South African Interracial Marriage pt.1 | Nhlanhla & Marné | “That’s how I coped, being with him”

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  • Опубліковано 28 жов 2024

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  • @habitusproject
    @habitusproject  2 роки тому +7

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  • @zakiaramabolu3454
    @zakiaramabolu3454 2 роки тому +14

    I respect Marne for her strong belief in God . Thumbs Up Girl !

  • @kaybeemoafrika
    @kaybeemoafrika Рік тому +4

    I am from Free State, Kestell to be precise. I applaud the courage these two wonderful people have. I am married to a white American woman and we never experienced any of the challenges you guys went through. I think Americans are more open-minded when it comes to these relationships. You too are a wonderful couple.

  • @BonganiMusi
    @BonganiMusi 25 днів тому

    We need more videos guys 😊

  • @lincolnsmith6222
    @lincolnsmith6222 Рік тому +4

    Yes: after watching this couple
    I fell in love with them, they're an amazing couple, they match each other and I'm happy for them I pray that God
    Will keep them in his holy care
    And bless them abundantly!
    Lovely family.

  • @sellothabane3331
    @sellothabane3331 2 роки тому +8

    What an amazing couple! I can't wait to see part two. Much Love & Blessings!

  • @monicamnyanda7696
    @monicamnyanda7696 Рік тому +3

    Im happy you put God first in all what you do and all your dreams will come true.

  • @hgpamwelase
    @hgpamwelase 2 роки тому +14

    Wow lovely family ❤️so inspired love is beautiful when God is centered

  • @ugoernest3790
    @ugoernest3790 2 роки тому +4

    Thank you very much for your videos.. It's so educative .. Really appreciate ✋❤️😊

  • @OneQueenB
    @OneQueenB 2 роки тому +7

    Love is love. Congratulations.

  • @matsolothabiso7687
    @matsolothabiso7687 2 роки тому +3

    Nhlanhla be blessed Marne may Nhlanhla love and cherish you God bless and keep you both.

  • @HoodsGlobal
    @HoodsGlobal 2 роки тому +7

    Mr., respectively, your Dad gave you life. It's something to be greatful for.

    • @siyandagudazi1324
      @siyandagudazi1324 2 роки тому +3

      Its GOD that gives life; i beg to differ on that

  • @frankquitjooste5379
    @frankquitjooste5379 2 роки тому +7

    NhlanhlaMarne blessings on your marriage !

  • @zarrzarr9989
    @zarrzarr9989 2 роки тому +3

    Don't let Any one play with your marriage ,,if its family give them less time it's their issue not yours ...nice couple

  • @sol.leseyaneleseyane5008
    @sol.leseyaneleseyane5008 2 роки тому +9

    What a beautiful family! I am inspired,Love conquers all,wish you all success.This is South Africa we want to see,a rainbow nation.God bless you all

  • @Josuemuller46
    @Josuemuller46 10 місяців тому +1

    I love you very good family ❤❤❤🎉🎉blessings on your marriage, bonne chance dans votre vie future ❤❤😊😊😊😊

  • @BonganiMusi
    @BonganiMusi 25 днів тому

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🫶👏👏👏👏🥰👍

  • @mantombimchunu8829
    @mantombimchunu8829 2 роки тому +4

    Blessed family

  • @shereecockman3611
    @shereecockman3611 2 роки тому +3

    Marne' do your parents claim to be Christians? If they do, then they're definitely reading the wrong Bible. The Bible teaches you to respect everyone, regardless of Race, culture or creed. I would ban anyone who disrespects my husband from my home. You have to draw the line and show them that it's unacceptable. What matters most is your love and respect for each other.

  • @livetoloveandlaughlivefora6800
    @livetoloveandlaughlivefora6800 2 роки тому +4

    The only thing I don't like I wish you guys would put on the screen the question that you're asking him so we can at least follow along in the way he's thinking because to me he is like all over the place We are not hearing or seeing the question that is being asked

    • @habitusproject
      @habitusproject  2 роки тому +3

      Every chapter has a title which we place at the bottom left corner of the screen.
      In the interview we give an open ended question related to the chapter heading. It does happen that the subjects do lose the trail of the question but we find that whatever they end up saying, is linked to the question

  • @chimakalu41
    @chimakalu41 Рік тому +1

    13:49 Amen

  • @HoodsGlobal
    @HoodsGlobal 2 роки тому +3

    Mrs., you and your husband can plan a family vacation overseas and have fun. "Just sharpen your pencil for some serious budgeting".

