Haa bhai bilkul sahi baat hai sir ki ...muhje bhi class 9 m ias bane ke liye papa ne motivate kiya ..or fir class 11 m bhi mere kuch dost ne pw ,allen se coaching ki thi iit ke liey ..un logo ko dekh kar muhje bhi iitian bane ka shok laga ...class 11 m maths liya tha toh 12 m muhje maths hard lagne lagi ...tb main apne bio walo dost ko dekh soch ki main bhi neet karu ..neet karne ke piche 2 important points the mere liye pehle ki fee Kam thi college or durso attempt unlimited the ...par abhi main 12 complete kiya hai maths se woth 76 per % ...please kio ache carrier suggest kar do chota bhai samj ke
This is exactly what Sanjeev Sanyal referred to by 'poverty of aspiration'. But it is interesting that UPSC aspirants started trolling him, but admire Vijendar Sir.
Vijender sir aapka dil se sukriya.... I am proud of you because aap sach m isee kaam k liye bane ho....padne paadane, sikhane sikhane or sach ko sabke samne rakhne k liye..... Thankyou sir
correct bro, in these times our mindset becomes complex mainly because of these social media apps. Our minds are filled with so much of information related to all fields includes both positives and negatives which I don't think our brains can easily process. We should consume less content from social media and should focus only on things that are actually needed. Once these algorithms make us addicted to apps it's very difficult to come out of them because it takes time to actually understand this and as a result we have to pay heavy price for it as well.
Heart touching talk literally. I wish these things should grow in our ecosystem so that our people realise the real image of this wonderful life we have got.❤❤
I am from Pakistan, and the mentality of people here is also exactly the same. It was good to hear his point of view which I found very rational. We need to promote such people more and more.
Honestly all this doesnt really matter in my opinion. All that matters is peace in life with right amount of happiness, challenges and difficulties. If something is bringing peace for you, happiness as well challenge for you, you enjoy it, then DO IT. What rank you got, what college you went, which exam you cracked, all of this matters only if you think these are the factors which determine the peace in you life. If a man is happy, no no not just happy but peaceful with what he has, he will never break down, and no one can ever do. The quality of your life doesnt really depend on your qualifications or matter,but on your thoughts of life. If you KNOW for sure and you think youre MADE for this, that these things are your game, and the deciding factors of your life, then you can be proud of yourself that you have sorted out what most people cant and better than who just follow sheep's herd.
You did not lose any audience; you earned at least one more subscriber. This is one of the best videos I've come across on YT so far. It was refreshing to see Mr. V. stating the facts! Loved the whole thing.
I’m glad things that NEED to be discussed, to be out in the open, they are being done here. Dear Dr. Chauhan, You’re a rockstar. ^^ Thank you. And thank you dear team Supermind. Take care everyone.
Looks like Vijendar Sir always wanted to say this out, and Sanjeev Sanyal's 'poverty of aspiration', 'UPSC waste of time', 'dull and boring', and other similar remarks gave him the confidence to speak up. Very good.
I'm very happy and honoured that I got a chance to watch this masterpiece conversation.... Seriously I never watch any podcast which highlighted the dark reality of this upsc stuff ...the question that you (Ayush) asked were very important and helpful ...so thanks a lot for this podcast 🙌🥀🎉❤️
Actually this video is very much eye opening for me and for all other also I dont know what to say but this conversation was too short abd too much warming for us I just want to say Thank you for bringing in such a good conversation Thanks a lot to make us learn that much
@@Searchingsoul-f5j each year i d be 1 or 2 marks away from the list. I used to hope maybe next year. Each year I didn’t join pvt jobs which were really good and paid well because of ‘govt job is best’ mindset. And finally when I did get one government job I realised it was not at all what it seemed like. My prime age of working abd enjoying my income went by. So 8 years wasted chasing a job which was not at all fulfilling.
@@Sakshichauhannatha actually I am in the same loop . Missing merit since last two year by 10 20 marks in different government exam. I don't have any technical background so can't go for private too. But I am in the hope that one day when I will get a job I will enjoy my best . But you are saying otherwise. Btw I am 26 now.
@@Searchingsoul-f5j I suggest start any part time job that you enjoy. If nothing else it ll help in interview as an experience. I had a job rt before I got selected and they did assess my current job during interview. I was selected as law officer for sbi .
My cousin gave 5 attempts. He told me that on his 5th attempt,he went to meet those teachers and other social wokers ,etc etc etc, who couldn't clear UPSC. After spending couple of months with them he analysed it and started a new Strategy for studying. Guess what he cleared it. Now whenever he is invited to any schools or colleges for speech,he always quote the same sentence again and again, “those failures are more powerful then that one success” I guess he is right afteralll.
My mom say the same thing as this brilliant person.... dude work hard but don't take extra pressure or ruin your mental health... apka life sabse sada important hai
@@ani_rajkumar lol who the hell are you to decide whether her mom doesnt know scientific reasoning or not.......what kind of stupid impotent aspirant are you
Stop glorifying upsc. Treat it like any other job see the number of aspirants drop. We need to stop vip culture if we are to see our nation prosper. These same civil servants which we glorify take bribes and become part of corruption. Is it so difficult to understand this.
