You want unconditional love and loyalty? You will find it in it's truest form in a well treated pet! I'd be lost without my pets, they are life! Incredibly healing, non-judgemental and soothing too. Especially after being badly broken, too many times. Give what you get with a pet. Truly. The best kind of friends and companions in life. They help you rebuild your self respect and confidence in yourself, and they look at you with such love, you can't help but to love yourself too. But it requires sacrifice too. To be gentle, considerate and respectful of their needs, wants and boundaries. We don't adjust them to suit our lives, we adjust our lives to suit them, as we chose to bring them into it. The rewards are great. Especially when you can not rely on your family/friends/partner/community (depends what your situation is) for support. Thanks again for all you do Lisa. Watching this as I type, interested in hearing Najwas story!
It all starts with do you feel good about you. If not change your schedule. Journal. Pray. Yoga. Exercise. These things will help you feel good. Find a new hobby. Challenge yourself. Call your family. They need you too. ❤️
It took a long time for me to accept that happiness is an inside job. Over the years, I've had the mindset of "When X happens, I'll be happy." I've moved to be happy, started relationships to be happy, lost weight, etc...In the end I still felt the same emptiness inside. It was as if something was missing and I've spent my entire 51 years, trying to figure out what it was - outside of myself. I finally learned that it's self love, and that can only be achieved by me! I still have shadow work to do and a lot of healing. Since having this epiphany, I've made it a point to love myself, speak kindly to myself and be gentle.
This is absolutely so beautiful and so much we can all learn from your story. For someone to share this says a lot about how much love is within them. Thank you for working on you to find true inner joy, fulfillment and peace within you. May it continue to do so no matter what season. Bless you always. Thank you again for all the work you do into you ❤️❤️
❤ from a Crone of 66 years ... Dear one you get a new choice each day. Kick butt and take down names later. You are STRONG, WISE, POWERFUL, but more You Are Here . Hugs and Peace.
“Consent is not the same when power is involved” is such a simple and powerful honest phrase. Power dynamics start in the home and our future choices stem from there until we make changes in ourselves.
This is the exact way my wife treats me, gives me the silence treatment, the emotional abuse she has put me through for years, this video has given me the power to tell her to drop dead, thank you
@diningroomfish5470. I hope by now you have found your way out of that unhappy life with emotional and silent treatment you had to put up with for years!! It’s never too late to start afresh in a new adventure! Maybe you are ready to make room for a new true love! 🎉 who would value you with respect ! 🎊
Can i ask you if you now have the same comportments? My ex did that also to me but he told me that he was in a bad marriage before. Maye he has now the same comportments but because of all the abuse from the ex wife🙄
@cindysantos9300 I just couldn't understand how I couldn't never do enough, give enough, just didn't make sense to me, 29 years later I really understand what I was dealing with, I can take alot, but I can't take being cheated on an lie to
I'm so happy this popped up for me right now and I got to hear Najwa speak about how, even when she had proof, she still questioned herself. I have just recently gone through the most painful soul crushing betrayal of my life. People I loved so much and who I thought loved me and loved my children completely turned their backs on me and 1 made up lies about me to shield themselves from the accountability for what they had messed up in our relationship and how poorly they had treated me. Its been hurting me for so long now. And so many things she said really helped me to understand that the ways I've felt are so normal, and the world hasn't foresaken me just because this group of people have. And what they think of me doesn't remove the value of how wonderfully I treated them because my love was truly genuine. And that I don't need their apologies to heal. This was a great episode. Thank you
Very relatable and powerful! I was her just up until 4 year's ago, I am 58 now. I wish I had this knowledge when I was younger, this will hopefully help many younger women and save Them years of unhappiness. Thank you for all you do to empower women Lisa! God bless you! 🙏💗
She is expressing the very experiences and feelings I have been through and am again going through. How crazy is it, even after you understand what gaslighting is, heal from so much of the abuse, you can still feel insecure and disoriented when others don’t believe you are telling the truth or don’t want to deal with it. You have to know that you are living with integrity and be satisfied in that. For me, as a Christian, I also know that God saw and heard and knows the truth. Boy did I need to come home and hear this conversation today.❤
