I really appreciated your dark cancer video I would be interested in knowing if you have an updated perspective of Cancerians since making these. I notice in the video you don't really focus on the light side of Cancers, you mention a few positive attributes but even those you bring up the shadow aspects. I used to be like this with Aquarians, due to nonromantic toxic relationships. I now am at a point that I can honestly talk positively about Aquarians without bringing up the the shadow side of their traits. I get along really well with Scorpios so it surprises me that you had such a bad experience with Cancers. You were so on point with the dark traits you must have been dealing with some seriously unbalanced Cancers. I hope you have the opportunity to make some Cancarian friends who are shiney examples of the light side!
I just finished the video and found it helpful in a few ways. It highlighted areas of growth I have already gone through. It helped me see some of the areas I still have that are toxic. It helped me identify areas of my self identity that I have already pinpointed and have been able to pull out. It helped me see how I may have negatively impacted others in the past. There have been times I'm the past where I have been ghosted by friends (before ghosting was a common thing) and I am thinking now that there were times people couldn't handle the mirror I held up to them. But there were times where people couldn't handle the intensity of intimacy I was at. They didn't want to see me hurt and also didn't want to deal with the emotional outpouring that they were worried would come with explaining I was asking too much so they just dropped me and didn't look back. Honestly I think I was misunderstood but at the same time I can't blame them for not know how to approach the situation. I told my husband very early in our relationship when the conversation of cheating came up that I could not honestly tell him how I would respond if he cheated . I wasn't trying to threaten him, I was being transparent about my own lack of being able to predict my mood caused by that situation. 🤷♀️ I have grown a lot since then and would like to think I would know my response in that situation but if I am being honest with myself I still don't. I am fortunate to have someone who supports me in finding myself while he works through his own toxic traits. We wish we would have come into our relationship in our higher selves b3cause we can see the potential of what could have been for us. At the same time we now have the blessing of knowing we have each other's back even when evolving gets rough and uncomfortable. We also know the other person is going to make room for the person we are becoming. Yesterday After watching your dark cancer video, I said to my husband "I had to ask myself if wanting you to be happy was because I actually care about your happiness or if it is because I need you to be happy in order to be happy". It was not something I had thought out all the way. I do genuinely want his happiness after thinking about it but I also have to be honest enough that I don't know how to be happy if he isn't and I am not sure if I can be. So much self work to be done. Thank you for the opportunity to dive deeper into the shadow so I can know the dark side of the moon.
Goodness! I could listen to you allllll day! I dont feel out of place listening to you, you have a way of explaining that is just beautiful. Your delivery of things that are difficult to say is impeccable, most won't do so knowledgly, wisely or tenderly. I appreciate that very much.
What you said at the beginning just resonnates in me so much. I didn't picture my life the way it is... I'm grateful I have my beautiful Moana with me but I would have loved to have a life partner to age with. And It's hard to age, of course it is. But it's beautiful too. I can see experience on my face, struggles and beautiful things also. Same for you... you are beautiful inside and outside ❤ All you said about the cancerians speaks to me deeply. I know it's for the sun sign, but my rising sign is very important too. I really feel half Leo 🦁 half 🦀 and aging I sometimes feel more like a Cancer ♋ I'm a guide for people, a coach, a healer, it's my life mission. I'm an artist, a hermit and so sensitive and emotional. This is definitely not my Leo part. That cubby house you're talking about was in my bedroom when was a child. It's where I liked to hide. I wish I could have one now even if I'm an adult haha And my dear mom was a crab too. The most beautiful soul I've met on earth. She was everything on the light side. I miss her everyday. Thank you for this video. It's brillant as always xo
Thank you honey yeah I really do see and feel that side of you actually! The sensitive and receptive side I feel it in your chart and your mother inside you! xox thank you for your beautiful messages on here it means the world to me!
I think Cancers function as memory makers and keepers. That's why the emotional tone of anything and everything bleeds over in there confused minds, and why they seek refuge from anything that even seems negative, and that sometimes leads them to avoid you if only because a cloud passed over them when they saw you. I think that also explains much of their need for an exclusive group; You need a story to have a memory and their story making is always on, So they want to curate the characters and have a secure position within that story. They hold memories. Like a film being branded with the whole image at once. Prioritization is difficult so the priority turns to self preservation, especially with men. As someone with the a sun and 5 placements in Sagittarius and Venus in Scorpio, other s*** in Pisces, I feel your pain.
