The Art of Diplomacy | Tayo Rockson | TEDxCooperUnion

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  • How does diplomacy positively impact our daily lives? In what ways can many people today find that diplomacy, and what kind of promises for the future does it hold? Tayo Rockson is a powerful orator with a dream of bringing students, young professionals, and people all around the world the idea of diplomacy. Being the son of a diplomat, Rockson's experiences are powerful and observant, drawing connections between self-introspection and exterior socialization.
    Tayo is the CEO of UYD Management, a strategic leadership and consulting firm that helps corporations improve their bottom line by incorporating diversity, inclusion, and social justice strategies. Tayo has spent over 20 years living and working in 4 continents. As a cross-cultural expert, he has spoken at the World Bank, United Nations Foundation among several other places. His work has been seen on NowThis News, Huffington Post, Entrepreneur, and other notable
    sources.
    This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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  • @gallaheredge1766
    @gallaheredge1766 5 років тому +117

    "The more afraid you are, the more dangerous you become" - Love it!!

  • @susana.9280
    @susana.9280 5 років тому +154

    I love how his name, Tayo, translates to 'We' or 'us' in my language (Filipino). It matches him well.

    • @TayoRockson
      @TayoRockson 4 роки тому +31

      Aww thank you so much! I had no idea! In Yoruba it means joy and my full name Akintayo means The brave one/A warrior has brought us joy.

    • @rhezamaulana4975
      @rhezamaulana4975 4 роки тому +1

      hey tayo

    • @mohamedmidnimo6536
      @mohamedmidnimo6536 3 роки тому +5

      And more beautiful Tayo means 'Quality' in Somali.

    • @abiolafuhadaderounmu4757
      @abiolafuhadaderounmu4757 2 роки тому +1

      @@TayoRocksonGod bless you for this insight .

    • @TayoRockson
      @TayoRockson 2 роки тому

      @@abiolafuhadaderounmu4757 Thank you!

  • @mathiass1999
    @mathiass1999 3 роки тому +255

    This speech alone just confirmed for me, that this is what I want to do.

    • @CyriakHarrisBiggestFan
      @CyriakHarrisBiggestFan 3 роки тому +2

      i had the very same realization just as i finished watching this :DD

    • @mathiass1999
      @mathiass1999 3 роки тому +9

      @@CyriakHarrisBiggestFan May we meet one day in our country's service then haha

    • @CyriakHarrisBiggestFan
      @CyriakHarrisBiggestFan 3 роки тому +2

      @@mathiass1999 wouldn't that be amazing huh, heheh

    • @tugtjfhkojgbvh
      @tugtjfhkojgbvh 2 роки тому +1

      i wonder how that come same for me too

    • @abhishekdb9800
      @abhishekdb9800 Рік тому +1

      Hoping to see you all in the capacity of India soon.

  • @AndreLindo
    @AndreLindo 7 років тому +191

    Great Advice: Join groups where you are different from everyone, to learn more about them... Love it

    • @TayoRockson
      @TayoRockson 7 років тому +1

      Andre Lindo thank you so much Andre!!!

  • @KhanIbrahimib
    @KhanIbrahimib 5 років тому +128

    *The less you understand, the more you fear, and the more afraid you are, more dangerous you become*

  • @LetsHangOutWithAmna
    @LetsHangOutWithAmna 3 роки тому +79

    Understanding the differences around you, then finding the commonalities around them is art of diplomacy.
    Embrace art of diplomacy
    1. Get knowledge - To collect information - Observe things around you - what makes people feel good and what makes people feel sad. Can be a game. Coming together for a common goal.
    2. By being an active listener - Establish mutual trust to foster a positive collaboration - learn how to listen to obtain info. Goal is to understand.
    3. Become an active member of community - widens your perspective and able to approach problem with better perspective
    Learn culture competence skill
    World is bigger than you. If you want to win at it. You need to understand it.

  • @squipy184
    @squipy184 6 років тому +81

    Unbelievably perfect speech.

    • @TayoRockson
      @TayoRockson 6 років тому +3

      Squipy O my goodness! Thank you!!!

  • @zhenlingwang8058
    @zhenlingwang8058 2 роки тому +14

    Coming from a TEDx organizer: this is the type of speech we love!

  • @user-kn8by5kl4w
    @user-kn8by5kl4w 4 роки тому +94

    Excellent speech, gentleman. This will motivate many young interested minds to choose the art of diplomacy as their career choice.

    • @TayoRockson
      @TayoRockson 4 роки тому +3

      Radha A Thank you very much and I certainly hope so!

