“She was a producer for Sally Jesse Rafael and Jerry Springer. Didn’t she already bring enough pain to the world?” How did he deliver that with a straight face?
Jeez, what a dysfunctional cult the entertainment biz is- the kind of justified existence that attracts certain types to particular occupations like law enforcement.
Thank you for your well thought out words at the end. I'm a wheelchair user with muscular dystrophy and I still love my life. I use a bipapd to breathe at night lying down, but I am still enjoying my life, and get out on my own, but I need help washing/dressing/cooking etc. Ive had people say to my face theyd rather die than use a wheelchair. Dying is staying in the house, unable to walk. Thank you for your valuable insight as usual.
Damn. The summery you made at the end about disabled people is spot on. I lost my right arm in a motorcycle collision ten years ago, yet many, many people, including lifelong friends and family can not understand how I still have my weird humour intact. Many assume I am miserable and unhappy. I am, and have always been a challenge driven person, overcoming the effects of my stroke and following collision has been the greatest challenge in my life. ( I have factor five leiden, suffered a stroke while riding, had a head on with a Kenworth, just like the ending of the original Mad Max movie) I have been, metaphorically, to the summit of Everest, and come back stronger and more in love with living than ever before. Still, daily, my life is convincing others that I am not a cripple. I survived, and thrived. I’m not ever narcissistic, but the calamity which overtook my, and the lives of all around me, has made me a vastly superior human. Your summary at the end has knocked me hard. You seem to have intuitively seen into my life. Deep, Mad Respect to you. Cheers.
Television producers like Jill Blackstone are the reason I stopped watching TV and started watching Dr. Grande's videos. I'm never going back to television.
It does say a lot about modern television that a single bloke with one camera and a modest studio can make something better than 98%+ of the sludge produced by "professionals". Yesteryear's midday soap operas could be considered high art compared to what is on now.
Thank you for always 1)Adding your opinion on the case. 2)Always slamming Jersey. 3)Adding a little extra at the end. You and your humor rock Dr Grande! 🎉
ua-cam.com/play/PLIAIQjiiqE0az9psSh8bRVIKcf3bpucaA.html&si=N3tqoubegS9WmPMY Dr Grande New Jersey playlist. Note: my wife is from New Jersey so it’s even funnier.
I liked what you explained at the end basically explaining "inaccurate empathy" towards people with disabilities. This is a deep topic which needs to be talked about WAY MORE- how their weakness are projected onto them by everyone and it makes it worse. The reality is, humans can be cruel, they also use this to make themselves feel holier than thou. I recently read an interesting article, it was about a woman who gave birth to a baby with Down Syndrome. She explained how every clinician around her after the birth, was highlighting the negative, and how she just wanted them to stop, and leave her to rejoice to her precious child. To her this baby was so very special, she saw it completely different. She also explained that her childs life still had value, and we shouldn't be defined/deemed worthy by our future possible careers.
@chrisfurius her mortgage was 5k on a small 3 bedroom. I've lived in other places in the US, that's not even a thing. Plus the house itself was 1mil lol...for that??? But that's CA
Thank you Dr.Grande! Have heard so many people say about the disabled "i wouldn't want to live like that" (implying ergo that the disabled person really doesn't want to either) - that it truly is mind boggling! Really appreciate your take on this! Speaking for a friend...
As a person who has multiple "disabilities" as defined by the Americans with Disabilities Act, I can attest to that as well. I love my life. Something tells me most people with said disabilities wouldn't want to live like the people who use terms like "I'd never be able to live like that." 😂
@@ginaauten1110but people who have not experienced disability assume that they know how they would feel and that’s simply not accurate. You do not know how you would react to disability until it happens to you and in the vast majority of cases people adapt and life goes on happily.
@@LongHairCarolyn Yes, that is true people may have another perspective on what they appreciate in life if something happen that alter their abilities.
@LongHairCarolyn Except for single people who become disabled and it's impossible to afford housing on the disability benefits they receive. So they become homeless, and no one would want to live anymore if they were homeless. . . . and disabled.
Thank you for your comments at the end about disability. The way people think about disability is often horrifying. The truth is that 1) humans are very resilient and 2) you have no idea at all how you would respond should you become disabled. Many abled people assume that life wouldn’t be worth living but the majority of people who aquire disabilities adjust and live regular lives
@ I’m so sorry. I wish I had words of encouragement for you. There’s no doubt it’s harder when the people who are supposed to be there for you disappear
Merry Christmas Dr G ❤ thank you so much for your gifts all year around. You (and Amy) are a treasure and we're blessed for your wit, insight and absolutely banging humour GOLD 🎉 May your Christmas be full of family and blessings xx
@@SurfCityBill Usher syndrome is progressive, meaning it was only recently that Wendy could not work. I'm sure she had saved up what she could to prepare for when she would have to rely on disability.
