2024 QnA | Relationship, Career, Family, and Mental Health

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  • Опубліковано 14 січ 2025

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  • @tshepangmakhetha8606
    @tshepangmakhetha8606 8 місяців тому +3

    R5 bail😂😂😂. This video was amazing! I didn’t realise how funny you are!
    Beautiful video❤

    • @Zen_Ande
      @Zen_Ande  8 місяців тому +2

      Thank you for watching ❤️

  • @larsmaks3094
    @larsmaks3094 8 місяців тому +3

    Been binge watching your videos since morning 😅Keep those videos coming

    • @Zen_Ande
      @Zen_Ande  8 місяців тому

      Will definitely keep them coming, every Sunday.
      Thank you so much for watching, really appreciate it.

  • @molobyek9765
    @molobyek9765 8 місяців тому +5

    Gosh, this is so funny. Seeing someone like me who doesn't mind being single indefinitely😂😂
    So there's a lot of us weirdos out there😂😂😂

    • @Zen_Ande
      @Zen_Ande  8 місяців тому +3

      It's the most chilled time of your life.
      For an example, there is absolutely not a single person who can mess up my day today 😂
      It's always me against me.

  • @amkelwelubavu2142
    @amkelwelubavu2142 6 днів тому

    I’m so glad I found your page🥺

    • @Zen_Ande
      @Zen_Ande  6 днів тому

      OMG! Thank you so much, and thank you for watching❤️

  • @godisang4544
    @godisang4544 8 місяців тому +3

    You’re so strong Omw!! Atleast you were able to push things aside, a lot of people couldn’t make it out of varsity because of such life issues coming their way🥺

    • @Zen_Ande
      @Zen_Ande  8 місяців тому

      ❤️❤️❤️
      Thank you for watching ❤️

  • @theonukwayo4018
    @theonukwayo4018 8 місяців тому +2

    I was hoping that you would maybe touch base on your life back eNew Flats Kwa Langa.

    • @Zen_Ande
      @Zen_Ande  8 місяців тому +2

      Hey! Thank you for watching.
      I have stories for days about Langa, Langa is and will forever be my home. No one asked me a question relating to it.
      Maybe next time.

  • @BongekileR
    @BongekileR 7 місяців тому

    I’m a new subbie and I think I love it here.❤

    • @Zen_Ande
      @Zen_Ande  7 місяців тому

      Thank you ❤️

  • @gugulethumogotiane6026
    @gugulethumogotiane6026 8 місяців тому +1

    On Google trying to learn about parkrun as we speak. Need to get out of the house more. Awesome consuming relatable content from my age mate.

    • @Zen_Ande
      @Zen_Ande  8 місяців тому

      Thank you for watching.
      I've recently joined parkrun, and I go at least 3 times a week.
      I hope you are going to enjoy it❤️

  • @nondumiso.dlamini1542
    @nondumiso.dlamini1542 8 місяців тому +2

    Are you spiritually gifted?

    • @Zen_Ande
      @Zen_Ande  8 місяців тому +2

      Hey! I don't know, but I don't think so.
      Thank you so much for watching ❤️

  •  8 місяців тому +1

    Loving your content 🥰😍

    • @Zen_Ande
      @Zen_Ande  8 місяців тому

      Thank you!❤️
      I'll be posting another video within the next hour or two.

  • @worcestertv-rewritinghisto5739
    @worcestertv-rewritinghisto5739 8 місяців тому +1

    You're very emotional. Strength ❤️

    • @Zen_Ande
      @Zen_Ande  8 місяців тому +1

      Thank you for watching ❤️

  • @YoursOnTheRoad
    @YoursOnTheRoad 8 місяців тому +2

    Great stuff!

    • @Zen_Ande
      @Zen_Ande  8 місяців тому

      Thank you for watching.

  • @nokulungalindo
    @nokulungalindo 8 місяців тому +2

    You are beautiful ❤️

    • @Zen_Ande
      @Zen_Ande  8 місяців тому

      Thank you, and thank you for watching❤

  • @nkazikubone4337
    @nkazikubone4337 8 місяців тому +1

    She’s back🥹🥹🥹

    • @Zen_Ande
      @Zen_Ande  8 місяців тому +1

      I am. I am posting another video today.

  • @MrGimbas
    @MrGimbas 8 місяців тому

    Lovely video... Must've missed the questionnaire on your socials. Soooo... what happened that led you to be kicked out?

