The Truth About Racism in Thailand

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  • @brett_dev
    @brett_dev  Рік тому +27

    For those of you asking how to contact Jon, here is his UA-cam channel: www.youtube.com/@ZION2076

    • @anantapol
      @anantapol Рік тому

      I subscribed to his channel, look forward to seeing the 1st video soon

  • @user-nl9me3er7w
    @user-nl9me3er7w Рік тому +308

    I was only in Thailand for about 30 days. I was in Bangkok and Pattaya. I'm a black male who never felt like a victim but very much aware of what being black in America is. Probably within a day or two. I had the weirdest feeling in the world...I felt like a human, not a black man. It was the most beautiful feeling in the world. I did not know I had this problem until I got there.

    • @BigBrother04
      @BigBrother04 Рік тому

      Probably linked to the history of America...and the media

    • @user-nl9me3er7w
      @user-nl9me3er7w Рік тому +5

      @@huwhitecavebeast1972 so basically what you are saying is that most black people look at america the wrong way. really? you logic is interesting as fook

    • @jomontanee
      @jomontanee Рік тому +37

      You make me cry in the best way possible. I am so blessed to know that my beloved country embrace you with love and respect. 2 things all living creatures deserve.

    • @user-nl9me3er7w
      @user-nl9me3er7w Рік тому +8

      @@jomontanee thank you and it was a beautiful feeling

    • @ปลาทูเรนเจอร์
      @ปลาทูเรนเจอร์ Рік тому +12

      Hug from Thailand.......We always care each other even though has different race or nationality. we considerate all being and wish all to be happy.

  • @Kandiplaces
    @Kandiplaces Рік тому +93

    My experience in Thailand is that if your a respectful person you get more respect back. More about attitude and respect than nationality and race. Gentle souls will always love Thailand.

  • @thinktwice4227
    @thinktwice4227 Рік тому +98

    I'm Thai. Nice to hear that Jon understand the Thais don't mean to hurt his feeling about racism. We truly don't.

    • @DreamofThailand19000
      @DreamofThailand19000 Рік тому +12

      I am also Thai. I agree with him it is "racial difference". His ability to clearly explain is superb! I can tell he will be a great teacher since he is in university learning about teaching, if I am not mistaken.

    • @BuffsNationDaily
      @BuffsNationDaily 11 місяців тому +3

      I visited Thailand and the people were very nice to me.

    • @kamyfernandes1
      @kamyfernandes1 8 місяців тому +1

      I call it Racial ignorance. They're just ignorant about Black people.
      When Asians go to Africa, we Blacks Do not stare at them at all. We understand that staring is RUDE.
      Africa, the motherland, welcomes Everyone!

    • @MC-kk8xu
      @MC-kk8xu 8 місяців тому

      I don't live in Thailand but I appreciate and respect your people. It really means a lot to me how hospitable your nation and her people are to foreigners living there. Thank you ❤

    • @Mammamialove
      @Mammamialove 7 місяців тому

      Thailand is really racist to their neighbours like Cambodia, Myanmar and Laos. Thry like to look down their neighbours. Thais think their higher than their neighbours. They don't bully Malaysians, because Malaysia is more developed.
      The truth is that many thais are racist, but towards their neighbours. Peoples from all over the world can see it in social media how racist thais can be. For example they call khmers slave and other racist words. I love Thailand, but in social media are many thais who are making bad image for Thailand.

  • @Seren3ti
    @Seren3ti Рік тому +92

    This is so beautiful to witness, thank you for making this video. I spent a month in Chiang Mai in February and when I reflected on my experience on reading the title of this video, I acknowledged that I didn't have a single experience of feeling any racism for the entire period. Neither did I feel vulnerable traveling solo as a black British female and I would do it again, it's a beautiful country. I saw a few other black folks too, always greeted with a smile and a quick conversation. The Thai people were generous, friendly, and extremely eager to assist me in any way. My heart goes out to Jon for sharing authentically and transparently, I hope he continues to receive healing and, guidance. 🙏🏿

    • @user-nl9me3er7w
      @user-nl9me3er7w Рік тому +6

      i tell black women in america. that they can go to thailand and be safe alone for the most part

    • @212Roger
      @212Roger Рік тому +5

      Chiang Mai is the best place in Thailand 🇹🇭🙏🏼

    • @jomontanee
      @jomontanee Рік тому +3

      @@212RogerNot only Chiangmai, NAAN or Petchaboon, the sleeper provinces are so good.

    • @212Roger
      @212Roger Рік тому

      @@user-nl9me3er7w I’ve visited twenty nine countries as a tourist, lived in four as an Expat; Chiang Mai, Thailand is the safest city I have ever been in my life. That includes my home in the BayArea of Northern California.

    • @kamyfernandes1
      @kamyfernandes1 8 місяців тому +2

      ​​@@user-nl9me3er7w Really? That's very good to know. The USA has a Lot of successful black women who are terrified of travelling alone.

  • @mtsutphin3468
    @mtsutphin3468 Рік тому +29

    I wish this man peace and happiness. I know the battle with depression.