If the prosecutor honors the family wishes because they don't want their murdering relative in prison, the prisons should be mostly empty. Since when do the murderers family members dictate what their charges should be?
I used to work with Downs Syndrome adults. Some of the most joyful and loving people I have ever known. Any suggestion that their lives are not valuable is profoundly ignorant and cruel.
13:08 Doc, man, I had to rewatch your epilogue section because you crystallized in my mind the understanding of a phenomenon that I witness far too often but am never able to fully delineate or describe which has prevented me from understanding the mechanisms behind its occurrence properly until now. However, the way you just described it resonated completely with me and now I understand better. Thank you, you are positively great, sir! Excellent work as always. 🤝
Appreciate the talk at the end regarding perception of people with disabilities and those who of us who may overestimate our own ability to empathize with others. Very prescient topic.
Such important statements made at the end. Unfortunately this affects animals the most. The fact that animals have a stronger sense of survival than human beings is entirely overlooked. They cope without complaint as well. RIP to the dogs she supposedly loved , and to the sister. A quality video once again.
She owed her sister 100k. Sending Wendy away wasn't going to erase that debt. My theory is that the murder was her trying to get out of paying her sister just as much as it was about not wanting to care for her anymore.
How could a producer of Divorce Court, Jerry Springer, The Rosie O'Donnell Show, Sally Jessy Raphael, The Steve Wilkos Show & The Tony Danza Show have $1.4 million in debt?
I have walked with a cane since I was 34, when my back went out, and injured a nerve root. It's amazing how many total strangers came up to me to give me "advice" on how to fix myself. Now that I'm old, I'm enjoying being just another old person with a cane. Being unable to work in a regular job gave me the freedom to work at art. I have even made a little bit of extra money from it. Life doesn't end with a disability. Sometimes it gets better.
@@markosmarkos7978 You're up in every thread assuming this about every person that merely quotes this line that Dr. Grande said. Everybody knows about Springer, and the other exploitative shows like it whether they've actually watched them or not. Regardless, the vast majority of viewers of that show had no idea just how exploitative it was behind the scenes. That didn't come out until much later. You're obviously some kid who doesn't have a fully developed frontal lobe, who can only form opinions based in recency bias, or a basement dweller who has nothing else to live for besides trolling. Maybe both. Find a positive hobby or something. Do something worthwhile with your life.
I so appreciate your views Dr Grande, and really liked your home videos with your wife. Thank you so much, you’ve filled my youtube searches with calmness and saneness. Canada DG.
I grew up in New Jersey and still here. I am glad you bash Jersey all the time because you keep the bad rap going while it is actually a very nice place to live. Keeps people out of a convenient place to live. Although, the high cost of living is awful. Keep it up Dr. Todd.
I enjoy the jokes but honestly I think it’s a big state and probably full of many good communities and people. Anyway, I live in Chicago so what can I say about anywhere else?
@@GoAskAlice23 The "don't resuscitate" notes on the trash can; the dogs being included. This isn't a revenge style and whatever life insurance wasn't going to be enough to change her financial situation or else it would have been mentioned.
Dr. Grande really seems to be obsessed with New Jersey. I have no idea what that place did to him, I'm in Germany. However, it is not the first time he expressed some, well, rather strong opinions on the topic.
Thank you for the reminder about inaccurate empathy /projection/countertranseference! We MH professionals should always be open to examining our views and whether we are projecting them on to patients instead of learning more about about THEIR views!
This case reminds me of how my siblings viewed me from 18 to 28 when i had grand mal seizures frequently. My mom told me they wanted her to put me in the mental hospital. People who are disabled should be aware that abuse can occur and in this case death resulted by agreeing to live with a sibling whos life was crumbling. My seizures ended with medicine and from then on i strove to support and build my own life. Im polite but i do NOT visit my siblings. I prefer that. Rip Wendy. The woman got away with murder, because her family didnt value Wendy.
@@andreasmith8052 I'm just joking. Some good music has certainly come from NJ. When I was a trucker, all of the USA and Canada, I did notice that the police presence in NJ was absurdly over the top. And your firearrm laws are stricter than North Korea. What you must spend in taxes to fund all that regulation has to be big. But, your music output is pretty impressive. And the Delaware Water Gap is also beautiful. Cape May is also very pretty on the shore. No hate. Just kidding. The real lowlife capital is Ohio.
