MARRIED MEN DATING SINGLE WOMEN? The Dating Crisis in Houston, Texas

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  • Опубліковано 12 вер 2024
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    Dating in 2023 is not for the weak or faint hearted! In this weeks live we discussed many topics but a big one is the trend of married men pursing single women. Since moving to Houston Texas I have noticed this behavior more and more. Some say this is common especially in major cities but I never experienced this in the northeast. What do you think?
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  • @stephaniechenault9169
    @stephaniechenault9169 11 місяців тому +9

    "My wife and I are separated". Translation: He hasn't been home since he left at 7:30am. 😂😂😂 Take it from a woman now in her 60's.

  • @anthenytaylor6305
    @anthenytaylor6305 6 місяців тому

    Seperated from my wife here in Houston. From Indiana. Getting a divorce but refuse to date here or even get down down here based on the atmosphere alone. Stds all over the news. Tried dating sites and everyone wants money out of you. Focusing on me and my kids until I can transfer to rural America and find something real. These big cities ain't it. Rural will be better for my kids as well. Don't want the. Going against the grain in the dating game either

  • @monalysamakeup849
    @monalysamakeup849 11 місяців тому +5

    It’s mainly married African men that approaches me

  • @jus3278
    @jus3278 11 місяців тому +3

    Nigerian men love Houston because they can have multiple women just like they do back home in Nigeria 😂 . On a real though Nigerian men are known to practice polygyny and have multiple families no matter their location and they keep their families separate, so you were more than likely just kept in the dark by your fam. There's a reality that we have more Black women in the US than single Black men, so a lot of women have to either get comfortable with being the wife and sharing your man or the sidechick. If you don't want that then you honestly may need to lower your standards. All women want the attractive guy, with an education, career, etc but don't realize that these men have a lot of options.

    • @EJIMANnenaNgozi
      @EJIMANnenaNgozi  11 місяців тому +2

      I understand your perspective. Another option is for Black women to date non black men vs lowering their standards.

    • @gp9677
      @gp9677 6 місяців тому

      @@EJIMANnenaNgoziy’all also asking men to lower their standards to date yall

    • @JesseVealIII
      @JesseVealIII 4 місяці тому +1

      Not sure how i found this video. But i just got back from Lagos and it is def big in Lagos, Nigeria. Out there a guy can be polygynous and have girlefriends and side chicks in addition to wives. And the single women don't mind like the US because it's less opportunity for them to make their own money and they want financial support.

    • @EJIMANnenaNgozi
      @EJIMANnenaNgozi  4 місяці тому

      Agreed!

  • @JamenLS
    @JamenLS 11 місяців тому +3

    Stop it because married women do it too. Do you know how many married women I've knocked down and found out later that they were married and this was 10 years ago

    • @EJIMANnenaNgozi
      @EJIMANnenaNgozi  11 місяців тому

      Im not saying married women dont cheat. But lets be real they arent pursing single men in the same way married men are pursuing single women.

    • @jeviosoorishas181
      @jeviosoorishas181 11 місяців тому +2

      @@EJIMANnenaNgozi lol, you've never heard of "Cougar bars"

    • @JamenLS
      @JamenLS 11 місяців тому

      @@EJIMANnenaNgozi yes the hell they are! Men just don't talk like women do. We keep it to ourselves and the cheating women don't tell their friends because they don't want to be looked at like hoes or having low integrity. Trust me. This is literally what they've all told me

    • @jus3278
      @jus3278 11 місяців тому

      ​@EJIMANnenaNgozi not true at all lol. The stats show that men and women pretty much cheat at the same rate. I've been hit on by plenty of married women throughout my years in Houston. A lot of people both men and women cheat here.

  • @genovasquez8361
    @genovasquez8361 9 місяців тому +2

    All men eventually cheat

    • @EJIMANnenaNgozi
      @EJIMANnenaNgozi  5 місяців тому +1

      If given the opportunity many will.. but not all

    • @genovasquez8361
      @genovasquez8361 5 місяців тому

      @@EJIMANnenaNgozi all will create opportunities

  • @akeem2752
    @akeem2752 11 місяців тому +2

    Married men are notorious for going after single women. I'll be 35 shortly and I can recall as a kid my aunt's having these same discussions in the early/mid 90s. Also I consume lot of media (TV, music,news and movies) and infidelity has been publicized quite a bit since the late 60s. I know a woman from Gambia who said this has also been an issue in her area since the 80s. And I know for a fact both my grandmas went thru this (born in the later 20s/ early 30s).

