@Svgarcanna so, do you think anyone else that has ever said RIP has had the departed read a message since they are all dead? Sometimes, a video hits you close to home, and you feel compiled to write something in the comments. That was all.
@@Dvgteeth you're not harsh you're just being annoying and stating what everybody clearly knows. are you 5 and just learned how to put context clues together?
Reminds me of an example for a short story with impact that I read about years ago. It read something along the lines of "Baby shoes for sale, never worn". One sentence, a full story.
clarification: the gift she was complaining about was for the baby shower, not the funeral, but ridiculous none the less to complain about a thank you for a gift that the child will never use, because they’re DEAD
Imagine getting mad for not getting a thank you note over a baby shower gift the mother barely even got to use before they lost their child 🤦♀️ it being the baby shower gift instead of the Don Julio makes it even worse
Also she did NOT attach a card to her gift, or put her name on it in any way. Veruka does have a video of her saying a general blanket thank you for the basket as there was, once again, NO NAME.
why is no one in this comment section talking about how she sexualized the baby???? is that not the most insane and disgusting part of all of this?? i’m in shock
Even before the whole speech she did as soon as I saw what she wore to the funeral I was like no f*cking way (I am less talking about the miniskirt and more about the flipflops bc the miniskirt is bad but FLIPFLOPS to a FUNERAL like no way)
@@maryjane4432the thing that like a quarter of women have had?? Alright girl okay. Yeah it can def be traumatizing ofc but she’s talking about it like a worker got her order wrong she just sounds annoyed
people that make needlessly sexualized comments towards babies and children make me sick as a CSA victim. WHY do adults always have to bring sex into the equation for no reason
@@emporertheplusle8329You're neurodivergent, young, and spend too much time on Tumblr. You're going to argue with me because you think you're smart, but you're really not. I suggest you get off the internet and stop believing the nonsense that it holds. I also pretended to be a vampire and werewolf when I was in 7th grade, guess what? It passed.
i unfortunately have been to the funeral for my friend’s first born who died days after he was born. i went to his funeral to support my friend who was STILL RECOVERING FROM CHILDBIRTH and show her i was there for her in her time of need. i also never got the chance to meet her son. you know what i did? none of this shit. a baby’s funeral is not your chance at content. it is a horrific and traumatic time for those involved. more importantly the parents need an outpouring of love and support from their friends and family as they say goodbye to their child. genuinely, fuck this woman i will end this positively and say my friend is pregnant and expecting her rainbow baby, who is due to come in the fall. i send nothing but love and support to veruka during this time and absolute hell to this woman who had claimed to be veruka’s friend.
I know someone disturbingly similar to this in real life--- local girl was supposed to be in a wedding for a mutual friend, but the engaged friend's baby unfortunately was born with a serious condition and passed away. Then in the bridemaids' group chat, the same week the baby died, local girl was pestering everyone about what they were doing to return their dresses and said it "wasn't her wallet's fault someone else's kid didn't work out."
Naw man- I’d make her return all the dresses, and be like “it’s not my fault you’re worried about returning fabric when my baby just died-“ RIP to the baby though… I’m so sorry for those parents.
I've seen a good few people defending Tasha bc drinking at these things is the "norm" in Australia... thing is if it was the norm why was she the only one visibly piss drunk
It is cultural norm, however it’s never once been considered acceptable to be obviously intoxicated. I’ve attended my fair share of funerals and wakes and I’m fortunate enough to never have witnessed someone visibly drunk. It would be vile and disrespectful to the passed individual to conduct oneself in such a manner.
Also I have seen claims that the mom is dry because she had a problem with alcohol, so pregaming and gifting alcohol to who she claimed is her friend is even scummier.
Nothing could've prepared me for what she said during her speech and on the grass.. I literally just thought this was gonna simply be a girl rudely vlogging at the worst time but it was so much worse, it definitely feels like she only cares about herself.
Her calling it a function and saying she is a good person “for giving gifts” like no being there for a person and giving no presents means more than anything to a grieving person, ESPECIALLY A MOTHER. (I’m a literal minor and know more than a full grown woman 🤦♀️)
This reminds me of a guy that I dated after my mom died of cancer. He tried to throw it in my face what a good person he was for going to the wake even though it made him uncomfortable. It’s still disgusting.
Usually I'm pretty desensitized to influencers being idiots but... this is genuinely insane. I'm speechless. Bless the grieving family for having to deal with the unthinkable on top of having to deal with such an insane human being
My little nephew passed, and the same thing happened with this relative we not very close with. Decides to record, putting it on social media made it seem like she was very close when we allowed no phone and posting anything about it online.
