Meredith tells her Kids Derek is Dead Scene Grey's Anatomy 13x08

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  • @aavalos7611
    @aavalos7611 8 років тому +13126

    Why am I choosing to relive this?

  • @alexroldan45
    @alexroldan45 7 років тому +8212

    "Then you should go in there and fix him" 💔 the way Mer said "Zola..." after that, i can feel her heart breaking. Ellen deserves an emmy!!

    • @AnriSeanScott
      @AnriSeanScott 6 років тому +18

      Alex Roldan i knoooooooow, im crying

    • @adrianaavila8853
      @adrianaavila8853 4 роки тому +31

      Same!! I love all her breathy gasps and that defeated whisper. It’s so painful.

    • @Baked-Physics
      @Baked-Physics 3 роки тому +1

      😭😭😭

    • @rlynn8249
      @rlynn8249 3 роки тому

      @Yepajw bruh you’re missing the point shut up 😂

    • @itsbecky1287
      @itsbecky1287 3 роки тому

      I knowwww 😭😭🥺🥺

  • @janelleperez9466
    @janelleperez9466 8 років тому +4247

    so sad zolas face when merdith told her the news was so sad

    • @stacie7766
      @stacie7766 7 років тому +53

      Sartorius Riggs
      Yes... Great acting for a child that young.

    • @stacie7766
      @stacie7766 7 років тому +6

      DEFINITELY!!!!

    • @daniellecollins6199
      @daniellecollins6199 5 років тому +5

      So sad and so well acted. Just llike going through my own father's death.

    • @DMomsFan1
      @DMomsFan1 3 роки тому +2

      Shes an amazing actress omgg

  • @kt0028
    @kt0028 6 років тому +11362

    This was more sad than Derek's actual death.

    • @bellab3352
      @bellab3352 6 років тому +66

      loser kaitt AGREED IM
      CRYING MY EYES OUT

    • @amberkaleda7305
      @amberkaleda7305 5 років тому +27

      Kait The Great WAIT HE IS DEAD IN REAL LIFE🤯🤯🤯🤯

    • @vrqay8025
      @vrqay8025 5 років тому +45

      Amber D no she means this scene

    • @youarebeautiful7434
      @youarebeautiful7434 5 років тому +15

      i disagree

    • @lily_hugs
      @lily_hugs 4 роки тому +5

      @@amberkaleda7305 No

  • @maliatatehill894
    @maliatatehill894 7 років тому +2605

    girl: "Is he hurt?"
    me: " Not anymore sweetie."

    • @linglingsviolin3454
      @linglingsviolin3454 4 роки тому +30

      i hate you for this😭😂

    • @luna6731
      @luna6731 4 роки тому +11

      Okay, demon 💔😂😂😂

    • @getbruhd6087
      @getbruhd6087 3 роки тому +1

      Why are y’all hating on her, She’s saying he’s not hurting anymore because he’s in heaven

    • @5minutes999
      @5minutes999 3 роки тому +1

      @@getbruhd6087 I think it's a quote from a different death scene, so now they're reminded of that one too lol

  • @alamoja
    @alamoja 7 років тому +6128

    It's 2017 and I'm still pissed off about his death. 😡

    • @queeniemarigold
      @queeniemarigold 7 років тому +11

      alamoja me too😡😭

    • @poolygaray
      @poolygaray 7 років тому +35

      alamoja fuck Patrick dempsey, he wanted to get out of the serie... You basically start de serie just to get to the point when they are finally and totally happy, but certainly, it never comes.....

    • @sydneyredgem6953
      @sydneyredgem6953 7 років тому +10

      alamoja Im extremely pissed off as well BECAUSE THEY NEED TO START GREYS ANATOMY AGAIN ON Netflix I'm really starting to miss all watching new episodes and they need to put some more episodes on Netflix so I can watch Netflix and chill and I'm really upset about Derek's death shouldn't have happened I really wish you didn't PS sorry This comment is so long.