00:01 Struggles and success in the world of competition 02:50 The impact of relationships on UPSC preparation 07:53 Understanding Success and Failure Deconstructed 11:05 Highlighting only a few success stories in UPSC coaching distorts reality and neglects important narratives. 16:38 Importance of having a plan in relationships 19:06 Social status and worth should not be determined by a single roll number appearing in a PDF 24:10 Importance of diversity in dreams and life balance 26:29 Understanding the dynamics of UPSC attempts 31:16 Blaming unsuccessful aspirants is unjust 33:50 Importance of utilizing acquired skills 38:25 Utilize demographic dividend through AI workforce adoption 40:39 Investing in intellectual development is crucial due to the challenges posed by AI. 45:43 Meditation is like working in solitude 48:10 Importance of mental health and endurance in UPSC preparation 52:49 Attention has become a valuable commodity in the digital age 55:06 Understanding the attention economy is crucial 1:00:14 UPSC coaching exposes dark secrets and challenges
The only person in whole UA-cam community who speaks harsh reality of UPSC lot's of love and respect from my side UPSC preparation is now just the Attention Economy For the Coaching industry Mafia nd Motivational speaker's #Bring Back Vijinder Chauhan sir ❤❤❤
I think person came from IIT MBBS actually wasting their talent by preparing for upsc you already have good background bestest career options and for others might be lower tyre colleges if you didn't get anything to do or don't have strong plan B just because of something past mistakes but if you have that spark, perserverence, patience and strong mindset just go for upsc because you already don't have anything to loose to kyo n pyq syllabus and basic books with practice se upsc start kiya jaye😁😁😅 but at the end don't attached with result give efforts in right direction hoga to hoga waise hi nhi hoga to dekh lenge jo hoga so hoga achha hi hoga.....we only have one life just make it worth of living be happy 😊❤
This podcast allowed me to literally vent year long emotions. Everything cannot be given words, but all I can say is that non-acceptance of certain simplest of truths, has the ability to damage you in ways unimaginable. The machine which we carry in our heads is enormously powerful. Handle it with care, and become aware enough that you can prevent its unconscious regulation by almost anyone who makes you feel that you owe something to them, calls themselves your wellwisher or simply wants to use you to compensate for the well-deserved fruits of their incompetent intellect and ability. Literally, CLAIM YOUR FREE WILL, then can you claim your dreams or you'll just remain under the impression of living the life of your choice!
This so true yaar . I am from a science background. Jab koi bachcha science me hota hai usko yahi bola jata hai you only two exam 1. Boards 2. NEET / JEE . uske alava life me kya kar shakte hai vo koi batata hi nai 😑. To koi aur dream koi dekhta hi nai. Plan B banata hi nai. Sirf is me hi lage rehte hai NEET / JEE ko apna goal bana le te hai. Inke alava kuch aur sochte hi nai. For example ek exam me 100 me se 10 bachcho ke achche marks aaye baki 90 percent ke average ya kam aaye to unko koi appreciation nai milta. Sb us 10 pe hi dhyaan denge usko hi hype karenge. In case marks kam aaye to uske pass plan B nai hone ki vajah se vo bahot jyada depress feel karta hai and kuch aur sochne ki bajai fir usme hi apna time lagayenge. Dream hona and usko pana , dream pura na hona uske baad kya karna , life me kya kya kar shakte hai , all of this is so complicated 😊 Just try to make yourself proud and Happy 😊
यूपीएससी में भेदभाव होता है वो भी घोर भेदभाव आपके मीडियम के आधार पर, आपके बैकग्राउंड के आधार पर किया जाता है संवैधानिक संस्था के ठप्पे के आधार पर यूपीएससी खुद को बचाता रहा है
This is really true that not only hardwork or individual efforts determine your selection...it's also who your parents are ..how much your family supportive..like how your family economically stable....like of someone who's family and parents are economically more stable and understand the exam the field...to vo sab ek hi chiz mai mehnat kh rh not only that individual na ...amd vice versa if they don't understand your field your exam's sonit will be very difficult even if you are very hardworking
The same is what I am spreading through my channel in Malayalam. I have gone through depression during my upsc journey. So many mistakes I made. I want to help aspirants regarding this
Just a small advice, the background behind the seat of Vijendra sir is actually not creating a contrast.Thus acting like a distraction from the subject and also what he is saying when one tries to focus on Vijendra sir. Therefore, a polite suggestion to improve the set design for yhe postcast.
I think this is the best video I have ever watched in UA-cam till today in my life, and I'm gonna repeat watch it again and again. And huge respect to Sir vijendra, he just said the facts that everyone should listen to.
Really this is an awesome interview!!!!! Because here about upsc the best thing is revel that "Upsc not a do or die"part of our life but it's like "do upsc if not sucess then do better else"with no regression and gut of failure "After upsc the life is not over not the the your value decline"you made for something else better!!!so either than following the hype about upsc focus on fact and psychology!!!!
I mean wow really gold podcast. hope you bring these types of professor more. my family is literally pressuring me to prepare for govt jobs and i don't want it but i was going with little self doubt like do i am doing something wrong, but after this i am proud of myself that what i am doing is the best what i can do♥
This is the first video that I have watched on ur channel and don't know about losing any audience because of this video like sir said but u surely got a new subscriber because of this video it was actually eye opener and a new perspective of looking at UPSC as a exam and not just that but a new perspective to look at life and valuing our well being more than any thing else because that is what we forget most of the times when it comes to prepare for any competitive exam as we think that those marks define our worth but that's not true....most importantly loved when he said having a plan b means that u aren't focused enough is a big lie and that's what people actually need to realise.....i wish people especially our parents would have had a liberal mindset like his to actually know about diversity of jobs and things one can do ..... overall loved the podcast.....just one thing to me thumbnail dark reality of upsc doesn't sounds appropriate in relation with the content that's actually in the video it could be a new perspective on upsc ft. Vijendra Chauhan Sir or upsc through lens of vijendra sir ... anyways loved the vid❤
I have never thought in this way !! Thank u so much for ur video. Just feeling Sad for some one who is spending their 5 ,6 years for this not for his own dream but bcz of social publicity!!
There is competition in every field. Either it's sports, theatre, YT, Business and marriage too. So, there is no lack of diversity of dreams but yes now india is a most populated country so competition is common in whatever field u choose.