I can relate to how Ms. Zebian felt. I experienced abuse of power of control and harassments at a job I had. It is so difficult to express the feelings met in this kind of situation people normally blame us women as fault. I was also a quiet and reserved person but after all the pain and sorrow I had to mentally process I decided to speak up as well. If anyone struggling with any form of abuse would set fears to the side and stand up for themselves, in a way they would be standing for a future person to not be abused - we can truly pause and limit any form of hurt from abusers and enablers. I had to undergo a 4 close to 5 years of mental reconstruction after so much shame. It’s imperative to know and understand about narcissism, psychopathy and gaslighting to a point where anyone who begins to feel they are being gaslighted to see the huge red flags and just leave. Thanks Ms. Zebian for sharing your story. Much love ❤️ keep healing 💓
Thank YOU for sharing your story, experience and wisdom. You have showed us that we all have a voice and thank you for using yours. Thank you for being inspired my your own story to bettering your life and the lives around you. You’re an inspiration to many. Thank you for sharing. Be well and may peace be upon you always and forever 😘💛
Me too Love you my Recovery Family I'm new here, Love to read your feedbacks and your histories. I'm with my poeple and prowed to be one of ous. It is here I find my emotionnal support I need to breath and the empathie I NEED 🎉 ❤❤❤❤❤❤
I want to Thank you Najwa for being the last click I need it for helping me to do the last step to move forward and stop all the patreons I follow all my life. Something happens to me almost the same thing that happen to you. A lot of great woman help me to reach here. Also a long teraphy and inside job really hard and painful. I'm from Chile so excuse my english please 🙏 But when I listen to you I hear every single word that you said. I'll always gonna keep listen to you cause it's really help me to health. You move something inside me. The last thing I have it to move 5o be free of the pain I lived. Now I have the power over me. I'm so thankful with you. Can't you imagine. Thank you for everything. 🙏 Take care Najwa ❤️
I also loved how you said that we build a castle in other people And how you broke it down and explained that we shouldn't expect other ppl to love us for everything we do for them People don't live you for what you do for them, they will love you because of what they do for you!
My favorite part is the assumption that your friends would treat you well 😂 When she said “would your friend say ____”, i was like YES! Everyone around me is just telling me to “get over it”, even my chronic illness. This culture is so toxic. There’s so few genuine people left out here, with true compassion. It’s hard to treat yourself well when you’ve never experienced what it feels to be treated well by others. It’s so refreshing to see another sensitive soul, especially in the mainstream media 🤍
Thank you Najwa, I absolutely love and appreciate you. Thank you Lisa for being so amazing always. To anyone feeling lonely, find yourself, find your voice. You are loved and so worth it.
It is so important for women to hear this, I was just about to cry, because this happens not only to me so many times at my workplace, but also as well to many others!!
I NEEDED THIS push for a legal battle I need to handle, the company is use to getting away with what they have done to me. Thank you for this video is has gave me strength❤️🙏 much love to you ladies!!!!
You are spot on. You don’t need them to allow you to regurgitate the thoughts and pain that was experienced. Heal, heal get stronger and stronger with in yourself with Gods help. Anita
Thank you so much for this amazing conversation. Being a high sensitive person people can be challenging. Listening to this has been so nourishing. Big thanks to both of you 💫
I do related to this conversation. I literally Had the experience of a man who strung me along but showed very little interest beyond a coffee date and some sexy texts. I really believed we liked each other and I think it’s true but the connection is just off. I let him go and now I feel more empowered again. Thank you!!! ❤❤❤
I took antianxiety/antidepressants for 8 yrs, finally decided they weren't for me after not being able to stay awake, and having to slap myself to try to not fall asleep while I was driving to work, I was a walking zombie. The doctor said I should not stop, that I just needed to change the type I was taking instead of stopping. But I had already tried different ones. She then said that I should slowly taper off. But I stopped them all together. I'm happy that I trusted my own intuition and believed in myself. Today I still have anxiety, but I'm working on finding new ways while using old ways to heal myself 💛
I absolutely agree as I've been told that saying several times. And now I'm ready to respond back with a Question to those people... which only kindly let them look at it in a different perspective❤
Ladies, you both are strong and beautiful woman. You're also speaking for so many women are dealing with in our lives. LOVE...LOVE....this show. Thank you Lisa !!!
