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  • @dreambuilder5972
    @dreambuilder5972 3 роки тому +436

    My daughter had cervical cancer and was unable to have babies. But...they adopted 3 absolutely wonderful children! I have never thought of them as adopted...they are my grandchildren 🤗♥️🤗

  • @friedashikongo1343
    @friedashikongo1343 3 роки тому +470

    I am a 59yrs old lady,in Namibia, Africa.
    I came across the two of you while I was searching for something on my UA-cam.
    Being a nurse for over 30 years now, brought many young people back to life through ICU intervention, I am so excited to see how Cole continues his life as usual,and to Charisma, I don't have words.
    May God of heaven who created everything seen and unseen without any reference show you mercy, and grant you you your heart desire.
    May He multiply the fruits of your womb Charisma, and strengthen your your seed Cole in Jesus name

    • @nyamburakibati9079
      @nyamburakibati9079 3 роки тому +6

      Ameen

    • @bedtimestoriesforboysandme4600
      @bedtimestoriesforboysandme4600 3 роки тому

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    • @jenmarott3188
      @jenmarott3188 3 роки тому +4

      Amen 🙏

    • @franciscaamaka6749
      @franciscaamaka6749 3 роки тому +4

      Amen

    • @d.c.721
      @d.c.721 3 роки тому +4

      Amen🙏❤️

  • @kiaratheboss
    @kiaratheboss 3 роки тому +613

    Who else wants nothing but good things for them?💋💕💕💕

  • @Thtisha22234
    @Thtisha22234 3 роки тому +249

    Aww, the way your wife admires you by the way she stares at you while talking, is beautiful.

    • @bedtimestoriesforboysandme4600
      @bedtimestoriesforboysandme4600 3 роки тому

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    • @karenbailey9717
      @karenbailey9717 3 роки тому +9

      So right! Those two were seriously made for each other!

    • @misskitty976
      @misskitty976 3 роки тому +2

      @@karenbailey9717 For sure

    • @mallymakhooane3346
      @mallymakhooane3346 3 роки тому +2

      I love it roo it's so sweet.

    • @SnowWhite-ev5jl
      @SnowWhite-ev5jl 3 роки тому +3

      @Kaptivapting K lt is both ways, because they love each other He stares at her with deep admiration, and she tares at him with deep love.

  • @taheeshab.4208
    @taheeshab.4208 3 роки тому +1256

    During this process try your best to stay stress free. You aren't obligated to tell us everything during this new part of your life.💜

    • @jslack8973
      @jslack8973 3 роки тому +104

      Best Comment Ever‼️

    • @3beaglemom372
      @3beaglemom372 3 роки тому +63

      I agree, great comment, so caring!

    • @suzettesaintal9711
      @suzettesaintal9711 3 роки тому +39

      Sweet of you

    • @fromlissawithlove
      @fromlissawithlove 3 роки тому +62

      I love this! 🙌🏾 Couples at any age need to keep people out of their creation plans however they look. They only need energy to manifest their blessings from each other.

    • @Fit_Ministry
      @Fit_Ministry 3 роки тому +31

      AGREEEEE !!!!

  • @vanessarichard726
    @vanessarichard726 3 роки тому +186

    You can do it guys! My husband is C5C6. Two years ago, We had our first and successful IVF. We had surgeries, egg and Sperm extractions. My husband has been in a wheelchair for 35 years and never had a child, so this is our first child coming this April 2021. My husband is 57 and I'm 34, we have been married for 13 years and looking forward to more years (forever) with him. IVF Florida helped us in our journey. I know you guys can do it too! Before our plan B is to adopt a baby if our IVF didn't work out, but thank God for our first try at IVF FLORIDA was successful. A lot of people we know said we couldn't have a child because of my husband’s situation but we are extremely positive that we will have a child no matter what happens. We are going to have a child of our flesh, we're excited! And I know you guys will have a baby too. You will be great parents. Trust and pray to the Lord. Good luck guys!😘❤️

    • @lyssbeth
      @lyssbeth 3 роки тому +4

      Congratulations to you guys! ❤️

    • @efranklin755
      @efranklin755 3 роки тому +3

      Awww congrats

    • @Danijean85
      @Danijean85 3 роки тому +2

      Congratulations!

    • @rachellep2581
      @rachellep2581 3 роки тому +1

      Congrats 😀

    • @barbaraferguson9063
      @barbaraferguson9063 3 роки тому +2

      Listen You Guys, youj two will have no problems, because there no situation too hard for God who is Almighty in all things. He put you all together, so I believe A baby will be no problem, and I can't wait for the news, God is incharge of your Lives.

  • @franciscaamaka6749
    @franciscaamaka6749 3 роки тому +104

    I love how Charisma looks at Cole. She is so much in love with him. I love the love that exist between the two. God bless you Charisma for this unadulterated love.

    • @gracielee1160
      @gracielee1160 3 роки тому +1

      Love uou guys may you be bless with a loveky baby soon maybe twins God bless love you guys it will hspoen soon gods will

    • @lesliespikes638
      @lesliespikes638 3 роки тому +1

      Let nature takes its course

    • @lesliespikes638
      @lesliespikes638 3 роки тому +1

      Keep that part of your business to yourself and your family. We love you. It just happens. I agree with yall. I am a mother. No STRESS!!!!

    • @lesliespikes638
      @lesliespikes638 3 роки тому +2

      You guys are not to young. That's right, keep it to your self. I will pray for yall.

    • @Usapatriette
      @Usapatriette 3 роки тому +1

      @@lesliespikes638
      Charisma is 26 and I think Cole is too. In my book, 26 is young and time is on their side. But they did say they have some extensive travel plans ahead and therefore have put baby plans on hold.

