5 THINGS that make WOMEN WILDLY attached to a man (Even OBSESSED)

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  • @CaseyZander
    @CaseyZander  Рік тому +108

    Attract and Keep the WOMEN you want using MBT Below!🔥
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  • @buffalosolider206
    @buffalosolider206 9 місяців тому +481

    Key points:
    1. The Possibility of Commitment: Men who frame themselves as potentially attainable are more attractive to women than men who are quick to commit or out of reach altogether. This creates a "what if" factor that excites women and makes them want to pursue the relationship.
    2. Making Your Attention Like a Drug: Treat women well and make your attention scarce. This creates value and makes women crave your presence. Be present in the moment and avoid texting or calling excessively.
    3. Weaponize Silence: Silence can build tension and intrigue. Let comfortable silences exist to make your words more impactful when you do speak.
    4. Small Concessions and Yes Commitment: Get women to say "yes" to small requests and favors to build investment and subtly lead them into your frame. This creates a sense of progress and commitment in the relationship.
    5. Create Real Narrative: Pay attention to and appreciate women's personalities. Tell them what you like about them and how you connect with them. This builds a deeper connection and makes them feel valued beyond their looks.

  • @Ziggler-ky9kv
    @Ziggler-ky9kv 4 місяці тому +2261

    There's a book called Casanova Playbook of Magnetism, and it talks from body language and conversaton starters to dark mind tricks and flirting through texts, it's the real deal

    • @J0VIN
      @J0VIN 3 місяці тому +1

      where do you get it?? (for free 🥲)

    • @ijeshwardhillon4927
      @ijeshwardhillon4927 Місяць тому +3

      That's the problem everyone is giving the mind set and strategies but no one's giving the actual example of words and tone..that's why we are seeing masses of men exceed in fitness and finance but still having problem with game and charm because they need real life examples some people learn better by watching then practical

    • @ivanribnikov2001
      @ivanribnikov2001 Місяць тому +8

      Stop peddling this book on all videos.

    • @DaeGame101
      @DaeGame101 11 днів тому

      ​@@ijeshwardhillon4927 Well I've definitely got the charm part..

  • @MikeJrCruz23
    @MikeJrCruz23 Рік тому +1366

    1) What If "The Possibility of Committing"
    2) Make your Attention like a Drug/Treat Women Well
    3) Use Scilence in your Favor allows her to think what to say next which also gives your Words more Power
    4) Small Concessions that Creates yes Commitments for her towards you
    5) Creating REAL Narrative
    Bonus Tip : Only use these Techniques on Women you are genuinely interested in, Any other reason is Pure Manipulation
    USE THESE METHODS FOR GOOD FELLAS 🏆💯

  • @iaintevengonholdyou
    @iaintevengonholdyou 8 місяців тому +1043

    I’m gonna use this for evil

    • @Colorado303Adventures
      @Colorado303Adventures 6 місяців тому +31

      Nice 😊

    • @mercenarybeast8424
      @mercenarybeast8424 5 місяців тому +87

      This is the funniest thing I read all day thanks for this.

    • @voodoo7897
      @voodoo7897 5 місяців тому +24

      Then evil is all you gonna meet

    • @Colorado303Adventures
      @Colorado303Adventures 5 місяців тому

      @voodoo7897 Pretty sure it doesn't work that way, and even if so who cares. We're about getting the ladies and taking the red pill 💊 and not being a pussy

    • @mercenarybeast8424
      @mercenarybeast8424 5 місяців тому +32

      It's seriously feels like a joke why are people so serious lol. This comment is so funny because it literally straight to the point rejects the idea of what the creators asks lol. I can't stop laughing. How subtle but powerful it is.

  • @marklowe7431
    @marklowe7431 Рік тому +392

    Finally. Treating women like shit isn't right. Just ignore women who are toxic. The good ones, treat them well. This is not manipulative, it's just positive feedback. This is the best video I've watched for a long time. Constructive and for good not nasty and destructive. Great work Casey.

    • @terranman4702
      @terranman4702 Рік тому +12

      But the toxic ones are the only ones pretending to give a shit about me 😂

    • @JuanMoreno-wo5yb
      @JuanMoreno-wo5yb Рік тому

      @@terranman4702
      Bingo!!! I like this gal who was good to me and we went out and then she called me later but my phone was off and I didn’t get the call and meanwhile I watched some video about ignoring her and then she was mad that I didn’t answer the phone and seems like she doesn’t believe I had my phone off 😮. I am back to ignoring her and seeing what that does. 😢 maybe she was calling to say let’s go out again or let’s forget about it all!! Dang if I know?!?!?

    • @جنجالی
      @جنجالی 11 місяців тому +7

      You can not treat a woman like shit, because she will leave you

    • @cuthisface
      @cuthisface 10 місяців тому

      @@terranman4702toxic women are good at manipulation hence why they're good at pretending.
      i be thanking god that i went through that when I was young cuz u learn from mistakes😂 easy to sense a toxic woman now

    • @googlegmail9888
      @googlegmail9888 9 місяців тому

      @@terranman4702your toxic

  • @krishna335
    @krishna335 3 місяці тому +3

    - Not giving a F about her existence
    - Being genuinely focused on your career, finances, and health
    - Not being hesitant to walk away if there's disrespect or lack of reciprocation
    - Being confident in terms of what you bring to the table, and never settling for less
    - Attracting what is meant to be yours instead of chasing what isn't

  • @caseypayne5138
    @caseypayne5138 Рік тому +897

    This is actually a really good combination of Alpha (putting yourself first, demonstrating your value, commanding respect-- generating attraction) and Beta (providing the comfort and connection and the fun -- generating the commitment) and is a great balance to aspire to.
    Also, once you get in an LTR/Marriage -- none of this goes away. You have to KEEP THIS UP. LTR/Marriage isn't an END, it's just another beginning and slacking here is how men end up getting betaized and in sexless hell.

    • @bryanenzu8579
      @bryanenzu8579 Рік тому +42

      Exactly. It’s being aware of women’s Hypergamy and use it in your favor.
      A women may be incited to seek the seed of the Alpha in one man and the stability of the Beta in another man. If you turn yourself into the Alpha-Beta she will have no urgency to seek anything else out there!

