelling argument/statement tbh! I’m a war buff - hence why I’m here. I think he’ll struggle to come back, which it’s probably why he hasn’t 🙃🙃

    • @beefy8269
      @beefy8269 3 дні тому

      ​Clarke? An American General called Clarke ? Not the first time that name and rank has been the source of ignomony

  • @robrichards8074
    @robrichards8074 8 місяців тому +22

    James Blunt pulls the emotion right out of you with this one. He writes his songs about what knows very well, his own life. That's what makes him as unique as his distinctive voice, its rare in todays music.

  • @danielprefontaine4030
    @danielprefontaine4030 5 місяців тому +6

    3 beautiful ladies with honest and true hearts.
    Very refreshing to see people care about others.
    Make lots more videos.

  • @kevinmcneice8989
    @kevinmcneice8989 8 місяців тому +9

    No Words Needed ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Jeff-ge9kt
    @Jeff-ge9kt 8 місяців тому +14

    I love the way James tells such heartfelt stories that many times are from his own life and experiences. I think this song would help people who have a hard time expressing the grief they have experienced through the loss of a child.

  • @katyhughes6740
    @katyhughes6740 8 місяців тому +7

    Lulus hair is absolutely gorgeous btw
    Great reaction ❤😢 i couldn't not cry at this.

  • @davecleggett9371
    @davecleggett9371 7 місяців тому +3

    Lulu, you need a hug girl. Lovely reaction ladies, thank you for sharing, keep safe. Suggestion? "Carry you home".

  • @HankD13
    @HankD13 5 місяців тому +11

    Its true, and like with Monsters, James way of dealing with pain and emotion was to write a song about it. He and his wife now have two boys!

  • @christinesanchez2141
    @christinesanchez2141 3 місяці тому +3

    Love the he sang this song in a very softer voice.

  • @TripletDad3
    @TripletDad3 7 місяців тому +5

    Carry You Home is another great song by him about lan American female soldier in Kosovo that was killed in action that he worked with and became a close friend.
    He hasn't talked about it much, but in an interview years ago he said he was there when it happened and he wept over her and promised to take her home. In another interview he said that he brought her belongings back to the US for the family.

  • @xyxyqw
    @xyxyqw 8 місяців тому +2

    Lulu is so sensitive and empathic for her young age❤..you all are ❤full people!
    React to his "Carry you home",another tearjerker...
    Best regards ladies🙋🏼‍♂️

  • @ianstorey8713
    @ianstorey8713 7 місяців тому +7

    The song is about the daughter he and Sofia lost. He wrote the song as his way of dealing with his grief

  • @joakimlofberg8345
    @joakimlofberg8345 8 місяців тому +13

    The Girl That Never Was tells a heart-wrenching story of a lost dream. James Blunt and his wife, Sofia Wellesley, longed for a child, but fate had other plans. The lyrics drip with sorrow, regret, and an unfulfilled yearning for the child they never had.

  • @brian52763
    @brian52763 8 місяців тому +4

    from what i understand, this is true! He says that writing like this is very therapeutic for him! He certainly wears his heart on his sleeve with his music!

  • @newlenmedia
    @newlenmedia 6 місяців тому +3

    Don't be afraid to let out your reaction, Lulu. You're young so it's harder to just be comfortable in your own skin. But I encourage you to just feel it and let it show.

  • @Remnants100
    @Remnants100 3 місяці тому +2

    Big hugs to you guys, from the UK.

  • @allengray5748
    @allengray5748 8 місяців тому +2

    JAMES! Going through stuff is one thing but crafting art 🎭 the way he does is amazing. BLUNT FORCE TRAUMA I've called the later 4 songs I've listened to but His First called YOUR BEAUTIFUL 💖 is one you can put on repeat without tissues!! Have a Great Day Ladies!! Peace 🕊️☮️♾️😎

  • @christinesanchez2141
    @christinesanchez2141 3 місяці тому +3

    Another true story he sang. He said. In a interview singing is like therapy. GOODBYE MY LOVER BY JAMES BLUNT

  • @heikobar7626
    @heikobar7626 8 місяців тому +2

    Thanks for this reaction. Its such a beautiful and sad song.