  • @SamO-fc2xg
    @SamO-fc2xg 3 роки тому +93

    No one is ever "ready", so don't dwell on being "ready".

    • @bedtimestoriesforboysandme4600
      @bedtimestoriesforboysandme4600 3 роки тому

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  • @AyshiaVincent1982
    @AyshiaVincent1982 3 роки тому +389

    Parenthood is a present that you don't expect to receive. As a mother of a little 2 year old girl, I'm still learning everyday.

    • @CactusJack252
      @CactusJack252 3 роки тому +3

      Same here. My wife and I have a wonderful 2 year old daughter. She can be a handful some days. We love her to death though.

    • @prw6058
      @prw6058 3 роки тому +1

      Best present we ever had almost 25 years ago!

    • @Khatoon170
      @Khatoon170 3 роки тому +1

      @@CactusJack252 May god protect her see her beautiful bride charming lady her kids too you became proud of her as doctor or lawyer loved by every one amen.

  • @jandkpratt
    @jandkpratt 3 роки тому +177

    We assumed we'd have trouble and so started trying as soon as it wasn't a BAD idea. Got pregnant first try, first month. Second baby took more than two years. You just never know! Most important: have FUN!!

  • @KarenEdwardsReports
    @KarenEdwardsReports 3 роки тому +75

    When Cole said "deliver the seed"... that took me out 😂 Love y'all so much! Y'alls babies are gonna be awesomeville!

  • @azchanna
    @azchanna 3 роки тому +89

    I love how cole has so much tact & discretion when talking about sexually explicit topics

  • @CheerfulDragon703
    @CheerfulDragon703 3 роки тому +104

    No one is ever ready to be a parent......the baby MAKES you ready. It comes fully packaged with love and responsibility, and is marked “no refunds, no returns!” It’s the most sublime experience ever!
    (Btw Charisma, you are BEAUTIFUL with your hair tied back. Can see your incredible bone structure)

    • @antionettebell1530
      @antionettebell1530 3 роки тому +12

      Cherry your comment "no refunds, no returns" is the truth and it had me in a hysterical laugh for a long time. I usually don't comment but this really got my attention. Charisma and Cole enjoy being married and the babies will come in due time. I love the positive energy from watching but most of all I love the families interaction especially DIY "Kelly Momma." May God continue to bless your families.

    • @CheerfulDragon703
      @CheerfulDragon703 3 роки тому +5

      @@antionettebell1530 there is a saying “making someone laugh is like giving them a holiday! “. So glad you enjoyed your holiday. Much love and laughter.

    • @shawandabarnes614
      @shawandabarnes614 3 роки тому +2

      @Cherry Yarrow, I 💜 your answer & it is very true. No refunds. Mine are 26 & 20 & while there has been challenges, it has been worth it!!

    • @collectionphotos8610
      @collectionphotos8610 3 роки тому +2

      Wow I love your answer.

  • @LovelySpirit318
    @LovelySpirit318 3 роки тому +320

    My brother is a paraplegic. He 'naturally' parented a set of twins (boy/girl) after his injury. Keep pushin'!😂
    Plus....I'm a para (T6) with 2 sons (post injury) and my mate is now blind 😎 (about a year now) THEREFORE being positive is VERY essential. Biggest advice: Having a PCA (personal care assistant) will be really helpful to the both of you. Check with your state to see if they will pay for it. In my state, The Arc of Louisiana pays for PCA services.

    • @jacquelineshockness3207
      @jacquelineshockness3207 3 роки тому +11

      Having babies is not the problem being able to love and take care of children is the prob and my opinion cole and charisma is very capable their kid will be very love by both grand parents love you guys dont hurry but dont be shy about it

    • @LovelySpirit318
      @LovelySpirit318 3 роки тому +7

      @@jacquelineshockness3207 ....😒...

    • @angel29616
      @angel29616 3 роки тому +9

      Bless you ...Jesus love's you and I do too..❤

    • @DDJones-yi1pm
      @DDJones-yi1pm 3 роки тому +9

      Bless you @ Lovely Spirit. Thank you for sharing. I believe you're a remarkable individual. I love your,positive encouragement to Cole & Charisma!

    • @jacquelineshockness3207
      @jacquelineshockness3207 3 роки тому +2

      @@DDJones-yi1pm you are strong positive person keep that love and bless spirit going may your ♥blessings always continue thank you

  • @sheranlanger247
    @sheranlanger247 3 роки тому +94

    When I had my daughter I was soooo completely and totally in love with her that I didn't want anymore kids to dilute my love for her. She is now 27 and she is my everything.

    • @ananse77
      @ananse77 3 роки тому +15

      Thing is, the love doesn't get diluted at all. It gets multiplied. I look at my girls and I love them both equally so much, and they are completely different from each other. However, your time does get divided and diverted. So if you have a very close bond with your first child, you can feel torn and sad that you can't pay all that exclusive attention to him/her the way you used to.

    • @marionrogers890
      @marionrogers890 3 роки тому +2

      Wanted to experience parenthood. Thank God it occurred. After 4 viable we have 18 grands and 10 g-grands...ain't God good...my oldest 60 yrs just called to 'check up' on me.

