@@sundiegoshine2922 nah, after all the dancing and leaving your own party late…thats still exhausting even if you didnt drink. I think leaving for the honeymoon two days after was good. No matter what, youre gonna be exhausted from your wedding
You had a honeymoon and a destination wedding? That’s a lot of traveling I thought people usually incorporated the honeymoon into a destination wedding
@@lawtraf8008 first of all LITTLE sweety, I never said it wasn’t their money nor that they couldn’t afford it.🥴🥴🥴🤣😂 and second it’s my business because she made a PUBLIC video about it with an open comment section. So go back to kindergarten and sit down, the grown people are discussing. DISMISSED
@@bravofanone9321 yes she is and people are allowed to say whatever they want. I fully agree with the 1st amendment of the US constitution. But on the other hand I don’t get why people have to be dicks about things, like if she could afford 1500 shoes for 1 day then she was able to afford a princess dream wedding 🤷🏻♀️
@@courtneychambers8773 I was married 13 years ago! I also come from a big family and was raised in a medium sized church. So we had tons of family friends. My parents clearly were not wealthy by any means at the time. But honestly I urge people constantly to get involved with your community and hold your family close as much as you can. I mean obviously not for only helping with your wedding but emotional support, advice, helping out with kids, teaching life skills and mainly since having kids just being aware who is filling our kids heads with what information.
I came here to say the same thing! My biggest regret is that we didn't take family and wedding party pictures because it started to rain like crazy while we were taking the bride and groom shots.
Not spending tons of money on a weeding was the best wedding decision I made, spend it on our honeymoon and down payment for our house. I never wanted a wedding as a girls so maybe that’s why I didn’t care much about it.
Fun fact I forgot to buy shoes for my wedding because I was really stressed and forgot to go get them. I didn’t have anything that could potentially be used as wedding shoe so I just grabbed my comfiest sandal heels. I was mortified someone would ask or tell anything but not a soul said anything I think either they were very polite, they weren’t visible or no one gave a damn 😂😂
It’s because people buy fancy shoes for the photos, especially the ones where the father puts the heels on the bride. They come out beautiful, and fancy shoes make the image… fancy 😂 but just wear comfy ones
Stop my bfs moms is crazy and has no boundaries... I'm not getting married anytime soon but shes been an issue before, shes basically attempted to LIVE at me and my bfs. Destroying everything in the process. She and my bfs dad (so her husband) lived and slept in OUR bed while we went out of town for a 4 day vacation. filled our bathtub up with garbage and let their 5 nasty stupid dogs run around and shit everywhere. My parents are awesome and help us with money so much and have never overstepped boundaries like that. ITS NOT FAIR. And my bf isnt the best at doing stuff about it or even preventing it. Its MIL hell.
The only regret I ever had for my wedding, is that everybody forgot the cameras.😮 My wedding cost less than $200. We were married in my great-uncle's house, he's an elder of his church so, he married us. My grandparents were witnesses for us. My grandparents took us out to dinner afterwards. We must have done something right because we were married for 35 years. He left this world almost six years ago due to cancer.
@@Twintertainment because you paid almost 2k for shoes that are literally ruined before your wedding…think a little 🙄. Imagine if your veil tore the night before.
@@giaparmerthis still by no means shouldnresult in a ruined wedding. Tell me you’re entitled and cannot tolerate obstacles in life without tell me you’re entitled and cannot tolerate obstacles in life. The groom not showing is a ruined wedding. The caterers not showing….the guests getting food poisoning….mother in law getting shitfaced drunk and belligerently yelling at people….those are ruined weddings…..not a tear in the veil or a shoe defect. Good lord.
@@Chels-fz5uq girl you do not know about anybody’s ability to tolerate obstacles in life 💀💀 tell me you have a superiority complex without telling me you have a superiority complex. But yeah absolutely if you spend $1,500 on a pair of shoes without a backup pair that’s an issue. Just like if ANYTHING happened to your presentation on the day of or before your literal wedding that you spent tens of thousands of dollars on it would be an issue. You act like it’s any old pair of shoes and not a pair for her wedding day that she invested in and was excited about.
As a wedding coordinator, I have a couple more suggestions….. 1. No one ever sees your shoes, unless you keep lifting up your dress. And no one knows how much they cost, unless you keep telling them. 2. The reason for getting married is not to get drunk out of your mind. The reason is to promise to love and be forever with your mate in front of everyone you both care about, and remember it. 3. In Portugal, you were already on vacation. Sounds great.
Hello! Just curious how much wedding coordinator fees usually cost? My husband and I got married civil and in the future we want to plan a budget-friendly wedding ceremony but online info seems a bit off when it comes to coordinator fees. Just wanted to take the opportunity to ask you😊
@@mermikk ….I don’t know, my family has a venue and we organize everything at the venue as far as everything that happens here. We even hold the rehearsal and run the ceremony. We don’t deal with dress, invites, etc. in fact, we hate it when someone hires another person to do any of that, because we have to take time to train them like a new employee, because they don’t know where everything is and our staff does everything automatically and in the best and most efficient way. We also had problems finding out that many of them were handed the vendors’ tips by the families and never actually gave them to the intended recipients. I would suggest asking the venue how much they do, and if they would suggest the aid of a planner. I would also encourage people to tip their own vendors as they appreciate the gesture and a nice thank you at the same time.
