Why Your Wife's Boyfriend Gets A Better Deal

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  • Опубліковано 25 лис 2024

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  • @culturenomad2951
    @culturenomad2951 2 роки тому +14

    These women just can't let the guy speak..bure kabisa !

  • @ckkevinkigen4968
    @ckkevinkigen4968 Рік тому +9

    Dutchess does not allow Nyanchwani to talk. She asks and talks.

  • @roybinaisahmaina4462
    @roybinaisahmaina4462 Рік тому +5

    Man speaks wisdom,he is also considerate and argues respectfully....he speaks less,but sense

  • @samshadmuchui7857
    @samshadmuchui7857 Рік тому +12

    Those two ladies talked more than Silas

  • @geraldnjoroge8922
    @geraldnjoroge8922 Рік тому +3

    This guy provoked my thought on gender and development especially when he takes it back in time - hunters and gatherers era.

  • @faithnjoroge8390
    @faithnjoroge8390 Рік тому +9

    The two women needed to get a hold of themselves and keep their emotions in check to allow the guest give more insights.. I couldn’t even watch this halfway coz it just got noisy

  • @akinyiokeyo4618
    @akinyiokeyo4618 2 роки тому +6

    I agree with the writer...most of the time the man lives in the woman's house hence the stunted growth of men...

  • @MrPendomojah
    @MrPendomojah Рік тому +18

    If only the guest can be allowed to finish his points and articulate without constant interference

    • @TalismanSarkozy9814
      @TalismanSarkozy9814 Рік тому

      True, they get triggered then they start shifting the goal post to avoid the answers

    • @peterkimani3364
      @peterkimani3364 13 днів тому

      That's how women talk so you have to to understand.

  • @africatodayke
    @africatodayke 2 роки тому +14

    this man needs his own shows here on youtube. he's good.

    • @ekimbangola
      @ekimbangola Рік тому +2

      I agree and he doesn't get mad at them. He pauses and comes up with a good argument.

  • @rickomba
    @rickomba 2 роки тому +11

    Love the convo. Always interesting that women such as these get worked up when men have standards. But if women who have standards it's a great thing.

  • @good_hands1696
    @good_hands1696 6 місяців тому +3

    Please after watching this interview. Watch the guys interview kingori

  • @kimaningethe9523
    @kimaningethe9523 Рік тому +1

    Karigo has just demonstrated exactly what Silas was describing in terms of argueing with the other gender. They are very fast to see the men who are 1 percenters and complain lack of representation at the top but they don't complain about the bottom tough jobs that are dominated by men such as fishing, mining, pushing carts, quarrying etc.

  • @prestonkenyaofficial
    @prestonkenyaofficial Рік тому +6

    Silas was my Lecturer very smart fellow.

  • @Paulshevs
    @Paulshevs 16 днів тому +1

    I left interview unfinished when women started attacking and interrupting guests on issues of masculinity.
    It chagrins how women vehemently wants their emotions validated in the interview. Why couldn't they be right before the guests and keep mum or interrupt only when it necessary?
    I noticed these too during an interview between Lynn Ngugi and Jacob Aliet where zippy kept interrupting based on no-facts! Purely emotional and wanting to be right.

  • @kevintarruz2833
    @kevintarruz2833 Рік тому +3

    Silas talks then..... (interception in conversation). good ladies allow him to finish his stroooooong points

  • @tomodiero7524
    @tomodiero7524 2 роки тому +10

    Let the dude talk and stop going to the exceptions all the time, there is a thing such as the average or the 95% rule. Hypergamy makes every woman think she is the top 5% of everything. She believes she is the exception, she is a princess, she is smart, she is beautiful Kevin Samuels used to say this a lot. RIP Kevin Samuels

  • @leonardoketch7652
    @leonardoketch7652 7 місяців тому +3

    I salute Silas for the patience in handling these women. It's just too annoying listening to them. When you bring in a guest on your show, your work is to moderate otherwise you can have your show and talk monologue. Poor journalism.

  • @leonardoketch7652
    @leonardoketch7652 7 місяців тому +4

    The two ladies MUST learn to listen to their guest. They shallowed the conversation with too many interruptions. Journalism training is needed here.

  • @kijanayaaput8940
    @kijanayaaput8940 Рік тому +6

    *A woman should only be a compliment but not the main focus in a man's life.*

  • @felixfelix2923
    @felixfelix2923 Рік тому +10

    You invited the guest for his opinion. Let him articulate his thoughts. It's like you invited him to put him down. The hosts argued based on emotions rather than facts. Let the man talk.

  • @africatodayke
    @africatodayke 2 роки тому +11

    this interview was a cringefest, the hosts were not prepared to listen to what the gentleman has to say.