  • @veronicahawkins3453
    @veronicahawkins3453 3 роки тому +132

    Cole is hilarious...when he said his dad tested the cookies and didn't die 😂🤣 then Charisma says, we don't know yet. Cole then says, that's true 😂😂 I love how you guys play off of each other. Too cute

    • @memeaw76
      @memeaw76 3 роки тому +4

      Right

    • @Artois2011
      @Artois2011 3 роки тому +3

      That was HILARIOUS! 😅😅😅

    • @nancydrew1882
      @nancydrew1882 3 роки тому +1

      🤣🤣🤣😃😃that’s hilarious! I’m sorry, but I wouldn’t eat it.😂😂😂😂

    • @naiemascott
      @naiemascott 2 роки тому

      They are so hilarious

  • @ccmarie7654
    @ccmarie7654 3 роки тому +183

    The best advice I can give you both is to not think about it(getting pregnant🤰🏽) the minute we stopped trying, we got pregnant 💕

    • @shawndrawiseman978
      @shawndrawiseman978 3 роки тому +7

      Exactly! It’s been 27 years, but we were “planning” to the tee and nothing was happening. Several months later when my husband, at the time, lost his job, we just let it go and stopped obsessing about it, and guess what...voila. We were pregnant. So don’t get discouraged prematurely. Enjoy each other and your love. Of course if after some time nothing happens, there’s no problem seeking the help of medical professionals. All the best to them. 💞

    • @ccmarie7654
      @ccmarie7654 3 роки тому +2

      @@shawndrawiseman978 💞

    • @LoveMusicSound
      @LoveMusicSound 3 роки тому +2

      So true

    • @bluehazeburnout
      @bluehazeburnout 3 роки тому +8

      I'm glad this is the top comment. When you feel ready, just stop using contraception and let the rest happen. We tried alot for 9 months and nothing was happening until I started to 'give up'. Within 2 weeks or so of that moment, i got pregnant.
      Just relax and enjoy being together.

    • @goose7574
      @goose7574 3 роки тому +4

      So very true!!
      Just "do it," and let nature run it's course!
      💞

  • @OnyinyeNwokorie
    @OnyinyeNwokorie 3 роки тому +311

    your babies are about to be the cutest little people....and tall as I don't know what! LOL

    • @empressofmu2519
      @empressofmu2519 3 роки тому +4

      Cute only go but so far... You ever seen gremlins ... Watch ever movie .. and make vlog about it

    • @tylertutt2873
      @tylertutt2873 3 роки тому +1

      Does anyone know how tall they are?

    • @undomiel152003
      @undomiel152003 3 роки тому +7

      @@tylertutt2873 I think Charisma said once she was 5'7". And the one video of Cole with the exo-skeleton, standing up he was over 6' tall, he looked like he was 6'2".

    • @wunmikeji
      @wunmikeji 3 роки тому +2

      @@tylertutt2873 Charisma is 5'7 and Cole is 6'3

    • @AngiesDoingIt
      @AngiesDoingIt 3 роки тому

      @@wunmikeji she could model
      .

  • @bonniewilkie1317
    @bonniewilkie1317 3 роки тому +44

    I was 40 when I had my first child. The most amazing, exciting time!!The timing was perfect for us. I don’t think the age of a couple matters that much. It’s what is right for you. ♥️💕♥️

  • @lyndalikeslace567
    @lyndalikeslace567 3 роки тому +29

    I’m so glad I started trying to have a baby straight away at 23, when I got married. I ended up needing the assistance of IVF, which took 4 years to work. Then another 2 years to have our second child. The best decisions i ever made. I wish all the best to you both.

  • @michelesmith1951
    @michelesmith1951 3 роки тому +39

    Charisma looks so radiant and Cole's eyes look extra blue.... Whatever you all decide y'all are gonna be wonderful parents

  • @larkhughes9740
    @larkhughes9740 3 роки тому +90

    For every thing, there is a season. Your season will come, in its time. Meanwhile, love and live.

  • @jzycaramel
    @jzycaramel 3 роки тому +48

    Lol! Hates the “EJ” word but prefers “delivers the seeds” 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I swear that seems worse! Lol! You guys are awesome and I wish you all the best

  • @dananezat
    @dananezat 2 роки тому +4

    It makes so much sense for you guys to do this as young as possible. 1) your family is there to support you and young enough to physically help while the kid/kids are super young. Not that they can’t do it on their own, but having 4 active healthy grandparents to help is such a blessing. Especially to help with the physical aspects when Charisma goes through a lot. You guys will be just fine.

  • @Candyy820
    @Candyy820 3 роки тому +154

    I love how she watches Cole directly in his face when he's talking 🥺❤❤

    • @sukieredbone5131
      @sukieredbone5131 3 роки тому +8

      That's love.

    • @Sweetdee28
      @Sweetdee28 3 роки тому +12

      They both do that to each other 🥰🥰😍😍

    • @3beaglemom372
      @3beaglemom372 3 роки тому +10

      Definitely love! I am an expert, I have been married 46 years. 💖🎄

    • @sukieredbone5131
      @sukieredbone5131 3 роки тому +10

      @@Sweetdee28 When they do it, I can feel the love too from them.

    • @vilmawatson5443
      @vilmawatson5443 3 роки тому +2

      Absolutely... she really really loves him.....likewise Cole love her too❤❤❤❤

  • @GrumpyToast1971
    @GrumpyToast1971 3 роки тому +189

    I wasn't ready for my daughter until the first time I saw her little face and I was 44.

    • @jilljoemolly
      @jilljoemolly 3 роки тому +17

      Same here! I was 40. ❤️

    • @beebee7538
      @beebee7538 3 роки тому +20

      LOVE THIS SO MUCH!!! 😍 I’m 30 and I’m going back and forth about kids. Gives me hope I have more time.

    • @MariaRodriguez-hq4sv
      @MariaRodriguez-hq4sv 3 роки тому +18

      I was 42!!! And now my baby is 21 and graduating from the university!!