@@mermikkIt can depend on where you are for the most part. If you want a coordinator/planner (most weddings), I would say anywhere from $1,500 to $5k. It can go higher if you choose a luxury planner or require full planning/designing (basically everything being done with you). I would definitely advise seeking a coordinator to ensure event flow and details are cared for. Even if a venue has a coordinator they are there to only ensure their property is taken care of. Like said above, they aren’t tracking your invites, procuring your vendors, corralling the wedding party (finding a drunk father - don’t ask me how I know), making sure your pics are stunning, moving the timeline along, being the MC if need be, stepping in if your bouquet is lost and making a new one, advocating for you in all aspects of the event like if your cake or table setting is wrong, etc. That’s their job to be with you from start to finish, know everything you want for your big day inside & out and to act accordingly.
My husband and I gave ourselves 2 weeks after our wedding before going on our honeymoon …. We had to mentally recover from that long lol …. Congrats!!!!
That’s what most people in my country do! They take around 2 weeks to settle in, usually at a new house or apartment, then they go shopping for the trip then they go to the honeymoon
One of my biggest wedding regrets is having a wedding if I could do it all over again I would have went to the court house and went on a badass honeymoon all that money for 3-4 hours and most it gets thrown away I'm glad I got the moment though
Girl…. You spent $1500 on just the SHOES and decided to get blasted knowing you had places to be the next day… no hate at all, but it honestly sounds like all things that could have been easily avoided. To each their own.
Did you miss the part where she said this was her wedding? Isn’t it normal to feel exhausted, if not hungover, the day after? Isn’t it normal to want to treat yourself to nice things for your wedding (like the shoes)?
@@Jk53121 yeah but it seems like common sense to not get super drunk since you know you have a long trip the next day, even if you anticipate your hangover will be done by the time it’s time to get on the flights, kudos to her for realizing that but the commenter here makes a great point especially about the hangover part (Plus you can treat yoself without getting sloshed)
Huh ? This is very normal to do for your wedding 💀💀 TONS of people over spend for their dress/shoes and drink heavier. You’re talking like she did this for a Friday night out 😂
If I ever find the man I'm meant to marry, I want to spend as little as possible and make it stress free as possible. I don't handle stress well at all. My shoes will probably be tennis shoes (I hate flats and heels), a nice simple dress from a cheap store, and little to no flowers (allergies) 💀 I like the idea of maybe a fancier dress (think medieval style) but honestly I'd be so nervous I would be doing everything possible not to elope lol 😂
@@imaginationsmusic1985 Why not just get a marriage certificate then to prevent all that stress? It sounds like the idea of a wedding might not be for you.
I left the day after my wedding for our honeymoon and felt great. We hadn’t had alcohol at the wedding. Not a tea totally, just didn’t want to be drunk for my wedding night. My shoes were $12 from a local consignment shop. Best friends still 20 years later.
As a former florist I had an Uh Oh Bag for my clients which cost an extra $175.00. It included: Bandaids Superglue Nail repair kit Floral glue Extra undies (cause those dresses don't breathe!) Isotoner Slippers in White (I have yet to see a bride wear her shoes all night long) Needle, thread in 12 colors and stitch witchery. A mini steamer 1 cigarette of tobacco for bee stings and instructions to kill the sting and swelling quick After 20 years of owning my shop there was not a single bride who did not end up using at least 4 things from that bag.
I wouldn’t have used all of that. Just the slippers but I knew to bring my own. HOWEVER, really smart to pack all these things as I had a similar emergency kit that didn’t get used but boy was it nice to have just in case! Good list :)
I bought gorgeous and expensive Betsy Johnson shoes for my wedding… the heel broke off within 5 minutes of my first time ever wearing the shoes, which was during a dance rehearsal 3 days before the wedding. I ended up wearing my mom’s super comfy , budget heels.
I wore Betsy Johnson rhinestoned sneakers for less than $100. Our wedding was in the woods and it rained the whole day before. Literally could not have picked a better shoe, one of the best decisions I made!
Anyone attending a wedding should consider how much they’re drinking. You can have fun without being drunk. Plus you’ll remember most of the night too. Think about how you’ll look in pictures if you’re sloshed. I worked weddings for 4 years. Trust me on this
We left for our honeymoon a week after the wedding (that's just when the place had the room we wanted available). It was really nice because we didn't live together before we got married (personal choice, you do you), so we had a week to get settled at home before being gone. It was nice to not come home from our honeymoon and just have a house full of boxes.
Thank you for sharing this! I bought my wedding shoes few days ago, they are pointy flats. I’m in 40s and this will be my 2nd marriage, so I’m not wearing heels (well, maybe just for pictures) 😀😆
Married on a Saturday. Left for Honeymoon. Brunched with out of town guests. Checked out. Slept. Monday did laundry and packed. At airport at 7 am Tuesday, rested and refreshed. 😊
Congratulations on your wedding!❤❤ Day after a wedding is normal in my family as like a hungover relax, someone makes breakfast and coffee and enjoy the company of the family kind of day. I know not all families are like this, but mine is a very tight-nit Italian family, and anytime we take together, we love ❤❤
To prevent hangovers drink as much water as you can keep down before you fo to sleep. Everytime u wake up take a sip, and if you throw up drink more water. This will flush the by-products of alcohol metabolism and keep your electrolytes more balanced.