Thankyou for sharing your story and feelings and everything what you felt ,I have been through something similar , but had no one to support and understand and even i was not able to express myself this way. Your words gave me a validation that i can move on and accept things.
Stop waiting around for him. He belittles me nonstop. Why wait for him. And now he’s playing the you're my fiance without actually making me his fiance card a third time. Why. Why am I accepting this.
Wow! Thank you. Talk about some a ha moments!! I haven’t really dated in years because my past pain. I guess I never considered it was because I left the power with my abuser. Love your insight. Thank you ❤
Yeah maybe if they had empathy they would say sorry and things would be better but all I get is berated when I was asking for love and respect and hoping that's what I’d get. Going back and hoping. I can't see a life past this person. Accepting it for so long and not feeling like I belong anywhere. And I mean with actions not pretend words to cover up constant extremely hurtful actions that say otherwise. When I say don't do that they say they'd do it again.
I wasted 4 years of my life with a narcissist and I know he's never going to feel regret or apologize for what he did to me. It has been 6 months since he ended the relationship and I'm getting counseling and trying to move on. When we first met I also felt sorrow in him because he just lost his son and I tried to lift him up and get him through it. In return I suffered gaslighting , manipulation and control.
There's nothing wrong with me for wanting to have someone I can have a future with. His choice to take advantage of me for wanting that is his burden to carry. Exactly.
Is not supposed to because of a reason. We can't force our bodies or mind to behave against it's emotions. The issue is to find a healthy balance to stay sane and happy therefore and artist/poet/painter can not function well with antidepressants because art is a gift that helps to cope with adversity and it's a way of living and expressing which becomes a necessity otherwise it burns yes.
This woman is incredible. So articulate so full of understanding so gifted at communicating it precisely. So beautiful. My favourite interview by far. Thank you so much for finding her and sharing this story. Heartbreaking in ways, yet so full of potential to transform because she’s transformed or become herself 🤍
Thank you girls for all of the powerful insights and advice, I loved how you said "we hurt cause we saw a future with them" That's so powerful, because when we feel pain, we don't really understand why !
Brilliance, equals bringing truth into the Light so we can see what is real not in the mist of the fog. Hiding, and making our selves invisible only builds pain rather than releasing and walking through the pain to the other side and out. pain is a gift to alert us when we have to take care of something and that we are alive. I have taken responsibility to what I give of myself to another. When I hurt I look into myself to see what responsibility I had in my hurt. Did I let that person into my heart too quickly, and him not earning my heart and trust , or did I accept crumbs when I wanted a full loaf. Do I have the courage to let him know what I find reasonable in communication. Removing the confusion and the on and off mood relationship style which can be uncomfortable for me. I take responsibility for my feelings and what I allow into my life which causes me to make better decisions without judgement towards him. The saying is we teach people how to treat us. Love you both, offering understanding is such kindness 💕
Antidepressants made me feel slow thinking and less sharp. To me they were not worth it. I chose to not take them and instead turned to diet, exercise, and meditation and lowering stress as well as therapy.
Next level betrayals, after 32 years of marriage, it’s the worst feeling to realize the person you most trusted is the one who stabs you in the back. There’s no coming back from that.
More like the person had the power to love you the right way, or destroy you but CHOSE to destroy you, so obviously that person is predominantly hate/evil, and therefore cannot heal you with what he/she doesn't have, LOVE/true empathy!!!!!!!!!!
I feel crappy and lonely....but I feel I need rest and food. I've been going, going, going. I think rest will help. I AM SITTING HERE LISTENING...AND I HAVE ZERO IDEA WHOM I AM 😮
I'm confused because I watched a few interviews with this same guest and this one seems to be half one interview and half of another. She changes clothes/hair partway in. I think the second part of this is from one I already watched? Then it switches back again.
gosh this hit so true to me, I physically shrunk, my soul shrunk n im hiding under a rock.... I need help, im trying to kill myself slowly everyday and I dont know how to stop...
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How do you combat feelings of loneliness?
You want unconditional love and loyalty? You will find it in it's truest form in a well treated pet!
