Add to low-status flags: Bad grammar: Use I, he, she in the subject of a sentence and me, him, her in the predicate or after a preposition. That rule does not change if the pronoun is one of a series instead of standing alone. In a list that is part of a compound subject, compound predicate, or compound object, use you first, then references to others (he/him, she/her, they/them, nouns, etc.) second, then references to oneself last. "Me and" is always wrong, for example. No apostrophe in plurals except for single letters, punctuation symbols, or where omission of the apostrophe would cause obvious confusion. An apostrophe does belong in all possessive nouns, conversely. Avoid homophone errors: homophones are words that sound alike but are spelled differently. Its/it's is the most common error, but there are others. Proof that this one observation is linked to low status and not mere imperfect education, when it occurs, is the fact that when someone who makes such a mistake is challenged, the response is some variant of "what difference does it make?" Yes it does make a difference to people (including me) who, when reading, decode written words directly instead of internally converting them to spoken words then decoding the spoken words. Denying a functional difference between a word and a homophone for it is denying the right of people to think differently from oneself, which is arrogant.
My dear friend is black, and she was raised in the south. I teach her how to pronounce words because her culture is totally different. We both have discalculia. She has so much wisdom. Different culture, as is my friend from India. Weigh your opinions carefully before you judge.
My son (34) calls me (74) the Grammar Nazi. People say, "Well, language is fluid and you're being elitist." Well, bad grammar (and bad spelling) can obscure your point and hamper communication, as well as marking you as ignorant. You don't need an expensive education to speak and spell correctly. OJ Simpson realized as a teen that his ghetto speech was going to hold him back, so worked hard on it, recording himself and examples to play back to learn--and became an elite sportscaster dabbling in high society. As for spelling, just look at the writings of our forefathers (200 years ago) and try to understand many of the (differently-spelled) words. As for homophones, a school board recently fired an English teacher for using the word in an online post, mistaking it for sexual orientation! Running a school system???
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Low status to me: - Frequent Procrastination - Failure to take responsibility for outcomes of choices - Long term dependence on government Programs for financial purposes - Excessive tattoos - Poor social skills - Poor financial management - Excessive Debt - Entitled behavior - Lack of consideration for others
@@rexnakoki8385 omlll bro 😭 some but not all , there are a lot of successful black women it's only the ones in the hood that have these characteristics
More things: 1. Not prioritizing the right things in life when given options 2. Taking from others and never giving anything back in return 3. Making silly blunders and mistakes most wouldn't make in a situation 4. Being slow to respond or understand something/being forgetful
17.Calling whoever disagrees with you stupid. 18. Having no logic for your behavior and actions.19. Disobeying or rebelling against the leader for no reason 20.I can do whatever I want mindset 21.Justifying rudeness by saying it's the truth.
The bonus indicator is basically everybody in Walmart… You know, the ones who don’t watch their kids and let them run around like animals in a zoo and don’t bother to correct them from annoying everybody else. Period.
I can be the summary guy. 1. Bad Hygiene. 2. People realizing you are talking nonsense. 3. Digging in with personal question. 4. You look physically tired or ill. 5. Being bad with money. 6. Allowing other to speak bad on you,and not standing for yourself. 7. Not being able to read a room(Figure it out) 8. Lack of emotional control. 9. Excessive behaviours. 10. People who are lost and lack purpose in life. 11. Cruelty. 12. A disregard for the rules of the house. 13. Making one thing your entire personality( Channel your strength and interest in some other valuable things). 14. Lacking basic skills. 15. Going against the consensus and being wrong.
1. Abusing other people's time. 2. Flaking on plans 3. Tardiness 4. Absent-mindedness. Asking others to remind you about things. 5. Proactively stating they could help you, then ghosting all communication when you take them up on it. (Extension of #1)
Flaking for sure. Being loud late at night in a multi-family housing. Being too socially inept to return a "hello" in the hallway or elevator. Not bringing a hostess gift to a party (even a bottle of cheap Prosecco will do- its the GESTURE that counts). Talking about money in a way thats in bad taste (bragging about played-out designer clothing labels, bragging about your car payment, bragging about how much the guy down the street sold his house for, strategically placing your LV bag that a sugar daddy paid for in the picture of your dinner at Olive Garden).
Failure to take good actions on your finance, Income will remain stable while expenditures rises. The rich acquire fortune cause they seek the aid of finance-pro(s) to achieve their financial goals
Some other low status things for me: Constantly talking bad about someone years after they left a job, moved, etc. Saying a person has to be lucky when they succeed because they were stupid when they were around them.