  • @travelingman1125
    @travelingman1125 Рік тому +56

    This is very true. As a Thai, i can assure you that the reason why the people was looking at you is because they are just curious, no hostility.

  • @II2LMK6II
    @II2LMK6II Рік тому +12

    การมองคนเป็นคนเป็นสิ่งสำคัญสุดสำหรับผม และ สำหรับชาวไทยส่วนใหญ่ในประเทศเรา เรารณรงค์ให้ทุกคนเท่าเทียมกันในสังคมนี้ ยินดีต้อนรับสู่บ้านหลังที่2ของคุณ ขอให้เจอแต่คนที่ดีเข้ามาในชีวิต

  • @patsanansangiampun6079
    @patsanansangiampun6079 Рік тому +18

    ๋John speaks very clear, slow and easy to understand and spiritual person, as a Thai , I believe that you would be a a good teacher

  • @MegantheMoonchild
    @MegantheMoonchild 5 місяців тому +3

    This is an incredible interview. I truly felt connected to Jon’s story. I’ve recently rediscovered Thailand after visiting with the military in 2009 but I’m excited to be planning a permanent move to Chiang Mai in September. Thank you so much for this insight and for sharing your incredible story. ❤

  • @traceylankford8579
    @traceylankford8579 9 місяців тому +3

    This was the most uplifting and inspiring post I have viewed about moving to Thailand. Just wonderful. I will definitely tune into Jon's channel. And thanks so much for Chris talking about this channel. Brett, this was superb! New subbie here!

  • @perrywhitlow
    @perrywhitlow 10 місяців тому +6

    tears sir....tears... that feeling is no joke in Thailand. i never had Thailand as a place i wanted to live until i was invited to go on a trip there. now its all i can think about. i have been all over America and Mexico and Jamaica and all over the place. never have i felt as free as i did in Thailand.

  • @212Roger
    @212Roger Рік тому +31

    Dear Brett: Roger here; I met you twice on Soi 1 back in July/August and in February/March. WOW! Dynamic interview with Jon. I can relate as I too have depression and anxiety. I was literally brought to tears and crying while typing this comment. I am very sensitive just like Jon. I recommend that he goes to Suanprung Psychiatric Hospital. They always take good care of me. Unlike America, you can have access to good medication. I was prescribed: Xanax, Lorazepam, Clonazepam, and Chlorpromazine. These are literally impossible to acquire in the U.S. Please don’t drink alcohol while on these very strong meds. After not coming to CM for three years due to Covid, I was having a good time and started drinking. I’m back in California and just was in the hospital last week due to alcohol and benzos abuse. I’m rehabbing right now. Good luck Jon; Chiang Mai is my spiritual home. Take care. -Papillon 🦋

  • @granjmy
    @granjmy Рік тому +21

    You can take your pets to Thailand. The fee is $13.57 per pet.
    Pet(s) must be at least 4 months old. Import permit. Health certificate issued by your accredited veterinarian and endorsed by USDA APHIS Veterinary Services. The requirements that your pet must meet are outlined in the provided health certificate.

  • @HE360
    @HE360 Рік тому +34

    Wow, I woke up in the morning, looked at my phone and checked my phone and saw this video (maybe it's God).
    I'm a black man that lived in Thailand too before the pandemic. And the plandemic is the reason I'm back in America. I was going to go back to Thailand. I had my money ready and everything and yet, they closed down the borders here in America. So, I couldn't go. Then I took a job as a bus driver to build my money back and just been working here. But, been wanting to go!
    In regards to racism, the Thai wasn't racist in the same way that people may be here in America (even though I personally get along with most people of every color here in America). But, in my experience it was a self-hate thing for Thai people. They hated their OWN dark skin and culturally dark skin was frowned upon. And it was why they put on the white cream, etc. But, I always told them that they looked great without stuff and some gradually stop using it ❤.
    The only time I felt negative discrimination was when I worked there as a teacher. There were 3 black teachers that worked with me. We were great teachers and the students loved our classes. Yet, we were not invited to certain meetings and certain places compared to white teachers. And it was like this throughout Asia because I lived in China too.
    But outside of teaching at the schools and job, I have been all around Thailand, and was treated very very very well. I was able to travel freely and do everything I wanted to do for WAYYY cheaper than here in America. And I met all kinds of people over there. It was a taste of what true freedom could be like. And with that you feel MUCH better spiritually and healed; especially in being around all of the nice people. And by the way, I had similar experience THROUGHOUT Asia whether I was in Malaysia, the Philippines and even China!! Our news media here in America be lying about China. My experience in China was beautiful too. It was nothing but nice people there and I understood their language a bit and they were very nice; especially once they got to know me. We went on trips together and all kind off stuff!
    I AM going back. I probably won't work there as a teacher anymore for obvious reasons. I'd like to do digital nomad, but it seems competitive. But, I will be going back somehow. I not having the fun and freeness that I had in Asia while living in America as a bus driver! So, I will think of something!!