00:00 - Intro 01:24 - Are Web Series Capturing All the Reality of Competitive Exams? 03:20 - Does Relationship Affect Your Career? 08:58 - Separatism and Collectivism 16:31 - What's the Journey of Failed Aspirants? 21:01 - Message for Aspirants' Parents 26:50 - What Are the Signals That UPSC Is Not for Me? 32:30 - Things to Do After Knowing UPSC Is Not for Me 35:36 - How AI Is Affecting Government Jobs 37:29 - Government Plans for AI 40:45 - Vijender Sir on AI 44:03 - How Boredom Affects Your Brain 51:18 - Attention Economy 56:46 - Tips to Improve Memory 59:14 - Outro
Guys I have completed my graduation( BAHistory )recently .Now I have started to prepare for Upsc but the thing is I don't have any plan B if I don't crack this exam . Could you pls tell what are opportunities that i have if i don't crack this exam.Sorry for my bad English 😢
This is so relatable, but the problem lies here sir. That we as the growing generation have exposure to such elite psychological understandings. We evolve, we make ourselves aware of such situations and their consequences. But our surrounding or for that matter our parents , A) Dont have the mindset of understanding such thought porcesses B) dont want to change it even after understanding , bcz for them this all looks good in video’s and feeds your thought process because it gives you relief from your painful thoughts of not succeeding. Though it should be other way round they feel, one should keep trying ,keeping that failure’s pain in your heart because unke hisabse gareebo ke bache kar sakte hai tum kyu nahi ye sare toh reasons hai bhag janeke. Midst all of this sir, the person who is suffering tried hard to get out of this and the person who is causing that suffering never changes. So no matter how hard we try to come out of this, the other party makes sure we dwell in that same pit for lifetime. Never ending loop hai sir. Khudko kitna bhi bahar nikalo ghar aur bahar wale kabhi na kabhi tumhari bhandi hui diwar ko todkar gira denge aur bolenge tumse ye nahi ho paya bakiyoke bacho ne toh kar liya. Wo divar bar bar banana mushkil ho jata hai sir. Kash gharwale ye samajh pate. Zindagi kafi asan ho jati.
Rightly said sir given the best of efforts in this field and yet not cleared but I had my backup option (which I like to do) and doing well in it. And when I got drown in failure then my backup played the role of an anchor and sailed me through..! It is just like other respected job and it should be a part of your life and NOT THE LIFE ! ♾️
This so called vijendra sir was asking questions to a upsc candidate in a mock interview " How would you propose this glass ? " this was asked to akshat jain ..He asked the same question in a modified form to a female candidate in another mock interview of different year " How would you propose him ( fellow interviewer ) ? " In addition, in one of his mock interview, he was openly bullying a candidate " Firstly, he told the candidate that his sitting posture was not correct when there was nothing wrong with the candidate's sitting posture, Secondly, he told the candidate that his clothes look objectionable and that he is not properly dressed when there was nothing wrong with his formals , only thing was that he was wearing a formal shirt and formal pant with a tie and if this was not enough, He then told the candidate that " you have a fake smile" to which the candidate calmly replied " Sir, this is my genuine smile ". In almost all of his institutes mock interview videos, one can find tempting clickbaits of the most stupid , absurd and irrelevant questions and how the candidate gave the perfect answer only to make people curious to watch it inorder to generate views.. These people have mastered the art of fooling people and making money even from something ( mock interview ) which should be all about serious business. But they know that, if they go on asking only upsc related things - history, geography, polity, economics, environment, science, national security, ethics, optionals, current affairs, etc their videos will hardly get any views because majority of India's population ( 85-90%) are interested only in watching irrelevant and unacademic stuffs like propose, dating, love affair, etc. In a nutshell, this vijendra singh lacks ethics and doesnt deserve to be an interviewer of such a prestigious exam and the irony is that he is taking interviews of students who have studied ethics and have done better than 1000's of aspirants in this subject..Also, he doesn't deserve to call himself a teacher or professor..Those who dont believe can cross check it through all his videos and his so called teachings..But i would suggest dont watch as it will only give them more views..Imagine he is asking dating platform questions in upsc mock interviews, it will only mislead ignorant teenagers thinking that such questions are asked in real exam.
Ethics are very crucial in formal institutions especially UPSE where the candidates will take big roles to administrate the country. As such, a person aspiring to be a officer must mandatorily be presentable as he impacts the view of the country itself! Also for your kind knowledge, the questions regarding the relationship is to check the candidate's personality so as to evaluate his intentions and ambitions whether he's sincerely striving for the job or for money or carnal things!!! Personality test isn't about asking knowledge or stuffs necessarily relating formal institution but to evaluate one's personality or inner worth! Believe it or not PT has more significance as compared to WT
@@stalkerstalker8469 Either you are an ignorant who isn't aware of personality test or simply looking to contradict like a fool. "Questions regarding relationship is to check whether he/she is striving for the job or money or carnal things " these words sums up that you know nothing about PT and the interlinking intentions behind every question..Just think carefully about what you just said. Forget judging one's character through it, there is no linkage between such a question with the greed for money when the question strictly pertains to " propose him or her or this thing " and in the itch to contradict, you didn't even care to Ponder on the fact that the question was specific and not general which can encompass anything for interlinking. Pity on the 2 buffoons who liked your comment. I am very well aware of what personality test is all about since I have gone through this process..Your words speaks volumes of the fact that you haven't experienced the upsc pt/interview. Now don't lie to contradict further and waste my time ..Do give the interview and get enlightenment. " Ignorance is bliss !"
If the views of these UPSC interviewers rhat much good then why they don't do something about it. Why they collectively give recommendations to government
यूपीएससी में भेदभाव होता है वो भी घोर भेदभाव आपके मीडियम के आधार पर, आपके बैकग्राउंड के आधार पर किया जाता है संवैधानिक संस्था के ठप्पे के आधार पर यूपीएससी खुद को बचाता रहा है
Thank you for giving us another perspective towards this exam....he was very genuine and honest about things unlike the other personalities associated with UPSC..🙏🏻🩷I find it very helpful..keep making such videos
More than lack of diversity of dreams sir, its lack of faith in the system in order to survive that particular individual dream. Civil services are more aspired for power, status and security than money. Power to feel and make others feel secure holistically. Insecurity owing to various socio-economic issues a developing country like ours is facing in this era. Just a perspective. 😇
Relationships are not bad. Survivorship bias. Even if you fail,use skills which you acquired. Have plan b,c... Dare to dream different. Don't trade physical/mental health. Priotize/Limit your attention.
