i moved out of LA and everything has changed (for the better?)

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  • Опубліковано 15 січ 2025

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  • @jesssvaladez
    @jesssvaladez  9 місяців тому +15

    big takeaways: practice gratitude and make sure you have HD turned on 😅☺️

  • @jazminebautista6759
    @jazminebautista6759 9 місяців тому +26

    i feel the same. one minute i'm 23 then suddenly im turning 28 this year. and having to ask myself what's more important, money or my peace.

  • @nailzbydom
    @nailzbydom 9 місяців тому +8

    you have been one of my comfort youtubers since 2016 🥺 I feel like I have watched you grow & discover yourself all through your 20’s & am so proud of you!!! I am also a IE girly & hope to run into you soon 🩶

    • @jesssvaladez
      @jesssvaladez  9 місяців тому +2

      omgggg i know it’ll happen soon

  • @jessicacortes08
    @jessicacortes08 9 місяців тому +12

    love you gurl, can't wait to see what's next with your life. I'm here to cheer you on! 🩷

    • @jesssvaladez
      @jesssvaladez  9 місяців тому +1

      couldnt say THANK YOU enough 🥹🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂 the feeling is mutual!

  • @yoselineojeda6894
    @yoselineojeda6894 9 місяців тому +3

    Everything will be ok ❤

  • @slumber42396
    @slumber42396 9 місяців тому +2

    Wow, I turn 28 next week and when you were talking about your saturn return and just all the life changes you're SO RIGHT. This past year I'm like wtf is going on?? I'm in desperate need of stability and purpose ASAP

  • @jocesoria
    @jocesoria 9 місяців тому +2

    Give yourself grace, you’re doing amazing! 🎉 I’m right there with you and it’s hard to stay positive through the craziness of the world

  • @aerickatenice
    @aerickatenice 9 місяців тому +2

    GIIIRRRLLL! This whole video sums up my life currently. Going through my Saturn return right now... & still trying to figure out what I'm suppose to do with myself on this floating rock. So I've learned to have gratitude & go with the flow of life. I know what I dont want & that's a start, right? 🤷🏾‍♀

  • @goatedbysaturn
    @goatedbysaturn 9 місяців тому

    It was so refreshing to get a life update from you. From someone who is going through their Saturn return too, girlllll the spiraling has been intense for me. Wishing you the best on your interview and everything you do. 💛

  • @BCR13
    @BCR13 9 місяців тому +1

    Love you jess! I believe we are all going through it rn. 😩 but keep posting and dont stop believing in yourself. You will make it!

  • @YvetteGarcia18
    @YvetteGarcia18 7 місяців тому

    Love these videos of you just talking to us! I've been watching you for like over 6 years now and have always related to you especially with like the journey of yourself. I can't express how much you have made me feel so much more normal lol. So many people around me have found their life partners/have their careers figured out and it is so easy for me to compare myself and put myself down, but we are all in our own lane and I think I'm just someone who is always changing and reinventing myself and am learning to find joy and love myself during this journey 🫶 Keep us updated on your school stuff! I just got my Masters last month so I'm rooting for you in anything you choose to do!! 🌷💛

  • @Tapinnt3
    @Tapinnt3 9 місяців тому +1

    Good for you! Proud of you! Keep going 💯🏁

  • @jrlion5422
    @jrlion5422 5 місяців тому

    I hope you find yourself and your inner peace ☮️ and happiness ❤😊

  • @marielaaldaba
    @marielaaldaba 8 місяців тому

    This resonates so much with my current life😅 turning 27, wanting to change career fields, figuring out where to plant roots. Right there with ya 🫶🏽

  • @TheJenjen2300
    @TheJenjen2300 9 місяців тому

    I can’t believe I found you 4 years ago!! Whilst looking for videos of girls who shaved their head before I shaved mine haha. I love you and your videos. Love that you poured your heart out and just sat to chat 🫶🏼 goodluck with everything! You’re doing great and seems like ups from here sis :) Can’t wait to see/hear your next updates 🤍

  • @delaneyexpressionalart
    @delaneyexpressionalart 9 місяців тому

    missed you ❤

  • @christinarooz5115
    @christinarooz5115 8 місяців тому

    I’m from the IE too! I’m 28, I lost my good playing job during covid. I’m back in the work force lol. I now work at Target and a certain theme park. Part time at both because I’m going back to school too. Trust me I couldn’t get the job at target for a long time too. I think I only got in because everyone was sick. I went through a big mental health journey too and recently just getting health insurance again. I was uninsured for 2 years. I’m worried about my health now. Good luck!

  • @ahoyaj
    @ahoyaj 9 місяців тому

    I turn 27 this year and I am FRIGHTENED for it.
    As far as career goes, I think you just need to find what you can do while preserving your peace and living a life you are comfortable with, ya know?

  • @rosabellajr.3228
    @rosabellajr.3228 9 місяців тому

    😢😢❤❤ ily

  • @slave2beauty
    @slave2beauty 9 місяців тому +1

    are you in the moreno valley target 🙃 cuz girl your right by me

  • @jkerastudio
    @jkerastudio 9 місяців тому +2

    Right! I want to work to but when these job companies don’t pay enough and they are selective and racist, it’s hard to”just get a job”. Target is selective and some store managers are racist.

    • @jesssvaladez
      @jesssvaladez  9 місяців тому

      100% im realizing more and more we have to create our own new paths for success and stop relying on these twisted systems, although we can still take their money if we need to 😌

  • @jnada101
    @jnada101 5 місяців тому

    where is your dress from? can you link it

  • @aleebsunn
    @aleebsunn 9 місяців тому

    IE babbbyyy love you mija, late 20s are definitely such a smack in the face! But we doin the damn thing 🫶🏽🫂

    • @jesssvaladez
      @jesssvaladez  9 місяців тому

      we doin it and we’re rising phoenixing our way through it 🐦‍🔥🥲🥹🫶🏼

  • @gladys.333
    @gladys.333 9 місяців тому +2

    🥰❤️

  • @iiamsc4108
    @iiamsc4108 9 місяців тому +1

    🫶🏽🤞🏽

  • @toast039
    @toast039 9 місяців тому

    you can do this :)

  • @kawtarelh
    @kawtarelh 9 місяців тому

    Relatable

    • @jesssvaladez
      @jesssvaladez  9 місяців тому

      you read the description 🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼

    • @kawtarelh
      @kawtarelh 9 місяців тому

      I actually haven't until u said it O M G 😮

  • @JanieLovesTeacake
    @JanieLovesTeacake 7 місяців тому

    I'm going to watch a few old movies about 20 somethings who are in Jess's stage of life. Starting with St Elmo's Fire 1985, Singles 1992, Reality Bites 1994. Can anyone recommend more? Please dont recommend any super-sad movies about unemployment, such as The Shawshank Redemption or The Pursuit of Happiness.