    • @Zen_Ande
      @Zen_Ande  8 місяців тому

      Just a misunderstanding 😂

  • @scelondlovu3518
    @scelondlovu3518 7 місяців тому

    New follower on board

    • @Zen_Ande
      @Zen_Ande  7 місяців тому

      Thank you for watching and supporting ❤️

  • @molobyek9765
    @molobyek9765 8 місяців тому +1

    Anyway, you're very brave

    • @Zen_Ande
      @Zen_Ande  8 місяців тому

      Thanks, and thank you for watching ❤️

  • @lebohanglentsa
    @lebohanglentsa 8 місяців тому +1

    My girlfriend is always angry about the fact that I do not mind losing her everytime after an argument. I don't have siblings and my parents passed on at a very young age so I don't mind losing people or things and I know it's wrong. But that's me.

    • @Zen_Ande
      @Zen_Ande  8 місяців тому

      If you want to build a future with someone, you need to work on it.
      Otherwise, I totally understand you because I am also not scared of losing people.

    • @noxible
      @noxible 8 місяців тому +1

      Hear me, I'm the same nhe but I think what it is ,is that I don't allow people close enough to begin with. So of course you're not gonna mind losing people if you don't go all the way( give your all to the relationship). Like Zenande said, it's not right coz relationships require full commitment and that includes emotional commitment. It's not easy, I also lost people I love at a young age so it's like my heart doesn't wanna go through that again so I distance myself from people 😢

    • @Zen_Ande
      @Zen_Ande  8 місяців тому +1

      @@noxible ❤️❤️❤️

  • @owami4802
    @owami4802 8 місяців тому

    I know you from somewhere, did you go to high school eMphanama ?

    • @Zen_Ande
      @Zen_Ande  8 місяців тому

      Hey!
      Thank you for watching ❤️
      No. I went to high school at Langa High School.

  • @OrtizkM
    @OrtizkM 8 місяців тому +1

    I thought I was the only one but it seems like i have siblings

    • @Zen_Ande
      @Zen_Ande  8 місяців тому +1

      OMG! How do you feel about it?
      I'd be so excited💀

    • @OrtizkM
      @OrtizkM 8 місяців тому

      @@Zen_Ande I'm very excited, I'll switch on notifications for future content

    • @Zen_Ande
      @Zen_Ande  8 місяців тому +1

      @@OrtizkM Thank you, really appreciated.

  • @sivuyilemahamba7765
    @sivuyilemahamba7765 8 місяців тому +1

    Hey I want to ask you something don't know if you mind responding here on the comment section.
    1. Where did you attend your university?
    2. How old are you?

    • @Zen_Ande
      @Zen_Ande  8 місяців тому +2

      I went to Wits, and I am pushing 30.

    • @sivuyilemahamba7765
      @sivuyilemahamba7765 8 місяців тому +1

      Thank you

    • @aziziphonako2792
      @aziziphonako2792 8 місяців тому +1

      @@Zen_Ande HAhahaha you look like i2k 😛😛

    • @Zen_Ande
      @Zen_Ande  8 місяців тому

      @@aziziphonako2792 Lmao. Andimdala😂

  • @sbonzama7013
    @sbonzama7013 4 дні тому

    One of the down fall of this modern generation is not to prioritize relationships and marriage. Other races find their marriage partners in varsity and build wealth. Our black sisters on the there hand over think things too much and choose the part of least resistance.

    • @Zen_Ande
      @Zen_Ande  4 дні тому

      @@sbonzama7013 I've grown to realise that marriage, good marriage, is the most effective way of building wealth.
      However, we have witnessed marriage not working out for many women in our society, so many women haven't been able to reap the long term benefits of marriage is supposed to have.
      Otherwise, I do believe community should be the foundation in which we build our lives, and we shouldn't be living in silos.
      Until such a time where society makes marriage work for both genders, we are going to be living like we currently are

  • @rendanimotlopi1929
    @rendanimotlopi1929 8 місяців тому

    Can I have your tens

  • @Siv_M.
    @Siv_M. 8 місяців тому

    Please share your email address if you don't mind. 🙂

    • @Zen_Ande
      @Zen_Ande  8 місяців тому +1

      Hey! I am more comfortable with communicating via Instagram for now.
      I hope you understand ❤️

    • @Siv_M.
      @Siv_M. 8 місяців тому

      @@Zen_Ande I understand. I'll text you there 🙂

    • @LulamaBlondieThusi
      @LulamaBlondieThusi 4 місяці тому

      Thank you😂 that you are the only child my guess was right . This was on the video where you were sharing how youu build a house. Sorry that your parents separated n it ruin your relationship, next time girl put Zenande 1st then parents next coz you see now , you list what you had because of grief but they ended up coming together. I wonder if they know how much sacrifice yoy put in your family.
      Love the way you handle things.❤❤