TW: mentions of SIDs This whole situation reminds me of a watered down version involving my mom and grandma. I have an older sister, but I’ve never met her as she died in the mid 80s of SIDS. I was born in 2000. My mom found her in her crib in the middle of the night for a feeding. My grandma legit had a meltdown worse than my mom, and she wouldn’t give her the body because she kept clinging to it saying ‘*MY* baby died.’ It was salt in the wound for my mom.
I think she was talking about the baby shower gift, but I imagine that with everything that happened, they just didn't get around to sending thank yous
Exactly!! When I was a teen I made cookies for a classmate with cancer (she’s ok now). I was mad she didn’t thank me. As I got older I was so mad at myself because wtf?! She didn’t need to thank me!! This moron is too old for this.
In the first tik tok she said "i sent teddies" what the fuck? To a mother who lost a baby? That's like if somone found out they had cancer and you sent them a wig. Crazy people. Crazy.
Austin Green covered this topic over a week ago, and his video was very interesting as well. What an INSANE story! I’m glad I’m getting to see it from different commentary UA-camrs’ perspectives
It's unbelievably scary and disturbing how desensitized a lot of people have become because of social media. They become narcissistic and don't know how to take anything seriously.
Narcissistic people existed before social media too. Even in the 1800 this girl would be getting drunk at a funeral. Social media just makes them more visible
Poor Veruca…this is absolutely heartbreaking. May baby Cash rest in peace, he will be forever missed. I hope he is dancing in heaven and laughing in heaven while watching over his mama.
In Australia it’s our cultural norm to consume alcohol during the wake, almost like a toast to celebrate the life of the person who has passed. This story is truly wicked and Tash is an unbelievably cruel individual. Zero self awareness, respect or consideration shown to a young grieving mother who will undoubtedly spend the remainder of her life tormented by the horrific loss of her child. It’s harrowing. And all because a “thank you” wasn’t received. Shameless.
Exactly im Polish and alcohol is always served at wakes. Usually its the older people drinking but nobody gets completely sloshed. I even went with my cousins to a bar after my Babcia died... definitely not to celebrate but as a way to commiserate over our loss. We had a few drinks and told stories, it was nice. Maybe we Polaks just know how to handle our alcohol 😂
@@thegingerrunner9448 in Aus our wakes are basically a modified version of the traditional Irish wake. We celebrate the life of our loved ones, eat and drink and share stories about them. I always thought that was standard in Western countries but I guess not.
Creator on here by the channel name Purplexed TC (yes, it’s misspelled) attended and live streamed a little boys funeral. He was murdered and his case was highly publicized. For the reason, the family asked the media to stay away. She decided to go and stream it anyway with some fake story on how she ‘knew’ the family. Imagine crashing and live-streaming a murdered babies funeral for views. What’s wrong with people?!
The baby was born only a few days after my son. I feel absolutely devastated for the family especially the parents. No one deserves that kind of pain it's horrible to think someone could be so insensitive!! I hope the family can heal from this tragedy❤ Rest in peace sweet boy.
I hope that Veruca finds peace and is able to be the mother she is when she's ready. No one deserves to go through this type of grief AND have to relive the moments because of someone else's selfishness
I learned from this if you ever suffer a tragedy be very selective about who is invited to the funeral and if ppl get mad bc they aren’t invited it’s a good time for them to never talk to you again.
People truly are regressing and losing any semblance of awareness and respect. Everyone thinks they’re the main character of the world. I know it’s not as bad but this story definitely reminded me of that plus one who attended that birthday party.
even if you thought it was ok to vlog and it was actually about honoring him why would you post it and THEN ask if they want it taken down instead of asking permission to post it beforehand
I remember getting the hearse video on my fyp, I watched it through and was absolutely disgusted by what the girl was saying and how disrespectful her mannerisms were by leaning on the hearse. It’s absolutely crazy seeing how she plays victim in a situation like this. RIP to the baby🤍
5:12 no I'm pretty sure this in reference to veruca's (idk if thats how you spell her name) babies face was discolored due to a mistake the ppl who were prepping his body made, which made the day even worse
Talk about being chronically online, entitled, selfish, and completely tone deaf. Losing a child, let alone a tiny little baby, is the worst thing a parent could go through. The pain never leaves you and so many people fall apart forever because of it. Then to go to the funeral and make it all about yourself and ruin the last goodbye these parents are gonna have with their child? Unforgivable. Disgusting.