    • @petergorm
      @petergorm Рік тому +4

      Hi there. I've spend over 7 years total in Thailand for 22 years as a tourist. And I've picked up basic language. Understand a lot more than I speak, but still.
      I am white, so not dealing with who is 'up' or 'down'. I completely agree with your obsevation about their skincolour. In my book it is perfect! But they hate their own colour. Can't really believe it. I would give my right arm for that skin!!
      I wish you ALL THE BEST!!! Cheers! (maybe see you there)

    • @HE360
      @HE360 Рік тому +3

      I agree. @@petergorm. And thanks!

    • @kav04
      @kav04 Рік тому +1

      as you said - " we were not invited to certain meetings and certain places compared to white teachers" . It is a true definition of racism. So if you were live in Thailand as a citizen not an expart you would feel more racism toward you .

    • @anyawaleofondo
      @anyawaleofondo 5 місяців тому

      Good, apart from 'get along with everyone' part.
      Those does not apply to black men.
      Yoo are innocent.

  • @davehughes6162
    @davehughes6162 Рік тому +42

    John spoke brilliantly what a great guest to the channel I couldn't stop watching and now I'm late for work 😂 good luck John it sounds like you've closed a chapter in your life and started the next

  • @mollyplaykey5415
    @mollyplaykey5415 Рік тому +11

    Dont give up! To everyone out there❤ a lot of love from a Thai friend here

  • @CarmenMulder
    @CarmenMulder Рік тому +13

    Such a beautiful soul! I'm so glad he has healed and found freedom.

  • @bigkuanysh
    @bigkuanysh Рік тому +12

    A beautiful story. Thanks to Jon for being so open about this. Thailand is a special place.

  • @jayclarke777
    @jayclarke777 Рік тому +28

    I came to Thailand in 2006, as a 19-year-old black man in the military
    I'm aware that there are subtleties of racism, but nothing compared to what I faced in USA.
    Which is why I left the states and didn't go back.

    • @kaleeysmith8801
      @kaleeysmith8801 11 місяців тому +3

      smart

    • @kamyfernandes1
      @kamyfernandes1 8 місяців тому +1

      The States and Europe are awful places for Black people. Even though, the colonizers ( Europeans and Americans) are ALL over Africa.

    • @anyawaleofondo
      @anyawaleofondo 5 місяців тому

      ​@@kamyfernandes1🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯

    • @1to1000flights
      @1to1000flights 2 місяці тому +1

      I am Thai and I apologize for the bad things you have experienced. But I promise as a Thai person that I will be a better person every day and hope that this country will be a place where we can live together happily.

  • @Tiaimo
    @Tiaimo Рік тому +7

    As Thais, I can sit and listen Jon speak or tell me story all day long.
    In Thai culture, we embrace moment, live at present. What was, was. Just accept it and adapt/adjust/change whatsoever since we can't go back in time. Don't worry about future too much. Prepare, NOT panic. Let say you weight it like 25/50/25 , pass/present/future - respectively.
    We have proverb about death "คนเป็นสำคัญกว่าคนตาย" ( Living one is more important than passing one). Overwhelming by grief wouldn't help anything in any situations. If you're feeling overwhelmed, It's like you've died too. It's time to get back on track. If you're the one who bring home bacon, then it's time to stay strong and lead family again.
    You've clearly explained about why people stare at you. That's what we want to tell foreigners. They don't against but just curious. If you response with good heart thru smile and good manners, those will understand and embrace you even more.
    Please take it easy and chill. Just goes with the flows. Don't be too hard on yourself. Wish you happy and healthy.

  • @KeilikoGreg
    @KeilikoGreg Рік тому +16

    Great interview; great story. I really like how as an interviewer you let your subject tell their story without interruption.

  • @asiatravel2010
    @asiatravel2010 11 місяців тому +4

    What an easy to like guy, I wish I would run into this chap and have a chat, he has so much life experience and comes accross as a kind soul. His personality is not so common in travelers to Thailand, Male or Female. This is the kind of person I personally seek for friendship: different life experiences than my own, from a different location than me, someone driven to succeed and demonstrating not just intent but results of consistent effort to drive ahead. You are awesome Jon, if I ever pass you by in Chiang Mai I will try not to scare you by saying "hey buddy, I saw you on youtube!". All the best good fella.

  • @NickedOff
    @NickedOff Рік тому +19

    9:40 it's very honorable for him to have such mindfulness and compassion toward his pets. I feel the same way. I'd like to visit next year to experience for myself what's possible, but then I think I'd have to wait until my cat dies (which hopefully won't be for many years). I feel sorry for the pain this man has gone through, but it inspires me to see him enjoying a new life.

    • @mikem9892
      @mikem9892 11 місяців тому

      Yep I agree he's a good man for that for sure. I could not imagine looking in my two dogs soulful eyes and walking away from them. No way could I do that.

  • @damselinadress2069
    @damselinadress2069 11 місяців тому +8

    I am a black American woman. I too have had the same experience in Thailand and recently in Nepal. I was welcomed and treated beautiflly. Nothing like in America. It is just out of curiosity not hatred. He tells all truth. I prefer Chiang Mai to Bangkok as I reside in the NYC. A bit less crowded. I appreciate his truth.