  • @maryphillips6480
    @maryphillips6480 8 місяців тому +3

    Thank you for your reaction. 🙂

  • @R3ED3R
    @R3ED3R 8 місяців тому +10

    both James and his dad are ex British army so mad respect!

    • @lesjones471
      @lesjones471 8 місяців тому

      I joined the UK forces in Sept 1966,I became a vehicle mechanic and traveled to places of unrest to keep the peace and did tours of N Ireland one was 4 months and I was in belfast a bit weird as public on both sides faught each other.I did 18+ yrs and enjoyed it most of the time.

    • @R3ED3R
      @R3ED3R 8 місяців тому

      @@lesjones471 Thank you for joining Les :)

  • @ThaiNguyen-tb9zl
    @ThaiNguyen-tb9zl 8 місяців тому +5

    You should do Whiskey Lullaby... that is also pretty emotional

    • @jarnojuhani8942
      @jarnojuhani8942 4 місяці тому

      With the video!!!! OMG what a song!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @GrimlarLex
    @GrimlarLex 8 місяців тому +7

    Some more songs from James, Carry you home (the video is not the same story as the lyrics, both are tragic,) Goodbye my lover, No bravery, Same Mistake and for a glimpse of James sense of humour watch the video for Unstoppable. James is a truly special musician.

  • @ManuelGuajardo-zd7hx
    @ManuelGuajardo-zd7hx 8 місяців тому +5

    Yes as Lulu put it it's is a very meaningful song about life. Wintersunsun Alex and wintersun Cathy🫶❤️🥹❄️

  • @sandimiller6465
    @sandimiller6465 9 днів тому

    "We're ready."
    No, the one thing you never are is ready for a James Blunt song.

  • @EdwinSemidey
    @EdwinSemidey 3 місяці тому

    You can't say anything but be there for them . Great Reaction ladies

  • @marknich1577
    @marknich1577 8 місяців тому +2

    Great but very sad song,he always gets me😢❤

  • @RobertKinard-r9t
    @RobertKinard-r9t Місяць тому

    Keep doing what you do

  • @davidkettell6236
    @davidkettell6236 8 місяців тому +10

    I have heard this many times but here i am as usual,a life toughrned 70 year old bawling like a child and we are only halfway through. They lost their first pregnancy,a girl but now have two boys ,but as aa father of one girl i would not swap her for all the sons in the world.

  • @knkimmel7409
    @knkimmel7409 6 місяців тому +5

    Hemingway wrote a short story: For sale. Baby shoes. Never worn.

  • @JG-fv9bv
    @JG-fv9bv 8 місяців тому +9

    James Blunt. .... "No Bravery" .

  • @staffy4389
    @staffy4389 8 місяців тому +1

    Hi ladies, from your Irish cousins. Check out the Dubliners, "I wish I had someone to love me " ❤❤❤

  • @thomaswright5864
    @thomaswright5864 8 місяців тому +1

    Try listening to CARRY YOU HOME, Ps I’m watching from the uk,Scotland and you 3 are cool👌, and yes unfortunately it’s true, they did lose a child😢

  • @BobTheMan2
    @BobTheMan2 8 місяців тому +1

    Well I must be living under a rock. I found an amazing girl Grace Bowers a Guitarist Wow is all I can say.

  • @janhansen910
    @janhansen910 Місяць тому

    i love lulu she is a beatiful human with real felings and emotions

  • @broshrddg
    @broshrddg 8 місяців тому +2

    A really good song you should check out is "Angelique" by Tyrone Wells.

  • @tmznt
    @tmznt 8 місяців тому +1

    Never heard of him. Guess I should listen. I see his songs have a lot of views.