@MooseGuy1 Thank you, now as a gal who's been on the peripheral of a tiny trucking co. I feel bad about our narcissistic drivers ( too many Beemers) who can't leave the left lane but light it up the entire ride with their break lights and have no idea how to merge onto a highway. Taxes are crazy, moved to the shore area where we have 55+ so that helps. I just love my state that gets such a bad rap. Keep on trucking and smiling!
I go out at night, dressed in velour, carrying a flashlight, and ask strangers if they would like to be seated. Most do not. I have Usher's Syndrome. Thanks, Doc.
when i heard in the opening they she was from bayonne … i was just waiting for it 12:46 lol 😆 love you dr. grande merry christmas 🎄 to u and urs from new jersey 💚❤️🇺🇸
Empathy is far rarer than it appears. It is claimed to be used throughout society, but it can be used as a great manipulation tool. A cynical view, but I feel an accurate one
Mr.Grande I agree New Jersey is worse than prison 😅 unfortunately due to circumstances I am here because my elderly Aunt needs a caregiver. I'm dreaming of you and Mrs Grande enjoying your beautiful Christmas decorations and the special Disney tree that is cheerful 😊 Mr and Mrs enjoy a cozy Christmas ⛄
Dr. Grande, a great episode as usual. I must let you know the photos from your new studio are really popping. The photos before were okay, but now they are so bright and excellent. I'm wondering if you had new cameras. Keep up the great photos. 👍
Inaccurate empathy is what I have lived with all my life. It can happen when an older sibling copes with jealousy/envy by pushing their views on you, conditioning you to feel that you must somehow want what they have, and are required to do what they do. It is for THEIR self esteem, not your edification. When you grow up this way you are conditioned to undermine your own feelings and preferences. It’s difficult to get out from under without alienating family. Sigh. For instance, this year I’ve decided I DO like Christmas. We’ve had Christmas dinner at my house for 25 years now. 25 years of being told: “People who like Christmas are just letting the market manipulate them. Presents are dumb, decorations are goofy.” All these proclamations are for me to infer, that my choices are bad, that I’m being ridiculous. Many, many inferences have been shoved my way. I’m so used to it. When I do “my own thing” in spite of the “advice” the sibling is genuinely surprised and a little indignant. It comes out inevitable in subtle put-downs. My family has made 3 significant moves in the last 25 years, and each time her family has moved to be near me within a few months. The indignation about each move is over the top, and I wonder whether she actually genuinely cares about me as a person. The envy and need and inaccurate empathy are stronger methinks.
Merry Christmas Dr. Todd to you and your wife and A very happy New Year also....wishing you and your wife the very best of health. Thank you for all your wonderful stories to keep us updated. XX
All the best to you too Mike and Pal. I love the way your videos are short and sweet, cute and profound, funny and wise... Merry Christmas:) Looking forward to more next year x
If it doesn't exist yet, I really need a video explaining why Dr Grande hates NJ so much 🤣🤣 and not because I disagree that NJ sucks, I totally understand that perspective. But I have a feeling that there is a REALLY entertaining story behind Dr Grande's experience in NJ.
She convince her sister to a suicide pact and betrayed her by not following through but letting her sister died. She probably just wanted to start over all by herself.
Springer and the other shows she produced and the imitators were the prelude to the scourge of "Reality TV" the media loves so much today, as well as the dumbing down of our politics into little more than an imitation of reality TV shows.
Awwwww I miss JERRY JERRY JERRY such a nice man bringing joy & laughter to all of us weekly. His talent & shows are priceless & I am so glad we can all see them online forever!! 🍻💐👻
Please analyze the NYC lady who was deliberately burned alive in the subway by a malignant excuse of a human, include the NYC police and bystanders behaviors. DG hospital staff in Canada.
“She was a producer for Sally Jesse Rafael and Jerry Springer. Didn’t she already bring enough pain to the world?” How did he deliver that with a straight face?
😂
only Dr Grande 🤣 "how much more should she get away with?" - Dr Grande
That's why he is Grande! (Grande = Big, in Spanish)😂
Jeez, what a dysfunctional cult the entertainment biz is- the kind of justified existence that attracts certain types to particular occupations like law enforcement.
She would have had the hat trick if she worked on Maury.
Thank you for your well thought out words at the end. I'm a wheelchair user with muscular dystrophy and I still love my life. I use a bipapd to breathe at night lying down, but I am still enjoying my life, and get out on my own, but I need help washing/dressing/cooking etc. Ive had people say to my face theyd rather die than use a wheelchair. Dying is staying in the house, unable to walk. Thank you for your valuable insight as usual.
Your life is every bit worth living. I'm glad you are strong and see past the awful comments.