    • @katapol1212noseeda
      @katapol1212noseeda 6 місяців тому

      4
      If you have nothing to worry about in America. You can retire in Thailand comfortably from your government pension. Because the cost of living in Thailand is very cheap

  • @jheichel1
    @jheichel1 Місяць тому

    What a beautiful soul Jon is and how vulnerable during this interview. This openness and honesty is inspiring and bringing others life! Planning stages now and this was very timely. ❤

  • @sharonshalom5180
    @sharonshalom5180 Рік тому +2

    God bless you, John. Enjoy the amazing life in Thailand, peace and happiness.

  • @alldone4uoutsourcing
    @alldone4uoutsourcing Рік тому +10

    Wow! How clear-headed and inspiring Jon's story is. My hats off to you Jon for being vulnerable and sharing (You will do great), and Bret for sharing with the community.

  • @gettinggreener
    @gettinggreener 10 місяців тому +2

    I never heard of you until the YT algorithm kicked in. Love your videos and this video in particular, is absolutely amazing. Thank you to you and especially Jonathan. Such a lovely guy and good luck to him and you.

  • @JohnnyBoy355
    @JohnnyBoy355 Рік тому +9

    God bless this man being interviewed.. I too will make the jump to Thailand and face my fear.. My girlfriend will follow when she is able. Thank you for providing life changing and encouraging insights. Peace to everyone and this isn't the last you'll hear from me. Cheers everyone ❤

  • @SummerRainbow777
    @SummerRainbow777 Рік тому +6

    I’ve watched this video about four times and each time it makes me happier & happier. So happy John finally found a place that hugs him back ❤

  • @auraaura2417
    @auraaura2417 Рік тому +6

    His energy vibrates with the spirits of the spiritual Thais. The compassion, positivity and consciousness of life. I hope he can find Buddhism as an additional guide in his daily life.

    • @suarsivapong9311
      @suarsivapong9311 Рік тому +1

      สัตว์โลกทั้งหลาย เป็นเพื่อนทุกข์ เกิดแก่เจ็บตาย ด้วยกันทั้งหมดทั้งสิ้น จงเป็นสุข เป็นสุขเถิด
      All creatures A friend in trouble born old sick and dead May all of you be happy and happy.

  • @clivekingshott4323
    @clivekingshott4323 Рік тому +9

    Powerful, personal, insightful, and relatable. Superb!

  • @ralphraymond2017
    @ralphraymond2017 Рік тому +10

    Brett-that was awesome- John is amazing and a true inspiration 👏👏👏

  • @frejafarkas
    @frejafarkas Рік тому +5

    Thanks Brett for this interview.
    And to John: Honey you have a beautiful soul and you brightened my day with your lifestory and with yourself shining through your words, your eyes. You healed me a bit. Thank you!!! ❤❤❤

  • @indochinapatriot435
    @indochinapatriot435 11 місяців тому +1

    I’m so happy the brothers have found peace here.
    A very articulate man. I moved to the land of smiles 21 years ago, I’m an empath, and got a download “ get out now”.
    I left a top spot in the feature film business, working with my best friend who is on of the only black guys with 2 Oscars.
    I totally get it, congratulations my friend……BUT……..
    Be advised like any third world country, corruption is the elephant in the room here.
    Learn to speak softly, never break face, and learn the practice of Buddhism .
    Thailand is a cultural mine field.
    Always remember, you are a guest here, and it is a gift to be here.

  • @financierechris9566
    @financierechris9566 11 місяців тому +1

    what a great testimony for fight against depression, racism, discrimination, he's got now a very positive point of view about life, this is precious, I'm half thai and living in France is going worse and worse like many other western countries, very good video and good job !

  • @DreamofThailand19000
    @DreamofThailand19000 Рік тому +8

    Thanks for an awesome interview. Jon did a very good job explaining about racism in Thailand. As a Thai, Jon is absolutely right about how Thais think about foreigners. Racial differences is not racism! Happy to hear that Thailand has healed him from the loss of his loved one.

  • @richardperritti5916
    @richardperritti5916 Рік тому +48

    I think many men and now women will start to find their peace by moving out of the United States. The politics and the culture are so toxic. I never got married and never had children. I made this decision 20 years ago as thing were just starting to get bad in the United States. It turned out what was a developing problem is completely out of control today. Best decision I ever made. I plan to move out the United States.

    • @IillBeUrSmileTT
      @IillBeUrSmileTT 7 місяців тому

      Thailand have bad in politic too but not effect much for foreigners. but what Jon telling you about Thai peoples are exactly true ( he is good human learner ). If have chance to move here, welcome Thailand 😊❤

    • @anyawaleofondo
      @anyawaleofondo 5 місяців тому

      US has no chance of being anything but sick.