  • @davidpeters2964
    @davidpeters2964 8 місяців тому +2

    Try citizen soldier tattoos

  • @hushus10021971
    @hushus10021971 Місяць тому +1

    "Blunt then released singles "All The Love That I Ever Needed" and "The Girl That Never Was", the latter of which was written about Blunt and his wife losing a child through miscarriage"

  • @bobbrinkerhoff3592
    @bobbrinkerhoff3592 8 місяців тому +2

    My dad was the youngest of eight children , spread out over 26 years . He knew that his Ma had lost four of her six daughters , what he didn't know and I found on Ancestry was that one of them was 8 yo , and a twin was 7 months old , I have yet to find anything on the other set of twins . Grandma's family Bible isn't the original Bible , in the front where you record the marriages and births , only the four surviving children were listed . I can only imagine what she went thru .

  • @robertSibley-t3b
    @robertSibley-t3b 8 місяців тому +4

    tried to stop listening to it but couldn't, all I could think of was my two precious angels, one stillborn and one 10 weeks old. 40 years on it still makes me emotional when I think about it. The worst thing about it was in those days we were not allowed to give her a christian name nor were allowed to go to the funeral (The stillborn girl) they told you after where she was buried. Thankfully nowadays they allow the parents and family to attend the service as was the case with my grand daughter who lived 2 hours, the hospital organised the funeral and even for the cars to take us there as we did not have a car at the time. also bless the NHS as it was all free of charge to us as our taxes pay for it irrelevant of whether you pay tax or not.

    • @janeforrest6838
      @janeforrest6838 8 місяців тому

      So sorry for your loses,42 years ago I lost my first baby a girl she lived for 3 hours after a two day labour.I grieve for her every day and will always wonder what she would have been like.This song is beautiful.

  • @SmilingDesertCobra-ef1ly
    @SmilingDesertCobra-ef1ly 7 місяців тому +1

    I was not ready to see those little shoes😢😢😢

  • @lunardruidcyprianrose333
    @lunardruidcyprianrose333 23 дні тому

    Between my daughter and my son, was Trevor Michael. The line "we never should've picked a name" broke me. even though the miscarriage was 22 years ago.

  • @gaynorhead2325
    @gaynorhead2325 7 місяців тому +1

    Both of our daughters had several miscarriages before thankfully having 2 gorgeous children each. It is heartbreaking to watch someone go through it.

  • @robertSibley-t3b
    @robertSibley-t3b 8 місяців тому +2

    try "you're beautiful" by James

  • @afamaasi5413
    @afamaasi5413 8 місяців тому +1

    Hi guys....love you guys reaction video so i have a request for you guys...
    .its immortality ft Celine dion and the bee Gees 👍 thanks

  • @tasossaros8375
    @tasossaros8375 8 місяців тому +1

    🔥👀 "So, who's the lucky boy getting second?" 😉😘

  • @beachside1
    @beachside1 28 днів тому

    The 49-year-old told the hosts he wrote the song after he and wife Sofia Wellesley tragically lost their baby daughter. Opening up, James said: "It's amazing how many people can relate to the song. I'm married.

  • @adriangan1275
    @adriangan1275 Місяць тому

    You should do 'Dark Thoughts' by James blunt

  • @jaynekavanagh4790
    @jaynekavanagh4790 8 місяців тому +9

    Check out You're Beautiful, Goodbye My Lover and Carry You Home

  • @jacobreisser8034
    @jacobreisser8034 4 дні тому

    One of my oldest friends had three miscarriages in the nineties. On the fourth pregnancy she had massive cravings for pickled beetroot. Her daughter was born fit and healthy in 1996. She is married to my son's best friend. 😊 🇬🇧

  • @jasongibbins6484
    @jasongibbins6484 7 місяців тому +1

    Subbed, you have to check out ‘No Bravery’, and ‘Carry You Home’, both amazing songs by James Blunt, great reaction 👍👍👍

  • @shaunmurphy2401
    @shaunmurphy2401 20 днів тому

    Try and listen to James Blunt, Carry you Home!