I'd be lost without my pets, they are life! Incredibly healing, non-judgemental and soothing too. Especially after being badly broken, too many times. Give what you get with a pet. Truly. The best kind of friends and companions in life. They help you rebuild your self respect and confidence in yourself, and they look at you with such love, you can't help but to love yourself too. But it requires sacrifice too. To be gentle, considerate and respectful of their needs, wants and boundaries. We don't adjust them to suit our lives, we adjust our lives to suit them, as we chose to bring them into it. The rewards are great. Especially when you can not rely on your family/friends/partner/community (depends what your situation is) for support.
Thanks again for all you do Lisa. Watching this as I type, interested in hearing Najwas story!
@@_asantesana_squashbanana_ great advice!! Yes 💜
@@arianamooon Thank-you kindly my friend 💙
It all starts with do you feel good about you. If not change your schedule. Journal. Pray. Yoga. Exercise. These things will help you feel good. Find a new hobby. Challenge yourself. Call your family. They need you too. ❤️
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It took a long time for me to accept that happiness is an inside job. Over the years, I've had the mindset of "When X happens, I'll be happy." I've moved to be happy, started relationships to be happy, lost weight, etc...In the end I still felt the same emptiness inside. It was as if something was missing and I've spent my entire 51 years, trying to figure out what it was - outside of myself. I finally learned that it's self love, and that can only be achieved by me! I still have shadow work to do and a lot of healing. Since having this epiphany, I've made it a point to love myself, speak kindly to myself and be gentle.
This is absolutely so beautiful and so much we can all learn from your story. For someone to share this says a lot about how much love is within them. Thank you for working on you to find true inner joy, fulfillment and peace within you. May it continue to do so no matter what season. Bless you always. Thank you again for all the work you do into you ❤️❤️
Proud of you.. Focus on healing, self care and self love.. Then you will glow from inside.. ❤
❤️ perfectly written and spoken words.
@@NathalieLazo Thank you so much ❤
@@drishtik6355 I appreciate your kind words ❤
""Stop praying for what you want, and start praying instead for the courage to take the steps to get there"" Bishop T. D. Jakes
I was forced to stay silent about things that happened to me when I was a child. It affected my whole life.
Like a curse 👿
Sending you love❤
❤ from a Crone of 66 years ... Dear one you get a new choice each day. Kick butt and take down names later. You are STRONG, WISE, POWERFUL, but more You Are Here . Hugs and Peace.
“Consent is not the same when power is involved” is such a simple and powerful honest phrase. Power dynamics start in the home and our future choices stem from there until we make changes in ourselves.
This one hit! She’s so self aware and I really admire that about her
This is the exact way my wife treats me, gives me the silence treatment, the emotional abuse she has put me through for years, this video has given me the power to tell her to drop dead, thank you
Watch the Royal we
@diningroomfish5470. I hope by now you have found your way out of that unhappy life with emotional and silent treatment you had to put up with for years!! It’s never too late to start afresh in a new adventure! Maybe you are ready to make room for a new true love! 🎉 who would value you with respect ! 🎊
Can i ask you if you now have the same comportments? My ex did that also to me but he told me that he was in a bad marriage before.
Maye he has now the same comportments but because of all the abuse from the ex wife🙄
@cindysantos9300 I just couldn't understand how I couldn't never do enough, give enough, just didn't make sense to me, 29 years later I really understand what I was dealing with, I can take alot, but I can't take being cheated on an lie to
They never feel bad when they wrong you... there apologizes are empty... you gotta leave. Believe me, they never cared for you....
I'm so happy this popped up for me right now and I got to hear Najwa speak about how, even when she had proof, she still questioned herself. I have just recently gone through the most painful soul crushing betrayal of my life. People I loved so much and who I thought loved me and loved my children completely turned their backs on me and 1 made up lies about me to shield themselves from the accountability for what they had messed up in our relationship and how poorly they had treated me. Its been hurting me for so long now. And so many things she said really helped me to understand that the ways I've felt are so normal, and the world hasn't foresaken me just because this group of people have. And what they think of me doesn't remove the value of how wonderfully I treated them because my love was truly genuine. And that I don't need their apologies to heal. This was a great episode. Thank you
Very relatable and powerful! I was her just up until 4 year's ago, I am 58 now. I wish I had this knowledge when I was younger, this will hopefully help many younger women and save Them years of unhappiness. Thank you for all you do to empower women Lisa! God bless you! 🙏💗
She is expressing the very experiences and feelings I have been through and am again going through.