    • @alexandriacanaan8165
      @alexandriacanaan8165 6 років тому +37

      alamoja I will forever be pissed, I’m still pissed about Denny, Lexie, and Mark I hate this show so much but I love it, I hate Shonda HATE HER

    • @winterbonnie_8
      @winterbonnie_8 6 років тому +21

      2018 and I'm pissed off about all the characters killed off

  • @ellat8385
    @ellat8385 7 років тому +3932

    Show of hands if you cried🖐🏼🖐🏼🖐🏼🖐🏼

    • @caitlinniheara383
      @caitlinniheara383 6 років тому +5

      Ella 🖐🏻🖐🏻🖐🏻

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      @xxmysterii7626 6 років тому +4

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    • @aniyyadent2949
      @aniyyadent2949 6 років тому +2

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    • @madison5906
      @madison5906 6 років тому +3

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      @reaganipock2517 6 років тому +1

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  • @giangho4549
    @giangho4549 7 років тому +5224

    As a surgeon, Mer knew she had to break the bad news in the most direct way possible, so that the patient's families do not have the false impression that there is still hope. She didn't say "Daddy is in heaven" or sth like that. She said it very clear "Daddy died". The pain in Mer's eyes when she said those words was unimaginable, but the kids needed to know the truth.

    • @kaylamercer9791
      @kaylamercer9791 5 років тому +11

      Giang Hồ so you say no heaven you say no hell where will you go are you saying there is no where to go so I will NEVER see my dog or Dad again

    • @maybeaneagle6798
      @maybeaneagle6798 4 роки тому +31

      @@kaylamercer9791 There is heaven and you'll see them again.

    • @kayleebenoit9765
      @kayleebenoit9765 4 роки тому +3

      +Giang Hồ everyone is saying how this is heaven and such but I want to become a surgeon and I 100% agree with what u said

    • @cheaman4625
      @cheaman4625 4 роки тому +15

      Kayla Mercer it’s what you believe. Believing in heaven is perfectly okay. I believe that after you die, there is nothing. you will have no consciousness. As much as I hate it and don’t want it to be true, I also think it’s the natural order of things. that’s why we should enjoy life while we’re still living it.

    • @user-si2wi4sk2u
      @user-si2wi4sk2u 4 роки тому +10

      Nah these are not only kids but they are her own kids, she could have been a little less harsh

  • @izievalo6319
    @izievalo6319 8 років тому +8922

    give ellen an emmy already
    Edit: so happy for the number of likes in this comment..so glad that we all acknowledge a great performance. Love to ya all 🙏

    • @queen.b7751
      @queen.b7751 7 років тому +184

      Izie Valo YES Ellen Pompeo deserves every award because she's just amazing ❤

    • @victorclier8095
      @victorclier8095 6 років тому +86

      I agree. Her acting is almost perfect. I just don't understand why Meredith was basically only looking at Zola while her other (younger) child just stood there looking sad. Meredith seemed to care about Zola's reaction only. That took me out of the scene completely, despite how great the acting was.

    • @niyatiarun
      @niyatiarun 6 років тому +88

      Victor Clier that's cause her son is too young to understand

    • @izievalo6319
      @izievalo6319 6 років тому +77

      Victor Clier bailey is too young and poor zola who adored her daddy had questions... :(

    • @grung3princ3ss_46
      @grung3princ3ss_46 6 років тому +20

      Izie Valo yea she deserves one more than Katherine Heigl did

  • @Lilyrn_
    @Lilyrn_ 7 років тому +2988

    I do not understand why Ellen still has not won the Emmy. She is brilliant 👏

  • @maxgibson4674
    @maxgibson4674 8 років тому +1491

    I can't see the comments because my eyes are so full of tears!

  • @cutekeona1
    @cutekeona1 4 роки тому +592

    Zola has it rough so many of her “uncles” and “aunts” have died or gotten sick or just picked up and left . At this point she’s going to have attachment issues. I HOPE years later they make her life story 🙏

    • @BellesView
      @BellesView 4 роки тому +34

      Right?! I’m rooting for that little girl all day.

    • @juliamiller5120
      @juliamiller5120 3 роки тому +36

      They show that she’s wise beyond her years. There was one scene that I love where Zola asks Meredith “Why don’t you want to date?” and Meredith says “Because I’ve already had one great love in my life. And I don’t want to be greedy.” And Zola responds “I don’t think it’s like eating candy. I don’t think you can fill up on it, or have too much of it.”