    • @maxnovakovics2568
      @maxnovakovics2568 Рік тому +20

      Was it Rollo Tomassi or someone else, whatever he says he still games his wife haha it was a funny way to phrase it but it's true. The best couples keep each other engaged. The miserable ones always just kind of gave up and coasted.

    • @caseypayne5138
      @caseypayne5138 Рік тому +32

      @@maxnovakovics2568 It's true. "Game your wife" is kind of a goofy way of putting it, but it's 100% true -- you've gotta keep being flirty and fun and spontaneous and treating her like she's your girlfriend. Yeah, as the years pass in an LTR you still settle into something that resembles a business partnership sometimes, and you can't escape the domestic familiarity aspect of it especially when you have kids -- but you have to keep dating and courting your woman. You have to keep having the same kind of fun and excitement that you had when you were dating. You have to keep being the guy she fell in love with in the first place. And if you married a good woman, as you set the standard and lead your relationship in that way she does her part to make it worthwhile as well.
      Also, it's just fun as hell. I'm sure all of us in LTRs have had a point where we were just going through the motions, and it all sucked. I have so much FUN in my marriage now just being dumb and flirty and funny all the time. Things are better than ever

    • @maxnovakovics2568
      @maxnovakovics2568 Рік тому +8

      @@caseypayne5138 congrats man. That's what i want to have one day.

    • @caseypayne5138
      @caseypayne5138 Рік тому +11

      @@maxnovakovics2568 Thanks man! It didn't happen overnight, and I've had my share of hard issues and pain in my marriage as well. It hasn't been all daisies and roses -- it was actually pretty shitty for a lot of the time and I finally got sick of it and decided to do something about it. Turns out it was on my to lead my relationship to a better place the whole time, and I fell into the trap most guys in LTRs fall into -- they get comfortable, and then they get complacent, and then they get fat and everything goes to shit. Once I started hitting the gym and finding a purpose in life again things got better but it was an uphill climb

  • @boubacarfall1759
    @boubacarfall1759 Рік тому +13

    Guys its very simple, find good friend to have a sense of love and connection in your life, discipline yourself sexually and think with your head instead of your balls, treat poeple the way you would like to be treated, find purpose and a life mission, build values and principle behind that Dream / Mission and i promise you youll have all the things you want and the lady you want

  • @co36
    @co36 Рік тому +202

    Committed
    Give them attention
    Be in the moment
    Use silence. It’s ok to chill
    Generate small yes commitments
    State What things do you admire

    • @crudfingers6403
      @crudfingers6403 Рік тому +2

      I hear women love a man of few words, here is a master.

    • @arianamontenegro5528
      @arianamontenegro5528 Рік тому

      No atention . Thats a simp

    • @colton7373
      @colton7373 Рік тому

      @@arianamontenegro5528So if you date a girl at all, or get married, and give the woman any attention at all, then you're a simp? I think you are confused.

    • @denisborzov8406
      @denisborzov8406 Рік тому

      @@arianamontenegro5528 whoops, someone's daddy didn't love them 😂

    • @arianamontenegro5528
      @arianamontenegro5528 Рік тому

      @@denisborzov8406 ?

  • @arnoldvilleneuve8397
    @arnoldvilleneuve8397 Рік тому +7

    Treat people the way you want to be treated. Always.

  • @brjones27
    @brjones27 Рік тому +110

    I like the new message. Not just game, more just being a real man of value.

  • @AkSi_paradox
    @AkSi_paradox Рік тому +39

    1) All girls are Same & be attainable. Possibility he will commit. But, don’t go crazy about her.
    2) Don’t be needy. Have some life. Make your attention valuable.
    3) Don’t please, Don’t Please. Celebrity effect. Available less & be committed to her.
    4) Silence in your fair.
    5) Create yes commitment. Let her invest in yourself. Like Massages & etc..
    6) Create Narrative. Just don’t like her for her clothes. Like :- Chemistry, your personality is good , Your thought process is amazing.
    7) Don’t being Manipulative, Don’t be needy , desperate . Make your Quality, value, Qualitative too.

  • @AD-hh6dd
    @AD-hh6dd Рік тому +314

    Damn. I’m a woman and I actually learned stuff about myself. I had no idea on a conscious level that these were reasons I liked some of the guys I have. Hearing him say this made me realize he’s spot on!

    • @smokingcrab2290
      @smokingcrab2290 Рік тому

      It'd amazing how women are so incredibly mentally disconnected from their own nature. Ya'll are literally incapable of self awareness

    • @xxgamerz96ftw84
      @xxgamerz96ftw84 Рік тому +45

      Men who been w a lot of women understand the female psych far more than women themselves kmow

    • @ultimatewarrior659
      @ultimatewarrior659 Рік тому

      I fcuk both genders cause I'm a thug🍆

    • @jjdiambrini-palazzi
      @jjdiambrini-palazzi 9 місяців тому +6

      Women too. Learning so much and introduced my husband to Casey’s excellent vids

    • @razer0072073
      @razer0072073 9 місяців тому +1

      This is the women wants a guy that 'Just gets it' theory

  • @abdul.arif2000
    @abdul.arif2000 Рік тому +89

    9:30 don’t be scared to lose her. Silence creates attraction. 15:00 this is a manipulative. This is your job to create these experiences for her if you genuinely like her, and she genuinely likes you. 16:00 appreciate, and say these things about her after having sex to create that bond

  • @vitte_stinson
    @vitte_stinson Рік тому +86

    Whatever happens, please don’t delete this video. You are very cool Casey.

  • @kat-601
    @kat-601 2 місяці тому +3

    I promise to do whats best for me. Love it man ❤
    😂

  • @jacknorton3771
    @jacknorton3771 Рік тому +47

    3 points made . Live in the moment,never say anything about a next date while on a date. 2, at the end of the video what you are saying is points of self love for ones self. 3, all these points are about being a decent proper gentleman. Something that has been lost, but it was how I was taught to be growing up.

