Today's Content: 00:00 My Girlfriend Cheated On Me - Original Post 06:23 My Girlfriend Cheated On Me -UPDATE 14:03 My Girlfriend Slept With My Sister's Boyfriend Enjoy!
Between the time stamps, updates, and most of you stories ending with people not tolerating infidelities... I hope you change nothing with your channel, pls keep up the great work.
Humans are not perfect ..... we recognize this and as such they make “mistakes”. Screwing someone outside your relationship is NOT a mistake; it is a choice which indicates an unwillingness to look at yourself as to why you can’t be honest. Just saying.....
That (now) ex gf is a scumbag and showed her true colors when she immediately believed her toxic friends. She obviously never completely trusted OP and ruined the relationship without a second thought.
@pissedpookie yep, she definitely fucked AP before dumping OP. She monkeybranched. You dont dump someone and then immediately go all in with the next person within 24 hrs unless u had a "sample". She made up the cheating so she could fuck guilt free on social media and give her cover. I think the "evidence" of OPs cheating added to social media cover and sympathy. As for AP dumping girlfriend because he dont like cheaters... Nah, he hated the fact all his hook ups would think he was in a steady relationship and was two timing all of them. OP's ex ratted him out unintentionally, AP dumped her ass.
@@philwill0123 I think she might rly been manipulated, to some extent in the beggining, but then she belived she deserved better then Op and the rest was just a cover up. Made up cheating, break up, posts on FB. Then AP dumps her a*s. What to do? Here we have another story of crying cheater wanting to come back
Like why would anyone want to be at the same level as you just so you can make yourself feel better for cheating? What goes through these women's minds disturbs me.
She was already cheating on OP if she had hopped into a relationship right away. Her and her friends were just cooking up reasons for her to break up with OP without looking like the culprit.
That’s immediately what I was thinking. You shouldn’t just immediately believe friends without figuring out what was going on and looking to make sure it wasn’t fake.
1st story, OP handled the ending very well. OP doesn't need a headache of a girlfriend who jumps to conclusions and talk to each other first. I would have done the same thing as OP in the end.
Especially since OP had such a terrible history of being abused by his dad for being a “cheater’s baby”. If the girlfriend hadn’t blown up at OP for cheating, but instead tried to sit down and talk to him about what T and L had told her, I think it would’ve gone much better. OP hopefully wouldn’t have been as traumatized or scared from PTSD, and the girlfriend could’ve realized that T and L were lying to her and confronted them about their horrible actions.
@@elizabethweigle6146 honestly I would have left that friend group after their constant nagging to break up with someone I was in love with and bashing him like that. That GF clearly care more about her social circle than the man she claims to love.
They probably didn't hear the conversation. They also might have guessed break up and wondered why public as if maybe she wouldn't make a scene which some people do. Still wrong to assume
@@squirrel670 yeah I would have thought the others there didn't hear the conversation, I just think it's funny that she's the one making a scene but they look at the guy.
@@jamesdavies8289 This story is from his point of view. They definitely looked at her or are trying not to be too obvious about it if they have decency, but since he didn't look at her (back turned) he is more aware of who is looking at him. He is walking away soon to leave but the girl is staying there longer so look at him while you can i guess. If you are walking away from a screaming/crying child in public people are going to look at you for sure and it wouldn't be funny, it's a reaction. If you walk away from someone throwing a fit people are going to look at you. They first look at the person in distress causing the scene then they look at the other person they saw involved. Other person gone, looking back to the scene causing person. People want to know what happened but they usually don't ask, so they want to see if they can get anything by looking if they can't hear. If you were there would you not have looked at her causing the scene and then also looked at the guy walking away if you saw?
@@squirrel670 Granted it is from his point of view and we don't know all the details, I get that, as far as what I would do if I was there, in all honesty I wouldn't be bothered about looking towards either of them, actually, initially I'd see where the screaming/crying was coming from and try to quickly work out if anyone was hurt/injured but that's it.
Story1: Misunderstanding or not she handled it the worse way possible and all her actions show shes too immature and vindictive to be with. She immediately cheated and immediately went full drag him though the mud publicly and destroyed his property. There's no way he should go back after seeing what she was capable of and glad he didn't. Also I can bet money that these toxic friends of hers are single. Its always these single lonely bitter people who try and ruin others happiness.
Single or unhappy in their own relationship. Misery loves company. Ladies please realize that when new "friends" who are single start to question your relationship they are looking for a new buddy to go bar and club hopping with. They don't have your best interests in heart especially if they have never met or talked to your partner. Why do they like to tear apart happy couples and cause drama, because they are manipulators, because they can and most important because you let them.
Like I told my ex before her friends talked her into leaving me for a one night stand who ended up giving her herpes that her friend had and shared with the dude...most girls don't see other women as friends but only as rivals they don't want to see you happier than them so becareful and don't trust them to much...2 months later she was crying to me asking for me to sleep with her begging me lol lucky for me I already new about the herpes thanks to my cousin who worked with her.
What kind of person just kicks out their boyfriend on their friend's word, then changes her relationship status to being in a relationship with another guy the very next day?!
It shows that she is *extremely* impulsive. Yes, the knowledge of having been "cheated on" is a high stress situation. But she immediately jumped to trying to get revenge by hopping into another relationship with a guy who didn't even want one.
@@renoloverxoxo yes and I’m sure she want back to the friends when she realized and they just shrugged and said you’re an adult you made your own decisions
Yes I like that. She gave him permission like that would put back together anything. Personally I would’ve said I’m not sure and have her pay for a separate apartment for me for a year upfront to show “loyalty” tell her to get me some hot girls to bang and then after the year ghost her and tell her to F off
@@akoilngas1215 these wahmen are amoral and sociopathic. They do not ponder wonder or care if pain drama or list is not involved. They make a move. The wrong one. I checkmate their ass and then cut them off.
Animal Fact: Grey Squirrels plant a ton of trees per year (some sources say a million or more). The main reason is after they bury it for the winter they forget!
Every couple of years trees collectively produce way more acorns than they normally do. People who study this stuff still don't know if certain conditions have to be met (like the seasonal temperature) but trees in a region will all over produce. Squirrels go crazy and try to save as many as they can for the winter and by burying so many they forget, or they unfortunately die before getting to their food reserve. Squirrel population increase, trees only make an abundance like that every few years so the population slowly drops back to normal. Rinse and repeat.
@@justinp9170 I actually learned a little of something like this is Biology class. So, it has to do with conservation of energy for trees. A great part of their energy has to go to getting enough sunlight, so they might have to grow taller. Therefore, they dedicate only half their time to procreation. Ever see how fruit farmers never cultivate their whole land at once, and tend to do half one year and half the next? That's because fruit from trees is only tasty every other year. So while the trees will still make fruit, it won't really be edible, to conserve energy for the next year. So if that's how they do it with fruit, I'm guessing the same goes for acorns.
1st Story: She gave her ex permission to find her replacement... This situation shows why one shouldn't cheat just because they think someone else did. If she'd bothered to pay attention to the evidence and talked to her partner. She even thought telling him if he'd take her back, cheating would be okay which means she learned nothing.