The baby’s name is Cash…. Not just the baby 😮 also it gets even worse; Tasha uploaded a screen recording of verucas gender reveal with her in front of them after they made an inappropriate joke during the reveal and was like see see they made an inappropriate joke at the gender reveal so why does it matter if I made a inappropriate joke 🫣 girl is a wreck holy crap
how can anyone be so earth-shatteringly OUT of touch??? i think after all this ridiculous shit, the ONE positive of this awful awful situation is that the baby, god bless him and rest his soul, and his mum will get the well wishes they need and she'll come out of it all okay.
When we spend so much time online it’s easy to only see these types of people. There are honestly so many people that are amazing and wonderfully kind and I truly believe they out number the bad ❤❤
The way she talked about that baby is alarming.Inappropriate doesn’t caught it, even if you were drunk ,seriously? It’s a damn baby, a baby she didn’t even know about.
@@LilySaintSin The grace this poor mother had when dealing with this absolute crackhead is astonishing, if i was in attendance i would've dragged her away from the event and lectured her about basic human decency. If i was the PARENT, i wouldve needed people to hold me back.
6:05 As someone planning on going into the funeral service field, I couldn't help but pause the video here. Sometimes on the internet we find things that make us question our reality, this is one of those things for me. To hijack someone elses grief is damn near a crime.
I still can't get over the fact that she thought giving a grieving woman tequila was an alright thing to do , even if somebody asked you for alcohol you do not give it to them if you know they might not be in a situation to drink safely that's like common sense I fear
How tf did she only know her for "6 months" if she was invited to her baby shower... And the baby passed months after he was born? Regardless of whether Veruka may have had substance abuse in the past, giving alcohol as a gift to a grieving person is such a slap to the face. How insensitive.
not really a baby, but while i were staying at my dad's funeral with my family and visitors, theres these 2 girls that walked in and took a picture of my dad on there phones. i was like 8 and i got angry but i couldnt do anything since i think i would cause drama, anyways i asked my older sister about it if she remembers it and she told me that they asked them to delete the pictures and they did. im still kind of mad though
9:48 “she wasn’t going to force her to see her say sorry” but she wanted the mother to “force her to say thank you for a shower gift” that right there is narcissistic behavior!!
thank you so, so much for talking about this. as someone who has lost my firstborn son similarly, eleven plus years ago now, thus subject is so taboo it makes me and even more painfully my son who passed away completely unseen or heard. so thank you fot covering this specific topic and its unfortunately common for toxic people like this gravitate to the grieving. happened to me in the past as well. anyway thank you again for giving visibility to those of us who have unfortunately had to plan our own child's funeral.
i’m pregnant with my first and one of my biggest fear is SIDS.. i would go crazy if i lost my baby boy. this video made me cry. I pray that mother and family are okay ❤️🩹 my heart hurts for them.
New Zealand did a major study of SIDS and we found that putting baby to sleep on their back halved cases. We had a "back to sleep" campaign and cases dropped dramatically. Congratulations on your new baby.
@@comradeshmurda8103Amber got with a woman whose partner died 1 month prior- and filmed the grave of a young girl child. It’s really not that far beyond.
If someone vlogged at my babies funeral, there would be 2 dead bodies there
HAHAHAHAH UNDERATED COMMENT
Same girly 🔪
At the very least a solid throwing of hands.
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@@KittyBroccoli fr fr slay 🔪🔪🔪🔪
RIP to the baby that had their funeral disrespected.
Absolutely
Sorry if this is harsh, but….its not conscious….its not going to read the virtue signaling you’re doing here.
@Svgarcanna so, do you think anyone else that has ever said RIP has had the departed read a message since they are all dead? Sometimes, a video hits you close to home, and you feel compiled to write something in the comments. That was all.
@@Dvgteeth you're not harsh you're just being annoying and stating what everybody clearly knows. are you 5 and just learned how to put context clues together?
@@Dvgteeth human decency exists you know, you should try and find yours
“Baby’s funeral” is such a devastating pair of words.
Reminds me of an example for a short story with impact that I read about years ago. It read something along the lines of "Baby shoes for sale, never worn". One sentence, a full story.
The fact she called it a FUNCTION
@@aliszamaryeI think the function was actually the baby shower for the baby who later passed
@@Itri_Vegayes I have read this. Extremely impactful. There is also another similar to this: The smaller the casket, the heavier it is to carry.
watching that video genuinely made me feel sad, and i don't even know verucca or the baby.
Rest In Peace, man.
As a mother, this is disgusting behavior.
Anyone can realize that too. But especially parents.
@@turboshazed7370 pure shamelessness.
I'm not a mother, but it's trully despicable and disrespectful...such a hard moment for the parents of the baby...