I would make good tips of of clients. And the this one girl I worked with in particular would keep saying I got "lucky". She would never say I was good at my job.
Constantly complaining, excessively cursing and being loud, immediately jumping to conclusions, putting words in people mouth, assuming your point of view is the best and disregarding others point of view, being nosey, intentionally withholding key information to cause someone to make a misinformed decision, then immediately accuse them of being unproductive, invading privacy, demanding people not implore their rights that they are legally held to for your personal gain, telling half truths, changing the story,taking malicious actions against someone for defending themselves. Lying and trying to use power and fear to enforce the lie, expecting people to lie for you
#1-Anyone who is constantly being offended! About everything and anything for attention! Hopefully, when she comes into the break room and we ALL GET UP AND WALK OUT she gets the point!? Lol. Had to come back -Oh yeah, I definitely agree with the screaming/ lots of noise kids AND ADULTS!
The last one may not necessarily be true. For example Albert Einstein used to do physics in his apartment in Germany while rocking the cradle of crying baby with one hand and sound pf pressure cooker going off in kitchen and other distractions.. his superior brain was so concentrated on the problem he was trying to solve that, other things just ssemed to disappear from him in background.
Most people are NOT Einstein, so, yes, "being satisfied with unnecessary discomfort" rings true for MOST (not all) people. Giving an anectdotal example based on a famous person's life doesn't negate the statement because it was made in general; and generally this is true.
I don’t love the idea of high and low class as someone could have low education but a lot of great qualities or be financially middle class but excellent at the thing they love . A really great school teacher for example. But one quality that immediately lowers status is the way we treat people who serve us. Being rude to waiters, not tipping at hotels or speaking to your cleaning lady like dirt are all indications that you are socially insecure and vulgar
People lacking good manners, courtesy, and good hygiene are the most instant offenses it seems. However, the deplorable lack in grasping the English language in America (by those educated here, not talking about ESL speakers, they are learning and taking on multiple languages, kudos to them). Especially when the person speaks in constant slang, laced heavily with vulgar language. That seems to insult the intellect of all within earshot. 😢
#2...had a friend that I wanted to partner up with in business, she would sign up for seminars and workshops only to flake at the last minute. I gave her one more chance, the excuses she gave me sounded like she pulled them out of thin air..I just hung up. She called again, but I was done. I decided to do it myself.
I disagree with #6, talk is cheap. If someone is talking down to you about your performance or your life and you know you have more assets than them, you are healthier, and you have more going on in your life, then just look them in the eyes and just smile as they talk shit.
Alux said the behavior loweres the DOER'S status, not the person it is being done to. Even if the receiver walks away, the doer is still low class for perpetrating the behavior.
There was a discussion on LinkedIn about hitting your vape during a virtual meeting/interview. Most people were like why do we have to explain common courtesy? Some people were like if it's virtual, it's not bothering anyone. There was discussion about drinking a beer or alcohol during an interview as well. Like cracked open a beer bottle/martini shaken not stirred. There was an argument about that. And today, we were talking about how people get on public transportation, talk on their phones via speaker or a video chat. And they have to dang near yell to be heard. OK. Rants over. 😂
I think they meant more if you have power to stop it. Some people subconsciously punish themselves by going through or doing things that they have an option to get out of.
Those who have bad hygiene and lack basic skills. And no I'm not talking about anyone who is homeless or have a mental illness. I'm talking about people who you know that has a job or makes money by whatever means and just lacks effort to take care of themselves or expect everyone else to pick up the slack while that person does nothing. This includes those people who also lack purpose and go along with life with no interest, feeling or empathy. Again, I'm not speaking on anyone who is struggling with any mental illness or issue. But I must say the Bonus takes the cake.
16. Always wanting to discuss conspiracy theories. Some may turn out to be true eventually, but it's a sign to me that if a person always just wants to discuss conspiracy theories, that their own lives are boring, they crave easy answers to tough questions, they don't think in depth, they copy and paste the thoughts of others into their brains, they are willing NPCs and tools for others.
Judging people or situations on first impressions without determining the context of why those circumstances have arisen. What might seen undesirable on the surface may well be the opposite once the circumstances behind it are understood.
The way most people dress, always casual. Nothing inspiring or original there. No style. People who talk about someone else in a negative way. Then, whenever I think about the person they mentioned, I have to wonder. True or not true?
I disagree about “defending yourself”. Depending on the circumstance, engaging with them is what they want. Saying nothing indicates their opinion isn’t worth your time. The saying - don’t fight with pigs. You get dirty and they like it.