    • @psalmsurfer1
      @psalmsurfer1 4 місяці тому

      problem is if everyone moves out of the US to these SE asian countries then thy become asian versions of america lol makes zero sense..people want an easy escape from everything

  • @KhonKaenDen
    @KhonKaenDen Рік тому +8

    Hey, Bret. Really cool way to move forward with your channel.... what an awesome guy this is! Incredibly interesting and an amazing pet lover like me. Met many guys this over the last 20 years living in Thailand and many lie and, well, you know the deal. But this guy is so, so genuine. You can tell. Anyway, love what you are doing... cheers, fella. Den.

  • @marcthompsonjr6313
    @marcthompsonjr6313 4 місяці тому +1

    My friend suggested I moved to Thailand I thought about it mainly to learn Muay Thai but I have my reservations like employment, missing my family and how I’ll be treated not just as a black man but also because I’m openly gay, I understand that discrimination is something that happens everywhere but there’s something spiritual about Thailand that draws me to the country.

  • @sutatsabramma2000
    @sutatsabramma2000 Рік тому +2

    I just want to let Jon know that, his dog is with you all this time in Thailand. You are never alone. Those who love you are always with you. Being a good person with a good attitude and respect for people around you in Thailand, you'll get more of that back. Thais are not racist. You're right. They are wondering if you need something or what help they might be able to offer you. Be sure to smile every day to get positive energy.

  • @jomontanee
    @jomontanee Рік тому +2

    My goodness, I have goosebumps all over listening to it. THANK YOU.

  • @RODowd
    @RODowd Рік тому +4

    What a great speaker Jon is. If he chooses to do it, my guess is that he'd be a very good teacher.

  • @brian_atc
    @brian_atc 11 місяців тому +1

    Wow, what a wonderful gift! This guy has a high level of communication in his ability to describe each of his life's experiences. I feel that this is the kind of person who can enrich your life just to know him. What an excellent interview.

    • @katapol1212noseeda
      @katapol1212noseeda 6 місяців тому

      If you have nothing to worry about in America. You can retire in Thailand comfortably from your government pension. Because the cost of living in Thailand is very cheap.

  • @kevincampbell8973
    @kevincampbell8973 Рік тому +1

    Loved this video Brett! I'm glad that you are still sending me e mails and I was able to see this. I am going back to Thailand in Jan and will be going to Chang Mai for the first time. I will keep tabs on your vids for more inspiration in to taking the leap!!! thanks again 🙂

  • @ASR_AL
    @ASR_AL 11 місяців тому

    Great vid, really insightful and nice to hear people's experience moving over to Thailand. Been over a few times now, and love Changmai, completely different to the hustle we go through in London. My wife and I are organising our move over this year, and have really found your videos insightful and realistic to what to expect from the whole process. I think more and more people are understanding that health is wealth, and there's more to life than chasing a never ending dream to financial riches. Personally a business owner and always being switched on to the point of falling asleep and waking up to work, we can't wait to start the new chapter in our journey.

  • @soulfullexistence9153
    @soulfullexistence9153 Рік тому +1

    Thank you soooooooo much. I am thinking about Chiang Mai, I am soooooo thanful for this wonderful interview

  • @SynCoz3
    @SynCoz3 10 місяців тому

    His story is really beautiful. I was born and raised here. After finish bachelor degree in Bangkok, I miss Chiang Mai so bad and came back right away. His story about spiritual purpose is similar and vibrates to my belief also. I like to listen to NDE and Past life regression stories.

  • @maximt1401
    @maximt1401 Рік тому +3

    What a charming person.
    A lot of his life experiences resonated with my own.
    Wish Jonathan the best ❤

  • @SunisaComan
    @SunisaComan 11 місяців тому +1

    It doesn’t matter what you look like, what gender, what nationality, everyone deserves to be treated equally.
    I’m so sorry to hear about what you have been through and I’m glad to hear that you are happy here in Thailand.🙏

  • @kenneththaxton6919
    @kenneththaxton6919 Рік тому +2

    What a great interview!!! Nice Man!!!

  • @simplebudd
    @simplebudd 11 місяців тому

    I always enjoy your presentation, Brett. This episode with Joanathan has something very heartfelt and insightful especially the way Jonathan shares his thought about racism in America and racial difference in Thailand. I wish you and Jon a great time living in Thailand despite challenges that we Thais also have to face in our ordinary lives. Thank you, Brett.

  • @el_grecko_31
    @el_grecko_31 Рік тому +4

    Good for you young man... good for you! Our ass in our own hands. Our mind set (positive or negative ) guides us and our choices are the keys to life. Depression to me was at times like a big heavy blanket. Sometimes I chose to be wrapped around in it and through a lot of soul searching/work and support from a couple close friends now that blanket is the size of a wash rag. Everyday I choose to let that wash dry out and never wash my face with it again. Sure I'm using these things as metaphors sometimes that's the only way I can deal with stuff and it's worked for the most part.
    I'm making the choice to move to Thailand. I will visit in 6 months for about 3 weeks and then I plan on coming back within a year and staying 5 months. Thailand is going to save my life and extend it in so many good ways. My mind set is already Thia.
    Nothing but the best to you both.
    Peace
    😎🤙