Your rad as heck lady! ❤️
Stay happy! 👍
You bet life is worth living! Have fun my friend 😊
Damn. The summery you made at the end about disabled people is spot on. I lost my right arm in a motorcycle collision ten years ago, yet many, many people, including lifelong friends and family can not understand how I still have my weird humour intact. Many assume I am miserable and unhappy. I am, and have always been a challenge driven person, overcoming the effects of my stroke and following collision has been the greatest challenge in my life. ( I have factor five leiden, suffered a stroke while riding, had a head on with a Kenworth, just like the ending of the original Mad Max movie) I have been, metaphorically, to the summit of Everest, and come back stronger and more in love with living than ever before. Still, daily, my life is convincing others that I am not a cripple. I survived, and thrived.
I’m not ever narcissistic, but the calamity which overtook my, and the lives of all around me, has made me a vastly superior human.
Your summary at the end has knocked me hard. You seem to have intuitively seen into my life. Deep, Mad Respect to you. Cheers.
You say that you are not ever narcissistic but moments later claim to be a vastly superior human.
Compared to the person they were before, not compared to you obviously.
Television producers like Jill Blackstone are the reason I stopped watching TV and started watching Dr. Grande's videos. I'm never going back to television.
It does say a lot about modern television that a single bloke with one camera and a modest studio can make something better than 98%+ of the sludge produced by "professionals". Yesteryear's midday soap operas could be considered high art compared to what is on now.
Soi very true @@Justin-d4l I made the same observation
@@Justin-d4l"It does say (...) produced by "professionals"."
A stillborn wombat would probably be preferable to Hollywood.
Its called "Goyslop"
@@Justin-d4l
Hey!
My mom loved those soap operas! 😅
Perhaps it was encouragement to be productive since nothing good was on tv!
I think we need a shirt by Dr. Grande that says, "That's pretty much it for the exculpatory factors." 😂
Yesss! 😂😂😂
Haha!
I think we need a shirt with a disparaging comment about New Jersey bb
...and a definition of that word 🥴😵💫
Yes, yes we certainly do. 😂
Thank you for always 1)Adding your opinion on the case.
2)Always slamming Jersey.
3)Adding a little extra at the end.
You and your humor rock Dr Grande! 🎉
The slamming of Jersey is what I wait for in every episode.😂😂
It is Jersey. That's low hanging fruit in joke land.
@@TheEmily1218😂😂
I knew a New Jersey comment was inevitable. Good job getting it in at the last minute.
Perfect timing
I thought Dr. Grande was from New Jersey, hah. He has an accent that places him there or greater NYC.
L.A. Jersey. I'll take L.A.
ua-cam.com/play/PLIAIQjiiqE0az9psSh8bRVIKcf3bpucaA.html&si=N3tqoubegS9WmPMY
Dr Grande New Jersey playlist.
Note: my wife is from New Jersey so it’s even funnier.
Poor NJ
I liked what you explained at the end basically explaining "inaccurate empathy" towards people with disabilities. This is a deep topic which needs to be talked about WAY MORE- how their weakness are projected onto them by everyone and it makes it worse. The reality is, humans can be cruel, they also use this to make themselves feel holier than thou.
I recently read an interesting article, it was about a woman who gave birth to a baby with Down Syndrome. She explained how every clinician around her after the birth, was highlighting the negative, and how she just wanted them to stop, and leave her to rejoice to her precious child. To her this baby was so very special, she saw it completely different. She also explained that her childs life still had value, and we shouldn't be defined/deemed worthy by our future possible careers.
THANK YOU!!!
California resident here, for people wondering how you could be a successful TV producer but then be over $1mil in debt...because it's California.
Yeah, I'm pretty sure that's not the reason.
@chrisfurius her mortgage was 5k on a small 3 bedroom. I've lived in other places in the US, that's not even a thing. Plus the house itself was 1mil lol...for that??? But that's CA
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣stay there
I'd get the hell out of there if I were you.
She’d be $1.4 million in debt if she lived in Boise
The “inaccurate empathy” explanation was eye opening. Thanks, Dr. Grande.
Why was Jill naked from the waist down? Why was that pointed out??
It's like a subset of the Dunning-Kruger effect: people overestimate their capacity for empathizing with others.
Thank you Dr.Grande!
Have heard so many people say about the disabled "i wouldn't want to live like that" (implying ergo that the disabled person really doesn't want to either) - that it truly is mind boggling!
Really appreciate your take on this! Speaking for a friend...
As a person who has multiple "disabilities" as defined by the Americans with Disabilities Act, I can attest to that as well. I love my life. Something tells me most people with said disabilities wouldn't want to live like the people who use terms like "I'd never be able to live like that." 😂
@@AxelordSMIJES everyone has a different perspective..