  • @corneliuszana228
    @corneliuszana228 2 роки тому +5

    Once you go black, you never go back. Marne kyk mooi na Nhlanhla, julle is n goeie couple.

  • @banekanikak5894
    @banekanikak5894 2 роки тому +7

    I see the joy (not happiness) Joy! but also the pain and I get both their views, i have two suggestions for them if i may
    1, its a false narrative that in marriage its two families coming together this misconception is actually a big problem in marriages and society at large. its actually 3 families that are separate families and have to coexist. my fam, my wifes fam and MY FAM. this families are 3 dif families and they have to operate parallel. you cant get either fam too involved cause the lines become blurred, and humans have this capacity and habit of holding something against you, if i tell my fam about an issue or problem about my wife they might give an honest opinion or suggestion but they might hold it against her in the future with out an intention at times, its even better to discuss this with total strangers or someone that doesn't even know your wife. the respect that they give your partner is based mostly on what you tell them (and they wont forget it) and how u treat her, they will treat her the same way, so i really believe in 3 families not two families coming together, that's why the bible says a man shall leave his mother and father... not leave to stay, u must literally leave and start your own fam and start your own way of life.
    2, please please please remove the idea of race in your family and lives in general, there is no such thing as a black or white person, they just simply do not exist, this is an IDEA created by a play writer in the 1600 where in the play an African king called a European commoner a white man, (remember this was just a play) and the idea of identifying race was born. what is interesting is that this idea is fairly new, i know the play was written in 1600 but that's recent history. in ancient history there's no where in reference to literature where ppl are referred to as white or black. not in the Bible, not in the Quran, not in the first books in the world from china and india now where does it refer to anyone by colour. in the bible they always referred someone by where they are from not by race, black is a colour not a person, white is a colour not a race. someone sold us an idea and we ALL bought it' and it has caused so much pain in t he world and we still feed it to this day.
    but i like that you have a championship mentality , God bless

    • @jldp24
      @jldp24 2 роки тому

      You are hilarious. Kids as early as 4 start noticing differences. The story they telling has been told many times before and will be told many times in future. Ppl are not very accepting of interracial couples..especially this match. Black man and afrikaans woman. I swear you living in a dream world where ppl are all very kind and accepting. Endemically.. ppl want to differentiate themselves from others. Is this wrong what they doing..no. but will they lead blissful lives.no. it will be filled with pain and rejection for the most parts. But they adults .live for yourself..dont live for others

    • @banekanikak5894
      @banekanikak5894 2 роки тому +1

      @@jldp24 hi i noted ur criticism but when did i in anyway insinuate that they will be accepted by society or their lives will be easy, kids by 4 notice difference cause u & i indicate the difference to them, if they are not told they won’t know just like u everything u know is either someone told u or u had an experience that lead to ur knowledge.
      i was giving advice based on their situation, they are committed to each other & there’s no turning back.

    • @jldp24
      @jldp24 2 роки тому

      @@banekanikak5894 no no..no..kids at 4 already note differences without ppl telling them anything. Did you not understand that part of the post.

    • @banekanikak5894
      @banekanikak5894 2 роки тому

      @@jldp24 we’ll clearly we don’t agree i’m not gonna go back & forth with you

    • @STARK0181
      @STARK0181 Рік тому +3

      ​@@jldp24Kids may notice certain differences between their parents at an early age like their different gendered characteristics i.e physical build, and gendered expression.
      And in the case of interracial relationships they may notice differences in skin colour.
      BUT children won't hold prejudices, stereotypes or try to essentialise their parents based on those differences. Society teaches them to do that

  • @Samuelajetomobi50
    @Samuelajetomobi50 2 роки тому +3

    Do you have any children?

  • @watulukamedia6724
    @watulukamedia6724 2 роки тому +4

    Move to Australia guys

    • @MIKEJ788
      @MIKEJ788 2 роки тому +1

      Why?

    • @watulukamedia6724
      @watulukamedia6724 2 роки тому +2

      @@MIKEJ788
      So they can be themselves

    • @levelingup4915
      @levelingup4915 Рік тому

      @@watulukamedia6724 but they are themselves here in their own country... you people are cowards really, good things don’t come easy in life.... am a South African

    • @umdibiheritage9630
      @umdibiheritage9630 Рік тому +1

      It's interesting you are mentioning Australia. Are you talking from experience?

  • @Samuelajetomobi50
    @Samuelajetomobi50 2 роки тому

    Do you have any children?