Being in the friend zone is like being interviewed & declined by a company..Then the hiring manager texting you every week telling you about the wrong person they hired.
She's not hurt cause she lost her friend, nah. She's upset cause she lost that source of attention, that shoulder to cry on, that sure thing good guy she could fall on.
Aka USED HIM for his>>emotional intelligence quality's, but wasn't physically attracted to him, i.e wasn't giving him no snatch for his troubles, & efforts in comforting, & being their for her in her "toughest times" as she self admittedly said herself ahah facts lmao! Now she's Mad bkz she can't have the best of BOTH worlds. I. e 2be fkn, giving her snatch away to a Nga who could give chyt less about her. Then still USE the one who clearly does care, I.e the ex male friend who ghosted her on all his socials after he found a REAL woman who appreciated him bkz she was stalling him on the coochie play & mad he wouldn't let her keep using/ keep him >>in the FZ on God lol smh. These modern women, namely BLACK bkz that's who the majority of we BM deal with got life fk up thinking they can use 3, 4, 5, 6, 7 different BM to add up to the one whole Man of their delusional dreams aahah smh Them days, aka SIMP culture days are over #PassportBros #BlueBookGentleMan ! Lol
I personally think that until the guys side of the story is heard we can't really tell if she was genuinely good friends, or he was just a guy she was using as attention
A woman who places a guy friend in the "friend zone" will ALWAYS become jealous when she realize he has options too. Some women can't handle coming in second place to a marathon race they started.
If you not getting nothing And she’s not your girl There is no point of even entertaining her Why should you use your resources just to be friend zoned just to be used as a utility or a tissue guy wake up Men
Regarding the friendzone chick this is fantastic timing. I literally just talked to a friend about this 2 days ago. She isn't really a "friend" as much as a friend I know through my last job. We worked together for years and would chat etc. She hired me to do some work around her house and while I was painting the bathroom we were chatting and she said that it seems all the good men were either taken or gay and asked my opinion on why she is having such a hard time "finding a man". I looked her dead in the face and asked her if she REALLY wanted to know and she said she absolutely did. I told her straight up that if she truly wanted to find a good man that wanted to be with HER then she has to stop looking in all the same places and start looking in her friendzone because that is the ONLY place she will find a guy who likes her for her and that she will like back. A few hours later when I was packing up to leave she told me that she had been thinking about it and that I was totally right and there is this one guy she has been friends with for a couple of years that she could see herself with. Yesterday when I went back to finish up the painting she told me that she called him and asked him out and they have an official date set for this weekend. She said she NEVER would have even thought that a guy she was "friends" with could be someone she would spend her life with but she can see how she was wrong for so long. We might actually have converted one here guys. UPDATE: She called me last night and told he proposed to her on Dec 23. She is incredibly happy and said this is the best present she could have ever hoped for. They are a really good couple and compliment each other very well. So ladies....if you're tired of being alone or wondering where all the good guys are it's time to stop playing the victim card and realize that the right guy might already be right there.
Doubtful. I need more info, though. How old is she? Because if she in the "epiphany phase" (late 20s and over) it really doesn't count because that's why they have the friendzone to begin with. To go into once they're on the wrong side of 30 when Chad and Tyrone no longer want them.
she can only put a man in a friend zone for so long before he loses interest and notices she's not feeling him so he moves on to the next one which is the best thing to do!
@@Abcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz0000 Because she thought they were friends and the dude wanted things to move forward. In most causes, single men and single women don't make good friends. No doubt the dude bent over backwards helping her, validating her, and caring for her only for her to string him along. It was no doubt obvious he had feelings but she completely ignored them. The only thing the dude did wrong was that he ghosted. But at the same time I understand. She would likely have continued to try to string him along.
The men that get friend zoned and end up finding LOVE are my FAVORITE stories to hear. I don’t feel bad for the chicks that lost out on a good catch. I know what it feels like to be friend zoned. Shoot, hate to say it but CITY BOYS UP 2023 👏👏👏❤️
All men lie to women out of convenience. All men need to stop it - especially the players and men women actually spend the most time with. And the "simps" rarely spend time with women like that so...who's really to blame?
It isn't the simps those are dudes who adapted to get puddy instead of being real. Women will respect you especially when you diss their request for certain things just to have their company which in turn a real man will pass and call someone else which is true pimping. When you leave a bitch with no real plans, she'll remember that the next time she's fking with you because it hurts more to be rejected by a dude she thought she could work over for her benefit 💯 Trust ,I have had women in the past tell me they regretted trying to be greedy and that in a nutshell humbles them more than you know......
For the first video, respect that man. None of us want a woman that can be convinced it is acceptable to ask for $200 deposit. This makes it real easy to weed out the modern women
Why does it have to be money? Yall don't have shit to give nobody. Why you think someone wants to go into they bank account and give somebody some of there hard earned money. You gone lose everytime with that. By the time your son becomes an adult it will be a 1000 dollar deposit. You cool with that?
Man my heart goes out to the guy with the 14 hour shift. I know what it’s like when you’re about to have a bad day or week. That dread that comes the night before knowing it’s about to hit. Having support like his wife makes all the difference.
For the woman that got ghosted by her best friend, she's mad her back up plan ain't waiting for her no more. No man just wants to be your friend , they're just waiting to hit. Some will wait longer than others.
I technically friendzone women sometimes. But only because it helps me find more bros and gym bros. I used to have a best friend that was a girl but left her because she was crazy into magic stuff and even attempted a ritual. Point is, it is possible but it has to be a very special case. Like a actual woman with respect that both of us aren't interested in each other
@@scottmartin1088 you are why some women see men as nothing more than paychecks. So because I can find genuine friendship with no ulterior motives. I'm a girl now? 😂 I see
That guy that escaped the friend zone got red pilled. He has no contact with reality before but got a reality check in front of the mirror and decided to act right. That is how to get down as a man. Don't allow people who are not into you use you.
If you're man and you're in the friendzone. You are there for a reason. A good one, too. You cannot handle that woman if she said yes to you, really, you can't. Your girl will come one day and you will be thankful you never got involved with that girl who is friendzoning you. You will soon see just how messed she is. It's actually a blessing in disguise.
She's upset about the ending of the free validation, attention and the fact that he finally cut off the string between the two of them. Now she has to work for the attention, validation and to get someone else to pay attention to her. Even the "friend zone" guy is going to wake up and walk away from her because he gets tired of being alone with nothing to show for his efforts. His male friends probably told him to stop simping and move on with his life and he finally listened.
Yea that's very true because you have some females that are sick in the head like that they'll feed for attention and validation from guys and text dudes back and forth all night knowing they don't have any intentions of doing anything with the guy
That lunched looked FIRE to bro. She didn't just MAKE him any ole kind of lunch either. It was made with gratitude, appreciation, care & real LOVE that she has for him. HOW she made It was actually more Important than WHAT she made for him facts. It was done with attention to DETAIL of what her husband really enjoyed to eat. Not just giving him ANY damn thing to eat. She wanted to bring a smile, comfort & a true sense of being a supporting, loving wife so he knows he's truly RESPECTED firstly, loved, & cared for as well appreciated as I aforementioned. Great fkn pick, choice by him facts! And she is a GREATER Woman for doing what she should be doing as his counterpart which Is TAKING CARE OF HIS needs as a Man on her end. Couldn't ask for, nor pay for a better wife/help mate facts on God. That's what impressed me the most about her. U can tell that she would NEVER CHEAT on him, and that she would literally k1ll for that Man real speal.
