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  • @shereetowell2689
    @shereetowell2689 4 місяці тому +64

    I've done care for 31 years and I've never had to find my own cover, your entitled to your holidays, I'd be questioning that practice xx❤

    • @nicky25294
      @nicky25294 4 місяці тому +6

      Right so bad

    • @mumof3325
      @mumof3325 4 місяці тому +3

      Me neither I have never heard of that

  • @katieandpaul2829
    @katieandpaul2829 4 місяці тому +41

    Faye I think if it’s for fertility you’re entitled to time off I was told by our HR department I wanted annual leave and she said no you get extra time for fertility treatments

    • @fayejay
      @fayejay  4 місяці тому +3

      Hey I’ll look into it thank you xxx

  • @juliemacefield3307
    @juliemacefield3307 4 місяці тому +16

    44 years I worked in care never heard anything like it you are entitled to your time off it's their problem if they have messed it up not yours I would go to the doctors and ask him to sign you off for 3 weeks or do they expect you to find your own cover if you go off sick I think they are breaking the law !!😡 In care they seem to think they can treat the staff like shit gets me so mad 😡😡

  • @Sasha-r8n6v
    @Sasha-r8n6v 4 місяці тому +3

    Aww Faye I would of told them it’s to late you’ve got plans,shit to that 😂❤

  • @lisafriend1427
    @lisafriend1427 4 місяці тому +12

    I'd be fuming too faye I'd go off sick now just to spite them x

    • @dawnfinch2836
      @dawnfinch2836 4 місяці тому +1

      So would I that's totally wrong 😮

    • @KathyBarnett-mv5vg
      @KathyBarnett-mv5vg 4 місяці тому +2

      And me! They would have to manage it you left.

  • @susanbaptie7000
    @susanbaptie7000 4 місяці тому +11

    It says gamer vibes on the pjs Faye great video have a great weekend Faye ❤

  • @mummabee2121
    @mummabee2121 4 місяці тому +17

    What an absolute pisstake, I'm afraid I would have said -ok the next three weeks are my notice. With such important things/times ahead of you the last thing you need is stress and frustration. Good luck whatever you decide to do. We are all sending you love and positive vibes xxx

  • @shanshan8942
    @shanshan8942 4 місяці тому +9

    I wouldn’t let this go. You followed the correct procedures, not your fault they can’t do their jobs properly. I would personally get yourself signed off from the GP. Don’t let this put a dampener on things for you Faye xx

  • @elliedenning6514
    @elliedenning6514 4 місяці тому +9

    Oh no! Give the girl a break 😩
    U got this lovely... 🙌🏼 🖤

  • @anitajenkins312
    @anitajenkins312 4 місяці тому +4

    Oh no Faye that's awful, I would be devastated too. You are handling it better than I would. When I worked in a care home and it we wanted annual leave we would fill out a form saying what shift you would have been on and add up the hours etc. If we needed to swop a shift then we would ask a carer to swop and let the senior know and she would see to it. Sending you big hugs ❤ x

  • @K1rst1e
    @K1rst1e 4 місяці тому +5

    I can feel your disappointment. Its so not fair... 🙄
    Get your holidays booked in ASAP, heres hoping the weather is so much better for you in the coming weeks. 🤞 🌞

  • @melnason7825
    @melnason7825 4 місяці тому +14

    Never heard that policy before.....getting your own cover. Did they forget to mention that when they offered you the position? I would be bloody fuming, you could have booked a holiday etc. Try your best not to get stressed tho babe you really need to try take it easy and be stress free with your up coming treatment xx

  • @Ruth58969
    @Ruth58969 4 місяці тому +7

    I'd just walk.Tell them to stick it. ( well I did actually ) xx

  • @Joy-qw3wm
    @Joy-qw3wm 4 місяці тому +3

    Faye i feel your frustration! Maybe speak to whoever is in charge when you have to go in.Doesn`t seem fair ,especially when they know what you`re going through at the moment.Fingers crossed they`ll listen.Big hugs and lots of love ,i feel so mad for you!Xoxo

  • @aimeebutler100
    @aimeebutler100 4 місяці тому +15

    Twenty five years in care never had to find cover for annual leave absolute rubbish. So sorry for u.xx 😔

  • @janeboothby5252
    @janeboothby5252 4 місяці тому +10

    I would hand my notice in, I think you'll find they will accommodate.