-Talking louder than necessary in public. -Being unaware of, or purposely disrupting the peace or sense of security for others in your environment. -Pranks.
@@natasharostova5186 It's not that it's not funny, but essentially you would sacrifice trust and feeling secure with eachother for a laugh.. that is not a trade that high value character is willing to make
Looking at a few famous people, I developed a slogan: You can be funny. You can make people laugh, but don't be the joke. Tattoos of a boyfriend on your face, acting like a THOT in public, or attributing a foreign government to part-time income that got you jailed are great examples.
For the record, Warren Buffett is cheap. He is a lousy tipper. I live in Omaha, and I’ve heard stories about him. The waitresses at Gorat’s, his favorite steakhouse, hate to see him coming.
-People who don’t care about their weight problem or physical health in general -Men who make their working wives do everything at home instead of sharing the responsibility. After all, the wife is sharing the work responsibility now. -People who are excessively loud in areas where it’s obvious that you need to shut up. Basically your “Read the room” point.
@alux is it me or I heard a gen Z slang (cap)? The video was on point and the last one really hit me hard. I've never been able to be comfortable with the unnecessary background noises and I've met people who are; after reflecting on it I realized that i have a tendency to not be willing to hangout with them 😅, nice one!
I create songs out of background music if I have to be in the same area. Making a game of it could increase your ability to endure in certain situations. This is what a drill instructor does for troops. The most competent soldier is able to optimally perform regardless of the situation or background noise.
@@Agentxile I understand that certain professions or situations may require you to have to handle some background noises. However, I believe, that the main point of discussion here is "unnecessary" noise. Therefore, deciding to be in the army, work in construction, be a stage security guard at a festival, etc., is a choice made by the individual to put themselves in this situation. On the other end, living in an apartment building filled with families with young children, when you're a single individual that has activities that require quiet time, knowing that you ARE able to move out to another, better suited apartment, is what, I believe, @alux wanted to illustrate.
One last little indicator that you might be low status (I was dying here 😂😱😂😂) How comfortable you are with unnecessary discomfort. Being comfortable with annoying background noises. Things like smoke alarms, beeping water, water dripping from a tap, loud speaker phone, screaming children, doors opening and closing in the wind, dogs barking, Bluetooth speakers outside, loud conversations, with people screaming from one side of the room to the other with blatant disregard for other people.
AWESOME VIDEO. Using most of, or all of your savings/ investments to buy a home, then struggling to pay your utility bills by putting everything on a credit card. In short, becoming "house broke".
Rude coworkers who do more socializing than actual work but claim you are the slow and lazy one. People who brag about not reading a book. Those two things make me less inclined to exchange.
Speaking of the app.. does anyone have the same issue as I with it? Like buttons take over minute to respond, slow loading etc..... if anyone can help with it, it would greatly appreciate....
Alux! I wish you make a video about the reasons behind USA and Canada allowing people to illegally enter these two countries and why they are being deported afterwards. Don't forget to include the pros and cons. Thanks in advance.
The last one they even presented an example of this on Boy Meets World. The character Shawn couldn't sleep without hearing a train, gun shots and all that stuff.
The screaming person who holds onto an immovable opinion with no facts to back it up. They make really funny Tick-Tok videos but are frankly tragic. That person who is protesting about something but can’t find the country in question on a map. Or the one who demands you vote for their candidate but has no clue what that candidate’s voting record is. I don’t expect everyone to agree with me but I do hope you at least know why you don’t.
Another one is when someone barely understand anything, like when they don't know the jargon of the room. And are continuously asking for explanations.
I worked with a girl like that. At one point I just sent her a link of slang. It's like do your homework. Another time I ignored her. Because who I am to stop mid conversation and explain with each paragraph.
That’s me. I really want to know. Don’t dis me. If you do, I will hold the opinion that you aren’t really of value, and that you hold yourself superior. I will no longer respect you. Actually, you sound like a snob.
I like clean people Without a question you can't get an answer Cheap rich are bad ie going with prostitutes Some people hsve health problems so look tired ie kidneys, jaundice, anaemia Ripping off people is low status My house is mine !! Taking from others and never giving Freeloading all the time Name calling for no reason Won't work in a team at all ever No food in fridge On benefits from 18 free house free everything now 64 never worked Pets really thin with dry coat Neglected children dirty faces, little food, no coats if freezing Blaming everyone except themselves No responsibility for life, home, pets, children, carer. O. Food from tins all of it represents an issue
People who start, or put themselves in a conversation and can't read a situation... Also, people who don't or wish not to understand what people say when having a conversation.