@@jeffghant4760 your probably that one pessimistic dude that cannot read when a girl is bad and u keep falling for it so u think all are bad, women can be great and this one I personally think that was very kind and caring to do for her husband and actually working hard to make it. She seems genuine about the relationship and actually likes the guy not for his job, but for who he is.
I love that she made this for her man, but she put dressing on a sandwich that will be soggy the next day. Things like that you have to put in a separate container as well as putting the lettuce on the salad with the other stuff it will be so soggy. But then again I'm very particular on how I pack my man's lunch.
Shout out to the woman that takes the time to make sure her man has a good meal during a hard day at work. Whether you made it or brought it to him, it means so much to him and he definitely feels his woman cares for him. For the "Modern Woman" that doesn't do these small things....enjoy your loneliness and cats at age 40+!
I had 2 women try to put me in the friend zone. I told both of them I already had 3 sisters, I didn’t need another one. Never settle for friend zone brothers. If she is not into romantically, leave her be. Go back to school, find a church or club that you’re into. The right woman will find you.
She was using him for boyfriend lite ..... and now she don't have that crutch to help her with dealing with Chad clapping her cheeks and nothing else... he was doing all that other stuff for her that Chad won't.... now she has to ask Chad for it and she knows he will say no
Frankly - women make terrible friends for a man. I had a homegirl from highschool till about 20 years old until I abruptly cut it off after a mind-numbingly foolish argument about me talking to girls at the mall when all of us went to the movies the day before (myself, her and another brother). A week later, she had my own mother call me and ask me if everything was alright smh. She had found my mother's number at the hospital (RN)! It was the culmination of so much needless drama involving her over the years. You WILL become an emotional tampon eventually if you're "friends" with women. Even in the Bible, somewhere in the 42nd chapter of Ecclesiasticus if I recall correctly, God says "sit not in the midst of women" lol.
nigga that just means you picked a bad person to be your friend LMAO. That story portrays her in a bad light bc she's insane and it paints u in an even worse one bc u stayed being her emotional tampon and continued to be in a bad relationship 🤣🤣🤣
@@shawnmendrek3544 Agreed, and I have FOUR sisters, so I really don't NEED female friends lol. I have enough to handle! It's like I tell people it's probably why I'm single at 39, I have two older and two younger sisters, I've put up with endless female BS as the baby brother, the middle child, and the big brother, I don't take shit from them and I have almost 40 years of practice ignoring women crying to get their way lol.
Yeah my story is somewhat similar lol. I had about 4 close female friends until maybe 22. The amount of effort you have to put in to remain friends with females gets taxing and for me I always ended up as this pseudo boyfriend replacement which is weird when y’all aren’t smashing lol. Sad cause I don’t need to smash every women I’m around either.
Good for him. I'm glad he finally moved on. Of course if a woman keeps a man in the friend zone for over a decade then he's going to finally move on. What else can she expect? She expects him to follow her around like a puppy dog for the rest of his days and have her back while she won't even give him anything of substance in return?
This girl doesn't even deserve to be a friend if she talks about who he is seeing someone else like that. The disrespect...she can stay bitter by herself. He dodged a bullet by avoiding her and silently letting her go.
But the chick had to be reminded and if a chick puts me in friendzone let’s keep it that way, it’s when they get older and desperate with less options they start to look in the friend zone😂
We all get stuck in the friendzone at one point or another. Ironically, most of the time I left the friendzone I get that random message saying Hey how are you from the person who put me there. Or they get mad at me for being selfish and ignoring them.
The last video reminds me of my wife. Glad there are others out there like that. This treatment is exclusive. My wife teaches college courses in the evening so I told her I'll meal prep our dinner meals so she won't have to much on her plate
LUCKY Man/MEN. Wish I had that. I'm 48 years old and have never, I repeat NEVER EXPERIENCED such treatment In my entire life by NO WOMAN, not even my own mother as a BLACK American Man facts. It's a very SAD, & a damned SHAME that I as a Man have NEVER experience such gratification In dealing with all my MANY various relationships I;'ve had over the years with BLACK women. Now when I dated WHITE/non BW they weren't as selfish as you saw In this video. So I have had a WIFF Of what it could be like but those relationships with the non bw I wasn't as INVESTED, & neither were they to be honest so It's kool But I at least EXPECT better treatment from my own race women. But unfortunately they've been TAUGHT to NOT give us that simple gratification & basic, yet essential pleasure as a Man facts. Black AmeriKKKan women think If she gave you some coochie last week, or 2 weeks ago then she's good on God ahah. Black AmeriKKKan women don't even want to give you sexual release pleasure knowing damn well that It's essential to we Men's DRIVE, attitude, motivation element to PROVIDE facts Yet they DENY us as BM that very simple gesture & pleasure for whatever reason that Is smdh. Well we (BM) all know WHY. It's bkz they don't in their heart of hearts believe that we DESERVE IT. Even when we are GOOD, HONEST, UPSTANDING, HARD WORKING BM. And that's bkz the DEFAMATORY NEGATIVE STEREOTYPE that Is projected, taught, & handed down from generation to generation of AmeriKKKan BW is to DEGRADE, DEVALUE, & DEPISE, & DISPARAGE us as Am BM regardless to how GOOD of Men we are. The point is to ALWAYS PROOVE that YOU are not, will never be WORTH doing that for. & YOUR worth as a BM will NEVER be more valuable than hers as a Am BW. They feel that WE should feel LUCKY just to be dealing with them for whatever ARROGANT reasons that they have unfortunately for US.
The woman making the guys lunch...seriously, almost brought a tear to my eyes. That's a woman among women right there. Well done, my brother, well done.
@@johnmanni227 the thing about Africa & most third world countries is that majority of women are more feminine & they depend on working men to provide for them, it’s not like the USA where a street chick can be independent & women in the usa are not as feminine
The problem with friend zone is that it's based on spending time. Men eventually grow up and realize that women benefit from using their male friends time way more than men benefit from using their female friends time. Men will always begin to question the benefit of platonic female friends.
Nah the problem with friend zone is a lot of dudes are just pathetic and think they can fake friend their way into some panties. It's actually a good thing to be in the friend zone. Im 39 and learned that when I was like 13-14. I've always kept female friends and because of that I've always had an insight that many guys don't have. As a man, you need female friends. Not just females you know. Genuine friends for real. A lot of dudes just corn balls honestly. I thank God I always had close female friends growing up and still to this day.
@@culcre You have no idea what you could've been if those female friends weren't taking your time. You're underestimating how valuable your time is as a man. In less than 200 years, men who kept the company of other men took humanity from riding horseback to space travel. There are no groups of women who have achieved similar things. So unless you are around women for the sake of spreading your seed, you are wasting your time literally.
@@culcreMen don’t female friends. Even females admit that they prefer having male friends compared to female friends. Male friends usually offer more logic and offer physical protection and help. And while you can call those men pathetic, the rest of us can call those women greedy parasites who will most likely sleep with one of those “friends” if her boyfriend makes her mad enough.
@@shayla106You missed my point my dear. I said it's good to be genuinely friends with women. GENUINELY! It's pathetic if a dude is being a FAKE friend just in hopes of gaining intimacy. As you said, be a real friend. Protect her, offer your logic & wisdom. Because she's your friend. Not just cause she's attractive and you want intimacy.