And some Scorpios are really into sci-fi instead of horror/thriller/what you would expect a Scorpio to like. I think it has something to do with Scorpio's secondary ruler: Uranus. And being the opposite of the farm-builders/hyper-masculine Taureans. 😂 I love Taurus though. Taurus ftw 🤙
Thank you!! You’re so damn accurate it’s AMAZING! As a cancer sun, I realize much like the crab and even the moon itself I tend to go around conflict and situations🦀♋️🌗rather than finding a way through. It’s a cycle that I, ME must break through mental stability, focus and true self realization. Being more present!!! It’s true I’m very talented and expressive but I’m still trying to find my purpose. I don’t want power, I don’t want to conquer. I do want community. To be truly seen. I want my art to be transformative, helpful. When I’m around others that lack empathy or just plain REJECTED me, it does feel threatening to my safety and i retreat. Hide. What a vicious fucking cycle😂 I’m workin on it!
I call those days “days of nothing “ I schedule one for myself once a week because it’s a necessary prescription. Helps me release and reboot. Much love ❤
I started a family at 35. Maybe that thought weigh's heavy on you. Now that I'm on the side of a stay at home moms perspective, things come in time that are meant for us in this life. I find high end spiritual people are on there own a lot of times. Maybe for a much bigger purpose of course. Sometimes we can get caught up and consumed in relationships that hinder our capabilities!
For a Cancer who likes to hide, thanks to this video I feel exposed 😂 this is very healing. I'm 46 and right now I'm reparenting myself and enjoying the peace in my life now. Have healed from family and relationship trauma. My younger years was just mentally scattered and lost. Thank you❤
Cancer can be really quited only they test you with their emotions how power emotional you are, cuz they dont want to give up on you but a lot give up already for those who are far with emotions emphatie they have patience for they look sensitive unstable but thats tactic for them to cut the weaknes out....
Thank you thank you thank you. You understand people in a really fucking rare way... Too many thoughts and feel like... don't want to be bothering you with my infinite rants.... So just a few random thoughts from the end part that I can remember right now... The blunt truth thing is relieving.. rare... the trick is that yours is balanced with deep empathy and understanding of people... Most don't have that balance... Not courageous enough to be direct... Or not clear enough... Or just unempathetic or etc.... Other thing was the explanation about triggers... that was a fucking fantastic explaination.... and visual... that helps.... Was something else... ... Oh the reflections and "medicine"... yeah... these things are all like that.... Your warmth helps people feel understood.... which is a very needed thing in this world... And last for now... the next time I feel like shit about myself and need a good cry I'm going to relisten to the first bit.... not sure ive ever heard descriptions so fitting.... thank you for that... helped me feel compassion for my self... my experience existing....
It's funny that you keep saying sag,sagittarius is always😂 attracted to cancers, and that's the problem, but Cancerd can see sad just darkside, even when sag is mature sag, just like to hold their feelings in and they get bored too quick and that's what scares A. Sagittarius, because cancer can see through them before they could even see the changing in their selfs.😂😂😂😂 I know that because I raised a sag son that's dating a cancer And I dated a sag that didn't understand my intuition and thought I was some a witch, Or I was crazy because i knew what he was doing and he couldn't get away with it like he got away with it with other women and the other signs. That's what freaks sagittarius out about cancer we can see through. All the stuff they be trying to hide.😂😂😂😂😂
I know I am so late. Both the dark side and light sides are true. But the emotional thingy, I am not that. I objectively act straight away. I go deeper like the king crabs.