@pissedpookie nah she more than likely was genuinely duped. Doesn't excuse her actions and OP is well within his rights to tell her to kick rocks, but the people convinced it was all an elaborate plot by her to fuck around are severely overestimating her intelligence.
He was accused, tried and convicted without even bothering to hear his side of it. This is why Due Process is a thing. This is why mature adults sit down to talk things through. A simple check on his phone showing the app didn't exist - or existed with different profile info and no match to what she had - would have debunked the whole story, or at a minimum cast serious doubt on it.
@@davidnash8208 I agree. Even OP acknowledges he never stood up for himself. So when his friends stood up for him it took longer for people to start believing them because OP stayed quiet.
OP in the second story is a better person than I am - I'd have waited until everyone else was up and about, suggest setting up for a "family movie night"...then sit back with some popcorn and enjoy the fireworks.
That guy is too impulsive and very stupid. If he saw the slap in the ass, why tell her? Just look for the evidence you need and expose the dirty cheaters. He was lucky the girl is even more stupid than him, knowing he saw something, instead of been more careful, she was so horny, she was on it just two days later... the biatch... Again, he was too impulsive and stupid when finding out, why go to his room to tell? Wait until morning, at breakfast, wake everyone and tell he has something important to show. Expose the tramp and the backstabber to the family. Learn to find better people for your lives.
To me what makes cheating worse is how they treat their bf/gf. Making them feel bad for even thinking that they could be cheating… It’s not enough to defray them and cheat, they have to make you feel even worse. Sickening.
Yep, when I got to that part in the story, my gut churned. Despicable behavior. She basically gaslit him and told him that his eyes/ears were lying to him and he should feel guilty for kicking her out into the street for something that "never" happened. The audacity.
1st story. If your SO accuses you of cheating, kicks you out, and sleeps with another guy... it doesn't matter if she was lead into it by friends or made the whole story up. It's the same result: no reason for you to stay. Also, there's no reason to "stand up to" anyone, especially a social media mob.
Years ago, my now ex-wife and I were having problems and separated, but still living together. We told no one, because it was no one's business, and my ex wanted everyone to think all was good. I had slept on a recliner for about a year, before I met someone else. My ex was furious and told our families and friends that I cheated on her. Like in the first story, I didn't defend myself, mostly because not a single person even asked if it was true, they just believed my ex. All of my family just assumed I cheated and none of my friends ever contacted me after that. Should I have stood up for myself? Hmmm, not sure. Being branded the bad guy in the family is actually kind of fun because they always talk about me, which makes me laugh. And those friends I had, obvious they weren't really friends, just judgmental pieces of garbage. In most cases I think you should stand up for yourself, but in my case, I am happy with how it turned out by not trying to convince people who weren't my time.
Why tf would you do that... Trying not to be judgemental but I personally would go ballistic on her for being toxic, for example, you divorced so why not show the divorce papers?
First story,"a single guy doesn't need his ex's permission to sleep with other girls"......well said OP.....she made her own shit sandwich,hope her mean girls group is there to share it with her.
First off, stellar work as always LG! Second, I will never understand why people cheat on their significant others. Honestly, you cannot have your cake and eat it too. If you can't stay faithful, stay bloody single! What is the point of cheating on someone you claim to 'love' for thrills! Honestly.
Each relationship, I've been cheated on. Each was because as they said "you just don't seem to care enough about me." The thing is, they didn't know how to open up to me. I have asperger's and can't tell if someone is in a bad place if they keep it to theirselves. So each had gotten into a emotional relationship with someone else. I understand why they did cheat(not saying it is justified), but they did not go out of their way to understand why it seemed like I didn't care. But really at that point just break up, would be less hurtful for me.
If you are pursuing a relationship where the person has made it clear that they are not truly into you, then you have set yourself up to be cheated on regardless of whether or not you tell yourself otherwise. Most guys wouldn't suddenly fall for a woman that he can't stand no matter how long she pursued him. Same difference. Those women are not "playing hard to get." They don't like you!!!
Why did that idiot girl think would happen? That her ex would magically take her back after the shit she pulled. Yes the friends started it but she made the choice to believe them and sleep with someone else she made the choice to reveal personal details about OP to hurt him.
Exposed stuff he said in confidence, destroyed his belongings, put him on blast publicly, doubled down when people talked about her. .fake ass photos hopped proof, hooked up with a dude immediately...and sent him photos with her hickeys...absolutely disgusting behavior
I listened to the two stories of the OPs that were accused of cheating and I came up with a description of the toxic friends of their respective exs: Femcels. They are just like the incels only they will sabotage a healthy happy relationship for the sake of keeping the status quo: Lonely women must stick together and not have a relationship while they are in the friend group. These toxic groups are bitter and jealous of others being happy and want others to be as lonely and miserable as them (self victimizing and self fulfilling prophecy). I don’t feel bad for the exs because they immediately believed the lies and made it their personal mission to slander the respective OPs.
Wait, hold up, the ex literally believe the people who all the time told her "leave OP because he is not ripped with a ton of money"?, wow, the ex is really naive or stupid to not notice that huge, *huge* redflag in the mean girl group. Heck, they weren't even like "friends from her entire life", just a group of randoms she recently met Do not take her back, OP. She is not worth it.
1. Story: even though I already watched this video it got shown to me again, idk if I commented in the past...but here I go: I think OP should've told her "I am not interested to be in a relationship with a cheater, bye." since they were still together when she "revenge" cheated on him ... also the fact that she is blaming other people for getting manipulated instead of blaming herself for being manipulated instead of cutting toxic people that try to manipulate you out
OP when she sends you A text saying how sorry she is. Send her the picture of her with all the bite marks on her neck. Tell her when she can undo that picture in your mind you'll think about it.
Re: Story 1 I'm jealous of that dude's awesome friends. M&M are true bros. Also, he def dodged a bullet. I'm sorry he had to go through all that, though. That being said, he handled all of it well. Personally, I'm just amazed how common it is for women to sabotage other women's romantic relationships, using lies and underhanded tricks, for petty and irrationally spiteful reasons. Re: Story 2 Props to this guy for how smoothly he handled that gaslighting b-word.
With the first update, he 100% did the right thing. The only thing I would have done differently is get compensation my stuff before kicking her to the curb.
This kind of happened to me. One day while i was at work my cousin came to me (we worked together-family business) saying he saw the guy i was seeing with his ex last night and he acted like a deer caught in headlights. It was early at the time so the guy was still sleeping and i felt myself freak out but i wanted to hear from him before I decided anything. I spoke to him he was just giving her her stuff and it could only happen when she got off work at 10pm....my cousin got mad at me for not believing him over this new guy....I no longer talk to my cousin (not a real good guy) me and the guy? 8 years strong with one kid ❤️ trust your gut and get both sides of the story.
You didn't get both sides of the story though, you believed one side like everyone else. Maybe your cousin sucks but he had no obligation to look out for you. You stopped talking to him over this? seems fishy
@@milieg3309 I don’t see how any of it is your business, but no I didn’t stop talking to him bc of this. I stopped bc he once backed me into a corner yelling at me while I was in the early stages of my pregnancy. Does that sound like someone you’d keep in your life? Worry about yourself please and thank you.