@@culcre and you missed his point sunshine. In a platonic friendship between genders women extract all the resources they can from guys and offer nothing in return. So its not good to have a female friend in this sense. Not unless you literally friendzoned her before she got a chance to friendzone you. They take and take and take and give nothing back. Anything a female friend can give you a male friend can give you. The poster you responded to was making a point that even women prefer to have male friends over female friends because they get little from their female friends.
Hey Mr N Charge, the more of your videos i click on I get more enlightened by seeing some of these individuals action and reactions. You always got good thoughts and openion. Keep the videos coming.
They get soo mad this girl friend zoned me and I just fell back stopped messaging and calling. Months later I get a message like “where you been weirdo”. I replied in the gym and let it there.
Yea that was real disgusting. Judging by how mad she was She knew she wonted him as her future husband after she was done sleeping around in another several years. Her plan was to keep him in the friend zone at all cost. He was smart not to tell her he met someone else and delete her because he knew once a woman who has you in the friend zone find out your dating someone they will pretend to won't to be with you now until she can break up your new relationship with the other woman then put you back in the friend zone.And will keep doing that until she's ready to settle down.
@@hiddendragon1001 All woman that put men in a friend zone will do that. Just tell one you met another girl and watch how friendly they get. That guy made very wise moves thats why shes so made he didnt leave her no ways to play with his life
@@hiddendragon1001 Facts they the ones always saying men are always lying and playing games. When they have girl code/friendzone and the best manipulation tactics in the universe. which is so secretive men have been ban for speaking on it.
I dont even comment on videos, but out of all the youtubers Ive seen make content like this, you really set yourself apart from others by adding in touching clips. I sometimes get caught up in the negativity of the women in the clios so its nice to see clips in between that remind us all that Male happiness is the goal of content like this. I just subbed.
I like the positive note at the end. It is one thing for us to be critical of things, but it is also important to show the opposite sex what us guys do appreciate too. Having a nice meal made by our significant other can mean so much to us, especially if we are having a hard day at work :)
Cringiest clip was the girl freaking out over losing her “blue check mark.” Very unprofessional. If this is how she makes money you would think she would handle that situation much better
The woman mad about the guy friend said she talked to him a week before. Maybe she said something to him that made him block her like bringing up his little new gf as she put it. If she wanted him to stick around for life then maybe she should have tried to date him instead of friend him.
That is one way to look at it. Another is that he slowly blocked her to see if she noticed and they could have a conversation about it. And to me anyway it is obvious it didnt mean anything to her until the well was completely dry. Someone redpilled him and he had to give her one final chance before he moved on.
Thank you for finishing with a positive note! There’s a whole lot of selfish women out there but there’s also women who show up for their husbands and it’s nice to see both sides ❤️❤️❤️
The ex friend zone guy realized finally that it wasn't a balanced friendship & his efforts wasn't worth it anymore. She finally realized that she wasn't indispensable....
When a girl says she "supported and backed" her friend for years she means she scrounged off of him for years, always asking for favors, for help, for loans, for rides, to pay for drinks the way a date should, to fix things, to repair things.... I can throughout my 20s remember not asking a single person for absolutely anything whereas my girl "friends" asked me for any and everything on the planet. She didn't lose a friend. She lost a backup free handyman, repairman, wallet and so called support system that she couldn't care less about.
There are still women out here who are traditional, submissive and kind. Thank you Charles for this platform. Women need to have the mirror held up to their faces and they need to be accountable.
And most of said traditional women are just pretending until they can entrap good men. Not saying real ones don't exist, just saying that we're talking about small fractions of small fractions here.
This is exactly why men should only have female associates and not friends. As a man you decide whether you want to be in the "friend zone". I ask a simple question: "What are you looking for?". If she can't answer that or it's not the right answer, I bounce.
Exactly that friendzone don’t matter when you getting game first hand how women act. Yes it comes a time to cut them off for different reasons. But if you get women it’s not the seriously unless you find out she trying to keep you as a backup plan which most is their plan. But as a man you get resources too out of them it don’t have to be sex and move on when you mature to show them they missed out
The chick in the bonnet thought she was gone keep Buddy on the side lines while she was getting through her 304 phase. She thought buddy was gone be her fall back guy… The hurt comes from her having it all planned out in her head..
My heart hurts for the future for my son(s) if a woman cooking for her man and leaving him a love note is a lost art being celebrated. I do this for my husband and son ( another son on the way god is good) everyday. Breakfast lunch snacks you name it. Shoot I have two male dogs that get homemade meals and I hold down a career of my own. I proudly say to anyone it’s my pleasure to take care of all my boys I love them and want them to feel that. I don’t understand how that has become a bad thing.
The positive note is cool cause it does get depressing constantly seeing ow women treat men. On one side it is good for awareness, but on the other it sucks seeing how so many feel about us
I actually understand how the girl that lost Mr Friendzone feels on one hand. He ghosted her. That is the most cowardly way to walk away from someone. On the other hand she misses having easy access to him. I'd bet good money that he had beyond friendship feelings for her and got tired of those feelings not being reciprocated. The freindzone is usually not voluntary it's forced. Both men and women alike need to stop allowing themselves to be friend zoned when they have feelings for the person. The friendship will always feel one-sided.
If she didn’t want to get ghosted she should have been more up front about how she’s never going to give him any and he’s wasting his time. You want communication, then you better communicate too!
a man must never put himself in that position. shes knows exactly exactly exactly how you feel. toying with you is like breathing. man up and get out of there immediately
2:58 “the only things that are loved unconditionally are kids, dogs, and women. A man is only loved under the condition that he can provide something.”- a great comedian (although I may have misquoted him)
Not the exact quote but close enough. And I’ll take it a step further and say even when a man is providing something, he usually still isn’t even loved then. He’s just tolerated on the basis of him providing something.
Men and women do the exact same things, just in slightly different ways. Both have unrealistic expectations and get frustrated when their unicorn isn't standing around every corner waiting for them. Neither fully respects/understands the other and thinks the entire opposite gender is a lost cause. Both are hypocrites on so many topics. Like the other guy said, everyone needs to improve themselves or else nothing will change. If we all just point the finger and blame someone else for the way things are, what will that solve?
Most of these men have been raised by single mothers...men have always had to be protectors & providers ...women gotta do better because most men that have kids can just protect & provide for their kids ...most females don't deserve your life and protection...they're really useless nowadays...always sayn WHAT ABOUT MEN ...like children
I'm 50 and I've had the same motto since I was about 23, how ever she was paying her bills before I can alone ,is how she'll continue to pay them bills 🤷♂️.
Ladies that friend zone guys, those are her backup & fall back guys. When guys lose interest in her & branch off. Men don’t owe her anything, it’s her fault for passing up good guys for the thugs.
The positive note at the end was perfect. Its nice to end off such vitriolic hatred with something a bit loving. God bless that lady and I hope their relationship lasts the ages.
If more western women were like the wife at the end there'd be far fewer passport bros. Hubby works a 14 hour shift meaning he's going to be tired so this level of support goes a long way to show the appreciation of his end of providing for the household goes. Speaking as someone who works similar hours.
Drugs, alcohol, overeating, and other toxic activities have been good friends to many people until they realize those habits are killing them. You were dropped like a bad habit.
I got an ex that still messages me out the blue that she misses me, but when i dont respond, she'll talk shit about me and then end it with "hope your in a better place tho". I almost blocked her but that would show weakness imho and thats what she wants. So i just keep ignoring her, living my life like she dont exist.