    • @EJIMANnenaNgozi
      @EJIMANnenaNgozi  11 місяців тому

      I believe its nothing new. But I experienced it on another level in Houston, Texas!

    • @akeem2752
      @akeem2752 11 місяців тому

      @@EJIMANnenaNgozi tbh most men of not all would love to have at least one other woman. My question to women is why is that so hard to understand? Bill Gates a literal computer nerd had a side piece for over a decade. And honestly on our end it's not out of disrespect it's just our nature

    • @EJIMANnenaNgozi
      @EJIMANnenaNgozi  11 місяців тому +1

      I understand this to an extent but not every woman wants that. Those men should deal with the women that are, many don’t mind!

    • @genovasquez8361
      @genovasquez8361 9 місяців тому

      Men we dont care if your single or not

    • @genovasquez8361
      @genovasquez8361 9 місяців тому

      ​@@EJIMANnenaNgozimen who are hunters. Will never stop going on the hunt.
      Once you become a hunter..
      You can't turn it off

  • @nubiann104
    @nubiann104 11 місяців тому +1

    Lol. No yes or no questions!

  • @ericbritton8146
    @ericbritton8146 11 місяців тому +1

    Dating is actually a game that was created by Chuck Barris who also produced and hosted "The Gong Show". Although, they both were very entertaining shows, there are not any written established rules for dating. Therefore, "The Gong Show" is often the final result of "The Dating Game". I always recommend if you are going to play a game, play one that already has written established rules to it. Doing so will eliminate a lot of heartaches.
    As the man (Gen 1:26-28) KJV, a husband (Gen 2:21-25) and a father (Gen 3:16), the minister of God (Rom 13), teacher (Eph 4) and one of the survivors who was bullied in school, most females want either a smelly dragon (Gen 3) "Jane and the Dragon", a smelly four-legged, wide mouth, sharp teeth, long tongue beast (Gen 2:19-20), which is usually a smelly dog "wolf wolf" {of the field} "Terry Toons - All About Dogs", "Goofy - Man's Best Friend" (1952), "Year of the Dog" (2007) or a smelly Pit Bull Terrier {mutant} (Php 3:2) "Death Row Dogs" (2008), "Devil Dog: The Hound of Hell" (1978), "Man's Best Friend" (1993) to lick their faces, lips, noses and eyes, etc. from time to time "good boy", probably sometimes right after "it" (1 John 4) has just finished licking his testicles, the dung remnants from his rectum or both without telling them or to listen to them bark, growl and "Howl" (2014) throughout the day and "Night of the Wild" (2015), a little bit more "Fire Dogs to the Rescue | The Ren and Stimpy Show" or they simply settle for a two-legged boyfriend/baby daddy (The 2 Live Crew) and oftentimes a combination of 2 or more of the mentioned (an orgy), not a husband (husbandman). Sing it "The Irvin Lee Project - Heartbreaking Feeling". Therefore, the pet(s) and/or the boyfriend(s)/baby daddy(s) is/are their baby(babies)/bedmate(s)/best friend(s)/family/heart/love(s)/partner(s). Meow baby! What goes on in the wilderness goes on in the "Wilderness" (2006). "Ain't no fun if all of the homies can't have none." Sing it "Luther Vandross - Busy Body".
    The woman was made to be help meet for the man. (Gen 2:18)
    Girls look forward to and enjoy competing with and against other girls, smelly dragons and Vera de Milo either on their cellphones ("Oggy and the Cockroaches - Jack's Nephew", "Cell" {2016} and "It's Our World by Steve Cutts and Yann Tiersen"), in-person or both at the same time (multitasking) all day, everyday, non-stop (career) sing it "Kraftwerk - Musique Non Stop [12" Version]" with or without the smelly four-legged, wide mouth, sharp teeth, long tongue beast(s) to lick their faces, lips, noses and eyes, etc. from time to time "good boy(s)", probably sometimes right after "it/they" has/have just finished licking his/their testicles, the dung remnants from his/their rectum(s) or both without telling them. As the man, I have never been anyone's boyfriend, although many girls including some of my female cousins have claimed me as such and one daughter even claimed me as her husband when she grows up. I personally was given a wife "Who is that?" like Joseph and Moses, because she was very interested in me. Sing it "Evelyn Champagne King - Kisses Don't Lie (All Day Kisses Mix) (1988) Gerald Levert Remix". I was telling my wife, I can not teach the word of God, then live contrary to the word of God. That would make me a hypocrite. That is not a good title to have. Eph 5:22-33, 6:1-4