    • @rayray7906
      @rayray7906 3 роки тому +14

      37 when we had my 1 and only

    • @edineammerlaan7007
      @edineammerlaan7007 3 роки тому +12

      You don't know how much reading your comments encouraged me!!! I'm turning 38 next year and my husband and I are going to start on trying to have a baby...thank you so much. God bless you Richly 💞💞💞

  • @destinyrose2967
    @destinyrose2967 3 роки тому +24

    all my childhood i've seen my brothers and sister have kids at an early age , which had forced them to grow up extremely fast . whether that meant moving out , getting a job , or just becoming an adult too soon . so one thing i can say first hand about early patenting is that its a huge struggle especially if you don't have all the resources you need to raise a kid . it takes a toll on you when you have to prepare for something that is unexpected and it might be difficult or trying at times , but at least you guys are prepared and are at a good place in your life where you can financially support your child and that most important . age doesn't matter when having a kid its about being able to be patience and take your time no matter the circumstances . you'd be great parents whether it was expected or unexpected or if you guys were in the worst or best situation you'll see a way because its all about loving easy and taking your time and that's something you guys already do . you guys show kindness in everything you put out and promote positivity in everything you do , which is a good trait to have now in this day and age . congrats guys ! everything you do is inspiring 💛 .

  • @evelina6931
    @evelina6931 3 роки тому +102

    Pray about that desire to have a baby, nothing is impossible with God.

    • @naturalcurls1513
      @naturalcurls1513 3 роки тому +1

      Y’all are so cute! I wish you both all the best when God blesses y’all with a child.

  • @sarahwood5678
    @sarahwood5678 3 роки тому +21

    My mom married my dad at 28 had my brother at 29 and me at 30. Don't let anyone tell you what to do. Side note that baby will be blessed to have you as parents.

  • @janiebraxton1407
    @janiebraxton1407 3 роки тому +60

    You guys are very wise, centered and just so wonderful. Your child/children will be magnificent, just like their parents.

  • @mrssunflower72h78
    @mrssunflower72h78 3 роки тому +163

    I’m still not ready for kids...
    *has 5 kids! 4 grandkids!

    • @memeaw76
      @memeaw76 3 роки тому +2

      Right lol

    • @jasminecommercemusic
      @jasminecommercemusic 3 роки тому +1

      Haha, exactly! 💗

    • @thefamily2130
      @thefamily2130 3 роки тому +3

      You look phenomenal 👌🏽🎄 merry Christmas Mrs Sunflower 🌻🎅🏾🤶🏾

    • @mrssunflower72h78
      @mrssunflower72h78 3 роки тому +1

      @@thefamily2130 merry Christmas to you too!!

    • @raean5377
      @raean5377 3 роки тому +1

      Omg this comment had me rollin! So true.

  • @saraiyahyisrael622
    @saraiyahyisrael622 3 роки тому +2

    You two are going to be AMAZING parents! On 12/19/1998 my husband and I got married. I was 19 and he was 21. I wanted to be a mother so bad. We were trying and for some reason, I wasn’t getting pregnant so halfway into the year 1999, I went to my OB/GYN. He said that my body wasn’t ovulating. He then put me on a hormone to get my body to ovulate again. I was supposed to do a follow up with him 30 days later. I took a pregnancy test the night before my appointment because I hadn’t been feeling well and it was positive. I literally cried tears of joy! My husband was so happy. I went to see my doctor the next day and he was so excited that he put me on prenatal vitamins that day lol. Six months later we closed on the house that we had built and a few months later our daughter Infinity was born! We brought her home to our new house. She was born five days after my 21st birthday. This all happened before I turned 21. I’m now 41 and my husband and I have been married 22 years with both of our kids now in college. I think you two wanting to start a family now is wonderful. I wish you nothing but the best! I’m so happy for y’all! ❤️

  • @thebeamli
    @thebeamli 3 роки тому +23

    I was 19 with 2 children in an abusive relationship. The amount of stress I was under and in turn caused my children, was overwhelming, for lack of better words. It wasn't long before I was a single mom. My kids literally saved my life because they motivated me to leave that relationship, go to school, and work that much harder to get out of poverty. Needless to say, I have beautiful, healthy, intelligent teenagers and I am blessed. I'm still a single mom, but I love and provide as best as I can. Ideally, I would recommend waiting until you're in a healthy marriage and have a house, but that's not how the story worked for me. I can tell by the way you love each other, love sophie and the amount of support you have that you will be amazing parents!

  • @ashontepryor8824
    @ashontepryor8824 3 роки тому +126

    I wasn't ready, but after 15 years I can say I did it... I don't think no one is ever ready and y'all would be wonderful parents ❤️

  • @inessbenabbes7575
    @inessbenabbes7575 2 роки тому +3

    Lol my husband and I weren't even trying and I got pregnant two months after our wedding I panicked and I felt so unready I had no idea what to expect or how to be a mother. Here I am now a mom of a very special 2 year old boy and the happiest person in the world.. best of luck guys you both are amazing I wish you all the best

  • @rayredthunder5021
    @rayredthunder5021 3 роки тому +83

    “After” lay flat and put pillows underneath bottom to tilt towards ceiling. Just in case uterus is tilted or far back and “swimmers” need extra help by God given gravity. 30 min. (Old wives tale)

    • @memi8350
      @memi8350 3 роки тому +21

      Very true, I got pregnant. Don’t wash up afterwards. Lay flat on your back with your legs up. You will have a little bundle of joy in no time. 🙏❤️🙌🏼

    • @olawunmiruby1953
      @olawunmiruby1953 3 роки тому +7

      I think it works though. I’ve heard people say it and say it works.