@@megamanblack4309 After I broke up with y last girlfriend October, In December I hooked up with another friends with benefit and my ex saw that. I let her see she is NOT ALL THAT! I am a 48 year old man who has his life in order. I break up with someone within a month or even 2 weeks someone else wants me. Blocking is something for 14 year olds like I said. I met a new woman toward Christmas and we are now a could and we spent New year together and my ex saw the pictures I posted of us and she even sent a message to ask if it is my new woman and ....You just live your life and they see you are actually someone she lost
@Phil McCrackin Who's stronger, the guy that avoids going out in public/blocks all access to the outside world in order to not be tempted by women? Or the guy who mingles in the public without a hint of longing/temptation toward women? Who has greater rule over his own spirit?
@Phil McCrackin It's actually the exact same concept. Being able to be in contact with or in the presence of something, without being tempted by it, or it even eliciting a reaction/response from you, is the ultimate show of strength. A former addict knows he's fully recovered when he can be in the presence of alcohol without feeling even the slightest compulsion to drink or taste. Hence why I never block exes/former flings. I just let them rage and howl into the void, and chuckle indifferently. That hurts them even more, when they know you simply don't care to block or avoid them. The opposite of love isn't hate, it's indifference. Just my 2 cents
That's why the Passport bros movement is growing up every single day. I congratulate them and encourage the rest of us to think about that path because western culture is doomed.
She’s mad cause dawg got tired of being friend zoned 😂 these woman want it all it’s wild. You can’t friend zone someone and lead them all expect them to be tired of it
Exactly & she said for decade too 💀💀 like even if the guy used to have feelings for her he probably felt he was wasting his time to wait on her to go to him when her options of men run out he probably realized she was the problem to all her relationships failing & he stop being simp over her & ghosted her slowly with unfollowing her from different social media’s & if she was really into him she would’ve liked him years ago without him waiting 10 years of simping over her
Being in the friend zone is like being interviewed & declined by a company..Then the hiring manager texting you every week telling you about the wrong person they hired.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Great metaphor lol
Pretty much
That freaking funny. But they never want you until the company is going to a shithole.
@@merveilification they can want all they want, the key as man is not enabling it.
She's not hurt cause she lost her friend, nah. She's upset cause she lost that source of attention, that shoulder to cry on, that sure thing good guy she could fall on.
Facts!
Aka USED HIM for his>>emotional intelligence quality's, but wasn't physically attracted to him, i.e wasn't giving him no snatch for his troubles, & efforts in comforting, & being their for her in her "toughest times" as she self admittedly said herself ahah facts lmao!
Now she's Mad bkz she can't have the best of BOTH worlds. I. e 2be fkn, giving her snatch away to a Nga who could give chyt less about her. Then still USE the one who clearly does care, I.e the ex male friend who ghosted her on all his socials after he found a REAL woman who appreciated him bkz she was stalling him on the coochie play & mad he wouldn't let her keep using/ keep him >>in the FZ on God lol smh.
These modern women, namely BLACK bkz that's who the majority of we BM deal with got life fk up thinking they can use 3, 4, 5, 6, 7 different BM to add up to the one whole Man of their delusional dreams aahah smh
Them days, aka SIMP culture days are over #PassportBros #BlueBookGentleMan ! Lol
Exactly 💯!
I personally think that until the guys side of the story is heard we can't really tell if she was genuinely good friends, or he was just a guy she was using as attention
That dude is focusing on himself and making money that what’s she get😂
A woman who places a guy friend in the "friend zone" will ALWAYS become jealous when she realize he has options too. Some women can't handle coming in second place to a marathon race they started.
Women have a fragile ego
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If you not getting nothing And she’s not your girl There is no point of even entertaining her Why should you use your resources just to be friend zoned just to be used as a utility or a tissue guy wake up Men
BIG FACTS!
As strange as it may sound, for some women its another form of rejection.
"If you want to take a woman out to dinner, cash app her $200 before to show you're serious." There's a name for that: prostitution 🤣
I like how the wife took the time to make her hubby’s meals & left him an encouraging love note. It’s the sweetest! That’s a good woman! 🥰
yea she really is def got a good one
But what about the cold uncooked, Oatmeal in that bowl@@TyWerks
It's the little things, that count.
She didn’t lose a “best friend” she lost her plan B in life once she hits that wall after getting her back blown out multiple times.
True. All of them have a plan B.
I agree
Plan B 😂… you ain’t lie baby! He’s the back up plan once she hit the wall but by then the good guy is long GONE 😂
Exactly
"countless times"
Regarding the friendzone chick this is fantastic timing. I literally just talked to a friend about this 2 days ago. She isn't really a "friend" as much as a friend I know through my last job. We worked together for years and would chat etc. She hired me to do some work around her house and while I was painting the bathroom we were chatting and she said that it seems all the good men were either taken or gay and asked my opinion on why she is having such a hard time "finding a man". I looked her dead in the face and asked her if she REALLY wanted to know and she said she absolutely did. I told her straight up that if she truly wanted to find a good man that wanted to be with HER then she has to stop looking in all the same places and start looking in her friendzone because that is the ONLY place she will find a guy who likes her for her and that she will like back. A few hours later when I was packing up to leave she told me that she had been thinking about it and that I was totally right and there is this one guy she has been friends with for a couple of years that she could see herself with. Yesterday when I went back to finish up the painting she told me that she called him and asked him out and they have an official date set for this weekend. She said she NEVER would have even thought that a guy she was "friends" with could be someone she would spend her life with but she can see how she was wrong for so long. We might actually have converted one here guys.
UPDATE: She called me last night and told he proposed to her on Dec 23. She is incredibly happy and said this is the best present she could have ever hoped for. They are a really good couple and compliment each other very well. So ladies....if you're tired of being alone or wondering where all the good guys are it's time to stop playing the victim card and realize that the right guy might already be right there.
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Doubtful. I need more info, though. How old is she? Because if she in the "epiphany phase" (late 20s and over) it really doesn't count because that's why they have the friendzone to begin with. To go into once they're on the wrong side of 30 when Chad and Tyrone no longer want them.
Shoutout to you my guy, the wordplay swooned her
Damn…I thought she was gonna pick you homie 😂
she can only put a man in a friend zone for so long before he loses interest and notices she's not feeling him so he moves on to the next one which is the best thing to do!
Exactly
@@Abcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz0000 Because she thought they were friends and the dude wanted things to move forward. In most causes, single men and single women don't make good friends. No doubt the dude bent over backwards helping her, validating her, and caring for her only for her to string him along. It was no doubt obvious he had feelings but she completely ignored them.
The only thing the dude did wrong was that he ghosted. But at the same time I understand. She would likely have continued to try to string him along.
@@LaFonteCheVi she likely strung him along, always asking for favours and help , like moving. Had to end sometime.
You'd be surprised how many "long-term simps" there are.
Truth 👍
The men that get friend zoned and end up finding LOVE are my FAVORITE stories to hear. I don’t feel bad for the chicks that lost out on a good catch. I know what it feels like to be friend zoned. Shoot, hate to say it but CITY BOYS UP 2023 👏👏👏❤️
A women saying this ? Lol
The "friendzone" is the kiss of death to the relationship you were pursuing!
@@m_jay5 totally deflating 🎈
@@pezzysquad
Is she not allowed to disagree with other women just because she is one?