No the whole point of a destination wedding is the backdrop and venue. The honeymoon is a separate thing. Most people are concerned that if they honeymoon at the same resort they got married in, clingy family and guests will bother them and go to their room. It happens. I had a friend marry in Jamaica and honeymoon in Greece Another got married in Iceland and honeymooned in Scotland Another married in Bali and honeymooned in Australia. There are no rules for your wedding. You do whatever you want.
In spite of your regrets, I really love the picture of you and your husband on the balcony 🤗🥰 Very romantic ❤ You and your husband look like a lovely couple xoxo 🤗🤗🤗🥰🥰🥰
I only had 2 drinks at our wedding. We left straight afterwards to drive 16 hrs to Florida. Changed out of my wedding dress complete with steel boned corset in the venue bathroom (it was just a regular restaurant) lmao. Got taco bell for dinner that night. My entire wedding was $2k. I spent under 200 for the dress and my shoes were glitter flats from Payless (RIP). My only regret was that our cake was inedible, but there's nothing we could have done to prevent that. We had a fantastic tasting with the baker and also stopped by on other occasions to grab baked goods from her shop. Everything was excellent. Then, the wedding cake layers were undercooked on the inside, burned on the outside, and it took us an hour to cut into because it was frozen. I spent $300 of my dainty wedding budget on a custom cake, even though we were only having about 20 guests, because my family loves cake and I figured I'd be sending people home with big chunks. Nobody wanted any. We ended up hauling most of that awful cake all the way to Florida and back, where it sat in the fridge for 3 weeks before we chucked it.
We had our honeymoon 6 months after our wedding as we saved to go on a better honeymoon. I liked leaving longer as well cause it kind of extended our wedding experience instead of it all being over straight away.
I thought the first regret would've been the balcony you took that photo on - could've chosen a cleaner looking one 😅 or a photographer who could've edited out all that bird poop 😅. Shoes should've been returned and refunded instead of repaired. Also, do people not see the issues with alcohol - it's not worth it - expensive, feel really rubbish after, has caused many fatalities such as Road accidents, people have often regretted decisions made whilst intoxicated, breath smells.... Drink juice!!!
These are great suggestions! It sounds like you had an expensively gorgeous dream wedding! Do you or anyone in the comments have any advice for someone with a small budget who still wants a dream wedding? What to splurge on, what not to splurge on? I reaaaally want a gorgeous black goth wedding dress and gothic black and red themed wedding but it sounds so expensive lol plus I SUCK at designing things like I’ll end up having to pay for a wedding planner :/
And I rather take $1,500 and put it towards the honeymoon or something much better then a pair of shoes not only that I can craft those shoes for a lot less and they wouldn't break
Bruh i spent $30 on lacey flats, but they fit and felt like super comfy sneakers. People weren't seeing my shoes anyway. Future brides, COMFORT. If you have drinks at your wedding, i agree of taking the next day off. My husband and I dont drink so we had a dry wedding. We still barely made it to the airport lol
She said these are her regrets guys! Lay off lol. Obviously she knows they were not the right choices as they are REGRETS 😂 But for many of us the hope is that our wedding will be our only so why not make it as special as you want?? If you aren’t going broke over it why not? 🤷🏾♀️
Tip from an actual wedding vendor who has seen brides crying at how badly their shoes hurt: if you buy new heels for your wedding WEAR YOUR SHOES BEFORE YOUR WEDDING!!! Break them in as much as you can or you will regret it
Recommendation, Jimmy Choos make the best shoes for weddings. Everyone I know has gotten a pair of Jimmy Choos, and when they got married and they have not regretted them. Suggestion, buy the white, as you are able to get those dyed.
@@kristinrodgers7210 on the contrary, it was great! You can have fun sober, plus no hangovers! Lol if you have to rely on alcohol to have fun you might want to do some self examination :)
My wedding regrets: (1) Too many guests, (2) Wish we'd had morning suits for the guys rather than tuxes, (3) Wish we'd allowed my bridesmaids to pick the style of their dresses
Thank you for saving me the pain. I will probably never buy expensive shoes with embellishments like that now I have trust issues but you look stunning before and after your wedding. I wish you the best the best the best congratulations you are absolutely gorgeous glowing and I love it. Thank you for you. Thank you for your presence and thank you for this advice. I hope you have a wonderful day today. Stay glowing babes. ❤️🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
We went a week after the wedding to regroup and enjoy the week with our family and friends in town. Then, we left and was supposed to be gone for only 2 weeks, but it turned into 4 😂
If you live in the states, Pigeon Forge TN is a really great, kid friendly vacation. It's beautiful, affordable, lots of stuff to do, and Dollywood is the least stress theme park EVER -- with plenty of places to sit, get out of the sun, spacious and clean restrooms, food and souvenirs that don't cost an arm and a leg, a free splash area in the summer, music shows, rides that the whole family can get on, rollercoasters my 3 year old could ride.
I got my wedding shoes off Amazon. They were the most uncomfortable shoes I’ve ever worn. I ended up taking them off after the ceremony. But I also got my dress hemmed to the heel height so now it was long. If I could go back I would’ve skipped shoes altogether and had my dress hemmed to barefoot height.