@@ginaauten1110but people who have not experienced disability assume that they know how they would feel and that’s simply not accurate. You do not know how you would react to disability until it happens to you and in the vast majority of cases people adapt and life goes on happily.
@@LongHairCarolyn Yes, that is true people may have another perspective on what they appreciate in life if something happen that alter their abilities.
@LongHairCarolyn Except for single people who become disabled and it's impossible to afford housing on the disability benefits they receive. So they become homeless, and no one would want to live anymore if they were homeless. . . . and disabled.
Thank you for your comments at the end about disability. The way people think about disability is often horrifying. The truth is that 1) humans are very resilient and 2) you have no idea at all how you would respond should you become disabled. Many abled people assume that life wouldn’t be worth living but the majority of people who aquire disabilities adjust and live regular lives
for me my wife left when i lost my job, and its been terrible ever since. i've managed, but life sucks now; and how can you have hope
@ I’m so sorry. I wish I had words of encouragement for you. There’s no doubt it’s harder when the people who are supposed to be there for you disappear
I've met many disabled folks that are more well-adjusted than I am as an abled person.
Merry Christmas Dr G ❤ thank you so much for your gifts all year around. You (and Amy) are a treasure and we're blessed for your wit, insight and absolutely banging humour GOLD 🎉
May your Christmas be full of family and blessings xx
She owed over 100K to her sister, motive? If so, she’s a psychopath for insisting she’s a good person and cold blooded murder.
Good point. By the way, where did the $100,000 come from to begin with if the sister couldn't work?
Narcissist
@@SurfCityBill Usher syndrome is progressive, meaning it was only recently that Wendy could not work. I'm sure she had saved up what she could to prepare for when she would have to rely on disability.
@@SurfCityBillis the source of the 100k relevant ?
It could be from a pention or inheritance.
If the prosecutor honors the family wishes because they don't want their murdering relative in prison, the prisons should be mostly empty. Since when do the murderers family members dictate what their charges should be?
Might have something to do with financial, social status, skin color?
@cathylindeboo.9598 your probably right about the financial/social status but skin color is just plain goofy.
Female privilege
@@cathylindeboo.9598 Skin color? You must be American? Lol.
I know a happy man with downs syndrome. He and his mum are devoted cathlics, he reads the mass daily, gets blessed daily and helps his elderly mum.
I used to work with Downs Syndrome adults. Some of the most joyful and loving people I have ever known. Any suggestion that their lives are not valuable is profoundly ignorant and cruel.
I've never met someone with Downs Syndrome that wasn't fun and happy. They're the best people to be around if you're having a bad day.
I heard you say New Jersey and knew there was a joke incoming 😁🤣
😢 I love New Jersey
@@Cinder_311 Why?
13:08 Doc, man, I had to rewatch your epilogue section because you crystallized in my mind the understanding of a phenomenon that I witness far too often but am never able to fully delineate or describe which has prevented me from understanding the mechanisms behind its occurrence properly until now. However, the way you just described it resonated completely with me and now I understand better. Thank you, you are positively great, sir! Excellent work as always. 🤝
Word salad.
Thanks for the timestamp. That epilogue indeed deserved a rewatch and relisten...
Lol six years for premeditated murder what a joke.
Honestly.
The lives of disabled people are not valued at all 😢
The California justice system hard at work.
She must have had an excellent lawyer.
@@edelweiss2.076 Could have defended herself and still prevailed . California justice is not designed to punish anyone except the victims.
Appreciate the talk at the end regarding perception of people with disabilities and those who of us who may overestimate our own ability to empathize with others. Very prescient topic.
Such important statements made at the end. Unfortunately this affects animals the most. The fact that animals have a stronger sense of survival than human beings is entirely overlooked. They cope without complaint as well.
RIP to the dogs she supposedly loved , and to the sister.
A quality video once again.
Thank you for the analysis, Dr. Grande!
Your digs at New Jersey are great! Thank you. 😊
Thanks for continuing to churn out videos all through the holidays.
Why rescue dogs just to "end" them???
Why not send Wendy & the dogs elsewhere???
Just awful!
She was broke. When money was flowing it's all fun, when you can't pay bills and others are around they become a burden.
💰💰
She owed her sister 100k. Sending Wendy away wasn't going to erase that debt. My theory is that the murder was her trying to get out of paying her sister just as much as it was about not wanting to care for her anymore.
Merry Christmas to you and your family Dr Grande🎄🎄🎄
How could a producer of Divorce Court, Jerry Springer, The Rosie O'Donnell Show, Sally Jessy Raphael, The Steve Wilkos Show & The Tony Danza Show have $1.4 million in debt?