As a human. Period. Just disgusting
It’s not only disgusting, it’s down right crazy that she has the audacity to do that
clarification: the gift she was complaining about was for the baby shower, not the funeral, but ridiculous none the less to complain about a thank you for a gift that the child will never use, because they’re DEAD
Imagine getting mad for not getting a thank you note over a baby shower gift the mother barely even got to use before they lost their child 🤦♀️ it being the baby shower gift instead of the Don Julio makes it even worse
Also she did NOT attach a card to her gift, or put her name on it in any way. Veruka does have a video of her saying a general blanket thank you for the basket as there was, once again, NO NAME.
She does know that she didnt HAVE to give her a baby shower gift, right????
@@callahardy8639RIGHT ?!? I’m glad someone else commented this cause she didn’t even put a card how was Veruca supposed to know who it’s from
It was for the funeral, not the shower.
why is no one in this comment section talking about how she sexualized the baby???? is that not the most insane and disgusting part of all of this?? i’m in shock
What im saying!!
Oh that was so insane, just when I thought she couldn’t stoop any lower.
I’m not that surprised. People have been sexualizing infants for decades, now. Have you ever seen those “boob man” onesies?
She literally admitted that’s her “thought process.” A real class act.
This might actually be the worst thing I've ever seen a youtuber do
Tasha’s doing a earn-your-place-in-Hell speedrun
Even before the whole speech she did as soon as I saw what she wore to the funeral I was like no f*cking way
(I am less talking about the miniskirt and more about the flipflops bc the miniskirt is bad but FLIPFLOPS to a FUNERAL like no way)
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@@exploringwiththeshivI love slayy culture but unfortunately nows not the time
You’re right
"She invites me to a function and I go because ya know I wanna be a good person" THE BABIES FUNERAL?!
It was the baby shower…she literally says it in the video
@@shewearsbowties I commented before I finished the video lol but STILL
Definitely NOT a good person. Before OR after this whole thing
@@Exoctic_JRshe even blamed her actions on having an abortion
@@maryjane4432the thing that like a quarter of women have had??
Alright girl okay. Yeah it can def be traumatizing ofc but she’s talking about it like a worker got her order wrong she just sounds annoyed
My heart dropped at the sexualized comment.
Yes THAT WAS THE WORST PART in my opinion
It made me NAUSEOUS
@@CandyWorld30 It really was 😤
Like why the FUCK did she say that shit?!
people that make needlessly sexualized comments towards babies and children make me sick as a CSA victim. WHY do adults always have to bring sex into the equation for no reason
the only way Tasha could get trashier is if she got pregnant, pivoted to mommy vlogging, & named the kid after Cash
Don't give the b**ch ideas...
There MUST be something wrong with her brain.
dont give her any ideas
and she’d say “nooo no no i named it cash in remembrance of your baby🥺🥺🥺🥺”
And then vlogged his funeral too.
3:02 the vape at the babies funeral is actually insane😭
Imo it wouldnt be so bad if she went in a different spot AWAY from everyone with the vape
It’s honestly insane how many people vape around others without asking or taking the situation in account.
Wow I did not notice that 😟 crazy
@@GogiRegionWhen I was visiting Auschwitz there was a guy on the tour who was literally smoking 😭. Who tf smokes during something like that?
*baby's possessive not plural
“I’m a human” yeah I don’t know about that to be honest…
@WorthyofThyLove as an actual demon (fictionkin of an alternate) I do not claim her, im dropping her into the void
@@emporertheplusle8329Not the place for your delusions
@@emporertheplusle8329You're neurodivergent, young, and spend too much time on Tumblr. You're going to argue with me because you think you're smart, but you're really not. I suggest you get off the internet and stop believing the nonsense that it holds. I also pretended to be a vampire and werewolf when I was in 7th grade, guess what? It passed.
@@emporertheplusle8329help 😭
@@emporertheplusle8329 jesus christ.... can you people stop talking about your fictional disorder for like ONE MINUTE?
i unfortunately have been to the funeral for my friend’s first born who died days after he was born. i went to his funeral to support my friend who was STILL RECOVERING FROM CHILDBIRTH and show her i was there for her in her time of need. i also never got the chance to meet her son. you know what i did? none of this shit. a baby’s funeral is not your chance at content. it is a horrific and traumatic time for those involved. more importantly the parents need an outpouring of love and support from their friends and family as they say goodbye to their child. genuinely, fuck this woman
i will end this positively and say my friend is pregnant and expecting her rainbow baby, who is due to come in the fall. i send nothing but love and support to veruka during this time and absolute hell to this woman who had claimed to be veruka’s friend.