  • @elisatseng6286
    @elisatseng6286 3 місяці тому +1

    As a woman I agree with all 5 points. In fact I think it’s applicable in other relationship dynamics - friends, family, colleagues..etc. It’s important to create ‘Value’ and make people ‘Invest’ in you - not being manipulative; we appreciate what we have to work for. Often times when men try too hard, it makes us think that you are desperate - you or anyone needs to have their own lives

  • @evelynkrueger652
    @evelynkrueger652 Рік тому +25

    Casey, Young man, I am 64 years old and have listened to many of your videos, this is by far one of the best consultations that you have provided... Thank you! Young Men.. Listen to this man's understanding; Wisdom.

  • @alchemicalsoul
    @alchemicalsoul 15 днів тому +1

    When we woken finish our individual ego deaths, none of this will work. We are souls having a human experience. We are here to find OURSELVES.

  • @robinchina471
    @robinchina471 Рік тому +317

    He is 100% correct. I know all this through trial and error. It is very powerful. I literally had the last two girls that I dated, jump me on the first night I met them. I spoke to them very sparingly in text beforehand for a week or two. But I was VERY careful to keep the texts scarce and impactful (maybe a couple texts a day). Usually just replying to her. Control yourself, focus on your path and keep up your presentation. Learn to ask plenty of questions in person and make her feel like you two are the only people wherever you go. It's basically guaranteed.

    • @meshuggahfan1114
      @meshuggahfan1114 Рік тому +16

      a couple texts a day is too much. i would limit it to 1 every two days

    • @bassmunk
      @bassmunk Рік тому +16

      @@meshuggahfan1114 That's over thinking it and can force the situation to be something it might not be.
      One thing I found to be very impactful is simply sticking to your word. If you say you're gonna see them at work after a chat via txt, for example, then the next words to her should be coming out of your mouth at work. No matter how many days that is. That can be tough lol
      I did something like this with a girl I liked after telling her, "I talked to that girl you saw me with and made it clear things weren't going to work out (they were acquaintances). I wasn't sure about her intentions until we all met up for the movie. Once I realized, then I told her I wasn't really interested in her that way. I just want to let you know that and that I really want to get to know you. I think you're great and I hope that maybe in time, if you want, we can be more than friends." She says something non-committal in response but not shutting me down either. Being aware of how forward I was being I said something like: "I know this is a bit much right now. I'll let you think about it and I won't txt you if you don't want me to. There's another get together coming up in a couple weeks, maybe I'll see you there?" And I kept radio silence the whole time.
      And when I saw her there she was very receptive and smiled at me when we made eye contact for the first time. We had a great convo! Her friend, the one I turned down, was there too. And although she felt a bit awkward, it wasn't bad and she was at least able to say Hi. Most importantly though, they both had respect for me as a person cuz I stuck to my guns in everything I did, and I did them for the right reasons. And what I said was the truth, most importantly.

    • @pejv7903
      @pejv7903 Рік тому

      wdym by "make her feel like you two are the only people wherever you go"

    • @MatiKosa
      @MatiKosa Рік тому +11

      It depends how much she is attracted to you. If she is very much, then scarce texting can work in your favor. If she is somehow interested initially (but not blown away) - scarce texting can also show to her you don't pay attention to her, which may be a dealbreaker. Obviously you are mostly interested in girls from former category, but it's close to impossible to keep meeting girls who are all over you. Which means you need to carefully evaluate your texting strategy: too much and you are too available. Too scarce and you may be perceived as someone who ignores her. Find the sweet spot.

    • @multistanpria
      @multistanpria Рік тому +1

      @@meshuggahfan1114 nah I would block

  • @peanuthaterzz1321
    @peanuthaterzz1321 Місяць тому +1

    this is amazing information. especially those last 5 minutes. the key concept that differentiates you from other creators is the specific detail to use this on somebody you truly admire. it goes to show that you can do this and never have bad intentions. its not about just getting the girl but its also about being a good man who sticks out in this world. i am incredibly greatful for finding your channel.

  • @warden6808
    @warden6808 Рік тому +42

    I promise. Thank you for showing us men how to form good relationships rather than just "have a rotation" some of us are sick of sleeping around and just want a quality connection

    • @DiogenesNephew
      @DiogenesNephew Рік тому

      Yeah, we're all getting tired of constantly getting pussy with no strings attached.

    • @keltecdan
      @keltecdan Рік тому +6

      I’m looking for the opposite. I don’t find most women worth enough to have a good connection with. Then when you do find one you invest too much of yourself and your heart only to have it broken in the first place. I just want to be able to get women to smash and that’s it.

    • @Ratclan
      @Ratclan 8 місяців тому +1

      Yeah I always have rotation, find one out of the couple good ones that actually feel a loving bond connection with…. I become over attached, emotional, controlling, manipulative, and than I end up either finding out something about the girl that doesn’t sit right, or she tells me something that makes me realize she’s just a street walker…..
      So than I end up looking for another “good” girl again after my heart Gets colder.
      I swear once a girl turns 16-21 they just become sexual deviants and it’s the same for men…. Lust n jealousy ruins everything

  • @ManOfHonorChildOfGod
    @ManOfHonorChildOfGod 4 місяці тому +2

    I appreciate the fact That he emphasizes not to use this on women you don't genuinely want a future with.

  • @scottiemomma2314
    @scottiemomma2314 Рік тому +156

    CZ is 100% right…especially in my early 20s these were the things I was attracted to, and it still holds true as a long time married person. Totally agree about treating women well…if you hurt her feelings or make her think you’re uninterested, than she’s unlikely to pursue. Great advice!

    • @agentnukaz1715
      @agentnukaz1715 7 місяців тому

      But the possibility of commitment can only a temporary factor. Do u wonder if he is committed as he says sometimes? If so dose that make u more attracted?

  • @FinesseImage
    @FinesseImage 7 місяців тому +7

    Protect this guy at all cost💯💪🏾 some proper golden gems right here. Refreshing to hear this 🔥

  • @outlawtendancies8581
    @outlawtendancies8581 Рік тому +32

    This works in reverse as well👍😀 "EVERYONE" not just women have a desire to be treated well. You get what you are and what you put out. Treat others as you want to be treated.

  • @UknownAfrican
    @UknownAfrican 9 місяців тому +3

    Not even just the girls, I could make the whole world attracted to me. This is powerful.