  • @alicehuddleston308
    @alicehuddleston308 8 місяців тому +1

    I READ THAT JAMES WROTE THIS AS A WHAT IF BUT THEN IT REALLY HAPPEMD/ JAMES GENRE IS SONGS OF MISFORTUNE. CHECK OUT HIS THE GREATEST IT IS A COVID SONG. ANOTHER COVID SONG IS JOHNNY CASH THE MAN COMES AROUND COVID EDITION OR DIMASH VIDEO HE DID FOR COVID WE ARE ONE

  • @ronaldmariano1888
    @ronaldmariano1888 8 місяців тому +1

    The girls that never react to Hocus Pocus by Focus misses out on some good rock and roll!! 🙂

  • @davidgannon4302
    @davidgannon4302 8 місяців тому +1

    LuLu was struggling. A beautifully sad song

  • @MommaBird52
    @MommaBird52 8 місяців тому +1

    Carry You Home and No Bravery by James.

  • @Powerstroke98
    @Powerstroke98 5 місяців тому +1

    Yes, James and his wife lost their first baby apparently. He knows from the heart, the pain one goes through.

  • @teresaali6658
    @teresaali6658 8 місяців тому +2

    Goodbye my lover ❤

  • @bruceadams3204
    @bruceadams3204 6 днів тому

    Any one have a Prozac.

  • @gypsyofthesky1
    @gypsyofthesky1 7 місяців тому +3

    Goodbye my Lover - Get some more tissues...

  • @AlexanderFa-m7s
    @AlexanderFa-m7s 7 місяців тому +2

    😢❤❤

  • @Ricardo-ju1qg
    @Ricardo-ju1qg 8 місяців тому

    Please Andre matos "over your head " ritualive

  • @raystone3172
    @raystone3172 Місяць тому

    im sorry but this is one song that should never be paused

  • @stephenroberts3810
    @stephenroberts3810 8 місяців тому +2

    My wife lost 2 due to miscarriage now we got a daughter who just turned 21

  • @boysukmana8505
    @boysukmana8505 8 місяців тому

    Request how could you leave US by nf

  • @Rita-j4z
    @Rita-j4z 5 місяців тому

    it happened to him

  • @FabianoGomes-yt5nm
    @FabianoGomes-yt5nm 5 місяців тому

    Olá, sou do Brazil e adoro ver as reações do canal. Sou fã de vocês. Parabéns pelo canal. Gostaria de sugerir uma reação, clipe musical oficial Everybody's Changing
    Canção de Keane

  • @ShanLiB
    @ShanLiB 8 місяців тому

    As happened with "Monsters", I was OK until Lulu lost it. 😢😢

  • @RaduRadonys
    @RaduRadonys 6 місяців тому

    Hello guys, are you from Southern US by any chance? I have a hard time pinpointing your accents (I'm not American) :)

  • @Seantalip1771
    @Seantalip1771 8 місяців тому

    True experienced James had, his 1st miscarriaged thn he has 2 great boy with his wife... Mostly his songs abt his experienced in life.

  • @alteredoggy
    @alteredoggy 7 місяців тому

    having lost a child at 1 week old, this song just leaves me in a total mess

  • @lesjones471
    @lesjones471 8 місяців тому

    This is a real life situation again,James and his wife lost a child by a miscarriage.

  • @duanepipe5277
    @duanepipe5277 8 місяців тому

    You need to hear his anti war song No Bravery,

  • @duncanwyer2460
    @duncanwyer2460 8 місяців тому +1

    🇬🇧 Norfolk with you James is from here in Norfolk we cry a lot 😢
    Carry you home next

  • @ivanveljkovic6242
    @ivanveljkovic6242 8 місяців тому +1

    Donna do you must be that beautiful ♥️