@@JenPapp you put your info out in public, I commented on it on the basis of the info available. I come from a very toxic family so my perspective on whom to keep around is skewed. That said, I'll worry about you if I feel like, thanks
@@JenPapp I have a complicated relationship with my family but they do love me and want the best for me. Sorry if I sounded judgemental, your cousin sounds shitty af and I shouldn't have brought this up at all. Sorry if I brought up bad memories. Hope you have the best people around you now!
I remember a very similar story where the ex gf was convinced op cheated and she booted him. She did not sleep with another guy. Once she learned the truth, they had it talked out and they sorta made up . This is why you dont go nuclear unless you are 100% sure.
Story 1: What really sucked about this is how she jumped to conclusions and kicked him out without even asking what happened. SHE was the one acting strange, SHE was the one that went right to the bathroom and then came raging out at him with ONE piece of "proof". There isn't a pattern or puzzle pieces of events that lead to it GF wanted to cheat and her girlfriends 'gave her permission' to do so
What bugs me is that OP in the first story was abused throughout his life. If it wasn't the dad, it was the gf. I'm glad OP didn't take his ex back. If she was that "easily manipulated", it wouldn't take long for this to happen again. Second story, ewwwww! You don't screw in your bf's parents house with another man! You get a hotel room.
OP should’ve also said “Your mean girls successfully won so you no longer have a boyfriend. Hope your happy and will be better at trusting a new partner than some self-absorbed, judgmental bitches” . But I still like what his answer was.
Happened to me. I dated a girl and her friends clearly didn’t like me. I’m American but with German heritage from my mom’s side, I guess that made them think I’m not good enough. Her friends and eventually her family kept claiming I’m a cheater, a fake, a loser. Overtime she found out, I do have a job, I do have good friends, and that I’m not a loser that cheats. When I just stopped caring, she slowly started to try to be nicer. She slowly messaged me about being wrong and I just couldn’t be around her since everyone associated with her can’t be around me for 5 seconds without making comments. She never told them I was loyal. She tried to win me back. I said, well tell all of them they are wrong about me. She couldn’t. When she realized I want to have a woman that cares about me, trust me, wants to know me, she decided to finally admit on Facebook, everyone was wrong. It was tooooo late. My closest friends called her out immediately
Listen, if a girl says her bf cheated and at the same time suddenly has a new bf I would definitely not believe her. Like you say he cheated and you JUST broke up with him and somehow you have a new boyfriend that exact day? Yeah something definitely doesn't add up
The first story pisses me off for many reasons! 1. (Ex)girlfriend immanently believed her "friends" when they told her OP was cheating and showed "proof" and didn't even sit him down to talk to him! 2. When she first learned about the (Fake) cheating, she immanently fucked another guy just to "get back" at OP, this is where the saying "Two wrongs, don't make a right." comes into play! Just because someone cheats on you, doesn't mean you HAVE to do the same to "Put them in their place!" That saying should have NEVER been said! 3. She triggered OP in remembering his dad because she started to throw his plants on the ground and screaming! She KNEW about what happened to OP as a kid and STILL did that! Doesn't matter IF someone cheated on you! You DON'T trigger them! 4. The fact that after she kicked OP out, that she immanently let D in and again fucked him and had the audacity to send OP pictures is just fucked up! She just rubbed salt in OP's wounds with those photos! 5. She then went onto Facebook to post about cheating and this caused OP to delete his Facebook (Which isn't so bad since it's Facebook) but OP was lucky his friends didn't believe her and stayed by OP's side. 6. Her and her "friends" and the audacity to call OP gay just because he was living with his two gay friends! This is where the saying "Just because someone is gay/lesbian doesn't mean their into you!" comes to play! And where else was OP suppose to go?!? She kicked him out and ended their relationship so she doesn't get any say on where OP lives after getting kicked out! 7. She didn't even ask D if he wanted an LTR and just posted on Facebook on how she was dating him. Then she had the audacity to get upset with him! 8. After learning the truth about what happened, she really thought OP would just take her back just like that after she hurt him and cheated on HIM! Then she pulled the "I'm the victim!" card when OP told her they weren't getting back together. She cried because she knew she fucked up but also because she thought since there were a lot of people there, she thought it could guilt OP into taking her back. Good, it didn't! I'm happy for you OP! Please stay strong!
First story just amazing 👏 this man is a legend! good for him for standing up for himself and walking away!! He had amazing friends ❤ so many weak people always take back the cheater and it never NEVER end well for them...this guy should be super proud of himself for standing up and moving on. I hope he had nothing but good things happen to him after just keep those friends because they are true friends!
Accusing OP of being gay because he lived with gay dudes is not an individual incident, my dad lived with a gay roommate in his 20s and many assumed he was also gay
Story 2: whenever she emotionally manipulated him, after he saw her butt get smacked, and he begged for her to stay I was mad but I'm glad that it was just so he get proof.
Exactly! After she gaslighted him, threatened to leave him and called him a psycho, it was obvious that after breaking with him, she was going to control the narrative and make him look as the villain. That 304 was dangerous and crazy. A lesson, we men must learn.
2:00 stop right there. I can fix this whole problem from happening to someone else. Remember this as it’s something a very wise 30 year old named Brenno told me.... The more friends you have - the MORE drama that WILL arise. Not could, WILL. Think about it if you have a girlfriend and had thirty dude friends and she met all of em. Good chance of her cheating. Not even to say she’s just a bad person but because you’re simply not the best person out there. No one is and there’s always someone who’s more attractive to you than another
Damn, that guy with the 2 friends who helped him out i know there gay, and I have nothing against gay ppl, but they are some great friends, for what they did for him, he'd be homeless, I good friends they are.
"i know there gay, and I have nothing against gay ppl, but" ...that seems like a weird clause in the sentence...has nothing to do with the rest of it, you simply could have said "Damn, that guy with the 2 friends who helped him out, they are some great friends" and completely omit that random bit....
Story 2 you have to get them on video, My ex was dating me and 2 other girls at the same time and told me about it so I told him to get the hell out of my house and not come back and to lose my number. That I didn't care if he was homeless I was not letting him back into my life or house ever again. Best of luck to your sister and you OP not every girl or guy is like these dirtbags.
no matter what she "thought" he did or what she misunderstood the simple fact she slept with a guy she just met and then was willing to let him sleep with someone else?? sry idc what anyone says that's an F'd up way to think..like cheating cancels cheating..ffs..that's a perfect example of someone who will easily cheat the next time there's a problem in the relationship or she feels justified..wtf is wrong with people? sexual intimacy has been devalued to a transaction nowadays..it's honestly disgusting..
12:27 that was the right call I have a huge issue when it comes to accusing people of things they didnt do that has stuck with me my whole life and is still going on today and now I dont even acknowledge it if I get accused I cut that person out of my life completely
Theres still a great chance that she just lied the whole mean girl click saying the guy cheated so she can get out of the dumpster fire she started.If someone just do this they are not to be trusted in anyway
Why is it that women will sabotage the relationship of their "friend" like this?? Are they that insecure? Are they that jealous of their friends good relationship? OP needs to leave them all behind. The girlfriend needs to drop her supposed friends if they act like this. Second story OP should've just told her to go when she threatened to leave. Don't let these trash females try to gaslight and manipulate you. Glad the sister dumped her trash boyfriend as well.