This!!! I had my dress hemmed for a two-three inch heel which isn’t too bad but I knew it was only for a bit of time! I shouldn’t have had it hemmed for those shoes knowing that I’d be in my bridal flats the rest of the time! I had a second outfit change but I only really changed bc my dress was now dragging too much on the floor. Had I had it hemmed to barefoot, I would have stayed in my gorgeous and expensive dress all night! That’s my biggest regret…not wearing my dress all night! But it was because of the shoes! I had hemmed my second outfit to be at barefoot length and not my actual wedding dress 🥲
I can vouch for not going on honeymoons the next day 😩 9 hour flight plus wedding come down and predisposed anxious person =very poorly with insomnia and anxiety episode for the first week of the two week honeymoon. I was gutted and felt so guilty!
This is a sentimental thing, but I had this idea to have all these wedding photos of family members, living and dead, on the welcome table. My mother-in-law even helped me with it, but in our rush out the door, I forgot all the photos, including the collage of my husband and I over the previous 12 years. We still got to the venue early, but not with enough time to make the roundtrip back, so it was a pretty empty table.
I’m glad I didn’t spend too much on my shoes. They were silver heels from Aldo for less than $30. I honestly didn’t even wear them for that long and you could only see the front anyways.
Me and my fiancé are planning to leave either the day after or 2 days after wedding we don’t drink at all we both personally just don’t like the taste of alcohol so we aren’t thinking about hangovers it’s deciding if we will be packed for the honeymoon😂
You spending $1,500 on a pair of shoes is all I need to hear.
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@@kasen9487 people who believe in that bs are cult followers for real
Jealous
@ella elise, yes, jealous of wasting money on pointless shit 😂
guys… this video is about the things she regrets. why were y’all expecting these to have been good decisions
Honestly, if she wasn’t hungover, traveling the next day probably wouldn’t have been so bad 🤣
@@sundiegoshine2922 nah, after all the dancing and leaving your own party late…thats still exhausting even if you didnt drink.
I think leaving for the honeymoon two days after was good.
No matter what, youre gonna be exhausted from your wedding
@@gl3936 yep, I have several friends who were too tired to have seggs on their wedding night.
i just wasn’t expecting them to be that dumb i guess 💀💀💀
They so desperately want to complain they just have to hate on something 😂
You had a honeymoon and a destination wedding? That’s a lot of traveling I thought people usually incorporated the honeymoon into a destination wedding
I wouldnt have done that. Too much money wasted, unless she could drive to the nearest country borders and just drive and explore other countries.
@@gl3936 Well it's their money so clearly they can afford it and it's none of your business.
@@lawtraf8008 first of all LITTLE sweety, I never said it wasn’t their money nor that they couldn’t afford it.🥴🥴🥴🤣😂 and second it’s my business because she made a PUBLIC video about it with an open comment section. So go back to kindergarten and sit down, the grown people are discussing. DISMISSED
@@lawtraf8008 she’s putting it on the internet and making it everyone’s business 😊. You understand that, right??
@@bravofanone9321 yes she is and people are allowed to say whatever they want. I fully agree with the 1st amendment of the US constitution. But on the other hand I don’t get why people have to be dicks about things, like if she could afford 1500 shoes for 1 day then she was able to afford a princess dream wedding 🤷🏻♀️
Girl your shoes cost 1/2 of my wedding. You know what my biggest regret was. Is not slowing my mind down and taking in moment more!
Your wedding was only 3k??? How in the hell
If I get married I’m going to be even cheaper and go courthouse 😂but my partner isn’t happy with that idea 😢
@@courtneychambers8773 I was married 13 years ago! I also come from a big family and was raised in a medium sized church. So we had tons of family friends. My parents clearly were not wealthy by any means at the time.
But honestly I urge people constantly to get involved with your community and hold your family close as much as you can. I mean obviously not for only helping with your wedding but emotional support, advice, helping out with kids, teaching life skills and mainly since having kids just being aware who is filling our kids heads with what information.
I came here to say the same thing! My biggest regret is that we didn't take family and wedding party pictures because it started to rain like crazy while we were taking the bride and groom shots.
Not spending tons of money on a weeding was the best wedding decision I made, spend it on our honeymoon and down payment for our house. I never wanted a wedding as a girls so maybe that’s why I didn’t care much about it.
I don’t understand drinking that much at your own wedding. I want to be completely in the moment that entire day.
Yea, my advice would be just to sip one type of drink if you want any at all. Have snacks or a meal waiting for you in your room after.
I was drunk and high on blow during my wedding
Agreed
Heading out at the first one🚶🏽♀️🚶🏽♀️🚶🏽♀️
i stuck around and the second one was worse…she didn’t know the 1500 shoes would break, the second one was just pure stupidity
@@alexhails yep...
Fun fact I forgot to buy shoes for my wedding because I was really stressed and forgot to go get them. I didn’t have anything that could potentially be used as wedding shoe so I just grabbed my comfiest sandal heels. I was mortified someone would ask or tell anything but not a soul said anything I think either they were very polite, they weren’t visible or no one gave a damn 😂😂
Well, you don't have the Chuck Taylor wedding pics from the early 2000s. So there's that 🥴
@@doesnotFempute hey! I put my Chuck Taylor just after the first dance and thank God! I could dance all night thanks to that! 0 regrets! 😂😂😂
It’s because people buy fancy shoes for the photos, especially the ones where the father puts the heels on the bride. They come out beautiful, and fancy shoes make the image… fancy 😂 but just wear comfy ones
My wedding regret was letting my mother in law anywhere near my wedding. She destroyed it
Stop my bfs moms is crazy and has no boundaries... I'm not getting married anytime soon but shes been an issue before, shes basically attempted to LIVE at me and my bfs. Destroying everything in the process. She and my bfs dad (so her husband) lived and slept in OUR bed while we went out of town for a 4 day vacation. filled our bathtub up with garbage and let their 5 nasty stupid dogs run around and shit everywhere. My parents are awesome and help us with money so much and have never overstepped boundaries like that. ITS NOT FAIR. And my bf isnt the best at doing stuff about it or even preventing it. Its MIL hell.