  • @caprisestalling105
    @caprisestalling105 8 років тому +6343

    I'm in tears and I'm only on season 4 😂

    • @tombblood3575
      @tombblood3575 7 років тому +60

      Caprise Stalling I'm on season 12

    • @isabellekay5057
      @isabellekay5057 7 років тому +159

      am i the only who noticed that Bailey(her son) was a baby the episode that Derek died but in this flash back he is much older?

    • @ramyaathreya8328
      @ramyaathreya8328 7 років тому +33

      I just finished season 8 and I'm gonna stop

    • @isabellekay5057
      @isabellekay5057 7 років тому +23

      Spiler alert- When he Derek died he was then she went of to9 months to give birth to elis

    • @isabellekay5057
      @isabellekay5057 7 років тому +8

      Sarah Hall sure he was, go back to the original episode and you can see him in his stroller, dont forget the next episode was 9 months after the death

  • @AsToldByAutumn
    @AsToldByAutumn 5 років тому +882

    I will never in my life forgive Shonda for the death of Derek Damn Shepherd.

    • @Netalula0707
      @Netalula0707 5 років тому +45

      Apparently workingg with Dempsey was hell, and he was a horrible person on set. People say he is a total diva and extremely entitled. Same with why Burke's actor left - he was extremely rude, was super homophobic, and outed Geroge's actor as gay (reason why he left, after being fed up with Burke's actor's behavior). Katherine Heigl left apparently because she was also extremely difficult to work with, in addition to the fact that she became super busy during those years due to multiple movie roles. Don't remember why Sandra Oh left, though.

    • @lializ7494
      @lializ7494 4 роки тому +35

      @@Netalula0707 I think it was actually the other way round. The thing with burkes actor is true but the others left because they didn't get along with the director because she was super difficult to work with. At least that's what I've heard.

    • @Netalula0707
      @Netalula0707 4 роки тому +1

      @@lializ7494 you could be right but i know I'm not wrong.

    • @mckennacrawford1041
      @mckennacrawford1041 4 роки тому +2

      Neta Li Bar-Sadeh she left cuz she wanted to let yang go

    • @rina.1799
      @rina.1799 4 роки тому +27

      Autumn Nicaleh Patrick wanted to leave.
      It was the only way he could leave without a break up between derek and Meredith. I like this way more then a break up between them.
      I watched yesterday these episodes of his dead and it’s soo horrible

  • @amayahelen610
    @amayahelen610 7 років тому +1851

    *Meredith- No one can fix him Zola daddy died*
    Me- *crying me eyes out*
    My brother- ARE YOU REALLY CRYING BECAUSE OF A SHOW
    Me- YES YOU TRY WATCHING AN ATTACHING SHOW WHERE EVERYONE DIES

    • @stacie7766
      @stacie7766 7 років тому +44

      Amaya Helen
      My fiancee said the same thing the other day. I was watching the episodes after the plane crash.
      When Lexie, and Mark died.
      My fiancee: Are you seriously crying over a TV show???
      Me:. When you watch these shows for so long you grow attached to the characters asshole. ( While crying)

    • @MrFredoMty
      @MrFredoMty 7 років тому +4

      Stop watching it. Stop cry!!! Shut up and enjoy it dude or girl... who cares!!!

    • @tommy25185
      @tommy25185 7 років тому +5

      Amaya Helen I burst into tears when the plane crash happened

    • @raymesummers2021
      @raymesummers2021 4 роки тому +2

      Do you mean crying my eyes out instead of crying me eyes out?

    • @thanishatharik4323
      @thanishatharik4323 4 роки тому +4

      I remember my mum introduced me to the show so she watched the scene b4 me and I remember calling her up cause I was gonna ask something and she’s crying me clueless and worried am like are you ok? What happened? And she crying her eyes out and is like Derek died (p.s she loves Derek) and standing there like ??? I now understand

  • @tanishachander
    @tanishachander 4 роки тому +231

    The pain and anger in Meredith’s voice is heartbreaking, she lost the person who she loved most in this world. What’s worse is that she had to tell her children that no one could save Derek and that he’s dead. Meredith was so broken that everything she ever fought for and loved had just been taken away from her, the light in her eyes has disappeared and the smile that she had is no longer there. She will never get that back because the person who made her feel that way is gone forever. They deserved a better ending. I don’t know why I chose to relive this moment. 😭😢

    • @hello-vx6kw
      @hello-vx6kw 3 роки тому +4

      we know it's hurt her when she acted like that, even when everyone died she still can say the word they died without hestitating in this one she paused so many times to say it and that's when we knew how much his death affected her 💔

  • @theartistdrunkonart
    @theartistdrunkonart 6 років тому +509

    "Daddy died." Man, that got got to me. That really sucks!