Sometimes that’s a mental disorder. Autism, or innocence. The person in question doesn’t understand social cues, so a more compassionate person would understand that and try to include them. Sometimes extremely brilliant people are that way.
Constantly talking gossiping bad about other people, especially other people you yourself have yet to meet to make an assessment of yourself. They want you to see those people through their eyes and not you making an decision for yourself. It makes them look suspicious and lowers their value.
Unfortunately, some people don’t realize that they are exhibiting disrespectful or “low status” behaviors and accuse you, if your behavior is not in conformity with theirs, for being “weird” and for “making them feel uncomfortable.” 😂 An example is using swearing words during business meetings. At first I thought they were upset at whatever projects or progress discussed during the meeting, but it didn’t take me long to realize swearing is in their daily vocabulary 😂 Many people think it’ cool or nothing harmful to swear in situations where swearing was actually not justified, what they don’t realize is that: inappropriate cursing words in inappropriate setting shoes vulgarness and their lack of vocabulary and education 😂
Vulgar language equals low status. If you have such a limited vocabulary that every sentence is peppered with the f-word, no one is going to view you as high status. Buy a thesaurus and elevate your status.
Add to low-status flags:
Bad grammar:
Use I, he, she in the subject of a sentence and me, him, her in the predicate or after a preposition. That rule does not change if the pronoun is one of a series instead of standing alone.
In a list that is part of a compound subject, compound predicate, or compound object, use you first, then references to others (he/him, she/her, they/them, nouns, etc.) second, then references to oneself last. "Me and" is always wrong, for example.
No apostrophe in plurals except for single letters, punctuation symbols, or where omission of the apostrophe would cause obvious confusion. An apostrophe does belong in all possessive nouns, conversely.
Avoid homophone errors: homophones are words that sound alike but are spelled differently. Its/it's is the most common error, but there are others. Proof that this one observation is linked to low status and not mere imperfect education, when it occurs, is the fact that when someone who makes such a mistake is challenged, the response is some variant of "what difference does it make?" Yes it does make a difference to people (including me) who, when reading, decode written words directly instead of internally converting them to spoken words then decoding the spoken words. Denying a functional difference between a word and a homophone for it is denying the right of people to think differently from oneself, which is arrogant.
and only speak 1 language!!!
happens all the time here in UA-cam land
signed, grammar police
My dear friend is black, and she was raised in the south. I teach her how to pronounce words because her culture is totally different. We both have discalculia. She has so much wisdom. Different culture, as is my friend from India. Weigh your opinions carefully before you judge.
My son (34) calls me (74) the Grammar Nazi. People say, "Well, language is fluid and you're being elitist." Well, bad grammar (and bad spelling) can obscure your point and hamper communication, as well as marking you as ignorant. You don't need an expensive education to speak and spell correctly. OJ Simpson realized as a teen that his ghetto speech was going to hold him back, so worked hard on it, recording himself and examples to play back to learn--and became an elite sportscaster dabbling in high society. As for spelling, just look at the writings of our forefathers (200 years ago) and try to understand many of the (differently-spelled) words. As for homophones, a school board recently fired an English teacher for using the word in an online post, mistaking it for sexual orientation! Running a school system???
Hello Aluxers, which of these immediately makes you label someone as low class?
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If all else fails, get the app: www.alux.com/app
Low status to me:
- Frequent Procrastination
- Failure to take responsibility for outcomes of choices
- Long term dependence on government Programs for financial purposes
- Excessive tattoos
- Poor social skills
- Poor financial management
- Excessive Debt
- Entitled behavior
- Lack of consideration for others
With excessive tattoos I’ll also say tattoo location. You could only have 1 but if it’s blasted on your neck or face…
You just described black women 😂
@@rexnakoki8385 omlll bro 😭 some but not all , there are a lot of successful black women it's only the ones in the hood that have these characteristics
Inconsideration of others is ubiquitous now !!!!
@@rexnakoki8385 I know a lot of people who fit this description, and I live in a majority white area
More things:
1. Not prioritizing the right things in life when given options
2. Taking from others and never giving anything back in return
3. Making silly blunders and mistakes most wouldn't make in a situation
4. Being slow to respond or understand something/being forgetful
17.Calling whoever disagrees with you stupid. 18. Having no logic for your behavior and actions.19. Disobeying or rebelling against the leader for no reason 20.I can do whatever I want mindset 21.Justifying rudeness by saying it's the truth.