    • @tintinlove7405
      @tintinlove7405 3 роки тому +4

      IT WORKS!! REALLY DOES

    • @memi8350
      @memi8350 3 роки тому +8

      Tried for three years. We both even took Geritol and practiced a lot. Got discouraged a few times and was contemplating on seeing a doctor. But a prophet prayed/anointed over me and said there’s nothing wrong. Believed God. With God all things are possible. I later, I did the old wives tale, then 💥 on the first try. I understand that everyone’s situation is different but wouldn’t hurt to try. Blessings 😘.

    • @CorshaLishell
      @CorshaLishell 3 роки тому +4

      Worked for me

  • @blessingsbless5213
    @blessingsbless5213 3 роки тому +91

    The “hella fresh “ Segway cracked me up. We tried naturally for 10 years before we got pregnant .💖👍

  • @BlueArrowe
    @BlueArrowe 3 роки тому +57

    Okay so I can tell Charisma will be the parent to have the "birds and the bees" talk with their child 😂

  • @azchanna
    @azchanna 3 роки тому +15

    Thank you charisma, for always showcasing the beauty of natural Afro hair!

  • @43evangeline
    @43evangeline 3 роки тому +1

    You two are so mature, level-headed---a true testament to your respective families! Thank You for sharing your life. I really enjoyed this video! All the best and I'll will being praying for you two!

  • @kattiawood7557
    @kattiawood7557 3 роки тому +221

    I can’t wait to see a little Charisma or little Cole running around the house, he or she is going to be beautiful ☺️

  • @stephlyndsey3932
    @stephlyndsey3932 3 роки тому +155

    People can't even be married for 2 seconds before others start pressuring them to have kids! Geesh, enjoy being married y'all 🥰

    • @amberhall1288
      @amberhall1288 3 роки тому +10

      Truth! I was married for 16 years and was 37 and 39 before we had a child. Imagine that pressure from parents who had no grandchildren

    • @judgeandjury4681
      @judgeandjury4681 3 роки тому +8

      Thank you! At least enjoy the honeymoon phase for a year. Sheesh.

    • @theyenvyme.5011
      @theyenvyme.5011 3 роки тому +4

      who is pressuring them???

    • @coleandcharisma
      @coleandcharisma  3 роки тому +16

      For sure! We definitely don’t feel pressured at all, by anyone!

    • @jackiecolbert3915
      @jackiecolbert3915 3 роки тому

      Right !

  • @kateroberts000
    @kateroberts000 3 роки тому +2

    As a mom of 4...4-18 years old... Its an honor to share in your life experiences. Of course you will love and grow and overcome any obstacles and embrace every stage and level of challenge and joy. May God bless your marriage, your home and the family He already has planned for you. Your story is yours...I would be so proud of my children if they faced life with your happiness and awareness and beautiful anticipation. Noone else can decide any of this for you. Its what you both choose together that matters. You are unique and what makes sense for you is the ONLY thing that means anything. May God bless you and keep you as this wonderful life unfolds. 🥰

  • @khayalubuzo8563
    @khayalubuzo8563 2 роки тому +3

    How I love Cole and Charisma. God's blessings upon your life. Watching from South Africa 🇿🇦

  • @caseymaggie664
    @caseymaggie664 3 роки тому +84

    It’s so true when people say you’re never “ready.” My daughter (now 2) was a total surprise after 9 yrs and my husband believing he couldn’t have kids. I was in shock. But you’re also right, it’s amazing too. With all the hard times, I’d never give up my Elinor. Good luck!

  • @darlene5216
    @darlene5216 3 роки тому +278

    Just have kids when you guys are ready. It's nobody else's business..

    • @patriciarussell3325
      @patriciarussell3325 3 роки тому +6

      Your babies are going to so cute

    • @dorothywest6963
      @dorothywest6963 3 роки тому +7

      Fully agree. take all the time needed and enjoy each other and things happens by surprise

    • @laineylove156
      @laineylove156 3 роки тому +3

      I agree with that

    • @dannyt3668
      @dannyt3668 3 роки тому

      They're making a video about it so idk why they clutch their pearls when people give an opinion haha. Let's not be silly.

    • @lindahines4470
      @lindahines4470 3 роки тому

      I agree totally

  • @wendymathews1030
    @wendymathews1030 3 роки тому +2

    Speaking from experience......especially for the first baby, if you wait until you’re “ready”, you’ll never have kids!! You can only prepare so much; there are a lot of unknowns to wade (or roll!!) through. You have your own home, you’re doing ok money-wise, you have your families close; you’re good to go! And Charisma, you’re correct about your age. Fertility rates start to decrease the older you get, so you guys are correct to begin trying now. Just educate yourselves; you literally have access to all the information you could possibly need! My biggest piece of advice once you get pregnant; take a childbirth preparation class. I feel that is vital to prepare for birth. I’ll be praying for you guys!! Yay!!!

  • @tr4563
    @tr4563 3 роки тому +2

    Fantastic‼️ You are going to make great parents, your patience and care for each other is certainly telling. Though many of us are in the Parent Club, there is nothing we can actually tell you that will be specific to your journey. Its all sage advice and good tips. Just know that everything you do is right for you guys and that is all that matters. Continue to lead with love for each other and your future growing family. Never be afraid to ask for help (and I know you do/will). When the time comes and Baby Sydnor is here 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾, be ready cause baby is going to have sooooo many virtual Aunties (this one is in NYC and can't wait) You both are such good spirits and surrounded by love and that is truly what works. Sending much❣️🙏🏾❣️to future members of the amazing Parent Club, you are going to fit right in!