  • @JordyJordyMan
    @JordyJordyMan 8 років тому +837

    Wow, I've never watch Grey's Anatomy, but it's sending chill through my spine.

    • @JordyJordyMan
      @JordyJordyMan 8 років тому +9

      Yeah I think I'm gonna start soon

    • @kimberleymorris8052
      @kimberleymorris8052 7 років тому +4

      Jay I'm rewatching it now although I have to buy seasons 10,11 and 12

    • @jordanfreeman1306
      @jordanfreeman1306 7 років тому +7

      If you do please prepare to cry it's ally of sad scenes :'(

    • @cabbie9727
      @cabbie9727 7 років тому +2

      Kim Morris 10,11,& 12 r on Netflix

    • @doglicks1934
      @doglicks1934 7 років тому +1

      Josephine Hanes-Dean a TV show shouldn't be deciding your career

  • @hh0neyy
    @hh0neyy 5 років тому +597

    Zola: Where's daddy? Is he here?
    Mer: Remember daddy, he was driving in his car.
    Zola: Yeah! Is he coming home soon?
    Mer: No, he was in an accident.
    Zola: Oh... Well, is he hurt?
    Mer: He was.
    Zola: Are the doctors fixing him? Is he going to surgery?
    Mer: No, they can't fix him.
    Zola: Then you should go in there and fix him.
    Mer: Zola..
    Zola: You fix everyone!
    Mer: Zola, I can't fix him.
    Zola: Why??
    Mer: I can't fix him, because- because no one can fix him. Because he's dead, Zola. Daddy died.
    I'm just going to my bedroom corner and cry.

  • @eirabautista9882
    @eirabautista9882 6 років тому +157

    I remembered the first time derek carried zola. It was precious. I feel sad for zola and im sobbing 😭

    • @marlindaabad1620
      @marlindaabad1620 Рік тому

      Zola is a Daddy's girl. It was Derek who saw her first and that day he immediately decided that they would adopt her. He could not let go of her when the social worker gave them a minute to say goodbye, when Zola was taken away from them (temporarily). He's been kissing her and hugged her so tight.

  • @morgyn_m
    @morgyn_m 7 років тому +104

    “You try and fix him! You can fix everyone!!!” That got me 😭😭😭😭 I also love how Zola hugs Meredith first

  • @JordansLife
    @JordansLife 6 років тому +118

    The moment Grey’s Anatomy changed forever...

    • @vijiviji5977
      @vijiviji5977 5 років тому +3

      Exactly .....already changes occur...this one was totally confirmed...😢

    • @enzomartinez8083
      @enzomartinez8083 3 роки тому +3

      It changed when George died..

    • @jacobplays6917
      @jacobplays6917 3 роки тому +1

      No that was when George died

    • @j-id2zt
      @j-id2zt 10 місяців тому

      Should've ended when Derek died

    • @j-id2zt
      @j-id2zt 10 місяців тому

      Or when the plane crash happened

  • @brynburbank2670
    @brynburbank2670 8 років тому +1007

    NO I'm on my period, I'm on the bathroom floor sobbing! Frickin emotional over here.

  • @marykate2225
    @marykate2225 7 років тому +432

    Who put this bowl of onions here?

  • @marigoldgreen5006
    @marigoldgreen5006 4 роки тому +51

    I personally loved how simple and drama-free this episode was. I don’t understand how people felt this was boring. It was a nice break from everything going on with the 500 other characters and took this show back it’s roots.