The only regret I ever had for my wedding, is that everybody forgot the cameras.😮
My wedding cost less than $200.
We were married in my great-uncle's house, he's an elder of his church so, he married us.
My grandparents were witnesses for us. My grandparents took us out to dinner afterwards.
We must have done something right because we were married for 35 years. He left this world almost six years ago due to cancer.
Congratulations on a long lasting love, and my condolences for your loss!
For $1500 you bet I’d be coming back to that store with complaints. Especially if it could’ve ruined my wedding
How is an embellishment on your shoe falling off is something that would "ruin" your wedding?
@@Twintertainment because you paid almost 2k for shoes that are literally ruined before your wedding…think a little 🙄. Imagine if your veil tore the night before.
A little dramatic to say the embellishment coming off would ruin the whole wedding.
@@giaparmerthis still by no means shouldnresult in a ruined wedding. Tell me you’re entitled and cannot tolerate obstacles in life without tell me you’re entitled and cannot tolerate obstacles in life.
The groom not showing is a ruined wedding. The caterers not showing….the guests getting food poisoning….mother in law getting shitfaced drunk and belligerently yelling at people….those are ruined weddings…..not a tear in the veil or a shoe defect. Good lord.
@@Chels-fz5uq girl you do not know about anybody’s ability to tolerate obstacles in life 💀💀 tell me you have a superiority complex without telling me you have a superiority complex. But yeah absolutely if you spend $1,500 on a pair of shoes without a backup pair that’s an issue. Just like if ANYTHING happened to your presentation on the day of or before your literal wedding that you spent tens of thousands of dollars on it would be an issue. You act like it’s any old pair of shoes and not a pair for her wedding day that she invested in and was excited about.
As a wedding coordinator, I have a couple more suggestions…..
1. No one ever sees your shoes, unless you keep lifting up your dress. And no one knows how much they cost, unless you keep telling them.
2. The reason for getting married is not to get drunk out of your mind. The reason is to promise to love and be forever with your mate in front of everyone you both care about, and remember it.
3. In Portugal, you were already on vacation. Sounds great.
Hello! Just curious how much wedding coordinator fees usually cost? My husband and I got married civil and in the future we want to plan a budget-friendly wedding ceremony but online info seems a bit off when it comes to coordinator fees. Just wanted to take the opportunity to ask you😊
@@mermikk ….I don’t know, my family has a venue and we organize everything at the venue as far as everything that happens here. We even hold the rehearsal and run the ceremony. We don’t deal with dress, invites, etc. in fact, we hate it when someone hires another person to do any of that, because we have to take time to train them like a new employee, because they don’t know where everything is and our staff does everything automatically and in the best and most efficient way. We also had problems finding out that many of them were handed the vendors’ tips by the families and never actually gave them to the intended recipients. I would suggest asking the venue how much they do, and if they would suggest the aid of a planner. I would also encourage people to tip their own vendors as they appreciate the gesture and a nice thank you at the same time.
The second one is kinda dumb... She didnt say she drunk cuz that's all about marriage... She just enjoyed
You sound so judgemental. Take a chill pill.
@@mermikkIt can depend on where you are for the most part. If you want a coordinator/planner (most weddings), I would say anywhere from $1,500 to $5k. It can go higher if you choose a luxury planner or require full planning/designing (basically everything being done with you).
I would definitely advise seeking a coordinator to ensure event flow and details are cared for. Even if a venue has a coordinator they are there to only ensure their property is taken care of. Like said above, they aren’t tracking your invites, procuring your vendors, corralling the wedding party (finding a drunk father - don’t ask me how I know), making sure your pics are stunning, moving the timeline along, being the MC if need be, stepping in if your bouquet is lost and making a new one, advocating for you in all aspects of the event like if your cake or table setting is wrong, etc. That’s their job to be with you from start to finish, know everything you want for your big day inside & out and to act accordingly.
My husband and I gave ourselves 2 weeks after our wedding before going on our honeymoon …. We had to mentally recover from that long lol …. Congrats!!!!
That’s a great idea
That’s what most people in my country do! They take around 2 weeks to settle in, usually at a new house or apartment, then they go shopping for the trip then they go to the honeymoon
^this is so cute!! what country is that?
So nice to hear you married in Sintra, Portugal!
Magical town, full of mystery and beauty!
Congratulations on your marriage! ❤❤
One of my biggest wedding regrets is having a wedding if I could do it all over again I would have went to the court house and went on a badass honeymoon all that money for 3-4 hours and most it gets thrown away I'm glad I got the moment though
Wedding regrets most of us will never have to contend with.
Girl…. You spent $1500 on just the SHOES and decided to get blasted knowing you had places to be the next day… no hate at all, but it honestly sounds like all things that could have been easily avoided. To each their own.