Same. That was the most horrific event I've ever attended. I cannot imagine making it about myself.
Hope things go well with your friend ❤
congrats to your friend!❤️
I am sending all my love to your friend and their rainbow baby ❤
hope the baby is born in good health and that everything goes well on their and your friend's life.
I know someone disturbingly similar to this in real life--- local girl was supposed to be in a wedding for a mutual friend, but the engaged friend's baby unfortunately was born with a serious condition and passed away. Then in the bridemaids' group chat, the same week the baby died, local girl was pestering everyone about what they were doing to return their dresses and said it "wasn't her wallet's fault someone else's kid didn't work out."
That is definitely worse
She could’ve just politely asked.. that’s so disrespectful
Girlie would've eaten *gravel*
Wait did she assume the wedding was not to go on in the future and took that opportunity to be mad when she found out about a tragedy? Omg..
Naw man- I’d make her return all the dresses, and be like “it’s not my fault you’re worried about returning fabric when my baby just died-“ RIP to the baby though… I’m so sorry for those parents.
geniunely cannot believe people like this are real my god
She is genuinely so lucky no one clocked her at that funeral.
The fact she even had a vape IN HAND WHILE SHE WAS FILMING THE BABIES FUNERAL just speaks to her utter disrespect
I vape, but dear god i cannot imagine.
This fascinates me because it's as if she was doing some sort of challenge to do literally everything you must never do at a funeral.
Its really disconcerting people are coming off like an snl skit.
I've seen a good few people defending Tasha bc drinking at these things is the "norm" in Australia... thing is if it was the norm why was she the only one visibly piss drunk
It is cultural norm, however it’s never once been considered acceptable to be obviously intoxicated. I’ve attended my fair share of funerals and wakes and I’m fortunate enough to never have witnessed someone visibly drunk. It would be vile and disrespectful to the passed individual to conduct oneself in such a manner.
Also I have seen claims that the mom is dry because she had a problem with alcohol, so pregaming and gifting alcohol to who she claimed is her friend is even scummier.
It is the norm to have a few drinks, but you're not supposed to get drunk like that -- she's just trashy.
If she wants to get drunk over it then whatever but why at the funeral itself
Also, I don't think the drinking is the issue, I think it's the ... everything else! xD jeez...
one of my family members died at 5 months old and if someone vlogged at her funeral i would RIOT.
The way I would see red then come to in a jail cell…
Literally everything this girl did was so inappropriate. Caught myself saying 'wtf' out loud multiple times while watching this, damn.
3:02 the turquoise vape 😭 girl why
i just was about to comment about this with this same timestamp!
just wild
I believe that is the lost Mary MT15000 Turbo Baja splash (aka Baja blast) vape
@@graces1241not the exact name 💀 put the vapes down
@@graces1241 a fellow man of culture, i see
LMFAOOO THE WAY SHES TRYING TO OPEN THE RAMUNE WRONG IS SO FUNNY
YES I WAS LIKE GIRL STOP. ✋🏻
ROFLMAO😭😭😭😭
The instructions are right on the wrapper too!
It's like this woman was designed to piss me off personally :'y
@@BlackOrderAlchemist I LITERALLY HAD JAPANESE SODA YESTERDAY (my brother had a birthday celebration there)
Yeah, not the brightest bean of the bunch
I lost a set of a twin boys. I cannot imagine someone having the gall to vlog any of what I went through
I’m so sorry 🫂
I’m so sorry 😞
I’m so sorry for your tremendous loss.
May the woman’s and your babys rest in peace
I’m so sorry for your loss😭💔🫂
That title was a huge jumpscare
For real!
it's "baby's," smh
Nothing could've prepared me for what she said during her speech and on the grass.. I literally just thought this was gonna simply be a girl rudely vlogging at the worst time but it was so much worse, it definitely feels like she only cares about herself.
Her calling it a function and saying she is a good person “for giving gifts” like no being there for a person and giving no presents means more than anything to a grieving person, ESPECIALLY A MOTHER. (I’m a literal minor and know more than a full grown woman 🤦♀️)
This reminds me of a guy that I dated after my mom died of cancer. He tried to throw it in my face what a good person he was for going to the wake even though it made him uncomfortable. It’s still disgusting.
@@JENNIFAFAAPeople trying to weponise doing the bare minimum baffle me sm.
I feel so bad for people who fall for it and get manipulated.