Cancer is the womb from which life springs forth. We are the beginning of life. Cardinal water represents the primordial waters of space (yes, there is water in space), so there a lot that people don’t understand about cancer. The opposite side of cancer is Capricorn, the devil 😈, so we definitely have that side of us as well. A cancer that isn’t evolved can be very destructive, but this is true with all of the signs. When you are dealing with an evolved cancer, we go deeeeeep, so if you aren’t ready for that kind of spiritual awareness and awakening, cancer just isn’t for you. We are a very spiritual sign. There isn’t too many men that can handle my spiritual depth, my motherly love, my passionate love making, and my on point intuition. I was a crazy, clingy crybaby when I was in my twenties. As I moved through my thirties and now my forties, I understand my power and depth to the point that I don’t need validation and approval anymore. I will cut a mf off like a fat cyst before I ever allow someone to turn me into something that is unlike myself. Cancers are here to love, this is why we are the nurturers of the zodiac. I find that Taurus, Scorpio, Leo, Pisces and Capricorn are good for the cancerean woman. Taurus and pisces have the patience to deal with an unbalanced cancer, especially Taurus, as they are an earth sign that is stable and strong enough to absorb an unbalanced cancers emotional waters. The other signs, a cancer would have to be an evolved cancer to deal with these men. Especially Leo and Scorpio. I love Scorpio men, the passion that we ignite together is otherworldly. But, you have to be the type of cancer woman that is patient, self absorbed, self occupied, self assured, have immense coffers of self love and self worth to tap into to deal with a Scorpio because in my experience, they will flee at the first sign of mental instability. They don’t want to manage anyone’s feelings. They don’t want to be stifled. Cancer is the mother! She can either be the loving, sweet and kind mother that always makes sure you have everything you need or she can be the mother from the movie “Mommy Dearest”. Chose wisely 😅
You have a long way to go to truly understanding a cancer....you are speaking from a very limited view based on your experience which is obviously not very wide. Careful what you place out there. You did a very disturbing number in your other video on the dark side...much of it not really reflective of this sign. Make your self worthy of this sign by really trying to be non judgemental of this sign, try to study them over a long period before you make such pronouncements.
Scorpios like this guy are backstabbers. Like the parable of the scorpion and the river. A lot of what he says about Cancer is projection. Scorpions project a lot, like a scorpion projects a stinger. And clearly a huge narcissist, who claims that he is a supernatural being. He spends an hour explaining how cancers aren't even human in his dark side cancer video, and then spends half an hour monologuing about his life in his light side cancer video. Anyway he did a lot of damage convincing fellow fools.
I could literally listen to you for hours
I really appreciated your dark cancer video I would be interested in knowing if you have an updated perspective of Cancerians since making these. I notice in the video you don't really focus on the light side of Cancers, you mention a few positive attributes but even those you bring up the shadow aspects. I used to be like this with Aquarians, due to nonromantic toxic relationships. I now am at a point that I can honestly talk positively about Aquarians without bringing up the the shadow side of their traits. I get along really well with Scorpios so it surprises me that you had such a bad experience with Cancers. You were so on point with the dark traits you must have been dealing with some seriously unbalanced Cancers. I hope you have the opportunity to make some Cancarian friends who are shiney examples of the light side!
I just finished the video and found it helpful in a few ways. It highlighted areas of growth I have already gone through. It helped me see some of the areas I still have that are toxic. It helped me identify areas of my self identity that I have already pinpointed and have been able to pull out. It helped me see how I may have negatively impacted others in the past. There have been times I'm the past where I have been ghosted by friends (before ghosting was a common thing) and I am thinking now that there were times people couldn't handle the mirror I held up to them. But there were times where people couldn't handle the intensity of intimacy I was at. They didn't want to see me hurt and also didn't want to deal with the emotional outpouring that they were worried would come with explaining I was asking too much so they just dropped me and didn't look back. Honestly I think I was misunderstood but at the same time I can't blame them for not know how to approach the situation. I told my husband very early in our relationship when the conversation of cheating came up that I could not honestly tell him how I would respond if he cheated . I wasn't trying to threaten him, I was being transparent about my own lack of being able to predict my mood caused by that situation. 🤷♀️ I have grown a lot since then and would like to think I would know my response in that situation but if I am being honest with myself I still don't. I am fortunate to have someone who supports me in finding myself while he works through his own toxic traits. We wish we would have come into our relationship in our higher selves b3cause we can see the potential of what could have been for us. At the same time we now have the blessing of knowing we have each other's back even when evolving gets rough and uncomfortable. We also know the other person is going to make room for the person we are becoming. Yesterday After watching your dark cancer video, I said to my husband "I had to ask myself if wanting you to be happy was because I actually care about your happiness or if it is because I need you to be happy in order to be happy". It was not something I had thought out all the way. I do genuinely want his happiness after thinking about it but I also have to be honest enough that I don't know how to be happy if he isn't and I am not sure if I can be. So much self work to be done. Thank you for the opportunity to dive deeper into the shadow so I can know the dark side of the moon.