I'm so proud of the first guy in the first story. I want to give him a hug and buy him a beer. One thing though that I would have did if I was in his shoes. Before walking in and having that conversation with that crazy ex of his. I would have turned on my audio recorder on my phone before entering the coffee house and recorded the whole conversation. She already showed how crazy she was. The recording would have been for protection (and for payback). At the end of the rejection to her I would have told her that I recorded the whole conversation and I'm going to post it online. Even though it was put out there that everything was a lie about him cheating. Sll that hate in vitriol that he got was completely undeserved. I would not let my name be dragged in the mud like that without doing something about it. Yeah, I would have recorded that whole conversation and then posted it online.
The gay couple from the first story is so wholesome that I have no doubts they have caused some sexual orientation crisis without intention 😂😂😂 The other friends who also stood for him are great. They all deserve each other, such great people ❤
I just listened to a LG case where the OP said she cheated on her boyfriend (MANY years ago, mind you, at the beginning of the relationship), and when she told him, he immediately went out and cheated on her. And many of the comments said that was exactly what he should do. Any way you slice it, whether the OP cheated or didn't cheat, it's scuzzy, self-demeaning behaviour.
1st story is so frustrating. They had a good relationship and it may have stayed good forever. Those 'mean girls' totally manipulated her every step of the way and pushed her into a one-way road the relationship couldnt recover from. And shes is F'ing stupid for letting it happen. With friends like that who needs enemies
Girl cheated on him b/c thought he cheated - I don't think he should move to a new city unless he really needs to, because of how totally awesome his friends M&M are - it's hard to find good friends like that.
Nobody in that city tried to even hear his side of the story. A lot of people still probably don't see him in a positive light. Why would you stay in a city where gossips have the potential to ruin your career? Besides, he's got better chances to find a more understanding partner in another city *AND* safely date without the ex ruining them.
I'd talk to my SO before anything else. I trust my husband over others. I've had friends lie about my man before so I don't just buy anyone's BS. "Proof" can be fabricated so I will take it at face value only. Also even if my man WAS cheating my reaction wouldn't be to cheat back. It would be to end things and walk away. I won't stoop down to a cheaters level, no matter how mad I am!
And that's the right call. But suppose, just suppose, you're presented an opportunity to go scorched Earth, please do so.😉 It might be the mega-villain inside me talking, but absolutely "brutally" destroy them if possible.
Story 2: I would say to sell that shit but OP doesn’t need to deal with legal issues. Don’t know if she’ll even try and get it, but of course, If he sells it or gets rid of it, then luck would have it that she suddenly come asking for it. Least I’d do is pack it up and shove it somewhere.
Had the first story happen to me. There was no proof of any cheating. Lol Just a leaky shower faucet when I was with him all day. Supposedly, the person I was cheating with was at my place , while I was with the bf and he slip out the house when we randomly got home at 4am. Smh
1st story: I don't buy it. She wanted to hook up and her friends helped her. When it all went awry and 'Dean' said 'See ya', and the backlash against their homophobia started, she panicked and started blaming her friends.
Why do "friends" go out of their way to ruin relationships? It's so f-ed up in so many different ways. Kinda makes me not wanting to have friends. I have plenty of friends that I trust but I also heard too many stories similar to the first one.
I love the idea that she thought after falsely accusing and publicly slandering her boyfriend for cheating, and then going out to fuck some dude as some sort of revenge for the accusation. The best solution would be to make him a cheater. She did it all because she thought he was sleeping with another woman, and is okay letting him sleep with another woman to fix it.
Today's Content:
00:00 My Girlfriend Cheated On Me - Original Post
06:23 My Girlfriend Cheated On Me -UPDATE
14:03 My Girlfriend Slept With My Sister's Boyfriend
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Between the time stamps, updates, and most of you stories ending with people not tolerating infidelities... I hope you change nothing with your channel, pls keep up the great work.
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Humans are not perfect ..... we recognize this and as such they make “mistakes”. Screwing someone outside your relationship is NOT a mistake; it is a choice which indicates an unwillingness to look at yourself as to why you can’t be honest. Just saying.....
That (now) ex gf is a scumbag and showed her true colors when she immediately believed her toxic friends. She obviously never completely trusted OP and ruined the relationship without a second thought.
Exactly. And small claims court for destroyed items.
@pissedpookie yep, she definitely fucked AP before dumping OP. She monkeybranched. You dont dump someone and then immediately go all in with the next person within 24 hrs unless u had a "sample". She made up the cheating so she could fuck guilt free on social media and give her cover. I think the "evidence" of OPs cheating added to social media cover and sympathy. As for AP dumping girlfriend because he dont like cheaters... Nah, he hated the fact all his hook ups would think he was in a steady relationship and was two timing all of them. OP's ex ratted him out unintentionally, AP dumped her ass.
@@philwill0123 I think she might rly been manipulated, to some extent in the beggining, but then she belived she deserved better then Op and the rest was just a cover up. Made up cheating, break up, posts on FB. Then AP dumps her a*s. What to do? Here we have another story of crying cheater wanting to come back
Facts. If all my friends said ym ex was cheating. I'd still wait ti find out myself. Innocent until proven guilty
@@eurasiandynasty9824 you dont go updating relarionship status after 24 hours. Simply because of that, im pretty sure she had slept with him before.
I love it when cheaters go "If you'll take me back, I'll let you sleep around!" No! We did not want that. That's not a healthy relationship.
Exactly I would say unlike you I don’t want to sleep with anyone else i only wanted to be with you.
@@Crispy_DAWG Same with cheating
It's only women who say that. I've never heard about a man offering that. Men take cheating harder than women.
Like why would anyone want to be at the same level as you just so you can make yourself feel better for cheating? What goes through these women's minds disturbs me.
I would only sleep with another woman if and only IF I divorced you.
She was already cheating on OP if she had hopped into a relationship right away. Her and her friends were just cooking up reasons for her to break up with OP without looking like the culprit.
Yeah, she was sleeping with AP and wanted an excuse to dump OP. She only wanted back because AP didn’t work out.
Why would she retract everything if that was the case?
@@mattwho81 AP couldn’t and wouldn’t be controlled by her money since he actually had his own
That’s immediately what I was thinking. You shouldn’t just immediately believe friends without figuring out what was going on and looking to make sure it wasn’t fake.
1st story, OP handled the ending very well. OP doesn't need a headache of a girlfriend who jumps to conclusions and talk to each other first. I would have done the same thing as OP in the end.
He also had good friends.
OP handled it way better than I would have
Especially since OP had such a terrible history of being abused by his dad for being a “cheater’s baby”. If the girlfriend hadn’t blown up at OP for cheating, but instead tried to sit down and talk to him about what T and L had told her, I think it would’ve gone much better. OP hopefully wouldn’t have been as traumatized or scared from PTSD, and the girlfriend could’ve realized that T and L were lying to her and confronted them about their horrible actions.
@@joimumu yeah i would have had her help me hook up with some hot women and then left her. lol
@@elizabethweigle6146 honestly I would have left that friend group after their constant nagging to break up with someone I was in love with and bashing him like that. That GF clearly care more about her social circle than the man she claims to love.