"Literal minor" 😂
the way she said “function” too😭she didn’t know what to call it without putting herself in a bad light
Usually I'm pretty desensitized to influencers being idiots but... this is genuinely insane. I'm speechless. Bless the grieving family for having to deal with the unthinkable on top of having to deal with such an insane human being
I just texted my mom this exact same sentiment. I feel so unphased by the mishaps of most influencers these days, but holy geez. Blood boiling
Rip to the sweet beautiful baby. I hope the mother can find some peace in her world shattering journey.
Cash was 6 weeks old not 6 months. The "function" was the baby shower.
The baby's name was cash?
@@gor.emlessyes
@@gor.emlessyes
Props to the parents for handling it how they did because I would’ve been in prison after that speech
💯% facts 👏🏼👏🏼
My little nephew passed, and the same thing happened with this relative we not very close with. Decides to record, putting it on social media made it seem like she was very close when we allowed no phone and posting anything about it online.
I'm so sorry that happened to you, some people are just purely awful.
Sue immediately this is fucking horrible
TW: mentions of SIDs
This whole situation reminds me of a watered down version involving my mom and grandma. I have an older sister, but I’ve never met her as she died in the mid 80s of SIDS. I was born in 2000. My mom found her in her crib in the middle of the night for a feeding. My grandma legit had a meltdown worse than my mom, and she wouldn’t give her the body because she kept clinging to it saying ‘*MY* baby died.’ It was salt in the wound for my mom.
aw im so sorry about that. ive had siblings i never met and if youre anything like me im sure its still hard for you as well.
Jesus. I hate women who co-opt other women's suffering.
Whoa, that’s trauma on top of trauma. I hope your mom is healing.
Rip❤🙏
It's not the same. Your grandma and your mother cared but this person doesn't care about the baby.
this whole scenario is unreal.
If I give someone a gift bc of a death I’m not expecting a thank you like omg
I think she was talking about the baby shower gift, but I imagine that with everything that happened, they just didn't get around to sending thank yous
Exactly!! When I was a teen I made cookies for a classmate with cancer (she’s ok now). I was mad she didn’t thank me. As I got older I was so mad at myself because wtf?! She didn’t need to thank me!! This moron is too old for this.
Im an austrlian as as much as booze is pretty cultural here, this was weird of her and shes so cruel for dragging it out
In the first tik tok she said "i sent teddies" what the fuck? To a mother who lost a baby?
That's like if somone found out they had cancer and you sent them a wig.
Crazy people. Crazy.
Austin Green covered this topic over a week ago, and his video was very interesting as well. What an INSANE story! I’m glad I’m getting to see it from different commentary UA-camrs’ perspectives
I can't imagine being in a baby's funeral and doing anything but crying your eyes and lungs out. She doesn't feel human
To be as polite as possible; if I were there, in that situation, she would need an entire team of surgeons and a colonoscopy to find that phone again
Some people are so chronically online that they forget how reality works.
The speech… oh my god … “may him live with …” I’m genuinely in shock.
Literally…I just kept thinking “there’s no way someone can be THIS disgusting..”
@@nani0logy pedo actions isn't it sexualising a baby !
5:00 she isn’t opening that drink right. She’ll never get that thing open lmao.
I was just thinking that 🤣
😊😅9😅7😊😊
I was so confused watching the video, thinking that I don’t remember opening it that way, then I saw she didn’t get it open and realized that’s why.
@@GogiRegionMaybe she was drunk then too
the title was enough of a shock on its own ??
My brother died to SIDS so seeing this makes me very upset. May the baby rest in paradise❤️
I’m sorry about your brother 🤎
It's unbelievably scary and disturbing how desensitized a lot of people have become because of social media. They become narcissistic and don't know how to take anything seriously.
Sooooooooooooooo TRUE
Narcissistic people existed before social media too. Even in the 1800 this girl would be getting drunk at a funeral. Social media just makes them more visible
Poor Veruca…this is absolutely heartbreaking. May baby Cash rest in peace, he will be forever missed. I hope he is dancing in heaven and laughing in heaven while watching over his mama.
In Australia it’s our cultural norm to consume alcohol during the wake, almost like a toast to celebrate the life of the person who has passed.
This story is truly wicked and Tash is an unbelievably cruel individual. Zero self awareness, respect or consideration shown to a young grieving mother who will undoubtedly spend the remainder of her life tormented by the horrific loss of her child. It’s harrowing.
And all because a “thank you” wasn’t received. Shameless.
Yeah, that aspect is fine, it was her getting TRASHED that was the issue. You think she'd know when to stop.
This is a weird tradition.