  • @hectorhaberfield3217
    @hectorhaberfield3217 11 місяців тому +1

    What a great talker, a good person, I’m sorry for his loss

  • @AomPattay
    @AomPattay Рік тому +2

    Well come to Thailand 🇹🇭 kha ขอบคุณทุกท่านที่รักประเทศไทยนะคะ คนไทยทุกคนยินดีต้อนรับเสมอนะคะ ไม่ว่าจะชาติไหน ผิวสีอะไร พวกเราให้เกียรติทั้งหมดค่ะ และขอให้มีความสุขทุกวันในประเทศไทยนะคะ❤❤❤ ขอบคุณที่รักประเทศไทยค่ะ😊😊

  • @saidonfax
    @saidonfax Рік тому +2

    Damn this is rather emotional than I expected. ❤

  • @robl4775
    @robl4775 3 місяці тому

    eloquent and motivational... Thailand, here i come

  • @hollis9524
    @hollis9524 11 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for sharing! I needed to hear this

  • @LeilaHellier
    @LeilaHellier Рік тому +3

    His story is truly inspiring, i know in my heart i am not meant to grow old and die in this country, i am working to get out of here asap, its hard .but i will do it after many trips to Chiang Mai the next one will be my last one way

  • @galleryprive5230
    @galleryprive5230 11 місяців тому

    Watched this video and first and foremost sincere condolences to Travis! I have to say, Jonathon is a great guy and the video is really cool.

  • @kotchakorn4345
    @kotchakorn4345 Рік тому +2

    One of the most decent man

  • @RichardHandley-q7f
    @RichardHandley-q7f Рік тому +7

    Inspirational, and happy that Jonathan found some intermediate redemption; hoping it grows long term into success and happiness.

  • @sodapopcurtis7396
    @sodapopcurtis7396 Рік тому +1

    jon had such a positive energy about him, wish him all the best

  • @nahumpaul85
    @nahumpaul85 Рік тому +2

    Very powerful message, i will be in Thailand this December.

  • @petergorm
    @petergorm Рік тому +17

    The american justice system sounds fucked up! I wish Jon all the best in Thailand. And you too, Brett!

  • @yamasaer
    @yamasaer Рік тому +5

    That’s exactly what I feel when I met with black people. You understand Thai nature very well.

  • @freewilldetermination7334
    @freewilldetermination7334 Рік тому +1

    20 years ago I was the owner of internet cafe in Chiang mai ,One African -American came to my shop.He's so friendly and funny. We went out to drink some beers together in a bar.He told everyone in Bar that I am his cousin and everybody laughed at him and me(How come).That's not kind of racism.We just have different color but we are all human.

  • @dennis.johansen
    @dennis.johansen Рік тому

    Jon nailed it all. Awesome story. We are many with those feelings, experiences and conclusions.

  • @woraphotk
    @woraphotk 11 місяців тому

    Thank you for sharing your story and I hope Thailand will forever provide peace and comfort to you

  • @buzzyeee-c9c
    @buzzyeee-c9c 11 місяців тому +1

    "Staring is rude, you know, they don't seem to understand that." Generally speaking (according to scientific studies done on this topic), it is socially acceptable to look (stare) at a person for a longer time than generally accepted in western societies. What is still in the realm of just looking from their perspective, to our perspective can be considered uncomfortable and feel like staring. It is true some people are rude but generally speaking Thais as a whole are lovely people to each other as well as foreigners. When I moved here from America I faced similar situations that made me uncomfortable. People would look at me in a way (for a long time) that back home meant danger. They looked at me for too long and back home that meant instant violence. My mind was preparing for a fight. It took me years of being here to not have this as my default way of reacting in my mind. I think it is also important to know that since being here I have never had to use any sort of violence, any issues with racism (other than racial curiosity - and yes it happens to white people too so take comfort in that I guess), and feel safer here than I ever did in America (for the most part...driving is not included with that statement!!! LOL). I am not writing this to put down America (I will always have a special place in my heart for my homeland), I am just trying to be as open and honest as possible. One last thing, there are so many things here that are difficult to adjust to (Thais, and Asians in general have vastly different ways of thinking and doing things that westerners) but it can be so worth it if you are able to make a place for yourself here. I am living in a way that would have been impossible for me to do in America and I will always be grateful for that!
    If you want to be welcomed in Thailand be polite. Thais are very friendly if they feel comfortable with you. Smile, keep your voice down (if you see loud Asians here they are probably not Thais, they are probably rude tourists (or college students) from another country, who are known to be rude and arrogant), learn to wai (VERY IMPORTANT), simply put be a good and respectful person and Thais will embrace you. Almost without exception I have been accepted, looked after, and even protected by my neighbors and I still do not know the language (please try to learn the language if you are going to be here for any amount of time).
    I am definitely not saying that Thailand is perfect (far from it), but it is such a unique place. It gets under your skin (both the good and the bad), the chaos here starts to make a sense of its own. You start to feel a weight being lifted and just a sense of freedom takes its place. Be open, be humble, be willing to expand your perception of what a good life actually means and you will find happiness here (or anywhere for that matter). Thailand is a noisy, dirty (Bangkok especially), poor, rich, vibrant, confusing, chaotic, wonderful, beautiful and every single time I think I finally understand it, she changes on me. I have found my home here, I have found happiness here, I have changed and grown here. This video explores only a small fraction of the challenges you as a westerner will have living here if you really make the plunge. But having done so, I think it has been well worth it. I am living in a way I would never have been able to do in America and although life here is simpler (which I definitely consider a good thing), I have found it to be much fuller. As I write this a small bell is ringing as a food vendor pushes her small cart down my village's main road, some tropical bird is calling to another from a mango tree in my neighbors yard. A breeze is gently finding its way from one end of my room to the other. And one of the countless motorcycles rolls past the house on its way to the market just down the street a few minutes away. There is a rhythm here that is unlike other places and if you can find your place in it (which trust me can be very challenging) there is peace there. Thais love diversity and welcome you to become part of the tapestry that makes up this culture.
    Jon: I am sorry for your loss and the pain you had to endure. I am happy to see what you have created from that loss and dedication to Travis. I wish you the best, take care!