@@utopian4769 she allowed to say whatever she wants In America lol
FOR WOMEN, "friend" is just someone she can MOOCH off of when she needs something.
Those type of women are broke dusty begging bums.
Facts
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Sex as well. But will never be her one and only, or at least her main 1.
they don't even really care about one another. why would they care about us?
I truly believe it's the simps and panderers to blame for these delusional and entitled modern women!
True
theres always been simps and panderers. why is it hard for yall to put responsibility on grown ass women?
All men lie to women out of convenience. All men need to stop it - especially the players and men women actually spend the most time with. And the "simps" rarely spend time with women like that so...who's really to blame?
It isn't the simps those are dudes who adapted to get puddy instead of being real.
Women will respect you especially when you diss their request for certain things just to have their company which in turn a real man will pass and call someone else which is true pimping.
When you leave a bitch with no real plans, she'll remember that the next time she's fking with you because it hurts more to be rejected by a dude she thought she could work over for her benefit 💯
Trust ,I have had women in the past tell me they regretted trying to be greedy and that in a nutshell humbles them more than you know......
Drake.
For the first video, respect that man. None of us want a woman that can be convinced it is acceptable to ask for $200 deposit. This makes it real easy to weed out the modern women
I would really appreciate they come upfront so you can walk away very soon and not after spending on the date.
I guarentee you she though he would "REAPPROACH" IT, and this time IT will say Yes..... because it is Desperate. LoL
Glad you made this comment, i didn't really understand what she meant.
Yeah if she ready to drop off that puhssi right behind it
Why does it have to be money? Yall don't have shit to give nobody. Why you think someone wants to go into they bank account and give somebody some of there hard earned money. You gone lose everytime with that. By the time your son becomes an adult it will be a 1000 dollar deposit. You cool with that?
The love that woman put into making that lunch literally almost made me shed a tear. It was so beautiful 😂😂
Seriously, when she finished that BLT sub with the note inside, I started getting a little misty.
lol I thought I was the only one.
Hope is not lost bros!!!
I ain't trying to but it's hard not to.
The overnight oats alone already looked good but the rest exceeded the previous.
The woman that made her man breakfast, lunch, and dinner for his long shift is very much appreciated for showing her appreciation for his hard work
But what is he going to do with that, bowl of Cold, dry Oatmeal, with the fruit, That is not edible. Lol
@@chriswhorton7050 you may not want to eat it but I'm sure she knows what he will or will not eat. Have your person cook you what you want.
Feeding people is how I show love. I get up with my man at 5 am and make his breakfast and lunch. It’s weird this isn’t normal anymore
Man my heart goes out to the guy with the 14 hour shift. I know what it’s like when you’re about to have a bad day or week. That dread that comes the night before knowing it’s about to hit. Having support like his wife makes all the difference.
For the woman that got ghosted by her best friend, she's mad her back up plan ain't waiting for her no more. No man just wants to be your friend , they're just waiting to hit. Some will wait longer than others.
I technically friendzone women sometimes. But only because it helps me find more bros and gym bros. I used to have a best friend that was a girl but left her because she was crazy into magic stuff and even attempted a ritual. Point is, it is possible but it has to be a very special case. Like a actual woman with respect that both of us aren't interested in each other
Bingo!
Don't spread that bs I got plenty of female friends I have no desire to fuck at all nor date and they aren't ugly women
@@25sumpter ok girlfriend.
@@scottmartin1088 you are why some women see men as nothing more than paychecks. So because I can find genuine friendship with no ulterior motives. I'm a girl now? 😂 I see
"It was too easy for you to dispose of me. Hurts."
*WELCOME TO LITERALLY EVERY MAN'S WORLD LMFAO!!!*
That guy that escaped the friend zone got red pilled. He has no contact with reality before but got a reality check in front of the mirror and decided to act right. That is how to get down as a man. Don't allow people who are not into you use you.
If you're man and you're in the friendzone. You are there for a reason. A good one, too. You cannot handle that woman if she said yes to you, really, you can't. Your girl will come one day and you will be thankful you never got involved with that girl who is friendzoning you. You will soon see just how messed she is. It's actually a blessing in disguise.
She's upset about the ending of the free validation, attention and the fact that he finally cut off the string between the two of them. Now she has to work for the attention, validation and to get someone else to pay attention to her. Even the "friend zone" guy is going to wake up and walk away from her because he gets tired of being alone with nothing to show for his efforts. His male friends probably told him to stop simping and move on with his life and he finally listened.
I don,t even care if she,s upset either for she only cares about attention & validation biggest red flag.
Yea that's very true because you have some females that are sick in the head like that they'll feed for attention and validation from guys and text dudes back and forth all night knowing they don't have any intentions of doing anything with the guy
I love that last clip of the woman making her man's lunch. I appreciate you ending on a good note, so we know there are still good women out there.
She probably made it for herself and pretended it was for a guy. The internet can be deceitful.
@@jeffghant4760 🤣
That lunched looked FIRE to bro. She didn't just MAKE him any ole kind of lunch either. It was made with gratitude, appreciation, care & real LOVE that she has for him. HOW she made It was actually more Important than WHAT she made for him facts.
It was done with attention to DETAIL of what her husband really enjoyed to eat. Not just giving him ANY damn thing to eat. She wanted to bring a smile, comfort & a true sense of being a supporting, loving wife so he knows he's truly RESPECTED firstly, loved, & cared for as well appreciated as I aforementioned.
Great fkn pick, choice by him facts! And she is a GREATER Woman for doing what she should be doing as his counterpart which Is TAKING CARE OF HIS needs as a Man on her end.
Couldn't ask for, nor pay for a better wife/help mate facts on God. That's what impressed me the most about her. U can tell that she would NEVER CHEAT on him, and that she would literally k1ll for that Man real speal.
@@jeffghant4760 your probably that one pessimistic dude that cannot read when a girl is bad and u keep falling for it so u think all are bad, women can be great and this one I personally think that was very kind and caring to do for her husband and actually working hard to make it. She seems genuine about the relationship and actually likes the guy not for his job, but for who he is.
I love that she made this for her man, but she put dressing on a sandwich that will be soggy the next day. Things like that you have to put in a separate container as well as putting the lettuce on the salad with the other stuff it will be so soggy. But then again I'm very particular on how I pack my man's lunch.
Shout out to the woman that takes the time to make sure her man has a good meal during a hard day at work. Whether you made it or brought it to him, it means so much to him and he definitely feels his woman cares for him. For the "Modern Woman" that doesn't do these small things....enjoy your loneliness and cats at age 40+!
That dude is in the 1% I’m happy he found a good one
Man that last clip is a genuine response from a woman who loves and respects her husband. It'd be nice to see more of those heavenly gestures.
Get your passport most American women don’t take care of their husbands like that
I had 2 women try to put me in the friend zone. I told both of them I already had 3 sisters, I didn’t need another one. Never settle for friend zone brothers. If she is not into romantically, leave her be. Go back to school, find a church or club that you’re into. The right woman will find you.
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@tshadow6 The only further contact a woman who puts me in the friendzone will get is NO CONTACT!