How crazy is it, even after you understand what gaslighting is, heal from so much of the abuse, you can still feel insecure and disoriented when others don’t believe you are telling the truth or don’t want to deal with it.
You have to know that you are living with integrity and be satisfied in that.
For me, as a Christian, I also know that God saw and heard and knows the truth.
Boy did I need to come home and hear this conversation today.❤
I can relate to how Ms. Zebian felt. I experienced abuse of power of control and harassments at a job I had. It is so difficult to express the feelings met in this kind of situation people normally blame us women as fault. I was also a quiet and reserved person but after all the pain and sorrow I had to mentally process I decided to speak up as well. If anyone struggling with any form of abuse would set fears to the side and stand up for themselves, in a way they would be standing for a future person to not be abused - we can truly pause and limit any form of hurt from abusers and enablers. I had to undergo a 4 close to 5 years of mental reconstruction after so much shame. It’s imperative to know and understand about narcissism, psychopathy and gaslighting to a point where anyone who begins to feel they are being gaslighted to see the huge red flags and just leave. Thanks Ms. Zebian for sharing your story. Much love ❤️ keep healing 💓
Thank YOU for sharing your story, experience and wisdom. You have showed us that we all have a voice and thank you for using yours. Thank you for being inspired my your own story to bettering your life and the lives around you. You’re an inspiration to many. Thank you for sharing. Be well and may peace be upon you always and forever 😘💛
I subscribed to this
I thank GOD for you and your program, I wish I had even one person to hang out with, like you. Bless you lady
Same.
I agree with you, thank you for sharing Wanda! 💕🤗
Me too
Love you my Recovery Family
I'm new here, Love to read your feedbacks and your histories.
I'm with my poeple and prowed to be one of ous.
It is here I find my emotionnal support I need to breath and the empathie I NEED 🎉
❤❤❤❤❤❤
I want to Thank you Najwa for being the last click I need it for helping me to do the last step to move forward and stop all the patreons I follow all my life.
Something happens to me almost the same thing that happen to you.
A lot of great woman help me to reach here. Also a long teraphy and inside job really hard and painful.
I'm from Chile so excuse my english please 🙏 But when I listen to you I hear every single word that you said. I'll always gonna keep listen to you cause it's really help me to health.
You move something inside me.
The last thing I have it to move 5o be free of the pain I lived.
Now I have the power over me.
I'm so thankful with you.
Can't you imagine.
Thank you for everything. 🙏
Take care Najwa ❤️
I also loved how you said that we build a castle in other people And how you broke it down and explained that we shouldn't expect other ppl to love us for everything we do for them
People don't live you for what you do for them, they will love you because of what they do for you!
This has just changed my life and I feel ready to live my best life! I'm so very grateful.
🥰
My favorite part is the assumption that your friends would treat you well 😂 When she said “would your friend say ____”, i was like YES! Everyone around me is just telling me to “get over it”, even my chronic illness. This culture is so toxic. There’s so few genuine people left out here, with true compassion. It’s hard to treat yourself well when you’ve never experienced what it feels to be treated well by others. It’s so refreshing to see another sensitive soul, especially in the mainstream media 🤍
the furry cushions placed at the back make both of you look like angels. You both are indeed my guardian angels. #thankyou
Thank you Najwa, I absolutely love and appreciate you. Thank you Lisa for being so amazing always. To anyone feeling lonely, find yourself, find your voice. You are loved and so worth it.
It is so important for women to hear this, I was just about to cry, because this happens not only to me so many times at my workplace, but also as well to many others!!
I NEEDED THIS push for a legal battle I need to handle, the company is use to getting away with what they have done to me. Thank you for this video is has gave me strength❤️🙏 much love to you ladies!!!!
You are spot on. You don’t need them to allow you to regurgitate the thoughts and pain that was experienced. Heal, heal get stronger and stronger with in yourself with Gods help. Anita
You're never alone in your loneliness. Sometimes it can help just to know that 💛
Absolutely. I agree with this 🙏🏼 Thank you so much for sharing! 💕
Although one hears this often, this idea has never brought me comfort. Maybe I am alone in that! (haha)
Thank you so much for this amazing conversation. Being a high sensitive person people can be challenging. Listening to this has been so nourishing. Big thanks to both of you 💫
I love that wording you used~NOURISHING
I do related to this conversation. I literally Had the experience of a man who strung me along but showed very little interest beyond a coffee date and some sexy texts. I really believed we liked each other and I think it’s true but the connection is just off. I let him go and now I feel more empowered again. Thank you!!! ❤❤❤
It feels great doesn't it😊
I took antianxiety/antidepressants for 8 yrs, finally decided they weren't for me after not being able to stay awake, and having to slap myself to try to not fall asleep while I was driving to work, I was a walking zombie.