She didnt have an income problem, she had a spending problem. Many people have this issue.
"Thoughts and Prayers,Thoughts and prayers"
Tony Danza
How can successful actors go bankrupt? Yet they do…
It's called 'Retail Therapy'... and probably coupled with some expensive habits.
The same way people 600 million in the lottery and go broke
anyone who claims "I am a good person" , you can be sure is not a good person
Thanks Dr. Grande. Your videos are a great source of information
I have walked with a cane since I was 34, when my back went out, and injured a nerve root. It's amazing how many total strangers came up to me to give me "advice" on how to fix myself. Now that I'm old, I'm enjoying being just another old person with a cane. Being unable to work in a regular job gave me the freedom to work at art. I have even made a little bit of extra money from it. Life doesn't end with a disability. Sometimes it gets better.
"Hasn't she brought enough pain into the world?" and "Much worse than prison".... the dead-pan humor of these dark videos is over-the-top.
MERRY CHRISTMAS DR GRANDE !!!!🎄🎄🎄🎄🎄🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟
"She was a producer for shows like Sally Jessy Raphael, and Jerry Springer. Didn't she already bring enough pain to the world?" 😂😂💀
🦜 🦜🦜🦜🦜🦜
@@albatross8 🦜 🦜🦜🦜🦜🦜
Pain you probably watched and now are being a hypocrite even though you supported with viewing. Hmmm seems shallow...😂😂
new jersey is much worse than prison 🤣
@@markosmarkos7978 You're up in every thread assuming this about every person that merely quotes this line that Dr. Grande said.
Everybody knows about Springer, and the other exploitative shows like it whether they've actually watched them or not.
Regardless, the vast majority of viewers of that show had no idea just how exploitative it was behind the scenes. That didn't come out until much later.
You're obviously some kid who doesn't have a fully developed frontal lobe, who can only form opinions based in recency bias, or a basement dweller who has nothing else to live for besides trolling.
Maybe both.
Find a positive hobby or something. Do something worthwhile with your life.
Love from NJ, Dr Grande.
😂
My condolences 🤣
This is scary because i have a chronic illness, i wouldn't want someone to kill me because they want to 'put' me out of my misery
Jersey is worse than prison. 🤣🤣🤣I love it Doc!!
I so appreciate your views Dr Grande, and really liked your home videos with your wife. Thank you so much, you’ve filled my youtube searches with calmness and saneness. Canada DG.
New Jersey always catches strays from the good doctor 🤣🤣🤣
Haven't watched all yet but a charcoal grill in a garage aka confined space is no Bueno. Carbon-monoxid jumped into my head.
With the garage door closed, that was intentional.
I grew up in New Jersey and still here. I am glad you bash Jersey all the time because you keep the bad rap going while it is actually a very nice place to live. Keeps people out of a convenient place to live. Although, the high cost of living is awful. Keep it up Dr. Todd.
Excellent food Great people
@ the food is incredible and I totally agree with you. If I ever move out I am sure I will miss these things.
I'm truly sorry to hear that. Hopefully, you'll be able to move out of New Jersey some day...
@@AlexNYC961 thanks.
I enjoy the jokes but honestly I think it’s a big state and probably full of many good communities and people. Anyway, I live in Chicago so what can I say about anywhere else?
Lowest common denominator shows so it figures a producer for them would also be a lowest common denominator person.
Already brought enough pain to the world, New Jersey worse than prison. Todd I'm rolling that's hilarious.
With massive debt and no financial motive, I think she was trying to exit but changed her mind.
Idk. Was there life insurance?
She owed her sister 122,000. It was written off during bankruptcy. I am almost sure that this caused animosity.
@@GoAskAlice23
The "don't resuscitate" notes on the trash can; the dogs being included.
This isn't a revenge style and whatever life insurance wasn't going to be enough to change her financial situation or else it would have been mentioned.
@ she is a producer of shows. Image means everything. I suspect that since she is alive and well, it was her plot. And it worked.
This is a very sad case, always amazing what people are capable of. This was no accident. Excellent analysis on all points again. Thanks Dr G😊🤍🤍
The sister with the successful Hollywood career ended up owing $135,000 to the sister unable to work?
I can´t figure it out either.
Irresponsible money management and bad financial decisions ?
New Jersey is always getting blindsided!
I don't understand that lol. I love NJ. Belmar and Cape May are two of my favorite vacation destinations
@@Cinder_311 And i love florida, but the news reads that flow out of that place *daily* ......man good lord.