Sir but what about a person who dreams to be an IPS ( only IPS ) ??????? what about a person whose passion is ( yess...I am saying passion ) is uniform , night patrolling , crimes , late nights , court , ciminals , stars on shoulder WITH THE MAJESTIC ASHOKA STAMBHA ON SHOULDER when I was in my 10th standard , I decided to be an IPS , to put on that uniform , right now I am in 3rd year of my graduation { BSc Nursing } ( as plan B , as I knew that plan B is an important factor ) I use to linger in front of the SP office whishing a day to come when....you know sir..... I really enjoy politics and international relationships.....thinking and analyzing National and international politics is my hobby and gives me a pleasure not pressure...... I go to hospital and I see many police cases , on which I feel very bad about and feel anxious that " Knowing everything going wrong , I can not help them " and feeling depressed and anxious at home... WHAT ABOUT US ????
Smartest living thing on earth is humans and foolest living thing on earth is we are humans the biggest cause of all kinds of problems is we are not following our routs and traditions and not be trying to understand ourselves. If we understood ourselves so everything becomes peaceful and transparent . We need to go spiritual journey that’s means discovering ourselves 🧠🌎🥂
Vijender ji mai toh daarta nahi. Upsc is not a golden egg. After all govt job is not equal to life. We only live once. Dukan kholunga. I will sell alcohol. Paisa milenge aur khud ka boss ho kar jiyenge.
No one is supporting my decision of appearing in UPSC CSE examination and my parents also not supporting this ..!! But I have true faith over myself and I will put every effort which is needed and I'll make myself a better, hardworking and ethical civil servent so that I can really help people all around me.May my dream become reality 🙏🏻💗
Sir is speaking correct and i am meeting students on daily basis. Though i am teaching Anthropology for UPSC still i tel l students to follow their passion no work is small..
Sir, I don’t think so ki government AI ko apne personal use ke liye implement kerege. Beacuse of the following reason 1. Loss of Data : Data loss is a biggest problem in computers. 2. Security : the treat to security or we can say national security. 3. Realibity : Reliability of the Sofwares the government will be using. So for ai to be the part of government organization is bit challenging, yes but possible but again if it 99% stand on the above mentioned factors and the others factor which might/will fall into this debate.
Upsc -- as a dream to think upon, needs so many years to visualize !! Then how can one think of making it by such influencing videos existing in social media!!! Upsc is not for such!!
"THE BIGGEST PROBLEM WE ARE FACING IS THE LACK OF DIVERSITY OF DREAMS IN YOUNGSTERS "
right
Haa bhai bilkul sahi baat hai sir ki ...muhje bhi class 9 m ias bane ke liye papa ne motivate kiya ..or fir class 11 m bhi mere kuch dost ne pw ,allen se coaching ki thi iit ke liey ..un logo ko dekh kar muhje bhi iitian bane ka shok laga ...class 11 m maths liya tha toh 12 m muhje maths hard lagne lagi ...tb main apne bio walo dost ko dekh soch ki main bhi neet karu ..neet karne ke piche 2 important points the mere liye pehle ki fee Kam thi college or durso attempt unlimited the ...par abhi main 12 complete kiya hai maths se woth 76 per % ...please kio ache carrier suggest kar do chota bhai samj ke
@@Lalitgupta4761 Beta abhi engineer karlo bhi GATE de dena
@@sarveshpawar4258 main na kar rha engineering...tera bhai kar gye MBA from lpu suna hai lpu m bhot ladkiya hai
This is exactly what Sanjeev Sanyal referred to by 'poverty of aspiration'. But it is interesting that UPSC aspirants started trolling him, but admire Vijendar Sir.
Vijender sir aapka dil se sukriya....
I am proud of you because aap sach m isee kaam k liye bane ho....padne paadane, sikhane sikhane or sach ko sabke samne rakhne k liye.....
Thankyou sir
Don't complex your mindset.
Just be simple and do what is needed
correct bro, in these times our mindset becomes complex mainly because of these social media apps. Our minds are filled with so much of information related to all fields includes both positives and negatives which I don't think our brains can easily process. We should consume less content from social media and should focus only on things that are actually needed. Once these algorithms make us addicted to apps it's very difficult to come out of them because it takes time to actually understand this and as a result we have to pay heavy price for it as well.
@@surajr4757 very true👍
@@surajr4757 superb
Truly a man of great knowledge! His perspective is very unique!! Hats off for this wonderful podcast! Really worth it👏
Heart touching talk literally. I wish these things should grow in our ecosystem so that our people realise the real image of this wonderful life we have got.❤❤
I am from Pakistan, and the mentality of people here is also exactly the same.
It was good to hear his point of view which I found very rational.
We need to promote such people more and more.
Honestly all this doesnt really matter in my opinion. All that matters is peace in life with right amount of happiness, challenges and difficulties. If something is bringing peace for you, happiness as well challenge for you, you enjoy it, then DO IT. What rank you got, what college you went, which exam you cracked, all of this matters only if you think these are the factors which determine the peace in you life. If a man is happy, no no not just happy but peaceful with what he has, he will never break down, and no one can ever do. The quality of your life doesnt really depend on your qualifications or matter,but on your thoughts of life. If you KNOW for sure and you think youre MADE for this, that these things are your game, and the deciding factors of your life, then you can be proud of yourself that you have sorted out what most people cant and better than who just follow sheep's herd.
You did not lose any audience; you earned at least one more subscriber. This is one of the best videos I've come across on YT so far. It was refreshing to see Mr. V. stating the facts! Loved the whole thing.
I’m glad things that NEED to be discussed, to be out in the open, they are being done here.
