HOT TOPIC || Mom Called Off My Roora But I Had No Problem With Becoming The Second Wife
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- Опубліковано 1 лип 2024
- When my boyfriend came akauya nemadzisahwira and brothers and everyone was curious to see mkwasha my husband is 14 years older than me so my mum vakatosimuka from Matare and asked me kuti murume haana mhuri here uyu…
...he comes from a polygamous family his father had 3 wives his mum is the second wife grand father had 7 wives and same applies for Ana bamnini vake vaviri the other two married one wife…
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She should prioritize having a good and healthy relationship with her mother first akagadzirisa ipapo she’ll get a better perspective after that cuz every marriage has ups and downs and when downs come in she will need a mother’s love.
If I was your mom would have done the same ,barika it's a no no NEVER zvine makuva pasi izvi
Makuva apiko kasi murikuti amai ava ndivo vakauraya murume aenda with 2nd wife.
@nai6474 read to understand not to criticise
Problem is that we use the wrong hence people dont see the impact of one's decision. Tiri kuti "Blessing" muberiki haana yaanokupa, the right word is "Aprroval" which means your parent is willing to support and guide you never things get hard in that marriage. Once you understand that "Approval" means support and guidance you will understand that in the event that they dont Approve the marriage and iwe you ahead wega it means, in your hardest times you wont get support and guidance. Izvi zvekuti blessing izvi you confuse people and many people dont even know kuti blessing ye parent chii? Blessing your parents is the teachings they did when raising you and these teaching ndizvo dzinoyemurwa ne other people and those other open doors for you by liking you, introducing you to other people and so on
Hakuna amai vanovenga mwana wavo or vanoitira mwana wavo jerasi, fix your relationship with your mom tell her the situation kuti you are pregnant and you love ypur man. Apologise for withholding the truth from her you would be surprised mhamha vachitozoita kuti zvifambe. Iyi yekutizira iyi uchavafunga mai vako kana marriage yovava, fix your relationship with your mom.
Ana Mhamha and blessed marriage and what not, take advantage of who… hakuna mwana wechidiki achaita plan yekumuwana, muskana tizira, anyone’s marriage can be blessed pasina vabereki, koo vasina vabereki vacho..
Don’t misled people imi mukanya mai vakazvara ndovamungati vanopa decision sei, zvine musoro here izvozvo
Starting when vana mai vachiva neSay pamarriage yemwana its the fathers responsibility.
First call hapana mwana mudiki anoziva murume the girl knows what she want akanyengwa akabvuma, tete havana mhosva ava, girl chingotizira hako yadeuka yadeuka
Kutizira hakuna blessing. But zvikunzi maiguru gave approval . I don't see how Tete was wrong coz mum took it personally but not every woman is the same. You'll be shocked what women can take. Kana murume achikwanisa all needs of both women vamwe havana pressure. I say go askana, amai will come round, we pray she heals so she enjoys muzukuru akuuya.
Kutizira haumirire blessing wena just go
First of all marriage is between the two parties involved (man & woman)
Culturally polygamy is not a crime especially when and where the 1st wife is aware and approves of it.. Biblically polygamy isn't wrong, it's jus not "preferred" by many but it's not a sin.
The blessing she really needs is of the 1st wife not so much her mother.. The man was truthful from the start and she agreed, and true to his word that he'd marry her he committed to it ,but her family messed things up for her particularly the mom.
I think she has to jus get ready for a possible mainini , but other than that there's nothing wrong if she loves him and wants to go.. The baby she's carrying resembles the love the both share coz it was made in love.. my personal view is she has to go and be with her husband
Chimbetu akaimba akati mwana wangu Rumbi usaenda barika rine noise
Volume ipapo value yourself aaah second girl at 29 really
Amai avainyadzi badzi kuti nhai vanhu vanozotii zvino ivo vakati hakuna zvakadaro vakatukirira mazita ose akaipa to her husband’s 2nd wife 😅 mwana atova nemimba ngaaende anozvionera. Anodza akazoita return zvachose or kuroorwa newake asi asi abuse yoga yoga ukademba
Why are people pressed with this what goes around comes around situation? Mukadzi wake akuzviziva, iye akuzviziva kuti high chances are achaita umwe ndokusaka arondedzera nyaya yose iyi muone kuti arikuzviziva! Munhu ane nhumbu moti haa barika hariite amai vakarwadziwa nekutorerwa murume saka ngavaende for therapy vabatsirikane! Pakakanganiswa was kusaudza amai way before the day kuti vacheme ndangariro dzavo chete😂 munoti Africa ayehwa kaHarare chete hamuna MAbarika atoribhoo here imika vane murume wenyu 1/mukadzi wenyu 1 muri happy nekusingaperi mirai apa 😢 tikuonei. Zverudo vaviri you’re already pregnant dear go to your husband kunoa kushata unozonoona mberiyo
Thank you. What guarantee does she have kuti getting your own man will give her happiness. If the wife is agreeing then ndikoko. A lot of people are bitter because they've been been cheated on so they discourage polygamy. You can still be cheated on une wako wacho...better to be a second wife anozivikanwa than kudyirwa musaga. She's pregnant now and if she stays kumba kwavo she may end up unmarried forever ozoita h***e
Hanty nhumbu yavepo chitoenda
Problem is that we use the wrong hence people dont see the impact of one's decision. Tiri kuti "Blessing" muberiki haana yaanokupa, the right word is "Aprroval" which means your parent is willing to support and guide you never things get hard in that marriage. Once you understand that "Approval" means support and guidance you will understand that in the event that they dont Approve the marriage and iwe you ahead wega it means, in your hardest times you wont get support and guidance. Izvi zvekuti blessing izvi you confuse people and many people dont even know kuti blessing ye parent chii? Blessing your parents is the teachings they did when raising you and these teaching ndizvo dzinoyemurwa ne other people and those other open doors for you by liking you, introducing you to other people and so on