  • @fuzakali9083
    @fuzakali9083 Рік тому +81

    All of this is so true! Also make her feel desired and tell her what you like about her. Over time let her know how much you are into her, but always have high standards and don´t accept any drama or BS from her. Emotional intelligence is key! Let her know you will walk away if she does not have the same standards. It will make her gain respect and this will make her even more attracted to you.

  • @meme-zv7kw
    @meme-zv7kw 10 місяців тому +14

    The key is to never get too attached you get into your emotions and then you lose

  • @tuwanlendor872
    @tuwanlendor872 Рік тому +16

    This guy is taking absolute facts especially his first point. Pay attention young men.

  • @TheNameCannotBeFound
    @TheNameCannotBeFound Рік тому +168

    I cannot stress enough the importance of everything that has been said in this video.
    I was doing just fine in my dating life when I was still growing up emotionally in my 20s, your typical everyday average Joe. But it wasn't until my 30s, after years of self-reflection and self-improvement, that I finally learned to love myself, to be proud of who I grew up to be and holy crap does it completely changes your life. It's liberating to find the best tool for mastering your thoughts and emotions to pursue your passions. Self-love. Such a simple concept, yet such a powerful difference in mindset if used correctly. I used that newfound peace to clear my mind and continuously improve myself to become the best version I was always intended to be. Both physically and mentally. And, what do you know, It's insane how different the world treats me now. I am universally loved by everyone around me, no matter what demographic. Men usually compliment my physique or look up to me for advices whereas women tend to be very jovial around me and attentive whenever I speak. Another phenomenon I noticed was that people, both loved ones and strangers, never felt weirded out whenever I entered their personal space. And I'm a very physical and intimate person. Men tend to embrace it and usually return that physical intimacy whereas women feel relaxed, comfortable with it and sometimes were the ones to initiate the light touches. Not to mention kids have a blast around me.
    Very long story short, love and care for yourself in a healthy and positive way and treat everyone else with the same respect. Give to the world and the world will find a way to reward you back in ways you never expected. Be genuine. Sure, you'll meet some obstacles along the way, but if you overcome it, be proud because every single one of them is another victory etched in your legacy.

    • @rockyp32
      @rockyp32 10 місяців тому

      Believe the gospel man ur gonna die one day

    • @BADLMNOP
      @BADLMNOP 10 місяців тому +1

      Somebodysssss a retainerrrrrrr. Big ups brother.
      Boys, retain your sauce. There is no ONE THING you can do for yourself that produces than semen retention.

    • @rockyp32
      @rockyp32 10 місяців тому +1

      @@BADLMNOP feeling guilty for ur sins and believing in Jesus is much more important u get the Holy Ghost. Which gives love joy n peace and saves u from eternal hellfire. Then once saved making reading the word and praying everyday your main priority.. then you’ll do SR naturally. As the word teaches u to be celibate and pure

  • @sauliusagintas
    @sauliusagintas Рік тому +27

    This video reminds me book "how to win friends and influence people"
    Keep up the great work.

    • @MasteryOrder
      @MasteryOrder Рік тому

      If you enjoy ideas about mastery and masculinity, I invite you to explore the videos I share on the Mastery Order Channel.
      Challenge yourself with some concepts about manhood, explore your masculine potential to the maximum and become the kind of man you would admire.
      We can only better ourselves together, as men among men, so I invite you to use what I share and, of course, share your own opinions so that others can benefit from them as well.
      Looking forward to your points of view.
      All the best to you!

    • @paharibro99
      @paharibro99 Рік тому

      How's that book?

  • @Wowzival
    @Wowzival Рік тому +10

    You just provided me with more sense and closure than the girl that broke my heart did thank you.

    • @cmte.brazinazzo2061
      @cmte.brazinazzo2061 7 місяців тому +1

      Beware of Covert Narcissists, when having not actual closing.

  • @versatilelord8893
    @versatilelord8893 Рік тому +61

    I think a lot of these points come naturally into action when you genuinely like/love the girl

    • @maxnovakovics2568
      @maxnovakovics2568 Рік тому +4

      Sure but i think these advice are more for getting to that point.
      So many young men either have no experience, or dont know how to get back on the horse after a long term relationship.
      If you act too cool she's not interested.
      If you're too romantic too soon.
      It can be a difficult balance.

    • @versatilelord8893
      @versatilelord8893 Рік тому

      @@maxnovakovics2568 yes I’m aware of all that. I don’t think of it as a tough balance so much. I do agree it can exist if someone doesn’t move the correct way but it’s just about going with the flow. Going with the flow is the best thing anyone can do with this stuff. Whether they’re experienced or not

    • @breaks3085
      @breaks3085 Рік тому +4

      I'm using this Evil hands down !!

    • @versatilelord8893
      @versatilelord8893 Рік тому

      @@breaks3085 good god lol

    • @smokingcrab2290
      @smokingcrab2290 Рік тому +3

      Not really. I love my wife so I shower her with attention and praise. I want her to feel amazing. The more I do this the less she gives a shit about me.

  • @akur3578
    @akur3578 Рік тому +30

    This guy helps spreading my message that I try to spread for years now:
    It's all about fkn balance. Balance alpha and beta out and you become what you desire because being beta or alpha ONLY is an act, a fraud, a role, this is not you. Everything is a balance.

  • @DriSpits
    @DriSpits Рік тому +126

    I remember watching some red pill influenced content and hearing the concepts of “don’t tell her when you like something don’t tell her you like her”
    And naturally I have very good communication and I express when someone does something I like, or when I like the way someone is acting (usually female). So the red pill content got me a little confused because I love positively reinforcing women and telling them what I like when they do it, or what I like in general about them. So hearing Casey explain this exact concept in a positive manner is very refreshing and just what I needed. Thanks for helping yet another young man Casey. W.

    • @richardw3347
      @richardw3347 Рік тому +21

      This was a good video. You can be honest with women. Lots of red pill people/content can be in fear. It's when you over do it is when it's bad. Good rule of thumb is do it if you genuinely feel it not bc you need to win her favor out of fear of losing her. Females can sense it. Why simping doesn't work.

    • @DriSpits
      @DriSpits Рік тому +4

      @@richardw3347 , thanks for your thoughts. I absolutely agree. I wish you the best. Let’s win.