Yeah that’s probably why they’re her regrets… as in she regrets not doing it differently
Did you miss the part where she said this was her wedding? Isn’t it normal to feel exhausted, if not hungover, the day after? Isn’t it normal to want to treat yourself to nice things for your wedding (like the shoes)?
@@Jk53121 yeah but it seems like common sense to not get super drunk since you know you have a long trip the next day, even if you anticipate your hangover will be done by the time it’s time to get on the flights, kudos to her for realizing that but the commenter here makes a great point especially about the hangover part
(Plus you can treat yoself without getting sloshed)
I agree! Easily avoided. Don’t drink so dam much. Or don’t be a little baby about it!! Suck it the F up
Huh ? This is very normal to do for your wedding 💀💀 TONS of people over spend for their dress/shoes and drink heavier. You’re talking like she did this for a Friday night out 😂
I spent $9 on my wedding shoes lol
If I ever find the man I'm meant to marry, I want to spend as little as possible and make it stress free as possible. I don't handle stress well at all. My shoes will probably be tennis shoes (I hate flats and heels), a nice simple dress from a cheap store, and little to no flowers (allergies) 💀 I like the idea of maybe a fancier dress (think medieval style) but honestly I'd be so nervous I would be doing everything possible not to elope lol 😂
@@imaginationsmusic1985 Why not just get a marriage certificate then to prevent all that stress? It sounds like the idea of a wedding might not be for you.
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I left the day after my wedding for our honeymoon and felt great. We hadn’t had alcohol at the wedding. Not a tea totally, just didn’t want to be drunk for my wedding night. My shoes were $12 from a local consignment shop. Best friends still 20 years later.
As a former florist I had an Uh Oh Bag for my clients which cost an extra $175.00.
It included:
Bandaids
Superglue
Nail repair kit
Floral glue
Extra undies (cause those dresses don't breathe!)
Isotoner Slippers in White (I have yet to see a bride wear her shoes all night long)
Needle, thread in 12 colors and stitch witchery.
A mini steamer
1 cigarette of tobacco for bee stings and instructions to kill the sting and swelling quick
After 20 years of owning my shop there was not a single bride who did not end up using at least 4 things from that bag.
I wouldn’t have used all of that. Just the slippers but I knew to bring my own. HOWEVER, really smart to pack all these things as I had a similar emergency kit that didn’t get used but boy was it nice to have just in case! Good list :)
Wait hold up....how does a cigarette help with a bee sting??? I would already have my own lol
emphasis on HER wedding regrets and HER money
I bought gorgeous and expensive Betsy Johnson shoes for my wedding… the heel broke off within 5 minutes of my first time ever wearing the shoes, which was during a dance rehearsal 3 days before the wedding. I ended up wearing my mom’s super comfy , budget heels.
I wore Betsy Johnson rhinestoned sneakers for less than $100.
Our wedding was in the woods and it rained the whole day before. Literally could not have picked a better shoe, one of the best decisions I made!
I would cry. Literally. Lol.
My biggest wedding regret was getting married 😅😐
Anyone attending a wedding should consider how much they’re
drinking. You can have fun without being drunk.
Plus you’ll remember most of the night too.
Think about how you’ll look in pictures if you’re sloshed.
I worked weddings for 4 years. Trust me on this
We’re to old to be getting drunk and then jump on a plane the next day no ma’am I need 3 business days to fully recover now 😂
How about not getting drunk at all as a solution? Good for your health not to drink.
@@marianemashkalo4182 you seem lovely
If i ever getting married, I'll buy shoes i can wear the hell out of later
We left for our honeymoon a week after the wedding (that's just when the place had the room we wanted available). It was really nice because we didn't live together before we got married (personal choice, you do you), so we had a week to get settled at home before being gone. It was nice to not come home from our honeymoon and just have a house full of boxes.
Thank you for sharing this! I bought my wedding shoes few days ago, they are pointy flats. I’m in 40s and this will be my 2nd marriage, so I’m not wearing heels (well, maybe just for pictures) 😀😆
I'm glad I don't drink alcohol that way I can just enjoy the next day fully
Umm you don't necessarily have to get drunk but you can have a drink or 2 and it'll be ok
@kristinrodgers7210
Well, I think the diabetes will have something to say about that. 🤪
Married on a Saturday.
Left for Honeymoon.
Brunched with out of town guests.
Checked out.
Slept.
Monday did laundry and packed.
At airport at 7 am Tuesday, rested and refreshed.
😊
Congratulations on your wedding!❤❤
Day after a wedding is normal in my family as like a hungover relax, someone makes breakfast and coffee and enjoy the company of the family kind of day.
I know not all families are like this, but mine is a very tight-nit Italian family, and anytime we take together, we love ❤❤
My husband and I went on our honeymoon 5 months after. Nothing wrong with going later.
I actually like that
To prevent hangovers drink as much water as you can keep down before you fo to sleep. Everytime u wake up take a sip, and if you throw up drink more water. This will flush the by-products of alcohol metabolism and keep your electrolytes more balanced.
great way to piss 3 times on a night you need the most rest 😂
Fabulous advice for the honeymoon! I got blue handmade shoes from a wonderful friend. One of my favorite things from my wedding
Omg they must have been lovely!