He says the light side in the cold hard truth too
Goodness! I could listen to you allllll day! I dont feel out of place listening to you, you have a way of explaining that is just beautiful. Your delivery of things that are difficult to say is impeccable, most won't do so knowledgly, wisely or tenderly. I appreciate that very much.
Thank you so much xo
Watching this one now, love that your able to talk about your inner reflections with this reflective sign and connecting to the dots.
thank you!
What you said at the beginning just resonnates in me so much. I didn't picture my life the way it is... I'm grateful I have my beautiful Moana with me but I would have loved to have a life partner to age with. And It's hard to age, of course it is. But it's beautiful too. I can see experience on my face, struggles and beautiful things also. Same for you... you are beautiful inside and outside ❤
All you said about the cancerians speaks to me deeply. I know it's for the sun sign, but my rising sign is very important too. I really feel half Leo 🦁 half 🦀 and aging I sometimes feel more like a Cancer ♋ I'm a guide for people, a coach, a healer, it's my life mission. I'm an artist, a hermit and so sensitive and emotional. This is definitely not my Leo part. That cubby house you're talking about was in my bedroom when was a child. It's where I liked to hide. I wish I could have one now even if I'm an adult haha And my dear mom was a crab too. The most beautiful soul I've met on earth. She was everything on the light side. I miss her everyday. Thank you for this video. It's brillant as always xo
Thank you honey yeah I really do see and feel that side of you actually! The sensitive and receptive side I feel it in your chart and your mother inside you! xox thank you for your beautiful messages on here it means the world to me!
@@TheElGoliathTarotDeck You're very welcome 😊 Thank you babe ❤️ 😘
Awesome video as always !! You have a way of explaining things
Thank you so much
ur laugh is so addictive 🌸🌸
Thank you
Yes, love it too. 😊
@@Lisa-cg9vvas well* you Dutchie lol
I think Cancers function as memory makers and keepers. That's why the emotional tone of anything and everything bleeds over in there confused minds, and why they seek refuge from anything that even seems negative, and that sometimes leads them to avoid you if only because a cloud passed over them when they saw you. I think that also explains much of their need for an exclusive group; You need a story to have a memory and their story making is always on, So they want to curate the characters and have a secure position within that story. They hold memories. Like a film being branded with the whole image at once. Prioritization is difficult so the priority turns to self preservation, especially with men.
As someone with the a sun and 5 placements in Sagittarius and Venus in Scorpio, other s*** in Pisces, I feel your pain.
Yep agree 1000%
Cancerian women and men are totally different.
The same counts for all signs. Except Aquarius, they're all weird. Lol
And some Scorpios are really into sci-fi instead of horror/thriller/what you would expect a Scorpio to like. I think it has something to do with Scorpio's secondary ruler: Uranus. And being the opposite of the farm-builders/hyper-masculine Taureans. 😂 I love Taurus though. Taurus ftw 🤙
I mean not all Tauruses are working construction jobs, but all construction workers are Taureans .. 😜
Thank you!! You’re so damn accurate it’s AMAZING! As a cancer sun, I realize much like the crab and even the moon itself I tend to go around conflict and situations🦀♋️🌗rather than finding a way through. It’s a cycle that I, ME must break through mental stability, focus and true self realization. Being more present!!! It’s true I’m very talented and expressive but I’m still trying to find my purpose. I don’t want power, I don’t want to conquer. I do want community. To be truly seen. I want my art to be transformative, helpful. When I’m around others that lack empathy or just plain REJECTED me, it does feel threatening to my safety and i retreat. Hide. What a vicious fucking cycle😂 I’m workin on it!