    • @martinsuperville8017
      @martinsuperville8017 Рік тому +2

      Yup,its about fixing not destroying,whether oneself or the way we behave in public or even behide the seens,respecting everyone regardless of our impefections ,because we come with faults too.

    • @agentnukaz1715
      @agentnukaz1715 7 місяців тому

      I need to to remember to praise her when she dose little things I like. I won't crave more connection when she brings it right to me

  • @constantineandreu9377
    @constantineandreu9377 Рік тому +6

    It's simple really! Being the right one and not finding the right one is key👌100% of the time you attract what you are❤

  • @10MinutestoRouletteFortune
    @10MinutestoRouletteFortune Рік тому +16

    There is this real beautiful girl that works at the coffee shop. We always had fun and laughed when I came it and she would light up but I'm not sure if she was naturally that way. One day I told her I was having a hard time finding a someone to watch me dog. She immediately said she would help without any hesitation and well..........we ended up dating.

  • @Action_Savage_
    @Action_Savage_ Рік тому +91

    These are great tips, especially creating a narrative of telling her you appreciate certain qualities she has. You should always reward and encourage the behaviors you want in a partner. If you only ever "punish" bad behavior, literally the only attention she gets from you is when she acts badly, therefore she will act badly more often, and then it becomes a negative loop.

  • @dominiczingale8911
    @dominiczingale8911 Рік тому +89

    I just spent a weekend with a girl that liked me 18 years ago, however I was married and I implemented everything you just metioned. I was just being me which is basically 1%er and she's been wanting to plan the next date already and I'm cool with it.... She's been pursuing me and i'm treating her respectfully as all men should as well as just setting the boundaries with her which i refer to an upfront contract. So yes again you're doing an AWESOME thing for guys that give a shit and not just trying to get a piece of ass.
    Respect,
    Dominic Z

    • @deboii100
      @deboii100 Рік тому

      18 years ago ? Damn she probably had a lot of dicks while you was married

    • @dominiczingale8911
      @dominiczingale8911 Рік тому +3

      @@deboii100 she was married too so it's what it's. Put it this way, no real man would pass on this lady 💯 lol. You don't even know...

    • @deboii100
      @deboii100 Рік тому +2

      @@dominiczingale8911 I’m glad your happy my man

    • @dominiczingale8911
      @dominiczingale8911 Рік тому +1

      @@deboii100 Some positive vibes a much better reply my friend. You only know until you walk in another mans shoes brother... Happy is all I need in life. Drama out the door, no time or energy will be wasted on dat bullshit hahaha..
      Have an awesome week...

    • @deboii100
      @deboii100 Рік тому +3

      @@dominiczingale8911 I’m genuinely happy for you man that’s what it’s about thanks you have a good week also

  • @deidaramartinez847
    @deidaramartinez847 10 місяців тому +2

    I promise, even if I'm heart broken I won't go to the dark side

  • @Jitsagu
    @Jitsagu Рік тому +27

    Casey: “Do not use for evil”
    Me: 😏😁

  • @nc33000
    @nc33000 Рік тому +17

    It’s the most relevant video on attracting women I’ve ever watched, I’m impressed by your intelligence, and also I really like the way you always remind that you’ve got to treat women well and use these tips to get better relationships and not manipulate people to have casual sex. You’re a top G.

  • @MakerOfMonsters
    @MakerOfMonsters Рік тому +123

    Not bad tips :). As a woman I will say I agree with these. The only one I would add to is the “getting women to do things for you” one, I think it goes without saying, don’t over do this and try to give back in a similar way. I definitely like the thought of giving my guy a little massage or buying the drinks for us or making something delicious to eat but as soon as this crosses the line and makes me feel like I’m doing a lot of this and mothering you I get the ick. If you’re a fully grown man then it shouldn’t be hard for you to give a similar amount back, I like a little nurturing from my man too and it makes me feel safe that he doesn’t take those actions for granted.

    • @drleo6409
      @drleo6409 Рік тому +3

      That is the way you should feel to. It is a relationship not an employee boss thing. Respect both ways.?

    • @superlambmilkshake4904
      @superlambmilkshake4904 Рік тому +1

      what should the man give back? like cook her breakfast in the morning before she wakes up?

    • @srqbeast
      @srqbeast Рік тому +29

      A real woman gets excited to cook for her family. And a real man knows how to grill it up. But getting the "ick" sounds lazy af to me. I'm sure the man doesn't get the "ick" for providing for the house, bills, and dates. Sorry not sorry.

    • @johnpilbrow
      @johnpilbrow Рік тому +10

      ​@@srqbeast Boom!

    • @DiogenesNephew
      @DiogenesNephew Рік тому +6

      ​@@srqbeastExactamundo

  • @nilehawkins7878
    @nilehawkins7878 Рік тому +11

    Concessions... 🗝️!!! Because u can't LEAD without giving them things to do for you. Without this you naturally become low quality to them and you'll feel yourself being drained because of the lack of reciprocation.

  • @BoopyTheFox
    @BoopyTheFox Рік тому +5

    The KEY point that many men (including me) misses is:
    *SELF-ESTEEM* - if you don't have it, nothing said in this video will work. It shouldn't be very high, it shouldn't be very low, it should be within certain margins, which are not very tight but still present.
    If someone had low self-esteem, it will just feel right to them to feel bad when rejected.
    Mindset of scarcity would just make more sense than mindset of abundance.
    And if self-esteem is too high, it could work at first, but also could result in overestimating and overlooking certain critical things.
    Men do have emotions but we are taught to supress them because "why are you crying like a girl?". And that's wrong. Feeling bad is okay and doesn't make anyone lesser of a man. In fact, it is fucking brave in modern society to admit that rejection hurts you a lot, it is brave to admit that you are afraid of being rejected. It shows connection with your own emotions, and high potential for empathy.
    Yeah i'm a bit all over the place, and what i want to tell is this:
    * Self-estem. Not too high, not too low. You have value. Use it.
    * Rejection is ok. Being rejected hurts, and it is better than tension of not knowing, constantly assuming that you will be rejected.
    And thennnn you can move to this "make your attention scarce and valueble" type of shit.