  • @sensiblegolda
    @sensiblegolda 3 роки тому +68

    Who said you two shouldn't have kids? That baby's going to be beautiful when and if you guys decide to start a family.

  • @bonnieiker3640
    @bonnieiker3640 3 роки тому +111

    Having a child is your decision. When you have a child and if you have a child is nobody's business but yours. It is rediculous that people on the internet that do not even know you have no business deciding what you should do. You are a loving couple with extremely supportive families makes what seems to me a perfect parent material. Its none of my business but just the thought that total strangers watching your u tube video feel they have a right to decide and tell you are or are not parent material is beyond my comprehension. Being a parent is not easy. Only you know when your ready. I pray all works out for you. I personally think of Charisma's father Wow he will be a wonderful grandfather. The fun one . Cole your parents and brother are so supportive. You have a great family to support you. This is very personal and no bodies business but yours.

    • @kristinatorres5242
      @kristinatorres5242 3 роки тому +5

      Most reasonable and positive comment I’ve seen on the internet. So true!

    • @joseb738
      @joseb738 3 роки тому +1

      Strongly agree with you

    • @tonkinbray
      @tonkinbray 3 роки тому

      Here here! Xxx

    • @reviewranger4202
      @reviewranger4202 3 роки тому +1

      My kind of comments🙌🏾

    • @bosslady2266
      @bosslady2266 3 роки тому +4

      Why are people getting mad, it's called freedom of speech!! And yes that's there business, but they but it on here for us to comment righhhhhht, yall need to chill the fush out

  • @barbaracanterbury8533
    @barbaracanterbury8533 2 роки тому +5

    So awesome to listen how you both have your own minds. Whatever you choose to do, sending positive energy your way. Respect always.

  • @touchmeimfamousx
    @touchmeimfamousx 3 роки тому +6

    I'm at the exact same age and I feel the same way. I appreciate you guys sharing this, and wishing you the best of luck!

  • @gaviacheryl
    @gaviacheryl 3 роки тому +21

    Wow Cole's blue eyes are AMAZING. Not sure if its the angle or lighting but I've never noticed how blue they are.

    • @coleandcharisma
      @coleandcharisma  3 роки тому +14

      It must be the baby talk lighting them up lol

    • @Biancabm1
      @Biancabm1 3 роки тому +1

      I was thinking the same thing

  • @deerslayer9point
    @deerslayer9point 3 роки тому +94

    I prayed for my kids. I love being a mother. Although my kids are grown now, now I’m a Granny. I still tell my children that they are my answered prayers. I never regret having them. It’s been an adventure! #JESUSSAVES

    • @hopewalsh2689
      @hopewalsh2689 3 роки тому +3

      Please pray for me😭🙏

    • @realtalkwithretta1309
      @realtalkwithretta1309 3 роки тому +8

      @@hopewalsh2689 I pray that The Lord will answer every prayer you prayed and give you the sweetest healthiest baby ever. Just remember this...The things I have now are the answers to prayers I prayed years ago. The prayer of faith works...start praying and watch GOD WORK!

    • @elisacarcamo9005
      @elisacarcamo9005 3 роки тому +1

      Same here, I love my grand babies !!!

    • @robertawrigth1195
      @robertawrigth1195 3 роки тому +1

      Hi Colin charisma I hope you receive your wedding gift from sent you today and congratulations again and one of your biggest fans Roberta wright from South Carolina I hope I get a shout out to let me know that you got it and you like it God bless you both God will bless you with kids when he's ready so enjoy each other and everything you do always keep God first cuz he knows what to do peace love and happiness have a beautiful life together love you

  • @fereshtehkhodadad824
    @fereshtehkhodadad824 3 роки тому +2

    Congratulations! Best of luck and I can't wait to see you bundle of joy when the time comes!

  • @shaedavis53
    @shaedavis53 3 роки тому +1

    I just saw your story on a news channel from years ago and I'm in LOVE!! You two are just amazing!! I am speaking blessings and prayers over a safe and healthy delivery as well as a long lasting relationship!! 🙏💯🥰❤💕💞😁

  • @dagmarheinrich269
    @dagmarheinrich269 3 роки тому +162

    Somebody ever noticed that beautiful Charisma looks a lot like young Eartha Kitt?

    • @shakirsay
      @shakirsay 3 роки тому +8

      She does omg, just realized that

    • @rubie2296
      @rubie2296 3 роки тому +4

      Wow! Now that you mention it!..

    • @rayvenjacole5819
      @rayvenjacole5819 3 роки тому +2

      Now I can’t unsee it 😍

    • @suzannehedderly1331
      @suzannehedderly1331 3 роки тому +3

      I've seen that comment many times. :-)

    • @lakep7798
      @lakep7798 3 роки тому +2

      @@rayvenjacole5819 Right??

  • @selenahnjoloma1415
    @selenahnjoloma1415 3 роки тому +88

    There’s no perfect time to become parents. Regardless, kids are a blessing when they arrive 😊

  • @deborahadams8031
    @deborahadams8031 3 роки тому +2

    This is a great next chapter !! I’m so excited for you guys!! You are in my prayers! 🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️❤️🙌🏽‼️‼️

  • @monicasalinas-brown2385
    @monicasalinas-brown2385 3 роки тому +2

    For the past 2 1/2 weeks I have seen every single video that you all have made. Your story is so addictive. I love how well both of you provide information about your relationship and Coles medical issues. The information that you all give shows that you all really read up on the issues discussed. I look forward to seeing more and more videos of your journey. Congrats on the engagement, new home, wedding and growing your family with Sofia. You all are such a powerful couple and it's easy to see it on each video. Wishing for you all to continue and grow in your relationship each day. One of your newest subscribers and hooked for sure. Can't wait to see your next video. #staypositive

  • @paula0622
    @paula0622 3 роки тому +47

    Babies are a joy! A little Cole or Charisma running around. I can't wait. Your timing. You both will make such great parents. Blessing to you both.