Totally agreed
22 . Being toxic just to increase your status
Perfectly said
24. Being a liberal
Rebelling against the leader or authority is not low status, it’s sometimes a necessity to revolutionize.
The bonus indicator is basically everybody in Walmart… You know, the ones who don’t watch their kids and let them run around like animals in a zoo and don’t bother to correct them from annoying everybody else. Period.
I can be the summary guy.
1. Bad Hygiene.
2. People realizing you are talking nonsense.
3. Digging in with personal question.
4. You look physically tired or ill.
5. Being bad with money.
6. Allowing other to speak bad on you,and not standing for yourself.
7. Not being able to read a room(Figure it out)
8. Lack of emotional control.
9. Excessive behaviours.
10. People who are lost and lack purpose in life.
11. Cruelty.
12. A disregard for the rules of the house.
13. Making one thing your entire personality( Channel your strength and interest in some other valuable things).
14. Lacking basic skills.
15. Going against the consensus and being wrong.
Look at you! Congrats, you became the summary guy!
@@alux Thanks, man! 🙂
I think number 15. Is just plain wrong. Don't just be another sheep. Sure you may get things wrong but to follow blindly is absolutely ridiculous
I'm always inspired Alux, more grace.
❤❤❤thank you summary guy!!! I always go to comment section looking for a summary person❤❤❤just found you
Bad table manners, lack of manners in general - a very useful indicator to spot low class people.
Hygiene is a huge thing. How you treat servers, children, and animals are huge too
1. Abusing other people's time. 2. Flaking on plans
3. Tardiness
4. Absent-mindedness. Asking others to remind you about things.
5. Proactively stating they could help you, then ghosting all communication when you take them up on it. (Extension of #1)
Flaking for sure. Being loud late at night in a multi-family housing. Being too socially inept to return a "hello" in the hallway or elevator. Not bringing a hostess gift to a party (even a bottle of cheap Prosecco will do- its the GESTURE that counts). Talking about money in a way thats in bad taste (bragging about played-out designer clothing labels, bragging about your car payment, bragging about how much the guy down the street sold his house for, strategically placing your LV bag that a sugar daddy paid for in the picture of your dinner at Olive Garden).
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Some other low status things for me:
Constantly talking bad about someone years after they left a job, moved, etc.
Saying a person has to be lucky when they succeed because they were stupid when they were around them.
I would make good tips of of clients. And the this one girl I worked with in particular would keep saying I got "lucky". She would never say I was good at my job.
Constantly complaining, excessively cursing and being loud, immediately jumping to conclusions, putting words in people mouth, assuming your point of view is the best and disregarding others point of view, being nosey, intentionally withholding key information to cause someone to make a misinformed decision, then immediately accuse them of being unproductive, invading privacy, demanding people not implore their rights that they are legally held to for your personal gain, telling half truths, changing the story,taking malicious actions against someone for defending themselves. Lying and trying to use power and fear to enforce the lie, expecting people to lie for you
Like Trump.
Can you do a video on "How To Read A Room"? Thanks
#1-Anyone who is constantly being offended! About everything and anything for attention! Hopefully, when she comes into the break room and we ALL GET UP AND WALK OUT she gets the point!? Lol. Had to come back -Oh yeah, I definitely agree with the screaming/ lots of noise kids AND ADULTS!
The last one may not necessarily be true. For example Albert Einstein used to do physics in his apartment in Germany while rocking the cradle of crying baby with one hand and sound pf pressure cooker going off in kitchen and other distractions.. his superior brain was so concentrated on the problem he was trying to solve that, other things just ssemed to disappear from him in background.
Most people are NOT Einstein, so, yes, "being satisfied with unnecessary discomfort" rings true for MOST (not all) people. Giving an anectdotal example based on a famous person's life doesn't negate the statement because it was made in general; and generally this is true.
Exactly. We need to know ourselves and what is best for us as individuals
I don’t love the idea of high and low class as someone could have low education but a lot of great qualities or be financially middle class but excellent at the thing they love . A really great school teacher for example. But one quality that immediately lowers status is the way we treat people who serve us. Being rude to waiters, not tipping at hotels or speaking to your cleaning lady like dirt are all indications that you are socially insecure and vulgar
Low status to me:
- no self-control when it comes to spending / saving money
- no interest in learning or reading
- gossip
People who come in and stop the song playing just to listen to voice notes. People who just won't let you be alone
I hate people who won't leave me alone. I've had experience of them and they drove me nuts!