  • @trains889
    @trains889 Рік тому +26

    These 5 are correct. Legit. To KEEP her. Not to attract her. If she isn't with you yet, there is one important prerequisite before you can apply these 5 steps: She already respects you. If she doesn't respect you, she wants you to be 20,000km away from her. If you do these to a woman who doesn't respect you, she will find ways to make you disappear.
    So, I must tell you that the number 1 most potent thing to get a woman is: Be a person she respects. Demonstrate characteristics of a respectable man and she will come to you without you trying. Only then, you can apply whatever tricks you have to keep her.

  • @stiffupperlip4
    @stiffupperlip4 8 місяців тому +3

    This is fact. My wife has told me many times that what attracted her to me so much that she left her boyfriend for me was when I confidently told her that I was into her. She basically had to have me once she knew how I felt about her.

    • @AdaptedStudios
      @AdaptedStudios 8 місяців тому +2

      She cheated on her bf?

    • @stiffupperlip4
      @stiffupperlip4 8 місяців тому

      @@AdaptedStudios nah she broke up with him before I slept with her

    • @cmte.brazinazzo2061
      @cmte.brazinazzo2061 7 місяців тому +2

      Beware, next guy with confidence can steal her from you, the same way you did...

  • @teddychalgren
    @teddychalgren Рік тому +15

    You've got a quality channel, Casey.

  • @amnydegracia7294
    @amnydegracia7294 Рік тому +11

    A+++
    This is by far one of the best dating advice videos on the web period. Great job 👏🏻

  • @meaningfullife7866
    @meaningfullife7866 Рік тому +18

    The most attractive guy is the one who does all this because that's what he thinks is good and what he likes, rather than to get a girl to be into him. I know a man who does these things but has never studied pick up or chases girls. He's been a kind and fun friend to me (and I fell in love with him first). He's been happy being a bachelor for years and didn't look for a relationship, just went about his business and was open enough to the idea.
    He's considering marrying me "when he's ready for it" (making me wait 2 years and no sex until marriage! We live together so I can see he's not seeing anyone else) but in the meantime is enjoying getting to know me at a deeper level and getting himself ready for family life. He is detached from the outcome, so he easily says no, and when he says yes to things his heart is in it.

    • @AD-hh6dd
      @AD-hh6dd Рік тому

      I’d be very concerned about a guy who is ok not having sex with you for several years. Somethings not right.

  • @diedforurwins
    @diedforurwins Рік тому +55

    I still remember negotiating this “half commitment” stage with my first girlfriend. I wasn’t doing it on purpose I was just straight up scared of intimacy (I was homeschooled and lacked social skills, especially with women).
    I eventually ended up committing to her and stayed with her for 5 years. She told me later that she **used** to think I was “cool”. Without realizing it I was doing exactly what you’re talking about but not on purpose and it made her crazy about me.
    She ended up dumping me in the end, in favour of some guy I actually knew well. That breakup broke my heart from 20 to 30. Completely destroyed me. What hurt the most is that I never did anything wrong, in fact I tried to be the best partner I could be because I loved her. I never cheated (and had so many opportunities I can’t even count). When it came time for her to upgrade she was so incredibly cold and ruthless about it…. Anyway thanks for making this video.
    While I don’t agree with everything you say on your channel, you definitely have a lot of good points, and have helped me understand women a bit better.
    Peace ✌️ ❤

    • @henrystranger
      @henrystranger Рік тому

      how can we talk .something i need to ask you?

    • @diedforurwins
      @diedforurwins Рік тому

      @@henrystranger ask it here

    • @tnasr3254
      @tnasr3254 Рік тому +1

      Sorry to hear your story, hypergamy is real and biologically ingrained in them, were there not any red flags in retrospect that you can now identify?

    • @diedforurwins
      @diedforurwins Рік тому

      @@tnasr3254 yeah there are now but I was too young and naïve to realize.

    • @diedforurwins
      @diedforurwins Рік тому

      @@tnasr3254 mainly stuff like going to the gym, spending a lot of time “studying” at the library (where I found out she was seeing this new guy)…

  • @edl-gagl2126
    @edl-gagl2126 Рік тому +5

    honestly i thought this casey guy was just the next preacher in this niche, so naturally i was surprised to learn that he has a different approach and unique insights. kudos of bringing up the moral obligation of demeanor, as that is usually brushed aside 👍🏼

  • @GabrielChangesLives
    @GabrielChangesLives Рік тому +7

    I promise I’ll use these 5 tips for good and not evil! Thank you Casey for your guidance, God placed you in front of my life for a reason! You’re a big brother to me and I respect and appreciate you! God bless you and your family! God loves you!
    Respectfully,
    Gabriel Rivera.

  • @ronquinton2540
    @ronquinton2540 Рік тому +25

    So, my girlfriend of three years broke up with me on 10 Dec. She wanted to continue hanging out with me, going to dinner, etc, like we were dating but didn't want to sleep with me and asked me to move out. Yes, I was living with her. I simply said, okay, moved out and hung out with her for about a week, then, I went NO CONTACT with her. She freaked out, after three days she wanted me back. I gave her explicit terms if I moved back in and started dating. She agreed. Take control. The make up sex was great, as it always is. I'm sure this will happen again, and, as long as I keep getting what I want, I'll break up with her. However, I'm pretty damn sure, if she pulls this shit again, I'm moving on without her.

    • @srqbeast
      @srqbeast Рік тому +7

      She for the streets

    • @sweetswing1
      @sweetswing1 Рік тому

      Good man

    • @jpowell2603
      @jpowell2603 Рік тому

      Good on you bro no beating around the bush!

    • @neilwattoo
      @neilwattoo Рік тому +4

      Holy fuck, this is near identical to my situation, and also my bday is Dec 10 so it resignates even more. I'm literally going thru this exact same fkn thing and would love to hear your updates.

    • @dennismixon9028
      @dennismixon9028 10 місяців тому

      Stop giving her what she wants, you are filling the need she has of talk & see you! & she wants to know you are ok!
      My buddy does same thing with his girls

  • @josiahv92
    @josiahv92 Рік тому +7

    Probably best video on how to treat a woman I’ve watched so far.