  • @nikkialder__
    @nikkialder__ 4 місяці тому +4

    I’ve worked in care for many many years in both community and in care home. Never ever have I ever had to find my own cover for annual leave. I would def take it higher I would even go to CQC if you have to coz that’s not right xxx

  • @sarahholland2600
    @sarahholland2600 4 місяці тому +8

    Unless its explicitly a stated term of your employment contract, ( which would be incredibly unusual) thats not legal. There are plenty of care jobs. I'd move on tbh.

  • @whichwitchhazel
    @whichwitchhazel 4 місяці тому

    Bless you Faye that is awful. I worked in care and never had to get my own cover. It's there fault not yours hugs xx Great haul gamer vibes xx

  • @shirleyhatton3773
    @shirleyhatton3773 4 місяці тому +2

    The word on the blue pyjamas is vibes 😀

  • @AdmiringCoffeePot-wh7cv
    @AdmiringCoffeePot-wh7cv 4 місяці тому +5

    Hi faye... I own a care company (home care) and i have never and would never expect or tell my staff to find their own cover... smells of bull shit to me that and you should question it amd if its added to the team annual leave calender then that makes it official, seen and agreed by management , i am sorry they have done that at such an important time for you 😮

  • @evehooper6438
    @evehooper6438 4 місяці тому +3

    I’ve just googled the cover for leave issue and it states it the employers responsibility and not the employee .
    What does your contract say ?

  • @kerrykinsxo1
    @kerrykinsxo1 4 місяці тому +63

    If I was in your position I would ask your gp to sign you off for a couple of weeks whilst your doing treatment 😢

    • @fayejay
      @fayejay  4 місяці тому +5

      I think I might do x thank you ♥️

    • @kerrykinsxo1
      @kerrykinsxo1 4 місяці тому +4

      @@fayejay It's absolutely OK to put yourself first, especially going through something like ivf. You've got this this lovely stay strong 💖

    • @ruthlockhart3868
      @ruthlockhart3868 4 місяці тому

      That isn’t on Faye!!!

    • @charlotte8079
      @charlotte8079 4 місяці тому

      Yeah 100% agree. IVF is major! I can't believe there's nothing in place for women to have time off for it like there is with pregnancy appointments etc. Crazy x

  • @sophiavlogs22
    @sophiavlogs22 4 місяці тому +1

    Gamer vibes it said on the t shirt 👕. That's why I don't like working for others, I'm glad I'm working for myself no notice required. I love ❤️ your videos 📹 especially make up ones and tioletries, shopping food hauls xxx

  • @annbyer3023
    @annbyer3023 4 місяці тому +1

    Faye, this is a stupid question, but did you follow up with the chain of command, to see where the ball was dropped? You need to know so that it doesn’t happen again. I wish I knew how to use Vinted. Him up Faye. Don’t let them get you down. Thx for sharing.

  • @katywhite9754
    @katywhite9754 4 місяці тому

    That is proper shit your entitled to your holidays if you have to find cover when you want a holiday you will never get any time off, I would be fuming too Xx

  • @amis_place
    @amis_place 4 місяці тому +2

    Hi Faye,
    Where I am working you can get annual leave if it is booked far enough in advance. If it is short notice though then we have what is called a swap shift rota. That is when we have to ask someone else to cover a shift for us and then we cover theirs. It can be difficult though as not everyone wants to swap shifts.

  • @martacoxreads
    @martacoxreads 4 місяці тому +2

    That’s absolutely bonkers, sorry this is happening to you x

  • @marierobinson3935
    @marierobinson3935 4 місяці тому +1

    gamer vibes isnt it😂 your a good girl i would have said ive booked a holiday abroad😂😂

    • @fayejay
      @fayejay  4 місяці тому

      I would have usually I don’t know why I didn’t 🤣🤣🤣

  • @allthingsabbey
    @allthingsabbey 4 місяці тому +1

    Our workplace does a find your own cover policy but it’s in regards to actual shifts that have already been submitted - say I need the Wednesday off in three weeks I would be required to swap or give my shift away but not for annual leave? If you’ve got your contract have a look into it hun xxx❤️❤️❤️