@@catherinebirch2399 They steal energy that's why
A female wearing clothes clothes that are too tight, too revealing, or too young for her age...
Well, that sort of depends on context and her level of fitness.
Nah... Too tight off too 'young' for your age is ALWAYS low class. I acknowledge that some men like it.
Cruelty? Psychopaths run the world.
People lacking good manners, courtesy, and good hygiene are the most instant offenses it seems. However, the deplorable lack in grasping the English language in America (by those educated here, not talking about ESL speakers, they are learning and taking on multiple languages, kudos to them). Especially when the person speaks in constant slang, laced heavily with vulgar language. That seems to insult the intellect of all within earshot. 😢
#2...had a friend that I wanted to partner up with in business, she would sign up for seminars and workshops only to flake at the last minute.
I gave her one more chance, the excuses she gave me sounded like she pulled them out of thin air..I just hung up. She called again, but I was done. I decided to do it myself.
dirty house, dirty car as well
I disagree with #6, talk is cheap. If someone is talking down to you about your performance or your life and you know you have more assets than them, you are healthier, and you have more going on in your life, then just look them in the eyes and just smile as they talk shit.
Alux said the behavior loweres the DOER'S status, not the person it is being done to. Even if the receiver walks away, the doer is still low class for perpetrating the behavior.
People who are overly litigious. So tacky.
16 - selling a dodgy app
There was a discussion on LinkedIn about hitting your vape during a virtual meeting/interview.
Most people were like why do we have to explain common courtesy?
Some people were like if it's virtual, it's not bothering anyone.
There was discussion about drinking a beer or alcohol during an interview as well. Like cracked open a beer bottle/martini shaken not stirred. There was an argument about that.
And today, we were talking about how people get on public transportation, talk on their phones via speaker or a video chat. And they have to dang near yell to be heard.
OK. Rants over. 😂
I used to allow people to speak down on me. Speaking out of experience, it's hard to gain that respect back 😮💨. But it isn't impossible
I will disagree with item 16. When I am focused on a task or studying intensely, I can block out almost everything else.
I think they meant more if you have power to stop it. Some people subconsciously punish themselves by going through or doing things that they have an option to get out of.
Those who have bad hygiene and lack basic skills. And no I'm not talking about anyone who is homeless or have a mental illness. I'm talking about people who you know that has a job or makes money by whatever means and just lacks effort to take care of themselves or expect everyone else to pick up the slack while that person does nothing. This includes those people who also lack purpose and go along with life with no interest, feeling or empathy. Again, I'm not speaking on anyone who is struggling with any mental illness or issue.
But I must say the Bonus takes the cake.
Thanks so much for sharing, trying to bring Others down from their progress
16. Always wanting to discuss conspiracy theories. Some may turn out to be true eventually, but it's a sign to me that if a person always just wants to discuss conspiracy theories, that their own lives are boring, they crave easy answers to tough questions, they don't think in depth, they copy and paste the thoughts of others into their brains, they are willing NPCs and tools for others.
What's an NPC?
Judging people or situations on first impressions without determining the context of why those circumstances have arisen. What might seen undesirable on the surface may well be the opposite once the circumstances behind it are understood.
For those Bull Nose Ring and Blue, Pink hair women... That screams low status.
Un-organic hair color screams "toxic."
and you think misogyny is something that screams high status because?
@@user-fc2xk3uv8yhow is it misogyny
@@user-fc2xk3uv8y Were is the Misogyny?
The way most people dress, always casual. Nothing inspiring or original there. No style. People who talk about someone else in a negative way. Then, whenever I think about the person they mentioned, I have to wonder. True or not true?
I agree with not having goals. One needs goals in life
I disagree about “defending yourself”. Depending on the circumstance, engaging with them is what they want. Saying nothing indicates their opinion isn’t worth your time. The saying - don’t fight with pigs. You get dirty and they like it.
-Talking louder than necessary in public.
-Being unaware of, or purposely disrupting the peace or sense of security for others in your environment.
-Pranks.
pranks are funny as long as they are non life threatening. lighten up.
@@natasharostova5186 It's not that it's not funny, but essentially you would sacrifice trust and feeling secure with eachother for a laugh.. that is not a trade that high value character is willing to make
Looking at a few famous people, I developed a slogan: You can be funny. You can make people laugh, but don't be the joke. Tattoos of a boyfriend on your face, acting like a THOT in public, or attributing a foreign government to part-time income that got you jailed are great examples.
16. Having an ugly partner. 17. Living in a bad neighborhood 18. Driving a shitty car 19. Being cheap(not frugal)
Facts!