  • @mikaeladisse8641
    @mikaeladisse8641 Рік тому +10

    I literally just got back from a date with a genuinely beautiful woman Latin woman (had a thick accent) that seems down to earth, loyal, caring etc and after watching this I didn’t realize how much I botched it. Especially the setting up of dates right after the first one and trying to fill gaps in the conversation. She came off as shy so felt I had to break the silence. When it’s the girl I am interested in I mess up but when it’s not the one I’m interested in I’m suddenly doing something right 🤦🏽‍♂️
    Now I’m here thinking I won’t find a girl that’s actually naturally attractive, feminine and sweet

    • @reina55
      @reina55 Рік тому

      😂😂

    • @ConioPendeho
      @ConioPendeho 11 місяців тому

      ok, youtube sent me here.. I'm Italian (LATIN). here we have so Many STRAIGHT MACHO'S ... naturally doing this shit.. That beleive it or not SHE MiGHT be interested in you, with no GAMES.. you'd be suprised how many women are chill and don't need this bullshit..so, 10 to 1 she wants you.. I see your message is 3 months old. Please give UPDATES

  • @RyansVlogsYT06
    @RyansVlogsYT06 Рік тому +6

    I promise, I'm 16 & I want to learn this before I get older

  • @palestinenotisrael3088
    @palestinenotisrael3088 15 днів тому

    I promise to use it to bring a worthy companion and will use it for good

  • @Zemriel1
    @Zemriel1 Рік тому +5

    I love your content uncle c, your the only guy in the manosphere that actually makes balanced and valid sense. God bless you uncle C

  • @chefvenom
    @chefvenom 15 днів тому

    I promise to use these methods for good. I promise to hit the lottery jackpot. I promise to be the best human I can be.

  • @flyFYI555
    @flyFYI555 Рік тому +38

    With great power comes great responsibility

  • @mikehernandez7462
    @mikehernandez7462 Рік тому

    Man takes the LEAD, the ROLE in ROMANCE, ACTIVITIES, DECISION MAKING AND ENTERTAINING the woman.

    • @slauzon01
      @slauzon01 Рік тому

      yep, then she rewards that man by being a ruthless coward.

  • @IllRomantic
    @IllRomantic Рік тому +8

    Basically used this to find a wife.... this a way to have values to your self and find the best possible woman for you... you having qualifications and screening women is the best way to avoid the girls who are damaged .....Thanks for this quality Information man

    • @marijustfortoday6475
      @marijustfortoday6475 Рік тому

      💔 I am what they would call damaged I wonder if I'll ever b loved and happy?? 😅 I had someone use all of this and I see it now n he used it for evil the way he up n left me thru text making sure he made me feel I was at fault oh God he hurt me deep and 2ish years later I am still hurting and still find myself breaking down when I think of him... sadly it's much too often. Idk how to heal Idk how I will be able to go past this pain I just feel so lost. This man here Casey is RIGHT PLEASE PLEASE TAKE IT FROM SOMEONE WHO WAS DONE IN SUCHAN EVIL MANIPULATING WAY PLEASE DON'T USE IT FOR EVIL LIKE HE DID WITH ME. I wish I could find a way to help myself get over all of it. It hurts so much.

    • @aaronclarke1434
      @aaronclarke1434 Рік тому +1

      Whatever he did obviously made a deep impression of you still think about him after two years.

    • @user-pi8qw9jj7h
      @user-pi8qw9jj7h 6 днів тому

      @@marijustfortoday6475 Go and watch "The Tapping Solution", it is EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique), or add to that Havening. The pain will life so fast, you will be in shock. Then get Shad Helmsetter's 'What to say to yourself when you talk to yourself". It is about affirmations and changing your beliefs about yourself. It will take three weeks. Good luck

  • @FEBob
    @FEBob 10 днів тому

    As an alcoholic 44 year old man, I promise to forget everything you’ve just said🍻

  • @williampacter7399
    @williampacter7399 Рік тому +9

    Probably the best pieces of advice I’ve heard on female attraction to men

  • @moheganson
    @moheganson 3 місяці тому +1

    I promise to use these methods to no longer be a simp

  • @RubberDucky24
    @RubberDucky24 Рік тому +12

    This is one of the very first videos that I have found that really makes sense...I found a special girl the other day and this will definitely come in handy ! Thank you

  • @SalvadorOlagueOfficial
    @SalvadorOlagueOfficial Рік тому +2

    Comment and like. This guy literally gives us all we need to know about status and getting girls for FREE. He deserves that 1 Mil of subs!

    • @liliiademianova8707
      @liliiademianova8707 Рік тому

      Noted)) thanks for telling that women are for free 😂. I thought that just only porn is for free but it appears the air also fish is for free if you manage to catch it) and the clean air for free for now, no?) It appears that women are fish! Or the air?🤔 Or apples in the neighbour garden) Interesting very deep thoughts you got 🙈👍I was thinking about women somehow better) that they are alive humans with alive hearts and minds and souls. But looks like I was thinking wrong all this time about myself). Who wants free fish or apples? Rise your hand)

  • @bassmunk
    @bassmunk Рік тому +37

    You're the 1st person I've seen on UA-cam say that dating is for screening people, and should be taken seriously. And that you should screen girls before you date them.
    I never had issues with girls causing drama in my life cuz I always knew them for at least a couple months before asking them out. Most of the time it was about a year or so. In other words, I knew them and what kind of person they were.
    Non of them worked out yet cuz of other incompatibilities that were discovered as we dated. Sometimes I had to end it, sometimes they ended it, but the reasons were always valid even when I was heart broken... Now I know more than I ever did and know exactly what I need when I see it.
    Funny thing is, I find myself doing the top 3 out of the 5 things without thinking cuz I'm just being careful as I get to know someone lol Just making sure I actually know them before I ask them to commit to me and invest time in my life aka asking them out. Screening is important! It keeps girls safe from unnecessary heart break. Or your own for that matter hahaha
    And if you have to back off cuz she isn't right, you'll really disappoint her, but you won't break her heart, cuz you weren't dating yet...

  • @MrAlaShamsan
    @MrAlaShamsan 2 місяці тому

    it my first time ever tht i comment in youtube but seriously u change my life & saved my marriage when i change my attitude with what u are saying

  • @akeemayeni156
    @akeemayeni156 Рік тому +28

    I get it Casey, your just giving us a way to build an actual relationship in a more constructive way, rather then just seeing what will happen. Thanks bro.