Dear Dr. Chauhan,
You’re a rockstar. ^^ Thank you. And thank you dear team Supermind. Take care everyone.
What a distinguished gentleman....
Ossm, very insightful podcast. Thank you 😊
This exact ideology is stated by my father
No bro your video is very important for those persons who trying to happening others on their aspect of life
Looks like Vijendar Sir always wanted to say this out, and Sanjeev Sanyal's 'poverty of aspiration', 'UPSC waste of time', 'dull and boring', and other similar remarks gave him the confidence to speak up. Very good.
I'm very happy and honoured that I got a chance to watch this masterpiece conversation.... Seriously I never watch any podcast which highlighted the dark reality of this upsc stuff ...the question that you (Ayush) asked were very important and helpful ...so thanks a lot for this podcast 🙌🥀🎉❤️
🙌🙌🙌
Wonderful podcast! I am so grateful this popped up on my feed (:
The reality in one line. It's all about respect. Society has made it respected. The values must be normalized.
Actually this video is very much eye opening for me and for all other also
I dont know what to say but this conversation was too short abd too much warming for us
I just want to say Thank you for bringing in such a good conversation
Thanks a lot to make us learn that much
Bring back sir
Just loved this podcast..... Pls bring him back again😊
66 crore youth are jobless
In which 10 lakh give upsc paper
wowww! so glad i came across this!!!!!
Everything is dark doesn't mean u won't be living though it's my choice how I want to live .
Thankyou sir for the reality
Jo nhi kar paya....wo criticism karne lagta hai....yahi dark reality hai upsc ki
I wish I saw this interview 10 years ago. I spent 8 of my life chasing services
Can you elaborate?
@@Searchingsoul-f5j each year i d be 1 or 2 marks away from the list. I used to hope maybe next year. Each year I didn’t join pvt jobs which were really good and paid well because of ‘govt job is best’ mindset. And finally when I did get one government job I realised it was not at all what it seemed like. My prime age of working abd enjoying my income went by. So 8 years wasted chasing a job which was not at all fulfilling.
@@Sakshichauhannatha actually I am in the same loop . Missing merit since last two year by 10 20 marks in different government exam. I don't have any technical background so can't go for private too. But I am in the hope that one day when I will get a job I will enjoy my best . But you are saying otherwise. Btw I am 26 now.
@@Searchingsoul-f5j I suggest start any part time job that you enjoy. If nothing else it ll help in interview as an experience. I had a job rt before I got selected and they did assess my current job during interview. I was selected as law officer for sbi .
@@Sakshichauhannatha I will seriously consider this option .
4rabet ka experience hi alag hai yaar ek baar try karoge to chhod nahi paoge 🤩
Thought provoking episode. Loved hearing you, Vijender Sir! :D
He is really a wonderful person ❤️ awesome interview 👏
His ideology is awsm👏
Best podcast
Best , sir 👍
Tomorrow is my CA final exam and I am watching the UPSC story 😂😂
You are idiot if you are watching this video at the wrong time brother !
Same yarrr
Which attempt
In which attempt you cleared ur inter cpt or foundation
😂😂
My cousin gave 5 attempts.
He told me that on his 5th attempt,he went to meet those teachers and other social wokers ,etc etc etc, who couldn't clear UPSC.
After spending couple of months with them he analysed it and started a new Strategy for studying.
Guess what he cleared it.
Now whenever he is invited to any schools or colleges for speech,he always quote the same sentence again and again, “those failures are more powerful then that one success”
I guess he is right afteralll.
Which rank he got
what is the strategy which he found , would be useful for other people
Can u please tell us the strategy Virgo?
Kya strategy Kiya ??
you told the same thing , try until you die .
Poverty of dreams is the essence of video 🖊️💭
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My mom say the same thing as this brilliant person.... dude work hard but don't take extra pressure or ruin your mental health... apka life sabse sada important hai
Only difference is ur mom doesn't know the scientific reasoning behind it she just says it out of love for you unlike him
@@ani_rajkumar lol who the hell are you to decide whether her mom doesnt know scientific reasoning or not.......what kind of stupid impotent aspirant are you
@@ani_rajkumar you are saying this as if you know his mom since your childhood
u r mom is absolutely awesome ❤
Stop glorifying upsc. Treat it like any other job see the number of aspirants drop. We need to stop vip culture if we are to see our nation prosper. These same civil servants which we glorify take bribes and become part of corruption. Is it so difficult to understand this.
He is Professor in my College at DU.And I'm completely agree with him that this trend of UPSC is really killing the youth of our country 😌.
Which dept.?
@@gauthamdharani Hindi
Which college of DU ?
Zakir Hussain college @@himanisingh8008
You're from zakir Hussain right
00:01 Struggles and success in the world of competition
02:50 The impact of relationships on UPSC preparation
07:53 Understanding Success and Failure Deconstructed
11:05 Highlighting only a few success stories in UPSC coaching distorts reality and neglects important narratives.
16:38 Importance of having a plan in relationships
19:06 Social status and worth should not be determined by a single roll number appearing in a PDF
24:10 Importance of diversity in dreams and life balance
26:29 Understanding the dynamics of UPSC attempts
31:16 Blaming unsuccessful aspirants is unjust
33:50 Importance of utilizing acquired skills
38:25 Utilize demographic dividend through AI workforce adoption
40:39 Investing in intellectual development is crucial due to the challenges posed by AI.
45:43 Meditation is like working in solitude
48:10 Importance of mental health and endurance in UPSC preparation
52:49 Attention has become a valuable commodity in the digital age
55:06 Understanding the attention economy is crucial
1:00:14 UPSC coaching exposes dark secrets and challenges
Ok
Well summarised 🫶
Thank you!!!
Bhai apna notes bhi dhedho😅😅
Hindi bhi bolo bhai
The only person in whole UA-cam community who speaks harsh reality of UPSC lot's of love and respect from my side UPSC preparation is now just the Attention Economy For the Coaching industry Mafia nd Motivational speaker's #Bring Back Vijinder Chauhan sir ❤❤❤
Please provide english subtitles also
Listen to Acharya Prashant. He is also an Ex Civil Servant.