She was using him for boyfriend lite ..... and now she don't have that crutch to help her with dealing with Chad clapping her cheeks and nothing else... he was doing all that other stuff for her that Chad won't.... now she has to ask Chad for it and she knows he will say no
Truth
Factamundo 💯
Facts ‼️
I’m using this on god “nigga you boyfriend life you not her best friend” 💀💀
Frankly - women make terrible friends for a man. I had a homegirl from highschool till about 20 years old until I abruptly cut it off after a mind-numbingly foolish argument about me talking to girls at the mall when all of us went to the movies the day before (myself, her and another brother). A week later, she had my own mother call me and ask me if everything was alright smh. She had found my mother's number at the hospital (RN)! It was the culmination of so much needless drama involving her over the years. You WILL become an emotional tampon eventually if you're "friends" with women.
Even in the Bible, somewhere in the 42nd chapter of Ecclesiasticus if I recall correctly, God says "sit not in the midst of women" lol.
nigga that just means you picked a bad person to be your friend LMAO.
That story portrays her in a bad light bc she's insane and it paints u in an even worse one bc u stayed being her emotional tampon and continued to be in a bad relationship 🤣🤣🤣
Ecclesiasticus 42:12 Apocrypha KJV.
@@One_of_Many750 Toda robah brethren
@@shawnmendrek3544 Agreed, and I have FOUR sisters, so I really don't NEED female friends lol. I have enough to handle!
It's like I tell people it's probably why I'm single at 39, I have two older and two younger sisters, I've put up with endless female BS as the baby brother, the middle child, and the big brother, I don't take shit from them and I have almost 40 years of practice ignoring women crying to get their way lol.
Yeah my story is somewhat similar lol. I had about 4 close female friends until maybe 22. The amount of effort you have to put in to remain friends with females gets taxing and for me I always ended up as this pseudo boyfriend replacement which is weird when y’all aren’t smashing lol. Sad cause I don’t need to smash every women I’m around either.
Good for him. I'm glad he finally moved on. Of course if a woman keeps a man in the friend zone for over a decade then he's going to finally move on. What else can she expect? She expects him to follow her around like a puppy dog for the rest of his days and have her back while she won't even give him anything of substance in return?
Friend zone for over a decade ??? That man's a-FOOL.Pure and simple. SUPER-SIMP.
Yup
Friend zone mean take the friendship or fucking move on.
yes.
You've got to know when to hold 'em
Know when to fold 'em
Know when to walk away
And know when to run.
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You never count your money, when sitting at the table
Ok Kenny Rogers😂😂😂
This girl doesn't even deserve to be a friend if she talks about who he is seeing someone else like that. The disrespect...she can stay bitter by herself. He dodged a bullet by avoiding her and silently letting her go.
That last clip was so beautiful I damn near cried. Her husband is truly blessed because that woman is heaven sent
That is a woman who adds to your life, not just take from you.
As someone not from the US, I was horrified what passes as cooking nowadays in America.
i'm proud of the bro who graduated from friendzone he should have done that sooner but still better late than never
But the chick had to be reminded and if a chick puts me in friendzone let’s keep it that way, it’s when they get older and desperate with less options they start to look in the friend zone😂
Smash nd move man
@@stifler5062Most guys in the friends zone never smash especially she isn't sexual attracted to you flee as fast as you can.
We all get stuck in the friendzone at one point or another. Ironically, most of the time I left the friendzone I get that random message saying Hey how are you from the person who put me there. Or they get mad at me for being selfish and ignoring them.
@@krhawkins91fr Idk why some people think one day out of the blue she will magically want to have sex with a guy she friendzoned 😂😂😂😂😂😂
YOUR POSITIVE NOTE WAS WONDERFUL ....THANKS FOR THE WHOLE VIDEO...
The last video reminds me of my wife. Glad there are others out there like that. This treatment is exclusive. My wife teaches college courses in the evening so I told her I'll meal prep our dinner meals so she won't have to much on her plate
I almost got emotional with the last lady 🥺....I got one just like that, I know how that brother feels..... it's a beautiful thing.
Happy tears😭
Peace to you brother Im still looking for her
LUCKY Man/MEN. Wish I had that. I'm 48 years old and have never, I repeat NEVER EXPERIENCED such treatment In my entire life by NO WOMAN, not even my own mother as a BLACK American Man facts.
It's a very SAD, & a damned SHAME that I as a Man have NEVER experience such gratification In dealing with all my MANY various relationships I;'ve had over the years with BLACK women.
Now when I dated WHITE/non BW they weren't as selfish as you saw In this video. So I have had a WIFF Of what it could be like but those relationships with the non bw I wasn't as INVESTED, & neither were they to be honest so It's kool
But I at least EXPECT better treatment from my own race women. But unfortunately they've been TAUGHT to NOT give us that simple gratification & basic, yet essential pleasure as a Man facts.
Black AmeriKKKan women think If she gave you some coochie last week, or 2 weeks ago then she's good on God ahah. Black AmeriKKKan women don't even want to give you sexual release pleasure knowing damn well that It's essential to we Men's DRIVE, attitude, motivation element to PROVIDE facts
Yet they DENY us as BM that very simple gesture & pleasure for whatever reason that Is smdh. Well we (BM) all know WHY. It's bkz they don't in their heart of hearts believe that we DESERVE IT. Even when we are GOOD, HONEST, UPSTANDING, HARD WORKING BM.
And that's bkz the DEFAMATORY NEGATIVE STEREOTYPE that Is projected, taught, & handed down from generation to generation of AmeriKKKan BW is to DEGRADE, DEVALUE, & DEPISE, & DISPARAGE us as Am BM regardless to how GOOD of Men we are.
The point is to ALWAYS PROOVE that YOU are not, will never be WORTH doing that for. & YOUR worth as a BM will NEVER be more valuable than hers as a Am BW. They feel that WE should feel LUCKY just to be dealing with them for whatever ARROGANT reasons that they have unfortunately for US.
The woman making the guys lunch...seriously, almost brought a tear to my eyes. That's a woman among women right there. Well done, my brother, well done.
lol that is a normal thing in africa
@@johnmanni227 the thing about Africa & most third world countries is that majority of women are more feminine & they depend on working men to provide for them, it’s not like the USA where a street chick can be independent & women in the usa are not as feminine
the instagram one brought a tear to my eyes 😂
@@johnmanni227same in the caribbean
The problem with friend zone is that it's based on spending time. Men eventually grow up and realize that women benefit from using their male friends time way more than men benefit from using their female friends time. Men will always begin to question the benefit of platonic female friends.
Nah the problem with friend zone is a lot of dudes are just pathetic and think they can fake friend their way into some panties. It's actually a good thing to be in the friend zone. Im 39 and learned that when I was like 13-14. I've always kept female friends and because of that I've always had an insight that many guys don't have. As a man, you need female friends. Not just females you know. Genuine friends for real. A lot of dudes just corn balls honestly. I thank God I always had close female friends growing up and still to this day.
@@culcre You have no idea what you could've been if those female friends weren't taking your time. You're underestimating how valuable your time is as a man. In less than 200 years, men who kept the company of other men took humanity from riding horseback to space travel. There are no groups of women who have achieved similar things. So unless you are around women for the sake of spreading your seed, you are wasting your time literally.
@@culcreMen don’t female friends. Even females admit that they prefer having male friends compared to female friends. Male friends usually offer more logic and offer physical protection and help. And while you can call those men pathetic, the rest of us can call those women greedy parasites who will most likely sleep with one of those “friends” if her boyfriend makes her mad enough.