The first story, I like how when she started crying and screaming in the cafe, everyone looked at op as if it's his fault.
They probably didn't hear the conversation. They also might have guessed break up and wondered why public as if maybe she wouldn't make a scene which some people do. Still wrong to assume
@@squirrel670 yeah I would have thought the others there didn't hear the conversation, I just think it's funny that she's the one making a scene but they look at the guy.
@@jamesdavies8289 This story is from his point of view. They definitely looked at her or are trying not to be too obvious about it if they have decency, but since he didn't look at her (back turned) he is more aware of who is looking at him. He is walking away soon to leave but the girl is staying there longer so look at him while you can i guess. If you are walking away from a screaming/crying child in public people are going to look at you for sure and it wouldn't be funny, it's a reaction. If you walk away from someone throwing a fit people are going to look at you. They first look at the person in distress causing the scene then they look at the other person they saw involved. Other person gone, looking back to the scene causing person. People want to know what happened but they usually don't ask, so they want to see if they can get anything by looking if they can't hear.
If you were there would you not have looked at her causing the scene and then also looked at the guy walking away if you saw?
@@squirrel670 Granted it is from his point of view and we don't know all the details, I get that, as far as what I would do if I was there, in all honesty I wouldn't be bothered about looking towards either of them, actually, initially I'd see where the screaming/crying was coming from and try to quickly work out if anyone was hurt/injured but that's it.
@@jamesdavies8289 that's the point. its just normal response, nothing out of the ordinary.
Damn... M&M are MVPs.
As for the ex gf.... well now she knows her worth.
They are so awesome 🏳️🌈
Yep, she's worth as much as a filthy dish rag
M and M are bomb ass friends!!!!
@@LateNightRewrites tbh I would rather take the filthy dish rag.
Those are real friends for sure. She worth isn't much now.
Story1: Misunderstanding or not she handled it the worse way possible and all her actions show shes too immature and vindictive to be with.
She immediately cheated and immediately went full drag him though the mud publicly and destroyed his property. There's no way he should go back after seeing what she was capable of and glad he didn't.
Also I can bet money that these toxic friends of hers are single. Its always these single lonely bitter people who try and ruin others happiness.
Single or unhappy in their own relationship. Misery loves company. Ladies please realize that when new "friends" who are single start to question your relationship they are looking for a new buddy to go bar and club hopping with. They don't have your best interests in heart especially if they have never met or talked to your partner. Why do they like to tear apart happy couples and cause drama, because they are manipulators, because they can and most important because you let them.
Probably jealous and just wanted to see how gullible she was as sport. Just like the Cruel Intentions movie
Agreed, I got the same idea.
Like I told my ex before her friends talked her into leaving me for a one night stand who ended up giving her herpes that her friend had and shared with the dude...most girls don't see other women as friends but only as rivals they don't want to see you happier than them so becareful and don't trust them to much...2 months later she was crying to me asking for me to sleep with her begging me lol lucky for me I already new about the herpes thanks to my cousin who worked with her.
Misery loves company
What kind of person just kicks out their boyfriend on their friend's word, then changes her relationship status to being in a relationship with another guy the very next day?!
It shows that she is *extremely* impulsive. Yes, the knowledge of having been "cheated on" is a high stress situation. But she immediately jumped to trying to get revenge by hopping into another relationship with a guy who didn't even want one.
Have you been on Reddit? They encourage people to act like that lol. "For revenge" they say. Looks like it royally backfired...
@@renoloverxoxo yes and I’m sure she want back to the friends when she realized and they just shrugged and said you’re an adult you made your own decisions
An ex of mine. These people do exist.
Just means she had this relationship going already.
1. Once you break up with someone you can no longer give them "permission" for anything.
Yes I like that. She gave him permission like that would put back together anything. Personally I would’ve said I’m not sure and have her pay for a separate apartment for me for a year upfront to show “loyalty” tell her to get me some hot girls to bang and then after the year ghost her and tell her to F off
@@Urbansilverback That lowers you to her level.
Better to leave and have her always obsessing about the fact that you are too good for her.
@@akoilngas1215 these wahmen are amoral and sociopathic. They do not ponder wonder or care if pain drama or list is not involved. They make a move. The wrong one. I checkmate their ass and then cut them off.
@@Urbansilverback Okay, dude. Checkmate away, stud.
That said, it's better to take the high road out of these messes.
Animal Fact:
Grey Squirrels plant a ton of trees per year (some sources say a million or more). The main reason is after they bury it for the winter they forget!
Maybe they are not forgetting 🤔🤫😋
Squirrels the universes arborists.
@@fcold9402 secret agents of team trees those Grey Squirrels are.
Every couple of years trees collectively produce way more acorns than they normally do. People who study this stuff still don't know if certain conditions have to be met (like the seasonal temperature) but trees in a region will all over produce.
Squirrels go crazy and try to save as many as they can for the winter and by burying so many they forget, or they unfortunately die before getting to their food reserve. Squirrel population increase, trees only make an abundance like that every few years so the population slowly drops back to normal. Rinse and repeat.
@@justinp9170 so cool! 🤩
@@justinp9170 I actually learned a little of something like this is Biology class. So, it has to do with conservation of energy for trees. A great part of their energy has to go to getting enough sunlight, so they might have to grow taller. Therefore, they dedicate only half their time to procreation.
Ever see how fruit farmers never cultivate their whole land at once, and tend to do half one year and half the next? That's because fruit from trees is only tasty every other year. So while the trees will still make fruit, it won't really be edible, to conserve energy for the next year.
So if that's how they do it with fruit, I'm guessing the same goes for acorns.
Story 1: Thank all of her "friends" for saving you from that toxic mess.
Bravo OP. Reacted like an adult all the way through. Proud of you. Hope you will find someone worthy of you
1st Story: She gave her ex permission to find her replacement... This situation shows why one shouldn't cheat just because they think someone else did. If she'd bothered to pay attention to the evidence and talked to her partner. She even thought telling him if he'd take her back, cheating would be okay which means she learned nothing.
@pissedpookie nah she more than likely was genuinely duped. Doesn't excuse her actions and OP is well within his rights to tell her to kick rocks, but the people convinced it was all an elaborate plot by her to fuck around are severely overestimating her intelligence.
I feel so awful for OP. He told his partner something so personal and screwed him over. She’s absolutely disgusting and revolting.
What do you expect from an @buser? 🤔🤷
He was accused, tried and convicted without even bothering to hear his side of it.
This is why Due Process is a thing.
This is why mature adults sit down to talk things through.
A simple check on his phone showing the app didn't exist - or existed with different profile info and no match to what she had - would have debunked the whole story, or at a minimum cast serious doubt on it.
He didn't help himself by leaving without saying anything.
@Boa-Noah what good would it do? Anything you can can be used or twisted against you and no one let him get a word in
There is no Due Process when it comes to situations like this
@@davidnash8208 I agree. Even OP acknowledges he never stood up for himself. So when his friends stood up for him it took longer for people to start believing them because OP stayed quiet.
OP in the second story is a better person than I am - I'd have waited until everyone else was up and about, suggest setting up for a "family movie night"...then sit back with some popcorn and enjoy the fireworks.
I'd have shown my sister and let her loose on them both
same!