I call those days “days of nothing “ I schedule one for myself once a week because it’s a necessary prescription. Helps me release and reboot. Much love ❤
I started a family at 35. Maybe that thought weigh's heavy on you. Now that I'm on the side of a stay at home moms perspective, things come in time that are meant for us in this life. I find high end spiritual people are on there own a lot of times. Maybe for a much bigger purpose of course.
Sometimes we can get caught up and consumed in relationships that hinder our capabilities!
I have a cancer 4 yr old sun daughter and a cancer 3 yr old moon son. They decided to come into this life to two Leo parents. Lol
Ur not alone im glade i know someone feels the same
When you know the truth about this sign then you know, so yeah those that know, know...
Oh my Gosh thank you I have literally had so many ligh bulb moments listening to you
🦀 ♋💌
For a Cancer who likes to hide, thanks to this video I feel exposed 😂 this is very healing. I'm 46 and right now I'm reparenting myself and enjoying the peace in my life now. Have healed from family and relationship trauma. My younger years was just mentally scattered and lost. Thank you❤
This video is all that I love it🥰💯🙌🏾💪🏾👏🏾☝🏾
Love your videos. The experiments is called the double slit experiment.
Oh yeah thats the one!
Good morning . I’m from Florida I’m a cancer ♋️ love you broad cast .. specially the dark side of a cancer ♋️ .. is quiet fascinating and scary
Love the video
Thank you so much light sided Cancer traits are very nice x
Cancer can be really quited only they test you with their emotions how power emotional you are, cuz they dont want to give up on you but a lot give up already for those who are far with emotions emphatie they have patience for they look sensitive unstable but thats tactic for them to cut the weaknes out....
Your videos are very good i give it five stars ❤❤❤❤
Thank you thank you thank you.
You understand people in a really fucking rare way...
Too many thoughts and feel like... don't want to be bothering you with my infinite rants....
So just a few random thoughts from the end part that I can remember right now...
The blunt truth thing is relieving.. rare... the trick is that yours is balanced with deep empathy and understanding of people...
Most don't have that balance...
Not courageous enough to be direct...
Or not clear enough...
Or just unempathetic or etc....
Other thing was the explanation about triggers... that was a fucking fantastic explaination.... and visual... that helps....
Was something else... ...
Oh the reflections and "medicine"... yeah... these things are all like that....
Your warmth helps people feel understood.... which is a very needed thing in this world...
And last for now... the next time I feel like shit about myself and need a good cry I'm going to relisten to the first bit.... not sure ive ever heard descriptions so fitting.... thank you for that... helped me feel compassion for my self... my experience existing....
this makes me smile, in this I see god
@@TheElGoliathTarotDeck good.. and seeing this makes me smile.. thanks for that.
You sold it ❤️❤️❤️❤️
I’m a Nov 22 baby too ,sag/scorpion cusp ☃️
Yep thats us... Its a brutal sign combo.. Sag seeks the truth and expansion and scorpio meausres and wants to own and control everything...
I just started watching you , you are amazing , so accurate, an I don’t watch or listen to just anyone lol ☃️☀️
@@laurahenry3562 Yea! thank you
Cancerians love freedom ❤
Watch Christmas Island crabs migration. They just know when to go to the ocean.
The El Goliath Tarot Deck Is the book downloadable for this deck ?
Yes sure is available on my website downloadable in PDF
@@TheElGoliathTarotDeck Thank you I love the deck
Very true
i’m ☀️ ♋️🙋🏻♀️, moon ♒️, venus ♌️, mars ♈️ and my ❤ ♏️ 🙎🏻♂️with venus ♐️💪🏻😎💥❤️🔥🔥😊
Nice mix
The double slit experiment
That’s the one!
I like gentle Scorpio
If we are dark is because we are very much hurt by so that for we are created
The dark side was clearly coming from your old wounds lol
Sure was thats why I NEVER go near a dark cancer no matter where their other placements are.
You do
My mom, who was a Capricorn said before she died that she tried to figure me, a Cancerian out. 😅
Cancers are mirrors in a way to their environment
I think it felt like a whipping
Lol, I love that Mike Tyson interpretation😂
I am Tramatized by the Dark Cancer video.