@@shayla106You missed my point my dear. I said it's good to be genuinely friends with women. GENUINELY! It's pathetic if a dude is being a FAKE friend just in hopes of gaining intimacy. As you said, be a real friend. Protect her, offer your logic & wisdom. Because she's your friend. Not just cause she's attractive and you want intimacy.
@@culcre and you missed his point sunshine. In a platonic friendship between genders women extract all the resources they can from guys and offer nothing in return. So its not good to have a female friend in this sense. Not unless you literally friendzoned her before she got a chance to friendzone you. They take and take and take and give nothing back. Anything a female friend can give you a male friend can give you. The poster you responded to was making a point that even women prefer to have male friends over female friends because they get little from their female friends.
“SMILE AND THANK YOU” just a little gratitude can take you a very long way
Love the spray on eyebrows😂😂
he stopped talking to her because he got a girlfriend and he is showing her respect by not talking to other women.
BINGO!!
I got friend zoned and I won't go thru it again lol I lived and learn now she got 6 kids by 3 different dudes I am blessed
Over 90% of married men will never know what it feels like to be truly loved by a woman.
Oh They KNOW what it feels like...they just dont seem to end up marrying the ONE that really loved them like that
....and don't care women play too many games like a kid
@@BadTV1993
In the Black community, it’s hard to find a wife because all that’s around is just 304s, side chicks and baby mamas.
@@afroroach9701 sometimes you have to direct your eyes to other places.
@@BadTV1993 that only comes from their mothers. And that's IF she's a half decent human being.
Hey Mr N Charge, the more of your videos i click on I get more enlightened by seeing some of these individuals action and reactions. You always got good thoughts and openion. Keep the videos coming.
They get soo mad this girl friend zoned me and I just fell back stopped messaging and calling. Months later I get a message like “where you been weirdo”. I replied in the gym and let it there.
Yea that was real disgusting. Judging by how mad she was She knew she wonted him as her future husband after she was done sleeping around in another several years. Her plan was to keep him in the friend zone at all cost. He was smart not to tell her he met someone else and delete her because he knew once a woman who has you in the friend zone find out your dating someone they will pretend to won't to be with you now until she can break up your new relationship with the other woman then put you back in the friend zone.And will keep doing that until she's ready to settle down.
Oh hell naw. Any women that do that ain’t worth it
@@hiddendragon1001 All woman that put men in a friend zone will do that. Just tell one you met another girl and watch how friendly they get. That guy made very wise moves thats why shes so made he didnt leave her no ways to play with his life
@@Dee-qo7gh this friendzone is just teen games. As adults we gotta stop that. If you like someone, say it. If not then make it clear.
@@hiddendragon1001 Facts they the ones always saying men are always lying and playing games. When they have girl code/friendzone and the best manipulation tactics in the universe. which is so secretive men have been ban for speaking on it.
This is why I don't trust women
The First young lady Said It Best!!! Great Clip Much Respect
A broken clock is right twice a day. There are dozens of her other tic Tic toks where it's just straight foolishness.
@@chesterhardy8103 that’s so unfortunate
My man got himself out of the friendzone by final wising up that he was never going to get any from her so he moved on.
Hell took him long enough
the instagram one is the best 😂
How long would you wait as a friend
Thank you for the lunch idea. I will be making that for my wonderful husband 💗
That blue check bit had me dying 🤣🤣
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I dont even comment on videos, but out of all the youtubers Ive seen make content like this, you really set yourself apart from others by adding in touching clips. I sometimes get caught up in the negativity of the women in the clios so its nice to see clips in between that remind us all that Male happiness is the goal of content like this. I just subbed.
I appreciate that!
To the BLT girl: We all love you and what you represent!
I like the positive note at the end. It is one thing for us to be critical of things, but it is also important to show the opposite sex what us guys do appreciate too.
Having a nice meal made by our significant other can mean so much to us, especially if we are having a hard day at work :)
Cringiest clip was the girl freaking out over losing her “blue check mark.” Very unprofessional. If this is how she makes money you would think she would handle that situation much better
The blue the check mark 😂😂 shit is hilarioussssss
"little" I hate that, I'm so glad you brought that up
Ya little Art thaing
The woman mad about the guy friend said she talked to him a week before. Maybe she said something to him that made him block her like bringing up his little new gf as she put it. If she wanted him to stick around for life then maybe she should have tried to date him instead of friend him.
Yeah, she definitely said something terrible. And acting all innocent.
Backup plan!😂😂
That is one way to look at it. Another is that he slowly blocked her to see if she noticed and they could have a conversation about it. And to me anyway it is obvious it didnt mean anything to her until the well was completely dry. Someone redpilled him and he had to give her one final chance before he moved on.
Thank you for finishing with a positive note! There’s a whole lot of selfish women out there but there’s also women who show up for their husbands and it’s nice to see both sides ❤️❤️❤️
The instagram girl said she worked hard for her account 😂
😂😂😂😂
The ex friend zone guy realized finally that it wasn't a balanced friendship & his efforts wasn't worth it anymore. She finally realized that she wasn't indispensable....
Friend zone has a Short Shelf Life. Sell By and Use By.
When a girl says she "supported and backed" her friend for years she means she scrounged off of him for years, always asking for favors, for help, for loans, for rides, to pay for drinks the way a date should, to fix things, to repair things....
I can throughout my 20s remember not asking a single person for absolutely anything whereas my girl "friends" asked me for any and everything on the planet. She didn't lose a friend. She lost a backup free handyman, repairman, wallet and so called support system that she couldn't care less about.
There are still women out here who are traditional, submissive and kind. Thank you Charles for this platform. Women need to have the mirror held up to their faces and they need to be accountable.
Wonder where those women are because amongst us men who have our shit together, they seem to not exist. At least not in our community.
where? Somalia?
The problem is they don’t believe we still exist because the ones that are the loudest aren’t us🤷🏽♀️💯
The vast majority of them live on the other side of the ocean!
And most of said traditional women are just pretending until they can entrap good men. Not saying real ones don't exist, just saying that we're talking about small fractions of small fractions here.
If there’s no love “lost”, why she sweatin’ him? He damn sure ain’t sweatin’ HER. 😂
This is exactly why men should only have female associates and not friends. As a man you decide whether you want to be in the "friend zone". I ask a simple question: "What are you looking for?". If she can't answer that or it's not the right answer, I bounce.
True jewelz
Facts… Ppl tell on themselves. All you gotta do is silence the noise and listen
Man… that lady making that man lunch literally brought a tear to my eye. Im glad at least one man gets to experience this..
She shouldn't be mad she didn't want him maybe somebody else did and he's focused on his new lady
They're addicted to attention. Doesn't surprise mee
@@FranJav507 true and she's not getting it anymore
@@FranJav507 true and she's not getting it anymore
7:45 why should any man with a functional brain care about someone who friendzoned him? Lmao
Exactly that friendzone don’t matter when you getting game first hand how women act. Yes it comes a time to cut them off for different reasons. But if you get women it’s not the seriously unless you find out she trying to keep you as a backup plan which most is their plan. But as a man you get resources too out of them it don’t have to be sex and move on when you mature to show them they missed out
The chick in the bonnet thought she was gone keep Buddy on the side lines while she was getting through her 304 phase. She thought buddy was gone be her fall back guy… The hurt comes from her having it all planned out in her head..