I’m with you in that regard. I would’ve made such a huge scene.
That guy is too impulsive and very stupid. If he saw the slap in the ass, why tell her? Just look for the evidence you need and expose the dirty cheaters. He was lucky the girl is even more stupid than him, knowing he saw something, instead of been more careful, she was so horny, she was on it just two days later... the biatch... Again, he was too impulsive and stupid when finding out, why go to his room to tell? Wait until morning, at breakfast, wake everyone and tell he has something important to show. Expose the tramp and the backstabber to the family. Learn to find better people for your lives.
To me what makes cheating worse is how they treat their bf/gf. Making them feel bad for even thinking that they could be cheating…
It’s not enough to defray them and cheat, they have to make you feel even worse. Sickening.
Yep, when I got to that part in the story, my gut churned. Despicable behavior. She basically gaslit him and told him that his eyes/ears were lying to him and he should feel guilty for kicking her out into the street for something that "never" happened. The audacity.
1st story. If your SO accuses you of cheating, kicks you out, and sleeps with another guy... it doesn't matter if she was lead into it by friends or made the whole story up. It's the same result: no reason for you to stay. Also, there's no reason to "stand up to" anyone, especially a social media mob.
Years ago, my now ex-wife and I were having problems and separated, but still living together. We told no one, because it was no one's business, and my ex wanted everyone to think all was good. I had slept on a recliner for about a year, before I met someone else. My ex was furious and told our families and friends that I cheated on her. Like in the first story, I didn't defend myself, mostly because not a single person even asked if it was true, they just believed my ex. All of my family just assumed I cheated and none of my friends ever contacted me after that.
Should I have stood up for myself? Hmmm, not sure. Being branded the bad guy in the family is actually kind of fun because they always talk about me, which makes me laugh. And those friends I had, obvious they weren't really friends, just judgmental pieces of garbage. In most cases I think you should stand up for yourself, but in my case, I am happy with how it turned out by not trying to convince people who weren't my time.
I think you should have told the truth in the end especially to your family.
What happened then? Did they find out?
Why tf would you do that... Trying not to be judgemental but I personally would go ballistic on her for being toxic, for example, you divorced so why not show the divorce papers?
*THE TRUTH WILL SET YOU FREE*
This sounds like a story on UA-cam Reddit (somewhere) when they found out the truth, the family still didn't try to get in touch until op had a baby
First story,"a single guy doesn't need his ex's permission to sleep with other girls"......well said OP.....she made her own shit sandwich,hope her mean girls group is there to share it with her.
First off, stellar work as always LG! Second, I will never understand why people cheat on their significant others. Honestly, you cannot have your cake and eat it too. If you can't stay faithful, stay bloody single! What is the point of cheating on someone you claim to 'love' for thrills! Honestly.
You can have your cake and eat it it too. You just can't have and eat someone else's.
Each relationship, I've been cheated on. Each was because as they said "you just don't seem to care enough about me." The thing is, they didn't know how to open up to me. I have asperger's and can't tell if someone is in a bad place if they keep it to theirselves. So each had gotten into a emotional relationship with someone else.
I understand why they did cheat(not saying it is justified), but they did not go out of their way to understand why it seemed like I didn't care. But really at that point just break up, would be less hurtful for me.
@@AutumnPulse If they cared, they would have talked about it with you to help you understand.
And if you want multiple, you can find someone(s) okay with that instead of being sneaky and making fake agreements.
If you are pursuing a relationship where the person has made it clear that they are not truly into you, then you have set yourself up to be cheated on regardless of whether or not you tell yourself otherwise. Most guys wouldn't suddenly fall for a woman that he can't stand no matter how long she pursued him. Same difference. Those women are not "playing hard to get." They don't like you!!!
"A reflection? Really?" Idk man, reflections are pretty accurate, unless there's some sort of magic involved I doubt it did that on its own.
Man that first story is emotionally satisfying lol
Why did that idiot girl think would happen? That her ex would magically take her back after the shit she pulled. Yes the friends started it but she made the choice to believe them and sleep with someone else she made the choice to reveal personal details about OP to hurt him.
Exposed stuff he said in confidence, destroyed his belongings, put him on blast publicly, doubled down when people talked about her. .fake ass photos hopped proof, hooked up with a dude immediately...and sent him photos with her hickeys...absolutely disgusting behavior
I listened to the two stories of the OPs that were accused of cheating and I came up with a description of the toxic friends of their respective exs: Femcels. They are just like the incels only they will sabotage a healthy happy relationship for the sake of keeping the status quo: Lonely women must stick together and not have a relationship while they are in the friend group. These toxic groups are bitter and jealous of others being happy and want others to be as lonely and miserable as them (self victimizing and self fulfilling prophecy). I don’t feel bad for the exs because they immediately believed the lies and made it their personal mission to slander the respective OPs.
She should have had “the talk” with him before just acting like a child
Wait, hold up, the ex literally believe the people who all the time told her "leave OP because he is not ripped with a ton of money"?, wow, the ex is really naive or stupid to not notice that huge, *huge* redflag in the mean girl group.
Heck, they weren't even like "friends from her entire life", just a group of randoms she recently met
Do not take her back, OP. She is not worth it.
It’s sad that all this could’ve been resolved with a simple conversation now she has no boyfriend, no friends and hopefully some shame
1. Story:
even though I already watched this video it got shown to me again, idk if I commented in the past...but here I go:
I think OP should've told her "I am not interested to be in a relationship with a cheater, bye." since they were still together when she "revenge" cheated on him ... also the fact that she is blaming other people for getting manipulated instead of blaming herself for being manipulated instead of cutting toxic people that try to manipulate you out
OP when she sends you A text saying how sorry she is. Send her the picture of her with all the bite marks on her neck. Tell her when she can undo that picture in your mind you'll think about it.
Re: Story 1
I'm jealous of that dude's awesome friends. M&M are true bros. Also, he def dodged a bullet. I'm sorry he had to go through all that, though. That being said, he handled all of it well.
Personally, I'm just amazed how common it is for women to sabotage other women's romantic relationships, using lies and underhanded tricks, for petty and irrationally spiteful reasons.
Re: Story 2
Props to this guy for how smoothly he handled that gaslighting b-word.
Funny how those who accuse others of cheating are often projecting their own guilt.
Regarding M&M, not all heroes wear capes.
Glad to hear OP dropped her ass. I hope OP lives his best life.
1st story. Well done! Finally a male OP with back bone.
With the first update, he 100% did the right thing. The only thing I would have done differently is get compensation my stuff before kicking her to the curb.
Why would he go back to a used petri dish this was all on her destroying the relationship 🤣🤣🤣
This kind of happened to me. One day while i was at work my cousin came to me (we worked together-family business) saying he saw the guy i was seeing with his ex last night and he acted like a deer caught in headlights. It was early at the time so the guy was still sleeping and i felt myself freak out but i wanted to hear from him before I decided anything. I spoke to him he was just giving her her stuff and it could only happen when she got off work at 10pm....my cousin got mad at me for not believing him over this new guy....I no longer talk to my cousin (not a real good guy) me and the guy? 8 years strong with one kid ❤️ trust your gut and get both sides of the story.