  • @lilozine
    @lilozine 4 роки тому +14

    I arrived here because I wanted to learn how to use my difference to make a difference. Tayo spoke to my summer internship class at Moody’s Corporation in 2016-it’s great to see him across LinkedIn and UA-cam spreading a message, posing questions. His public speaking has improved tremendously; no stage is too big or small. Keep going, Tayo!!

  • @ttyxo5426
    @ttyxo5426 2 роки тому +8

    currently studying my degree in Political Science and International Relations. This motivates me so much ❤️

  • @masoomakhilji9391
    @masoomakhilji9391 7 місяців тому +3

    Well elaborated the art of diplomacy. Decode the differences and seek commonalities.

  • @stephenkikon1475
    @stephenkikon1475 Рік тому +2

    Diplomacy is an art not everyone can master. No amount of motivational speeches or education can elevate you to be a great diplomat. Either you're born with it or you're not as good as the others.

  • @rajaeaguili6066
    @rajaeaguili6066 4 роки тому +5

    you really made me fell in love with diplomacy thank you, YOU ARE AWESOME

  • @jonathannajoe
    @jonathannajoe 4 роки тому +3

    Absolutely loved watching this. Thank you to all stakeholders for making it possible

  • @louiselogrono80
    @louiselogrono80 5 років тому +54

    What an inspiring message from you Mr.Tayo Rockson! This year I am studying Diplomacy and I still looking for more deep meaning about diplomacy and this one is such a perfect one!!! Thank you I wrote down some words that helps me!! What a great help!

    • @TayoRockson
      @TayoRockson 5 років тому +6

      Louise Logrono thank you so much Louise! Please let me know if you have any other questions.

    • @HelenKilat-nx3zu
      @HelenKilat-nx3zu 2 місяці тому

      Same as you I also wanted to study deplomacy.

  • @exceedikuzo7247
    @exceedikuzo7247 4 роки тому +10

    “Understanding the differences around you and finding the commonalities that exist within them”
    Wow. I suddenly want to be a diplomat now. Amazing.

    • @TayoRockson
      @TayoRockson 4 роки тому

      Thank you so much! You can do it!

  • @yacinediop756
    @yacinediop756 4 роки тому +1

    Oh God!I'm glad i watched this. Thx👍

  • @intelfaculte9269
    @intelfaculte9269 5 місяців тому +2

    A great lesson I am taking from this 14 minute video. Thanks you.

  • @nadiaaraujo5215
    @nadiaaraujo5215 3 роки тому

    Thank you Tayo! I’m doing International Development with NGO and I want to do Diplomacy but I couldn’t find the perfect match and your video just lighted me!

  • @izabelabarakovska1698
    @izabelabarakovska1698 3 роки тому +1

    Love this! Excellent story, and excellent storytelling.

  • @nitishsaxena1372
    @nitishsaxena1372 6 років тому +19

    That was inspirational man, cheers from India!

  • @alkab5555
    @alkab5555 2 роки тому +2

    What an absolutely beautiful job! Diplomacy, my only dream! ✨

  • @ramdobe9276
    @ramdobe9276 3 роки тому +8

    In 2 years I’ll take my exam. Working with my head down, god bless for all others who want their dream job as diplomats. Iwill update here if i clear or not,

    • @tshiamotaje
      @tshiamotaje 17 днів тому

      It’s 2 years later. Update?

  • @agnestaupelyte1096
    @agnestaupelyte1096 3 роки тому +3

    It was incredibly amazing speech with golden words. Thank you so much for widening the perspective and giving so much inspiration. Best luck for you!

  • @joveboakye8821
    @joveboakye8821 Місяць тому

    I arrived here because I'll be studying international relations for my master's soon and I'm so anxious

  • @thealchemist1480
    @thealchemist1480 5 років тому +2

    Most meaningful video regarding diplomacy on UA-cam,,,,great content,,thanks a lot Tayo

  • @simplyredislandgirl
    @simplyredislandgirl 4 роки тому +3

    Great Insightful Speech!👏👍

  • @rabiafatima9460
    @rabiafatima9460 2 роки тому

    Beautifully explained.❤️

  • @timothymatembo8428
    @timothymatembo8428 2 роки тому +1

    This has been very helpful.
    I choose to embrace the art of Diplomacy

  • @lianecornils8733
    @lianecornils8733 2 роки тому

    Im glad your finally getting it.

  • @davidoetajnr1861
    @davidoetajnr1861 5 років тому +9

    this is the core of deplomacy !!!