Yes that is a good word for it, the dark sided cancer will do more damage then a gemini ro a scorpio.
Sensitive is not mental
It's funny that you keep saying sag,sagittarius is always😂 attracted to cancers, and that's the problem, but Cancerd can see sad just darkside, even when sag is mature sag, just like to hold their feelings in and they get bored too quick and that's what scares A. Sagittarius, because cancer can see through them before they could even see the changing in their selfs.😂😂😂😂 I know that because I raised a sag son that's dating a cancer And I dated a sag that didn't understand my intuition and thought I was some a witch, Or I was crazy because i knew what he was doing and he couldn't get away with it like he got away with it with other women and the other signs. That's what freaks sagittarius out about cancer we can see through. All the stuff they be trying to hide.😂😂😂😂😂
I know I am so late. Both the dark side and light sides are true. But the emotional thingy, I am not that. I objectively act straight away. I go deeper like the king crabs.
yes crabs can go deep but gotta be not hot and cold with others and themselves
Princess Diana
Whatever sign you are I’m sorry for you!!!
Sag
Like everyone else
Cancers are the most emotional manipulators. 🚩🚩🚩🚩
🧿 🧿 🧿 🧿
Sounds like you are Aussie!
sure am
I always say I am part Aussie. I had a custom made graft put in my artery aneurysm. It was made in Australia! So.... my claim
@@TheElGoliathTarotDeck
Cancer is the womb from which life springs forth. We are the beginning of life. Cardinal water represents the primordial waters of space (yes, there is water in space), so there a lot that people don’t understand about cancer. The opposite side of cancer is Capricorn, the devil 😈, so we definitely have that side of us as well. A cancer that isn’t evolved can be very destructive, but this is true with all of the signs. When you are dealing with an evolved cancer, we go deeeeeep, so if you aren’t ready for that kind of spiritual awareness and awakening, cancer just isn’t for you. We are a very spiritual sign. There isn’t too many men that can handle my spiritual depth, my motherly love, my passionate love making, and my on point intuition. I was a crazy, clingy crybaby when I was in my twenties. As I moved through my thirties and now my forties, I understand my power and depth to the point that I don’t need validation and approval anymore. I will cut a mf off like a fat cyst before I ever allow someone to turn me into something that is unlike myself. Cancers are here to love, this is why we are the nurturers of the zodiac. I find that Taurus, Scorpio, Leo, Pisces and Capricorn are good for the cancerean woman. Taurus and pisces have the patience to deal with an unbalanced cancer, especially Taurus, as they are an earth sign that is stable and strong enough to absorb an unbalanced cancers emotional waters. The other signs, a cancer would have to be an evolved cancer to deal with these men. Especially Leo and Scorpio. I love Scorpio men, the passion that we ignite together is otherworldly. But, you have to be the type of cancer woman that is patient, self absorbed, self occupied, self assured, have immense coffers of self love and self worth to tap into to deal with a Scorpio because in my experience, they will flee at the first sign of mental instability. They don’t want to manage anyone’s feelings. They don’t want to be stifled. Cancer is the mother! She can either be the loving, sweet and kind mother that always makes sure you have everything you need or she can be the mother from the movie “Mommy Dearest”. Chose wisely 😅
I hate movies! 😅
Hmmmm you will not survive with cancer ♋️ I’m very well balanced
You have a long way to go to truly understanding a cancer....you are speaking from a very limited view based on your experience which is obviously not very wide. Careful what you place out there. You did a very disturbing number in your other video on the dark side...much of it not really reflective of this sign. Make your self worthy of this sign by really trying to be non judgemental of this sign, try to study them over a long period before you make such pronouncements.
Thank you so much, love and blessinsgs to you. I love my haters.. "Telling me I need to make myself worthy"..😆😆🤣. GOLD!
Scorpios like this guy are backstabbers. Like the parable of the scorpion and the river. A lot of what he says about Cancer is projection. Scorpions project a lot, like a scorpion projects a stinger. And clearly a huge narcissist, who claims that he is a supernatural being.
He spends an hour explaining how cancers aren't even human in his dark side cancer video, and then spends half an hour monologuing about his life in his light side cancer video. Anyway he did a lot of damage convincing fellow fools.