@@cannackYeah, at this point I think Florida has dethroned New Jersey as far as being the butt of the most jokes. Michigan gets the bronze medal.
13:00 “NJ is much worse than prison.” 😂
As an NJ resident, I can fully relate to this statement!
Dr. Grande really seems to be obsessed with New Jersey. I have no idea what that place did to him, I'm in Germany. However, it is not the first time he expressed some, well, rather strong opinions on the topic.
Went there for the first time and last time this last September, god awful place
You're forgetting about ( Louisiana). Total trash keep, sweat box. State where mosquitos vote.
Thank you for the reminder about inaccurate empathy /projection/countertranseference! We MH professionals should always be open to examining our views and whether we are projecting them on to patients instead of learning more about about THEIR views!
She got away with murder
Thank you again Dr. Grande 🙏
Nobody associated with Jerry Springer could have this kind of faulty moral compass. Has to be a frame up.
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This case reminds me of how my siblings viewed me from 18 to 28 when i had grand mal seizures frequently. My mom told me they wanted her to put me in the mental hospital. People who are disabled should be aware that abuse can occur and in this case death resulted by agreeing to live with a sibling whos life was crumbling. My seizures ended with medicine and from then on i strove to support and build my own life. Im polite but i do NOT visit my siblings. I prefer that. Rip Wendy. The woman got away with murder, because her family didnt value Wendy.
Bayonne, New Jersey, the Springer Show. With that kind of class whatever could go wrong?
You'd be surprised how awesome Jersey is! We have had so much talent come from our eclectic little state.
@@andreasmith8052 You mean talent for the Springer show?
@@andreasmith8052 I'm just joking. Some good music has certainly come from NJ. When I was a trucker, all of the USA and Canada, I did notice that the police presence in NJ was absurdly over the top. And your firearrm laws are stricter than North Korea. What you must spend in taxes to fund all that regulation has to be big. But, your music output is pretty impressive. And the Delaware Water Gap is also beautiful. Cape May is also very pretty on the shore. No hate. Just kidding. The real lowlife capital is Ohio.
@MooseGuy1 Thank you, now as a gal who's been on the peripheral of a tiny trucking co. I feel bad about our narcissistic drivers ( too many Beemers) who can't leave the left lane but light it up the entire ride with their break lights and have no idea how to merge onto a highway.
Taxes are crazy, moved to the shore area where we have 55+ so that helps. I just love my state that gets such a bad rap.
Keep on trucking and smiling!
@@MooseGuy1 My friend's brother was on that show 😔🤣
You speech on inaccurate empathy was spot on. I'm going to have to share this. Makes so much sense now.
L.A. real estate, buy home for 900 K in 2006, sell house 14 years later for 900K. And the new owners are going to tear the house down.
I still cannot believe I was friends with someone who went on Ricki Lake and Judge Joe Brown. Both hosts chewed her out. 😆
What was it, I can't believe my husband is my sister?
I too had low-class friends in my youth.
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There was a period where everyone would go on those shoes and fear factor for their 15 mins of fame.
Oh the My Baby Daddy turned into My Baby Momma episode
I go out at night, dressed in velour, carrying a flashlight, and ask strangers if they would like to be seated. Most do not. I have Usher's Syndrome. Thanks, Doc.
when i heard in the opening they she was from bayonne … i was just waiting for it 12:46 lol 😆 love you dr. grande merry christmas 🎄 to u and urs from new jersey 💚❤️🇺🇸
Reading this statement clears up any doubts I had about it's authenticity.
Empathy is far rarer than it appears. It is claimed to be used throughout society, but it can be used as a great manipulation tool. A cynical view, but I feel an accurate one
Your life is what you make it by making the best of what you have.
New Jersey the Bermuda Triangle of sanity
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Happiest of Holidays to you and your family!
I knew a dig at New Jersey was inevitable after it was mentioned early on. Delayed gratification this time and Dr Grande did not disappoint!
Dr. Grande is hilarious with his dry, deadpan delivery. "Inaccurate empathy" is such an entertaining concept, thanks for sharing it with us.
I thought I'd never hear another New Jersey joke again. thanks for giving me a laugh for the day.🤣🤣
I watch this channel in solidarty with Dr Grande and his opinions about New Jersey 😂
Thanks for the brief discussion on inaccurate empathy. It was enlightening.
Man New Jersey just can't catch a break!
Mr.Grande
I agree New Jersey is worse than prison 😅 unfortunately due to circumstances I am here because my elderly Aunt needs a caregiver.
I'm dreaming of you and Mrs Grande enjoying your beautiful Christmas decorations and the special Disney tree that is cheerful 😊
Mr and Mrs enjoy a cozy Christmas ⛄
That was a lot of money to pay for a dump of a house.