You didn't get both sides of the story though, you believed one side like everyone else. Maybe your cousin sucks but he had no obligation to look out for you. You stopped talking to him over this? seems fishy
@@milieg3309 I don’t see how any of it is your business, but no I didn’t stop talking to him bc of this. I stopped bc he once backed me into a corner yelling at me while I was in the early stages of my pregnancy. Does that sound like someone you’d keep in your life?
Worry about yourself please and thank you.
@@JenPapp you put your info out in public, I commented on it on the basis of the info available. I come from a very toxic family so my perspective on whom to keep around is skewed. That said, I'll worry about you if I feel like, thanks
@@milieg3309 I’m sorry. Thanks for caring. I hope you’re surrounded by love and a family you chose. ❤️
@@JenPapp I have a complicated relationship with my family but they do love me and want the best for me. Sorry if I sounded judgemental, your cousin sounds shitty af and I shouldn't have brought this up at all. Sorry if I brought up bad memories. Hope you have the best people around you now!
I remember a very similar story where the ex gf was convinced op cheated and she booted him. She did not sleep with another guy. Once she learned the truth, they had it talked out and they sorta made up . This is why you dont go nuclear unless you are 100% sure.
I feel as if the now ex just wanted to cheat and the proof was her all along.
Idk based on the reaction I think she genuinely was duped. Doesn't excuse her behavior and the women responsible admitted their involvement.
Guy didn't even defend himself. But then again anyone who believed it are worthless. So in the end it worked out
Dude, that first story.
I am proud. You've developed as an individual person.
Story 1: What really sucked about this is how she jumped to conclusions and kicked him out without even asking what happened. SHE was the one acting strange, SHE was the one that went right to the bathroom and then came raging out at him with ONE piece of "proof". There isn't a pattern or puzzle pieces of events that lead to it
GF wanted to cheat and her girlfriends 'gave her permission' to do so
What bugs me is that OP in the first story was abused throughout his life. If it wasn't the dad, it was the gf.
I'm glad OP didn't take his ex back. If she was that "easily manipulated", it wouldn't take long for this to happen again.
Second story, ewwwww! You don't screw in your bf's parents house with another man! You get a hotel room.
But you still screw???🗿
For your last staement why do it at all!!!! So you're ok with cheating?
@@kennethboyer2338 Dude, this was a year ago.
@@kitsumekat you didn't answer his question.. which then answered it!
@@Luckyrider1958 it's been two years!
OP should’ve also said “Your mean girls successfully won so you no longer have a boyfriend. Hope your happy and will be better at trusting a new partner than some self-absorbed, judgmental bitches” . But I still like what his answer was.
cool guys are always cool i m realy impressed how he handles it good job buddy
Birds of a feather...your GF is a fool. Never speak to her again..
Happened to me. I dated a girl and her friends clearly didn’t like me. I’m American but with German heritage from my mom’s side, I guess that made them think I’m not good enough. Her friends and eventually her family kept claiming I’m a cheater, a fake, a loser. Overtime she found out, I do have a job, I do have good friends, and that I’m not a loser that cheats. When I just stopped caring, she slowly started to try to be nicer. She slowly messaged me about being wrong and I just couldn’t be around her since everyone associated with her can’t be around me for 5 seconds without making comments. She never told them I was loyal. She tried to win me back. I said, well tell all of them they are wrong about me. She couldn’t. When she realized I want to have a woman that cares about me, trust me, wants to know me, she decided to finally admit on Facebook, everyone was wrong. It was tooooo late. My closest friends called her out immediately
I LOVE your happy endings! :-)
Thank you!
Trash TRULY TOOK ITSELF OUT in both of these stories. Awesome.
M&M's Are true bros.respect to them and their family.
Listen, if a girl says her bf cheated and at the same time suddenly has a new bf I would definitely not believe her. Like you say he cheated and you JUST broke up with him and somehow you have a new boyfriend that exact day? Yeah something definitely doesn't add up
While it's true, it takes no effort for girls to get dates or hook-ups. Just sit pretty and wait.🤷🏻♂️
The first story pisses me off for many reasons!
1. (Ex)girlfriend immanently believed her "friends" when they told her OP was cheating and showed "proof" and didn't even sit him down to talk to him!
2. When she first learned about the (Fake) cheating, she immanently fucked another guy just to "get back" at OP, this is where the saying "Two wrongs, don't make a right." comes into play! Just because someone cheats on you, doesn't mean you HAVE to do the same to "Put them in their place!" That saying should have NEVER been said!
3. She triggered OP in remembering his dad because she started to throw his plants on the ground and screaming! She KNEW about what happened to OP as a kid and STILL did that! Doesn't matter IF someone cheated on you! You DON'T trigger them!
4. The fact that after she kicked OP out, that she immanently let D in and again fucked him and had the audacity to send OP pictures is just fucked up! She just rubbed salt in OP's wounds with those photos!
5. She then went onto Facebook to post about cheating and this caused OP to delete his Facebook (Which isn't so bad since it's Facebook) but OP was lucky his friends didn't believe her and stayed by OP's side.
6. Her and her "friends" and the audacity to call OP gay just because he was living with his two gay friends! This is where the saying "Just because someone is gay/lesbian doesn't mean their into you!" comes to play! And where else was OP suppose to go?!? She kicked him out and ended their relationship so she doesn't get any say on where OP lives after getting kicked out!
7. She didn't even ask D if he wanted an LTR and just posted on Facebook on how she was dating him. Then she had the audacity to get upset with him!
8. After learning the truth about what happened, she really thought OP would just take her back just like that after she hurt him and cheated on HIM! Then she pulled the "I'm the victim!" card when OP told her they weren't getting back together. She cried because she knew she fucked up but also because she thought since there were a lot of people there, she thought it could guilt OP into taking her back. Good, it didn't!
I'm happy for you OP! Please stay strong!
More red flags than a communist parade...🚩🚩🚩
Dude. If someone told me my husband was cheating on me, I'd straight up laugh in their face.
First story just amazing 👏 this man is a legend! good for him for standing up for himself and walking away!! He had amazing friends ❤ so many weak people always take back the cheater and it never NEVER end well for them...this guy should be super proud of himself for standing up and moving on. I hope he had nothing but good things happen to him after just keep those friends because they are true friends!
Accusing OP of being gay because he lived with gay dudes is not an individual incident, my dad lived with a gay roommate in his 20s and many assumed he was also gay
Story 2: whenever she emotionally manipulated him, after he saw her butt get smacked, and he begged for her to stay I was mad but I'm glad that it was just so he get proof.
Exactly! After she gaslighted him, threatened to leave him and called him a psycho, it was obvious that after breaking with him, she was going to control the narrative and make him look as the villain. That 304 was dangerous and crazy. A lesson, we men must learn.
God the guys in the second story are fkn life savers
10:00 You need to sue T and her friend for slander and libel. This is textbook.
2:00 stop right there. I can fix this whole problem from happening to someone else. Remember this as it’s something a very wise 30 year old named Brenno told me.... The more friends you have - the MORE drama that WILL arise. Not could, WILL. Think about it if you have a girlfriend and had thirty dude friends and she met all of em. Good chance of her cheating. Not even to say she’s just a bad person but because you’re simply not the best person out there. No one is and there’s always someone who’s more attractive to you than another
Damn, that guy with the 2 friends who helped him out i know there gay, and I have nothing against gay ppl, but they are some great friends, for what they did for him, he'd be homeless, I good friends they are.