The doctor said I should not stop, that I just needed to change the type I was taking instead of stopping. But I had already tried different ones. She then said that I should slowly taper off. But I stopped them all together. I'm happy that I trusted my own intuition and believed in myself. Today I still have anxiety, but I'm working on finding new ways while using old ways to heal myself 💛
Cbd tincture ! Lazarus naturals ❤
Saying no to a person in power is different. That's exactly it. That feeling like you can't say no or you would be hurt.
Beautifully articulated. Thank you and bless you.
I absolutely agree as I've been told that saying several times. And now I'm ready to respond back with a Question to those people... which only kindly let them look at it in a different perspective❤
We believe in them more than we do in ourselves. I had to learn that way of thinking was false.
you look like an angel with the pillow behind u, Najwa. Amazing the talk like usual
She is an Angel! So clever ....And pure.....Straight on point!!!
Ladies, you both are strong and beautiful woman. You're also speaking for so many women are dealing with in our lives. LOVE...LOVE....this show. Thank you Lisa !!!
Inspirational. Thank you 🙏🏼
Thank you so so much! - Lisa 🥰
Thankyou for sharing your story and feelings and everything what you felt ,I have been through something similar , but had no one to support and understand and even i was not able to express myself this way. Your words gave me a validation that i can move on and accept things.
Stop waiting around for him. He belittles me nonstop. Why wait for him. And now he’s playing the you're my fiance without actually making me his fiance card a third time. Why. Why am I accepting this.
Truth bomb after truth bomb, I'm in awe of Najwa Zebian and interview! Great interview, Lisa B!
Wow! Thank you. Talk about some a ha moments!! I haven’t really dated in years because my past pain. I guess I never considered it was because I left the power with my abuser. Love your insight. Thank you ❤
Thank you for coming together for another great video. 💗 you both. I believe at some point in life, every woman can relate in some way.
This is the most powerful conversation that I’ve heard so far, and so on time for me… Can’t thank both of you enough, I really needed this ❤
I am proud she spoke up to her abuser.
Loved the quote at the beginning I was pondering this right before you posted so amazing
Najwa is a force to be reckoned with!!! I love her!! ❤
I am going to watch this over and over 👌💜🇬🇧
Yeah maybe if they had empathy they would say sorry and things would be better but all I get is berated when I was asking for love and respect and hoping that's what I’d get. Going back and hoping. I can't see a life past this person. Accepting it for so long and not feeling like I belong anywhere. And I mean with actions not pretend words to cover up constant extremely hurtful actions that say otherwise. When I say don't do that they say they'd do it again.
I wasted 4 years of my life with a narcissist and I know he's never going to feel regret or apologize for what he did to me. It has been 6 months since he ended the relationship and I'm getting counseling and trying to move on. When we first met I also felt sorrow in him because he just lost his son and I tried to lift him up and get him through it. In return I suffered gaslighting , manipulation and control.
26min-28.20 resonated so much to me right now in my life that I am going to do this. Thank you 😊.
There's nothing wrong with me for wanting to have someone I can have a future with. His choice to take advantage of me for wanting that is his burden to carry. Exactly.
Narcs don’t feel any burdens
This is exactly what I needed. Thanks Najwa, Lisa, God and universe.
I heard someone else say you have to find your way back home. I know the feeling after leaving a toxic office setting.
Is not supposed to because of a reason. We can't force our bodies or mind to behave against it's emotions. The issue is to find a healthy balance to stay sane and happy therefore and artist/poet/painter can not function well with antidepressants because art is a gift that helps to cope with adversity and it's a way of living and expressing which becomes a necessity otherwise it burns yes.