@@JubbysDragons you know I hope the people at my funeral get wasted to remember me
Exactly im Polish and alcohol is always served at wakes. Usually its the older people drinking but nobody gets completely sloshed. I even went with my cousins to a bar after my Babcia died... definitely not to celebrate but as a way to commiserate over our loss. We had a few drinks and told stories, it was nice. Maybe we Polaks just know how to handle our alcohol 😂
@@thegingerrunner9448 in Aus our wakes are basically a modified version of the traditional Irish wake. We celebrate the life of our loved ones, eat and drink and share stories about them. I always thought that was standard in Western countries but I guess not.
Creator on here by the channel name Purplexed TC (yes, it’s misspelled) attended and live streamed a little boys funeral. He was murdered and his case was highly publicized. For the reason, the family asked the media to stay away. She decided to go and stream it anyway with some fake story on how she ‘knew’ the family.
Imagine crashing and live-streaming a murdered babies funeral for views. What’s wrong with people?!
Does she make candles by chance ?
The baby was born only a few days after my son. I feel absolutely devastated for the family especially the parents. No one deserves that kind of pain it's horrible to think someone could be so insensitive!! I hope the family can heal from this tragedy❤ Rest in peace sweet boy.
I hope that Veruca finds peace and is able to be the mother she is when she's ready. No one deserves to go through this type of grief AND have to relive the moments because of someone else's selfishness
I learned from this if you ever suffer a tragedy be very selective about who is invited to the funeral and if ppl get mad bc they aren’t invited it’s a good time for them to never talk to you again.
Kindly - what the fuck has happened now
At a babies funeral, *sound of box fan* .......a BABIE'S funeral.....
People truly are regressing and losing any semblance of awareness and respect. Everyone thinks they’re the main character of the world. I know it’s not as bad but this story definitely reminded me of that plus one who attended that birthday party.
even if you thought it was ok to vlog and it was actually about honoring him why would you post it and THEN ask if they want it taken down instead of asking permission to post it beforehand
2:06 she can't even pretend she cares, oh my god
This makes me so viscerally angry holy shit
THE SPEECH???
Right?! She’s disgusting. There’s no excuse.
I skipped over it i could not take it. My calf muscles were clenching
I remember getting the hearse video on my fyp, I watched it through and was absolutely disgusted by what the girl was saying and how disrespectful her mannerisms were by leaning on the hearse. It’s absolutely crazy seeing how she plays victim in a situation like this. RIP to the baby🤍
Cash was only 6 weeks old so Veruca was still going through postpartum too:( its so infuriating
She is an adult worker, so her lack of class was not a shock. Thought and prayers to the family of the baby.
Being an adult worker is irrelevant to being a bad person.
@@justbinji7718 True...but still. I forgot where I saw her before this, but her overall attitude initially told me everything.
@@xagonent4942don’t worry you said the right thing
7:12 W H A T ? ! This is literally the worst thing I have ever heard. I literally cannot wrap my head around it
5:12 no I'm pretty sure this in reference to veruca's (idk if thats how you spell her name) babies face was discolored due to a mistake the ppl who were prepping his body made, which made the day even worse
Surprised she didn't make a "Cash me outside" joke at the funeral
This woman is soulless and sounds like a complete narcissist with no empathy
Talk about being chronically online, entitled, selfish, and completely tone deaf. Losing a child, let alone a tiny little baby, is the worst thing a parent could go through. The pain never leaves you and so many people fall apart forever because of it.
Then to go to the funeral and make it all about yourself and ruin the last goodbye these parents are gonna have with their child? Unforgivable. Disgusting.
The baby’s name is Cash…. Not just the baby 😮 also it gets even worse; Tasha uploaded a screen recording of verucas gender reveal with her in front of them after they made an inappropriate joke during the reveal and was like see see they made an inappropriate joke at the gender reveal so why does it matter if I made a inappropriate joke 🫣 girl is a wreck holy crap
creating drama and posting private messages while shes trying to grieve is crazy
That's not how you open a ramune... not that it's the most important thing. But it does amplify my negative feelings.
Lol
how can anyone be so earth-shatteringly OUT of touch??? i think after all this ridiculous shit, the ONE positive of this awful awful situation is that the baby, god bless him and rest his soul, and his mum will get the well wishes they need and she'll come out of it all okay.
2024 is a wild year
wdym vlogging at a baby’s funeral???
each new upload title gives me less hope in humanity 😭
When we spend so much time online it’s easy to only see these types of people. There are honestly so many people that are amazing and wonderfully kind and I truly believe they out number the bad ❤❤
The way she talked about that baby is alarming.Inappropriate doesn’t caught it, even if you were drunk ,seriously? It’s a damn baby, a baby she didn’t even know about.