  • @mariedamon5655
    @mariedamon5655 3 місяці тому

    Bless you how awful for you faye hope they change their mind and honour it for you x

  • @Suzannewatterson
    @Suzannewatterson 4 місяці тому

    Hair looks great thanks and your impression of your hairdresser was hilarious 🍑😂 ❤

  • @VickyBarrow-if8bh
    @VickyBarrow-if8bh 4 місяці тому +8

    They are known for it, used to do it to those out in the community. Piss take tho. Surprised u didn't tell um to stuff it😂😂 remember the broken finger 😂😂

  • @staceylouharrison1087
    @staceylouharrison1087 4 місяці тому

    Gaming vibes! It says x Sending lots of love your way... you should invest in a clothes steamer .. you can steam vertical .. so quick xx

  • @tessaporter2989
    @tessaporter2989 4 місяці тому

    That's absolutely shocking! I'd be getting signed off !

  • @lisah.5559
    @lisah.5559 4 місяці тому +2

    Omg Faye only just a couple mins in, I'm so upset for u. WTAF mate, so unfair. I hope all the meds can go ahead as planned, ah so gutted u haven't just got a rest 😢❤

    • @fayejay
      @fayejay  4 місяці тому

      Hey yeah all going ahead as normal I just wanted time off during the meds incase it makes me feel funny 😅 xxx♥️♥️

  • @lisajones542
    @lisajones542 4 місяці тому

    That's not fair what a joke you are being so kool faye I think you have a sore throat coming and headache what a shame 😂😂❤

    • @fayejay
      @fayejay  4 місяці тому

      🤣🤣 I’m so annoyed I never said I was going abroad 🤣♥️♥️

  • @traceyforth8170
    @traceyforth8170 4 місяці тому +1

    That seems so wrong. They seem useless. Sending love and hugs. ❤ The pjs say gamer vibes. 😊

  • @allthingsabbey
    @allthingsabbey 4 місяці тому +3

    Absolutely disgusted for you hun! If shifts have been covered you should be entitled to your holidays or atleast part of that time off… I’d look into flexible working whilst there and going through IVF hun (I’d say look for another employer but for maternity pay you will want to stick with your currently employer if you’ve been there long enough, please look into what they’ve done though hun! Wish I could do something for you! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @grablifebythehauls
    @grablifebythehauls 4 місяці тому

    Aww Faye ❤️ that's so harsh with your annual leave can someone not sort it out for you... Sounds like they messed up not you... Don't like to see you so annoyed and not yourself... But you still brought it back with the swallow it and hope for best comment 😂... I love Vinted xx

  • @annelisewhite6244
    @annelisewhite6244 4 місяці тому +1

    I've never heard of leave in the UK being like that but it is common in the US to have to organise your own cover.

  • @gaynorprior9864
    @gaynorprior9864 4 місяці тому +3

    Oh big hugs I'm so sorry for you ❤❤

    • @fayejay
      @fayejay  4 місяці тому

      ♥️♥️♥️

  • @mandi2002
    @mandi2002 4 місяці тому

    That top says Gamer Vibes 😁 xx

  • @Clarabella265
    @Clarabella265 4 місяці тому +1

    I got a pair of vans off vinted that were marked as satisfactory and were £1.00 before postage and protection. They are literally brand new definitely hadn't been worn more than a couple of times 😊

    • @fayejay
      @fayejay  4 місяці тому

      Omg what a bloody bargain ♥️♥️♥️

  • @kayweitzel8374
    @kayweitzel8374 4 місяці тому

    What a bunch of ball bags! I don’t blame you for being mad as hell, I would be too! Have a great weekend sweetheart. Rest up. Love ya!! ❤

  • @lunamummy3139
    @lunamummy3139 4 місяці тому

    Hiya was lovely to talk to you on Vinted as well . I really hope you enjoy the bits you’ve bought xx

  • @emmacornford8822
    @emmacornford8822 4 місяці тому

    What a crock of shi*! I’d be straight to head office explaining you’ve done all you should have your end, you were told you had the time granted so they should be taking it up with whichever Manager forgot to ‘manage’ 🤷🏼‍♀️ 👋🏻
    Thank fully we’re all different tho hey! You seem to be managing the situation calmly and respectfully so good for you. I really hope you can sort something out to give yourself some time to manage this important stage xx