    • @TayoRockson
      @TayoRockson 5 років тому

      David Oeta Jnr thank you David!

  • @muhammadfardhannovantoadri8586

    Very inspiring, I love it!

  • @HeadsAndTales
    @HeadsAndTales 7 років тому +46

    Amazing talk Tayo!! While I'm familiar with your story you still did a great job coherently presenting it and simultaneously dropping value, your delivery was amazing as well. Wish I could hit that like button more than once! :) Congrats on your first TEDx talk! ;)

    • @TayoRockson
      @TayoRockson 7 років тому +5

      Rinaldo Ugrina my brother!!! Thank you so much for listening! Your words mean so much to me. I really appreciate all your support!

  • @picotincriollo2368
    @picotincriollo2368 4 роки тому +1

    This speech is so good!

  • @healheartandmind
    @healheartandmind 5 років тому +8

    OMG my dad was a diplomat too! Back in the 80's. Yay!👍

  • @pointyneedle7837
    @pointyneedle7837 2 роки тому

    Thanks.
    This may change my life.

  • @chileshebwalya2398
    @chileshebwalya2398 Рік тому

    This info is important to me. Thank you

  • @blessing.mp4
    @blessing.mp4 10 місяців тому

    This is amazing!

  • @IsoAnees
    @IsoAnees 3 роки тому

    I think this just changed my life

  • @abiolafuhadaderounmu4757
    @abiolafuhadaderounmu4757 2 роки тому

    This is what I have been looking for .

  • @m.carter9090
    @m.carter9090 Рік тому

    Thank you!

  • @maxpeinenrile583
    @maxpeinenrile583 2 роки тому

    I love this one.

  • @Balaji-qg8st
    @Balaji-qg8st 4 роки тому

    Insightful one

  • @lianecornils8733
    @lianecornils8733 2 роки тому

    Sad. He was.. so good so gentle and so loving. As a child.

  • @katiearbuckle9017
    @katiearbuckle9017 4 роки тому +5

    Exactly my father was a history teacher, and my mother works retail. And we lived in a Small Town. But I always showed the World is Small but also big and you got to work with all of it to be successful even not as a Diplomat.
    And during this Virus I am working on Lamguage Learning because I now have a goal to be a Diplomat. Funny thing is this is a good time to see that Global Commonality. In a Pandemic and Road Signs most of those are the same too.
    Also it's all Common Sense.

  • @mayrafigueroa5541
    @mayrafigueroa5541 6 років тому +4

    Esto me recuerda el porqué estudio mi carrera ¡muchas gracias! Muy buenos consejos, e inspirador.

    • @TayoRockson
      @TayoRockson 6 років тому

      mayra figueroa muchas gracias!!!

  • @shafali344
    @shafali344 2 місяці тому

    This speech is very amezing ,I really appreciate this speech

  • @darshanshah2506
    @darshanshah2506 5 років тому +3

    Thank you so much for your kind information ❤️❤️

  • @singhbits8540
    @singhbits8540 2 роки тому

    Thank You so much for this.. learning a lot sir from India 🇮🇳

  • @sarahjackson7024
    @sarahjackson7024 Рік тому

    Tell my why this was more helpful for my mental health than a therapy session

  • @kaab625
    @kaab625 5 років тому +2

    Thank you!!

    • @TayoRockson
      @TayoRockson 5 років тому

      Kathleen Blanchard thank you!!!

  • @user-realmikim
    @user-realmikim Рік тому +2

    Undrestand differences around you and find the commonalities within them. First is by collecting informations and get knowlege. Bt reading news and getting informed. Second is to be an active listener. Third is to be an active member of the community. Constantly put yourself where you're the odd one. Putting yourself in a group different than you help you understand difference and introduce to a bigger world.

  • @computerprogramming2377
    @computerprogramming2377 Рік тому +1

    Hey, after listening your talk,, I'm able to clear my self about diplomatic... I mean how to understand environment,, and make,,, points,,,

  • @soularwave
    @soularwave 2 роки тому +1

    A rare example of actionable lessons, thank you! Joining a student club that has nothing to do with you! Brilliant!

  • @breepalm
    @breepalm 7 років тому +5

    Wow Tayo! This is powerful & awesome... but you are an AMAZING Human so I'm not surprised 😍

    • @TayoRockson
      @TayoRockson 7 років тому

      Thank you so much Bree! You're awesome too! :)

  • @bnmahdistore7062
    @bnmahdistore7062 Рік тому

    Marvelous" lecture ..