  • @aarickaandrews6290
    @aarickaandrews6290 3 роки тому +34

    As someone who lost her dad when she was around Zola’s age, my heart broke for her.
    “Daddy died”💔😭

  • @Lunarayz.photos
    @Lunarayz.photos 8 років тому +328

    I have never seen an episode of the show but wow this killed me

    • @MostlyAnimatedSketches
      @MostlyAnimatedSketches 6 років тому +2

      Nicki S ugh same

    • @danad3838
      @danad3838 6 років тому +2

      SAMEEE

    • @TheCarolyncmstewart
      @TheCarolyncmstewart 6 років тому +1

      U need to start

    • @JJuliaSmile
      @JJuliaSmile 6 років тому +6

      Now imagine having watched every damn episode💔😭😭😭

    • @gracel1814
      @gracel1814 4 роки тому +2

      It's even worse when you know the character...he was the best. You should watch it but I reccomend stopping after season 10

  • @mid2584
    @mid2584 7 років тому +163

    Daddy didn't have to die

    • @loveinspired7
      @loveinspired7 6 років тому +30

      Claire Fairbanks There was no other way to explain Derek's absence from the show...he never would've simply left or abandon his wife and children. When Patrick Dempsey decided to leave the show, they HAD to kill off his character. No other explanation would've made sense.

    • @leonahudgins1899
      @leonahudgins1899 6 років тому +3

      loveinspired7 SPOILER IF HAVENT SEEN SEASON 14 he could've left like April left could've just decide to do something elsr

    • @goodkatze1567
      @goodkatze1567 5 років тому +4

      Well logically for the actor yes he had to die... but considering he was looking for his ringing phone in the middle of the road, in a curve, it was definitely Derek's fault he got hit.

    • @gracel1814
      @gracel1814 4 роки тому +3

      IF HE HAD GOTTEN A HEAD CT

  • @kaylapuppyss
    @kaylapuppyss 5 років тому +72

    I cried during this scene, Meredith is trying to hold her shit together for her babies when all she wants to do is break down..... She lost so many people that it’s just devastating

  • @May-pr3th
    @May-pr3th 7 років тому +75

    "Daddy died"
    I CAN'T STOP MY TEARS

  • @edmary21
    @edmary21 2 роки тому +19

    As a doctor, it is particularly painful for me when Zola says: "you fix everyone" because it is true, we have been able to fix so many people and sometimes we cannot fix the people we love the most and we must let them go. This scene is the real life of a doctor.

  • @jultinki6805
    @jultinki6805 5 років тому +7

    i can’t even see Merediths face anymore bc always when i loook at her i have to cry she had to go through so much she don’t deserve that like let her be happy and don’t break her again writers

  • @fafaescalante2057
    @fafaescalante2057 8 років тому +40

    I cant get over this scene 😭 gets me everytime

  • @katjoy9260
    @katjoy9260 8 років тому +241

    I feel bad for zo zo

  • @tiffanypark9029
    @tiffanypark9029 7 років тому +41

    THE WAY SHE SAYS 'ZOLA' AT 1:11 IS SO HEARTBREAKING

  • @mickalfaromangahis4255
    @mickalfaromangahis4255 3 роки тому +25

    Zola: “you should go in there and fix him!”
    Meredith: “Zola...”
    Zola: “you fix everyone!”
    The gravity of that exchange...

  • @amayahelen610
    @amayahelen610 7 років тому +133

    Wtf would I put myself through this pain again at one in the morning😭😭

  • @ariel_decker
    @ariel_decker Місяць тому +2

    When Zola says “is he coming home soon” I died 😭😭

  • @katiepengelly3432
    @katiepengelly3432 4 роки тому +17

    2020 and I’m still heartbroken this happened

  • @amberkaleda7305
    @amberkaleda7305 5 років тому +5

    I feel like it’s so amazing that her kids comfort her before they even get emotional

  • @juliana.gallegos
    @juliana.gallegos 4 роки тому +9

    It’s been years and I will never stop sobbing over this scene. This scene broke my heart. No parent should ever have to tell their kids that they father has died.