    • @emmacornford8822
      @emmacornford8822 4 місяці тому

      How many times have I write ‘manage’ 😂😂😂

  • @lisacaptainino86
    @lisacaptainino86 4 місяці тому +3

    Bless u it says gamer vibes

  • @evebeinguniquebeingme6205
    @evebeinguniquebeingme6205 3 місяці тому

    Aw Faye that sucks leave should be honoured 😞💖

  • @stacystane262
    @stacystane262 4 місяці тому +1

    5:57 gamer vibes😂

  • @emmapilkington2001
    @emmapilkington2001 4 місяці тому

    The pj's what a bargin ,hope you have a lovely weekend xx

    • @fayejay
      @fayejay  4 місяці тому +1

      Thank you x you too ♥️♥️♥️

  • @mspinklady74
    @mspinklady74 4 місяці тому

    Oh hon i would be pissed too thinking you had three lovely weeks off . Gamer Vibes i think it says the pjs .

  • @charlotte8079
    @charlotte8079 4 місяці тому

    Nooo what the hellll! You requested it with plenty of notice, got told it was booked and approved. Thats all you need to know! They havent got a leg to stand on. And absolutely not normal for staff to cover their own hols. Weird. Sounds like they need to be careful. X

  • @holly_may_x
    @holly_may_x 4 місяці тому

    I would be so annoyed with the A/L I get its hard to cover shifts in care and there argument would be it would cost them too much in agency fees... But thats not your problem. Id go back to them and say look here is fhe proof it was all in writing etc. and you've personal reasons for needing the leave. Youre not just going on a holiday.
    P.s. the pj top sames gamer Vibes 😉 xx

    • @holly_may_x
      @holly_may_x 4 місяці тому

      It's not your responsibility to ensure they have filled the rota. You are by law entitled to your annual leave and have to take it by the next tax year. So it's not a case of "sick leave" fair enough ask your mate for a favour and say you'll cover an extra shift of theirs in return. I used to mix days and nights (it was a killer) but I was happy to take the shifts for money. (One shift lasted over 37 hours straight due to the other senior not coming in, policy was if your handover doesn't come in you have to stay) It made me soooo poorly my dad had to physically come and collect me and drive me home as I was a zombie.
      But id question them on this. Fair enough if you know someone trying to pick up extra hours let them know that you're off xyz so they get first pickings. But that sounds proper dodgy. Are you in a union? It just seems really off xx

  • @mariellahinde7696
    @mariellahinde7696 4 місяці тому

    Go to doctor and get signed off !!!! I would be livid - it’s such an important time for you ❤

  • @audreyg64
    @audreyg64 4 місяці тому

    I had to get my own cover as a retail manager but never as staff! That's ridiculous! I'm with alot of the commenters on here hun, take medical leave as your entitled to it! Anywho, great bargains as per Faye, chin up chick ❤

  • @sarahlouisesimm3483
    @sarahlouisesimm3483 4 місяці тому +2

    Hope your ok Faye, sending hugs and love x❤

    • @fayejay
      @fayejay  4 місяці тому

      I am thank you just annoyed I didn’t get the annual leave x have a lovely weekend ♥️♥️♥️

    • @sarahlouisesimm3483
      @sarahlouisesimm3483 4 місяці тому

      I would be Faye and thank you x💕

  • @lorrainehaywood3876
    @lorrainehaywood3876 4 місяці тому

    Hi faye l have clothes that are to big l was thinking of getting the app for vintage but dont know how it works?sending hugs ❤

    • @sassmaster1
      @sassmaster1 4 місяці тому

      Make an account, take pictures of the item including the label, any marks, etc describe it and upload, it's a really simple format so easy to use, customer pays for postage.

  • @madelineclarke7608
    @madelineclarke7608 4 місяці тому

    Hi faye your entitled to your time off you don't need that stress ❤

  • @jray5526
    @jray5526 4 місяці тому

    Huni, sometimes things happen later on. You'll laugh about this, don't let it bring your vibes down, and that's what it said on Tyler pj.

  • @rosemarydent5805
    @rosemarydent5805 4 місяці тому

    I've bought loads from vinted 5 parcels a day lol but like you I also go through spurts on it.