I think person came from IIT MBBS actually wasting their talent by preparing for upsc you already have good background bestest career options and for others might be lower tyre colleges if you didn't get anything to do or don't have strong plan B just because of something past mistakes but if you have that spark, perserverence, patience and strong mindset just go for upsc because you already don't have anything to loose to kyo n pyq syllabus and basic books with practice se upsc start kiya jaye😁😁😅 but at the end don't attached with result give efforts in right direction hoga to hoga waise hi nhi hoga to dekh lenge jo hoga so hoga achha hi hoga.....we only have one life just make it worth of living be happy 😊❤
This podcast allowed me to literally vent year long emotions. Everything cannot be given words, but all I can say is that non-acceptance of certain simplest of truths, has the ability to damage you in ways unimaginable. The machine which we carry in our heads is enormously powerful. Handle it with care, and become aware enough that you can prevent its unconscious regulation by almost anyone who makes you feel that you owe something to them, calls themselves your wellwisher or simply wants to use you to compensate for the well-deserved fruits of their incompetent intellect and ability. Literally, CLAIM YOUR FREE WILL, then can you claim your dreams or you'll just remain under the impression of living the life of your choice!
This so true yaar . I am from a science background. Jab koi bachcha science me hota hai usko yahi bola jata hai you only two exam 1. Boards 2. NEET / JEE . uske alava life me kya kar shakte hai vo koi batata hi nai 😑. To koi aur dream koi dekhta hi nai. Plan B banata hi nai. Sirf is me hi lage rehte hai NEET / JEE ko apna goal bana le te hai. Inke alava kuch aur sochte hi nai. For example ek exam me 100 me se 10 bachcho ke achche marks aaye baki 90 percent ke average ya kam aaye to unko koi appreciation nai milta. Sb us 10 pe hi dhyaan denge usko hi hype karenge.
In case marks kam aaye to uske pass plan B nai hone ki vajah se vo bahot jyada depress feel karta hai and kuch aur sochne ki bajai fir usme hi apna time lagayenge.
Dream hona and usko pana , dream pura na hona uske baad kya karna , life me kya kya kar shakte hai , all of this is so complicated 😊
Just try to make yourself proud and Happy 😊
He gives us completely different perspective of looking at average aspirants & their journey 🙂
This podcast was Worth listening and it has opened so many new door in my mind
यूपीएससी में भेदभाव होता है वो भी घोर भेदभाव आपके मीडियम के आधार पर, आपके बैकग्राउंड के आधार पर किया जाता है संवैधानिक संस्था के ठप्पे के आधार पर यूपीएससी खुद को बचाता रहा है
This is my humble request, that please don't follow anyone blindly not even Chauhan sir
💯
Suno sabki kro apni .... 😊
Guys this is harsh but a reality that he is stating
Jim Rohn once said "Dont be a follower, be a student"
I love your comment..you said correct
This is really true that not only hardwork or individual efforts determine your selection...it's also who your parents are ..how much your family supportive..like how your family economically stable....like of someone who's family and parents are economically more stable and understand the exam the field...to vo sab ek hi chiz mai mehnat kh rh not only that individual na ...amd vice versa if they don't understand your field your exam's sonit will be very difficult even if you are very hardworking
कोट तो ठीक है लेकिन, आप के बैठने का तरीका थोड़ा कैजविल हैं!😂
The same is what I am spreading through my channel in Malayalam. I have gone through depression during my upsc journey. So many mistakes I made. I want to help aspirants regarding this
Channel name pls
Just a small advice, the background behind the seat of Vijendra sir is actually not creating a contrast.Thus acting like a distraction from the subject and also what he is saying when one tries to focus on Vijendra sir. Therefore, a polite suggestion to improve the set design for yhe postcast.
I gave two ataim upsc NDA and I shall be third ataimt first September 2024.
I think this is the best video I have ever watched in UA-cam till today in my life, and I'm gonna repeat watch it again and again. And huge respect to Sir vijendra, he just said the facts that everyone should listen to.
Doctor ho ????
@@adarsh_mishra451 2nd year mbbs student hoon.
What a psychology he emits ❄️
🙌🙌🙌
Guys English subtitles please
You may mean ideology
The genuine prepartion of upsc gives you way to clear all subordinate exams very ease as compare to others. 🙏
this is the propaganda which he talks about. You are brainwashed. Wake up to reality.
Really this is an awesome interview!!!!! Because here about upsc the best thing is revel that "Upsc not a do or die"part of our life but it's like "do upsc if not sucess then do better else"with no regression and gut of failure "After upsc the life is not over not the the your value decline"you made for something else better!!!so either than following the hype about upsc focus on fact and psychology!!!!
Haan yaar 4rabet pe har event pe kuch na kuch naya surprise hota hai 🎁
Just the way sir speaks..lyk❤. So coherent his speecch is.. his thoughts flow lyk a river through his mouth. I'm a huge fan
Vijender sir is a gem, Honest and opening the truth ❤️😇
Very good to hear that algorithms are designing dreams
I mean wow really gold podcast. hope you bring these types of professor more.
my family is literally pressuring me to prepare for govt jobs and i don't want it but i was going with little self doubt like do i am doing something wrong, but after this i am proud of myself that what i am doing is the best what i can do♥
Podcast krne ka tareeka thoda sa casual hia 😅
Listening his podcast despite my jee adv prep is worthy❤
This is the first video that I have watched on ur channel and don't know about losing any audience because of this video like sir said but u surely got a new subscriber because of this video it was actually eye opener and a new perspective of looking at UPSC as a exam and not just that but a new perspective to look at life and valuing our well being more than any thing else because that is what we forget most of the times when it comes to prepare for any competitive exam as we think that those marks define our worth but that's not true....most importantly loved when he said having a plan b means that u aren't focused enough is a big lie and that's what people actually need to realise.....i wish people especially our parents would have had a liberal mindset like his to actually know about diversity of jobs and things one can do ..... overall loved the podcast.....just one thing to me thumbnail dark reality of upsc doesn't sounds appropriate in relation with the content that's actually in the video it could be a new perspective on upsc ft. Vijendra Chauhan Sir or upsc through lens of vijendra sir ... anyways loved the vid❤
I have never thought in this way !!