Wake up men. Change the locks and be happy
My heart hurts for the future for my son(s) if a woman cooking for her man and leaving him a love note is a lost art being celebrated. I do this for my husband and son ( another son on the way god is good) everyday. Breakfast lunch snacks you name it. Shoot I have two male dogs that get homemade meals and I hold down a career of my own. I proudly say to anyone it’s my pleasure to take care of all my boys I love them and want them to feel that. I don’t understand how that has become a bad thing.
Feminism and birth control that why.
When a man is half way true his 14-hour shift and he see that little note it's going to motivate and push him through the rest of his work day.
The clips of the christian couple who are saving themselves for marriage and the woman who was making lunch for her husband is everything for me.
I loved very cute and pure
I dated a Christian girl and out of respect I never touched her and the bitch said i wasn’t into her 😂
Me too.
The positive note is cool cause it does get depressing constantly seeing ow women treat men. On one side it is good for awareness, but on the other it sucks seeing how so many feel about us
I love the video of a positive note ending because it was a very inspirational and allowed me to see there still good women out here
I actually understand how the girl that lost Mr Friendzone feels on one hand. He ghosted her. That is the most cowardly way to walk away from someone. On the other hand she misses having easy access to him. I'd bet good money that he had beyond friendship feelings for her and got tired of those feelings not being reciprocated. The freindzone is usually not voluntary it's forced. Both men and women alike need to stop allowing themselves to be friend zoned when they have feelings for the person. The friendship will always feel one-sided.
@Cedric Holand like Kevin Samuels would say she is not owed understanding
If she didn’t want to get ghosted she should have been more up front about how she’s never going to give him any and he’s wasting his time. You want communication, then you better communicate too!
He probably gave her one last chance by slowly blocking her on everything to see if she would notice but she didn't care until the well was dry
a man must never put himself in that position. shes knows exactly exactly exactly how you feel. toying with you is like breathing. man up and get out of there immediately
@@christopherholt-barrett2528 FACTS!!!
2:58 “the only things that are loved unconditionally are kids, dogs, and women. A man is only loved under the condition that he can provide something.”- a great comedian (although I may have misquoted him)
@moabite sounds yep
Not the exact quote but close enough. And I’ll take it a step further and say even when a man is providing something, he usually still isn’t even loved then. He’s just tolerated on the basis of him providing something.
Women gotta do better
Everyone needs to tbh
Men and women do the exact same things, just in slightly different ways. Both have unrealistic expectations and get frustrated when their unicorn isn't standing around every corner waiting for them. Neither fully respects/understands the other and thinks the entire opposite gender is a lost cause. Both are hypocrites on so many topics. Like the other guy said, everyone needs to improve themselves or else nothing will change. If we all just point the finger and blame someone else for the way things are, what will that solve?
We all do honestly. A lot of us men can do some improvement
Most of these men have been raised by single mothers...men have always had to be protectors & providers ...women gotta do better because most men that have kids can just protect & provide for their kids ...most females don't deserve your life and protection...they're really useless nowadays...always sayn WHAT ABOUT MEN ...like children
They won't, don't hold your breath for them
One cussed me yesterday for ignoring her. I laughed and kept on Rollin.
He doesn't owe you ANYTHING!
I'm 50 and I've had the same motto since I was about 23, how ever she was paying her bills before I can alone ,is how she'll continue to pay them bills 🤷♂️.
Facts
What's sad is that we live in a world where being an IG model is considered an occupation... Some people's kids, I swear, SMH!
Ladies that friend zone guys, those are her backup & fall back guys. When guys lose interest in her & branch off.
Men don’t owe her anything, it’s her fault for passing up good guys for the thugs.
The positive note at the end was perfect. Its nice to end off such vitriolic hatred with something a bit loving. God bless that lady and I hope their relationship lasts the ages.
If more western women were like the wife at the end there'd be far fewer passport bros. Hubby works a 14 hour shift meaning he's going to be tired so this level of support goes a long way to show the appreciation of his end of providing for the household goes. Speaking as someone who works similar hours.
Straight up, sis. Trick
Drugs, alcohol, overeating, and other toxic activities have been good friends to many people until they realize those habits are killing them. You were dropped like a bad habit.
He got tired of catering to her and her playing him like he not important to her or worth something she should want
That checkmark is her whole identity. It’s pathetic man stay humble people.
I got an ex that still messages me out the blue that she misses me, but when i dont respond, she'll talk shit about me and then end it with "hope your in a better place tho". I almost blocked her but that would show weakness imho and thats what she wants. So i just keep ignoring her, living my life like she dont exist.
@Phil McCrackin Blocking is for 14 year olds. Just ignoring her will suffice. It touches home! Let her wallow in the silence. Adults do that
@@jojothepolyglot1866 Blocking shit works.
@@megamanblack4309 After I broke up with y last girlfriend October, In December I hooked up with another friends with benefit and my ex saw that. I let her see she is NOT ALL THAT! I am a 48 year old man who has his life in order. I break up with someone within a month or even 2 weeks someone else wants me. Blocking is something for 14 year olds like I said. I met a new woman toward Christmas and we are now a could and we spent New year together and my ex saw the pictures I posted of us and she even sent a message to ask if it is my new woman and ....You just live your life and they see you are actually someone she lost
@Phil McCrackin Who's stronger, the guy that avoids going out in public/blocks all access to the outside world in order to not be tempted by women? Or the guy who mingles in the public without a hint of longing/temptation toward women? Who has greater rule over his own spirit?
@Phil McCrackin It's actually the exact same concept. Being able to be in contact with or in the presence of something, without being tempted by it, or it even eliciting a reaction/response from you, is the ultimate show of strength.
A former addict knows he's fully recovered when he can be in the presence of alcohol without feeling even the slightest compulsion to drink or taste.
Hence why I never block exes/former flings. I just let them rage and howl into the void, and chuckle indifferently. That hurts them even more, when they know you simply don't care to block or avoid them. The opposite of love isn't hate, it's indifference. Just my 2 cents
😆TIME
TIME
TIME
ain’t on your side.
I love that positive bit of video at the end. She’s so good.
The second to last got as ride awakening. The last lady is doing right by her man and it's great to see it
That's why the Passport bros movement is growing up every single day. I congratulate them and encourage the rest of us to think about that path because western culture is doomed.
@@Abcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz0000 Go Abroad get a traditional woman and never came Back to US.
Yes totally agree. Men get your passports!
Yea and them men is getting played
Western culture sucks no wonder why I prefer my options overseas.
@@Will.Flavell and u gonna get played the same
That's an easy answer he respects his new girlfriend so he won't be talking hanging around or thinking about another woman that isn't his girlfriend.
I love how your videos end on a positive note. That last bit was so lovely
thank you for the video
That pandering guy on tiktok needs his first and last name written in the death note
Lmao sheesh 😂but Kool anime though.
🤣😂🤣 yoooooo
His name is pastorpapidon
She’s mad cause dawg got tired of being friend zoned 😂 these woman want it all it’s wild. You can’t friend zone someone and lead them all expect them to be tired of it
Exactly & she said for decade too 💀💀 like even if the guy used to have feelings for her he probably felt he was wasting his time to wait on her to go to him when her options of men run out he probably realized she was the problem to all her relationships failing & he stop being simp over her & ghosted her slowly with unfollowing her from different social media’s & if she was really into him she would’ve liked him years ago without him waiting 10 years of simping over her
I pray for every man out there to find a wife as dedicated as she is at the end of the video. May we all find the best other half there is
That's one hell of a lunch.
Dude got out the friend zone 😂😂😂😂