  • @racheldodge6560
    @racheldodge6560 4 місяці тому +1

    Very annoying but on the plus side you still have those 3 weeks holiday to take.. Cross fingers this means you'll have holiday to spare if you get morning sickness :)

  • @elise6677100
    @elise6677100 4 місяці тому

    What a bloody nightmare!!!! X

  • @mumof3325
    @mumof3325 4 місяці тому

    With the treatment you are having you need rest and calm. I would seriously run for the hills you are worth more xxx

  • @mumof3325
    @mumof3325 4 місяці тому

    The care home I worked in never asked me to find my own cover they did put a list up of covers needed but if they couldn’t they called in agency workers they never refused your holidays they were only strict about Christmas

  • @poppyb7118
    @poppyb7118 4 місяці тому

    So sorry Faye I feel your pain pity you can’t afford to walk out on them ❤❤

  • @linseyloorny9889
    @linseyloorny9889 4 місяці тому

    Did they approve it when you put it in? Or have they just ignored it? People are crying out for carers I probably would have handed it in too but easier said than done when it’s money you need xxx

  • @Gaynor-e4b
    @Gaynor-e4b 4 місяці тому +3

    Sending hugs Faye xxx❤

    • @fayejay
      @fayejay  4 місяці тому +1

      ♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @louwilson3439
    @louwilson3439 4 місяці тому

    Hi Faye great clothing haul and the way I see it they should still let you have your holiday IVF is a very emotional draining process and you need to rest and not have any stress I hope you sort out ❤❤❤

  • @Mel-bo4dl
    @Mel-bo4dl 4 місяці тому

    Faye that’s so bad if you have that much notice they should have approved it or if not they should have at least told you way before now!! That’s so so unfair!! I had similar when I worked in care!! I would have said right fuck uou then I need this time off this is my notice and found something else xx❤

  • @linseyloorny9889
    @linseyloorny9889 4 місяці тому

    No if it’s annual leave you don’t sort your cover! X

  • @debbiebarrett3522
    @debbiebarrett3522 4 місяці тому

    Ive been care worker 12 years and never come across that its wrong id go mad xx

  • @leander7486
    @leander7486 4 місяці тому

    Yep agreed get Dr to sign you off !

  • @dawnramejkis609
    @dawnramejkis609 4 місяці тому

    Gamer vibes 😂love Vinted myself iam fuming for you about your holidays iam glad iam not working in care anymore take care and look after yourself ❤

  • @gailhanna3576
    @gailhanna3576 4 місяці тому

    Have worked in this industry for 30 years. Never heard of this. Ridiculous !!!!!!

  • @CarahRehman
    @CarahRehman 4 місяці тому

    Call in sick Faye, as much as you won’t want to they don’t care, just a number for them. I worked for the nhs for 10 years and they didn’t care

  • @Helengeorgeson
    @Helengeorgeson 4 місяці тому

    Feck em get a sick note love you gave 4 wks notice ffs they are taking the piss love ya xxx

  • @jenniferhudson4207
    @jenniferhudson4207 4 місяці тому

    I feel for you Faye but it’s not your fault if they messed up ❤❤

  • @donnaskinner7489
    @donnaskinner7489 4 місяці тому

    I love vintage use it all the time never buy clothes from shops only charity shops

  • @Sparklyjewls
    @Sparklyjewls 4 місяці тому

    I’ve worked for 47 years and I have never come across a policy where you have to find cover for your annual leave 😳. ❤😊xx

  • @LynneUK1
    @LynneUK1 4 місяці тому

    Gamer Vibes 😂

  • @katierhodes3479
    @katierhodes3479 4 місяці тому

    No that’s an absolute joke expecting you to find your own cover. Especially if no one will do it like how you ever meant to have a holiday 😂

  • @gailfoster6188
    @gailfoster6188 4 місяці тому +1

    Your Team Leader should get their act together, so annoying for you. Chin up Faye..life throws these little hand grenades at us

  • @ryanfoxley6756
    @ryanfoxley6756 4 місяці тому

    Smillleee😂😂😂we love you 🥰😘xx

  • @rachel8717
    @rachel8717 4 місяці тому

    Gamer vibes on the tshirt x

  • @RachelOckerby
    @RachelOckerby 4 місяці тому

    i was approved by txt message for my annual leave i gave them just short of 12 weeks notice and on the rota the annual leave was declined so i need to speak to the manager next time im on shift . i know how you feeling x