"i know there gay, and I have nothing against gay ppl, but" ...that seems like a weird clause in the sentence...has nothing to do with the rest of it, you simply could have said "Damn, that guy with the 2 friends who helped him out, they are some great friends" and completely omit that random bit....
My brother is gay and he’s the best person ever
I kind of wish she called "The mean girl", club "the Karen's"
1st story..you dodged a bullet...she wasn't the one
Typical gaslighting "it was nothing. Of course"
Good on him. 👍
Story 2 you have to get them on video, My ex was dating me and 2 other girls at the same time and told me about it so I told him to get the hell out of my house and not come back and to lose my number. That I didn't care if he was homeless I was not letting him back into my life or house ever again. Best of luck to your sister and you OP not every girl or guy is like these dirtbags.
no matter what she "thought" he did or what she misunderstood the simple fact she slept with a guy she just met and then was willing to let him sleep with someone else?? sry idc what anyone says that's an F'd up way to think..like cheating cancels cheating..ffs..that's a perfect example of someone who will easily cheat the next time there's a problem in the relationship or she feels justified..wtf is wrong with people? sexual intimacy has been devalued to a transaction nowadays..it's honestly disgusting..
12:27 that was the right call I have a huge issue when it comes to accusing people of things they didnt do that has stuck with me my whole life and is still going on today and now I dont even acknowledge it if I get accused I cut that person out of my life completely
Story 2: Op apologized to her after she gaslighted him of what he saw
Me: SMACK! SMACK! SMACK!!
He knew she was lying, he just wanted her to stay because he knew she would do something again & she can't gaslight him if there's video evidence
Why would you keep new friends who hate your partner for no reason? 2 months over 2 years? Just jump right in with someone else? Sickening really.
Theres still a great chance that she just lied the whole mean girl click saying the guy cheated so she can get out of the dumpster fire she started.If someone just do this they are not to be trusted in anyway
Chick cheated on him before she approached him.
M&M are great friends. If she posted destroying your property sue her butt.
If you're girl friend is that stupid to be manipulated like that then good riddance
OP, her friends did you a favor. You do not need a woman like this in your life.
Also, get some therapy. You really need it.
She earned more than me but that was never a problem...
-Yeah, right...
Who needs enemies when you have friends like those
Why is it that women will sabotage the relationship of their "friend" like this?? Are they that insecure? Are they that jealous of their friends good relationship? OP needs to leave them all behind. The girlfriend needs to drop her supposed friends if they act like this.
Second story OP should've just told her to go when she threatened to leave. Don't let these trash females try to gaslight and manipulate you. Glad the sister dumped her trash boyfriend as well.
Love your videos lose genre!
Thank you! :)
Standing up for yourself would have been impossible to because she had already cheated. You did smart things stay safe out of way no drinking.
I'm so proud of the first guy in the first story. I want to give him a hug and buy him a beer. One thing though that I would have did if I was in his shoes. Before walking in and having that conversation with that crazy ex of his. I would have turned on my audio recorder on my phone before entering the coffee house and recorded the whole conversation. She already showed how crazy she was. The recording would have been for protection (and for payback). At the end of the rejection to her I would have told her that I recorded the whole conversation and I'm going to post it online. Even though it was put out there that everything was a lie about him cheating. Sll that hate in vitriol that he got was completely undeserved. I would not let my name be dragged in the mud like that without doing something about it. Yeah, I would have recorded that whole conversation and then posted it online.
The gay couple from the first story is so wholesome that I have no doubts they have caused some sexual orientation crisis without intention 😂😂😂 The other friends who also stood for him are great. They all deserve each other, such great people ❤
I just listened to a LG case where the OP said she cheated on her boyfriend (MANY years ago, mind you, at the beginning of the relationship), and when she told him, he immediately went out and cheated on her. And many of the comments said that was exactly what he should do. Any way you slice it, whether the OP cheated or didn't cheat, it's scuzzy, self-demeaning behaviour.
1st story is so frustrating. They had a good relationship and it may have stayed good forever. Those 'mean girls' totally manipulated her every step of the way and pushed her into a one-way road the relationship couldnt recover from. And shes is F'ing stupid for letting it happen. With friends like that who needs enemies
Girl cheated on him b/c thought he cheated - I don't think he should move to a new city unless he really needs to, because of how totally awesome his friends M&M are - it's hard to find good friends like that.
Nobody in that city tried to even hear his side of the story. A lot of people still probably don't see him in a positive light. Why would you stay in a city where gossips have the potential to ruin your career? Besides, he's got better chances to find a more understanding partner in another city *AND* safely date without the ex ruining them.
I'd talk to my SO before anything else. I trust my husband over others. I've had friends lie about my man before so I don't just buy anyone's BS. "Proof" can be fabricated so I will take it at face value only. Also even if my man WAS cheating my reaction wouldn't be to cheat back. It would be to end things and walk away. I won't stoop down to a cheaters level, no matter how mad I am!
And that's the right call.
But suppose, just suppose, you're presented an opportunity to go scorched Earth, please do so.😉 It might be the mega-villain inside me talking, but absolutely "brutally" destroy them if possible.
Story 2: I would say to sell that shit but OP doesn’t need to deal with legal issues. Don’t know if she’ll even try and get it, but of course, If he sells it or gets rid of it, then luck would have it that she suddenly come asking for it. Least I’d do is pack it up and shove it somewhere.
I feel bad for his plants.
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Stand up for yourself.... bro, she slept with that guy before kicking you out, before you knew there was anything wrong.... there was no saving this
I’m sorry but I can’t be that kinda friend that will defend you for cheating if you have a goodman
story 2: my only problem is that mom and sister are also being filmed without consent for that time
So? I'm sure he didn't care about that, he just wanted proof.
Had the first story happen to me. There was no proof of any cheating. Lol Just a leaky shower faucet when I was with him all day. Supposedly, the person I was cheating with was at my place , while I was with the bf and he slip out the house when we randomly got home at 4am. Smh
1st story: I don't buy it. She wanted to hook up and her friends helped her. When it all went awry and 'Dean' said 'See ya', and the backlash against their homophobia started, she panicked and started blaming her friends.
I know I commented sometime ago, but honestly story 1 showed she is easily influenced to destroy a relationship of hers
Why do "friends" go out of their way to ruin relationships? It's so f-ed up in so many different ways. Kinda makes me not wanting to have friends. I have plenty of friends that I trust but I also heard too many stories similar to the first one.
OP 1 doesn’t need any advice👏🏿👏🏿👍🏿🇬🇧
However, please don’t forget M&M if you switch cities.
I mean this with all the love in my heart every straight guy needs some gay friends they know how to handle drama
Sounds like the girls in my old neighborhood when I grew up.
I love the idea that she thought after falsely accusing and publicly slandering her boyfriend for cheating, and then going out to fuck some dude as some sort of revenge for the accusation. The best solution would be to make him a cheater.
She did it all because she thought he was sleeping with another woman, and is okay letting him sleep with another woman to fix it.