Thank u so much for ur video.
Just feeling Sad for some one who is spending their 5 ,6 years for this not for his own dream but bcz of social publicity!!
There is competition in every field. Either it's sports, theatre, YT, Business and marriage too. So, there is no lack of diversity of dreams but yes now india is a most populated country so competition is common in whatever field u choose.
00:00 - Intro
01:24 - Are Web Series Capturing All the Reality of Competitive Exams?
03:20 - Does Relationship Affect Your Career?
08:58 - Separatism and Collectivism
16:31 - What's the Journey of Failed Aspirants?
21:01 - Message for Aspirants' Parents
26:50 - What Are the Signals That UPSC Is Not for Me?
32:30 - Things to Do After Knowing UPSC Is Not for Me
35:36 - How AI Is Affecting Government Jobs
37:29 - Government Plans for AI
40:45 - Vijender Sir on AI
44:03 - How Boredom Affects Your Brain
51:18 - Attention Economy
56:46 - Tips to Improve Memory
59:14 - Outro
Guys I have completed my graduation( BAHistory )recently .Now I have started to prepare for Upsc but the thing is I don't have any plan B if I don't crack this exam . Could you pls tell what are opportunities that i have if i don't crack this exam.Sorry for my bad English 😢
B
Im a neet aspirant and still watching this 😂😂😂😂😂
This is so relatable, but the problem lies here sir. That we as the growing generation have exposure to such elite psychological understandings. We evolve, we make ourselves aware of such situations and their consequences. But our surrounding or for that matter our parents , A) Dont have the mindset of understanding such thought porcesses B) dont want to change it even after understanding , bcz for them this all looks good in video’s and feeds your thought process because it gives you relief from your painful thoughts of not succeeding. Though it should be other way round they feel, one should keep trying ,keeping that failure’s pain in your heart because unke hisabse gareebo ke bache kar sakte hai tum kyu nahi ye sare toh reasons hai bhag janeke.
Midst all of this sir, the person who is suffering tried hard to get out of this and the person who is causing that suffering never changes. So no matter how hard we try to come out of this, the other party makes sure we dwell in that same pit for lifetime. Never ending loop hai sir. Khudko kitna bhi bahar nikalo ghar aur bahar wale kabhi na kabhi tumhari bhandi hui diwar ko todkar gira denge aur bolenge tumse ye nahi ho paya bakiyoke bacho ne toh kar liya. Wo divar bar bar banana mushkil ho jata hai sir. Kash gharwale ye samajh pate. Zindagi kafi asan ho jati.
Jab Hindi rastrbhasha he to English ko itni importance dene ki kya jrurat he agr pura hindi me smjayege to har bachha smj payega
Why not reduce the attempts by upsc? Like 1-2… then youth can focus on other goals after failing the 2 attempts🎃
Tomorrow is my neet exam and i m watching this why ?😢
Ek failaiyer samne ate hi aadmi new way dhundta hai beta
@@hustlers-peakSahi kaha bhai apne.......
Aapke dil se awaz aa rahi ki nahin hoga
@@raghunandan8969 ham bhi toh vow sab jee chuke hai
Ab samaz Aya ki samne ka kaam pure samrpan se karne me hi zindagi me jitne ka raaz hai
Bro this is your fault not others
Wow yarrr bhaiya , thanks for having him on this channel..... gained a subscriber ❤
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amazing guy..he is a rare gem of guy with brillliant mind..learny a lot from the interview
Thoda Hindi mai boltey toh hum Hindi medium walo ko bhi samjh aa jata 😢
ठान के बैठे है और धूर्त राठी के वीडियो पर जाकर बोलेंगे की नोकरी खा गया मोदी, 😂😅
कितने इंटरव्यू दिया है इन सालों ने। 😮😢
Always upload the podcast like this. These really help or remove our darkness
Jisse exam dena hi nahi hai usse sir bahot achhi tarah samjarahe hai😄
Rightly said sir
given the best of efforts in this field and yet not cleared but I had my backup option (which I like to do) and doing well in it. And when I got drown in failure then my backup played the role of an anchor and sailed me through..!
It is just like other respected job and it should be a part of your life and NOT THE LIFE ! ♾️
Can I ask what's your backup?
This so called vijendra sir was asking questions to a upsc candidate in a mock interview " How would you propose this glass ? " this was asked to akshat jain ..He asked the same question in a modified form to a female candidate in another mock interview of different year " How would you propose him ( fellow interviewer ) ? "
In addition, in one of his mock interview, he was openly bullying a candidate " Firstly, he told the candidate that his sitting posture was not correct when there was nothing wrong with the candidate's sitting posture, Secondly, he told the candidate that his clothes look objectionable and that he is not properly dressed when there was nothing wrong with his formals , only thing was that he was wearing a formal shirt and formal pant with a tie and if this was not enough, He then told the candidate that " you have a fake smile" to which the candidate calmly replied " Sir, this is my genuine smile ".
In almost all of his institutes mock interview videos, one can find tempting clickbaits of the most stupid , absurd and irrelevant questions and how the candidate gave the perfect answer only to make people curious to watch it inorder to generate views..
These people have mastered the art of fooling people and making money even from something ( mock interview ) which should be all about serious business. But they know that, if they go on asking only upsc related things - history, geography, polity, economics, environment, science, national security, ethics, optionals, current affairs, etc their videos will hardly get any views because majority of India's population ( 85-90%) are interested only in watching irrelevant and unacademic stuffs like propose, dating, love affair, etc.