The shoes 😭😭😭
Isn’t the whole point of a destination wedding that you’re already at your dream location. why would you need/want a honeymoon elsewhere?
No the whole point of a destination wedding is the backdrop and venue.
The honeymoon is a separate thing. Most people are concerned that if they honeymoon at the same resort they got married in, clingy family and guests will bother them and go to their room. It happens.
I had a friend marry in Jamaica and honeymoon in Greece
Another got married in Iceland and honeymooned in Scotland
Another married in Bali and honeymooned in Australia.
There are no rules for your wedding. You do whatever you want.
I’ve heard Amina Muaddi heels always break. They’re poorly made and the finishing isn’t that neat
Can confirm they are the worst and I wish I new that earlier
I knew those heels were all hype 😢 so cute though all of them
In spite of your regrets, I really love the picture of you and your husband on the balcony 🤗🥰 Very romantic ❤ You and your husband look like a lovely couple xoxo 🤗🤗🤗🥰🥰🥰
I know right? So cute
The resting advice is 👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻
I’m wearing my white converse! I want to be comfortable!!
I only had 2 drinks at our wedding. We left straight afterwards to drive 16 hrs to Florida. Changed out of my wedding dress complete with steel boned corset in the venue bathroom (it was just a regular restaurant) lmao. Got taco bell for dinner that night.
My entire wedding was $2k. I spent under 200 for the dress and my shoes were glitter flats from Payless (RIP).
My only regret was that our cake was inedible, but there's nothing we could have done to prevent that. We had a fantastic tasting with the baker and also stopped by on other occasions to grab baked goods from her shop.
Everything was excellent. Then, the wedding cake layers were undercooked on the inside, burned on the outside, and it took us an hour to cut into because it was frozen.
I spent $300 of my dainty wedding budget on a custom cake, even though we were only having about 20 guests, because my family loves cake and I figured I'd be sending people home with big chunks. Nobody wanted any.
We ended up hauling most of that awful cake all the way to Florida and back, where it sat in the fridge for 3 weeks before we chucked it.
16 hour drive?! Why not fly?
@@lt3968 screaming cheapie 😂😂😂
i hope you got your money back or DRAGGED her for selling you that iced up hockey puck!!
ok but why do i kinda wanna give out pj pants or something at my wedding like a mitzvah😭😭
That’s a great idea
@@rendagrella tyyyy
Ohhh as a portuguese, Sintra is beautiful!
The best intermission yet! The Education Connection song will always be a bop
We had our honeymoon 6 months after our wedding as we saved to go on a better honeymoon. I liked leaving longer as well cause it kind of extended our wedding experience instead of it all being over straight away.
Was I the only one who saw that embellishment was going to just snap right off? 👀
Those shoes are worth my rent! 😅
I thought the first regret would've been the balcony you took that photo on - could've chosen a cleaner looking one 😅 or a photographer who could've edited out all that bird poop 😅. Shoes should've been returned and refunded instead of repaired.
Also, do people not see the issues with alcohol - it's not worth it - expensive, feel really rubbish after, has caused many fatalities such as Road accidents, people have often regretted decisions made whilst intoxicated, breath smells.... Drink juice!!!
The photo is giving rustic/antique. It looks fine
My dad is having his honeymoon a year after the wedding
These are great suggestions! It sounds like you had an expensively gorgeous dream wedding! Do you or anyone in the comments have any advice for someone with a small budget who still wants a dream wedding? What to splurge on, what not to splurge on? I reaaaally want a gorgeous black goth wedding dress and gothic black and red themed wedding but it sounds so expensive lol plus I SUCK at designing things like I’ll end up having to pay for a wedding planner :/
My dads cousin literally left his wedding early to go on his honeymoon lmao
Bridezilla.... why can't the ceremony be sacred the most intricate expensive weddings are short lived for the most part..there r exceptions
Thank you for this!!!
This is so helpful thank you!!
My wedding was on a Saturday and I left that Monday. Glad I did it that way as well.
And I rather take $1,500 and put it towards the honeymoon or something much better then a pair of shoes not only that I can craft those shoes for a lot less and they wouldn't break
I have never heard this before Usually people leave right after but this is literally the second time I've Heard this this week.
Bruh i spent $30 on lacey flats, but they fit and felt like super comfy sneakers. People weren't seeing my shoes anyway. Future brides, COMFORT.
If you have drinks at your wedding, i agree of taking the next day off. My husband and I dont drink so we had a dry wedding. We still barely made it to the airport lol
Your videos are pure gold.
She said these are her regrets guys! Lay off lol. Obviously she knows they were not the right choices as they are REGRETS 😂 But for many of us the hope is that our wedding will be our only so why not make it as special as you want?? If you aren’t going broke over it why not? 🤷🏾♀️
the 1,500 dollar shoe falling apart is insane! I’ve purchased luxury shoes before but they are always great quality, that brand should be ashamed 😂❤
My future husband is sober from alcohol so we don’t have to ever worry about being hungover 😎 I’d like to honeymoon right after the wedding too
One thing about the comment sections is that you can count on women to be JUDGEMENTAL!!
Ahahahhah. It’s rough in these comments. Big time jealousy. I can’t believe these people
Tip from an actual wedding vendor who has seen brides crying at how badly their shoes hurt: if you buy new heels for your wedding WEAR YOUR SHOES BEFORE YOUR WEDDING!!! Break them in as much as you can or you will regret it
Recommendation, Jimmy Choos make the best shoes for weddings. Everyone I know has gotten a pair of Jimmy Choos, and when they got married and they have not regretted them. Suggestion, buy the white, as you are able to get those dyed.