  • @shamimaoko
    @shamimaoko 2 роки тому +6

    Gosh they are attacking him from all sides...

  • @RamHadji
    @RamHadji Рік тому +5

    Silas N. is a writer focused on masculinity. He also writes memos on Facebook and has written almost 140 so far. They discuss reminders for men about women.

    Memo Man writes about masculinity and relationships
    00:00

    Marrying older women stunts men's growth
    05:44

    Advancements in society have led to opportunities for everyone, and women are not being treated unfairly.
    18:13

    Men blaming women for their problems is not always justified
    23:49

    Men need to reprogram themselves to prioritize self-care and supporting their partners.
    35:22

    Men are afraid of marriage due to increasing material responsibilities.
    40:53

    Women cheat for emotional or financial reasons
    53:16

    Illicit relationships may seem better, but they are toxic and not worth it.
    58:52

    Advice for fathers of daughters
    1:14:22

    The changing dynamics of relationships in modern times

  • @kimkeymoney478
    @kimkeymoney478 7 місяців тому +2

    This taught me the type of women to avoid...these two😅😅

  • @alexngash8327
    @alexngash8327 6 місяців тому +2

    let the man speak ladies WHY interrupt him so much?

  • @africanprince8941
    @africanprince8941 Рік тому +2

    Legendary guy

  • @someotherjamaa1443
    @someotherjamaa1443 6 місяців тому +1

    I think if a guy is economically disadvantaged should first take care of himself to a point where he is living sustainably. Then and only then can he consider bring a woman into his life.

  • @Knowindustry
    @Knowindustry Рік тому +2

    interesting conversation 😀😀😀, key note in the bible, eve was nake after adam ate yet already eve ate first. female are totally compilated

  • @winingmindset1934
    @winingmindset1934 Рік тому +2

    Tunafakuleta Adrew kibe here

  • @jessethedr7925
    @jessethedr7925 Рік тому +2

    Men had to go to wars and protect their countries, Women and Children. See what happened to Ukraine ,I didn't see the women battalion going up in arms demanding they will also go to the frontline.People are being mislead by the toxic feminist. But respect to the guy, very composed and we'll informed

  • @edithpassionproject1098
    @edithpassionproject1098 2 роки тому +12

    Can the gentleman get his word across? He can barely talk

    • @Kapteini
      @Kapteini 2 роки тому +2

      That host is domineering on even her co-host. She needs to let other people talk. It's all about her.

    • @ckkevinkigen4968
      @ckkevinkigen4968 Рік тому +1

      2hrs show he spoke 25mins i think.... Dutchess talks alot

    • @peterkimani3364
      @peterkimani3364 14 днів тому

      ​@@ckkevinkigen4968that's how it is in your home too.

  • @someotherjamaa1443
    @someotherjamaa1443 6 місяців тому

    1:01:12 This is very very true...

  • @inmyveinsinmyveins1465
    @inmyveinsinmyveins1465 Рік тому +2

    BARBRA, is so hurt. Is she a single man?😂😂😂😂😂. she is trying to prove statics wrong as if she knows everything. Why call silas to a show and talk 60% of the time arguing😂😂.

  • @fredondima8170
    @fredondima8170 5 місяців тому

    this man Nyanchwani spits a lot of sense.bt the moderators.waaah,,!😮😢

  • @samsonchege7208
    @samsonchege7208 Рік тому

    Putting women/men rivalries into perspective

  • @ondemand-vo9ri
    @ondemand-vo9ri 6 місяців тому

    Am watching this one year later and I can tell a clueless employee in the room

  • @zachariakinuthia1503
    @zachariakinuthia1503 2 роки тому +2

    SILAS NYACHWANI
    KIBE
    AMERIX
    UNPLAGGED GUY
    Making men to wake up as you cant win an argument

  • @williamunga
    @williamunga Рік тому +5

    Why did these women invite a man to the show when they cant let him speak?

  • @mauricemonroe2836
    @mauricemonroe2836 Рік тому +4

    The women on this show should be taught on-air etiquette. They are just interrupting him from putting his point across.

  • @nyanumbamartin1487
    @nyanumbamartin1487 11 місяців тому

    Sometimes you could be responsible as a man but circumstances can slow you down, should you be blamed.

  • @ErycOyugi
    @ErycOyugi 2 роки тому +3

    The dude is typically the definition of a Purple Pill dude in which he is aware of Red Pill balance , but for a variety of insecurities he is uncomfortable with the truths of the harsh, ugly truths that the nature of women, the nature of Hypergamy and the natural selection process of intersexual dynamics occurs…. Rollo tomasi

    • @shamimaoko
      @shamimaoko 2 роки тому

      You sound deluded your brain is not engaging with your mouth...