  • @milgainey
    @milgainey 3 роки тому +132

    Who disliked their video, don't come for Cole and Charisma! Love love love y'all

  • @youruniquestyle
    @youruniquestyle 3 роки тому +2

    Omg amazing! You guys would be the kindest parents ever, both your hearts are so pure❤️ love you guys, watching your videos makes me happy x

  • @heatherfisher8782
    @heatherfisher8782 3 роки тому +4

    I'm so happy for the two of you! Either way, whatever you decide, whenever you decide, you will be amazing parents! Having a baby is the most wonderful, worrisome, scary, beautiful, thing in the world. It's the hardest, yet most rewarding thing you'll ever do in your life! Praying for you all the way!

  • @johnniebradley4307
    @johnniebradley4307 3 роки тому +90

    Hello I am the mother of a.paralized child he is 44 yes old he has two children a son and a lovely daughter both came after he was shot and paralized.i pray u all will become parents.as my son did.he's now a grandfather.

  • @SERD52
    @SERD52 3 роки тому +16

    Aww, Cole saying he is ready for that kind of love is sweet. Get ready to know what it feels like to have your heart run around outside your body and love you unconditionally!

  • @PaulHolness
    @PaulHolness 3 роки тому +4

    Don't know how ya'll ended up in my feed - thanks for sharing your life with us!! Much appreciated and hoping for all the best

  • @misswhite192
    @misswhite192 3 роки тому +2

    You guys are too cute and the way Cole tried to explain the baby making process was so respectful 🤣🤣🤣 I love it!!!!

  • @ashlouw5350
    @ashlouw5350 3 роки тому +177

    There's no ready when it comes to kids,lol..but enjoy the journey

  • @AMATEURDECORATINGLIKEAPRO
    @AMATEURDECORATINGLIKEAPRO 3 роки тому +511

    Stay positive beautiful people! You too will be amazing parents. I just love you!

    • @judithbennett430
      @judithbennett430 3 роки тому

      I guess you will know when you are ready you won't need to talk about it. You will just know..you will get that feeling. You guys will make great parents ❤

  • @azchanna
    @azchanna 3 роки тому +11

    You guys will have kids naturally! 🙏🏿

  • @charleskelly9042
    @charleskelly9042 3 роки тому +4

    You’re NOT EVER ready but even after they arrive it’s still stressful and there are surprises that make you wonder what you were thinking!! The trying of having children is the “fun” part of having children!! Hold on to your emotions because it’s the ultimate adventure everyone needs to experience!!

  • @Tnc874
    @Tnc874 3 роки тому +64

    They are married and are good financially so people need to just mind their business 🤷🏾‍♀️ PLUS charisma will have help when and if needed

    • @annab3182
      @annab3182 3 роки тому +3

      Wish you both the best in whatever comes your way!

    • @stephlyndsey3932
      @stephlyndsey3932 3 роки тому +2

      Yes they're starting way better than most people 🤣🤣🤣 they will do just fine!

  • @psinex1
    @psinex1 3 роки тому +37

    Ya’ll are so funny. You’ve been together for three years. You’re not rushing. I predict that everything will work just fine without intervention.

  • @freckledmoontarot9846
    @freckledmoontarot9846 3 роки тому +1

    I love that you touched on this topic. And just seeing how grounded you two are on the topic I think you two are pretty right on track. When it happens and kids come into the picture when ever that is they will be coming to two really great well rounded and loving parents. Proud of both of you!❤

  • @raean5377
    @raean5377 3 роки тому +3

    Wishing you the best of luck! You guys remind me of me and my husband. He is also in a wheelchair. You guys are a great inspiration to us. Always seem so positive. Praying a blessed New Year for you and your family. 💕

  • @NellyTeaBlog
    @NellyTeaBlog 3 роки тому +34

    You'll NEVER be fully ready to have a baby. I have 3! But you will also never love another human more than that beautiful baby!!

  • @awalkthroughtorah6897
    @awalkthroughtorah6897 3 роки тому +70

    If Cole gets a harness to keep him sitting up in his chair, a baby sling or chest baby carrier could be used for bonding time. He could roll the floor with the baby. I am sure you can get creative with chair adaptations to allow Cole to do a lot of the transports and stuff like that.

  • @heidiheath1557
    @heidiheath1557 3 роки тому +2

    I recently found y’all and just can’t get enough of you! You two are the sweetest, kindest, most positive couple... you are truly an inspiration! I just adore you and your love for each other. I wish you the very best in your journey of trying to become parents.. you will be the best!! ❤️

  • @pamelasimsjones557
    @pamelasimsjones557 3 роки тому +5

    It'll happen when it's supposed to happen. Your positivity is definitely a plus. As for names: boys are Cole Jr., Chandler, Chace, Chance; girls are Cierra, Crystal, Camryn, Chloe, Cydney

  • @hannaivarsson95
    @hannaivarsson95 3 роки тому +16

    My parents tried for 7 years before they got pregnant with my brother, and three years later I came along 😊 You both are going to be amazing parents, wishing you all the best of luck and happiness in the year to come 🥰

  • @petalblossom96
    @petalblossom96 3 роки тому +17

    Love how Charisma was totally unphased by talking to herself 7:44 and by Cole teleporting into the kitchen 7:57 🤣🤣

  • @airribelle8626
    @airribelle8626 3 роки тому +6

    I took prenatals once and ended up pregnant. I was so shocked. Me and my ex didn't try. He went to a gyno appointment with me and my doctor at the time asked us if we had children and we said no. She was saying how beautiful our baby would be and then told me at the end of my appointment that I needed to take prenatals to help with healthy skin,hair and nails. A month later I found out I was pregnant. She set us up 😭. I love being a mom. I just don't like being a single parent. I wanted to be married before children.