Jimmy Choo over Louboutin? I’ve been eying both
We had the most similar wedding dress! Great taste 🫶🏼🤍
people who handtalk to show off their rings...all I needed to see...
And this is why I wore sparkly keds instead of heels and had no alcohol at my wedding lol
Dry weddings are the worst
@@kristinrodgers7210 on the contrary, it was great! You can have fun sober, plus no hangovers! Lol if you have to rely on alcohol to have fun you might want to do some self examination :)
@@kristinrodgers7210 hahah yea, this sounds like a Chuck E Cheese.
All i can do is honestly laugh that hangover face man I felt that so bad 😅
It all looks so beautiful though ✨
Thank you🥰💕
Planned the honeymoon for 5 weeks after the wedding, so we definitely have enough money & energy to actually enjoy
My wedding regrets: (1) Too many guests, (2) Wish we'd had morning suits for the guys rather than tuxes, (3) Wish we'd allowed my bridesmaids to pick the style of their dresses
Imagine spending 1500 dollars on shoes just for your feet to hurt at the end of the night, and no one is actually looking at them lmao
Thank you for saving me the pain. I will probably never buy expensive shoes with embellishments like that now I have trust issues but you look stunning before and after your wedding. I wish you the best the best the best congratulations you are absolutely gorgeous glowing and I love it. Thank you for you. Thank you for your presence and thank you for this advice. I hope you have a wonderful day today. Stay glowing babes. ❤️🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
We went a week after the wedding to regroup and enjoy the week with our family and friends in town. Then, we left and was supposed to be gone for only 2 weeks, but it turned into 4 😂
I still haven’t left for my honeymoon. 3.5 years later, still recovering. Somehow have kids I have to take with me now too. Send help
If you live in the states, Pigeon Forge TN is a really great, kid friendly vacation. It's beautiful, affordable, lots of stuff to do, and Dollywood is the least stress theme park EVER -- with plenty of places to sit, get out of the sun, spacious and clean restrooms, food and souvenirs that don't cost an arm and a leg, a free splash area in the summer, music shows, rides that the whole family can get on, rollercoasters my 3 year old could ride.
i scheduled a day between wedding n honeymoon and it was AWESOME!
I got my wedding shoes off Amazon. They were the most uncomfortable shoes I’ve ever worn. I ended up taking them off after the ceremony. But I also got my dress hemmed to the heel height so now it was long. If I could go back I would’ve skipped shoes altogether and had my dress hemmed to barefoot height.
This!!! I had my dress hemmed for a two-three inch heel which isn’t too bad but I knew it was only for a bit of time! I shouldn’t have had it hemmed for those shoes knowing that I’d be in my bridal flats the rest of the time! I had a second outfit change but I only really changed bc my dress was now dragging too much on the floor. Had I had it hemmed to barefoot, I would have stayed in my gorgeous and expensive dress all night! That’s my biggest regret…not wearing my dress all night! But it was because of the shoes! I had hemmed my second outfit to be at barefoot length and not my actual wedding dress 🥲
No, you deserve jail time for spending a stupid amount on shoes. 😂
This is my dream wedding destination!!!
Bless you for including your hung over picture 😂 congratulations on your wedding and thanks for sharing
You can find beautiful shoes without spending that kind of money.
I can vouch for not going on honeymoons the next day 😩 9 hour flight plus wedding come down and predisposed anxious person =very poorly with insomnia and anxiety episode for the first week of the two week honeymoon. I was gutted and felt so guilty!
Bless your heart 😅
Spending $1500 for shoes deserves jail time.
tell me ur poor without telling me ur poor
Mine: the wedding itself
Those shoes look like my £15 shein - after 2 years they are still going strong .. Shein vs Designer 🤷♀️
It’s crazy the shoes cost as much as my dress lol
This is a sentimental thing, but I had this idea to have all these wedding photos of family members, living and dead, on the welcome table. My mother-in-law even helped me with it, but in our rush out the door, I forgot all the photos, including the collage of my husband and I over the previous 12 years. We still got to the venue early, but not with enough time to make the roundtrip back, so it was a pretty empty table.
Pt1 is crazy
Good advice. Any other tips? Getting married next year.
My shoes were £10 and nothing fell off. Also that honeymoon one I'd true, I got married on the 14th and went on my honeymoon of the 16th.
Girllllll I have the same wedding dress ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I’m glad I didn’t spend too much on my shoes. They were silver heels from Aldo for less than $30. I honestly didn’t even wear them for that long and you could only see the front anyways.
I bought $80 Betsy Johnson heels for prom 6 years ago and decided they were good enough to keep for wedding shoes
I thought she was going to say the blonde highlights 🤣😂
Me and my fiancé are planning to leave either the day after or 2 days after wedding we don’t drink at all we both personally just don’t like the taste of alcohol so we aren’t thinking about hangovers it’s deciding if we will be packed for the honeymoon😂
Good tips, never buy trendy designer in general is a good rule. Especially for your wedding you’ll be looking at pictures forever.
I think I need to take this advice I don’t wanna be throwing up on the plane lol
Not keeping your receipts? 🤔🤔🤔