I was one of those kids, too. Except I did have grandparents that had my back, but one was an enabler looking back. I still have nightmares about my childhood.
Great video, like all the others! Can you tell what is the difference between dopamine and endorphins ? When I listen to your video, I understand that dopamine seem to be the pleasure hormone. I always though that when ejaculating, or after a workout, or laughs, the pleasure hormone released in the brain was the endorphin. Can you make a video on the difference between these two and how they operate each other ? I believe that a lot of your followers would appreciate that explanation. Thanks.
I really respect your ongoing efforts to reach and teach. I didn't know that about emotions lasting 90 seconds. I am assuming it is for those without sever clinical depression, ADHD/ADD, PTSD?, and with borderline personality disorder. There is plenty I do not understand almost to many things. I don't think all of this applies to me but I can use the 90 seconds. Flight or fight? I do both but I'd rather do flight, because the after affects are less physically damaging to others, and the emotional stress isn't quadrupled. I wonder if there is an extreme version of emotional neglect that is much more complicated. It is one thing to be raised in a family of 2 parents who work through problems it is another thing to be in a single parent home with a mother who is developing a new relationship during the prime years of a child's development. It is one thing to be in a stable home for 18 years never moving around and another when no stability really existed. The best i can gather is regardless of severity of situation Emotions are Emotions and depending on the severity it "may" take longer to deal with them in a healthy manner. Does severity or complexity of life events even matter? To bad a vibrating type of watch doesn't exist that can go off around the under part of the wrist that vibrates after 90 seconds that may have a pop up smile during this vibrating alarm after 90 seconds. Even a zap vs a vibration would be interesting. Hmmm 90 seconds. I mean I have had suicidal ideation (or maybe its called something else) that has lasted for hours some times 8 hours and going into cycles of 2 to 3 months with a 1 to 3 week break before next cycle while on medication. I mean i have intentionally developed little to no attachments because of potential guilt. I have devised long term plans with unhealthy eating so it would look like natural causes. Moving isn't to different than people dying in my opinion. You stop receiving the emotional connection once a person moves. They may be able to write or email but the connection is lost and people develop and grow without you causing change of relationship.
Thanks Doc, you’re right on point! Forgiveness is growing and moving forward. Love your point on recovery status, looking forward to being a recovered addict. THIS is working for me!! TYSM
Flight, fright, freeze, or fawn? No. Acceptance, facing one's emotions, engage in healthy conflict when appropriate, and proceed to forgiveness! That's the path to healing, wholeness, and self-mastery!
Thank you for this amazing video this sums up my situation so well I was bullied a lot at school and have dyslexia but I didn't know until I was 22. I found porn was a way to self sooth and numb myself to the trauma and feeling unheard and not understood. This along with a passive father and no male role models contributed to my situation. I am now working on becoming a better man by stopping the porn and starting no fap.
I’m skeptical of this because I believe my sister and I were raised totally different by our parents. My sister turned out fine while I battled many emotional issues and addiction including pornography. I think I was neglected and maybe even abused sexually. I know I was emotionally abused when I was younger when my grades started to slip in the third grade and just went downhill from there.
Sometimes it’s just trauma from recent events. For me that fueled my sex and porn addiction the pain made it easy to escape harder to learn and grow. When I stopped running away from the pain I was able to get more consistent with retention
Can these things be worked out all by oneself? Therapies are very expensive and I suspect there will be a lot to work on, so a lot of sessions for a lot of money.
I think she is addressing the Bonnie blue situation. Imagine wat it does to corn addicts dr trish liegh only you know how it pulls someone in when a women does promiscuous acts like that pls adress this topic as its making it very difficult fkr everyone rn. Sge is basically taking it up to animal levels of sexual nature as with the othe rgirl lilly whose competing with eachother
I definitely had some childhood neglect as a kid. It has likely contributed to my impulsivity and addictive personality traits. I forgive my parents. I also am on day 14 of no fap hard mode. I need to do this to find a girl friend. I’m dealing with intense urges right now. I’ll get through this somehow!
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I'm right there My parents were very good supporters. My mom would have been emotionally there for me. But my parents were divorced and my dad and I and my stepmom lived in another state. And my dad. Just was not there emotionally for me like I needed him to thar is when I found my addiction
Having six kids and barely enough to feed and clothe one is not trying your best, it’s child abuse. Those kids parent themselves and turn out ok despite the trauma not because…
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I was one of those kids, too. Except I did have grandparents that had my back, but one was an enabler looking back. I still have nightmares about my childhood.
Great, I've thought about my emotions. Thanks
I'd like to say I've never thought 😊
Thank so much for this video, Trish. I can’t tell you how helpful this is. I will have to rewatch it a few times to make it set in.
My brain hates when I do neurofeedback it says woohoo I'm outof here
Thank you for making this video! I'm understanding myself a little more.
It's my mission. Thank you!
Great video, like all the others! Can you tell what is the difference between dopamine and endorphins ? When I listen to your video, I understand that dopamine seem to be the pleasure hormone. I always though that when ejaculating, or after a workout, or laughs, the pleasure hormone released in the brain was the endorphin. Can you make a video on the difference between these two and how they operate each other ? I believe that a lot of your followers would appreciate that explanation. Thanks.
thanks Dr trish Leigh i missed your videos.
You can always check my newest videos every Monday & Wednesday ;)
Amazing! She is on point once again! Listening twice!