  • @Mburu1
    @Mburu1 Рік тому +1

    they cooked bro alive😂

    • @gakahuR
      @gakahuR 7 місяців тому +1

      How they were not allowing him to complete his thoughts. The ladies are emotional.

  • @nomahsimdeux
    @nomahsimdeux Рік тому +4

    Could barely watch it man
    Let the man speak.
    Geez .

  • @ikengitau
    @ikengitau Рік тому +3

    Karigo kept interrupting with irrelevant statements and goal-shifting

  • @dominicruriga5866
    @dominicruriga5866 10 місяців тому +2

    The two women are noisy and interruptive.

  • @kompanysisi5735
    @kompanysisi5735 Рік тому +2

    These ladies are very ignorant, men and women do not bear the same nature and nature owes you no explanation.

  • @tomodiero7524
    @tomodiero7524 2 роки тому +4

    What happens if I have more than you? Are you then entitled to walk into my life? That's why many relationships are non starters, women have really nothing to offer men. If they have money they won't share.... it's pointless. Marriage is a bad deal for men nowadays period.

    • @futurefarms3440
      @futurefarms3440 2 роки тому

      If a woman cannot give you atleast two kids forget it.

  • @chrisphineodhiamboogutu2111
    @chrisphineodhiamboogutu2111 4 місяці тому

    Who invited who? Am confused.

  • @greyosoro1885
    @greyosoro1885 10 місяців тому +1

    the most useless interview to watch where the moderators talk more than the guest

  • @itssshana335
    @itssshana335 4 місяці тому

    I'll try and keep this short. i like the comments. right observation. The two ladies are what Silas is talking about. Not in bad way. but they are failing to see Silas points. It's like they are selectively listening to men language . Their defense mechnisms or lack of accountability is up there . For example the pointing on boys going to sch and girl children not. Back then fees was scarce. Remember this was something new and traditionally men were expected to be the bread winners and are still. Men were expected to be the persuers in matters marriage. So the old folk preffered equiping the men. Women then just had to be marrriage material and they could find themselves living well. That was then. Yeah this is now hence the change. And these two men are supposed and are probably listening much better than the women out there.For example, how would this discusion go in a bar somewhere? Bottles would fly!!!
    Next time Silas have an older succesully marriad couple who have lived and thrived when this so called old ways prevailed. They will help you articluate ur points using a third and probably neutral eye. Coz already becuase of ur memo, ur like public women enemy no1. So ur points are valid but even before you utter a word, you are already playing near ur goal post, mostly defending. Yet, if women would very actively listen to you before marriage instead of Mombasa raha etc, then they would be better able to cope with living and helping their men succeed. Becuase atlaest they would learn the way we think, and be better able to help us succeed. instead of looking for ready-made men ($$$$$) who 90% of the time will not commit to such a person.

  • @PeaceLove-lb8rg
    @PeaceLove-lb8rg Рік тому +1

    Poor moderators,moderators spoke too much.

  • @wasilwajames4880
    @wasilwajames4880 Рік тому +1

    But I think it is wise,,to let a guest make his or her point without just interrupting carelessly

    • @wasilwajames4880
      @wasilwajames4880 Рік тому +1

      It is hard to hold logical conversations with some women

  • @samsonanami
    @samsonanami Рік тому +2

    You didn't give this bright man a good time to answer the questions, next time let him be interviewed with a man, you're talking a lot than the interviewee 😥

  • @kephakimani9338
    @kephakimani9338 Рік тому +3

    Interviewing skills poor. No moderation when he speaking. Poor listening skills.

  • @eo9438
    @eo9438 2 роки тому +2

    Why can't this duchess let a guest explain himself? She should learn to keep quiet when a man is speaking. She speaks too much. It's simple courtesy.

  • @galanxotv
    @galanxotv Рік тому +1

    most young men find jobs and get married. Which jobs ? These typa conversations are always fine when they are unilateral, Nyanchwan or whoever you are its even weird youre having it with women. Plus size noisy ones.😔

  • @donwambugu
    @donwambugu Рік тому +2

    This was just a crucification You cannot reason rationally with women. Sir keep teaching your target audience, men.

  • @langat007
    @langat007 2 роки тому +4

    This man is sitted in the room with two women trying to convince them how men think.
    It's a losing battle man.
    Sasa sikia, he's editing his words juu it's incongruent with how he's thinking. He might get cancelled like Shafi Weru and lose his opinion piece in the columns section on the dailies.
    Investigate why they are single mothers, therein lies the issue.

    • @ErycOyugi
      @ErycOyugi 2 роки тому

      The dude is just a purple pill guy aka Mr nice guy

  • @Stephen12.
    @Stephen12. 3 місяці тому

    Very poor communication skills from the hosting ladies