Why I Write Memos To Men; Unpacking Red Pill, Dating, Manosphere, Alpha Males

[@jamesk7867]

If you are a man who does thorough cost-benefit analysis of everything you invest in, you will not get married. Marriage in 2023 carries so much risks and very little benefit for the man. More and more smart men are realizing this even before marriage. A lot more men including myself, learn the hard way.We get into marriage and realize it i not what we thought it was, and what it is is not anything we want to be in. I don't discourage anyone who want's to get married not to get married, or anyone who is in marriage to get out. But i hope more and more men open their eyes and realize that times have changed and maybe marriage was not designed for these modern times we live in.

[@TheJagero]

Thanks for sharing your perspective. Marriage can definitely be a big decision, and it's important to weigh the pros and cons. However, there are many fulfilling marriages out there too. It really depends on finding the right partner and working together to build a strong relationship.

[@rosemaryfuankeh5328]

Good one J​@@TheJagero

[@lalita_tripura4420]

One day I hope that men learn about women from their own women, versus learning about women from other men. ❤️

[@TheJagero]

Totally agree! It's important to hear diverse perspectives. What are some things you think women would want men to know from their point of view? Let's chat in the comments!

[@peterochieng-bd7pt]

Why do you want men to continue being emasculated.

[@SR-mv2mf]

@@peterochieng-bd7ptwhy do want men to not be challenged and allow themselves to break down merely from accusations. They should have the mental fortitude to look within and see themselves objectively

[@SR-mv2mf]

It would be helpful if you could add time stamps with topics being discussed. Great show!, am watching from canada

[@TheJagero]

Great suggestion. We shall consider it in new episodes.

[@karenagufana6928]

Listening to this conversation, am disturbed by the thought of classifying women with how you were treated by agirl you wanted to hook up with. There are bad men out there but there are good men too. Just because someone did not appreciate me does not mean I will group all men in the same category 'bad men'.

[@TheJagero]

I truly respect strong women like yourself who call things out.

[@anotherintrospekt6596]

Generally speaking, there is too much theorising from relationship gurus in kenya. I don’t know how much of it translates into the dynamics of reality.

[@karenagufana6928]

@@anotherintrospekt6596 I agree, and so many people believe in what they say and live by it. It's true that there are terrible people but there are equally good people. Every relationship works different it's always best to structure how yours can work.

[@peterochieng-bd7pt]

Silas continue educating lost men.

[@TheJagero]

Silas, gotta save the lost men one video at a time, right? If you see any others wandering around the comments, point them in our direction! This channel is all about building a community where we can all learn and grow together.

[@dankeiro2543]

This conversation is so ingenious

[@TheJagero]

Appreciate it

[@m.kgitau5287]

We are here

[@TheJagero]

Welcome onboard

[@dacianrohaz4245]

Straight up facts very informative

[@TheJagero]

Thanks for listening

[@doreenongeri531]

Good talk there

[@TheJagero]

I am glad you enjoyed the episode

[@ericndioo4896]

Silas is a wise man

[@TheJagero]

Great insights

[@rosemaryfuankeh5328]

Am I the only one who does'nt know what "red pill" stands for?
Is it because I am following from Cameroon?😂

[@TheJagero]

No worries at all about not knowing - everyone learns at their own pace, and it's great that you're curious. By the way, welcome from Cameroon!

[@mercynamikoye9084]

I think before men have these conversations of expectations they first need to understand and research the difference between submission and obedience. Then they can have this conversation. Most men want blind obedience and give orders. Submission is earned but they call the men that work hard to earn submission as simps. But the supposed simps are being treated like kings by good women. They offer safety in ALL aspects financial, physical, emotional, psychological and they are also respectful. But the manosphere call it simping and say women are denying them access

[@wycliffepoet5201]

Fallacies and misconstrued statements.
Be serious

[@TheJagero]

That's a great point! Understanding the difference between submission and obedience is definitely key. Submission is a choice made out of respect and trust, whereas obedience is following orders without question. It would be interesting to explore this topic further in a future video. Thanks for bringing it up!

[@labankungu1195]

Silas my guy 💪

[@TheJagero]

Amazing conversation

[@boizmoseti]

Poor men dont deserve sex .... thats what Nyachwani is saying

[@TheJagero]

Haha 😆

[@JoyChoosen]

😂😂🤣🤣

[@brianomondi5148]

Is sex the major/only thing a woman can provide for which men must spend to have?

[@gracemaina6593]

No it's not the only thing.

[@ndaigakihumba8751]

It depends with what you need a woman in your life for and at what level or stage in life you are at.

[@wilsonmaroa]

Poor men don't deserve sex...that's what Silas is saying 😊

[@wycliffepoet5201]

You must not have attended any red pill class. Research!

[@TheJagero]

Women have a lot to offer, and healthy relationships are built on mutual respect and appreciation.

[@scholarmeek9115]

Silas is a sober redpiller. I kinda avoid extreemist red pillers

[@TheJagero]

What are your thoughts on the portrayal of red pill ideology in the show?

[@scholarmeek9115]

I understand the origin of the red pill term it is about facing reality as it is as opposed to the blue pill which tends to be delusional and I must admit that red pill philosophy is a much needed topic in the genderverse, that said how the message is passed across requires alot of tact coz it can be borderline Insulting especially to women😩

[@boizmoseti]

Do wemen enjoy sex? Good question

[@clairembago4216]

Answer is yes

[@TheJagero]

I would hope they do.