20. Being out of shape(Fat) @@alux
For the record, Warren Buffett is cheap. He is a lousy tipper. I live in Omaha, and I’ve heard stories about him. The waitresses at Gorat’s, his favorite steakhouse, hate to see him coming.
Listening to laud music while driving
I like Warren Buffett, but I don't know him in real life, in reality, when it comes to it, for him, he knows his world, I presume!
-People who don’t care about their weight problem or physical health in general
-Men who make their working wives do everything at home instead of sharing the responsibility. After all, the wife is sharing the work responsibility now.
-People who are excessively loud in areas where it’s obvious that you need to shut up. Basically your “Read the room” point.
First to comment lol...
5th
Here's a bonus: standing outside of a public building smoking something disgusting 🤢
There's so much I need to improve lol
@alux is it me or I heard a gen Z slang (cap)? The video was on point and the last one really hit me hard. I've never been able to be comfortable with the unnecessary background noises and I've met people who are; after reflecting on it I realized that i have a tendency to not be willing to hangout with them 😅, nice one!
it's not gen z slang, it's aave.. people been saying cap for decades.
I create songs out of background music if I have to be in the same area. Making a game of it could increase your ability to endure in certain situations. This is what a drill instructor does for troops. The most competent soldier is able to optimally perform regardless of the situation or background noise.
@@user-fc2xk3uv8yThank you 👏🏾
@@Agentxile I understand that certain professions or situations may require you to have to handle some background noises. However, I believe, that the main point of discussion here is "unnecessary" noise. Therefore, deciding to be in the army, work in construction, be a stage security guard at a festival, etc., is a choice made by the individual to put themselves in this situation. On the other end, living in an apartment building filled with families with young children, when you're a single individual that has activities that require quiet time, knowing that you ARE able to move out to another, better suited apartment, is what, I believe, @alux wanted to illustrate.
Using terms like, “Capping.”
One last little indicator that you might be low status (I was dying here 😂😱😂😂)
How comfortable you are with unnecessary discomfort.
Being comfortable with annoying background noises. Things like smoke alarms, beeping water, water dripping from a tap, loud speaker phone, screaming children, doors opening and closing in the wind, dogs barking, Bluetooth speakers outside, loud conversations, with people screaming from one side of the room to the other with blatant disregard for other people.
Hi Alux, please I want to know if you use royalty free images for free or you paid for it? I want to do my own.
We pay for everything.
@@alux Ok thanks for the reply.
@@aluxvery impressed that someone replied. Practiced what you preach ❤
@@evrardevrard9967 Yeah, we're in the comments a lot
1:27 once they’ve realize you’ve been capping, you’re done. ✅
Bad manners is low status in my view.
And….did I just hear “even though it ain’t a Sunday”?
“Ain’t “? Seriously?
I like how they mentioned Schopenhauer. See? Philosophy has a place in our world!
AWESOME VIDEO. Using most of, or all of your savings/ investments to buy a home, then struggling to pay your utility bills by putting everything on a credit card. In short, becoming "house broke".
Rude coworkers who do more socializing than actual work but claim you are the slow and lazy one.
People who brag about not reading a book.
Those two things make me less inclined to exchange.
Speaking of the app.. does anyone have the same issue as I with it? Like buttons take over minute to respond, slow loading etc..... if anyone can help with it, it would greatly appreciate....
Low status: When people say derogatory remarks either in person or in public. Especially sexist or racist ones.
Thank you my friend
#12..."failure to assimilate (immigrants)"............enough said for me. :)
I find someone being low class when they don’t like someone who’s high class because of the way they choose to live their lives.
I’ve been saying this for years
Yup comes off as weak, trying to tear someone down to their level 😂
Thanks A Million. Great Video made. I got Great Knowledge and it will help me.
my favorite: when someone not in shape watches sports
Feels like you guys did this video a few times already
We did the opposite of this video
@@alux you're absolutely right, great video as always!
16. Hitting low blows at people who you have a grudge against for no reason (vegans).
Throwing lint and dryer sheets on the ground because there is no trash bin nearby. Yelling at store employee's because of their company policy.
disregard the rules of the house means Megan Markle is low class. So was Princess Diana.
1 - following the advise of wannabe uppity channels like Alux
Out of all the points just follow one or two. You will be better. I believe I m getting better as well
I need daily alux back
It's available in the app
Alux!
I wish you make a video about the reasons behind USA and Canada allowing people to illegally enter these two countries and why they are being deported afterwards.