    • @fayejay
      @fayejay  4 місяці тому

      Ahh it’s shite isn’t it hope you get it sorted xxxx

  • @christylea20
    @christylea20 4 місяці тому

    Hey lovely.
    If youre holiday had been approved id be querying why this has changed - its not your probelm if senior management didnt know if they arent the people you are required to submit your request to and your manager has approved it.
    Additionally, if theyre telling you you need to organise your own cover. Id ask them to direct you to this term in your contract, their handbook or where theyve advised you of this previously. Id personally also ask why youve never had to do this previously.
    Sincerely, someone who works in HR and despises companies shitting on people. They should be wrapping you in love and support whilst youre leading up to your fertility treatment, not making life difficult.
    Sending loads of love ❤️ xx

    • @christylea20
      @christylea20 4 місяці тому

      Also. Id query how you are viably supposed to take annual leave if nobody will cover you - how are you ever going to get adequate rest and prevent burnout. You are LEGALLY entitled to statutory holiday entitlement so they need to give you the opportunity to take it.

    • @fayejay
      @fayejay  4 місяці тому +1

      Hey, this is really helpful thank you. It’s really difficult to get annual leave at my place but they have emailed and apologised for the confusion and I’m now on annual leave thankfully. But there is still a policy in place to cover it yourself so no idea really what they are on about 😅 thank you ♥️

  • @nethersnowell256
    @nethersnowell256 4 місяці тому

    Sounds like my room stuff got dumped just after my surgery when l was out of action now my house is a tip and my kitchen vanished the sides have vanished with things not put away

  • @Suzannewatterson
    @Suzannewatterson 4 місяці тому +1

    That must have been soul destroying to find that out The policy of having to find your own cover doesn’t sound legal You are entitled to have leave
    Get signed off Faye You have a lot going on with the taking of medication You need to put yourself first xx

  • @hannahrichards2526
    @hannahrichards2526 4 місяці тому

    GAMER VIBES LOL

  • @donnaclark5047
    @donnaclark5047 4 місяці тому

    Gamer VIBES xx

  • @Sue-np9fp
    @Sue-np9fp 4 місяці тому

    Faye, it feels very unreasonable that you have carefully planned your A/L, and that it sounds like the system has messed up-THAT'S not your responsibility!
    With you 'baba-plans' too, you need that time and space. I hope it all works out for you-sending lots of love, sue xxx PS All the vinted things were for everyone else-YOU need a treat too! Get back on that site now!

  • @98Brave
    @98Brave 4 місяці тому +1

    Hope you're ok. Just started watching x

    • @fayejay
      @fayejay  4 місяці тому +2

      Yeah all good thank you x just having a moan 😅♥️

    • @98Brave
      @98Brave 4 місяці тому

      You're entitled to it girl. You moan away we're all here to listen. Sending love xx

  • @mrsp2042
    @mrsp2042 4 місяці тому

    Go to gp and get signed off. Or can they not approve some of the holiday now they have messed it up for you it’s the least they could do to be supportive to their employees. Send you hugs and positive vibes xxx

  • @margiemckenna8200
    @margiemckenna8200 4 місяці тому

    Get a note from your gp,this is extremely important time for you,not just holidays,their fault not yours,you need this time off for taking your meds etc,i would be fuming too

  • @kerriewickham9194
    @kerriewickham9194 4 місяці тому

    Get yourself signed off sick, that’ll teach them!!

  • @patriciamay3779
    @patriciamay3779 4 місяці тому

    Keep going Faye. Loads of love.

  • @natalieharrigan8328
    @natalieharrigan8328 4 місяці тому

    I really don’t think it’s down to the staff to find cover so they can have annual leave. It sounds like bad management at your workplace. Also if you submitted annual leave properly and they’ve messed it up, it’s their problem. I would be tempted to phone in sick anyway

  • @kerrywalker4116
    @kerrywalker4116 4 місяці тому

    The pj's say gamer vibes I think

  • @mrssadiec
    @mrssadiec 4 місяці тому

    Oh that’s rotten.sending you lots of love ❤ x

    • @fayejay
      @fayejay  4 місяці тому

      ♥️♥️♥️