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I really respect your ongoing efforts to reach and teach. I didn't know that about emotions lasting 90 seconds. I am assuming it is for those without sever clinical depression, ADHD/ADD, PTSD?, and with borderline personality disorder. There is plenty I do not understand almost to many things. I don't think all of this applies to me but I can use the 90 seconds. Flight or fight? I do both but I'd rather do flight, because the after affects are less physically damaging to others, and the emotional stress isn't quadrupled. I wonder if there is an extreme version of emotional neglect that is much more complicated. It is one thing to be raised in a family of 2 parents who work through problems it is another thing to be in a single parent home with a mother who is developing a new relationship during the prime years of a child's development. It is one thing to be in a stable home for 18 years never moving around and another when no stability really existed.
The best i can gather is regardless of severity of situation Emotions are Emotions and depending on the severity it "may" take longer to deal with them in a healthy manner. Does severity or complexity of life events even matter? To bad a vibrating type of watch doesn't exist that can go off around the under part of the wrist that vibrates after 90 seconds that may have a pop up smile during this vibrating alarm after 90 seconds. Even a zap vs a vibration would be interesting. Hmmm 90 seconds. I mean I have had suicidal ideation (or maybe its called something else) that has lasted for hours some times 8 hours and going into cycles of 2 to 3 months with a 1 to 3 week break before next cycle while on medication. I mean i have intentionally developed little to no attachments because of potential guilt. I have devised long term plans with unhealthy eating so it would look like natural causes. Moving isn't to different than people dying in my opinion. You stop receiving the emotional connection once a person moves. They may be able to write or email but the connection is lost and people develop and grow without you causing change of relationship.
I learned so much in those 20m. Thank you Trish for sharing your insight with us.
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Thanks Doc, you’re right on point! Forgiveness is growing and moving forward. Love your point on recovery status, looking forward to being a recovered addict. THIS is working for me!! TYSM
Indeed! Thank you ;)
Flight, fright, freeze, or fawn? No. Acceptance, facing one's emotions, engage in healthy conflict when appropriate, and proceed to forgiveness! That's the path to healing, wholeness, and self-mastery!
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Thank you for this !!!! really makes a lot sense
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Thank you for this amazing video this sums up my situation so well I was bullied a lot at school and have dyslexia but I didn't know until I was 22. I found porn was a way to self sooth and numb myself to the trauma and feeling unheard and not understood. This along with a passive father and no male role models contributed to my situation. I am now working on becoming a better man by stopping the porn and starting no fap.
I’m skeptical of this because I believe my sister and I were raised totally different by our parents. My sister turned out fine while I battled many emotional issues and addiction including pornography. I think I was neglected and maybe even abused sexually. I know I was emotionally abused when I was younger when my grades started to slip in the third grade and just went downhill from there.
The responses are different for each person. I'm sorry for what happened. If you ever need help, I'm here for you.
This is the first time I’ve heard of Faun. That’s exactly what my wife use to do. Now she just flee’s.
Sometimes it’s just trauma from recent events. For me that fueled my sex and porn addiction the pain made it easy to escape harder to learn and grow. When I stopped running away from the pain I was able to get more consistent with retention
The good news is, you can always heal & break the cycle. ;)
You are very helpful
Thank you! It's my mission to heal brains from addiction :)
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Can these things be worked out all by oneself? Therapies are very expensive and I suspect there will be a lot to work on, so a lot of sessions for a lot of money.
Doc, how long does it take to recover a slip, or once I have a slip, the efforts are gone that I need to reset.
Hope this helps! drtrishleigh.com/speed-up-your-recovery-top-strategies-to-overcome-porn-addiction-faster/ ;)
Thank you!
Thank you for these insights like!
Thank you Jesus
I think she is addressing the Bonnie blue situation. Imagine wat it does to corn addicts dr trish liegh only you know how it pulls someone in when a women does promiscuous acts like that pls adress this topic as its making it very difficult fkr everyone rn. Sge is basically taking it up to animal levels of sexual nature as with the othe rgirl lilly whose competing with eachother
I definitely had some childhood neglect as a kid. It has likely contributed to my impulsivity and addictive personality traits. I forgive my parents. I also am on day 14 of no fap hard mode. I need to do this to find a girl friend. I’m dealing with intense urges right now. I’ll get through this somehow!
God, you're so good. I wanna marry someone like this!
Me too
@heybudstfunow " I wonder who God has for me!!!" You can say it aloud to get on the good spirit spirit side of our humanity calling for the help of each other.
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Change you views toward yourself, changes you behavior. Change your behavior, changes your nature. Change your nature changes you destination. Vernon Howard.......
I'm right there My parents were very good supporters. My mom would have been emotionally there for me. But my parents were divorced and my dad and I and my stepmom lived in another state.
And my dad. Just was not there emotionally for me like I needed him to thar is when I found my addiction
I'm so sorry to know this. You can always heal and get that life you deserve! Hope you're in a much better place now ;)
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I dint hav trauma but loneliness and absent father and loving mother lead to corn at 12
Having six kids and barely enough to feed and clothe one is not trying your best, it’s child abuse. Those kids parent themselves and turn out ok despite the trauma not because…
Lovely woman
Honestly she tempts me
Take every thought captive. Shes here to help not to slip.@heybudstfunow
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@DrTrishLeigh you look amazing regardless trish!!!!!! Great work
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@@DrTrishLeigh hope to sign up for your courses soon! i've decided to quit porn for good!
How are people this sad and stupid?
Porn is amazing