🎉Delighted in "Circle of Life" comment, Sunny vs Dark at beginning of video
This woman is incredible. So articulate so full of understanding so gifted at communicating it precisely. So beautiful. My favourite interview by far. Thank you so much for finding her and sharing this story. Heartbreaking in ways, yet so full of potential to transform because she’s transformed or become herself 🤍
Very profound message and I am happy to hear a similar message to what I am going through… Thanks ladies 🙏🏿♥️
She is sooo wise!
I love this channel. Such great candid talk.
Thank you girls for all of the powerful insights and advice, I loved how you said "we hurt cause we saw a future with them"
That's so powerful, because when we feel pain, we don't really understand why !
What a very powerful woman You are, beautiful inside and out
Brilliance, equals bringing truth into the Light so we can see what is real not in the mist of the fog. Hiding, and making our selves invisible only builds pain rather than releasing and walking through the pain to the other side and out. pain is a gift to alert us when we have to take care of something and that we are alive. I have taken responsibility to what I give of myself to another. When I hurt I look into myself to see what responsibility I had in my hurt. Did I let that person into my heart too quickly, and him not earning my heart and trust , or did I accept crumbs when I wanted a full loaf. Do I have the courage to let him know what I find reasonable in communication. Removing the confusion and the on and off mood relationship style which can be uncomfortable for me. I take responsibility for my feelings and what I allow into my life which causes me to make better decisions without judgement towards him. The saying is we teach people how to treat us. Love you both, offering understanding is such kindness 💕
So inspiring! Thank you! ♥️
Love this conversation ❤️ thank you lisa
Antidepressants made me feel slow thinking and less sharp. To me they were not worth it. I chose to not take them and instead turned to diet, exercise, and meditation and lowering stress as well as therapy.
LOVE your hair, Lisa.
Thank you so much 💗
Thank you ❤
gracias a la persona que hizo la traduccion !!!!!
Greetings from Uganda East Africa
Love this channel!!!! 💞
Loved this sm i needed this sm thank you guys ❤.
Thank you
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Those gloves ❤️
Wow I took antidepressants and felt so numb too. I stopped as well
I feel lonely every day, even when I pretend to smile.
The best episode ever ❤❤❤❤
Next level betrayals, after 32 years of marriage, it’s the worst feeling to realize the person you most trusted is the one who stabs you in the back. There’s no coming back from that.
Many have this has happened to so many people . Don’t be so negative , find online like the Royal we, read the comments you’ll see
This is an amazing video 🙏
The feeling of just disappear!!
I love her more! I too have crohns
Lisa like your hair this way
More like the person had the power to love you the right way, or destroy you but CHOSE to destroy you, so obviously that person is predominantly hate/evil, and therefore cannot heal you with what he/she doesn't have, LOVE/true empathy!!!!!!!!!!
Antidepressants are different for others - I take 20 years now and not at all numb. Just have to find the right one for you.
Your inner child wants to show you their trauma, take their hand and witness it, have tea and tell little you. Can’t stop us now
That’s such a nice color dress 👗 on you 😊🌺
It’s what I’m going through now.
I love Najwa ❤️ role model for young ladies 👆🙏😘
Yes ! Nothing fake on her ! Natural beauty ! No fillers etc . Outstanding
I feel crappy and lonely....but I feel I need rest and food. I've been going, going, going. I think rest will help. I AM SITTING HERE LISTENING...AND I HAVE ZERO IDEA WHOM I AM 😮
If you are blaming yourself, it means you think you have so much power?
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How do you fight corporate in situations like this
I really enjoyed this message!!! After a day of tears ❤ty! Please read my book SUGAR COATED TEARS,Carolyn Henry. Geesh life is such a classroom!!!!
Same.cold turkey
I'm confused because I watched a few interviews with this same guest and this one seems to be half one interview and half of another. She changes clothes/hair partway in. I think the second part of this is from one I already watched? Then it switches back again.
Mistaking love for abuse
gosh this hit so true to me, I physically shrunk, my soul shrunk n im hiding under a rock.... I need help, im trying to kill myself slowly everyday and I dont know how to stop...
I am going to get you a fad book and make a change in my life
How do you sue someone for telling the truth about what you did? It’s insane to me
Wow look at the numbers. Subscribers .. vs. Views… vs. likes .. what??!
Fashion baby ❤️
I agree with you Najwa, not all women who wear Hijab can mingle with each other . What a wrong assumption from the teacher .