    • @Asdf23457
      @Asdf23457 3 роки тому +3

      lol prenatal vitamins don’t affect your fertility

  • @PaulPetersen1234
    @PaulPetersen1234 3 роки тому +1

    You are such a positive force in this world. Your children will be blessed to have you as parents and they will bring you untold blessings. Wishing you well. Praying for you.

  • @reneesydnor-henry4538
    @reneesydnor-henry4538 3 роки тому +46

    Hey cousin's when the time is right the time will be right. Let God lead you and all things will flow. And remember you have a babysitter right up 95.

  • @lamb1168
    @lamb1168 3 роки тому +21

    "He didn't die so we're safe"...Lol!

  • @Regalem3
    @Regalem3 3 роки тому +1

    Good luck & God bless. Having children is a blessing, and because yall have a strong support system & positive outlook you should be wonderful parents.

  • @tesswonderful4194
    @tesswonderful4194 3 роки тому +1

    "Deliver the seed is worse!" Yikes! 😂😂😂 Wishing you the best for babies. ❤❤ Nice to see Cole blushing talking about being a Dad too.

  • @LailahLynnTV
    @LailahLynnTV 3 роки тому +425

    I wish you the best in trying to conceive. Y’all will make great parents 💕 I like the name Christian for a boy or girl.

    • @elizabethirvin9954
      @elizabethirvin9954 3 роки тому +5

      Christian for a girl?? Are you slow?

    • @kaekee9727
      @kaekee9727 3 роки тому +12

      @@elizabethirvin9954 babe there are a LOT of girls with that name

    • @kaekee9727
      @kaekee9727 3 роки тому +3

      @Jalyn Bre they’re an idiot. Pay them no mind

    • @elizabethirvin9954
      @elizabethirvin9954 3 роки тому +6

      @Jalyn Bre christian and Kristen are 2 different names

    • @breannaquashie4526
      @breannaquashie4526 3 роки тому +5

      @@elizabethirvin9954 Christian is a nice name for a girl tbh, it’s not a common name for a girl which makes it even better

  • @mzmi_
    @mzmi_ 3 роки тому +25

    "deliver the seed" I love it! Also, there's more than one way to get those Triplets! You're on the right path for YOU. I love you guys and always pray your happiness!

  • @thefamily2130
    @thefamily2130 3 роки тому +3

    Me sitting through every ad happily 🤩 also clapping and yelling at intervals baha

  • @chrisanderson9856
    @chrisanderson9856 3 роки тому +1

    I believe you both will make amazing parents!! Your patience in dealing with life will be great when it comes to raising children. I love your videos and your upbeat attitude to life. May God Bless you both in all your endeavors!

  • @valcarroll3350
    @valcarroll3350 3 роки тому +24

    Cole's bashfulness with "grown people" words IS cracking me up!!😂 Im so ready for lil C&C babies!!! Whenever that may be!

    • @jennifern2805
      @jennifern2805 3 роки тому

      I don't think UA-cam allows "grown-up talk" on a non restricted channel, even if it's science. 🙄

    • @valcarroll3350
      @valcarroll3350 3 роки тому +1

      @@jennifern2805 oh ok, yeah that could be. You can still see he is a little weirded out about mentioning it.. Even when he had to talk about his bathroom routine. Whereas, Charisma has basically always had a very straightforward medical approach to it. I just think it's humorous. I'm kinda with Cole on this one. It would be a bit weird to mention and discuss personal bodily functions in front of all the folks.

  • @somalm3117
    @somalm3117 3 роки тому +5

    I had my son at 35. I love him so much. I wasnt ready for him. God gave me everything I needed to be a mother. Both of you will be great parents. Just pray God will bless.

  • @NaturalBeauty214
    @NaturalBeauty214 2 роки тому

    Omg I LOVE how you introduced the ad for Hello Fresh!! Awesome editing!👏🏽👏🏽🙏🏽👏🏽

  • @formyjurnee
    @formyjurnee 3 роки тому +2

    I'm so excited for this new leap. Praying for you guys!

  • @ShugaAnnSpyce
    @ShugaAnnSpyce 3 роки тому +225

    Cole, "deliver the seed" wasn't any better than the "EJ" word lol.

    • @n4musica
      @n4musica 3 роки тому +5

      😂😂

    • @nahwhy7723
      @nahwhy7723 3 роки тому +3

      🤣🤣

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      @bedtimestoriesforboysandme4600 3 роки тому

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    • @nomgumbo
      @nomgumbo 3 роки тому +1

      All the best

    • @sheilagravely5621
      @sheilagravely5621 3 роки тому +1

      😂😂😂

  • @SlayNetwork
    @SlayNetwork 3 роки тому +213

    You guys are so ready!

  • @DasMsr30
    @DasMsr30 3 роки тому +1

    Yes...stress free is key. Stay positive. Continue to love and respect one another. You two, i believe, are together to show others how faith, trust, acceptance and humility can get you through ANYTHING. Bless you both and THANK YOU for sharing a part of your lives with us. Keep dreamin', keep believing. You got this. Happy New Year. Peace.

  • @onlyontuesdays123
    @onlyontuesdays123 3 роки тому

    I literally can't help smiling through out the whole video bc y'all are so cute together!!! Wishing you both the best during this journey! 💕