    • @jasminebritting4310
      @jasminebritting4310 3 роки тому

      Do you know why they cut this scene from the show?? It wasn’t there when I watched it on Netflix

    • @Alexxxxxxxxxx3577
      @Alexxxxxxxxxx3577 Рік тому

      @@jasminebritting4310they didn’t cut it. This specific scene happened in a later episode when the doctors are remembering personal losses while performing surgery. It didn’t happen in the episode where Derek died

  • @user-zr6oq2zy6z
    @user-zr6oq2zy6z 4 роки тому +69

    "i'm just a girl in a bar"

  • @jonina9283
    @jonina9283 4 роки тому +30

    A lot of people said Meredith showed more emotions when Derek died in her dream, But that’s not the case. When Derek actually died, for real. Meredith was in SO much pain, it was like she went numb right then and there. The agony was a lot. We didn’t physically see Meredith, but when she left Seattle you knew she was torn apart from the inside out. But she had to be strong for her babies, and I bet when Ellis came into the mix, it gave her a little sense of peace. As the show continues we see more and more into what she had and is going through all the time. Meredith is one of my favorites, her character development is truly amazing!🥺❤️

    • @marlindaabad1620
      @marlindaabad1620 Рік тому +1

      After giving birth to Ellis, the first thing Meredith said "she saw Derek in her. She's beautiful."

    • @DelishaPowell
      @DelishaPowell Рік тому +1

      She literally passed out when she told everyone at the hospital

  • @Redmerlegirl
    @Redmerlegirl 4 роки тому +9

    the fact that this scene still makes me sob every time is proof that ellen's an incredibly talented actress. you can hear the heartbreak in her voice, it's almost as if she's lost the love of her life in real life as well. most actresses would not be able to fake that emotion so well, it's truly impressive

  • @baka9684
    @baka9684 6 років тому +48

    “then you should go in there and fix him. you fix everyone.” my heart is GONE. dEAD.

  • @christielozada9352
    @christielozada9352 8 років тому +171

    Im done this show is nothing to me anymore with without Geroge or Izzy or Christina and Mark, Derek, Lexie, see that its evrey one no one is left

    • @jaquiemaclean9581
      @jaquiemaclean9581 5 років тому +4

      those were the best caracters

    • @jazzlenee
      @jazzlenee 4 роки тому +1

      Christie Lozada only ugly deluca smh

    • @mckennacrawford1041
      @mckennacrawford1041 4 роки тому

      Yea they had to go they wanted to go and the thing is I think it’s sad to see them go but as well but then new people come in with new story lines and we love them I am a die hard and if you think greys anatomy got bad your not a true fan

    • @comizzy
      @comizzy 4 роки тому

      And ALEX LEFT TO NOW UGH

  • @simply.shanny3012
    @simply.shanny3012 4 роки тому +3

    2020 and I am still not over Dereks death. It was so nice to see him in a few episodes of season 17 but....this show will never be the same.

  • @taniaaaa.y
    @taniaaaa.y 8 років тому +24

    this made me cry

  • @morganmason5356
    @morganmason5356 3 роки тому +65

    No young child should ever have to hear the words “Daddy died”...they don’t belong together...they’re so sad. Honestly this scene was sadder than Derrick’s actual death to me ...I’m going to go hug my dad. And curse shonda rhymes for making this show so sad and tragic! Bravo to the actors! This scene was so well done!

  • @alexisbailey8359
    @alexisbailey8359 6 років тому +6

    I love the music to this. So haunting.

  • @meredithkelly9575
    @meredithkelly9575 5 років тому +23

    I’m on season 2, but I don’t care. I sobbed. Derek is perfect.

  • @justasockonhere
    @justasockonhere 9 місяців тому +2

    These are the moments where you can see the writing that made Grey's Anatomy such a powerful show

  • @luanameira5795
    @luanameira5795 6 років тому +12

    I lost my dad when I was a kid and I remember how my mom told me... this scene was so real

  • @carlyshay514
    @carlyshay514 7 років тому +45

    I AM LITERALLY BAWLING. NOT CRYING, BAWLING

  • @Torib.24_
    @Torib.24_ 4 роки тому +5

    This is the most underrated sad scene in greys ever

  • @katiel3968
    @katiel3968 5 років тому +22

    Pretty sure I cried at his death more than Meredith and Amelia throughout the whole show ;((

  • @Eguzzisme
    @Eguzzisme 5 років тому +6

    That little girl was so convincing. It broke my heart. I’ll never forget when my husband collapsed, and they tried to revive him. Right in our bedroom. Our two kids witnessed the whole thing. It was the worst day of my life.