  • @larghedoggo9607
    @larghedoggo9607 Рік тому +1

    Dude, you are freaking gold.
    I have realized red pill is not the ultimate way(it might works for beginners indeed)
    But no other guys tell us how does it work and being the easiest and daily behavior to do.
    We all feel we have to keep talking during date. Even we heard of it before but we forget about this magic from time to time.

  • @tomchurch2285
    @tomchurch2285 Рік тому +9

    Your points, Casey, seem sound and, honestly, are refreshing! I’ve been hearing so much of the opposite in the red pill community!

  • @laminjawo5586
    @laminjawo5586 7 місяців тому

    I took exceptional notes on this, just like a college exam. 2024 I will be a different Man. Thank you man for trying to change our life.

  • @fearlesssoul9408
    @fearlesssoul9408 Рік тому +20

    Thanks in advance of you reviewing one of my fave books of all time on this subject of attraction which is "Magical Tactics"

  • @anthonyuzzanti9149
    @anthonyuzzanti9149 10 місяців тому

    I promise not to use it for evil or manipulation in a negative way and to be respectful

  • @jenniehamilton244
    @jenniehamilton244 Рік тому +10

    I have to wonder if my ex didn't watch this video....wish I had seen this before I met him. You are 100 percent correct. My ex used these points for manipulation and it works perfectly. Sad. Most men in my experience will exploit women if they can. I hope there are men out there that respect women. I learned about myself too.

    • @ishaansaini3
      @ishaansaini3 Рік тому +1

      Jennie I am there for you

    • @chiken2180
      @chiken2180 Рік тому

      Hi Jennie,unless you only dated for a month that is unlikely, seeing that this video was made one month before you commented is unlikely. I understand majority of the public is retarded. Do try to cope with the fact you just aren't in the minority here.

    • @fahadhussain66
      @fahadhussain66 9 місяців тому

      After getting my heart broken and failing to off myself after a woman left me, I am watching this to NOT end up there again, rather than putting sb else through that.
      Also, to the person who did that to me, hope you're fine and happy.

  • @ryanwalley7159
    @ryanwalley7159 Рік тому +10

    Very interesting... I'd made it a point to be self sufficient b4 I got married... after marriage we ended up working on things together and it was great and bonding. When she got pregnant with our son she also got very sick and was bed ridden. I switched back to being largely self sufficient. My son's almost 3 and my wife and I can feel distance between us. Only now do I realize that my determination to be self sufficient is pushing her away, I need to make her feel needed... without being needy....

  • @migjordanpayawal7856
    @migjordanpayawal7856 Рік тому +7

    I think you just nailed it, man. All of this is gold.

  • @hibbertsa
    @hibbertsa Місяць тому

    I promise I will only use this for good, boss man. Good man here, learning the mistakes of my nice-guy ways. Just trying to win over one special girl.

  • @mikedelusional
    @mikedelusional 7 місяців тому +2

    Best video on dating Ive ever watched and Ive watched literally every singel one. Thank you Casey.

  • @mariomartinez8466
    @mariomartinez8466 Рік тому +10

    I promise, from the bottom of my heart, I believe this I'm practicing this already. I don't know everything. And it's good to be reminded, or remind my self, even by listening from Time to time. For to condition one's self in to that mode.

  • @migueltello4874
    @migueltello4874 3 дні тому

    When somebody says I’m the best , that means he is not. “ this points came to me and I had to make this video”. Other so called “ dating coach “ have been already talking about this points. He just found out about these points because he just heard somebody else in UA-cam talking about it

  • @1pcmedic
    @1pcmedic Рік тому +12

    Always be honest, if you do things correctly in a relationship she will say to herself or out loud "where have you been all my life" and understand you have the value of no other.

    • @sandovalpaul
      @sandovalpaul Рік тому

      My girlfriend said this to me..this one hit me hard ..thank you

  • @sevendayoptions6704
    @sevendayoptions6704 Рік тому +2

    If you walk around with the presence of a real man, just your mere presence alone will attract any women you want.

  • @da-luni3868
    @da-luni3868 Рік тому +5

    Your finances are the most important things to her, the extra stuff she does is to win points towards your finances in a stealth way CIA style

  • @cherylruss9229
    @cherylruss9229 4 місяці тому

    silence is about growing internal space and should be genuine not "weaponized"

  • @marcom.juarez1745
    @marcom.juarez1745 Рік тому +3

    I promise to use this for good purposes. Thank you for your ideas.

  • @mikehernandez7462
    @mikehernandez7462 Рік тому +1

    This WOMAN says she LOVES me and TELLS everyone I'm her BOYFRIEND but I HAVE NOT COMMITTED YET!

  • @bruce9032
    @bruce9032 Рік тому +4

    Well said Kasey . Doing a great job for the men and women. This reminds me of how it was .

  • @ItachiUchiha-ut6xj
    @ItachiUchiha-ut6xj 8 місяців тому

    I will most definitely use these tips selfishly and solely for personal gain. I don't care how it affects women because they don't care how their behaviour affects us.

  • @nagginsnuggets9424
    @nagginsnuggets9424 Рік тому +7

    Spot on with these, Took me a long time to learn this on my own, but they are very true. And that silence is a killer, attention is their life blood, and since most women have no problem getting attention, when you withhold it it makes them crazy.

  • @emilakesson6625
    @emilakesson6625 Рік тому

    This guy is actually intelligent. First time im learning useful dating advice from a bro.

  • @mgu1N1n1
    @mgu1N1n1 Рік тому +22

    Men, do not hesitate for one moment to put a restraining order against your female partner if you feel your safety and health is in jeopardy. Placing a permanent restraining order on my female partner was absolutely the wisest protective move of my adult lifetime. My only regret is not doing it years earlier. Men, be safe!

  • @ZacharyV52
    @ZacharyV52 Місяць тому

    I promise to only use these methods to break hearts and make them attached

  • @nemchabro
    @nemchabro Рік тому +4

    I always wanted a quality relation ship since i was a kid, so yeah . I promise.

  • @Ri-hr4uy
    @Ri-hr4uy Рік тому +2

    Aight mate. Thanks for this video. It was really informative and helpful ngl. Will try it out on the girl in my basement