  • @nuswaibaabdulwahid1343
    @nuswaibaabdulwahid1343 2 роки тому

    Very great words

  • @nunziabeogo6672
    @nunziabeogo6672 5 років тому +6

    I am so admirative of this guy . And happy to find out he lived in my country (Burkina Faso)

    • @TayoRockson
      @TayoRockson 4 роки тому

      I loved living in Burkina Faso!

  • @donnabrownliving
    @donnabrownliving 7 років тому +4

    Fantastic as usual!

    • @TayoRockson
      @TayoRockson 7 років тому

      Donna Brown thank you so much Donna!!!

  • @Mystery_world..77
    @Mystery_world..77 6 років тому +4

    Wonderful congrats Tayo keep up the great job

  • @user-ck9gc9uj6h
    @user-ck9gc9uj6h 2 роки тому

    It is my dream to become a diplomat. Unfortunately, I haven't found an appropriate job yet. But thanks for this video, it inspired me ;)

  • @avijitsarker9191
    @avijitsarker9191 7 місяців тому

    Resonate ❤

  • @flotunde77
    @flotunde77 7 років тому +4

    Love this 👍🏾

    • @TayoRockson
      @TayoRockson 7 років тому

      Akintunde Rockson thanks brother!

  • @cicinguyen1572
    @cicinguyen1572 6 років тому +2

    Great advise!!!

    • @TayoRockson
      @TayoRockson 6 років тому

      CottonCandy Lollipops thank you very much!

  • @shayanqayoom1291
    @shayanqayoom1291 8 місяців тому

    lovely

  • @IsabelHundt
    @IsabelHundt 6 років тому +6

    Love your TEDx Talk. Love your message.....but, well, you already knew that :)

    • @TayoRockson
      @TayoRockson 6 років тому

      Isabel Hundt wow! Thank you so much Isabel!!!!

  • @SuperJoePardo
    @SuperJoePardo 7 років тому +5

    Woohoo congrats bro, great job!! :)

    • @TayoRockson
      @TayoRockson 7 років тому +1

      Super Joe Pardo thank you so much!

  • @nandinimukherjee9687
    @nandinimukherjee9687 3 місяці тому

    1. Collect and gather info
    2. Active listener
    3. Active member of the community

  • @asthadwivedi6749
    @asthadwivedi6749 3 роки тому

    It was excellent

  • @fahimaahmadi2060
    @fahimaahmadi2060 2 роки тому

    "Constantly put yourself in a place where you are the different one"

  • @annalit9345
    @annalit9345 5 років тому +9

    You are so attractive! hahah Inside and out! I loved watching you and listening to what you had to say. I'm inspired. Thank you

    • @TayoRockson
      @TayoRockson 5 років тому

      Anna Lit thank you Anna! 🙏🏾

  • @Miss_DaniD
    @Miss_DaniD 4 роки тому +1

    This so inspiring

    • @TayoRockson
      @TayoRockson 4 роки тому

      Danielle Dixon thank you so much!

  • @Psychology231
    @Psychology231 6 років тому +1

    nice speech i truely understood what diplomacy is

    • @TayoRockson
      @TayoRockson 6 років тому

      ali hassan thanks Ali! Glad you have a better understanding now!

  • @AlinaNanda-fg7nj
    @AlinaNanda-fg7nj 6 років тому +1

    amazing

  • @adanechm
    @adanechm 5 років тому +3

    He's so fine.
    Okay, let me continue watching this VERY handsome man's inspirational talk.

    • @TayoRockson
      @TayoRockson 5 років тому

      Adanech Makey awww thank you so much!!!

  • @akvarille
    @akvarille 5 років тому +1

    Amazing speech!

    • @TayoRockson
      @TayoRockson 4 роки тому

      Akvilė Paražinskaitė Thank you very much!

  • @tongliu8563
    @tongliu8563 2 роки тому

    Very cool video!

  • @iradukundavianney-ss7li
    @iradukundavianney-ss7li 2 місяці тому

    Good speech

  • @topltw
    @topltw 2 роки тому +1

    Amazing accent from Nigeria. You made great efforts and tried your best to learn English and pronunciation. Respect you, man.

    • @MrToogle
      @MrToogle 2 роки тому

      English is the official language in Nigeria. He speaks with an American accent because he grew up attending American schools.

  • @isabellerizo565
    @isabellerizo565 7 років тому +2

    Great job tayo

    • @TayoRockson
      @TayoRockson 7 років тому

      Isabelle Rizo thank you Isabelle!