In a nutshell, this vijendra singh lacks ethics and doesnt deserve to be an interviewer of such a prestigious exam and the irony is that he is taking interviews of students who have studied ethics and have done better than 1000's of aspirants in this subject..Also, he doesn't deserve to call himself a teacher or professor..Those who dont believe can cross check it through all his videos and his so called teachings..But i would suggest dont watch as it will only give them more views..Imagine he is asking dating platform questions in upsc mock interviews, it will only mislead ignorant teenagers thinking that such questions are asked in real exam.
Ias wala h kya🤡
Ethics are very crucial in formal institutions especially UPSE where the candidates will take big roles to administrate the country. As such, a person aspiring to be a officer must mandatorily be presentable as he impacts the view of the country itself! Also for your kind knowledge, the questions regarding the relationship is to check the candidate's personality so as to evaluate his intentions and ambitions whether he's sincerely striving for the job or for money or carnal things!!! Personality test isn't about asking knowledge or stuffs necessarily relating formal institution but to evaluate one's personality or inner worth! Believe it or not PT has more significance as compared to WT
😂😂😂 burn
@@stalkerstalker8469 Either you are an ignorant who isn't aware of personality test or simply looking to contradict like a fool. "Questions regarding relationship is to check whether he/she is striving for the job or money or carnal things " these words sums up that you know nothing about PT and the interlinking intentions behind every question..Just think carefully about what you just said. Forget judging one's character through it, there is no linkage between such a question with the greed for money when the question strictly pertains to " propose him or her or this thing " and in the itch to contradict, you didn't even care to Ponder on the fact that the question was specific and not general which can encompass anything for interlinking. Pity on the 2 buffoons who liked your comment.
I am very well aware of what personality test is all about since I have gone through this process..Your words speaks volumes of the fact that you haven't experienced the upsc pt/interview. Now don't lie to contradict further and waste my time ..Do give the interview and get enlightenment. " Ignorance is bliss !"
@@PhysicsXOIgnorance is bliss blubberhead.
If the views of these UPSC interviewers rhat much good then why they don't do something about it. Why they collectively give recommendations to government
यूपीएससी में भेदभाव होता है वो भी घोर भेदभाव आपके मीडियम के आधार पर, आपके बैकग्राउंड के आधार पर किया जाता है संवैधानिक संस्था के ठप्पे के आधार पर यूपीएससी खुद को बचाता रहा है
Thank you for giving us another perspective towards this exam....he was very genuine and honest about things unlike the other personalities associated with UPSC..🙏🏻🩷I find it very helpful..keep making such videos
Honestly, we really need someone like Chauhan sir who gives a direction to things which are very complex to contemplate in today's life pattern.
More than lack of diversity of dreams sir, its lack of faith in the system in order to survive that particular individual dream. Civil services are more aspired for power, status and security than money. Power to feel and make others feel secure holistically. Insecurity owing to various socio-economic issues a developing country like ours is facing in this era. Just a perspective. 😇
Relationships are not bad.
Survivorship bias.
Even if you fail,use skills which you acquired.
Have plan b,c...
Dare to dream different.
Don't trade physical/mental health.
Priotize/Limit your attention.
Goals are determined to a large extent by the wants of the marriage or romance market.
One fact here is there will be people who still prepare for UPSC😢
Sir but what about a person who dreams to be an IPS ( only IPS ) ???????
what about a person whose passion is ( yess...I am saying passion ) is uniform , night patrolling , crimes , late nights , court , ciminals , stars on shoulder WITH THE MAJESTIC ASHOKA STAMBHA ON SHOULDER
when I was in my 10th standard , I decided to be an IPS , to put on that uniform , right now I am in 3rd year of my graduation { BSc Nursing } ( as plan B , as I knew that plan B is an important factor )
I use to linger in front of the SP office whishing a day to come when....you know sir.....
I really enjoy politics and international relationships.....thinking and analyzing National and international politics is my hobby and gives me a pleasure not pressure......
I go to hospital and I see many police cases , on which I feel very bad about and feel anxious that " Knowing everything going wrong , I can not help them " and feeling depressed and anxious at home...
WHAT ABOUT US ????
podcast attend karne ka tareeka thoda casual hai.
Smartest living thing on earth is humans and foolest living thing on earth is we are humans the biggest cause of all kinds of problems is we are not following our routs and traditions and not be trying to understand ourselves. If we understood ourselves so everything becomes peaceful and transparent . We need to go spiritual journey that’s means discovering ourselves 🧠🌎🥂
Vijender ji mai toh daarta nahi. Upsc is not a golden egg. After all govt job is not equal to life. We only live once. Dukan kholunga. I will sell alcohol. Paisa milenge aur khud ka boss ho kar jiyenge.
No one is supporting my decision of appearing in UPSC CSE examination and my parents also not supporting this ..!! But I have true faith over myself and I will put every effort which is needed and I'll make myself a better, hardworking and ethical civil servent so that I can really help people all around me.May my dream become reality 🙏🏻💗
Aao barbadi ki raah ke rahgir, ek aur humsaya mila
Sir is speaking correct and i am meeting students on daily basis. Though i am teaching Anthropology for UPSC still i tel l students to follow their passion no work is small..
sir would be a great father
Sir, I don’t think so ki government AI ko apne personal use ke liye implement kerege. Beacuse of the following reason
1. Loss of Data : Data loss is a biggest problem in computers.
2. Security : the treat to security or we can say national security.
3. Realibity : Reliability of the Sofwares the government will be using.
So for ai to be the part of government organization is bit challenging, yes but possible but again if it 99% stand on the above mentioned factors and the others factor which might/will fall into this debate.
It's great to see Aayush here after school life... Keep it up bro! 👍
Upsc -- as a dream to think upon, needs so many years to visualize !! Then how can one think of making it by such influencing videos existing in social media!!! Upsc is not for such!!
How the intervier doing hmm hmm jaise kch shaitani cheez dimag mai chal rhi hai😂😂😂