  • @vinnymgrant2222
    @vinnymgrant2222 11 місяців тому

    Awesome interview, totally inspiring. Thank you.

  • @nightclawer6679
    @nightclawer6679 Рік тому +6

    I'm Thai myself and we've been teach to never judge people from how they look. Thai people do call people differently from where they come from and how they look but mostly to better treat them right rarely as an insult and even as an insult it nothing personal but to the country. Example : we called Muslim as "Bung" so we don't let them eat pig that kind of thing. We also look down on Laos ,Burma, Cambodia people for their underdevelop country but it's their government fault which make them pitiful and so we should be kind to them and help them. Thai people has empathetic nature because we avoid direct confrontation as much as possible and we keep our discomfort in our self and endure untill the line has been cross.

    • @kellyserpentine7242
      @kellyserpentine7242 Рік тому +2

      Lmao so you don't judge people based on how they look but you look down on countries like Laos, Burma, and Cambodia. That's a contradiction - no empathy in your whole logic.

    • @nightclawer6679
      @nightclawer6679 Рік тому +2

      @@kellyserpentine7242 Lol so stupid. How can we tell we look familiar with each other. Only when they speak that we can tell but if they've learn Thai and can speak Thai (They watch Thai TV and teach Thai language in their school) then we can't even tell them a part. When Siam win a war over these countries the king always taken their people to use as labourer in Bangkok. And with Chinese migration and many contact with merchant from all around the world since way before not to mention these day with Japanese, india , Russia, etc. you can't really tell from look alone who's Thai or not so as long as you can speak Thai you're considered one of us.

    • @nightclawer6679
      @nightclawer6679 Рік тому

      @@kellyserpentine7242 and we don't look down on them because they're black,white,yellow and considered them a criminal before they even do anything we just look down and think "Their country suck poor and underdevelop"

    • @kellyserpentine7242
      @kellyserpentine7242 Рік тому

      Looking down on them for being "underdeveloped" does not justify your response to my main point. It's still contradictory for many Thais to claim being empathic, compassionate, and "Land of the Smiles" - while at the same time supporting the stigma of those countries being "criminals" and poor.@@nightclawer6679

    • @บุญมีอินธิเดช-ศ8ส
      @บุญมีอินธิเดช-ศ8ส Рік тому

      ​@@kellyserpentine7242พวกเมิงทำแบบไหนมาก็ได้แบบนั้นกลับ

  • @dawncc1
    @dawncc1 11 місяців тому

    You are a unique, intelligent, strong man. Keep doing your research and you are going to excel here!! Best wishes!!

  • @yendayo
    @yendayo Рік тому +3

    I really like his explanation about racism.

  • @alansamons5423
    @alansamons5423 Рік тому

    Jon sounds like an amazing person. Thank you for this interview. I'll be arriving in Chiang Mai this October and a lot of what he said rings true for me as well.

  • @jamaleats
    @jamaleats Рік тому +3

    Awesome Video Bro .... Im currentlu looking at gaining More skills to get me back to Asia, Not Sure about Thailand anymore because of the Mental Health System but I definitely Learned a lot while I was in CM , Thank you for all your Help Bro!

    • @212Roger
      @212Roger Рік тому +4

      Thailand and Singapore are both very well known for “medical tourism.” Thailand’s health care is one tenth the price of America’s. All doctors are trained in America and speak English. The new Chiang Mai Ram Hospital Complex looks like the lobby at a Hyatt Hotel. Wallpaper on the wall. I waited less than one minute to be treated. Step by step, blood work, wait five minutes, X-rays, wait five minutes, pay your bill, then wait five minutes for medicine. Amazing! Due to an enlarged prostrate gland, I was sent to Chiang Mai University for an MRI. Guess how much? $300(USD) The latest technology; Tesla 3 machine.