  • @Sonadema
    @Sonadema 7 років тому +1

    Congratulations

    • @TayoRockson
      @TayoRockson 7 років тому

      Sonia Edem thank you Sonia!!!

  • @sebyanhansleonardphalitis7995
    @sebyanhansleonardphalitis7995 7 місяців тому +1

    ❤❤❤

  • @kakemboraymondphilips2311
    @kakemboraymondphilips2311 5 років тому +1

    Thanks

    • @TayoRockson
      @TayoRockson 4 роки тому

      Kakembo Raymond my pleasure!

  • @kellyawambeng8176
    @kellyawambeng8176 6 років тому +1

    came here from african millenials. Great talk tayo...learning how to use my differences to make a difference.

    • @TayoRockson
      @TayoRockson 6 років тому

      Kelly Awambeng awww thank you so much for watching Kelly!!!!

  • @marwaeisa4457
    @marwaeisa4457 5 років тому +3

    Great speech. I studied international affairs & political science in american college outside the statea. I didnt have the opportunity to work in my field so i gave up & worked in marketing for 4 years then i moved recently to the states. I dont know from where to start. I want to work in diplomacy or something related to my field...advice me plz thank youuu

  • @carolineatieno4365
    @carolineatieno4365 3 роки тому +2

    Amazing advice.
    How can get connected to you , I need more advices since I am studying to become a Diplomat.

  • @Gracia144JesusSaves
    @Gracia144JesusSaves Рік тому

    👏👏👏🌺📜very interesting Mr Tayo Rockson and that Job is a very importend one and often overlooked and its also very helpfull also for me as in my personal life refering to my believes that i am ambassador for Jesus Christ 🌌who wants to reach all nations and use those who believe to spread the Good news of Salvation

  • @devnumnagar
    @devnumnagar 2 роки тому

    ❤️❤️

  • @pabloescobar-laganjadecoca1064
    @pabloescobar-laganjadecoca1064 5 років тому +4

    damn good..

  • @alanbourbeau24
    @alanbourbeau24 9 місяців тому

    Sometimes Diplomacy is the best way to go regarding to any international crisis instead of direct aggressive military attacks.

    • @CharlesMcKinneyIV
      @CharlesMcKinneyIV 28 днів тому

      Perhaps most times (so many conflicts could have been averted otherwise).

  • @1anre
    @1anre 8 місяців тому

    Tayo repping LifeForte High, almost more than a decade later.
    Not too surprised, the girls back then were also drawn to his charisma back then too

  • @HollywoodFan21
    @HollywoodFan21 6 років тому +12

    Diplomacy Excellence.

    • @TayoRockson
      @TayoRockson 6 років тому +1

      HollywoodFan21 ( Luis Villavicencio ) thank you so much!!!!

  • @jpKnight7
    @jpKnight7 6 років тому +39

    Huh, and I thought being the only 19 year old in a yoga class filled with the elderly was a weird thing. Guess not

    • @kaab625
      @kaab625 5 років тому

      Awesome!!

  • @ojasvitripathi
    @ojasvitripathi 2 роки тому

    2 years to go!
    22/11/2021 14:24
    Will update if I make through it.
    Even if I don't .
    I will update.

  • @impatientsamurai6202
    @impatientsamurai6202 4 роки тому +2

    Interesting. I wonder if he has any advice for someone going into the foreign offices field.

    • @TayoRockson
      @TayoRockson 4 роки тому

      I might be able to answer your questions.

    • @impatientsamurai6202
      @impatientsamurai6202 4 роки тому +1

      Tayo Rockson more or less of you know about anything one should have in order to be in that field.

    • @TayoRockson
      @TayoRockson 4 роки тому +1

      Impatient Samurai so one thing to always keep in mind is that reading wide and being curious is very important. They sound simple but I cannot tell you how often knowledge about random facts helped my dad build rapport.
      You also want to always be able to speak about things from a macro and micro perspective. So no matter what your opinion might be on a particular issue, be able to articulate the multiple sides before offering an opinion.
      A good show to watch to see example of this would be Madam Secretary.

  • @SilentVinyl
    @SilentVinyl 6 місяців тому

    neat

  • @sissidolls17
    @sissidolls17 8 місяців тому

    he seems speaking about my dad

  • @arpankumarpadhee350
    @arpankumarpadhee350 8 місяців тому

    7:53 resource

  • @lianecornils8733
    @lianecornils8733 2 роки тому

    My son was emotionally beat up in schools before he ever became what u made him today. His skin was darker.