Don't forget to include the pros and cons.
Thanks in advance.
Woke culture.
Make a video about "woke culture" then.
I wish you peace ✌️ and harmony ❤
Plan Kalergi, invented woke culture .
Cierto.
2nd comment today
That last comment was probably my favorite!
The last one they even presented an example of this on Boy Meets World. The character Shawn couldn't sleep without hearing a train, gun shots and all that stuff.
The screaming person who holds onto an immovable opinion with no facts to back it up. They make really funny Tick-Tok videos but are frankly tragic. That person who is protesting about something but can’t find the country in question on a map. Or the one who demands you vote for their candidate but has no clue what that candidate’s voting record is. I don’t expect everyone to agree with me but I do hope you at least know why you don’t.
Another one is when someone barely understand anything, like when they don't know the jargon of the room. And are continuously asking for explanations.
I worked with a girl like that. At one point I just sent her a link of slang. It's like do your homework. Another time I ignored her. Because who I am to stop mid conversation and explain with each paragraph.
That sort of depends on context. Voluntarily being a "fish out of water" to me can be a sign of courage.
That’s me. I really want to know. Don’t dis me. If you do, I will hold the opinion that you aren’t really of value, and that you hold yourself superior. I will no longer respect you. Actually, you sound like a snob.
I like clean people
Without a question you can't get an answer
Cheap rich are bad ie going with prostitutes
Some people hsve health problems so look tired ie kidneys, jaundice, anaemia
Ripping off people is low status
My house is mine !!
Taking from others and never giving
Freeloading all the time
Name calling for no reason
Won't work in a team at all ever
No food in fridge
On benefits from 18 free house free everything now 64 never worked
Pets really thin with dry coat
Neglected children dirty faces, little food, no coats if freezing
Blaming everyone except themselves
No responsibility for life, home, pets, children, carer. O.
Food from tins all of it represents an issue
Almost every time I watch a new video of Alux, I keep figuring out how fabulous I am !!
You've either got no inner dialogue, OR you know how to make peace with outer chaos.
Exactly my thought, I mean c'mon... a bit harsh that part of the video.
Lol, I love talking nonsense as long as they are listening. Plus, I don't have to talk about myself.
Met someone who believe you can live a happy life without neither smoking, drinking or fornicate
Great info!!! Thank you!
Great points needed for many these days Alux, stay blessed and let's go! 💪💪💪💪💪💪💪
Didn't get the last. Didn't understand the last point that well
People who start, or put themselves in a conversation and can't read a situation...
Also, people who don't or wish not to understand what people say when having a conversation.
Sometimes that’s a mental disorder. Autism, or innocence. The person in question doesn’t understand social cues, so a more compassionate person would understand that and try to include them. Sometimes extremely brilliant people are that way.
You clearly don't know the definition of "woke"
Poor decision from choice of routine, close circle and partner.
11. Cruelty - hence my vegans have the highest status 😉
👍👍👍
Speaks to me really love you Alux
Thank you.
Constantly talking gossiping bad about other people, especially other people you yourself have yet to meet to make an assessment of yourself. They want you to see those people through their eyes and not you making an decision for yourself. It makes them look suspicious and lowers their value.
10:17 ppl f my inner monologue big time
awsome video and it just started
Does it mean that modern women are "low status" ?🤔
Unfortunately, some people don’t realize that they are exhibiting disrespectful or “low status” behaviors and accuse you, if your behavior is not in conformity with theirs, for being “weird” and for “making them feel uncomfortable.” 😂 An example is using swearing words during business meetings. At first I thought they were upset at whatever projects or progress discussed during the meeting, but it didn’t take me long to realize swearing is in their daily vocabulary 😂 Many people think it’ cool or nothing harmful to swear in situations where swearing was actually not justified, what they don’t realize is that: inappropriate cursing words in inappropriate setting shoes vulgarness and their lack of vocabulary and education 😂
Correction: not “shoes”, I meant “shows.”
Hello aluxers, it was an interesting conversation with my teenage daughter as she hammered on appearance, starting with shoes, then hair 😂
Some just have no class. 😂
I want to see the Lady's face of who reads for these videos.
Well, that would leave nothing to the imagination.
She's not brave enough unfortunately.
She just talks down to people from afar without being accountable.
Gossip... and talking too much
Vulgar language equals low status. If you have such a limited vocabulary that every sentence is peppered with the f-word, no one is going to view you as high status. Buy a thesaurus and elevate your status.
Just need to start ignoring the room to complete this checklist.