People pay that for no house. Just a bit of dirt
The Tony Danza Show?!?! That must have been a slow week.
Doc thank you for your words at the end. You help me rethink my ideas about disabled people! Your insight amazes me. 😊
There is NO WAY Wendy SHOULDN’T have had a JOB!!!!!
Dr. Grande, a great episode as usual. I must let you know the photos from your new studio are really popping. The photos before were okay, but now they are so bright and excellent. I'm wondering if you had new cameras. Keep up the great photos. 👍
Inaccurate empathy is what I have lived with all my life. It can happen when an older sibling copes with jealousy/envy by pushing their views on you, conditioning you to feel that you must somehow want what they have, and are required to do what they do. It is for THEIR self esteem, not your edification.
When you grow up this way you are conditioned to undermine your own feelings and preferences. It’s difficult to get out from under without alienating family. Sigh.
For instance, this year I’ve decided I DO like Christmas.
We’ve had Christmas dinner at my house for 25 years now. 25 years of being told:
“People who like Christmas are just letting the market manipulate them. Presents are dumb, decorations are goofy.”
All these proclamations are for me to infer, that my choices are bad, that I’m being ridiculous.
Many, many inferences have been shoved my way. I’m so used to it.
When I do “my own thing” in spite of the “advice” the sibling is genuinely surprised and a little indignant.
It comes out inevitable in subtle put-downs.
My family has made 3 significant moves in the last 25 years, and each time her family has moved to be near me within a few months. The indignation about each move is over the top, and I wonder whether she actually genuinely cares about me as a person. The envy and need and inaccurate empathy are stronger methinks.
Merry Christmas Dr. Todd to you and your wife and A very happy New Year also....wishing you and your wife the very best of health. Thank you for all your wonderful stories to keep us updated. XX
Say what you will about Dr. Grande, but damn, he sure knows how to title a video that you just have to click on.
LFG! Merry Christmas, Doc 🎄🎄🎄
Always interesting
Thank you ❤
All the best to you too Mike and Pal. I love the way your videos are short and sweet, cute and profound, funny and wise... Merry Christmas:) Looking forward to more next year x
If it doesn't exist yet, I really need a video explaining why Dr Grande hates NJ so much 🤣🤣 and not because I disagree that NJ sucks, I totally understand that perspective. But I have a feeling that there is a REALLY entertaining story behind Dr Grande's experience in NJ.
thanks very much for all your informative videos and merry xmas...
GRANDE! GRANDE! GRANDE!
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More like "WILKOS! WILKOS! WILKOS!"
She convince her sister to a suicide pact and betrayed her by not following through but letting her sister died. She probably just wanted to start over all by herself.
Nowhere in the video did it say she agreed to any of it. She was even concerned that her sister was trying to drug he
I will never understand how you keep that extreme energy level throughout your videos.
I believe it was bad luck. Who hasn't lost one, two, or even a few room mates the same way? We've all been there.
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Springer and the other shows she produced and the imitators were the prelude to the scourge of "Reality TV" the media loves so much today, as well as the dumbing down of our politics into little more than an imitation of reality TV shows.
Jerry Springer really captured the train wreck of the US
Most of it was staged. I used to know a dude that went on several of these shows as different characters in different stories their writers made up.
Please assess Scottish serial killer 'Bible John'.
@@kellyash45 True, but the masses loved to watch it, it says more about the culture than the actors paid to go on.
In a world where The Jerry Springer Show no longer exists, Waffle House is the next best thing.
Awwwww I miss JERRY JERRY JERRY such a nice man bringing joy & laughter to all of us weekly. His talent & shows are priceless & I am so glad we can all see them online forever!! 🍻💐👻
My son has ushers syndrome. And he's living a happy life. Disabilities are not a bar to living a full life
Dr. Grande knocked it out of the ballpark yet again on this one. 🎯✔️
I come here to reassure myself Im much more well adjusted than it feels sometimes.
Thank you for that conclusion Dr Grande. Also called ableism.
Ushers results in blindness and deafness.
Please analyze the NYC lady who was deliberately burned alive in the subway by a malignant excuse of a human, include the NYC police and bystanders behaviors. DG hospital staff in Canada.
Poor New Jersey gets no love
I love your U tube post even though I am from NJ.
A luttle Christmas love for New Jersey Dr. Grande? Hope you and your family have a wonderful Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year
Da 👑 of UA-cam Dr.Grande ❤️
What kind of person would mercilessly unalive her own sister? There are no limits to human depravity 😢
Have a jolly Christmas, Dr.Grande 🎉🎅🎄