  • @madisonlounds7652
    @madisonlounds7652 7 років тому +142

    Why did I do this to myself

    • @MadiIgnacia
      @MadiIgnacia 7 років тому

      TikiTopaz same here

    • @chithewoodfairy
      @chithewoodfairy 4 роки тому

      same, I didn‘t handle it well the first time I saw this, and I still didn‘t recover from this

  • @traviieza94
    @traviieza94 3 роки тому +4

    When she hugged them, I remembered when derek said he wanted a baby bc if anything were to happen to him he didn't want mer to be alone 😭

  • @nebulaofemily
    @nebulaofemily 7 років тому +41

    I'm only on season 9 and omg his scrub cap on her head 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @queenkittenloverortiz8063
    @queenkittenloverortiz8063 5 років тому +4

    1:58 when Meredith started shaking it broke my heart even more

  • @Charlotte_slays-e9m
    @Charlotte_slays-e9m Місяць тому +1

    I remember watching this for the first time .. still can’t stop bawling my eyes out

  • @bigtime7724
    @bigtime7724 8 років тому +30

    This is so sad am hurting right how I have no clue why I'm watching this. I just lost my cousin and her friend in a car accident this year January 2 2016 she was my bestfriend I use to hate when I would you for walks with my grand dad and she use to come now I just want her back i need her she was my angle I love her she use to allways have a smile on her face I just want her back this is our first chrismas without her

    • @xplayerheartx9343
      @xplayerheartx9343 6 років тому +1

      I’m sorry for your lost! Stay strong! ♥️

  • @m0sthated80
    @m0sthated80 6 років тому +3

    You can feel their pain through the screen . Good acting

  • @reingrace9040
    @reingrace9040 3 роки тому +7

    ellen's acting here is just so phenomenal to the point that it feels real for everyone watching

    • @Winchester1589
      @Winchester1589 Рік тому +1

      It was that way when I watched Derek’s death scene. I never stop thinking about it after I saw it. It felt personal. It felt real. That kinda acting deserve more recognition

  • @brynnhill8342
    @brynnhill8342 6 років тому +11

    R.I.P. Derek Christopher Shepherd. 💔

  • @ruanmelina
    @ruanmelina 3 роки тому +6

    When you decide to finally watch grey's anatomy and youtube shows you this scene. Well damn

    • @jasminebritting4310
      @jasminebritting4310 3 роки тому +1

      You have to watch it. It’s so good. I knew he was going to die throughout the whole show and I still cried my eyes out lol

  • @BooksInTheVoid
    @BooksInTheVoid 2 роки тому +11

    The look in Zola's eyes seeing her mom about to cry, and comforting her first. What a great scene.

  • @cashthedash8104
    @cashthedash8104 5 років тому +5

    Dude, when Meredith said “ Daddy died” that hurt

  • @mermaidgirl0075
    @mermaidgirl0075 5 років тому +2

    When your being told someone died even if it’s not someone you know it HURTS it is the WORST PAIN EVER and this This brings back memorys

  • @halleschart4495
    @halleschart4495 7 років тому +12

    i'm not crying you are😭

  • @Elley.CDA26
    @Elley.CDA26 6 місяців тому +1

    Meredith is not an emotional person, but when she does she show emotion, you know that it’s bad

  • @samriddhivikrant6238
    @samriddhivikrant6238 4 роки тому +8

    It's 2020 and I am still sad about his death

  • @ronnyraves
    @ronnyraves 6 років тому +1

    How this show has grown. From season one to now. It has been such an emotional roller coaster

  • @jinxesncurses
    @jinxesncurses 3 роки тому +2

    I don’t know why I am watching this again. I had almost forgotten how how heartbroken I was.

  • @lorabeehler9392
    @lorabeehler9392 7 років тому +6

    it made me cry he was my favorite

  • @Proj3ctX1
    @Proj3ctX1 Рік тому +1

    Derek dying was the first and only time where I legit felt numb from a fictional characters death.