NO PLEASE JAKE I CANT SHE DIDNT GIVE A DRUNK SPEECH PLEASE
SEXUALIZING THE BABY?! JAKE PLEASE I CANNOT
I had to skip over the thing cause my brain can't deal with this today.
@@Antion9 that was a smart move, i have been cursed with knowledge
I don't usually condone threats, but in this case I might make an exception.
@@LilySaintSin The grace this poor mother had when dealing with this absolute crackhead is astonishing, if i was in attendance i would've dragged her away from the event and lectured her about basic human decency.
If i was the PARENT, i wouldve needed people to hold me back.
Not that it changes the story but you mentioned the baby was 6 months old, cash was actually only 6 weeks old
6:05 As someone planning on going into the funeral service field, I couldn't help but pause the video here. Sometimes on the internet we find things that make us question our reality, this is one of those things for me. To hijack someone elses grief is damn near a crime.
This can't be real. My brain refuses it.
Imagine trying to grieve and your "friend" starts drama with you wtaf
sickening rest in peace to the poor baby and may the family recover healthily.
"I don't have many friends..." yeah... We can all see why
It’s so awful that all this drama is surrounding an innocent baby’s funeral. Breaks my heart
I still can't get over the fact that she thought giving a grieving woman tequila was an alright thing to do , even if somebody asked you for alcohol you do not give it to them if you know they might not be in a situation to drink safely that's like common sense I fear
only known someone for 6 months but decided you’re comfortable enough to vlog the funeral
I am convinced that some people have no soul because wtf
Wow, Wow, Wow‼️What an absolute disgrace. Thank you for covering this. R.I.P sweet baby Cash. 🕊️ Wishing all of his loved ones comfort & peace. 💙
He was a month old…a month…
Im so sorry for your loss, and this horrible person exploiting it.
"at the end of the day" why do they always use that
Well to tack onto that, at the end of the day, thirst trap is still an awful person 😂
How tf did she only know her for "6 months" if she was invited to her baby shower... And the baby passed months after he was born? Regardless of whether Veruka may have had substance abuse in the past, giving alcohol as a gift to a grieving person is such a slap to the face. How insensitive.
As someone who lost my baby brother, if anyone VLOGGED and DISRESPECTED his funeral they would NEVER see the light of day again.
my jaw literally dropped at her saying "awee they invited me i want to go and be a good person"
not really a baby, but while i were staying at my dad's funeral with my family and visitors, theres these 2 girls that walked in and took a picture of my dad on there phones. i was like 8 and i got angry but i couldnt do anything since i think i would cause drama, anyways i asked my older sister about it if she remembers it and she told me that they asked them to delete the pictures and they did. im still kind of mad though
I can’t believe she says she goes to the funeral because she wants to be a good person… is that… is that the only reason???
I am so sorry that this happened to Veruca. It is crazy to me that people like Tasha exist. RIP to the beautiful baby boy 🙏🕊
9:48 “she wasn’t going to force her to see her say sorry” but she wanted the mother to “force her to say thank you for a shower gift” that right there is narcissistic behavior!!
THIS IS SO HEART BREAKING 😭💔 RIP POOR BABY 😭🕊️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Im not ready for this
thank you so, so much for talking about this. as someone who has lost my firstborn son similarly, eleven plus years ago now, thus subject is so taboo it makes me and even more painfully my son who passed away completely unseen or heard. so thank you fot covering this specific topic and its unfortunately common for toxic people like this gravitate to the grieving. happened to me in the past as well. anyway thank you again for giving visibility to those of us who have unfortunately had to plan our own child's funeral.
i’m pregnant with my first and one of my biggest fear is SIDS.. i would go crazy if i lost my baby boy. this video made me cry. I pray that mother and family are okay ❤️🩹 my heart hurts for them.
I'm a mum of 4 and sids was my biggest fear as well.
I wish you all the best and I'll keep you and your baby boy in my prayers 🙏🏻
New Zealand did a major study of SIDS and we found that putting baby to sleep on their back halved cases. We had a "back to sleep" campaign and cases dropped dramatically. Congratulations on your new baby.
The strength of the mother and of everyone at that funeral is admirable. I cannot imagine NOT physically harming that person in that moment.
oh God what is this Jake I haven't even started yet
This is so amberlynn-coded
reid?
@@rathole36 of course
This is so far beyond amberlynn reid
@@comradeshmurda8103 FAR.
@@comradeshmurda8103Amber got with a woman whose partner died 1 month prior- and filmed the grave of a young girl child. It’s really not that far beyond.