    • @katapol1212noseeda
      @katapol1212noseeda 6 місяців тому

      Awesome Video Bro .... Im currentlu looking at gaining More skills to get me back to Asia, Not Sure about Thailand anymore because of the Mental Health System but I definitely Learned a lot while I was in CM , Thank you for all your Help Bro! When you come to Thailand you have to lose your culture. both thoughts and privacy Because Thai people give each other independence in their lives.

  • @shunwilliams6180
    @shunwilliams6180 5 місяців тому

    Thank you so much for sharing ❤❤❤

  • @jamie-hb8gy
    @jamie-hb8gy 10 місяців тому

    I take my hat off to Jon what a great human being.hope you have a happy life in Thailand❤

  • @soulfullexistence9153
    @soulfullexistence9153 Рік тому

    i soo needed to see this video. Im so inpressed Jon.

  • @michaelotoo5543
    @michaelotoo5543 11 місяців тому

    This is the best interesting interviews I have ever heard hope you all the best John

  • @ThailandWithMonchai
    @ThailandWithMonchai Рік тому

    Incredibly powerful story! Thank you for sharing. The best to you, John 😊

  • @DreamofThailand19000
    @DreamofThailand19000 Рік тому +3

    I have watched this video many times and I wonder why 😂. I know why! It is because I love how Jon clearly explained his insights. I would encourage him to pursue teaching career in Thailand since he mentioned it. Thai students will love him. I am lifetime learner and have a lot of great teachers all these years. Go for it, Jon 👍

  • @fumanchu9701
    @fumanchu9701 8 місяців тому

    Best wishes to John. Sounds like a great guy and the sort of person that makes good communities.

  • @kimlove5760
    @kimlove5760 Рік тому +19

    Wow! I love his positive energy. 🙂 He is right about Thais; it is their curiosity not prejudice. Wishing you all the best thing in life

  • @tatongt
    @tatongt Рік тому

    Thank you for sharing your stories. I’m glad to hear that you feel better here. Welcome to Thailand.

  • @SathapanaRongthong
    @SathapanaRongthong 9 місяців тому

    We see beyond race, nationality, and gender. Love is what binds us together, transcending all boundaries. Simply put, if you show us love, we'll return it tenfold. That's the essence of who we are.

  • @NickReels
    @NickReels Рік тому +2

    Great interview and insight and inspiring ❤

  • @chantidapakobpol3928
    @chantidapakobpol3928 Рік тому +2

    If you learn thai history, you will understand why thais welcome all people from around the world. Anyway, thank you very much for sharing your life. Jon spoke clearly and brilliantly and i hope you will find what is truly happiness in Thailand.😊😊😊😊

  • @josephbarrett4938
    @josephbarrett4938 Рік тому +1

    Powerful, interesting video. John you are going to be a success any place you go.

  • @Anton_thailand1993
    @Anton_thailand1993 Рік тому +1

    Hi Jon just want to say I found your story truly inspiring I am an aspiring digital nomad and I’m hoping to make the move to Thailand next year I found your story quite inspiring as I myself also had an experience with a spiritualist in helping me to discover Thailand I have done some work with Brett and I’m hoping to become a freelance voice actor 👍🇹🇭🙏

  • @AniaLidiaCoaching
    @AniaLidiaCoaching Рік тому +1

    what an amazing and powerful story... Gods plan...

  • @republic_of_kyle
    @republic_of_kyle 8 місяців тому

    What an amazing man. Godspeed, Jon.

  • @williamcunningham3327
    @williamcunningham3327 Рік тому +8

    OMG, what a video thank you for sharing! I plan to move to Thailand next August 2024. Next, I have to say Joh answer all of my question about I would be treated in Thialand and he only confirmed it for me. Also, I have a good life here in Tampa, Florida I want for nothing, however, the racism, gun violence through out the country it feels that the country is in a dark place and has lost it's way! I was listening to an old song the other day the USO's use to play at the end of there shows it was performed by the Animals 1965 "we gotta get out of this place". I never thought in my life time that I would feel this way but YES. Finally, thank you, thank you John wow!

  • @Deplorable_Me_UK
    @Deplorable_Me_UK 11 місяців тому

    I was so locked into this video. John is an amazing guy. Thank you for being so honest. You're amazing. I'm white and when I've been in rural parts of Vietnam and even the cities I've been stared at simply cos I'm different.

  • @bluepeter128
    @bluepeter128 7 місяців тому

    Curiosity!!!! Period... Normal and nice, can be used as a learning experience. 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

  • @prangloya2974
    @prangloya2974 Рік тому +5

    You gave me ideas about racism, I lived in the US before and I didn’t understand about why it was so much hated in the U S. And in Thailand with Thai people they are just curious, that’s all.

  • @airyjang4308
    @airyjang4308 Рік тому

    John reminds me of Lionel Richie. Charming voice and thought. Wish you luck.

  • @dan-k3744
    @dan-k3744 Рік тому

    Such a WONDERFUL MAN , Such a WONDERFUL VIDEO

  • @TatutKhem
    @TatutKhem Рік тому

    This was very interesting and enlightening. Excellent video!