  • @madelinegarber7860
    @madelinegarber7860 3 роки тому +3

    Omg this hurts! I’m all emotional now. And Zola just hugging her broke my heart. I felt like she was saying that Derik was dead was to drive it home for herself as well as her kids.

  • @amberlee.nycole.perrine8150
    @amberlee.nycole.perrine8150 2 роки тому +2

    This scene broke me. I can't imagine telling my children someone they loved is dead. My son LOVES his great grandmother, she is almost in her 70's, i can already tell that we would both be crying and I would be broken trying to tell him.

  • @ffestivelizzie
    @ffestivelizzie 4 роки тому +5

    Zola’s heartbroken face just gifted me so badly. Is it wrong that I want to sob with them? I know how hard it is to loose someone, so I just want to be there with them, hugging them tightly. But the only difference is I didn’t get to say goodbye or even attend their funeral. I think that’s why the Grey’s Anatomy deaths hurt even more than other people... 😭💔

  • @christina2763
    @christina2763 5 місяців тому +1

    I’ve never gotten to this part but Zola’s innocent voice asking if her dad was coming back not knowing wjay happened makes it even more heartbreaking. 💔

  • @TERREN65
    @TERREN65 8 років тому +35

    My Heart. 💔

  • @addisonrutter5004
    @addisonrutter5004 6 років тому +1

    why do i keep watching this again? It makes me sob every single time

  • @leticiamcviana
    @leticiamcviana 5 років тому +4

    tbh i didn’t even cry when he died but i cried my eyes out in this scene

  • @chloebreagan5193
    @chloebreagan5193 6 років тому +2

    mark’s death and when she said “daddy died” really got to me

  • @kiwocolate5103
    @kiwocolate5103 4 роки тому +3

    i always think i can manage to watch it without crying until zola says "you fix everyone!"

  • @weepingwillows21
    @weepingwillows21 5 років тому +1

    Oh. poor Meredith. Despite how hard she tries, this is a wound that may never heal fully. I feel so bad for the kids too.

  • @c00mgoblin
    @c00mgoblin 4 роки тому +3

    At 1:26 when Meredith literally chokes up because she can’t bring herself to say Derek is dead for a second really got me.

  • @RishiHeda-t1c
    @RishiHeda-t1c 11 місяців тому +2

    While this scene is emotional, I can't help but realize, they didn't wanna spend much on young Bailey cause speaking characters need to be paid more. So he's just standing there.
    This makes me chuckle even in this emotional scene

  • @makayla1933
    @makayla1933 5 років тому +3

    I cry every time I watch this scene, this is why I just re-watch all the episodes before season 11 and if I watch past season 11 it’s boring. So yeah.

  • @robloxmania85
    @robloxmania85 4 роки тому +1

    the struggle for her to say the words is what made my heart hurt even more

  • @hayden2336
    @hayden2336 5 років тому +4

    This one of the saddest moments in Grey’s Anatomy. 😭

  • @snackysneaks
    @snackysneaks 7 років тому +7

    this absolutely broke me

  • @lexusjova7203
    @lexusjova7203 6 років тому +1

    this entire episode broke my heart into 1000000000 pieces

  • @lololol4357
    @lololol4357 4 роки тому +3

    She is so strong❤️🥺

  • @liliyafayek9330
    @liliyafayek9330 4 роки тому +2

    I hate how I have already watched this in the actual show but I still cry everyone I watch it again I just keep imagining what kind of life they could have had if Derek survived and got to meet his daughter Eliss.

  • @caipijana2216
    @caipijana2216 6 років тому +4

    This scene broke my heart😭

  • @user-vdjxbwkskbc
    @user-vdjxbwkskbc 4 роки тому +1

    I’ve never really watched greys anatomy I’ve just watched clips but I’m literally sat here balling my eyes out to this scene

  • @lauraavasquezz
    @lauraavasquezz 7 років тому +5

    I've seen this episode so many times but man this always fucks me up

    • @rillomami2123
      @rillomami2123 7 років тому

      Laura Vasquez which episode is this

  • @babyyyvero
    @babyyyvero 3 роки тому +2

    “Daddy died” i held myself together till i heard that 💔